1st timer

[Livingstone1988]

hey people
18m here

i have never been to massage center b4,
im vergin, still wana remain vergin

but i think at least is better to knoe some short form term b4 i go to this place

heres some question:
1)wats the common short term u all use mean in long term, is there a list?
(eg: wats cd, fg, fl......)

2)if the masseuse n i do ''activities'' naked, but WITHOUT sex.
will i be charged extra?
[im not rich lar, but aso dun think im into sex, but bj is tempting

3)living in the north, is there any place where i can go to massage, with good 1st time service(GEMS),so tht it can make me tempted wana go there eveytime?
is tht baliestier "da chang jin'' a good place''(saw tht in newpaper)

4)u may say im might be those cheapskate guy who pay little n wana get good stuff...
to a certain extent, i am, BUT I DONT ASK FOR SEX....so hopefully, i wonder if i can go anywhere to get a massuse tht look like LYNN POH???

OMG... i know im ''night'' dreaming

[laserbeam]

Hi Kiddy Livingstone1988,
I will not scold you.
Let nice uncle help you.

1. You should first read the thread Newbie Issues/Say Hi/Testing located at the Home Page to get all the basic knowledge.

2. Then read the thread: Q & A for New Babies N Lazy Cheonger located in the Health Centre and KTV Lounge Tangos Home Page.

3. If you don’t do 1. And 2. Our BIG BOSS SAM here and his GENERALS will scold you, because you will be wasting their time answering all your questions which other Newbies have asked many times!

4. Read all my postings. You will learn much from my postings. I seldom use short forms, even if I use, I will put in effort to explain and I am very careful not to make careless mistakes in my typing so that Newbies and foreign friends here will not have difficulties understanding what I mean.

5. Since you are still a VIRGIN, keep it for your future DEAR WIFE! It is the BEST sacrifice your wife will treasure! Don’t waste it on a prostitute! She would not treasure you and yet wants you to pay Higher price!

6. If you are not willing to pay higher price, then don’t go to Health Centres. You will not get good service if you are not willing to pay their asking price. If you just enjoy their massage and don’t want their offer of SPECIAL services, they will show you their BLACK faces because they earn only a few dollars from the massage. If you really only want to have a good massage, tell the reception clearly to assign a girl who has good massage skill and when the girl comes in, tell her that you just want a good massage and you will pay her an extra S$10 to S$20 for a good massage. Usually the girl will not strip or let you touch if you don’t agree to pay their asking price.

7. Lastly, a MAN who does massage is call a MASSEUR and a Lady who does massage is call a MASSEUSE. Don’t get this wrong otherwise you will cry!

8. Let other SENIOR Brothers give you further advice.

[consus]

boi,
just pay up and let the tn lady do the work.
but u say u willing to pay little $,i think u will go hme clean.
dun cme here kpkp,later the senior will start their cannon shooting at u.:D

[owen1]

go read the threads to get a general idea

working lady will give u "black face" shld u refuse special

[Driver]

Hi,

here are some basics:
Q1

HJ - Handjob (use hand)
BJ - Blowjob (use mouth)
BBBJ - Bareback Blowjob (use mouth w/o condom)
FJ - Fulljob (use hum :p )
FL - Freelance (not legal prostitutes, which is what u see standing along geylang)
FR - Field Report
Damage - How much did it cost

The FAQs have more detailed stuff if u need...

Q2

Yes, the lady would usually try to get some tips from you if guys engage in petting. better to ask for price first, don't wanna get chopped when they see that you are inexperienced.

Q3

No nice places in the north leh....used to have a few good TNs in yishun, but have since been raided and forced to close.

Restraining from sex is pretty darn hard if you ask me....but of course, if you can save it for marriage, so much the better....but if you do engage in sex in the future, please do so with a condom....never never do it without.

Cheers!!

[suckerll]

it's VIRGIN not VERGIN lah!

anyway wanna stay a VIRGIN then make sure u also dun get any bj/bbbj if not considered lost VIRGINITY liao! :P

[watersg88]

Hi Livingstone1988,

it is better to remain a VIRGIN!

once you lose it, you will NEVER get it back!

[XiaoHoUzi83]

no one is a virgin...

BECOS LIFE SCREWED US ALL!!!!

[dilbert64]

Bro Livingstone1988,

If you want to remain a virgin, you must have your reasons and that's okay.

But if you are really serious about not wanting sex yet, then STAY OUT of Tuinas and Health Centres!!

Things can get pretty wild sometimes, and if you don't have the emotional maturity to handle such intense situations, you may get caught up with it and let the hormones take over.

Pretty soon, you'll find yourself not a virgin anymore, and start regretting that you lost your precious virginity to a meaningless encounter with a working lady who only cares about money.

Just take a moment to consider how you would feel about yourself after the session is over.

Think about it ... Is this what you really, really want?

People cheong for different reasons. But always make sure you know what you are doing. There is no shame for a guy to remain a virgin until marriage.

For example, if you've just got your motor-cycyle license, you should stick with 125cc or lower powered bikes until you gain enough experience. There is no shame in that.

Just don't jump straight into a 750cc or 1000cc bike. Newbies can't handle the power and they are very likely to crash and burn. Not only will they get hurt, people will say they "kay kiang", and they get no sympathy for their stupidity. What will remain are scars and bad memories.

Be a man. Take personal responsibility of yourself and take control of your life. Think carefully about what you do before doing it.

[creator]

haha the brothers here are like counsellors.....nice:D

[ramram]

ask for a HJ or BBBJ bro! :D

[doomday123]

And don't masturbate :D

it's VIRGIN not VERGIN lah!

anyway wanna stay a VIRGIN then make sure u also dun get any bj/bbbj if not considered lost VIRGINITY liao! :P

[007 JP]

Virgin also see red:D

[Uncle_Sam]

Hj, Bj or BBBJ and Booby massage are ok.
It is not considered lost of Virginity la!
But how to tahan not to go further if she is doing the above?

Just Masturbate yourself without her presence.
It is the same feeling when you cum.
On top of that you don't need to spend any money and free from contracting diseases! :D

[gottasexu]

no one is a virgin...

BECOS LIFE SCREWED US ALL!!!!

bro, thats a SUPER STATEMENT!!!

TOTALLY AGREED WITH YOU!!!

[scott999]

if u are really 'green' about such activities and keen to venture further, the rest of this forum has got the answers to all your questions.

i can only provide you an answer to a question never asked - always protect yourself with a condom.

be it bj or fj, dun let your 1st time be your last or only time.

i have seen fine young men who are sexually curious + hyper active ended up regreting that little wrong step they took........

[armanisexchange]

Want to remain virgin then don't think too much and fantasize about getting commercial sex services. whether you go for fuck job, hand job, blow job or any other form of touch-here-touch-there, just forget about it!!!

The minute you let your guard down and indulge in a sexual transaction, you'll be hooked, addicted and end up findings ways to get money to satisfy that lust. What for???

Listen to uncle, save your money and masturbate. Uncle here, one year earn 6-figure salary also sometimes money no enough to cheong... :D

[cheong_man]

if u are really 'green' about such activities and keen to venture further, the rest of this forum has got the answers to all your questions.

i can only provide you an answer to a question never asked - always protect yourself with a condom.

be it bj or fj, dun let your 1st time be your last or only time.

i have seen fine young men who are sexually curious + hyper active ended up regreting that little wrong step they took........

Yes I totally agree, If you cannot control any more and wish to unlease please used a condom. You know the pain to get blood test and waiting for result it's killing. Don't risk yourself (your previous life).

[oldhen10]

:) :) ...........

[sean69]

The minute you let your guard down and indulge in a sexual transaction, you'll be hooked, addicted and end up findings ways to get money to satisfy that lust. What for???

Listen to uncle, save your money and masturbate. Uncle here, one year earn 6-figure salary also sometimes money no enough to cheong... :D


true true.. dun start or you will get hooked, you will spent a lot of time and money on these activities, it took me quite a while to force myself to stop cheonging.. and it is not easy!!!.. adding on the fact that I dun earn a 6-figure annual salary means i actually depleted a lot of my savings... man.. just think of wat i could do with those money!!! .. :)

[Newbie_chngster]

don't start so young lah! better to put in some effort and go find a nice gf to bonk. dun underestimate your sex drive, it's one of our most primal needs and it's usually quite powerful, when you're there, all rational thoughts of "i just wan a hj" or "i won't spend too much $$" will just go flying out the window.

just remember that once you've tried it once, there is no going back. i think quite a few bros here including myself are in sort of a living hell :D constantly driven by our genes.

[Newbie_chngster]

ohya just remembered the term i was looking for....we're slaves to our dick. Do u want to be a slave...no rite?

[Heart Break Kid]

true true.. dun start or you will get hooked, you will spent a lot of time and money on these activities, it took me quite a while to force myself to stop cheonging.. and it is not easy!!!.. adding on the fact that I dun earn a 6-figure annual salary means i actually depleted a lot of my savings... man.. just think of wat i could do with those money!!! ..

Totally agree , I am trying to stop all those KTV activities &
use my hard-earn $$$ to find a good gf (be it china or msia)
then rent a room for sio-kan :D (that will be more meaningful)

[canthaveenuf]

Me myself was a virgin for a long long time, got married, had my first bonk with my wiffy, and after many years bonking the same woman, suddenly realized that there was whole different world out there when I discovered SBF.

Ever since, I had spent loads of $$$$ on different gals, sometimes asking myself, WTF am I doing. It gets worse when you get smitten by some of the gals ........ and you will unwittingly RTF and RTF and RTF again .....

From an uncle to a young man, save your virginity. If you do not want to start, don't start. Once you start small (even a small little HJ), you will go on to bigger things. Don't underestimate what your little brain can do ...... Myself also started with HJ, thinking it was damn harmless one wat ..... hianz ....

But, if you do start, then, welcome to the club loh ...... and play safe. Always use CD.

Cheers

[philli007]

hmmm... bros you guys are rite men .....
so i think you better not to go(Health-Centre.... :D
bros keep your (virgin) baby to your self ...bros...:cool: [LIST]
hehehehe

[philli007]

and bros keep your ($$$$$$$).... so that when you be 25....
you can rolling your ball anyway you want in HC... in KTV :D
heeheehee .....

[buggler]

ask yourself why so many old birds warn you off starting. New here myself but spent many $$$$$$$$$$ over the years. no plans to stop now 2 old already but you should think before you go poking about

[randyboy73]

Hey livingstone...

once u get started its really difficult to control.. ur $ will just flow away like crazy... Trust us.. it is really easy to get addicted to sex.. since u are only at this age, why not concentrate on school and get a nice girl friend.. i am pretty sure ur poly, ite, uni, jc or whatever has nice girls that you can date and cultivate a relationship with. as for whether or not to save ur virginity, i guess it all depends on yourself.. to me there is no harm bonking my own girlfriend.... but remember if u have to do it, use a condom. Don screw up your life and others as well!

[philli007]

hi (Livingstone)
what the bros say is rite ....
look at me hmmm,:( addicted to sex and cant control
all the time want so you just (18 ) if you try now
you to cant stop......and be addicted.. like us.....

why not choose other thing like do some,savings...
and (TRAVEL,) or savings for new car...apt... that is better .do you think so... bros


LIKE,OTHER BROS ..SAY


BECOS LIFE SCREWEN US ALL HEEHEEHEEHEE:D

[blue_swatch]

Seriously after few lifes i stop reading...... coz... LE GONG SIMI SAI!! :mad: Seriously, your hand is your best friend, stay in your home toilet and pcc best ok!

[winday]

give it ur best show