Discussion. Advise needed

[Punder]

My friend is working as a floor manager in one of a fast food outlets.
He is in mid 20s.
One day, his collegues a 16 yo girl(those wild type) jio him out.
Soon after they ended up having sex after the 16 yo girl offer her service citing she in need of cash.
The guy paid her and they went off happily.

Recently the girl starts to ask money from the guy and the guy refuse to give her any.
She told her collegue that she is very angry and will report the matter to the police.

Will my poor good ol' friend gets into any trouble? :cool:

genuine advise in this matter is deeply appreciated :D

[Frankiestine]

Depends..if at point when they had sex was she already over 16...but then again it so easy for the gal to cry rape and the guy gets into shit..

[Punder]

Depends..if at point when they had sex was she already over 16...but then again it so easy for the gal to cry rape and the guy gets into shit..

confirm already over 16..

btw is there any time frame stipulated should a bitch report to the authorities in a case if she really wanna frame my fren and cry rape?

cb one la she.. knn... got the money still wanna extort..

[devil069]

Since she is over 16 yrs, I dun think there is a charge. As for the time frame, there should not be any more evidence since much time has passed. She needs to go for a medical check-up for signs of forced entry since she wanted to cry rape. Anyway why dun your friend threaten her back by saying that she is extorting money from him? Heehee

[Punder]

Since she is over 16 yrs, I dun think there is a charge. As for the time frame, there should not be any more evidence since much time has passed. She needs to go for a medical check-up for signs of forced entry since she wanted to cry rape. Anyway why dun your friend threaten her back by saying that she is extorting money from him? Heehee

it has been a month since my friend bonk her...

my friend is married and he just hope it will go away soon..

is there any minimum age to be prostitute?:confused:

[XboxSG]

Pros is not a legal profession, where to find the legal age?

[yankim3]

even if shes over 16, she can cry rape. thought it might be in flavour to your friend since it happen so long and she only report it now. but it will have other effects if hes being taken to court. what will his family and wife thinks? things will turn upside down for your friend.:o

[yankim3]

it has been a month since my friend bonk her...

my friend is married and he just hope it will go away soon..

is there any minimum age to be prostitute?:confused:

thats no legal prostitute for singaporeans, the only legal ones are the thais in the $40 hse:o

[prince_81]

even if your friend will not get charged for underage sex
but if the gal cry rape, your friend still have to undergo all the hassle of the investigation and stuff.

[covenn]

thought it might be in flavour to your friend since it happen so long and she only report it now.

i beg to differ. the girl can alwaz say that she was traumatised, scared bla bla bla until finally she come to terms n decide to report to the police.

[peter73heng]

My concern is more on how's yr fren going to face his family than the threat from the gal though :rolleyes:

Hope the gal wake up from her ideas :cool:

[B-free]

Based on what you said about your friend, he is in a lose - lose situation.

Firstly if the girl is over 16 ( assuming fast food hire about 16 yrs old ) legally its Alright. However, in this case, I assume the girl is his subordinate, than he will have to face the management. Most companies, especially fast food fown upon relationship in the same outlet. :(

Secondly, if the girl cry rape, he have a hell of explaination to do, not only to the cops, but also the company. He will be thought of using his position to take advantage of her. :mad:

My advise, change job. Word of wisdom, never eat & shit at the same place, wait stinky.

[forumer]

thats no legal prostitute for singaporeans, the only legal ones are the thais in the $40 hse:o

dun forget the Cat 100 and Cat 150 too...

[asdfghjkl]

won't go to jail but as others had mentioned.. fate may be worse since family, company, society, etc..

btw.. is advice needed..

[sammyboyfor]

genuine advise in this matter is deeply appreciated :D

The title should be "Discussion. ADVICE needed"

Your last sentence should be ".. genuine ADVICE regarding this matter..."

"Advise" is a verb. :)

[RedJacket]

Recently the girl starts to ask money from the guy and the guy refuse to give her any.
She told her collegue that she is very angry and will report the matter to the police.

Will my poor good ol' friend gets into any trouble?

Maybe you can ask your friend to "agree" to pay the $. Then set up camera and voice recorder to record down what she had said. The next time she threaten this sort of thing, then your friend can threaten back her. This is taught by my friend who is a debt collector who say "strike before others can and you win half the battle."

[The_Unrepentant]

genuine advise in this matter is deeply appreciated

frm today onwards, tell ur friend to eat all his meals in the toilet. i think he will find a solution by doing tat.:D

[noname123]

The title should be "Discussion. ADVICE needed"

Your last sentence should be ".. genuine ADVICE regarding this matter..."

"Advise" is a verb. :)

Wah Pianz!!!! Ah Sam....u have better open an English language school...

You not tire meh? :D

[reyes_1234]

Bro, I think your friend should arrange another meeting with that girls, and give her the money 1 last time.Try use a handphone to record the conversation between them,If succeefuil, your friend can use this as a evdience to shoot back on her.

[Jumbo68]

Once she is over 16, she is legally allowed to give consensus sex. To cry for rape is not easy, she must be able to prove it. She must explain how she was forced into having sex, fear imposed on her, how she got to know you, why and how she was there, any physical injury, any struggling, past exposure and many more. She will also be warned of seroius consequences if the police find her story fishy. From my personal point of view, if this is a pure concensus sex, don't worry, your friend is all right.

If your friend really want to get this off his mind, introduce this girl to a friend that is willing to pay her for sex, must be reasonsable fee, not something too attractive to refuse. Arrange it in a hotel, take her picture secretly, pay her and leave the place without having sex with her. Just claim that you are not feeling well. Do not have sex with her. This will help you to prove to the court that she is all out for money if you were to be arrested.
This was a true plot that was used in Singapore years ago when a women rescued her husband from jailed after spending 13 years behind bars for concensus sex that became rape.

[geckoSG]

Wah Pianz!!!! Ah Sam....u have better open an English language school...

You not tire meh? :D


Boss strikes again! I love it when he does that! :D

[noruleboysg]

i don't think your friend will be in deep trouble as she is over 16 second your friend did pay for her service... :)

as maybe she is his subordinate, i don't think management will care as it is their personnel life outside :)

[noname123]

Boss strikes again! I love it when he does that! :D

Like that you join his English school lor...:D

[Frankiestine]

This was a true plot that was used in Singapore years ago when a women rescued her husband from jailed after spending 13 years behind bars for concensus sex that became rape.

Bro actually seriously this taxi driver guy, some how i got this feeling that he did rape the prostituite...probably he pick her up from those nite spot then knowing she is pros he tried to coerce her to do it with him, she probably sian rejected him...he got piss off rape her...she cry rape he got convicted but then got over turn just becos she is found out to be a pros...if you had watched the show "The Accused" which was played by Jodie Foster as the lead character...she was dressed very seductively and danced seducely with the guys..so they taught she was game and easy picking but the question that begs to be answered was..does it mean a woman who dressess sexily and seductively is a open invitation to be laid?

[Xgenre]

Maybe you can ask your friend to "agree" to pay the $. Then set up camera and voice recorder to record down what she had said. The next time she threaten this sort of thing, then your friend can threaten back her. This is taught by my friend who is a debt collector who say "strike before others can and you win half the battle."

Bingo, that's what I will do too. A lot of handphones can record voices and videos nowadays. Get her to unconsciously admit a few things and your friend should be fine. Get her to admit that the sex is consensual, that she was above 16 at the time of the incident, that she is blackmailing your friend for more money.

If I want to play punk, I will make a copy of this recording and blackmail her back, telling her I will go to the police with the recording of what she has said. I will get a rtf or a naked photo at least! :cool:

[Castrol]

Recently the girl starts to ask money from the guy and the guy refuse to give her any.
She told her collegue that she is very angry and will report the matter to the police.



the girl report police then say la. btw where this girl working har? :D

[carnivore33]

the girl report police then say la. btw where this girl working har? :D

Brother Castrol... are u intending to seek her out and to educate her on moral and ethical issues?

[Castrol]

Brother Castrol... are u intending to seek her out and to educate her on moral and ethical issues?

yes bro, you got it half right. i intend to give her a wonderful long and hard one so she will never want to bother other men ever again. :D

[carnivore33]

yes bro, you got it half right. i intend to give her a wonderful long and hard one so she will never want to bother other men ever again. :D

thought so... gives true meaning to " give her a piece of my mind"...hmmmm sexual connotations involved? Kekeke

[alf98]

Although she's over 16 still she can create havock!! Think of the family.....so just pay her again but this time record it.......Another thing is tell your wife about it so that get her help and support....or else U might be staying in jail for somedays and losing your job in between!!! My humble advice!!:)

[stephan]

The title should be "Discussion. ADVICE needed"

Your last sentence should be ".. genuine ADVICE regarding this matter..."

"Advise" is a verb. :)


hello Sam,
I think I know u better now. Once I have seen the title of this thread, I'm expected u will say something here! :D

[Da Vinci]

oh bro.... i guess everyone in the forum shud know by now!!!with sammyboyfor's constant reminders....

yet, everyone else is still committing the mistake!

[yankim3]

Once she is over 16, she is legally allowed to give consensus sex. To cry for rape is not easy, she must be able to prove it. She must explain how she was forced into having sex, fear imposed on her, how she got to know you, why and how she was there, any physical injury, any struggling, past exposure and many more. She will also be warned of seroius consequences if the police find her story fishy. From my personal point of view, if this is a pure concensus sex, don't worry, your friend is all right.

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but singapore law protect the girl more right? i remember thats one time when this army guy, bring this friend home, they had sex, i cant remember whether she was drunk, then they sleep, wake up, she use his hp to make a call to her friend, then sleep again. the next day cry rape. there wasnt a struggle or anything. if she was rape, then she can wake up and sleep again? hmm but the guy kana big time.:o

[boon huat]

the best is ask ur friend not to do anything...just ignore the girl....
as long as the girl is of 16 years old during intercourse then he's safe. Only troublesome thing is facing the company management and accounting to the police and worst of all to his family, should the girl report to police. :p

The police wun anyhow charge an accused for offence of rape. They will go thru several stages of interviews of both parties, questionings etc. As long as ur friend tells the truth that they had paid sex then he's safe.

The corrobating evidence will be the lapse of one month after the intercourse then comes the police report(if the girl makes the report). The police will investigate and find out more about the girl's mental and physical state in the days after the intercourse. If her family, friends and colleague all testified to the police that she appeared normal and not in state of trauma in the days after the alleged rape....then u think the police will believe ur friend or the girl. Sending the girl for lie detector test she will probably fail. No DPP will risk approving such case to proceed for court proceedings then in the end become a big fake....

Dont complicate matters by doing entrapment doing taping of conversations etc :)

[Frankiestine]

but singapore law protect the girl more right? i remember thats one time when this army guy, bring this friend home, they had sex, i cant remember whether she was drunk, then they sleep, wake up, she use his hp to make a call to her friend, then sleep again. the next day cry rape. there wasnt a struggle or anything. if she was rape, then she can wake up and sleep again? hmm but the guy kana big time.:o

actually i was watching a CSI prog where this sch gals cried rape but the team of CSI investigator called their bluff becos according to them in every case of rape where force is used, there will be signs of trauma to the pussy area...and CSI show i understand is based on actual investigative methods used by the police in states...

[tungsten]

Likely to be okay. Tell him to stay calm and tell the truth.

However the stress while under going through the investigation will probably make him sweat like mad.

No offense though... If your friend is lying about the paid sex part, the stress from the interogation is probably enough to make him crack...

[BustLover]

oh bro.... i guess everyone in the forum shud know by now!!!with sammyboyfor's constant reminders....

yet, everyone else is still committing the mistake!

Not everyone lah. Only those who did not sign up for Sam's Advice class as Sam did not advise everybody to give good advices mah.

[Prince Royale]

Screw the little whore. Blackmail is illegal and against the law. Next time she asks for money have it recorded.