KTV gers.

[boy_]

sorry to all bros here cuz i duno if i posted in e right forum. but tis is a newbie question as i am a newbie. so please forgive me if its kinda lame.

jus wan to ask n look at some of e views of bros here. please kindly advise.

as e title states, its abt ktv girls. recently, i heard someone mention, is it true tat ktv girls will only go for those rich ah seah kia(rich young man).?

bacsically, these girls are in tis line for the $$. why in e world would they fall for an average joe, who doesnt have money, looks or anything worthy of her?

well, tis story actually starts cuz, i haf taken a liking to one of these girls, when i +++ to my friends abt it, they all laughed me in e face. wad do i haf to offer? im not loaded, i dun drive, im not handsome n neither can i satisfy her. not only in one area, but all.

come to think of it, i myself believed it. she meets better, richer, more handsome men everyday. she can jus pick any one of them. why in devils name would she choose me? i cant gif any explaination at all. maybe they are right.mayb im to naivie.

wad do u guys think?

[V3IK]

hi boy,

good luck to you!!!! can tell you that don't pin too much hopes on such investments.... i can say is too risk to be serious abt it. But you can try your luck. End of the day, the story will still tell you...easy come easy go...

[no_faith]

go wif ur instinct n feeling..
shd it fail or a success, u have no regrets....

[stephan]

Those gals r dealing with too many kind of guy liao and they should know what kind of guy they can stick together. Maybe that gal has the concept of rich n handsome guys all "bo sim kua" :D

[LengKia]

The success rate is damn low. If you are prepare to suffer some broken heart
maybe you can give it a try. Best advice is not to start before your feelings for her develope further. STOP and change a target

[bullgod5]

yeah just play the game. dont get attached.

[Lsize]

depending how you get to know her, if you know her as a ktv gals when you know her..better forget it..

but when you know her initially without knowing her job, both of you develop some feelings, chances are higher..

good luck

[LonelyInChina]

is it true tat ktv girls will only go for those rich ah seah kia(rich young man).?

she meets better, richer, more handsome men everyday. she can jus pick any one of them. why in devils name would she choose me?
wad do u guys think?

I believe this will make you feel better.

Ah seah Kia (rich young man) also meets better, prettier, sexier KTV GIRLS every day. So if you think you dont have a chance with this girl, than she also might not have a chance with Ah Seah Kia (rich young man).

Feel better now?

[buzzing]

Brother..

Jump off the jolly roger when u are still alive....

couple of questions which u must answer truthfully..

1. can u continue to let her work in that kind of environment?

2. If yes, and U must be truthful, cos she will meet tons of men that will grope and try their luck on her. Will jealous get the better of u, even though u say u will trust that she will not do anything. Brother... we all cheong lah ok..

3. If no, are you will to support in her cost to find money to support.. aged sick mother or to support the siblings through college? Expensive choice.. but doable if both of you put extra effort in it.. cos if money is a main factor.. once its dry.. she will go back to her old trade.. brother.. its fast money.. u cannot deny that..

Love is blind.. so its better to have loved and never been loved at all.. final decision rest with u.. :)

Good luck

chip

[randyboy73]

No offence to KTV gals who happen to read this post.. I know several of them and have a genuine liking for them (i used to rent rooms to some of them so in a sense i lived with them).. to me they are like normal gals, with the only difference that they LOVE money, shopping and gossip more than the norm..

I have seen these same girls at home and at the KTV lounges and I can tell u they are totally different people when they are working.. One of them tells me she does not enjoy sex and has never had an orgasm, but when she went for short time with my buddy, my buddy told me that she came 3 times (she must have faked the Big O)..

When u decide to woo a KTV gal to be your fulltime GF, you have to be mentally strong and this is something that you will never know until you are in it. Consider the following situations:

1. When she is at work, she is scantily clad and if she works in LV, TAM, XTD, Kabuki and similar class, u can be sure that the boys will be pawing her all the time.. can u take it? Even if she says she doesnt let boys touch her, can u honestly be sure about it? Be truthful

2. even when she is working only happy hours.. can u be certain she has not gone short time with her customers? Will you know? Will you keep doubting whether is she telling the truth? are u going to wait at the lobby everynight and keep vigil?

3.Assuming events 1 & 2 do not exist, then there is your own inferiority complex.. u said u have the 4 No(s).. no loaded (money not canon), no car, no condo, no looks... then how? If u are not convinced of your own self value/worth, how can u be sure that she will be convinced that you are the right guy.. everynight, she will be meeting so many different kinds of customers who are either looking for fun, or scouting for mistressess/lovers.. can u live with the prospect that she will leave u anytime when she meets someone who fulfills any of the above categories (those that u say No)..

Brudder.. these girls are fun girls to be with and they make a hard day's work disappear when u are with them.. they deserve to be treated with DUE respect as people.. However, do also recognise that they are here to earn a living too. I am very sure that there are always cases where true love with develop in due course.. You could always be one of those that work out... My personal advice is that if you really like the girl and if she reciprocates, start of as friends going out for coffee (just like any normal date).. give it time to develop..and you will come to your own conclusion.. just makes sure that before u embark on your quest, think about those scenarios i outlined above...

To brudders out there, this is just my personal opinion and hope that i have not offended anybody in the process....

[Castrol]

well, tis story actually starts cuz, i haf taken a liking to one of these girls, when i +++ to my friends abt it, they all laughed me in e face. wad do i haf to offer? im not loaded, i dun drive, im not handsome n neither can i satisfy her. not only in one area, but all.

come to think of it, i myself believed it. she meets better, richer, more handsome men everyday. she can jus pick any one of them. why in devils name would she choose me? i cant gif any explaination at all. maybe they are right.mayb im to naivie.

wad do u guys think?

so the ktv girl also "taken a liking" to you and let you bonk for free or not? if not, i dont know what your thread is about man. :confused:

[randyboy73]

so the girl like you and let you bonk for free or not? if not, i dont know what your thread is about man. :confused:

come to think about it, bro castrol's post also makes sense.. if she lets you bonk for free, it does add another factor into your decision process.. good luck bro.

[noname123]

so the ktv girl also "taken a liking" to you and let you bonk for free or not? if not, i dont know what your thread is about man. :confused:

Abt... if fall "in love" for KTV gal...will he wear "green hat" or not. :D

[randyboy73]

Abt... if fall "in love" for KTV gal...will he wear "green hat" or not. :D

eeerrr bro.. i think green hat only when married.. but i know what u mean la!

[noname123]

eeerrr bro.. i think green hat only when married.. but i know what u mean la!

Wear green hat only applies to married meh? You SURE bo ;)

[unclesammi]

who knows an average joe might strike 4D. toto or big sweep and make it to the millionaire table.:D

[superman]

bro,

All I can say is good luck :)

[randyboy73]

Wear green hat only applies to married meh? You SURE bo ;)

tink so leh.. just like the scarlet letter used for those who kena convicted of adulteryin olden English times... last time i use "dai lu mao" my ex (she's from China) said that only applicable to married men... any bro care to confirm? :D

[noname123]

Not bad not bad....today i learn new application...Ha ha ha :D

[naemlo]

Why so many love love thing.....

[noname123]

Why so many love love thing.....

because we are human beings :D

[naemlo]

because we are human beings :D

Love love is not suppose to be in Commerical Sex discussion forum but in Aunty Agony forum. :D

[randyboy73]

Love love is not suppose to be in Commerical Sex discussion forum but in Aunty Agony forum. :D


Sometimes the line between love and sex is not clearly defined, especially when u are party to it..... think so?

[durex]

Sometimes the line between love and sex is not clearly defined, especially when u are party to it..... think so?
is it fall under the saying of women give sex to love but man give love to sex:D
just go get it young man,if the girls likes u why worry,sometimes it might be so simple they just like u lor...dont think so much,come back to us with good news ok;)

[randyboy73]

is it fall under the saying of women give sex to love but man give love to sex:D
just go get it young man,if the girls likes u why worry,sometimes it might be so simple they just like u lor...dont think so much,come back to us with good news ok;)


The highlighted portion in your quote my rubber brudder, is the holy mantra of a relationship.

[noname123]

Love love is not suppose to be in Commerical Sex discussion forum but in Aunty Agony forum. :D

Kindly refer to thread starter ;)

[noname123]

Love love is not suppose to be in Commerical Sex discussion forum but in Aunty Agony forum. :D

Kindly refer to thread starter ;)

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

u wanna try KC (Kum cheng) u can but can u take the consquences if everything goes wrong?Reminds me of my old KC thread.:o

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

u wanna try KC (Kum cheng) u can but can u take the consquences if everything goes wrong?Reminds me of my old KC thread.:o

[boy_]

haha. thanks to all bros who haf gave their advices. n sorry to all the rest of e bros whom i haf offended. i was really so stressed up abt tis thing tat i duno wad else to do. while browsing thru den logged in here, tats why, decided to ask u guys. anyway, free bonks yes, definately got, not say those sibei chio ktv girls la. but those okok one lo. last time used to love tis. but nowadays, even got free bonk or when i go ktv den some jio me go their house or wad, i oso no mood to go. haha. sorry ar, dun mean to hao lian or anything. but sometimes jus really sian lo. anyway, u bros haf helped me alot n eased my mind.

will try to make advances by tis week, see got chance anot. will update with got any r/s whether sex is included or not. haha. thanks to all bros n happy bonking!!

p.s. any bros wana chiong ktv together? pls pm . share budget. lol.

[noname123]

u wanna try KC (Kum cheng) u can but can u take the consquences if everything goes wrong?Reminds me of my old KC thread.:o

KC...end of the day...the most Lim Lim Lim ah....can i say like that or not?

:D

[Murasame666]

Hi boy_,
so how did it go? Almost a month liao, any progress on your love crusade?
I wish you the best of luck!

[Optimus_Prime]

I believe this will make you feel better.

Ah seah Kia (rich young man) also meets better, prettier, sexier KTV GIRLS every day. So if you think you dont have a chance with this girl, than she also might not have a chance with Ah Seah Kia (rich young man).

Feel better now?

And the winner of BEST POST for this thread goes to.... Bro LonelyInChina :D

will up u if I can this week

[mahalosux]

haha. thanks to all bros who haf gave their advices. n sorry to all the rest of e bros whom i haf offended. i was really so stressed up abt tis thing tat i duno wad else to do. while browsing thru den logged in here, tats why, decided to ask u guys. anyway, free bonks yes, definately got, not say those sibei chio ktv girls la. but those okok one lo. last time used to love tis. but nowadays, even got free bonk or when i go ktv den some jio me go their house or wad, i oso no mood to go. haha. sorry ar, dun mean to hao lian or anything. but sometimes jus really sian lo. anyway, u bros haf helped me alot n eased my mind.

will try to make advances by tis week, see got chance anot. will update with got any r/s whether sex is included or not. haha. thanks to all bros n happy bonking!!

p.s. any bros wana chiong ktv together? pls pm . share budget. lol.


free bonk??? Ask yourself honestly...is it a free bonk with no further string attached.... if u can do tat....u r really something.....

come on... how can a KTV gal bo dai bo chi will get involve wif a local guy and give away free bonk just like tat...surely there must be something tat she can 'make used' from u... dun tell me if a guy so handsome and sweet talk here and there can get free bonk....from them...the r not those typicl gal..u see everyday in sch, work place or bus..u can sweet talk a bit ..u can get them to b your gf...these gals ..come here wif the aim to make $$$ and not to provide 'free' r/s or bonk to their customer... u want free bonk?? oso not possible... u take care of their daily expenses, their shoppin, etc...sure got free bonk ... but ask yourself..'arent u paying more than wat u supposed to pay'.....

[CoolBlack]

Just would like to share some personal views on this issue.
Working in a KTV is like any other profession, it's just work and the women working there are just normal women.
Of course what makes them choose this trade is the money or could be also their circumstances (can't do anythings else, need money,etc.)The other factors would also be if they are locals or foreigners and their motive to be in the trade.
Like any ordinary women, they too need companion, love and also sex.
I have had lots of free Fxxk with KTV gals, some ONS and some even lasted for years.
I am not good looking, rich or young but I guess the chemistry,luck and opportunity is very key.
There is this one gal that I truely like alot, she was very pretty and very popular in the this KTV, so needless to say there were tons of guys trying everything to get her laid.
She made lots of money throught gifts and monies by these suitors, but none of them got her to bed.
Fortunately, luck was with me, she was my FB during her stay in SG which lasted about a month.
During this time, we did it almost everyday.After she returned home, I visited a couple of times and the feeling was still the same.
Just visited her again recently after about 2 years absent, the feeling is still great.
Haizz, maybe if i'm not married, i'll marry her!
But then again nothing is certain in life.....maybe she would cheat my money and run away! ha ha
Life is short, make the best of it.

Just my views.....

[dap26]

Me feel tat where gt such nice thing as free bonk..In the end also lan lan pay for their expense or gifts...At first she might give u free for the first time so u tot ho sae liao gt free bonk..then follow by paying for their expenses or buying gift which u tik she is yr gf shld be nv mind loh juz pay....So in the end,issit a free bonk?

[best123]

there's no end to it once you have started....

[CoolBlack]

Agree with Bro dap26, but fortuantely for me i did not buy any expensive gifts or spent too much..i am very cheapo :D

Hmmm, maybe they like me becos of my "skills"...:D

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

come to think of it, i myself believed it. she meets better, richer, more handsome men everyday. she can jus pick any one of them. why in devils name would she choose me? i cant gif any explaination at all. maybe they are right.mayb im to naivie.

wad do u guys think?

when u can think this way,u r still not beyond redemption.I hope what u write and what u really think & do coincides cos if they dont then u are in deep trouble.too many such threads around liao.the answers u want are everywhere.Go chiong with an open & clear mind and just enjoy the moments while it lasted cos it's not gonna last u forever.;)

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

KC...end of the day...the most Lim Lim Lim ah....can i say like that or not?

:D

of cos can,lim lim lim lots of green tea~:p

[Rof|maoxz]

KC...end of the day...the most Lim Lim Lim ah....can i say like that or not?



Ya Lor..... Lim Milo Peng eh sai bor har? :D

[newbadass]

Just find it very strange. I see so many posts that say "I am not rich, not handsome etc etc blah blah", but how come nobody admits "I got no charm and I am just average in bed"?

Is it because we are supposed to draw the conclusion that those guys have charisma and huge cocks, that's why the girl is attracted to them despite the lack of money and looks?

Stay tuned for "Myssssteriessss of Human Ssssexual Behaviour", brought to you by New "The Snake" BadAss! :D

[dap26]

Agree with Bro dap26, but fortuantely for me i did not buy any expensive gifts or spent too much..i am very cheapo :D

Hmmm, maybe they like me becos of my "skills"



Wah bro u so ho sae loh...unlike me hv to spent some expensive gifts..:D$$ become the main factor...

[mahalosux]

Me feel tat where gt such nice thing as free bonk..In the end also lan lan pay for their expense or gifts...At first she might give u free for the first time so u tot ho sae liao gt free bonk..then follow by paying for their expenses or buying gift which u tik she is yr gf shld be nv mind loh juz pay....So in the end,issit a free bonk?

very the true loh....in the end all the exp gifts add up ..the value is much more than the so called free bonk u can get.....haizzz....

unless u very lucky...can find KTV gals who never pass primary sch math.....:D

[medicheng]

can play just play.... cannot play then siam... simple as that... dun need think and think one lah

[dap26]

very the true loh....in the end all the exp gifts add up ..the value is much more than the so called free bonk u can get.....haizzz....

unless u very lucky...can find KTV gals who never pass primary sch math.....:D



but seems like those gals is even smarter than us even they BTC when comes to $$...haizz...

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

but seems like those gals is even smarter than us even they BTC when comes to $$...haizz...

not that they are smart,just that some of us guys not so "clever" and fall onto their tactics.some of us fell to it willingly and unwittingly unfortunately.

[dap26]

not that they are smart,just that some of us guys not so "clever" and fall onto their tactics.some of us fell to it willingly and unwittingly unfortunately.


Ya tat y traps r all ard...It juz tat see whether u wana step into it or siam..

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Ya tat y traps r all ard...It juz tat see whether u wana step into it or siam..

whichever bros they knw me ever step into these traps will get it frm me.this is just to repay those who had helped me up when i was down and out.it sounds a little harsh but i am sure it will goes a long way.:)

[dap26]

whichever bros they knw me ever step into these traps will get it frm me.this is just to repay those who had helped me up when i was down and out.it sounds a little harsh but i am sure it will goes a long way.:)



Ya bro these trap can be dangerous so stay away if possible.Glad tat u hv recover from it..;)

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Ya bro these trap can be dangerous so stay away if possible.Glad tat u hv recover from it..;)

not only recovered,even when i hear ppl mentioning abt it turns me off.:o

[FOCH]

Agree that nothing is for free... free bonk? well, it depends on how you want to measure it, no need to pay money, but with (like some Brudders say) Kum Cheng...

Take for example, I am old (over 40), not handsome (just average), don't know good or not in bed (rating : given by partner is 好猛，好爽！) but still get to know many PRC, Viet, Thai girls, working in KTV, pubs, HC, etc.

Yes, apart from wanting to earn money, these are still human beings, flesh and blood. They are sisters of some people, daugthers of some old folks, cousins, etc. They also need normal human/ social interactions, not centered around money.

This PRC ger from KTV I know, went out with her many times, got drunk (at work) with other customers I had to send her back home many times. But never one single time I did anything to her or with her.

Many brudders might not believe, (waah... drunk 'ho say liao' but, face it, one cannot make love, or have sex with a drunken lady, because she might just puke and throw up on ones body.. yeeeeeeeeeeeee yucks)

At the end, there was a good relationship that developed. The ger bring me to their sisters 'jie mei' gatherings and introduce me as boyfriend, got into their social circle and hence, I truly understand that they are also really people like you and me.

Pay a price. Sure, don't tell me if you go out with a Singaporean girl, you don't pay for makan, cinema shows, the odd shopping item, the cute little teddy bear or the bouquet of flowers? the difference is that she does not work in KTV so the perception is different.

The acid test, not test, but fact was that when I was down and out, lost money on investments, and had other problems, this PRC KTV ger (who everyone thought was just out for my money) helped me out. So, tell me, is this Kum Cheng or not??

Some friends say this is 'using long line to hook big fish' (放长线钓大鱼）Is she after something in the longer run? PR? CPF? or what?

Others including close relatives say "Enjoy while it last... and hope it last long enough to enjoy...." simply because human relationships nowadays are very fragile, they break-up for the most ridiculous reasons. Money, fame, sex, whatever, are just common excuses to break up.

So for those who want to get into relationships, like the other brudders say
(1) Can you, on your part accept the dual role (your ordinary girlfriend and KTV ger at night) of your partner?
(2) Can you fully trust her? (as if we would/wouldn't trust a chio Singaporean girlfriend?)
(3) Can you help her, (that is if she wants you to help) get out of this lifestyle?

Just to quote another PRC KTV Ger whom I got to live together with, but broke up later "you no longer can give me what I want" (你已经不能给我，我所要得到的）

But to conclude, the most recent KTV Ger I knew and also met up with her in China said "It is not whether one doesn't love the other or whether one has deeply hurt the other, but in the end, it is whether one can really treasure the other" (并不是谁不爱谁，或谁伤害了谁，最终是谁不珍惜谁）

Treat your friend as a human being first...
Thread with caution, but be free to just let your feelings flow....

Hope this is not too long a post. Sorry to others who find it boring.

[newbadass]

Yes, apart from wanting to earn money, these are still human beings, flesh and blood. They are sisters of some people, daugthers of some old folks, cousins, etc. They also need normal human/ social interactions, not centered around money.


Yah man... imagine when I am sitting with a girl in KTV, I am thinking. "Ho say liao! I am rabbaing someone's daughter for $20..."

Later when I am bonking. "Wah seh! I'm fucking someone's mother for $80... CIM some more!" :D

That aside, what you say is true. They are also human... etc etc blah blah. And they also need money. But somehow many chiongsters want to be the ones they have normal/human relations with instead of the one they have commercial relations with, and set out to do so at all cost. The girl is not out to trap them, but they are running to her and begging her to trap them! And then when they get their hopes dashed and their hearts broken, somehow it's the girl's fault. People are damn funny, right?

After the session, the girl just wants to take her tips and fuck off, but there will always be one or two sticky customers who insist on offering supper and a ride home. Sometimes the girl just eng siew to go along, and the customer will see it as encouragement to sian her some more.

All in all, I can only say this - we created our own problems, so as responsible adults, let's clear up our own mess. Like one bro said earlier, don't trouble trouble unless trouble troubles you! :cool:

[gp8640]

I got to know a KTV gal from MLY. Like what some bro mention sex and money is not the key. What she really wanted was a listening ear for her problems, a "BF" when she needed a ride for her weekly shopping in JB with her sisters. They are simple people when they are not working just like any other gal, eating, videos and gossip.
Met up with her family when they visited SGP. Chatted like friends and discuss about anything under the sun. It is a simple relationship. Nothing "structured". It all started with small chats in the room, to SMS to dinner before her work.
It is our mindset. If we have the mindset that she is in debted to you because you splash some money, then the success rate is very low.
She ask me not to go to KTV to look for her even she needed to clock some hours. She only allows me to go when I have entertainment budget.
It takes 2 to clap. Some acid test along the way can help you check the course and direction you are heading.
PS. She mention that money is not the key for her although is important. Personality and character is key. She had one rich BF which she felt it is not what she wanted as the BF control all her movement.

[gp8640]

I got to know a KTV gal from MLY. Like what some bro mention sex and money is not the key. What she really wanted was a listening ear for her problems, a "BF" when she needed a ride for her weekly shopping in JB with her sisters. They are simple people when they are not working just like any other gal, eating, videos and gossip.
Met up with her family when they visited SGP. Chatted like friends and discuss about anything under the sun. It is a simple relationship. Nothing "structured". It all started with small chats in the room, to SMS to dinner before her work.
It is our mindset. If we have the mindset that she is in debted to you because you splash some money, then the success rate is very low.
She ask me not to go to KTV to look for her even she needed to clock some hours. She only allows me to go when I have entertainment budget.
It takes 2 to clap. Some acid test along the way can help you check the course and direction you are heading.
PS. She mention that money is not the key for her although is important. Personality and character is key. She had one rich BF which she felt it is not what she wanted as the BF control all her movement.

[mahalosux]

but seems like those gals is even smarter than us even they BTC when comes to $$...haizz...

off cse i know...kekekeke...u see when they go PPC remit money...the stacks of 50 bills..the way they flip and count....is even more accurate and faster than the calculator...kekekekkeke...


is just tat i wan to put across the message..where got PRC willing to go in2 a transaction whereby they r at the loosing end...even when i talk to those chinese biz associates..the way they go into those small details...machiam like they scare u 'cheat' their $$$....

[dap26]

off cse i know...kekekeke...u see when they go PPC remit money...the stacks of 50 bills..the way they flip and count....is even more accurate and faster than the calculator...kekekekkeke...


is just tat i wan to put across the message..where got PRC willing to go in2 a transaction whereby they r at the loosing end...even when i talk to those chinese biz associates..the way they go into those small details...machiam like they scare u 'cheat' their $$$....



Ya loh who dun wan benefits instead of losses...They sure knw wat to do when comes in dealing....

[mahalosux]

Ya loh who dun wan benefits instead of losses...They sure knw wat to do when comes in dealing....

tat is y.... sometimes those FOC thingy sounds funny .... after all... oni they know themselves know best whether they really get FOC.....;)

[newbadass]

tat is y.... sometimes those FOC thingy sounds funny .... after all... oni they know themselves know best whether they really get FOC.....;)

That's not the funny part.
The funniest part is after the act, the guy will feel obliged to mention "Dude! She gave me FOC!" every 5 minutes. Really cute :D

[mahalosux]

That's not the funny part.
The funniest part is after the act, the guy will feel obliged to mention "Dude! She gave me FOC!" every 5 minutes. Really cute :D

then ask him..every 5 mins ...ask the gal ' Babe..y keep giving me FOC?'....:D