Marrying A Thai ger

[Nonteerak2553]

And this, the heart of Nonteerak2553, after Pancake left:

http://i234.photobucket.com/albums/ee276/lynlee14334/icons/broken_heart.gif

This heart image doesn't telly with my real heart. 555+
Right now we are still remain as couple, promise each other that the incident during songkran shouldn't happen any time in future.

[Nonteerak2553]

Pii yingyang,

I knew that face are very important for the Thais, but I didn't know that shouting at my gf inside her house make her lose face. In that case I shall not repeat it any time future in any case.:D

[yinyang]

I knew that face are very important for the Thais, but I didn't know that shouting at my gf inside her house make her lose face. In that case I shall not repeat it any time future in any case.:D
Oh, hope for you it's not other way around. Chok dee (and chai yen):D

[Peter_North]

Pii yingyang,

I knew that face are very important for the Thais, but I didn't know that shouting at my gf inside her house make her lose face. In that case I shall not repeat it any time future in any case.:D

I believe both of us would agree that she had a valid reason to be upset or even angry. Then again we're not disputing her right to feel upset or angry; when we spoke about the topic of upbringing it's not about the right to feel angry but the manner in which she reacted to her anger, and whether such reaction was proportional to the reason for her being upset.

"Face" is very important for the Thais, but it can be smothered by this thing called Baht. That often is a good gauge of how much the face is worth;)

[Nonteerak2553]

Pii Peter_North,

Based on your input I have read in this thread, seem you are very experience in thai relationship. And you learnt your PASA THAI from isaan native. Does your thai girlfriend or wife from isaan province? If you don't mind me being busybody. 555+

[Nonteerak2553]

Oh, hope for you it's not other way around. Chok dee (and chai yen):D

Thanks for the luck wish. To me, I and my gf, we break even, both of us shouted at each other, so as to say she hate being shouted at, in any case that may make her lose face:p, so do I. We come to conclusion last week that we should talk nicely to each other instead of shouting even how angry we are as I mention to her, she need to change her attitude, if let say fate permits us to be together. But changing her atittude is another big problem.

[Triple-X]

bro Triple-X..
let's put it this way... ur in Singapore and your ex-gf wants to go out leaving you sleeping alone... how are you going to feel? let alone you and your ex-gf in PATTAYA(so many pretty girls preying on tourists) & you've been only together for 2 months... IMHO any girls will throw trantum loh...

khor thot na...


hahaha bro,the twist is that she asked me to go out drink cos she wanted to stay and sleep cos we've been out the whole day.And i said ok,i'll stay and accompany u,she rejected outright,ask me go ahead and beforehand we didnt quarrel or anything.Now i think of it,i would say the real reason behind this is she aint so in love with me afterall,wahaha :D Which lady in love with u will not be so worry as to let u go out alone drinking,flirting outside huh? :P

[Triple-X]

Thanks for the luck wish. To me, I and my gf, we break even, both of us shouted at each other, so as to say she hate being shouted at, in any case that may make her lose face:p, so do I. We come to conclusion last week that we should talk nicely to each other instead of shouting even how angry we are as I mention to her, she need to change her attitude, if let say fate permits us to be together. But changing her atittude is another big problem.

Bro,u shouldnt try changing her attitude.Remember u can never change a person's character.Either u adjust to it or u leave it.chok dee kup! :)

[Peter_North]

Pii Peter_North,

Based on your input I have read in this thread, seem you are very experience in thai relationship. And you learnt your PASA THAI from isaan native. Does your thai girlfriend or wife from isaan province? If you don't mind me being busybody. 555+

Yes, you're a busybody, indeed :p

I live in Thailand, that much I can reveal.

[Nonteerak2553]

Bro,u shouldnt try changing her attitude.Remember u can never change a person's character.Either u adjust to it or u leave it.chok dee kup! :)

I will try to accommodate with her attitude by every possible means. Otherwise I just prepare to lose a look alike PANCAKE, which I doesn't want it to happen any time future. Thanks for the luck wish. :)

[Nonteerak2553]

Yes, you're a busybody, indeed :p

I live in Thailand, that much I can reveal.

555+ No wonder you are so familiarize with Thai womans character :D

[dyelook]

bro's... any more new topics? feeling bored here:p

khor rian tam a-rai puyin thai mai dee... khorb khun krup...

[Triple-X]

I will try to accommodate with her attitude by every possible means. Otherwise I just prepare to lose a look alike PANCAKE, which I doesn't want it to happen any time future. Thanks for the luck wish. :)

hehehe bro,np.i would suggest u try to think of her good points rather than bad everytime u want to blow.its human nature to think of the other party bad points,not good everytime.Thinking too much about their bad points will indeed make u blowoff.Thats y all Thais have those mai-pen-rai attitude la,where got see them blowoff so often 1? 555:D

[Javanoob]

555+ No wonder you are so familiarize with Thai womans character :D

bro, seriously why keep compare singapore and thai ? to me they are just woman.
u mean u scold your sg gf in her house, she wont throw face and get angry ? only thai do ?
as for family bonds, yes, thai are more bonded to their family. but when you are her family, its da same.

i mean this world is big, some pple are lidat, some pple are not. there is no general classification of oh she thai, so she is lidat, oh she is sgrean so she is lidat.

if you ask me, why treat your thai gf like alien ? just treat her like ur local sg gf. if she's behaving incorrectly, just f her like how u will f ur sg gf.

you have to be in control. not guessing if you want the relationship to go on. because guessing is a weak trait for a guy in relationship.
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dun panic because she look like taeng mo, there are still aum , kratae, panward around.. yea.. ;)

[Nonteerak2553]

Pii Javanoob,
There're comparison between thai and sg ladies when in the relationship, no doubt all are ladies, but it's their upbringing and culture makes them diff from the local ladies.

Due to my experience, I always don't have any problem when I scolded my ex gf, but of course when the make silly mistake, but when come to thai either you shut your mouth or prepare to quarrel with them when you intend to correct their silly mistake. But again is it not everytime when ever I correct my current gf mistake, then an argue takes place, but I can say 3 out of 10 there always bound to argue when ever I tired to correct her silly mistake. I believe it's all because of ones proper upbringing.
Lastly she doesn't look like the model actress taengmo,but have similar look like pancake:p But if let say I have such luck to date taengmo or aum or Pei out, why not, provided if I'm back to singlehood. :D

[Nonteerak2553]

hehehe bro,np.i would suggest u try to think of her good points rather than bad everytime u want to blow.its human nature to think of the other party bad points,not good everytime.Thinking too much about their bad points will indeed make u blowoff.Thats y all Thais have those mai-pen-rai attitude la,where got see them blowoff so often 1? 555:D

Agree with you pii, but those "mai pren rai" attitude my gf seldom used it on me, instead me use it on her everytime. 555+ :p

[Javanoob]

Pii Javanoob,
There're comparison between thai and sg ladies when in the relationship, no doubt all are ladies, but it's their upbringing and culture makes them diff from the local ladies.

Due to my experience, I always don't have any problem when I scolded my ex gf, but of course when the make silly mistake, but when come to thai either you shut your mouth or prepare to quarrel with them when you intend to correct their silly mistake. But again is it not everytime when ever I correct my current gf mistake, then an argue takes place, but I can say 3 out of 10 there always bound to argue when ever I tired to correct her silly mistake. I believe it's all because of ones proper upbringing.
Lastly she doesn't look like the model actress taengmo,but have similar look like pancake:p But if let say I have such luck to date taengmo or aum or Pei out, why not, provided if I'm back to singlehood. :D


hi bro, yea u make a point. their upbringing is different from us. but that make all the point to correct their thinking unless you intend to adapt to theirs. :p

[naemlo]

Pii Javanoob,
There're comparison between thai and sg ladies when in the relationship, no doubt all are ladies, but it's their upbringing and culture makes them diff from the local ladies.


It also depends on how the man treats the ger. For me, I have various nationality gers b4. I don't quarrel or argue with them. I will just keep quiet and they know my temper when I blow up, so they normally will auto stop. End of the day, I just reason and sweet talk with them, everything will be fine :D

[Javanoob]

It also depends on how the man treats the ger. For me, I have various nationality gers b4. I don't quarrel or argue with them. I will just keep quiet and they know my temper when I blow up, so they normally will auto stop. End of the day, I just reason and sweet talk with them, everything will be fine :D

bro naemlo,

please tell me, i cant help but notice your signature.
it is a song of a lyric, or you write out yourself :(:(

[Nonteerak2553]

hi bro, yea u make a point. their upbringing is different from us. but that make all the point to correct their thinking unless you intend to adapt to theirs. :p


Adapting to their culture is no problem to me, and I already learnt alot of thing about their shocking culture, but if asking me to adapt to their everyday of life's or their problem solving is a BIG NO NO to me.:D

[Nonteerak2553]

It also depends on how the man treats the ger. For me, I have various nationality gers b4. I don't quarrel or argue with them. I will just keep quiet and they know my temper when I blow up, so they normally will auto stop. End of the day, I just reason and sweet talk with them, everything will be fine :D

Pii Naemlo,

Last time I used to be like you, ''jai yen yen'' most of the time, but there a limit to one patience. And I think mine is drying up soon, so I will make an effort to use soft approach, if let say fail, then got no choice, got use be parade commander for that moment and my gf is the solider who got command by me. :p, which just happened last month.

[naemlo]

Last time I used to be like you, ''jai yen yen'' most of the time, but there a limit to one patience.

Pii Nonteerak,

Up to individual, cause everyone has different characters :D To me, I once in awhile then blow up and when I angry, heh heh heh....

[Triple-X]

Pii Nonteerak,

Up to individual, cause everyone has different characters :D To me, I once in awhile then blow up and when I angry, heh heh heh....

yea,me also try to after blowup boom boom her,makes me very high while we boom boom,lol :D

[naemlo]

bro naemlo,

please tell me, i cant help but notice your signature.
it is a song of a lyric, or you write out yourself (

koo toot mak krup....

The sentences mean something like this, I modified a bit again.

Ever since that day, the day you left me. I have to accept the truth. It is fate that caused me to meet you. I want to get over with.

[Triple-X]

Ever since that day, the day you left me. I have to accept the truth. It is fate that caused me to meet you. I want to get over with.

WOW,really nice 1,i like tat,seems to describe my past too,haha.is there a youtube video of this song?

*btw tks for the upz :)

[naemlo]

yea,me also try to after blowup boom boom her,makes me very high while we boom boom,lol :D

I just want gers to know I'm in control. A bit MCP.... :D

I remember 1 ger, made me so angry, I immediately threw her bag out of the hotel room and chased her out. She was crying outside and kept saying "kor toot tirak..." After a few mins, my anger cool down a bit and soft hearted, opened the door and she hugged me like long lost bf.... Haizzzz although I MCP but also soft hearted when gers cry. :rolleyes:

[naemlo]

WOW,really nice 1,i like tat,seems to describe my past too,haha.is there a youtube video of this song?

*btw tks for the upz :)

Describe how many times?? :D

From a song and I modified a bit. Sang by my tirak, Prik Thai... youtube for "waen gam". Watch the MTV, the ger si beh pretty and pity, the guy si beh cb.

[Triple-X]

Describe how many times?? :D

From a song and I modified a bit. Sang by my tirak, Prik Thai... youtube for "waen gam". Watch the MTV, the ger si beh pretty and pity, the guy si beh cb.

omg Prik Thai,i luv her too,milf...lol :D think i have to modify ruk sum sao abit too,lol :P

[Javanoob]

koo toot mak krup....

The sentences mean something like this, I modified a bit again.

Ever since that day, the day you left me. I have to accept the truth. It is fate that caused me to meet you. I want to get over with.

mai bpen rai euy~. pom kao jai kwaam maay kong man. kaae mai roo waa man bpen neung pleng reu bro naemlo kit liao kian awk maa eng.

taa gert waaa kian eng na.. man ja tam hai javanoob sia jai nit neung..na ;( because.. it sounds so sad :(

[Nonteerak2553]

Is lying already running together with their blood? Seems like even decent Thai girls love to tell a lie. What do the bros here do if ever find out that they lying to you, Confront them? As far as concern that the Thais hate confrontation.:D

[Triple-X]

Must c la..if its white lies,ok with me la.afterall,all thais are 'taught' to lie from young.lying is their culture,its saves the opposite party's face,hahahhahaha! :D

[Nonteerak2553]

How about things that they promise not to do again, but they still do it, thinking that you will not know actually they do. If you are in my shoes, would you ask them why they lied?

[Peter_North]

How about things that they promise not to do again, but they still do it, thinking that you will not know actually they do. If you are in my shoes, would you ask them why they lied?

Telling lies and reneging on promises are common traits of the female species in general, not just Thai girls.

If you catch them with their pants down, they will run away from you. It's part of Thai culture that they don't admit their wrongdoings, as they feel that admitting wrongdoings will cause them to lose face.

Why would you want to expose her ? You're not in love with her character at all, you're only after her 'Pancake' face. So don't risk incurring her wrath. You can't be too serious with a Thai girl who lies; it's impossible to fall in love with dishonesty. But you can lust after her body.

[longwinter]

talkin about tellin lies, my friend pretty encounter it himself...he met this thai girl in a club. not a wl/fl, from what i heard from my friend, this girl is a tour guide.

my friend was interested in her and soon they become couples, initially the r/s very good...my friend treat her very good, buy whatever things the girl wan, watches, a blackberry handphone etc for her.

but than this thai girl start to lie, went to clubbing, but never told my friend, until my friend saw the picture of her with a few guys in club

than when the girl wan to go back to thai, my friend wanted to have a dinner with her..this girl keep my friend waiting for almost 1 hr+, my friend sms her, she ignored, call also ignored, and finally she replied she is comin down to the restaurant, my friend went outside the restaurant and saw her coming down from a man car..

my friend was damn angry, ask her how she come, she still pretend and tell lies by sayin she come in cab..

my friend offer to send her to the airport, my friend told her 1 week before her departure, last min she told my friend nvm, got a friend sending her to the airport by car, so dont need my friend to send.

After the restaurant incident and this incident, my friend was already damn angry, at the airport, my friend start to expose her everything and the girl was so stunn n shocked, cried and make a fuss out of it.

After she return to thai, my friend say their r/s become worst, the girl like not very cold to him and her attitude changed 360 degrees...:(

[yinyang]

You can't be too serious with a Thai girl who lies; it's impossible to fall in love with dishonesty. But you can lust after her body.
Your last bit says it all:p

[Nonteerak2553]

Telling lies and reneging on promises are common traits of the female species in general, not just Thai girls.

If you catch them with their pants down, they will run away from you. It's part of Thai culture that they don't admit their wrongdoings, as they feel that admitting wrongdoings will cause them to lose face.

Why would you want to expose her ? You're not in love with her character at all, you're only after her 'Pancake' face. So don't risk incurring her wrath. You can't be too serious with a Thai girl who lies; it's impossible to fall in love with dishonesty. But you can lust after her body.

Telling lies are not only common traits of the female species in general, but that apply to male too. In fact some mens are worse then a women when come to telling lies.

Of course exposing someone bad deed is not so nice thing to do. I'm in so in love with her as a whole not because she has "Pancake" face otherwise I don't think so i able to last with her this two and half years long.

Just that I'm thinking should I'm marry with her, how does I counter her lies in order not to make lose face and the same time show her some signal that lying are one of bad factor to have in relationship.

[dyelook]

bro nonteerak.. try to speak to her when you're cuddling each other.. works for me everytime...;)

[Peter_North]

Telling lies are not only common traits of the female species in general, but that apply to male too. In fact some mens are worse then a women when come to telling lies.

Of course exposing someone bad deed is not so nice thing to do. I'm in so in love with her as a whole not because she has "Pancake" face otherwise I don't think so i able to last with her this two and half years long.

Just that I'm thinking should I'm marry with her, how does I counter her lies in order not to make lose face and the same time show her some signal that lying are one of bad factor to have in relationship.

When men tell lies, they know they're wrong. When women tell lies, they claim it a right. That is the difference, and that is what I mean when I say the act of lying is a common trait of the female species. They don't feel sorry for telling lies, but men do feel guilty.

Men are brought up to live the way of a 頂天立地的男子漢。Of course, many are called, but few are chosen. But even for the majority who fell short of the high standard, the influence of righteousness remains, and it's precisely the influence that makes one feel guilty when he falls short of the required standard.

You're infatuated with her, and that is not surprising. As for love, you cannot fall in love with a person; you only fall in love with his or her qualities. Every good quality must be built on the foundation of honesty.

How often have you come across women saying they want their men to be "sincere". What does the word sincere mean ? If a particular woman is the object of your desire, are you sincere to the woman or are you sincere to your own desire ? Is it possible for a dishonest person to be sincere ? Sincerity is an expression of honesty, not an expression of desire. And honesty is the master of your desire, not the other way round.

Love is an impossibility unless a person is honest. If love can be born out of dishonesty, love is not worth even a setang.

You want to play the game with a Thai girl who can lie without batting an eyelid, first you must not allow yourself to be overcome by the illusion of love. Otherwise, half the battle is lost even before you step into the battlefield. Don't mistake emotional weakness for love, even they appear similar outwardly.

[Peter_North]

Just that I'm thinking should I'm marry with her, how does I counter her lies in order not to make lose face and the same time show her some signal that lying are one of bad factor to have in relationship.

This is a very interesting question.

When your hands are dirty, how do you make them clean again ? Do you use a dirty cloth to wipe your hands ? Or do you dip your hands into muddy water ?

You use clean water to wash away the dirt on your hands. That is the only way. And the only way to tackle a lie is to present the truth. Then again, you're afraid she might lose face and the relationship would nosedive ? This is a test of your character; a test that will reveal your priorities and values. It's a choice between righteousness and the delicious slit between her legs.

[Nonteerak2553]

Then again, you're afraid she might lose face and the relationship would nosedive ? This is a test of your character; a test that will reveal your priorities and values. It's a choice between righteousness and the delicious slit between her legs.


To be frank that are quite numbers of time that I actually exposed her lied. I told her I'm a man that can't tolerated someone who lied without batting an eyelids. Of course she divert to other topic or defend that she actually so and so, and told me that I talked too much which she don't like.

So she knew if I were to caught her lying again, she sure have a earing from me which she doesn't like it.

If possible I would like to choose both, righteousness and the shiok feeling for have the slit in between her legs:D

I have this belief when come in relationship, endurance, perseverance, display the high level of strong positive of emotion regard and affection constantly is one of key to a success relationship.

I have to admit that relationship with a thai girl is not easy even they from third world country, challenging, and mine I think I need high level of edurance in patience.

[RealEstateGuy]

Bro, you really can't trust the Thai and Pino's in SG.

[yinyang]

To be frank that are quite numbers of time that I actually exposed her lied. I told her I'm a man that can't tolerated someone who lied without batting an eyelids.
I have this belief when come in relationship, endurance, perseverance, display the high level of strong positive of emotion regard and affection constantly is one of key to a success relationship
I have to admit that relationship with a thai girl is not easy even they from third world country, challenging, and mine I think I need high level of edurance in patience.
You thinking of taking the plunge, despite the lies? Guess it's not easy for you to put her down, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. And you seem to fall back on justifying this with all the good stuff on endurance etc (more so with a diff culture).

Little else I can add, except that it takes 2 hands to clap to bond r/s. Many of us have skeleton closets, so hard to throw the stones at glass houses. But the decision rests with both your heart AND head. Chok dee

[Peter_North]

If possible I would like to choose both, righteousness and the shiok feeling for have the slit in between her legs:D

Can you draw a "square circle" ? Or a "rounded square" ? A square is a square; a circle, circle. What has light in common with darkness ? The moment you picked a lying bitch as life partner, the markers are laid out on the drawing block. You don't have to consult a fortune teller to know what is installed for you in the relationship.

I have mentioned before that you don't fall in love with a person; you fall in love with the qualities within the person. Nobody points a gun at your temple and forces you to make a choice. This is the most beautiful thing about human beings - free will. With the free will, some people choose honesty; whilst others are prepared to overlook honesty for shiokness of the flesh. There is really nothing wrong with that.

However, complication steps in when a person who sacrifices honesty for kwaam sabai starts hallucinating about the very honesty that he overlooked and sacrificed. With many material things in the universe, opposites attract. However, with matters of the soul it's unification of like-mindedness. The Chinese idiom reads: 物以類聚.

There is one wisdom that cuts through this thread. Those who have been there, done that will tell you to "fuck and forget". These people are honest with themselves in the sense that they know what they're after, and they're honest enough to admit. They don't hallucinate about love, perseverance and endurance. For they know that they can't look for living among the dead.


I have this belief when come in relationship, endurance, perseverance, display the high level of strong positive of emotion regard and affection constantly is one of key to a success relationship.


I tell you a secret. If a woman admires and respects you, all that stuff about endurance and perseverance will be made redundant.:p The meanings of the words endurance and perseverance have more to do with sustain than success.

[ah_jie]

not sure if this is the correct post to ask but i would seek advice from here. i had a thai fl who i always rtfed and we will exchange calls almost everyday who returned to thailand. now she is asking for some financial help as she could not find a job in bangkok. What shld i do? I dont know how to reject her nicely

[Triple-X]

not sure if this is the correct post to ask but i would seek advice from here. i had a thai fl who i always rtfed and we will exchange calls almost everyday who returned to thailand. now she is asking for some financial help as she could not find a job in bangkok. What shld i do? I dont know how to reject her nicely

actually ask yourself,deep in your heart,what u want from her?:D

[ah_jie]

i not sure actually, also cant bonk her unless i go bangkok find her. what shld i do?

[Orica]

not sure if this is the correct post to ask but i would seek advice from here. i had a thai fl who i always rtfed and we will exchange calls almost everyday who returned to thailand. now she is asking for some financial help as she could not find a job in bangkok. What shld i do? I dont know how to reject her nicely

Save your money bro for your other ventures
unless u have tonnes of money to spare, otherwise leave it as it is
I guarantee u she will come back for more

I have seen many bros fallen into this

[Triple-X]

i not sure actually, also cant bonk her unless i go bangkok find her. what shld i do?

if u want help her from a friend point of view,go ahead la,if not,just throw some lame excuse la.
No offence intended,we as man,dont drag our feet,just Yes or No only.Those simple decisions that even we fret and hesitate about are more likely to cause u fall into a kc trap.
Pii,chok dee na! :)

[goodpartner]

i not sure actually, also cant bonk her unless i go bangkok find her. what shld i do?

Give what you can afford to loose and Enjoy what she is prepared to give ;)

Life is like a box of condoms, you'll never know which one may leak :D

[yinyang]

Give what you can afford to loose and Enjoy what she is prepared to give ;) Life is like a box of condoms, you'll never know which one may leak :D
No offence intended,we as man,dont drag our feet,just Yes or No only.Those simple decisions that even we fret and hesitate about are more likely to cause u fall into a kc trap.
Blxxdy good piece of advice, you 2. How true, quotable quote on rubbers in life. And yes, more fretting's stressful.. and bad for the heart:p:D

[ah_jie]

thanks for the advice guys

[naemlo]

sexpose this lying bitch!
and the rest of the connections will follow...



Wow what had she and he done to you???? :rolleyes:

[xchange]

Name: Sopa

Seems that you liked this girl a lot and she must have hurt your feelings deeply.
Did she refuse to answer your calls and SMS as Thai girls are prone to do when they are angry?
Anyway time heals all wounds and when you have cool down,perhaps you may want to tell us your story so bros here can learn from your experience.

[miua55555]

What happened? Why so many videos on "May"?

But Nook is so cute.

[Exquiste Beauty]

I think must consider properly unless u earn 8k above, you cannot go on holiday, will struggle to meet daily expenses n expense in thai if she has family there. trouble trouble.

[miua55555]

I think must consider properly unless u earn 8k above, you cannot go on holiday, will struggle to meet daily expenses n expense in thai if she has family there. trouble trouble.

How is that so?? This could be worse than marrying local gal. :p

[Nonteerak2553]

What does a thai girl trying to hint you whenever you spoke to her on the phone, they get pissed off so easily? Any bros experience tempermental pooying before?

[rapebill]

What does a thai girl trying to hint you whenever you spoke to her on the phone, they get pissed off so easily? Any bros experience tempermental pooying before?

very simple; she just want you to put down the phone asap, because there is no benefit or purpose for her to carry on the conversation. If you can chat in thai, maybe you can sweet talk them a little. Otherwise, just wait for her to miss call you or more likely open her big mouth and ask for $.

[Peter_North]

What does a thai girl trying to hint you whenever you spoke to her on the phone, they get pissed off so easily? Any bros experience tempermental pooying before?

Is your Thai better than your English ?

[Triple-X]

Is your Thai better than your English ?

hahaha,wise words :D

[Nonteerak2553]

My pasa thai so-so, not so bad, that I can bargain myself when I purchased something at night market. Of course my English is better then my thai na.
Is there any thing to do with pasa thai? Please enlighten me!!

[Peter_North]

My pasa thai so-so, not so bad, that I can bargain myself when I purchased something at night market. Of course my English is better then my thai na.
Is there any thing to do with pasa thai? Please enlighten me!!

If your Thai is worse than your English, then you can't blame the girl for getting pissed off.

How to you rate your English ?

[dyelook]

How to you rate your English ?

pii... mai chai, how DO you rate your english na...

[Nonteerak2553]

But mostly we communicate MORE in English rather then Thai.
Is that the reason? Because my Thai is worse then my English, that made her pissed off every now and then, irony last two years and last year, I doesn't get this pissed off atittude easily.

[naemlo]

irony last two years and last year, I doesn't get this pissed off atittude easily.

Get a new tirak, then honeymoon period again. :D

[Nonteerak2553]

555+ mai ao na, RAK JING JING duai!!!

[Nonteerak2553]

Is it one must NOT have relationship with Thais too long, as it's could make the them feel bored about the relationship, thus they pissed off at you easily every now and then?

[Peter_North]

But mostly we communicate MORE in English rather then Thai.
Is that the reason? Because my Thai is worse then my English, that made her pissed off every now and then, irony last two years and last year, I doesn't get this pissed off atittude easily.


If your command of the language is poor, your ability to express will be severely curtailed. You may think that you've expressed yourself well, but you never know if the person who is on the receiving end is having a less than pleasant time.

You need more 'lubricant' to smoothen the rough edges of your language, be it English or Thai.

The 'lubricant' is commonly known in Thailand as 'THAI BAHT'.

[Triple-X]

try dont nag or 'reason' as u might say, too much to them.if u cant win them,join them!adopt tat their mai-pen-rai attitude!:D

[Nonteerak2553]

So I need to "lubricant" her with loads of thai baht in order to smoothen our daily conversation? Is this normal for thai relationship? In any case I shall go to GPL Remittance centre to remit some money for her to buy "lubricant" as so to ease our daily conversation.

Maybe like pii triple x mentioned tried not to "nag" or "reason" with her as last week she did something which I doesn't like thus I nagged at her and maybe this could be the one of the reason. No way man I can't JOIN THEM THE MAI PREN RAI OR MAI PREN LAI ATTITUDE!! Is there anyway I can counter this atittude?

Kor pun mak krup for your both time replying me!!!
I really appreciate both of you the infamous porn star and lover:D pii Peter_North and pii Triple X!:p

[Triple-X]

how could u possibly change yours and her character?!do u seek sincerity or submission?

[Nonteerak2553]

Sincerity of course.

[singaporecamel]

try dont nag or 'reason' as u might say, too much to them.if u cant win them,join them!adopt tat their mai-pen-rai attitude!:D

Join them like ............ pom kit teung koon tung keun ............ pom yaak hen na koon took wan :D

[qazz]

Join them like ............ pom kit teung koon tung keun ............ pom yaak hen na koon took wan :D

Just up you! Well done bro!

qazz qazz :cool:
瓜子 瓜子 :cool:

[Shocking_vibes]

Is it one must NOT have relationship with Thais too long, as it's could make the them feel bored about the relationship, thus they pissed off at you easily every now and then?


hey i'm wondering if this is the case?



Just like 2 weeks after seeing this gal she's like well bored of chatting with me.

[helicopterman]

nothin much to talk during phonecalls
one-sided conversations
just not so into u
fark n forget

[RealEstateGuy]

Brother, did you read the links I posted? Brotehr you are continuing with this?

[Shocking_vibes]

Brother, did you read the links I posted? Brotehr you are continuing with this?



What links? In this thread? I guess i'll do a search.

[Nonteerak2553]

Sawadee krup shocking vibes,

What make you so sure that she bored when chatting with you on the phone?
Can you hold decent conversation in pasa thai with her, and does she have problem understanding your English? This all plays apart in order not to make her boring, maybe she got alot of stuff to tell you but her English is half pass six and maybe your thai sucks?

[benjm85]

Hello guys..I am new to this forum.
Just wanna say that this thread has really useful information about thai girls.

Anyway my gf is from korat and she will be coming to SG next mth.

[Woonie]

Isn't it strange that the siam spell never works on their Thai men ?

The only reason why it works so well on Singaporeans is because we are curious. We are so bloody curious about something so exotic but within reach

[Nonteerak2553]

I'm wondering, can a thai have two thai passport by different name, but same surname.

Last three years I saw my gf passport name were J, to my horror after I came with her for our Australia trip, when I saw her passport name change to T, and same with her Thai ID card. By the way it's new biometric passport she holding. Are there possbility her last passport were FAKE? As far as concern her bank account also still remain unchanged which I knew her since day one which is J. Please enlighten me.

[naemlo]

I'm wondering, can a thai have two thai passport by different name, but same surname.


I guess your so called gf is monthly once or twice gf.
Name can be changed legally anytime. What is the big hoo haa? If u want, u can change your name with a lawyer, update your ic n passport without updating the banks.

[Nonteerak2553]

I guess your so called gf is monthly once or twice gf.
Name can be changed legally anytime. What is the big hoo haa? If u want, u can change your name with a lawyer, update your ic n passport without updating the banks.

I call her everyday up to 6 time per day sir, pay her visit once every 2 month and won't miss big holiday festival held in Thailand for the past three years. :)

I'm just shocked but don't wish to ask her more details about it as I wish to find out on how it get done.

Thanks for your input. :D

[Peter_North]

I'm wondering, can a thai have two thai passport by different name, but same surname.

Last three years I saw my gf passport name were J, to my horror after I came with her for our Australia trip, when I saw her passport name change to T, and same with her Thai ID card. By the way it's new biometric passport she holding. Are there possbility her last passport were FAKE? As far as concern her bank account also still remain unchanged which I knew her since day one which is J. Please enlighten me.

The next time she will change to P - P for Pancake.

[MaMister]

Hello guys..I am new to this forum.
Just wanna say that this thread has really useful information about thai girls.

Anyway my gf is from korat and she will be coming to SG next mth.

So where is she working now?

[Nonteerak2553]

The next time she will change to P - P for Pancake.

KUANTEEN!!! :p

[MaMister]

What does a thai girl trying to hint you whenever you spoke to her on the phone, they get pissed off so easily? Any bros experience tempermental pooying before?

She pick up your call expecting you to ask her "enough $ to spend or not?"

But instead she heard you talking cock like "miss you so much...."

That pisses her off....:D

[Harley_Fatboy]

How to engage a PI to check on your Thai girl in Hatyai? What is the cost? Any bro can help? Thanks.

[dyelook]

How to engage a PI to check on your Thai girl in Hatyai? What is the cost? Any bro can help? Thanks.

guess many bro's in Hatyai will help you out if you can provide the details for them.. cost would be 2 Heineken plus 1 LT.. but bear on mind, the truth will hurt you alot..

[pussyman72]

How to engage a PI to check on your Thai girl in Hatyai? What is the cost? Any bro can help? Thanks.

Call PI for what? open your eyes and ears and u see things...

[pussyman72]

I guess your so called gf is monthly once or twice gf.
Name can be changed legally anytime. What is the big hoo haa? If u want, u can change your name with a lawyer, update your ic n passport without updating the banks.

sawadee krup pii. hehehe :D

[Yama-Shikata]

Today my friend marry a Thai girl :)

Another minus point is he need to spent $100 each on 2 occasions for the translator ! Translator so easy to earn money.

[pussyman72]

Today my friend marry a Thai girl :)

Another minus point is he need to spent $100 each on 2 occasions for the translator ! Translator so easy to earn money.

minus what point when u want to marry non local... this is what u expect to do... unless she can speak and read very good english

[Tsg1986]

Generally, i would say Thai girls are ok. They tend to be more sticky than SG girls. Haven tried marrying one though. I got 2 friends that married to 2 thai girls. They are basically doing nothing in SG cause got no certs or qualifications to work or watsoever. So they end up going abck to their old jobs as coyotes. And seriously u cant blame them for "butterflying" as they are always intoxicated every night. haha

[thailuck]

How to engage a PI to check on your Thai girl in Hatyai? What is the cost? Any bro can help? Thanks.

PM me the detail, will check for u.....
costing S$500 with photo:D

[yinyang]

costing S$500 with photo:D
Your photo? Kor toot, phood len, na:p:D

[thailuck]

Your photo? Kor toot, phood len, na:p:D

photo for the gal lah!!!! bro...:cool:

[goodpartner]

Just got this news:

Law prohibiting marriage to foreigners over the age of 50 proposed to Thai Cabinet
http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/topic/456613-law-prohibiting-marriage-to-foreigners-over-the-age-of-50-proposed-to-thai-cabinet/

Any bros here thinking of "retiring" there with a SYT better act fast....

[MaMister]

Generally, i would say Thai girls are ok. They tend to be more sticky than SG girls. Haven tried marrying one though. I got 2 friends that married to 2 thai girls. They are basically doing nothing in SG cause got no certs or qualifications to work or watsoever. So they end up going abck to their old jobs as coyotes. And seriously u cant blame them for "butterflying" as they are always intoxicated every night. haha

most of them drunk liao really showing true colour in butterfly skill....

[blue.true]

Just got this news:

Law prohibiting marriage to foreigners over the age of 50 proposed to Thai Cabinet
http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/topic/456613-law-prohibiting-marriage-to-foreigners-over-the-age-of-50-proposed-to-thai-cabinet/

Any bros here thinking of "retiring" there with a SYT better act fast....

:p Quoted from the link

April Fools!

In case people have missed the hundreds of so posts pointing out that this is Thaivisa's April Fools joke

Law prohibiting marriage to foreigners over the age of 50 proposed to Thai Cabinet

BANGKOK: -- The Ministry of Interior are bringing a new proposal before the Cabinet prohibiting foreigners over the age of 50 from marrying Thai nationals.

[GLHunter]

The viet threads are pretty active but the thai thread seems to be fading away..

Let me start the ball rolling.. Dun mind bros here have a show of hand for those with Thai wife, or gf? Please indicate which one you have, so we roughly have a feel of the local thai community.. :p

[naemlo]

Let me start the ball rolling.. Dun mind bros here have a show of hand for those with Thai wife, or gf? Please indicate which one you have, so we roughly have a feel of the local thai community.. :p

Here to support u.... :D

[GLHunter]

Here to support u.... :D

Thanks bro. I currently have a thai gf in bkk but relationship just started, not stable yet. Hope to close up the loop & tie the knot soon. haha..

But i will be patient. After meeting this new found love, i lost all interests in ladies from other nationalities.. :p

[Peter_North]

Hope to close up the loop


more like noose :p

[MaMister]

Thanks bro. I currently have a thai gf in bkk but relationship just started, not stable yet. Hope to close up the loop & tie the knot soon. haha..

But i will be patient. After meeting this new found love, i lost all interests in ladies from other nationalities.. :p

Just starting is like that... later after some time you will get sian and the interest will come back....

[naemlo]

But i will be patient. After meeting this new found love, i lost all interests in ladies from other nationalities.. :p

After u bed her a few times, u will revert back to old self. :D

[Alkano]

Thanks bro. I currently have a thai gf in bkk but relationship just started, not stable yet. Hope to close up the loop & tie the knot soon. haha..

But i will be patient.

Alot of patience is the key....
Mine took 5 yrs before it blooms....:D

[johndoe8808]

Thanks bro. I currently have a thai gf in bkk but relationship just started, not stable yet. Hope to close up the loop & tie the knot soon. haha..

But i will be patient. After meeting this new found love, i lost all interests in ladies from other nationalities.. :p

sounds good, you have gf back here?
so what makes it diff from all the others so far.

[Harley_Fatboy]

But some time they give us the feeling that they are too friendly with other men and when you are so far away there is a fear in the heart.

[Alkano]

Guys, me going to meet my future-in-laws soon.
I need to make a good lst impression especially to her grandmother.
Any advice?

[GLHunter]

Guys, me going to meet my future-in-laws soon.
I need to make a good lst impression especially to her grandmother.
Any advice?

Buy everybody in the household a present, preferably is something they would like from your gf's input. If possible have them all wrapped up nicely, from the nice wrapping, they will feel your sincereity and effort.

learn some simple thai conversation, and pump up your thai vocabulary as much as possible. they would be keen to speak to you, asking you questions, and will be delighted that you are able to understand they and reply directly. it would also assure to them you are not so much different from them, minimum language / cultural barriers, etc. so they will have less things to worry about.

it will add points too if they find you polite and humble. choke dee krup.

[Alkano]

Buy everybody in the household a present, preferably is something they would like from your gf's input. If possible have them all wrapped up nicely, from the nice wrapping, they will feel your sincereity and effort.

learn some simple thai conversation, and pump up your thai vocabulary as much as possible. they would be keen to speak to you, asking you questions, and will be delighted that you are able to understand they and reply directly. it would also assure to them you are not so much different from them, minimum language / cultural barriers, etc. so they will have less things to worry about.


Thanks bro.
I will need to ask my gf who i need to get presents for.
I think at the moment, the most challenging task is to learn thai.
Even simple words.....
I will need to find some basic class to attend asap. Any recommendation?

[GLHunter]

Thanks bro.
I will need to ask my gf who i need to get presents for.
I think at the moment, the most challenging task is to learn thai.
Even simple words.....
I will need to find some basic class to attend asap. Any recommendation?

You can go to (google) PA website to look for thai langauge class. There is a class starting in yuhua cc this month.

thai learning books (with cd) are pretty expensive here. if can, get someone to buy from you from bkk. books without cd not easy to learn as very hard to pick up the prounciations by reading.

if have iphone / smartphone, explore and download thai learning apps which you think is useful.

speak to your gf in pasa thai will also help. write down the new words you teaches you.

have a group of friends who also like to learn speaking thai. this gives you a chance to practise what you have learn.

[Javanoob]

yoyoyoyo everyone in da house~~~

where is naemlo, goodpartner, suteerak, siamcutey and junichi`~~ yoyoyoyo.~~

good old days 40$ ~~

[naemlo]

where is naemlo, goodpartner, suteerak, siamcutey and junichi`~~ yoyoyoyo.~~



simi dai chi

[Javanoob]

simi dai chi

nothing, long time never come here le.. miss the debates and still surprise more and more guys into the thai scene.

remember in the past, go thai disco and listen thai song, pple think u wierdo
now go thai disco like "hit" thing.

and i see alot of guys that is asking questions like me when i just joined :D:D:D:D

and i wondering where is our famous junichi.

[naemlo]

and i wondering where is our famous junichi.

He hiding somewhere, waiting for u to come out. :D

[Javanoob]

He hiding somewhere, waiting for u to come out. :D

are you now in BKK ?~

[naemlo]

are you now in BKK ?~

Yes n rotting

[Javanoob]

Yes n rotting

Sorry ah..busybody.
you work there ah ? or chia hong there ? :P

[naemlo]

Sorry ah..busybody.
you work there ah ? or chia hong there ? :P

Work krup....

[vmtech]

Junichi? Maybe hiding somewhere in CEI mountains... :)

[xxx86]

The viet threads are pretty active but the thai thread seems to be fading away..

Let me start the ball rolling.. Dun mind bros here have a show of hand for those with Thai wife, or gf? Please indicate which one you have, so we roughly have a feel of the local thai community.. :p


Im married to my Thai wife 27 years old ( I am 25 =D ) for almost 3 years now, at the moment we have a 2 months old baby. Knew her in bangkok working as a nurse.

Staying in Sg so far relationship going very strong no complains. only complains about me drinking too much never exercise !

[GLHunter]

Im married to my Thai wife 27 years old ( I am 25 =D ) for almost 3 years now, at the moment we have a 2 months old baby. Knew her in bangkok working as a nurse.

Staying in Sg so far relationship going very strong no complains. only complains about me drinking too much never exercise !

Congrats! you must be a very loving husband so much so that she managed to overcome life without som tum, lakorn, puu pasai thai .. bro, must try your best to make her happy, kon thai always want sabai sabai.. if quarrel too much, they will let go and search for their desired peaceful life.

My gf always tells me she like me to be fat. not sure how true. :D

[naemlo]

My gf always tells me she like me to be fat. not sure how true. :D

Not "rak sanook mai put pang???" :D

[GLHunter]

Not "rak sanook mai put pang???" :D

I think we progressed a little from there liao.. dun suan me leh.. i serious one leh.. she say uwen uwen narak .. :D

[naemlo]

I think we progressed a little from there liao.. dun suan me leh.. i serious one leh.. she say uwen uwen narak .. :D

Dtui nui....

[Javanoob]

Congrats! you must be a very loving husband so much so that she managed to overcome life without som tum, lakorn, puu pasai thai .. bro, must try your best to make her happy, kon thai always want sabai sabai.. if quarrel too much, they will let go and search for their desired peaceful life.

My gf always tells me she like me to be fat. not sure how true. :D

i am 27, married with my wife for 2 yrs. baby is 3 yrs old.
baby is dual citizen.

till now, all is not fine. very boring. wife keep complaining not enough sex and dont let me go out.

[GLHunter]

i am 27, married with my wife for 2 yrs. baby is 3 yrs old.
baby is dual citizen.

till now, all is not fine. very boring. wife keep complaining not enough sex and dont let me go out.

it should be a good sign that wife likes to have sex more. shows that she loves you alot and she does not want to makan outside. But no letting go out is a sign of distrust. Could be due to your track record or want you to spead more time with her..

Probably you want to go travelling more with wife to spead more quality time together. Spice up your life with her and bring back the memorable courtship days.. ;)

Choke dee krup..

[drekman]

Thai girls all they want is ur money.

[Javanoob]

it should be a good sign that wife likes to have sex more. shows that she loves you alot and she does not want to makan outside. But no letting go out is a sign of distrust. Could be due to your track record or want you to spead more time with her..

Probably you want to go travelling more with wife to spead more quality time together. Spice up your life with her and bring back the memorable courtship days.. ;)

Choke dee krup..

kopkhunkhrup..

dtae bang kap dtua eng mai dai na khrup. meua gawn, gawn tii faen pom gap pom dai dtaeng ngaan,

nom kao, CUP C.
dtawn nii, kawt luuk liao.. CUP A. LEK LONG TUK TUK WAN~

KAN pua sian na khrup.
phom bpen booby man. =(

yea you are right. my track record sux. and all my friends even worst. so i cant go anywhere.

[MaMister]

kopkhunkhrup..

dtae bang kap dtua eng mai dai na khrup. meua gawn, gawn tii faen pom gap pom dai dtaeng ngaan,

nom kao, CUP C.
dtawn nii, kawt luuk liao.. CUP A. LEK LONG TUK TUK WAN~

KAN pua sian na khrup.
phom bpen booby man. =(

yea you are right. my track record sux. and all my friends even worst. so i cant go anywhere.

err... before you married her... you already know she cup A right?

[Javanoob]

before i marry her, she is cup c.
before i marry her and after she born baby, she is cup D
after baby 8 mths old, she is CUP A.

yea you are right. i marry her when i know she is cup A. :/

[naemlo]

yea you are right. i marry her when i know she is cup A. :/

So u married her because of cup size? :confused:

[xxx86]

Thai girls all they want is ur money.

u must be a frog in a drain hole...

[dyelook]

u must be a frog in a drain hole...

he's more like a frog in a well.. so everytime he climbs up the well, he'll be looking back into the well when he tilt his frog head.. :D

[Javanoob]

So u married her because of cup size? :confused:

lol...no la.. marry her becos she got my baby.
wonder why before giving birth, neh big lilke papaya,
after breastfeeding, nehneh like rambutan. bue liao gai.

[MaMister]

lol...no la.. marry her becos she got my baby.
wonder why before giving birth, neh big lilke papaya,
after breastfeeding, nehneh like rambutan. bue liao gai.

thats because you sian of her liao...

[suteerak1099]

เป็นไงบ้าง?? มีอะไรจะปรึกษาหรือ?? แต่งงานกับผู้หญิงไทยเป็นไปได้สาธุ แต่สิ่งสำคัญเธอรักคุณหรือเงิน?

[pfingo]

what happened to the legend samster FREE?

[yinyang]

what happened to the legend samster FREE?
Oy, digress lah. When you getting hitched to your (long suffering) puying?:p

[sgchionger]

Dear Seniors

Been reading through the posts and it is really informative. I am a late 20s guy.
I been visiting Thai Disco for about 6-8 months and i know this coyote 6 months back. Initially she is not interested in me and treats me like a customer. However i was persistant and after some time she says she like me. She started calling me back in Thailand almost everyday for a few months and i did so during the intitial 1 month also. She started to get close and says she wants to cook for me after she marry me. However due to distance i lost interest along the way, i did not call her often. She started to say i got girl in singapore etc.

She came back to Singapore a month ago to work as a coyote. I visit her a few times at the place where she work and 1-2 times we quarrel. Shortly she told me she dont like me to go find her when she is working, she told me she is here to make money for pay for some things back in her home. Well as can save money on ladies drink then i am ok with that too.

She never requsted me to give her money so far, i could maybe meet her 1-2 times per week for dinnner however whenever i ask to pick her up after work, she always refuse. Her excuse is that she can go back with friends or she need to eat with customers. She always says she is drunk or she is tired, ask me to understand her.

Once i was meeting her after her work hours to go to the beach, at around 130am she call to say she is drunk and need to go back with her friends. I sense something wrong and i waited for her at the place she work discreetly in a corner. Then i saw her came out with her customer and her friend. I was very angry and thought i will break off with her this time, i went to take a closer look but she saw me from a distance. I quickly went out and she chase after me. I thought i should be the one angry but then she gets emotional and ask me why i dont trust her etc, seems like i kenna screw instead. A few days after that she told me that customer supports her a lot by buying her a lot of drinks. The customer also takes her to see doctor when she is sick but she did not tell me, saying she wants me to save money, cos i told her i got house and car loan to service.

I have feelings for her but i feel she is hiding something from me. She sometimes show me her handphone and i browse through the pictures and there is this little girl which she told me is her brother daughter. Then on 1 occasion she jokingly says its her daughter but she quickly jokingly denied after that.

I dont spend a lot of time and money on her but i do have feelings for her.
I am willing to further the r/s and marry her if i know she is true to me and not treating me like a carrot when she has multiple boyfriends.

Bros, how do you all decipher this situation? please advise a lost sheep.

[wells]

You want you can consider her as a fling but not a BGR. They are here to earn money and you are not her priority. They may have 5 BF at a go it does not surpise me. I have seen many of this.

Find out more about her and you might be surprise. If everything is acceptable to you, are you ready for a long distance relationship?

[cheekies]

The signs are all there for you to see and it's about time you make a good decision for yourself. All the excuses about having to understand her and the emotional blackmail about why you don't trust her etc. It's all so typical coming from a relationship between a coyote and her customer/BF/teerak or whatever you know yourself as.

If you think a relationship should be the way as you are having it right now, i can only really sincerely wish you all the good luck you might need to make a sensible decision for yourself. :D

[naemlo]

Bros, how do you all decipher this situation? please advise a lost sheep.

Obvious, no need to decipher, get out of shit early before u step onto it.

I just dun understand, why highly educated men in SG easily toy around by a foreign uneducated ger???

These WL, lying, to them is like we pee n shit daily. No shame.

When u r with her, u will not know when she is for real. If we tell u, she is good, she is worth your time. Will u still doubt her when u r with her? Why make yourself miserable where there r millions of decent Thai gers?

[arsenal_84]

dear sgchionger,

if you must know the painful truth then please realized that you're not her only carrot.

[sibaysong4u]

Then on 1 occasion she jokingly says its her daughter but she quickly jokingly denied after that.
Buy 1 Get 1 Free, U can accept that???

[MaMister]

she need to eat with customers. .

After eat, she will have creamy dessert provided by customer too...:D

[sgchionger]

You want you can consider her as a fling but not a BGR. They are here to earn money and you are not her priority. They may have 5 BF at a go it does not surpise me. I have seen many of this.

Find out more about her and you might be surprise. If everything is acceptable to you, are you ready for a long distance relationship?


I am seeing the signals too and sometimes i really think i am too emotional and not rational. I keep asking myself if she takes me as a carrot why does she not ask me to go to the disco and buy her ladies drink everyday, she can always say she miss me etc. I just cant understand why she always call to see how i am doing but dont want me to go down. Thai women are so complex.

[longwinter]

I am seeing the signals too and sometimes i really think i am too emotional and not rational. I keep asking myself if she takes me as a carrot why does she not ask me to go to the disco and buy her ladies drink everyday, she can always say she miss me etc. I just cant understand why she always call to see how i am doing but dont want me to go down. Thai women are so complex.

I guess she just want to mind fuck u only...:(

[borom]

There are 34 million Thai women spread over 76 provinces.
What makes anyone think that the one you recently met in a bar/pub/club in Singapore is the right one?
If a person has to marry a Thai women(for whatever reason), at least he should do himself a favour by travelling to the country often, get to know the culture and learn the language before deciding.

[naemlo]

I keep asking myself if she takes me as a carrot why does she not ask me to go to the disco and buy her ladies drink everyday, she can always say she miss me etc.


Thai women are so complex.

Cos there are guys who are willing to pay her more than u. Imagine, u there only a few nights n on the few nights, she can do nothing much but just to make u happy. Think abt how much u affected her income. U are just a spare tire. :D Use your brain.

Thai women are not complex. WL also not complex, they are here to make money at shortest time, selling body is the fastest, simple as ABC. It is kum lan kia that make them complex. :D

Anyway, no need to come here seek for reasons why she is cold n warm to u. Should u or should u not.... When a guy falls for a WL, when others say she is bad, u will find reasons that she is an angel. Famous quote from Naemlo's words of wisdom, "She is different from other WL."

[sgchionger]

Thanks for all the advices
Think i am going to detach my self emotionally from her.
I was testing her the past 2 weeks by not calling her or asking her out after work.

Certainly she has already fail the test, just that i let my emotions take over too easily.

[ThaiBeautiful]

Thanks for all the advices
Think i am going to detach my self emotionally from her.
I was testing her the past 2 weeks by not calling her or asking her out after work.

Certainly she has already fail the test, just that i let my emotions take over too easily.

good luck bro... Thai Girls are good for KC.
Hope you pass your own test.
You should be testing yourself, and not testing the girl.
They will pass your test, if you give them money. :rolleyes:

[wells]

I am seeing the signals too and sometimes i really think i am too emotional and not rational. I keep asking myself if she takes me as a carrot why does she not ask me to go to the disco and buy her ladies drink everyday, she can always say she miss me etc. I just cant understand why she always call to see how i am doing but dont want me to go down. Thai women are so complex.

She does not want you to go down is because you might affect her LD sales. If you are there and will be protective over her at the club. There might be scene you are not able to accept. There might be a darker side which you never seen. On the other hand she wants to maintain as many future ATMs as possible. (Coyote consist of LIES, throw smoke grenade, tears and wonder story).

It is up to u to decide, do more observation

[serembanmen]

Dear Seniors


Bros, how do you all decipher this situation? please advise a lost sheep.

Let go! Please Let HER GO!!!!! If not too late!!!!

!. she love u, but she not sure u can or cannot guarantee her future.

[sibaysong4u]

It is kum lan kia that make them complex. :D
When a guy falls for a WL, when others say she is bad, u will find reasons that she is an angel. Famous quote from Naemlo's words of wisdom, "She is different from other WL."

Indeed there is alot of Kum lan Kia around, no matter what you say,they try not to believe. Just check with the remittance counter and you will see how many poor chap that work hard and overtime so that they can remit their hardearn $ to their "Love One"..........Buffalo:mad:

[dom01]

"She is different from other WL."

Quite like your statement!

I would urge sgchionger not to think too much. Time to let it go.... ;)

[arsenal_84]

If a person has to marry a Thai women(for whatever reason), at least he should do himself a favour by travelling to the country often, get to know the culture and learn the language before deciding.

strongly agreed :D

[arsenal_84]

Thai women are not complex. WL also not complex, they are here to make money at shortest time, selling body is the fastest, simple as ABC. It is kum lan kia that make them complex. :D


yup.
WL are simple, is just that those being kc think too much...

[lenz]

She does not want you to go down is because you might affect her LD sales. If you are there and will be protective over her at the club. There might be scene you are not able to accept. There might be a darker side which you never seen. On the other hand she wants to maintain as many future ATMs as possible. (Coyote consist of LIES, throw smoke grenade, tears and wonder story).

It is up to u to decide, do more observation

so true. there are scenes u might not be able to take it. i same here have a coyote gf. haix....

[erroneous]

Bros, how do you all decipher this situation? please advise a lost sheep.

you fuck her yet?

[Harley_Fatboy]

Most of the Thai gal are too friendly and you need to adapt to their cultural and if you are the jealous type I think you need to think twice to continue with the realtionship. I am having the hard time with my Thai GF as at time she is too friendly toward male.

[MaMister]

Most of the Thai gal are too friendly and you need to adapt to their cultural and if you are the jealous type I think you need to think twice to continue with the realtionship. I am having the hard time with my Thai GF as at time she is too friendly toward male.

That depends on what she is working as lah... my girl work in one of the pub in golden mile, sometime when she high she hug evey man she know also... but most important thing is whenever you need a fuck she must be there for you...:D

[dyelook]

That depends on what she is working as lah... my girl work in one of the pub in golden mile, sometime when she high she hug evey man she know also... but most important thing is whenever you need a fuck she must be there for you...:D

agreed agreed:D

[unsaintly]

Dear Seniors

Been reading through the posts and it is really informative. I am a late 20s guy.
I been visiting Thai Disco for about 6-8 months and i know this coyote 6 months back. Initially she is not interested in me and treats me like a customer. However i was persistant and after some time she says she like me. She started calling me back in Thailand almost everyday for a few months and i did so during the intitial 1 month also. She started to get close and says she wants to cook for me after she marry me. However due to distance i lost interest along the way, i did not call her often. She started to say i got girl in singapore etc.

She came back to Singapore a month ago to work as a coyote. I visit her a few times at the place where she work and 1-2 times we quarrel. Shortly she told me she dont like me to go find her when she is working, she told me she is here to make money for pay for some things back in her home. Well as can save money on ladies drink then i am ok with that too.

She never requsted me to give her money so far, i could maybe meet her 1-2 times per week for dinnner however whenever i ask to pick her up after work, she always refuse. Her excuse is that she can go back with friends or she need to eat with customers. She always says she is drunk or she is tired, ask me to understand her.

Once i was meeting her after her work hours to go to the beach, at around 130am she call to say she is drunk and need to go back with her friends. I sense something wrong and i waited for her at the place she work discreetly in a corner. Then i saw her came out with her customer and her friend. I was very angry and thought i will break off with her this time, i went to take a closer look but she saw me from a distance. I quickly went out and she chase after me. I thought i should be the one angry but then she gets emotional and ask me why i dont trust her etc, seems like i kenna screw instead. A few days after that she told me that customer supports her a lot by buying her a lot of drinks. The customer also takes her to see doctor when she is sick but she did not tell me, saying she wants me to save money, cos i told her i got house and car loan to service.

I have feelings for her but i feel she is hiding something from me. She sometimes show me her handphone and i browse through the pictures and there is this little girl which she told me is her brother daughter. Then on 1 occasion she jokingly says its her daughter but she quickly jokingly denied after that.

I dont spend a lot of time and money on her but i do have feelings for her.
I am willing to further the r/s and marry her if i know she is true to me and not treating me like a carrot when she has multiple boyfriends.

Bros, how do you all decipher this situation? please advise a lost sheep.

I'm not senior. I chiong Thai Disco only for 3 years? My wife was a coyote too. after married then stop chionging hahahaha

Because you only chiong a few months so u in this situation until you see more then u will know how to decipher yourself. your situation ah is a situation alot of people fall into if they emotionally attached to the girls. All the stories are about the same. They sure to have alot of secrets that they cannot tell you. Main reason, they need to keep their customers happy so they get regular LD sales. My friend kanna until buay tahan have to break up.

With regards to the daughter, another friend who chiong thai disco with me, same situation. Even go thailand to visit the family. Introduce "brother" who was actually the husband. and he every month send money end up found out she using the money support the husband.

What you can do is become friends with alot of them. This is just one way, may be wrong may be ok to use up to you. Coz I have friend who is very gam with all these girls but no bf gf all just friends. over time they become good friends then they also protect my friend by telling any secrets that my friend should know before getting involved. he never buy ld flower or watever but he remembers their birthdays bring them eat cheap local food things that friends do la. and he doesnt pay for their food. he just tour guide.

Then why I can marry my wife? Coz before i set any commitments, she agrees to stop working in nightlife if we get together. Before that I never spend money on her never send money to her. And now we are married, she took up a simple day job. Details cannot divulge la hor confidential lol.

If you want to marry her, you need to get her out of nightlife work. Sure have problems until divorce if she continues working there.


Moral of the story: You dont want to get your carrot chopped then dont take out your carrot. Don't believe what the girls say. Just Um Ah Orh. EVEN MY WIFE SAYS THAT. That's why she used action to prove it she stopped working in nightlife and found a job on her own before we made any commitments.

[ThaiBeautiful]

Moral of the story: You dont want to get your carrot chopped then dont take out your carrot. Don't believe what the girls say. Just Um Ah Orh. EVEN MY WIFE SAYS THAT. That's why she used action to prove it she stopped working in nightlife and found a job on her own before we made any commitments.

you're a lucky man. 1 out of a 1000 or even 10,000, or even 100,000.
Good to hear that you are leading a blissful life with your wife now! ;)

[GLHunter]

i saw this posting on my ex facebook. the google translation dun sounds good. any bros can help translate?

ไม่มีอะไรจะทำร้ายเธอ..เท่ากับเธอทำตัวของตัวเอ ง

[MaMister]

another friend who chiong thai disco with me, same situation. Even go thailand to visit the family. Introduce "brother" who was actually the husband. and he every month send money end up found out she using the money support the husband.

I wonder how the "brother" feel when your friend is fucking her next room during the visit....:rolleyes:

[unsaintly]

I wonder how the "brother" feel when your friend is fucking her next room during the visit....:rolleyes: they didnt he sleep in seperate room! lol

[unsaintly]

you're a lucky man. 1 out of a 1000 or even 10,000, or even 100,000.
Good to hear that you are leading a blissful life with your wife now! ;)

hahaha thanks thanks i know so faster grab before i lose mah thats why marry liao hahahaha

[swakoo1409]

i saw this posting on my ex facebook. the google translation dun sounds good. any bros can help translate?

ไม่มีอะไรจะทำร้ายเธอ..เท่ากับเธอทำตัวของตัวเอ ง

if im not wrong, its... nothing bad that is done to her/you, can equal what you/her does to yourself/herself.

something like that.

[racerboy]

i saw this posting on my ex facebook. the google translation dun sounds good. any bros can help translate?

ไม่มีอะไรจะทำร้ายเธอ..เท่ากับเธอทำตัวของตัวเอ ง

the thai words loosely means ' nobody ever did anything for me, only i do things for them.'..

[MaMister]

another friend who chiong thai disco with me, same situation. Even go thailand to visit the family. Introduce "brother" who was actually the husband. and he every month send money end up found out she using the money support the husband.

I wonder how the "brother" feel when your friend is fucking her next room during the visit....:rolleyes:

they didnt he sleep in seperate room! lol

Wah.. poor thing... maybe the "brother" is fucking her hard when your friend is having his navie dream in the another room... :D

[dom01]

That depends on what she is working as lah... my girl work in one of the pub in golden mile, sometime when she high she hug evey man she know also... but most important thing is whenever you need a fuck she must be there for you...:D

This I have to agree.

[dom01]

Once you get them high enough, anything also can.

GMC is a heaven for ONS. :D

[lenz]

Once you get them high enough, anything also can.

GMC is a heaven for ONS. :D

not really true... depends on which gal lol

[CeiResident]

Dear Seniors


"I have feelings for her but i feel she is hiding something from me. She sometimes show me her handphone and i browse through the pictures and there is this little girl which she told me is her brother daughter. Then on 1 occasion she jokingly says its her daughter but she quickly jokingly denied after that.

I dont spend a lot of time and money on her but i do have feelings for her.
I am willing to further the r/s and marry her if i know she is true to me and not treating me like a carrot when she has multiple boyfriends."

Bros, how do you all decipher this situation? please advise a lost sheep.




To everyone who is trying to make their relationships work (be they with WLs or normal gals) ... I wish you all the best ... and my only advice is that life is too short for regrets ... follow your heart as long as you are man enough to bear the consequences and not intentionally hurt anyone along the way

There is a samster which i respect quite a lot quite to his sacrifice he made to his spouse which has been his wife for more than 5 years now... I can say his union is consider a successful one considering the numerous barriers and difficulties he faced before settling down as this women in his life is no ordinary folk...

In my own opinion, bros, you have to be your own judge when it comes to having a relationship with a WL or G-club girl. First and foremost, you have to realise that once you have made the decision to be with her, you most probably wiill be on a long and lonely journey because in most cases, your friends will chide you, advice against you and persuade you to "wake-up". YOU have to be your own judge!!
Its you, yourself and ownself against whatever, whoever you have know so far in your life!!

i will not go so far as to take sides for or against a relationship with WLs. but i do know that there are many of them who are here hoping to find someone they can spend the rest of their life with. So there are goods gals out there. 'Few?? near to zero??' i beg to differ!! there are tons!! The problem in my opinion is the place where you met her...
The Setting

you met her at a drinking hole, a place where man merry themselves, waves wads of cash and enjoy the companions of gals.... Hows do you think you fare in the eyes of gals who work there??? husband material?? definitely not but more a casannova, someone who will stick to this lifestyle when married..... so bros, before we start to grade and rate gals and their intentions, lets look at ourselfs first..the gals are here to work, to make money and they are far from home and relatives, they have to be porcupines for reasons clear to even the most senile of humans.

The Getting-to-know-you Stage
Most gals in this stage are in their FOPK(trenches), they will get to know you better in their own tests and patterns. they have to, you have just enjoyed her company as a wl last night? last week? how do they know you are not one of the guys who are out looking for a free F??? Why do they think like this?? there is of course a reason behind......VERY SIMPLY...there are bros out there who are doing this(cheating gals feelings and getting free F and patting their butts when they think they have feasted enough or needs a change of taste).. THINK bros, they are here to work for a reason for money yes!! but behind that there is always a further underlying need for money.

When one gal thinks that you are the one, they tend to not request money from you, gifts from you, they just need you to be true to them. And i mean this....TRUE to them...think of how many I Love Yous they hear in one night of work....how different is yours?? so when they put their feelings in and they get jilted one fine day by some irresonsible bros how do you expect them to react??? smile at you and let you get what you want??? that's stupid!! yes!! they will take up defensive positions with many chosing the offensive routes....and this is where they bring you shopping, ask for this ask for that...my mother is sick need money kind of requests starts coming out!!

Can we fault them? i mean yes you are not the one who jilted her but if you get played by a WL, wouldn't you feel the same hurt and thus subsequent thinking to get back at the next one?? so i believe there is always a reason behind every thing in life and we have to overlook the superficial , outer appearance...

Decision Time

As much as you think you are troubled with whether SHE is true to you, SHE is having the same thoughts.... AS much as you have friends who are advicing you against being with her, she have tens of 'sisters' advising her against you...it mutuals bros!! its never just us...

If you think you are the only one making the BIG decision, think again. They were here for a reason, money fundamentally but have they fulfilled their fundamental reason for coming here?? if yes good they can concentrate on working out the relationship with you, if not then how can she achieve what she wanted but without affecting the relationship she so cherish with you??? see their trouble??

many choose to ask guys to wait for them while they slogged to get as much money as short a time as possible because they do not want your money here. they are afraid!! As much as they want to settle their problems /aims, they are afraid that their request to help with their problems will forever smash to smitheereens the relationship they so cherish with you.... how many of us guys wait?? really??

we think ok now i buy this buy that for her and now her true colours are coming out ...she still wanna work and chose work and money over me..fine we say... let her be... i should have listened to my friends and others in the beginning..is it always the case?? do you bros know many many many of them cry themselves to sleep everynight not because they miss home, they need money or they pity themselvs...but because the relationship they so cherished are gone because we guys doubt their feelings and their intentions...and them?? they should have listened to their so called sisters and friends...so you bros see their side of the story??

decision-making on committing to a relationship with us is just about as hard to them as it is to us.......


My Own Experience- I made my own judgements
- I did my own set of tests
- I stood there for her thru everything...police raids, lock-ups, bailing out etc... to prove my stance.
- it was lonely.
- from my almost daily meetings with her while she was here , i try to establish what kind of person she is when she is with me and when with her friends.
- i told her outright i was not broke but not rich...enough for two of us if she chose to be with me.
- i borrowed from my best friend around 10k to pay the balance for the money she needs so that she stops work...and she did after that..

Well that was the past and unfortunately it was not a fairy tale ending but i never did blame her once for leaving as it was due to my character. No rooms for regrets tho...

In summary, i would say...bros look out for yourself out there ...what i have illustrated represent my own account and there are decent girls out there who are looking for a decent guy to marry but it how you get thru their defences and convince them that you are real and true... There are nevertheless gals out there who are as many bros here say...out to fleece...so pull the plugs when u think you have met one.

YOU but who else will know your gal best from your regular meetings with her...
YOU but who else should knoe if she is the one for you...
YOU but who else will know if she really love you...
YOU but who else should be sure of your judgements...
You but who else should honour your promises for if not dun blame others...
You but who else should know what you are getting yourself into...for there are those who work(decent ones) here to feed their family back home while you take care of your own family and there are those that wait for you to pay the bills, the expenses and then provide for her family back home.


And i reiterate.....i did not set out to help the WLs or coyotes or is against any bros who are against the gals..bros can read and decide for themselves....

Remember i think the key is to be TRUE to them, dun make promises you cannot give..they dun need your money or your promises of the sky...they need only you!! For being true and honest, you already is different from many players out there.....Cheers!!!

[lenz]

To everyone who is trying to make their relationships work (be they with WLs or normal gals) ... I wish you all the best ... and my only advice is that life is too short for regrets ... follow your heart as long as you are man enough to bear the consequences and not intentionally hurt anyone along the way

There is a samster which i respect quite a lot quite to his sacrifice he made to his spouse which has been his wife for more than 5 years now... I can say his union is consider a successful one considering the numerous barriers and difficulties he faced before settling down as this women in his life is no ordinary folk...

In my own opinion, bros, you have to be your own judge when it comes to having a relationship with a WL or G-club girl. First and foremost, you have to realise that once you have made the decision to be with her, you most probably wiill be on a long and lonely journey because in most cases, your friends will chide you, advice against you and persuade you to "wake-up". YOU have to be your own judge!!
Its you, yourself and ownself against whatever, whoever you have know so far in your life!!

i will not go so far as to take sides for or against a relationship with WLs. but i do know that there are many of them who are here hoping to find someone they can spend the rest of their life with. So there are goods gals out there. 'Few?? near to zero??' i beg to differ!! there are tons!! The problem in my opinion is the place where you met her...
The Setting

you met her at a drinking hole, a place where man merry themselves, waves wads of cash and enjoy the companions of gals.... Hows do you think you fare in the eyes of gals who work there??? husband material?? definitely not but more a casannova, someone who will stick to this lifestyle when married..... so bros, before we start to grade and rate gals and their intentions, lets look at ourselfs first..the gals are here to work, to make money and they are far from home and relatives, they have to be porcupines for reasons clear to even the most senile of humans.

The Getting-to-know-you Stage
Most gals in this stage are in their FOPK(trenches), they will get to know you better in their own tests and patterns. they have to, you have just enjoyed her company as a wl last night? last week? how do they know you are not one of the guys who are out looking for a free F??? Why do they think like this?? there is of course a reason behind......VERY SIMPLY...there are bros out there who are doing this(cheating gals feelings and getting free F and patting their butts when they think they have feasted enough or needs a change of taste).. THINK bros, they are here to work for a reason for money yes!! but behind that there is always a further underlying need for money.

When one gal thinks that you are the one, they tend to not request money from you, gifts from you, they just need you to be true to them. And i mean this....TRUE to them...think of how many I Love Yous they hear in one night of work....how different is yours?? so when they put their feelings in and they get jilted one fine day by some irresonsible bros how do you expect them to react??? smile at you and let you get what you want??? that's stupid!! yes!! they will take up defensive positions with many chosing the offensive routes....and this is where they bring you shopping, ask for this ask for that...my mother is sick need money kind of requests starts coming out!!

Can we fault them? i mean yes you are not the one who jilted her but if you get played by a WL, wouldn't you feel the same hurt and thus subsequent thinking to get back at the next one?? so i believe there is always a reason behind every thing in life and we have to overlook the superficial , outer appearance...

Decision Time

As much as you think you are troubled with whether SHE is true to you, SHE is having the same thoughts.... AS much as you have friends who are advicing you against being with her, she have tens of 'sisters' advising her against you...it mutuals bros!! its never just us...

If you think you are the only one making the BIG decision, think again. They were here for a reason, money fundamentally but have they fulfilled their fundamental reason for coming here?? if yes good they can concentrate on working out the relationship with you, if not then how can she achieve what she wanted but without affecting the relationship she so cherish with you??? see their trouble??

many choose to ask guys to wait for them while they slogged to get as much money as short a time as possible because they do not want your money here. they are afraid!! As much as they want to settle their problems /aims, they are afraid that their request to help with their problems will forever smash to smitheereens the relationship they so cherish with you.... how many of us guys wait?? really??

we think ok now i buy this buy that for her and now her true colours are coming out ...she still wanna work and chose work and money over me..fine we say... let her be... i should have listened to my friends and others in the beginning..is it always the case?? do you bros know many many many of them cry themselves to sleep everynight not because they miss home, they need money or they pity themselvs...but because the relationship they so cherished are gone because we guys doubt their feelings and their intentions...and them?? they should have listened to their so called sisters and friends...so you bros see their side of the story??

decision-making on committing to a relationship with us is just about as hard to them as it is to us.......


My Own Experience- I made my own judgements
- I did my own set of tests
- I stood there for her thru everything...police raids, lock-ups, bailing out etc... to prove my stance.
- it was lonely.
- from my almost daily meetings with her while she was here , i try to establish what kind of person she is when she is with me and when with her friends.
- i told her outright i was not broke but not rich...enough for two of us if she chose to be with me.
- i borrowed from my best friend around 10k to pay the balance for the money she needs so that she stops work...and she did after that..

Well that was the past and unfortunately it was not a fairy tale ending but i never did blame her once for leaving as it was due to my character. No rooms for regrets tho...

In summary, i would say...bros look out for yourself out there ...what i have illustrated represent my own account and there are decent girls out there who are looking for a decent guy to marry but it how you get thru their defences and convince them that you are real and true... There are nevertheless gals out there who are as many bros here say...out to fleece...so pull the plugs when u think you have met one.

YOU but who else will know your gal best from your regular meetings with her...
YOU but who else should knoe if she is the one for you...
YOU but who else will know if she really love you...
YOU but who else should be sure of your judgements...
You but who else should honour your promises for if not dun blame others...
You but who else should know what you are getting yourself into...for there are those who work(decent ones) here to feed their family back home while you take care of your own family and there are those that wait for you to pay the bills, the expenses and then provide for her family back home.


And i reiterate.....i did not set out to help the WLs or coyotes or is against any bros who are against the gals..bros can read and decide for themselves....

Remember i think the key is to be TRUE to them, dun make promises you cannot give..they dun need your money or your promises of the sky...they need only you!! For being true and honest, you already is different from many players out there.....Cheers!!!

good one bro..

but i still feel she hiding things from me. i just cant shake off that feeling

[swakoo1409]

good one bro..

but i still feel she hiding things from me. i just cant shake off that feeling

you need to clear things up. uncleared suspicions will lead to further problems. because you dont clear now, next time something happens, you will cumulatively think of the past uncleared doubts and worsen things.

[CeiResident]

good one bro..

but i still feel she hiding things from me. i just cant shake off that feeling


A Song for you bro.

ฝุ่น (Eng Sub) (Dust) - บิ๊กแอส (Big Ass)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D1UMzvIUO-o

:D:D

[swakoo1409]

A Song for you bro.

ฝุ่น (Eng Sub) (Dust) - บิ๊กแอส (Big Ass)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D1UMzvIUO-o

:D:D

yea!!! big ass!! lol

[lenz]

that night she cry in cab saying she very tired to work. my heart aches for her but i cant support her every night. u know, if she ask LD from me i never reject her b4.

[storm1980]

To everyone who is trying to make their relationships work (be they with WLs or normal gals) ... I wish you all the best ... and my only advice is that life is too short for regrets ... follow your heart as long as you are man enough to bear the consequences and not intentionally hurt anyone along the way

There is a samster which i respect quite a lot quite to his sacrifice he made to his spouse which has been his wife for more than 5 years now... I can say his union is consider a successful one considering the numerous barriers and difficulties he faced before settling down as this women in his life is no ordinary folk...

In my own opinion, bros, you have to be your own judge when it comes to having a relationship with a WL or G-club girl. First and foremost, you have to realise that once you have made the decision to be with her, you most probably wiill be on a long and lonely journey because in most cases, your friends will chide you, advice against you and persuade you to "wake-up". YOU have to be your own judge!!
Its you, yourself and ownself against whatever, whoever you have know so far in your life!!

i will not go so far as to take sides for or against a relationship with WLs. but i do know that there are many of them who are here hoping to find someone they can spend the rest of their life with. So there are goods gals out there. 'Few?? near to zero??' i beg to differ!! there are tons!! The problem in my opinion is the place where you met her...
The Setting

you met her at a drinking hole, a place where man merry themselves, waves wads of cash and enjoy the companions of gals.... Hows do you think you fare in the eyes of gals who work there??? husband material?? definitely not but more a casannova, someone who will stick to this lifestyle when married..... so bros, before we start to grade and rate gals and their intentions, lets look at ourselfs first..the gals are here to work, to make money and they are far from home and relatives, they have to be porcupines for reasons clear to even the most senile of humans.

The Getting-to-know-you Stage
Most gals in this stage are in their FOPK(trenches), they will get to know you better in their own tests and patterns. they have to, you have just enjoyed her company as a wl last night? last week? how do they know you are not one of the guys who are out looking for a free F??? Why do they think like this?? there is of course a reason behind......VERY SIMPLY...there are bros out there who are doing this(cheating gals feelings and getting free F and patting their butts when they think they have feasted enough or needs a change of taste).. THINK bros, they are here to work for a reason for money yes!! but behind that there is always a further underlying need for money.

When one gal thinks that you are the one, they tend to not request money from you, gifts from you, they just need you to be true to them. And i mean this....TRUE to them...think of how many I Love Yous they hear in one night of work....how different is yours?? so when they put their feelings in and they get jilted one fine day by some irresonsible bros how do you expect them to react??? smile at you and let you get what you want??? that's stupid!! yes!! they will take up defensive positions with many chosing the offensive routes....and this is where they bring you shopping, ask for this ask for that...my mother is sick need money kind of requests starts coming out!!

Can we fault them? i mean yes you are not the one who jilted her but if you get played by a WL, wouldn't you feel the same hurt and thus subsequent thinking to get back at the next one?? so i believe there is always a reason behind every thing in life and we have to overlook the superficial , outer appearance...

Decision Time

As much as you think you are troubled with whether SHE is true to you, SHE is having the same thoughts.... AS much as you have friends who are advicing you against being with her, she have tens of 'sisters' advising her against you...it mutuals bros!! its never just us...

If you think you are the only one making the BIG decision, think again. They were here for a reason, money fundamentally but have they fulfilled their fundamental reason for coming here?? if yes good they can concentrate on working out the relationship with you, if not then how can she achieve what she wanted but without affecting the relationship she so cherish with you??? see their trouble??

many choose to ask guys to wait for them while they slogged to get as much money as short a time as possible because they do not want your money here. they are afraid!! As much as they want to settle their problems /aims, they are afraid that their request to help with their problems will forever smash to smitheereens the relationship they so cherish with you.... how many of us guys wait?? really??

we think ok now i buy this buy that for her and now her true colours are coming out ...she still wanna work and chose work and money over me..fine we say... let her be... i should have listened to my friends and others in the beginning..is it always the case?? do you bros know many many many of them cry themselves to sleep everynight not because they miss home, they need money or they pity themselvs...but because the relationship they so cherished are gone because we guys doubt their feelings and their intentions...and them?? they should have listened to their so called sisters and friends...so you bros see their side of the story??

decision-making on committing to a relationship with us is just about as hard to them as it is to us.......


My Own Experience- I made my own judgements
- I did my own set of tests
- I stood there for her thru everything...police raids, lock-ups, bailing out etc... to prove my stance.
- it was lonely.
- from my almost daily meetings with her while she was here , i try to establish what kind of person she is when she is with me and when with her friends.
- i told her outright i was not broke but not rich...enough for two of us if she chose to be with me.
- i borrowed from my best friend around 10k to pay the balance for the money she needs so that she stops work...and she did after that..

Well that was the past and unfortunately it was not a fairy tale ending but i never did blame her once for leaving as it was due to my character. No rooms for regrets tho...

In summary, i would say...bros look out for yourself out there ...what i have illustrated represent my own account and there are decent girls out there who are looking for a decent guy to marry but it how you get thru their defences and convince them that you are real and true... There are nevertheless gals out there who are as many bros here say...out to fleece...so pull the plugs when u think you have met one.

YOU but who else will know your gal best from your regular meetings with her...
YOU but who else should knoe if she is the one for you...
YOU but who else will know if she really love you...
YOU but who else should be sure of your judgements...
You but who else should honour your promises for if not dun blame others...
You but who else should know what you are getting yourself into...for there are those who work(decent ones) here to feed their family back home while you take care of your own family and there are those that wait for you to pay the bills, the expenses and then provide for her family back home.


And i reiterate.....i did not set out to help the WLs or coyotes or is against any bros who are against the gals..bros can read and decide for themselves....

Remember i think the key is to be TRUE to them, dun make promises you cannot give..they dun need your money or your promises of the sky...they need only you!! For being true and honest, you already is different from many players out there.....Cheers!!!




Bro i rarely post here but kudos to what you said, really look up to you!

[storm1980]

never mind, trust is important

[CeiResident]

Sometimes, life throws you such unexpected surprises that the only thing you can do is to giggle yourself silly and admit that you're just but a pawn in this warped old world we live in.

[Mr.romance]

Sometimes, life throws you such unexpected surprises that the only thing you can do is to giggle yourself silly and admit that you're just but a pawn in this warped old world we live in.

Wow.... can you enlighten me.....I am a newbie that need your professional advise

[Ken79]

wow TS, still havent made up your mind since 06?

[sgchionger]

To everyone who is trying to make their relationships work (be they with WLs or normal gals) ... I wish you all the best ... and my only advice is that life is too short for regrets ... follow your heart as long as you are man enough to bear the consequences and not intentionally hurt anyone along the way

And i reiterate.....i did not set out to help the WLs or coyotes or is against any bros who are against the gals..bros can read and decide for themselves....

Remember i think the key is to be TRUE to them, dun make promises you cannot give..they dun need your money or your promises of the sky...they need only you!! For being true and honest, you already is different from many players out there.....Cheers!!!

Bro a real piece of article you have. Covers insight from most angles.

I am caught up in a situation you said up there. I am still using time and regular meetings to know her more. So far she never requested any large sum of money from me, only occasional ladies drink.

[lenz]

my gf jus told me she bought a house in Hua Hin for 2.5million. is the house there so ex??

[hosayboh]

possible, if you mean 2.5mil baht. Should be a house not townhouse aka terrace house in sgp.

[CeiResident]

my gf jus told me she bought a house in Hua Hin for 2.5million. is the house there so ex??

It takes a full circle to realise that the most precious was always the one next to you... Back to where the heart shld always have been....

It's cheaper over at Danok, Sadao district, maybe you could consider asking her migrating over.:D

[the18th]

Hi anyone can advise what kind of simple day job can a thai do here? thanks, can speak only basic eng

[dom01]

Hi anyone can advise what kind of simple day job can a thai do here? thanks, can speak only basic eng

If she holds PR/Work Permit, can consider working at the Thai Embassy. I heard that they are looking for ppl.

Just to share.
One of my friend's friend was caught by MOM. She was just hanging out at this friend's stall, when this friend asked her to help her put some food stuff into the fridge. She put on an apron, so that her blouse would not be dirtied. MOM came in and arrested her on the spot and claimed that she is working illegally (just because she is wearing an apron). She was charged in court, did her time in prison and finally deported back to Thailand.

Dun play play! I would strongly suggest that you get the proper permit, before working.

[dom01]

my gf jus told me she bought a house in Hua Hin for 2.5million. is the house there so ex??

Hua Hin is damm expensive, but still cheaper than Phuket!

[dom01]

Remember i think the key is to be TRUE to them, dun make promises you cannot give..they dun need your money or your promises of the sky...they need only you!! For being true and honest, you already is different from many players out there.....Cheers!!!

Thanks for your contribution. Appreciated.

When they like you, anything is possible. The feelings must be mutal.

[CeiResident]

Boyfriend says 'I love you forever',
She gives up her virginity, but then bf seen again never.
Cheated, felt she had not been clever,
'All men are lidat', say friends, she becomes a devil.

Screw them and leave them, make all men wonder,
Her beauty intact, but financially not practical.
Better be a WL in a different land as a foreigner,
Earn money and make all men pay double.

"I love you, I miss you", she learns to be a liar,
Silly men return to be her regular,
Borrow money even for the fake love given & worships her.
But with her heart stone cold, she uses silly words and actions to be hotter.

Hundreds of thousands dollars 5 years later,
Her vagina a mess, medication makes her no better.
Her mentality is all about financial gain to be richer,
Knows not true love, her soul emptier.

The road as a WL is never smoother,
The journey fills with physical and medical danger.
The money does temporary makes one happier,
BUt the space in the heart is empty and it forever lingers.

'Money is never enough', a truth factual,
Curb the spending, use it prudently and be wiser,
Beauty and energy in time will disappear,
Learn what is enough, find true love & life will be fuller

[dyelook]

nice poem, bro CeiResident... but don't think the wl/fl will understand what you says cause they'll still in their dreams be it sweetdreams or nightmares;)

[dom01]

Boyfriend says 'I love you forever',
She gives up her virginity, but then bf seen again never.
Cheated, felt she had not been clever,
'All men are lidat', say friends, she becomes a devil.

Screw them and leave them, make all men wonder,
Her beauty intact, but financially not practical.
Better be a WL in a different land as a foreigner,
Earn money and make all men pay double.

"I love you, I miss you", she learns to be a liar,
Silly men return to be her regular,
Borrow money even for the fake love given & worships her.
But with her heart stone cold, she uses silly words and actions to be hotter.

Hundreds of thousands dollars 5 years later,
Her vagina a mess, medication makes her no better.
Her mentality is all about financial gain to be richer,
Knows not true love, her soul emptier.

The road as a WL is never smoother,
The journey fills with physical and medical danger.
The money does temporary makes one happier,
BUt the space in the heart is empty and it forever lingers.

'Money is never enough', a truth factual,
Curb the spending, use it prudently and be wiser,
Beauty and energy in time will disappear,
Learn what is enough, find true love & life will be fuller

Good one. Appreciated. :rolleyes:

[swakoo1409]

Hi anyone can advise what kind of simple day job can a thai do here? thanks, can speak only basic eng

Go to golden mile. there's a lady there that helps thai people looking for work. of course she charges for services. charges im not sure. or you can ask the girl to check out sing thai forum. its a forum for the thai community in singapore.

just to share, mostly would be waitress at thai restaurants, or servers in thai discos.

my friend's wife found a waitress job through the singthai forum on work permit.

if u need more details about the lady in golden mile, let me know, i'll need to check with my friend's wife.

cheers!

[CeiResident]

Just finishing watching this DVD in Satit Grandview Hotel. A MV for sharing on a cold night in Danok....:rolleyes:

《你好,陌生人》插曲 รักไม่ต้องการเวลา 愛不需要時間
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nz5tYBsLxlE&feature=related

[lenz]

nice movie!!!

[lenz]

Go to golden mile. there's a lady there that helps thai people looking for work. of course she charges for services. charges im not sure. or you can ask the girl to check out sing thai forum. its a forum for the thai community in singapore.

just to share, mostly would be waitress at thai restaurants, or servers in thai discos.

my friend's wife found a waitress job through the singthai forum on work permit.

if u need more details about the lady in golden mile, let me know, i'll need to check with my friend's wife.

cheers!

bro tell me more!!!

[MaMister]

nice poem, bro CeiResident... but don't think the wl/fl will understand what you says cause they'll still in their dreams be it sweetdreams or nightmares;)

I think so too... most of them busy planning how to chop the next carrot....:D

[sibaysong4u]

[QUOTE=MaMister;6284615]I think so too... most of them busy planning how to chop the next carrot....or Slaughter the next Buffalo:D:D:D

[dom01]

[QUOTE=MaMister;6284615]I think so too... most of them busy planning how to chop the next carrot....or Slaughter the next Buffalo:D:D:D

True true.... all carrot heads....:D

[swakoo1409]

bro tell me more!!!

there should be a remittence service on the 2nd floor of gmc.

ask the counter to meet the boss.

[ironbird]

In Thailand, sex is very common. Just see their sex industry to understand. Lagai or not, it is not only found in Thai, but almost all ethnic and nationalities. May be more common in Thai because of their advance sex industry culture.

If you go to USA, it is also very common for female to lagai. It is because of their environment and their culture. As with the Thais. You know, in USA university, there are condom dispensing machines! Can you imagine that in Singapore???? There'll be a huge uproar by the parents, newspapers and parliament!

[ThaiBeautiful]

Very good poem, CeriResident.

[CeiResident]

[QUOTE=sibaysong4u;6286038]

True true.... all carrot heads....:D

2 friends were walking through the desert. At some point of the journey, they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other in the face. The one who got slapped obviously was hurt, but didn't say anything, and just wrote in the sand: "Today my best friend slapped me in the face."

They kept walking till they reached an oasis. The one who was slapped earlier on, got stuck in the mire and started to drown, but his friend rushed to his rescue and saved him. The friend recovered from drowning and a near death experience, he started to carve on a stone: "Today my best friend saved my life."

The friend who had just slapped and saved his best friend in the same day ask him: "After i hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now after i saved you, you carve on stone. Why is that?"

He replied: "When someone hurts us, we should write it in sand where winds of forgiveness can blow and erase those painful memories away. But when someone does something good for us, we MUST engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase as it is forever etched in out hearts."

[the18th]

there should be a remittence service on the 2nd floor of gmc.

ask the counter to meet the boss.

thanks! you means shes the boss there?

[CeiResident]

Very good poem, CeriResident.

Years back, 1 tiraK expert told me "MARRY A THAI,YOU WILL END UP MARRYING HER FAMILY OR EVEN WORSE HER ENTIRE CLAN"! Do u think it is a myth or truth?:o

[yinyang]

"MARRY A THAI,YOU WILL END UP MARRYING HER FAMILY OR EVEN WORSE HER ENTIRE CLAN"! Do u think it is a myth or truth?:o
Yours is machiam asking if glass is half full or half empty:p And YOU know how long is the string.;)

Excuse my ignorance, guess this may apply to those from up country (like isaan). Unfair to generalise, but would expect less so with more educated and middle class types (with own career etc). But still many look towards foreigners as meal ticket or less crude, 'better life'??

[CeiResident]

Yours is machiam asking if glass is half full or half empty:p And YOU know how long is the string.;)

Excuse my ignorance, guess this may apply to those from up country (like isaan). Unfair to generalise, but would expect less so with more educated and middle class types (with own career etc). But still many look towards foreigners as meal ticket or less crude, 'better life'??

Well said! Clap.Clap. Errr... Why only Isaan bro? How about Lanna kingdom?:D

[yinyang]

Well said! Clap.Clap. Errr... Why only Isaan bro? How about Lanna kingdom?:D
Knew you would latch on to this:p Ever liked look at mirror in the mornings? :eek:

[MaMister]

[QUOTE=dom01;6286241]

2 friends were walking through the desert. At some point of the journey, they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other in the face. The one who got slapped obviously was hurt, but didn't say anything, and just wrote in the sand: "Today my best friend slapped me in the face."

They kept walking till they reached an oasis. The one who was slapped earlier on, got stuck in the mire and started to drown, but his friend rushed to his rescue and saved him. The friend recovered from drowning and a near death experience, he started to carve on a stone: "Today my best friend saved my life."

The friend who had just slapped and saved his best friend in the same day ask him: "After i hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now after i saved you, you carve on stone. Why is that?"

He replied: "When someone hurts us, we should write it in sand where winds of forgiveness can blow and erase those painful memories away. But when someone does something good for us, we MUST engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase as it is forever etched in out hearts."

Ya wait till one day you kana chopped big time then see whether you want write on sand or stone...

[CeiResident]

Knew you would latch on to this:p Ever liked look at mirror in the mornings? :eek:

Yup, shattered dreams lol, no hard feelings dude.:D

[yinyang]

Yup, shattered dreams lol, no hard feelings dude.:D
Nah, was in fact taking a dig at meself.:p;)

[dom01]

CeiResident,

How was party last night? Mao leaw? :D

[CeiResident]

CeiResident,

How was party last night? Mao leaw? :D


You are the piece of missing jigsaw dude.:p GMC Chicken Rice steamboat?

[CeiResident]

Nah, was in fact taking a dig at meself.:p;)

Slightly off topic bro:) Sometimes i dunno to be happy or sad for bros out there who thread into the minefield while being blindfolded. language & communication is the fundamental medium where relationships r built upon. i dun understand how ppl out there with language barriers can progress so quickly from 'just met' to 'gf' in such short span of time?

i hope i'm nt wrong in believing that for relationships; it takes both hearts to connect, both parties to see eye to eye, both to have common understanding, compromise & tolerance for flaws & short-comings. all these possible, not without sharing a common language. Whats your take?

[yinyang]

..thread into the minefield while being blindfolded. language & communication is the fundamental medium where relationships r built upon. i dun understand how ppl out there with language barriers can progress so quickly from 'just met' to 'gf' in such short span of time?
..believing that for relationships; it takes both hearts to connect, both parties to see eye to eye, both to have common understanding, compromise & tolerance for flaws & short-comings. all these possible, not without sharing a common language. Whats your take?
ALL of above, to work. Personally, foremost is the Big C (excuse the pun) = COMMUNICATION. Already, language is a barrier -what more the rest?

[dom01]

ALL of above, to work. Personally, foremost is the Big C (excuse the pun) = COMMUNICATION. Already, language is a barrier -what more the rest?

Well, it all boils down to SEX. A direct translation of a Chinese proverb, "Board the bus first, pay the fare later".

Afterwhich, you are obliged to commit to her or she will muay thai you. :D

9NPhsRFQfLM

[yinyang]

Well, it all boils down to SEX. A direct translation of a Chinese proverb, "Board the bus first, pay the fare later". Afterwhich, you are obliged to commit to her or she will muay thai you. :D
That's the opener (needless to say). No sex, what's there to go on -not fresh air and mindless talk.

You video clip was violent enough to remind us to watch our ass!:eek:

[dom01]

I am very sure that you would say NO if this gal throws herself at you. :D

http://www.livingthai.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Sexiest-Girl-In-Thailand-3.jpg

[yinyang]

I am very sure that you would say NO if this gal throws herself at you. :D
You mean we would NOT say no? Err, rather I throw myself at her!:p

Not unless she's not for real!

[pawnzoromg]

You mean we would NOT say no? Err, rather I throw myself at her!:p

Not unless she's not for real!

hahah yes i would throw myself at her too!

[CeiResident]

[QUOTE=dom01;6315182]I am very sure that you would say NO if this gal throws herself at you. :D

http://www.livingthai.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Sexiest-Girl-In-Thailand-3.jpg[/QUO

As promised, this is for you bro Dom lol.... :D

มารักทำไมตอนนี้
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w2y8ceWINl0

[braddieh]

Need some advice from our bros here.

My Thai friend was recently caught for working in a Thai club. As it was the second time she got caught, she was not sent back to Thailand immediately. Instead, the police made her stay in Singapore for six months. They also took away her passport and gave her a special pass.

Does anyone know why they made her stay in Singapore for six months? Can she work? If not, how they expect her to survive in Singapore? Is there any way to reduce the duration?

Would greatly appreciate advices from our bros here.

[MaMister]

Need some advice from our bros here.

My Thai friend was recently caught for working in a Thai club. As it was the second time she got caught, she was not sent back to Thailand immediately. Instead, the police made her stay in Singapore for six months. They also took away her passport and gave her a special pass.

Does anyone know why they made her stay in Singapore for six months? Can she work? If not, how they expect her to survive in Singapore? Is there any way to reduce the duration?

Would greatly appreciate advices from our bros here.

So good meh? maybe the police want her to stay around to be witness in court to jail the boss who hire her...

[monger007]

Boyfriend says 'I love you forever',
She gives up her virginity, but then bf seen again never.
Cheated, felt she had not been clever,
'All men are lidat', say friends, she becomes a devil.

Screw them and leave them, make all men wonder,
Her beauty intact, but financially not practical.
Better be a WL in a different land as a foreigner,
Earn money and make all men pay double.

"I love you, I miss you", she learns to be a liar,
Silly men return to be her regular,
Borrow money even for the fake love given & worships her.
But with her heart stone cold, she uses silly words and actions to be hotter.

Hundreds of thousands dollars 5 years later,
Her vagina a mess, medication makes her no better.
Her mentality is all about financial gain to be richer,
Knows not true love, her soul emptier.

The road as a WL is never smoother,
The journey fills with physical and medical danger.
The money does temporary makes one happier,
BUt the space in the heart is empty and it forever lingers.

'Money is never enough', a truth factual,
Curb the spending, use it prudently and be wiser,
Beauty and energy in time will disappear,
Learn what is enough, find true love & life will be fuller

Bro CEI very well written. Reading this thread make me feel not alone. We all have our thai gf experiences whether good or bad.
Dunno if fellow bros thai gf like to say "Up to you" everytime in a heated discussion/argument? She really means its all UP TO YOU. You wanna accept or not either way shes not gonna change for you. Hai.... think back I was really kum lan.

[goodpartner]

Dunno if fellow bros thai gf like to say "Up to you" everytime in a heated discussion/argument? She really means its all UP TO YOU.

Yea, I get this all the time too. :rolleyes:
Izit because "Up to You" is a common phrase in Thai language/dialog? Direct translation to Engrish as "Up to You?" but mean less hurtfull in Thai language?

When I hear this, I becum sianz... not knowing how to continue the conversation. Sometimes not during argument but just simple chit-chat. This happens with those Thai who converse with me in Engrish, but not those who speaks Mandarin, eg.

Why ha?

Or maybe bro monger007 we happen to be sharing the same terak? :D

[Moomoocow]

Yea, I get this all the time too. :rolleyes:
Izit because "Up to You" is a common phrase in Thai language/dialog? Direct translation to Engrish as "Up to You?" but mean less hurtfull in Thai language?

When I hear this, I becum sianz... not knowing how to continue the conversation. Sometimes not during argument but just simple chit-chat. This happens with those Thai who converse with me in Engrish, but not those who speaks Mandarin, eg.

Why ha?

Or maybe bro monger007 we happen to be sharing the same terak? :D


+555. that's a good one! Mine also likes to say 'Up to you'. Knn. I told her off so she change her phrase a little for now, dunno will last for how long though...

[hamsapkwai]

+555. that's a good one! Mine also likes to say 'Up to you'. Knn. I told her off so she change her phrase a little for now, dunno will last for how long though...

I think they all mean "Up Yours" actually but someone being polite people it came out as "up to You" :rolleyes:

[dyelook]

mine always say YAAK TAM ARAI PAI TAM when we argue..:(

[CeiResident]

Bro CEI very well written. Reading this thread make me feel not alone. We all have our thai gf experiences whether good or bad.
Dunno if fellow bros thai gf like to say "Up to you" everytime in a heated discussion/argument? She really means its all UP TO YOU. You wanna accept or not either way shes not gonna change for you. Hai.... think back I was really kum lan.

Hmm.... "Up to you" This rings a bell bro.:D

[Wizolf]

Hmm.... "Up to you" This rings a bell bro.:D

Don't under estimate the 3 little words, it is simple but yet profound and can be used to many different situation without right or wrong. Learn to use that with your Tirak to discover its wonder.

[Javanoob]

up to you - liao dtae meung.

so when she say this to me, limpeh up up ur fucking cb kang and slap her
kao jai

Please SG GUYS, dun let thai girls kua sway anymore
gum siah.

[MaMister]

mine always say YAAK TAM ARAI PAI TAM when we argue..:(

That means she gives you the green light to go cheong liao right...:D

[dyelook]

That means she gives you the green light to go cheong liao right...:D

yes yes.. after 20 days in hatyai & patong i finally wake up from my dream:p

another word i learn is KHAWM RUK.. KIN DAI MAI?;)

[MaMister]

yes yes.. after 20 days in hatyai & patong i finally wake up from my dream:p

another word i learn is KHAWM RUK.. KIN DAI MAI?;)

That means she rather choose the man that can buy her fried chicken....:D

[sgspycam]

hi bro,
this is like those "white card" given to her.

this means that she may be required to appear in court to provide evidence on whoever brought her here to work, etc.

That's why they make her stay here for 6 months on, as she could be a lead in their investigations to arrest the agent, etc.

this is my understanding, pls excuse me if wrong.

Need some advice from our bros here.

My Thai friend was recently caught for working in a Thai club. As it was the second time she got caught, she was not sent back to Thailand immediately. Instead, the police made her stay in Singapore for six months. They also took away her passport and gave her a special pass.

Does anyone know why they made her stay in Singapore for six months? Can she work? If not, how they expect her to survive in Singapore? Is there any way to reduce the duration?

Would greatly appreciate advices from our bros here.

[goodpartner]

up to you - liao dtae meung.

so when she say this to me, limpeh up up ur fucking cb kang and slap her
kao jai

Please SG GUYS, dun let thai girls kua sway anymore
gum siah.

This phrase is really that bad huh?
Okie!!! Next time limpeh on hearing this phrase will also UPZ her CCB and I give her ONE tight SLAP & make sure she turns 3 rounds.... :D KAO JAI!!

Thanks for the tips!

Nothing related below, just stumble across it...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W8EAWI3sBHE

[glouyang]

my gf jus told me she bought a house in Hua Hin for 2.5million. is the house there so ex??

There have been many developments in Hua hin in recent years. 2.5 million baht is not much these days. Depending on the type of property she bought, it might even be cheap in my view.

[Mr.romance]

There have been many developments in Hua hin in recent years. 2.5 million baht is not much these days. Depending on the type of property she bought, it might even be cheap in my view.

Wats the land area size? Is she buying a villa or bungalow?
This is what I Wana tell my client?

Where is cei resident? I wana slap u!

[pojstemp]

I think they all mean "Up Yours" actually but someone being polite people it came out as "up to You" :rolleyes:

It means "whatever" like wat the pinoy always said.
Means they angry n not hopeful.

[Mr.romance]

That means she rather choose the man that can buy her fried chicken....:D

Kin hee is the best!

[lenz]

Wats the land area size? Is she buying a villa or bungalow?
This is what I Wana tell my client?

Where is cei resident? I wana slap u!

thanks bro but i no more with her already :(

[maykhonkaen]

Marry Thai girl. Thai girl make you happy for long time.

The greatest truth or false... bliss for some hell for others.

How do you twist fate your way?