Mens & Ladies can be friends only ??? No sex

[Fatwife]

Hi
Guess this is a common question to most of us ..
Can Ladies and Men become good friend but no sex involve ? A companion to share unhappiness etc when your wife or hubby really irritate you and you can find him/her to confine in. Just like girls girls shopping, kopi, gym, cycling etc . Sometime it just happen that you really cant get along with your surrounding friends, and this friend of yours came in and become your soulmates...Or definately impossible...
Well, you can have your girlfriend or boyfriend but he/she will always be your soulmate. I do not know lah if thing things happen it happen it not...just a friend cos your friend might not understans you well enough but somehow the opposite sex of hers/him understand u better than ur spouse.

[Drasto94]

If you're really wondering, yes.
I'm not going to try telling you I know this from experience, or age or whatever, but yes, that's what friends are for aren't they?
I have no idea if you're actually looking for someone to fill that role, but if you are, I wish you the best of luck in finding one, cause anyone here might be able to fill that gap for you as a listening ear.
Sure they're some sex crazed people around, but deep down, I'm sure there's some people who would rather like to be there for you when you need them

[Fatwife]

If you're really wondering, yes.
I'm not going to try telling you I know this from experience, or age or whatever, but yes, that's what friends are for aren't they?
I have no idea if you're actually looking for someone to fill that role, but if you are, I wish you the best of luck in finding one, cause anyone here might be able to fill that gap for you as a listening ear.
Sure they're some sex crazed people around, but deep down, I'm sure there's some people who would rather like to be there for you when you need them

Thanks for your reply...yeah lot of crazed people around loh and maybe some i met. You know lah..it common and it all depend on luck you met the kind soul who are really can be your friends but how many...unless you are super chio than you got plenty of opposite sex friend crowded over you...

[acidicavex]

It is possible to tha sort of so call Platonic friendship..... but do bear in mind this with such a friendship bond it is best not to cross the threshold..... as both rely maybe on each other listening ear..... more or less I wouLD say there will be some emotional attachment. So if both crosses the threshold Hmmm it is likely to get messy.

Gd luck in your search.

[hugs]

LG~~You and me Platonic or not:p?


It is possible to tha sort of so call Platonic friendship..... but do bear in mind this with such a friendship bond it is best not to cross the threshold..... as both rely maybe on each other listening ear..... more or less I wouLD say there will be some emotional attachment. So if both crosses the threshold Hmmm it is likely to get messy.

Gd luck in your search.

[acidicavex]

LG~~You and me Platonic or not:p?

No we are LP and LG that is different lo :p:D

[Triple70]

Step back and reflect.

Is there any value in such a question?

When we make new friends, do we determine upfront.. this person can only be a friend, nothing more?
When we hire new staff, do we say.. this person can only be a supervisor, no more?
Change is constant, ppl do evolve for the better or for the worse. Thus, personally, I stopped wondering about this issue long ago.
Just go with the flow. Having close relationships and maintaining it, is very fulfilling.

Alternatively.. try wearing a nun or a pastor uniform when u go clubbing/ pubbing, and see how many new frens u will make.

[a2014]

TS, if you belief in it YES. If you don't then NO. Friends are just friends no matter how close your relationship are. Just don't add in the benefits that comes along with a close friendship. Most people like to mix them together.

Take Care.

[JieJieJiaoWo]

Can Ladies and Men become good friend but no sex involve ?

If you are talking about good friends with no sex involved, of course.

But if the question is about being literally a 'good friend', where no love is involved, it will be possible if you are ugly or very very fat. Sorry but this is the most honest feedback i can give you as a guy, or at least as an individual.

but somehow the opposite sex of hers/him understand u better than ur spouse

Personally i think marriage isn't only about sex.. If you are happier with him.. i am sorry to your husband/wife, but why are you two together? Does it matter if sex is involved or not? If it does involve sex, why not? Everyone LOVES sex!

Something i really dont understand is that.. i thought spouse are supposed to be the one that you 'can' confide in and 'will' confide to? I mean, shouldnt spouse be your pillar of support?

I dont know, im still young. Hope i never get to understand this. Sorry if i was rude :(

I have no idea if you're actually looking for someone to fill that role, but if you are, I wish you the best of luck in finding one, cause anyone here might be able to fill that gap for you as a listening ear.

Faith in humanity restored! Fyi, i am one of those sex crazed people around. HAHAHAHA

[DanTheCow]

Hi
Guess this is a common question to most of us ..
Can Ladies and Men become good friend but no sex involve ? A companion to share unhappiness etc when your wife or hubby really irritate you and you can find him/her to confine in. Just like girls girls shopping, kopi, gym, cycling etc . Sometime it just happen that you really cant get along with your surrounding friends, and this friend of yours came in and become your soulmates...Or definately impossible...
Well, you can have your girlfriend or boyfriend but he/she will always be your soulmate. I do not know lah if thing things happen it happen it not...just a friend cos your friend might not understans you well enough but somehow the opposite sex of hers/him understand u better than ur spouse.

YES.... For sure it can happen.... I have a few very close good female friends... Platonic friends.... We have never had anything sexual happen between us ever.... No making out, no touching, no sex..... Purely friends....

But then again... If there is a sexual attraction there... It could be just sex.... And that's how the term 'Friends With Benefits' came about..... Which I always say, is different from a Fuck Buddy..... Anyways yeah... That can happen too... As long as you and your friend draw the line clearly....

But yeah... Platonic friendship between the opposite sex is possible and can definitely happen..... :)

[larue]

Especially if both the guy and the girl consider each other fugly.

[sammyboyfor]

If a man is having a platonic relationship relationship with a girl it means he's gay.

[Sen5eS]

If a man is having a platonic relationship relationship with a girl it means he's gay.

For saying that ... u must be Gay hahaha ;)

You can be best friends with a Gal and lust for her sexually w/o doing anything about it yah ?

[sammyboyfor]

For saying that ... u must be Gay hahaha ;)



Wooah you must be right! Never realised that. :(

[larue]

For saying that ... u must be Gay hahaha ;)

You can be best friends with a Gal and lust for her sexually w/o doing anything about it yah ?

Then it's not platonic anymore because sexual thoughts about the other party are present.

So it really still stands that platonic relationships between opposing sexes are truly born only of a sexual orientation mismatch, or a complete lack of sexual interest because both parties secretly and mutually feel the other party is ugly as sin.

[DanTheCow]

If a man is having a platonic relationship relationship with a girl it means he's gay.

Boss.... Can't agree with you here.... Cos I'm not gay.... Hahaha... :p

Anyways... Maybe it's just me... Or i dun feel anything for the females I have platonic relationships with.... Not too sure.... But definitely platonic and I'm definitely not gay..... Hahaha.... :p

[WoShiMingXing]

Hi
Guess this is a common question to most of us ..
Can Ladies and Men become good friend but no sex involve ? A companion to share unhappiness etc when your wife or hubby really irritate you and you can find him/her to confine in. Just like girls girls shopping, kopi, gym, cycling etc . Sometime it just happen that you really cant get along with your surrounding friends, and this friend of yours came in and become your soulmates...Or definately impossible...
Well, you can have your girlfriend or boyfriend but he/she will always be your soulmate. I do not know lah if thing things happen it happen it not...just a friend cos your friend might not understans you well enough but somehow the opposite sex of hers/him understand u better than ur spouse.

Its possible! Been there, done that. :D

[sammyboyfor]

Boss.... Can't agree with you here.... Cos I'm not gay.... Hahaha... :p

Anyways... Maybe it's just me... Or i dun feel anything for the females I have platonic relationships with.... Not too sure.... But definitely platonic and I'm definitely not gay..... Hahaha.... :p

I could easily have a platonic relationship with her. Sex would never cross my mind.

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[DanTheCow]

I could easily have a platonic relationship with her. Sex would never cross my mind.

34232

Well.......

[hugs]

Umm....ts..I am a girl...You accidentally PM wrongly..???

Are you looking for a guy?

[hugs]

You should PM everybody here except me hahahaha you selected the wrong person to PM?

[Drasto94]

Hahaha, maybe ts wants someone of the same gender to be her listening ear?

[Fatwife]

Umm....ts..I am a girl...You accidentally PM wrongly..???

Are you looking for a guy?

Sorry...ignore.
I wanna pm u ask u something but i forgotten..cos multi tasking lah

[hugs]

Sorry...ignore.
I wanna pm u ask u something but i forgotten..cos multi tasking lah

Of cos ignored. I won't screw up the guys' chance to answer all your questions:p

[hugs]

Sam why did you post my picture out? Help me delete this picture from the thread pls!:mad:


I could easily have a platonic relationship with her. Sex would never cross my mind.

34232

[squiggle]

Can, there are cases that even worse than this. Cannot become friends and don't even have to think of sex :D

Forever alone...

[justl00king]

Hi
Guess this is a common question to most of us ..
Can Ladies and Men become good friend but no sex involve ?
If the lady is a chiobu, how to tahan?

I've got a common question too..
Got some chiobu ladies that I just wanna be friends, but they want to be friends with sex involve...should I go for it? :confused::p

[hyoy]

In my humble opinion, possible, but under very stringent circumstances. One possibility is the girl is not chio (or at least to the guy), such that he don't have such thoughts. Which can be quite sad I guess. Or the guy really value the friendship he has with the girl such that he won't want to risk messing things up (also possible, I think I have several such female friends). Very difficult, the guy must be really mature and disciplined I guess.

[Fatwife]

In my humble opinion, possible, but under very stringent circumstances. One possibility is the girl is not chio (or at least to the guy), such that he don't have such thoughts. Which can be quite sad I guess. Or the guy really value the friendship he has with the girl such that he won't want to risk messing things up (also possible, I think I have several such female friends). Very difficult, the guy must be really mature and disciplined I guess.

Correct
Discipline must still be there loh

[D-joker]

For alot of guys i think cant. Seriously. But nt sure y i m able to maintain frenship w alot of gals without banging them.