Girl problem

[GGuser]

3.5years ago.. we met in school for the first time... We're both new to the school.

I called her on a few occasions to ask about homeworks and everything... Slowly we started chatting and phone messaging(sms) each other... a lot.

Im pretty sure shes interested in me... not because she sms me.. but because of the replies in the sms.

And also.. we're both pretty quiet at that point of time.. we never talk in school (gay shit.. i regretted that)

We sms a lot until 2 years later... she lost her phone.. From there we stopped sms.

2 months later for some reason.. i tried calling her... It works. <- meaning she's gotten her phone back.. but she didnt sms me.. and the replies she gave were totally different from how we smsed each other in the past.


Attitude changed.


From there we hardly smsed each other.

I was like ok.. fucked up.

I heard shes got a boyfriend outside school.

I went to the class chalet 4 days ago.. came back today.

Of course.. she went too.

I didnt gget a chance to talk to her.. I only managed to take a photo with her because her friend wants us to..(everyone else too)

Right before we took the photo.. she said '' ure soo tall.. stand shorter ok?? '' (in chinese)(SMILING!!!) (Phew)


From there. hearing her voice.. i knew i cant forget her.

4 days there i wanted to be alone with her .. perhaps taking a stroll or something.. talking about stuffs that happened in the past.. Why did she do this and not (not in the form of interogation[sp] )

So i was wondering if i could ask her out or something in the next few days.
(Btw our country isnt westernised... calling a girl out isnt something casual.. its serious already... Like if a girl calls me out.. i know she doesnt just want to be friends stuff like that)


heres the problem.
I want to talk to her.. understanding what really happened and stuff.

but...
1:should i sms her out and talk?
2:Should i call her out and talk?
3:Or should i just call her and talk to her there?

Im more interested in the first option tho.

Opinions?

(PS : The only reason im still diong this is because one of my girl-friends had a bf..but my friend asked her whether shes interested to be with him.. she agreeed immediately)
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Sorry for no slang :P
Posted this in some Ang Moh forum.

[danls79]

go get a life boy if you want just sms her and not sit around waiting for an answer from us .gals dont like cowards

[vandervaart]

Geez, sounds like school holidays have started :D
My advice for you, there are more things in life that can be really considered as a PROBLEM, but anyway, if you ain't man enough to do anything, nothing that any one of us say will be useful to you. Get it?

[Deztruct]

sms her n see from there

btw. there is really nothin wrong in askin a ger out for casual dates and bcoz a ger ask u out..it doesnt mean they are interested in u..it might be when it was my sec school days time..but i pretty sure it wasnt now..

[vesfreq]

Geez, sounds like school holidays have started
My advice for you, there are more things in life that can be really considered as a PROBLEM, but anyway, if you ain't man enough to do anything, nothing that any one of us say will be useful to you. Get it?

Lol. I was wondering why the F is there a thread like this.

Just to add on. Girls don't like guys without the guts to say yes. :D

[Deztruct]

sms her n see from there

btw. there is really nothin wrong in askin a ger out for casual dates and bcoz a ger ask u out..it doesnt mean they are interested in u..it might be when it was my sec school days time..but i pretty sure it wasnt now..

[dom01]

Mai tu liao..

Go for it! Life is a daring adventure!

Or rather Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get. :D

[Bruce-Sg]

no hope liao

[Rw6828]

Go Go Go for it.....you'll never know if you dont try

[squirt]

forget abt that bitch. Change target. It's her loss, and make sure she know that.

[big dick]

jus try your luck.. little bro.. :) :D

[ilurbu]

Just ask her out and talk. you got her hp number still wanna sms. CALL and then ask her out. 2 situations. 1. she say no. 2. she say yes. Either way, you want to know what she wants right? if you sit around some more, her yes will also become a no when some guy come sweep her off her feet.

First come first serve. you wait some more, the good food at the buffet table no more liao. and this buffet is NOT refillable.

talking about forrest gump, I was just thinking.. he's box of chocolates must be boutique praline-type man... cos when I buy chocolates, i know what I'm getting cos all are the same.

[MMM88]

Guys have to make the initiative (first) go SMS or call her (either method does not matter) ...if she is still interested , she will n if she is not , go and find urself another chio bu lor......remember , the whole FOREST is our playground ........SO, wat r u waiting for ??? for school to start in Jan???........whahahahaha:D

[slyer]

jus call her n ask her out.. at most kanna rejected only lor better than sit there n wait wait wait... dun wait til christmas hor :D

[dom01]

Just ask her out and talk. you got her hp number still wanna sms. CALL and then ask her out. 2 situations. 1. she say no. 2. she say yes. Either way, you want to know what she wants right? if you sit around some more, her yes will also become a no when some guy come sweep her off her feet.

First come first serve. you wait some more, the good food at the buffet table no more liao. and this buffet is NOT refillable.

talking about forrest gump, I was just thinking.. he's box of chocolates must be boutique praline-type man... cos when I buy chocolates, i know what I'm getting cos all are the same.

What is praline type? Royce huh?

Btw, found one of our brother's nick is:
LIFE IS LIKE A BOX OF CONDOMS, U NEVER KNOW WHEN U WILL BE USING IT

Haha...

[Castrol]

but...
1:should i sms her out and talk?
2:Should i call her out and talk?
3:Or should i just call her and talk to her there?


i suggest you email her better la. :D

this reminds me of sec 1 time. first few weeks in a new school and i got a classmate girl girl who liked me already. i knew it becos she got another girl classmate to ask me whether i got any gf or not etc etc...

i liked her too but there was nothing i could do for her becos i only had enough money for a greenspot bottle and a bowl of mee everyday. so she kept giving me that CFM smile and i just kept rubbing my hard cock against my rusty school table. :(

[Castrol]

but...
1:should i sms her out and talk?
2:Should i call her out and talk?
3:Or should i just call her and talk to her there?


i suggest you email her better la. :D

this reminds me of sec 1 time. first few weeks in a new school and i got a classmate girl girl who liked me already. i knew it becos she got another girl classmate to ask me whether i got any gf or not etc etc...

i liked her too but there was nothing i could do for her becos i only had enough money for a greenspot bottle and a bowl of mee everyday. we never really chatted and so she kept giving me that CFM smile and i just kept rubbing my hard cock against my rusty school table. :(

[wet10wet]

Ah boy.....
When i doubt, whip it out!

ps... ive whip 2 points off you for posting this silly thread

[SharkMan]

So i was wondering if i could ask her out or something in the next few days.
[B](Btw our country isnt westernised... calling a girl out isnt something casual.. its serious already... Like if a girl calls me out..

WTF??? Who ever say that asking a girl out on a date is a "westernised" thing???
What century do you live in? You sound young, even old man like me is more "open minded" than you.

Maybe you should stop wasting our time, and do what your head tells you to do...

[asdfghjkl]

good man.. got more? :rolleyes:

[GGuser]

Hmm ... me asking other girls out for wlak walk ok .. friends ma

BUT THE PROBLEM IS.

This girl is different :p

Ive asked her out for a movie before.. we went out.. so dam awkward..

Never talk and everythnig.

so im wondering if asking her out again will be weird or something.


haha kena zap :D

[PacWizard]

Hmm ... me asking other girls out for wlak walk ok .. friends ma

BUT THE PROBLEM IS.

This girl is different :p

Ive asked her out for a movie before.. we went out.. so dam awkward..

Never talk and everythnig.

so im wondering if asking her out again will be weird or something.


haha kena zap :D

Bro,

CALL HER and ask her out. Send her SMS only when she did not answer your call. If she's busy or cannot make it this time, be more patience and definitely do not sound pathetic (i.e. "i miss you", "I keep thinking of u" .. etc). It's not about ego that you cannot sound pathetic but most gals get turn-off if you behave that way. Be more jovial and always smile by telling a bit of jokes and burst into a short laughter or more. You must make yourself comfortable and do not mumble.

Remember you must have lots of patience. If you want instant result and could not get it, then be prepared "to be dumped" and go on with life.

Just my thoughts.

Cheers ~

PacWizard

[randyboy73]

GGUser,

How old r u? U sound real young.. time to face up to issues like a man. If you want to be with her, strike up the courage and ask her out.. sms is only good when u don wanna be intrusive or seem overly "kancheong". Take the initiative, coz she sure as hell won't. Get some closure. There will only be 2 possibilities.. Yes, I will go out with you, or No go get yourself a life without me... see, how hard can it be?

[bigass]

Be A Man And Live W/o Regrets. Call Her If Yr Heart Is Telling U. Forget Wat Yr Thinkings Is About. F*** Care The Outcome, They Are Just Negatif Tots. :(

Don't Worry Too Much, On A Positive Notes, U Nv Noe Maybe She Is Waiting For U All These Whiles. On A Other Positive Notes, The Poor Replies In The Past Are Just Maybe U Hitting At Her At The Wrong Time.

So Forgo The Past And Ask Her Out....;)

[GGuser]

I think ill just ask her out via msn.

Ill feel uneasy talking to her on the phone .. i'd rather see her face to face .. and talk from there.

Unable to see facial expression of the other party feels weird.

[axeman24]

I think ill just ask her out via msn.

Ill feel uneasy talking to her on the phone .. i'd rather see her face to face .. and talk from there.

Unable to see facial expression of the other party feels weird.

I remember this sentence my friend once told be " Rather be a fool for one day then be a fool for the rest of your life cos you never ask" hope this will help you decide whether you should ask her out or not. Cheers.

[MMM88]

Bro,

CALL HER and ask her out. Send her SMS only when she did not answer your call. If she's busy or cannot make it this time, be more patience and definitely do not sound pathetic (i.e. "i miss you", "I keep thinking of u" .. etc). It's not about ego that you cannot sound pathetic but most gals get turn-off if you behave that way.

totally agreed....men must oso play HARD to get hor.....:D :cool:

[Deep Blue]

Someone been reading too much "Qiong Yao" novels, I guess. So what are you expecting to happen? Meet again some 20 years later to realise that she is your true love, then running on the beach towards each other, you with open arms and she with a long wavy scarf....embrace each other, rolling on the sand, 4 eyes glued together then locking lips.....:rolleyes:

[shuaige84]

i suggest you email her better la. :D

this reminds me of sec 1 time. first few weeks in a new school and i got a classmate girl girl who liked me already. i knew it becos she got another girl classmate to ask me whether i got any gf or not etc etc...

i liked her too but there was nothing i could do for her becos i only had enough money for a greenspot bottle and a bowl of mee everyday. we never really chatted and so she kept giving me that CFM smile and i just kept rubbing my hard cock against my rusty school table. :(



bro u muz be very handsome only few wks in schooll n gt girl likes u

[suteerak1099]

Opinions?

(PS : The only reason im still diong this is because one of my girl-friends had a bf..but my friend asked her whether shes interested to be with him.. she agreeed immediately)
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Sorry for no slang :P
Posted this in some Ang Moh forum. wont know if you'll strike lottery till you actually placed bets. wont know whats her response till you hear it from the horse's mouth.

besides, BGR at this stage aint gonna last forever. having her as gf for now aint gonna guarantee marriage & kids (though it can still happen).

the way i see it, no harm asking her out for a gd talk. takes 2 hands to clap anyway.

[YamCake]

Not sure when this forum becomes those "Auntie Annie" A&Q help page in those women magazine...:D

[GGuser]

hehe.. just to let you know im not THAAAT young... im of legal age anyways :P


Seems weird .. but ah.. after ''waiting'' for so loong. . i like.. bored already... Bored of her already.. casually asked her in msn if she wants to go out walk walk talk talk ro something. .. she said shes busy .. so i take that as a direct no .. a direct rejection :P

Time to move on to other girls ^^

[dolp]

(Btw our country isnt westernised... calling a girl out isnt something casual.. its serious already... Like if a girl calls me out.. i know she doesnt just want to be friends stuff like that)

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:O :O Which country are u from? Are u from Singapore or ??? Calling a girl out is not considered casual then talking about such stuff in sbf is considered casual or not ah ??? I always ask my guy friend out for coffee or meal wor so to them they think I want to be more than friends ah??? OMG !!!

Sorry ah no offence just Shocking ... :p

[block11]

hehe.. just to let you know im not THAAAT young... im of legal age anyways :P


you should know maturity does not come with age.... if someone talks and acts like a boy, dont expect people to treat him like a man :p

[Stud00]

BRO!!
"Be a Mann.. do the right thing"!! << Russel Peter's SLang!!

As Nike would say it!! "JUST DO IT"!!

If you don try, you won't know, at the most,get rejected..and so what if you get rejected, many other fishes out there, even got great white shark,whale... ba ba ba!!!

[missdawnie]

call her and tell her u got something to tell her. if she doesnt seem interested then let it go.

[Bangster]

This is a really boliao thread with no sexual inclinations and perversion.

Thus I recommend this be relocated to the lame Matters of the Heart section.

Knn TS, you are of legal age(guys who r of legal age? Wtf??) so I presumed it's 18 lah and you are talking like you have your cock stuffed high up into your ass, now very xin-ku to think openly and like a man cos you are very UPTIGHT.

Nabeh, so gu-niang and yet want to sian chabor, I think you stick to your books lah.

Wah lao, really bey tahan this type of thinking