Any Sign To Tell If Your Gal Really Cum?

[tk-king]

paiseh me newbie to this but reading the stories doesnt seems to fit my reality
a lot say the gal got very wet n cum, juice dripping etc etc
instead my gal told me you will feel a sudden dryness when she cum
just like guy who kana milk dry

so which is true?
is my gal boosting my confident?
any sis wanna comment?

thanks for reading n hope to clear my doubt :D

[Xuhong]

if she really very high...

notice her toes and fingers.. will curl like ganna fits like dat

[JWNY]

Hmm..women can fake it well ;)

i'm no expert myself...but once was bonking in a sitting position...suddenly felt her "bite" my shoulder. :D

JWNY

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

i'm no expert myself...but once was bonking in a sitting position...suddenly felt her "bite" my shoulder. :D

JWNY

ouch..that must have been very painful.:p

[BustLover]

When a woman CUMs, there will be a sudden suction of her cunt which most of us will not be aware. But one thing for sure is, immediately after a woman has CUMmed, she will feel very sensitive and if you touch her sensitive spot, like breast, g-spot or neck area, she will avoid and push you away...:D

Tio-bo? Sister...:p

[=WK=]

i think each girl reacts in different ways... i met some that tremble alot while others just keep still, blush and smile. real or not, i also not sure sometimes. here are some useful info i came across. hope it helps :cool:

So how can you possibly tell whether or not she has really reached orgasm? After all, since all women react differently to climaxing (just as men do), how can you tell whether she saw the heavens or was simply attempting to feed your ego?
Well, there are plenty of ways in which to determine that your sexual partner has reached the acme of sexual pleasure. Whereas some women make it quite obvious that they're having an orgasm, other women are quiet as a mouse and expect you to know that they're satisfied.
Some women have no problem being vocal and voicing what they want you to do. They scream, dig their nails into your back (or the bed as the case may be), pull your hair, cry, and in extreme situations, they black out for a moment.

Squeeze those muscles

Are you feeling her vaginal muscles contract? Well then, more likely than not, your partner is reaching her climactic level in the fornication department. If she begins squeezing and then releasing her PC muscles, it's because you're hitting that spot that she loves so much...so keep doing it!
Another way to be sure is to wait until you feel her get extremely wet. Squeezing the muscles may mean she's about to orgasm, but unless you continue to excite her, she may not reach that climactic finale she wants so desperately to attain. If she begins to juice, well then gentlemen, we have a winner!
The liquid may or may not "flow out". A small percentage of women, during orgasm, will experience what is called female ejaculation . During female ejaculation, fluid is expelled from the urethra. This fluid is not to be mistaken for urine because it is made from a different substance.
The majority of women, however, will not experience this. They will merely experience an increase in vaginal lubrication, which can still be just as intense for them. But every man can hope for an ejaculator!

Nipplitis

On occasion, women who reach climax get hardened nipples. Now if your lady happens to have hard nipples all the time, well then, better luck next time. For the rest of you though, hardened nipples are a dead giveaway that a woman is reaching her pleasure peak.
Obviously, her breasts swell when she gets excited because of the blood rush throughout her body. Her nipples, on the other hand, are a different story. Although it has not been proven scientifically, some women, upon achieving orgasm, claim that their nipples harden only when they reach their climax.
So be aware of your lover's nipples -- if they are constantly hard, even when they're not stimulated, then it's unlikely that hardened nipples during sex will have any telltale signs. If, on the other hand, she rarely or never has hard nipples, keep your eyes open and your tongue ready (for licking and sucking, of course).

Moan or Groan?

If you're blessed enough to have a sexually vocal woman for a partner, then welcome to the wonderful world of prediction. This technique is simple in determining whether your lady is really reaching her peak or if she's simply acting like an interested porn star for the sake of the situation.
If her moaning is constant and periodic, as though she's making noise mechanically (ooh, yeah, ooh, yeah, ooh, ooh, yeah, yeah...you get the picture), then it's quite likely that she's putting on a performance. Whether she's faking it to get it over with or because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, some women think that it's necessary to act as though they're climaxing. Go figure.
The rest of us, however, have no qualm about letting out distinct sounds of pleasure and peak. If your lady friend moans as though she's disoriented or bewildered, then it's my belief that the orgasm is on its way to the surface.
If she begins to grasp at things, or screams and shouts that she wants it harder, faster and that you shouldn't stop, then take heed and do as she says. Who knows, perhaps her excitement will make you reach orgasm also, thus killing two birds with one stone!
Rider beware: there exist the "conniving climaxers" that are so convincing, you'll probably never know that they're fooling you. In any case, enjoy the ride because if she's so adamant about lying, it's not your fault.

If you don't get to know, you'll never know

Gentlemen, you have to realize that if you constantly engage in one-night-stands, it's likely that you'll rarely figure out whether or not your woman of the hour is climaxing or not. The best way to get to know what women want is by having either long-term relationships or constant casual sex with a "friend".
Of course I'm not implying that all women are the same; au-contraire, they're individual beings with differing wants and needs. But by spending some time in a relationship, you can learn about and understand a woman's body. You can figure out what is pleasurable and what is undesirable.
As a wise woman once told me, "It's better to have bedded one person a million times than a million people one time." Until next time gentlemen, happy hunting and reach for the orgasms!

What are the common physical signs?

Here are some general orgasm indicators, describing the build up and the moment itself:
- rising feeling of intense pleasure;
- increase in blood pressure and pulse rate;
- breathing quickens;
- increase in vaginal lubrication;
- clitoris becomes erect and exposed;
- breasts become enlarged, nipples erect;
- skin flushes, particularly the face and chest;
- pelvic muscle spasms, causing vaginal contractions and orgasmic sensations.

note: info taken form different sources on the internet

[beingunknown200]

But one thing for sure is, immediately after a woman has CUMmed, she will feel very sensitive and if you touch her sensitive spot, like breast, g-spot or neck area, she will avoid and push you away...:D

yah man! I get that with my gf as well whenever I play with her clitoris only. She will wiggle and say its very sensitive and wouldnt allow me to touch there again. Haha I just took it as she came. Ignorance is bliss sometimes. Knowing too much may not be a good thing to our ego hahaha LOL

Hmm so I wonder if the above is true for a girl when she cums though...Sisters?

[ZenneZ]

every woman orgamns in different way.
It depends if it is a G-spot orgamns, a vaginal orgamns or a clit orgamns.

Most common type of orgamns are clit orgamns. In my opinion, clit orgamns are more common due to the woman's familiarity with it.

It is usually less intense, less wet and only result in more sensitivity around the clit area but not excessive sensitivity on the breasts or nipples.

It is more common as it is usually the first type of orgamns a woman will experience in her life time either through self -masturbation or oral/hand stimulation given by a partner

(keep in mind what is the usual learning curve of their sexuality)

A woman that is very familiar with clit orgamns usually have difficulty achieving G-spot or vaginal orgamns in the later stage of their sex life as guys tends to orgamns through thrusting moving and there is only 2 position at a very specific angle and movement that can stimulate the clit in a consistent manner that i know of

From my past sexual experiences with woman ,a vaginal orgamns is much more intense and a G-spot orgamns has the potential of killing a woman with heart problems.

It is also more difficult to achieve especially for asians as they need to break through certain kind of physiological and psychological barrier. If they have previous experience in clit orgamns, it is even much more difficult as they will think that is the only way of achieving an orgamns

As all 3 types of orgamns can usually be achieve in their respective stimulation method in A CONSISTENT way, and CONSISTENT stimulation for vaginal- Gspot orgamns are more difficult to apply for inexperience man. This result in most woman seeking for clit orgamns and their mind will be put off even if you give her consistent vaginal or G spot stimulation as they have a metal blockage that this won't result in an orgamn for them
(note, besides consistent, the right pressure, the right atmoshphere and the right mental state as well.... these cheebye demanding woman....grrrr)

Why physiological/ psychological problems?

My experience is, vaginal orgamns requires consistent hard thrusting.

First thing first, if your dick is not thick enough for the pussy, forget about vaginal orgamns. (there are some woman with large cave)
The girl can't feel the intensity to push her over the edge.

Second, most woman especially asian have an auto switch off if they feel too intense. They are afraid of losing total control of their body. Maybe they don't want to appear that they are enjoying sex too much as they equate that to being a slut. Sometimes, it can be very intense that a certain degree of pain usually together with it. The list of reasons goes on.

From the combine descriptions from my numerous current/ex-sex partners, clit orgamns is more comfortable, like small little burst of fluttering at their lower region lasting a few short seconds. The clit becomes very sensitive and cannot be stimulated again within a short time frame

Vaginal orgamns is very intense. At the very moment before a woman experience vaginal orgamns, the guy will feel a sudden very strong grip from the vaginal lasting a few seconds before bursting into alternating less powerful gripping and releasing of the vaginal muscle.

(she will usually bite you or tear the bedsheet off at that moment, you should grab her breast hard or bite her nipple hard but NOT OFF at that moment as well but release it immediately when the orgamns breaks loose)

Vaginal orgamns results in alot of wetness and extra sensitivity throughout the rest of the woman's body including clit.

But many of my past sexual partners are able to carry on with intense fucking if they carry on pushing themselves.
Don't give any other kind of stimulation after a vaginal orgamns if you intend to give them multiple vaginal orgamns. Concentrate on the intensity of the thrusting. Let her concentrate on the intense pressure in her vaginal. The rest of her body might be very sensitive. Grip her arms, strangle her neck BUT DON"T KILL HER or do whatever that will minimize her body movement so that you can focus on applying hard and fast thrusting in her vaginal. Maintain the same momentum. Any surprise here will kill off the momentum. Do everything correctly and you should be able to give a woman multiple vaginal woman. Stamina is your limit. You are on a high traffic highway here.

(I once achieved 11 vaginal orgamns with a FB but I also end up with intense cramps on both of my ass cheeks and thighs and also TEARS IN MY EYES.)

G spot orgamns?
heh... well first thing first. You need a long enough dick. 3 to 4 inch is usually enough but at certain position, you will not be able to reach the spot. Around 6 inch will be easier.
Go fuck a cow if you are more than 9 inch. Dun torture nice little pussies.

G spot orgamns is actually quite easy to achieve if both your girl and you get it right. less than 1 min of stimulation is enough. The girl need to get pass the urge to pee stage and relax herself. Accruacy is the key here. Not too hard, not too fast, not too intense but when she have a G spot orgamns, please don't get carried away! It is possible to have multiple G spot orgamns but it can be dangerous if u tries to add to the intensity of an already very intense orgamns for the woman.

For one of my more extreme case, my partner was yelling so hard till she is so out of breath and voice that in order to stop me, she reached out for the phone on the side of the bed and fling it at me to get me to stop.....

Well, my experience and knowledge ends here

Please note that all the above are from abit of read up here and there and my past sexual experiences with my various sex partners. As I am not a woman, most of my knowledge are from my own observation and listening during pillow talk.

I haven't slept with all types of woman so please feel free to add or correct me.

[like2bonk]

every woman orgamns in different way.
It depends if it is a G-spot orgamns, a vaginal orgamns or a clit orgamns.
....
A woman that is very familiar with clit orgamns usually have difficulty achieving G-spot or vaginal orgamns in the later stage of their sex life as guys tends to orgamns through thrusting moving and there is only 2 position at a very specific angle and movement that can stimulate the clit in a consistent manner that i know of

.

You are a sex guru indeed. Will you be kind enough to elaborate on these 2 positions?

[ZenneZ]

woman on top with her body leaning forward and she grind her clit area againts your pelvic area lor.
I can never achieve an orgamn if a girl do that. feel like massage of pelvic area instead of fucking


guy on top with a certain part of pelvic rubbing the clit as you try to slit in and out (not thrust in and out) You rub the clit! NOT BANG THE CLIT WITH YOUR BONES!

[alf98]

Some time if the girl wanna fake...can also.....if onli U can put your finger in the pussy during this orgasm time U wouldn't know leh......During this time there is rythmic contraction of the vaginal muscles........Anyway....the ultimate orgasm anyone know what is this....I will give +repo if U all giving the right answer!!!!!:)

[alf98]

Ophs double posting.....I mean for the ladies ah....not for man ok......

[ZenneZ]

.... the ultimate type of orgamns is the type of orgamns you feel like wanting at that particular moment lar.

When you reach certain point, you will realize that all type of orgamns is good. You just dunno how to appreciate it that suit your particular mood at that moment

[alf98]

.... the ultimate type of orgamns is the type of orgamns you feel like wanting at that particular moment lar.

When you reach certain point, you will realize that all type of orgamns is good. You just dunno how to appreciate it that suit your particular mood at that moment
Sori bro!!! Not the right answer!!!
My question is...who can name me the ultimate orgasm can occurs to a lady.......In what occasion it can occurs!!!!!:)

[asdfghjkl]

hehe.. only a sensitive man can know i got cum or not.. :rolleyes:

[mocha33]

hehe.. only a sensitive man can know i got cum or not.. :rolleyes:
hmmmmm....:rolleyes: .. you a lady ar ??

[mocha33]

well guess everyone got their own pattern of cuming, its hard to tell at times.. but i know my wife cuming or not.. when she`s riding me, she arches back with her nail crawling on my chest or clenched her fist hard. alternative, when i and her in missionary position, she will grab me towards her sinking her nails onto my back .... :( now she`s got my baby liao.. miss those feeling long time

[ZenneZ]

sounds like she is a clit orgamns type of woman. She ever complain to you to stop and say she feel like peeing?

well guess everyone got their own pattern of cuming, its hard to tell at times.. but i know my wife cuming or not.. when she`s riding me, she arches back with her nail crawling on my chest or clenched her fist hard. alternative, when i and her in missionary position, she will grab me towards her sinking her nails onto my back .... :( now she`s got my baby liao.. miss those feeling long time

[mocha33]

sounds like she is a clit orgamns type of woman. She ever complain to you to stop and say she feel like peeing?


no lei .. why ? any advice??

[goodpartner]

every woman orgamns in different way.
It depends if it is a G-spot orgamns, a vaginal orgamns or a clit orgamns.


Bro, now I know you're a sex guru; no wonder even WLs stick to you without the usual incentive... :cool:

A newbie question here. So those orgamns we give with fingering are all clit? (obvious I think).

My gal seems to prefer me giving that "rotation" effect when I'm thrusting her in missionary. i.e. I've to circulate my lower torso with my dick in her, where she seems to enjoy even without the thrusting effect. So that's also clit orgamns huh?

Now the thing is that what is she really after so I can give it to her faster? It can be quite tiring with those movements as one can imagine. Not to mention that it's not giving me (the man) the pleasure I wanted too. Advices?

[asdfghjkl]

yes.. confirm got 3 type of orgasm for women.. all feel differently one.. kekeke :D

[curiosityz]

from what i know bro, if you see your gal juice coming out, which mean she has really cum...

[jon2000sg]

one obvious sympton is wet wet wet !!!

i ever bonk one regular MM, her love juice can spread to my stomach
wow! this is where I bonk her in China where she stopped bonking as
a FL. whole lot of water !!!

another indication is if she is really high,
her eye balls will go up and you only see
the eye white ?! :p true?

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

another indication is if she is really high,
her eye balls will go up and you only see
the eye white ?! :p true?

that sounds a little freaky wor,no offense bro~~:o

[beingunknown200]

isit? but my impression is that wet doesnt necessarily mean the girl has cum, only means she is adequately aroused leh...

[mocha33]

yes.. confirm got 3 type of orgasm for women.. all feel differently one.. kekeke :D
details pls ?

[KingBong]

Tightening of the muscles around your dick, after that it gets real sensitive for them and some gals cannot continue.

[tk-king]

kana scratch, kana bite, bed real wet, dun allow licking on pussy

thanks bro :D

[gerhunter]

For one of my more extreme case, my partner was yelling so hard till she is so out of breath and voice that in order to stop me, she reached out for the phone on the side of the bed and fling it at me to get me to stop.....

lol...that's extreme siah...so what happened in the end??:p

[railrus]

Zennez you are funny!

how do i know? my fb squirt so much that she can soak the bed! so when she cums, i can see it. when we fuck, i feel it :D

makes me want to pcc thinking abt it :p

[LENS]

For me, i cant feel my wife orgasm. Cos she not into sex. But with my jenny, wow, can feel. Cos if she cum, her pussy be extra slippery and if i continue to f**k her, she will be damn sensitive and will try to push me away. Thats when i chase her round the place and grab her and f**k her in funny places, eg living room, kitchen, toilet, stairways of mansionette. And when i insert, she will cum again and again. Cos can feel her squirt. Also when she cum, she start to talk dirty to me. Haha. My jenny.

[scott999]

one of my ex will spray urine(no joke) when she comes...
very messy but the sight of it also very kick:D

[ZenneZ]

nope. most of my past FBs are usually clits orgamns type of girls. I find it satisfying to break their barrier and explore their sexuality further

no lei .. why ? any advice??

[ZenneZ]

I only had experience with 2 squirters and I haven't figure out if there is any particular type of stimulation that will trigger a squirt orgamns. While the liquid is from the pee hole. it is not urine.

It is not possible for a woman to spray urine while having an orgamns. If it is really urine, she is just doing a kinky golden shower for you or simply hates you secretly and wanna pee on you. haha

Unless or course she has a bladder problem

one of my ex will spray urine(no joke) when she comes...
very messy but the sight of it also very kick:D

[Ah Des]

Everything can fake, moaning, shudder, blushing, even erect nipples...only thing cannot fake is JUICE. Once the juices flow confirm she got cum.

[ZenneZ]

Fingering in the insertion of finger into the vaginal hole isn't it?

It is only possible to give a clit orgamns through fingering if your plam is resting on the clit area. You need to stimulate the clit in order to give a clit orgamn.

See how most woman mastubate? They rub the clit only, no need insertion of anything to get themselves a clit orgamns.

From your description, she should be trying to get her clit stimulated by having a certain part of your body applying pressure onto her clit area in a circular motion. Do that in the correct way and she get a clit orgamns in which you won't really know it if she isn't a very expressive person

Faster can means faster thrusting or grinding. From my experience, woman also use it if she is bored, tired or already sextified and want you to finish it.
If she want faster and harder thrusting, she is seeking a vaginal orgamns

Bro, now I know you're a sex guru; no wonder even WLs stick to you without the usual incentive... :cool:

A newbie question here. So those orgamns we give with fingering are all clit? (obvious I think).

My gal seems to prefer me giving that "rotation" effect when I'm thrusting her in missionary. i.e. I've to circulate my lower torso with my dick in her, where she seems to enjoy even without the thrusting effect. So that's also clit orgamns huh?

Now the thing is that what is she really after so I can give it to her faster? It can be quite tiring with those movements as one can imagine. Not to mention that it's not giving me (the man) the pleasure I wanted too. Advices?

[ZenneZ]

juice flow doesn't mean cum. They are some woman who gets very wet easily and some woman who doesn't really wet even if you give her multiple orgamns.

I actually prefer those that are not so wet that it becomes messy. Not ideal for quicky in public places.
Please tell me how you fake erect nipples

Everything can fake, moaning, shudder, blushing, even erect nipples...only thing cannot fake is JUICE. Once the juices flow confirm she got cum.

[ZenneZ]

juice flow doesn't mean cum. They are some woman who gets very wet easily and some woman who doesn't really wet even if you give her multiple orgamns.

I actually prefer those that are not so wet that it becomes messy. Not ideal for quicky in public places.
Please tell me how you fake erect nipples

Everything can fake, moaning, shudder, blushing, even erect nipples...only thing cannot fake is JUICE. Once the juices flow confirm she got cum.

[ZenneZ]

juice flow doesn't mean cum. They are some woman who gets very wet easily and some woman who doesn't really wet even if you give her multiple orgamns.

I actually prefer those that are not so wet that it becomes messy. Not ideal for quicky in public places.
Please tell me how you fake erect nipples

Everything can fake, moaning, shudder, blushing, even erect nipples...only thing cannot fake is JUICE. Once the juices flow confirm she got cum.

[jon2000sg]

that sounds a little freaky wor,no offense bro~~:o
it's a freak show!

[jon2000sg]

Tightening of the muscles around your dick, after that it gets real sensitive for them and some gals cannot continue.
tightening of muscles can be fake what,
just like we try to jerk our dick muscles.

juice doesn't mean cum,
some gals just naturally wet

WET WET WET !

[gerhunter]

I only had experience with 2 squirters and I haven't figure out if there is any particular type of stimulation that will trigger a squirt orgamns. While the liquid is from the pee hole. it is not urine.

It is not possible for a woman to spray urine while having an orgamns. If it is really urine, she is just doing a kinky golden shower for you or simply hates you secretly and wanna pee on you. haha

Unless or course she has a bladder problem

i had 1 squirters exp....fingered her and rub arnd the G spot...wanted me to stop suddenly...make me wondered why...so asked her...after I knew the reason, I just fingered till she squirt and wet the bed...:p

[Kyser Soze]

but my impression is that wet doesnt necessarily mean the girl has cum, only means she is adequately aroused leh...
Quite true. But yet, this is already the first important step for her to achieve orgasm. I love to rub pussies with my fingers without really inserting my fingers. Some girls actually love it, wet, really wet and then cummed... I'm not sure with fellow samsters' experience, but a woman achieiving orgasm usually comes with a 'jerk' of her lower body. Subsequent stimulation of her pussy will not get much effect, pretty much she just lies there and wants a rest.:D

[goodpartner]

Fingering in the insertion of finger into the vaginal hole isn't it?

It is only possible to give a clit orgamns through fingering if your plam is resting on the clit area. You need to stimulate the clit in order to give a clit orgamn.

See how most woman mastubate? They rub the clit only, no need insertion of anything to get themselves a clit orgamns.

Yup. That's about it. More of fingering at the clit area - more specifically the "spot" where we can feel something protruding on the outside; upper end of the virgina.

I'm also curious if insertion of finger(s) does any good for the other 2 types of orgamns. You did mention some "inner" area for the G-spot (which I always thought it's the one on the outside...geez)


From your description, she should be trying to get her clit stimulated by having a certain part of your body applying pressure onto her clit area in a circular motion. Do that in the correct way and she get a clit orgamns in which you won't really know it if she isn't a very expressive person

With my fully erected dick in it, this movement seems to enable me to explore her inside (dig) to reach that G-spot you mentioned for "G-spot orgamns"? I was hoping this is more than just clit orgamns.

It's as pleasurable for me to see my gal climax as it is my own.

[alf98]

Orgasm!!! Is a mistery actually......some shown out some not.....some takes long time to reach......Some sex are ended without orgasm for the ladies.....For man it means failure....but for ladies it just a variation from other.......For orgasm to occurs is a bonus to the ladies....but without doesn't mean U must have one.....Some bro here are plain ill informed or just don't understand can start asking...but don't try to give wrong info here......We are not born yesterday ok.......Ok for my question...what is the ultimate orgasm!!!!

[whitegals]

Everything can fake, moaning, shudder, blushing, even erect nipples...only thing cannot fake is JUICE. Once the juices flow confirm she got cum.

Bro,

How do you fake blushing? By controlling the blood flow in your body? :confused:

[ZenneZ]

My experience is the same as your as well. MY 2 squirter sex partner got the squirt orgamns through stimulation of the G spot.

But there are many woman who don't squirt even if they experience a G spot orgamns

So I can't be sure

Please note that I define squirt as a huge stream of liquid being release from the pee hole

Because it is release from the tiny pee hole, it usually result in a stream being shot out which many misunderstand as urine

Many other woman release lots and lots of wetness during their g spot orgamns that it wets the whole bed. But those liquid are from the vaginal hole.



i had 1 squirters exp....fingered her and rub arnd the G spot...wanted me to stop suddenly...make me wondered why...so asked her...after I knew the reason, I just fingered till she squirt and wet the bed...:p

[ZenneZ]

you are right! we are not born yesterday.. so we can safely assume there is no ultimate orgamns, at least not from you.

It is common knowledge that every woman define their ultimate in their own ultimate-impossible-to-understand way.

so their ultimate orgamns is the way they want it at that particular orgamns.
Give them a "ULTIMATE" orgamns during one of her more tiring week, you get a ultimate grumpy week of torture from them

Having an orgamns for a woman is a bonus? Isn't it a bonus as well for guys? You seems to imply....hmmmm

Oh well.....

Orgasm!!! Is a mistery actually......some shown out some not.....some takes long time to reach......Some sex are ended without orgasm for the ladies.....For man it means failure....but for ladies it just a variation from other.......For orgasm to occurs is a bonus to the ladies....but without doesn't mean U must have one.....Some bro here are plain ill informed or just don't understand can start asking...but don't try to give wrong info here......We are not born yesterday ok.......Ok for my question...what is the ultimate orgasm!!!!

[goodpartner]

It is common knowledge that every woman define their ultimate in their own ultimate-impossible-to-understand way.

When I'm close enuff, KC-wise, this is a bed-top topic I'll engage with the gal. However, perhaps I'm being too direct or those gals I know are too shy, I've never been successful getting any "absolute" answers from them too.

For e.g. I'll ask dumb questions like:
- honey, how do you want me to fcuk you for your greatest pleasure?
- honey, please tell me verbally when I'm doing something you really like... signal to me or voice it out so I'll keep doing.

Any tips and tricks around this?
Like what to say/ask/do ? :D

[FangLover]

There's once a gal told me in order to make them orgasm, they prefer to ride, cos tat way they will take control, uses the shaft to touch the spot wer they gets orgasm easily. I once did her in cowgal position, u know wat? She cums 4 times in 15 mins, whole body sweat!!!! of course coupled wif loud moans:D

[alf98]

you are right! we are not born yesterday.. so we can safely assume there is no ultimate orgamns, at least not from you.

It is common knowledge that every woman define their ultimate in their own ultimate-impossible-to-understand way.

so their ultimate orgamns is the way they want it at that particular orgamns.
Give them a "ULTIMATE" orgamns during one of her more tiring week, you get a ultimate grumpy week of torture from them

Having an orgamns for a woman is a bonus? Isn't it a bonus as well for guys? You seems to imply....hmmmm

Oh well.....
This so called ultimate orgasm...is not what people describe leh....There is prove to show this thing do occurs.....Anyway U don't wanna try to figure out this then forget it lor......U thot I was born yesterday too......I'm not bull shit here lah....frend....

[winniethepoohJR]

why orgasm? Actually many girls just want simple plain love from boys.

[asdfghjkl]

Thats when i chase her round the place and grab her

lol.. what an experience.. kekeke :D

[max_priest]

woman on top with her body leaning forward and she grind her clit area againts your pelvic area lor.

guy on top with a certain part of pelvic rubbing the clit as you try to slit in and out (not thrust in and out) You rub the clit! NOT BANG THE CLIT WITH YOUR BONES!
Bro, I fully agree with your above two methods as I have experienced it myself with my GFs ... One should concentrate on sliding ones penis against the top vagina wall, she would feel very stimulated ... and if one can sustain long enough, she would definitely be able to reach orgasm.

The first method you mentioned is commonly called the "Swimmer pattern" ... The gal would straighten & close her legs, and slide longitudinally against your pelvic. This method can be very straining and tiring for her if she is not fit.

I shall up you a maxie bro for your contribution ... :D

Cheers,
Max

[beingunknown200]

When I'm close enuff, KC-wise, this is a bed-top topic I'll engage with the gal. However, perhaps I'm being too direct or those gals I know are too shy, I've never been successful getting any "absolute" answers from them too.

For e.g. I'll ask dumb questions like:
- honey, how do you want me to fcuk you for your greatest pleasure?
- honey, please tell me verbally when I'm doing something you really like... signal to me or voice it out so I'll keep doing.

haha bro, I face the same issue as you. My gf very shy to answer too. So i have no choice but to observe her facial expression and body language when i pleasure her. Very hard though, cos she doesnt really make noise during the process. but simple hints like slight jerk of lower body, or only want to hug after she cum (think her clit is too sensitive for stimulation) is enough for me to know.

Actually, the interesting thing is that I noticed that I get more excited after she cum, haha and I wanna pleasure her even more (than i want her to pleasure me). but she will be too sensitive to be played with. Noticed that maybe for some (shy and lsd) girls, maybe on cum once is enough. But for the hsd ones, haha many times will turn them on even more. What do other bros think?

[Drooler]

Dear bros,

I duno much abt the subject but when the girl moans 'wo shou bu liau leh' a few times & getting louder each time, ending with a 'arghhhhh'! Sure can make my day :D