From 1st date to sex, how long?

[HardCock]

We have a "How long did you not have sex with your wife or gf?" thread so for my curiosity, I started a "how long does it take to sleep with your partner from 1st date?"...for me, it will take at least 2 months before I'm ready. I'm talking about serious gf...not flings or ons.

[jassonlo]

4 me, me took 2 wks to bonk my gf. who is now my oc.:p

[siambee]

the longest i have take is 1&1/2 yrs before she agreed to sleep with me and that relationship last 4yrs... then the fastest is 2wks, hold half a yr relationship. :)

[sleaguepunter]

my first gf was 91 days, started paktor on Sept 11 2001 (yes that fateful day which resulted in easy to remember) and end up on her parents' bed on 10 dec 2001. :rolleyes:

My wife even shorter one month plus only. hehe... :D

[jimmyccc]

around 1 week... relationship lasted 5 years...

[dirtymonk82]

those whom i get to bonk within the 1st week will not last...those whom die die will not let me do anything except petting...i kick them away..hahaa

[dc7176]

3 month from 1st date... now my CO!!

other flings, the most one month from 1st date. if more than one month, change target liao... :p

[tk-king]

my longest was app. 2 years
shortest 2 weeks

[machoking]

shortest time is 1 week and longest time is 4 mths :D

[asdfghjkl]

still waiting for her.. :(

[jinrenhe]

"how long does it take to sleep with your partner from 1st date?"...for me, it will take at least 2 months before I'm ready. I'm talking about serious gf...not flings or ons.

Does sleep die die must include sexual intercourse?

I once had a gf where we progressed pretty fast... at the end of very 1st date, we ended up french kissing on the bench under the tree at clark quay. After that, we progressed a little bit more with each date... like from only allow fondling with her clothes on to only touching her breasts to finally fingering...
Eventually, we wld sleep together (naked) but intercourse was one thing off the bound... she said unless we married, SEX is confirmed no. But other than intercourse, we did everything else... BJ me, 69, sleep naked together...

[JIKED D]

shortest was 4 days

longest was less than 3 months :D

[ass_robber]

got one gf - 1st date kiss, 2nd date get to finger her, 3rd date she do bj with cim for me, 4th date I get to break her virgin, 7th date I get to do her ass, and every other date was spent in my house, making love until she got fed up, wondering why we only make love and nothing else. of course, that was many years back.

current gf took me 4mths.

[ofey]

I think I take the embarrasing prize here for the longest. *yes I can see all the LOSER signs come up*

Started dating wife when we were 18, went steady about 2months later, she broke up with me 3 years later, NO HOME RUN =>NO SEX. All 3 bases covered so furthest was oral.

We both dated other people after we broke up, I had my fun with 3 other girls but NO SEX again. I don't know about her but she tells me that she didn't either. Finally bonked her AGED 28.

So 10 years for me?:rolleyes:

[Green Man]

7th date I get to do her ass, .
U are a real ass robber :D

[demonic]

5 hours :)

[Mr Canon]

Just after dinner

[pokeman71]

For me, bro who read my post on housewife and divorcee.

For housewife, actually i know her for about a year but is around the school. The first time we go out, just few hour we ended up in Hamilton hotel liao.

For divorcee, is about 3dating, i up her in my car liao.

The Best is way back in 1992, a xiao mei in hair saloon, the afternoon get her nos, night time pich her up, by mid night up her in my uncle car.(uncle went oversea so i drive the car)

Thank

[Frankiestine]

We have a "How long did you not have sex with your wife or gf?" thread so for my curiosity, I started a "how long does it take to sleep with your partner from 1st date?"...for me, it will take at least 2 months before I'm ready. I'm talking about serious gf...not flings or ons.

one month...:D

[Kyser Soze]

1.5 months. :D Somehow it's considered relatively slow, while fellow samsters can do it within weeks.:(

[ZIZOUZIZOU]

Almost immediately when you fuck her in your mind. If you were meeting at Chinatown, and she knew you were fucking her in your mind, then it will take another 10 mins to walk and check into the hotel to fuck her.

Nowadays, it doesn't take that long to do it on your first date. You can skip the dinner and just go to a quiet spot to feast on her.

[angie II]

10 mins..
serious la..
no kidding..
how izzit possible?
chatline..
b4 1st date oredi acquainted..
wen?
years ago.. :rolleyes:

[ass_robber]

U are a real ass robber :D

I like your avatar, where did you get it?

ya, I was 19 and she was 17, first time tried anal... got a shock that she actually break out in sweat all over.... I mean I didn't see that much sweat during vaginal penatration. It still excite me to see girls sweating all over when I do their ass.

but these days it usually takes 2 - 3 dates before I get to bonk them, and I ditch them within 2 weeks, so my gf will never find out.

[HardCock]

Can see many bros very good at bedding gers. Well, but for me, it's still too tough for me to fuck her in just a few outings. If I love the ger, I'll make her very comfortable before I zero in. For flings of cos any time also can...that's bcos they are out for fun too...so easier. For my gfs, either they pretend to be innocent or what, I find it harder to break the vaginal walls, haha...definitely not in few weeks time...am I living in the ancients? :o

[sexster2006]

Well ... just to share ... for me ... it ranges from 2 to 4 months ...

Kinda of slow but then again ...

Slow and steady wins the race ... :p

[HardCock]

Happy New Year!!! 2007 will be a great year for all samsters. May all your wishes come true and have more bonks in the coming year!!! :D

[soul_vision]

Hahaha ....... so funny .. personally , i got my wife within a month when we first dated ten years ago ..... along the way, i bonk a saloon gal within 2 days,a sales lady within a week and others ONS within an hours ...... too many to remmeber now haha . . . . . . . . . .

[suktiruk]

First met 22/02/03, first kiss 2hrs later. first time have sex 03/03/03. this date is easy for me to remember cos triple 3's

[Grey]

Statisticly speaking, it only takes 7 hours for a girl to decide if she wants to have sex with you from the time she first meets you.

Brudders who know how to push the right buttons can reduce the time deficit. ;)

Personally, the shortest would be around 2 hours (much booze and dancing involved).

Longest I have waited for sex? Hmm... current record is 6 months.

[BodyHeat]

Somewhere in early 1998, got to know a girl in pub on Mon, about 4hrs later went hotel, she only PCC for me.

On Wed, fuck like no tomorrow. Then after sometime, got to know she is married, I siam far far, then lost contact

[lims2006]

It takes me around 6 months that I got to have her and now we are married.

[jng1103]

Does ONS counted? If yes, i did it within few hrs after few rounds of booze :p

jimbo

[EyeLevel]

hmmmm quickest was 10mins on first date ... that r/s lasted 1 yr..
2 weeks was the longest time I took ... that r/s lasted 3 yrs..

FB,... took 3 dates.... .. :)

Cheers!
EyeLevel

[jng1103]

hmmmm quickest was 10mins on first date ... that r/s lasted 1 yr..
Cheers!
EyeLevel

10min? :eek: like how?

Beng: hi, i'm Ah Beng... nice meeting u...
Lian: Hi Beng, me ah lian. so how?
Beng: how? walao... meet liao must go H81 lor...
Lian: walao... u so kangcheong meh? no need to drink, eat and tcss meh?
Beng: wat for? the ending also the same... i bonk u... u shiok shiok...
Lian: ok lor... watever lor...
Beng: quick we go fetch a cab to nearby H81... i buay tahan liao :p

whole conversation took 5min, and the cab reached the H81 in 3min, then took 2min to undress? like dat?

[ZIZOUZIZOU]

Mr Hardcock,

I had a friend who had a steady for almost a year and a half and when she left him for one of his friends. The first thing we asked was whether he had fucked her. He said no and all of us started scolding him for being stupid. The lesson learned is how do you know how long it's going to last, so fuck when the iron is hot.

[newbird26]

Mine is mostly less than 2 weeks

[HardCock]

Kekeke, so I can safely assume that in a bgr, the guy most probably have fucked the ger upside down already lah, haha. I have a female friend, 28 already, keep denying she had sex with her bf of 3 yrs...say she still a virgin, haha...how can...if I'm her bf, sure fuck her after a few months...she's quite hot man...not bad lah.

I used to have a gf who pretends to b innocent also. Dated her for 4 months and no sex. She said she wanted to save it for the wedding day. Later I found out from friends that she's quite a horny bitch. She had been doing it almost every other day with her ex-bf before they broke up. I felt cheated. I guess she wanted to treat me as a spare tyre or "cai tuo". So I decided to leave her, of cos, not without bedding her. Had to use all my skills to convince her that nite. Then it's FnF...fuck and forget.

[whitegals]

actually it's quite easy to look at one's face and know whether she's fuckable.
when you see she's sexy and hot.. surely she has fiery lust inside her. This is the easiest babe to be fucked.

I've picked up girls from pub, disco, street, seminars, etc..
they're not those cheap girls.. but they have face written 'cum and fuck me'.
But my activities are much reduced since I have gf.

I seriously beg to differ bro.

Those gals who dress sexy and have hot hot bods in clubs know that they're pretty and act bitchy for they have a choice, due to the enormous amount of men who are willing to throw everything their way, cars, wallets, watches etc, but to get them into bed with you is a whole new different experience, for they know they can get you to spend money without having to jump into bed with you. You have to either get them drunk or get them to think you're some big movie producer or director.

From my experience, it is way easier to get those guai guai types to go to drop their knickers for you. The ones who walk around with their legs clamped tight and preach of bible sayings are the ones who can hardly wait to get them open for you.

The longest time it took me, was never, she dumped me after finding someone richer and a bigger wallet. We went out for about 2 months.

The shortest time I took, 20mins plus minus abit, to score with a policewoman. We lasted for about just over a year. :D

[HardCock]

another place to easily got a date is when you go salsa dancing. But too bad many of them are just not my type either they're old or not attractive enough.

I once danced with a sexy fitness instructor. She was really hot. But I failed to make any progress.
But IRC wasn't a bad idea to find those horny lonely ugly gals:
- I meet up once with air stewardess and dated her for a few weeks. But too bad she rejected me :mad:
Meeting air stewardess in IRC was really unusual encounter.

- And then I again met up with 3 others which were really horny while we were chatting. But once I met up with them, I wanna to puke. They look so ugly.

Bro, wat u said is indeed very true. From my friends' and my own observations and experience, the better-looking ones are more difficult to bed. They know they have the qualities and will play very hard to get. Most of the time, you will probably need to spend a bomb on them before even getting a kiss. Well, of cos unless you are very handsome lah. Our conclusion is that, average looking can liao...dun have to be very hot. Haha, like a friend said..."can fuck can liao, what u want? super chio babe...fuck first lah." He's indeed the man. I can't lah...for gf, I really need to make sure she's ready.

[Offspring]

took me 3 jugs and a few hours to up one chio mlif a few days ago. :p

[Red_Perrier1099]

And this continued only for 15 minutes before I undressed her...
It only took me 1 hour in the 1st date before I fucked her..

Damned.. the next day.. she rang me again.. and we had it in her house.
hahaa
But soon she wanted a steady relationship and I dumped her..

I also got one lobang lately.
This girl is actually my neighbour but we didnt talk to each other until after about 3 years. One day we went to disco (only second time we go out) and she got a bit high after drinking and started doing dirty dance and kissing me. I told her my hands feel cold and she put my hands between her tighs to keep them warm!!

I thought with all the signals she gave me , can up already. However, as I only wanted to have ONS with her and I m not ready to have a relationship with her, I decided not to up her. I am afraid after upping her, I can't run away as she is my neighbour. :o

[DavidCheng]

Hahaha, for me, she (my OC) only allows me to have sex after marriage. :D

God knows after marriage, realised that she is boring dead pig and know too late to regret. Every night, she wants me to go home early for grace and ask me to bonk her every night even on her big AUNTY days. Really messy! She even placed a piece of mat to soak her stint juice.

Luckily before her, I had a few other gals which took me 1 week to 5 months.

Should not have settled with this dead fat PIG not working some more.
Really a mistake. :eek:

[DavidCheng]

seems many have similar fate with not sexified with own wife.
I just realize having a too decent wife might not be good alternative. Firstly she'll be too conservative to try many stuffs, and secondly her sex desire could not match ours..

thinking of this I start to support cohabitation as a good solution to find best sex partner.

Yah lor. Luckily I don't have any daughter and have 2 useless sons that only know how to fuck around. Sometimes, I wonder whether I am coming home or brothel when my useless sons are with their cheapo gals. :eek:

[soul_vision]

Yo Bro,

i am neither a monk nor priest, but after reading all the recent post, i felt obligated to share something here, those who can fuck well were taught by many fuckers, what i trying to say here, if your wife or GF can't fuck means they are inexperience.......

i used to have two gfs which the first GF is my wifey now and steady with me for 10yrs . . . like you say .... she can't fuck and not even foreplay. Making love like obligation and routine for her.....

4yrs ago ... when i still have my present wife .... i was with another GF for 2 years ....... fuck was the greatest things in life ... we had SM, cosplay ... public fuck, CIM , fuck in changing room ,....... you name it i had it from her ..........

Eventually, she left me for a AUDI TT guy, i was oversea when she broke the news to me ..... ended up i paid the sub - card bill for like 5k ........

It's not the money but my heart was broken into pieces ... hehe ...i beg her to come back to me and she literally called the guy to pick her up in front of me ........

My friend, the conclusion is , be contented with what you had ... you may envy others but be wary of what you wish for ...........

I am a happy man now .. my wife can't fuck well cos' she is innocent ....

Thank you and that's my 5cents opinion.

Soul (up me if you think i am correct but dun zap cos' you disagree)
:D

[EyeLevel]

10min? :eek: like how?

Beng: hi, i'm Ah Beng... nice meeting u...
Lian: Hi Beng, me ah lian. so how?
Beng: how? walao... meet liao must go H81 lor...
Lian: walao... u so kangcheong meh? no need to drink, eat and tcss meh?
Beng: wat for? the ending also the same... i bonk u... u shiok shiok...
Lian: ok lor... watever lor...
Beng: quick we go fetch a cab to nearby H81... i buay tahan liao :p

whole conversation took 5min, and the cab reached the H81 in 3min, then took 2min to undress? like dat?


HA HA HA... bro you make my day... laugh until I almost pee in my pants..
well you won't believe it,..... my 2 friends and this girl and me were out for a function, then after all decided to head to the girls place for more chating and drinking

upon halfway there, my 2 friends said they want to go home change first since they live very near the girl... so they drop off first.
I went on ahead with the girl to her place ... we started sipping wine and TCSS.... she was on the sofa behind me and while I sat on floor ...
suddenly her arms were around my neck ( ha ha almost like a neck lock trying to choke me) ... but her palms guided my face to turn to the back to her and LOCK lips ... and the rest was history.....

so from open bottle to sip to TCSS to LOCk lips ... that was 10mins...
and I didn't even f#*king know her that well ... ha ha ha...

Cheers!
EyeLevel

[EyeLevel]

Kekeke, so I can safely assume that in a bgr, the guy most probably have fucked the ger upside down already lah, haha. I have a female friend, 28 already, keep denying she had sex with her bf of 3 yrs...say she still a virgin, haha...how can...if I'm her bf, sure fuck her after a few months...she's quite hot man...not bad lah.


Bro,
Your this female friend sounds damn familiar like a female friend I have as well.. ha ha ha ha same 28 and 3-4 yrs wth BF .. and still virgin...
ha ha ha... and somemore she cohabits with her BF ....

I take her words with a pinch of salt.. .. and yes she is hot ... :p
hmmmm wonder if we are talking about the same person .. ha ha ha ha

Cheers!
EyeLevel

[joannelee]

the longest i have take is 1&1/2 yrs before she agreed to sleep with me and that relationship last 4yrs... then the fastest is 2wks, hold half a yr relationship. :)

Bro, your situation same as mine...:D, he was my 1st bf, we broke off after 4yrs...
He is still single now, and I'm married wif 2 kids...

[whos_yrdaddy]

humm i got to bonk my gf only after 3mths
it was after we went party and i send her home drunk.
in the end bonk her at the sofa in her living room.
that was fun.... haha lucky no one wakes up :D

[zenneon]

Bro, your situation same as mine...:D, he was my 1st bf, we broke off after 4yrs...
He is still single now, and I'm married wif 2 kids...

Hi,

are you a male or female?
from this posting you act like a female while on other posting you act like male.

[HardCock]

Bro,
Your this female friend sounds damn familiar like a female friend I have as well.. ha ha ha ha same 28 and 3-4 yrs wth BF .. and still virgin...
ha ha ha... and somemore she cohabits with her BF ....

I take her words with a pinch of salt.. .. and yes she is hot ... :p
hmmmm wonder if we are talking about the same person .. ha ha ha ha

Cheers!
EyeLevel

Wah...hmm...could have known each other...hahaha...

[HardCock]

Would like to digress a little. What's the tricks if u need to resort to get the ger aroused? For me, I find a romantic setting is very important. It sets the tone for the nite. My experience...I was strolling in a park, not exactly secluded but not many ppl after 7PM, with my then gf. We were chatting and walking. It kinda make us felt very relax. We found a quiet spot and decided to sit down and admire the moon. That nite, the moon was really round and bright. We looked at the moon and stars and chit-chat. In my mind, I felt a sudden urge and sense that it would be the nite. So I become touchy. She din resist so I guessed it should be more daring. I gained ground slowly and eventually, I was caressing her breasts. From there, I knew I have break the 1st base. In no time, I already slipped my hand into her panties. Wow, she was a bit wet...keke, so I was making all the right moves. 2nd based cleared. After a while, I decided to lock lips with her and we have a very passionate make out. We did a very heavy petting, haha. In the end, as we were in a park, we decided against having sex. Instead, I just unzipped and revealed my HardCock (no pun intended) and she blew for me. Nice oragsm. As a return in favour, I went to her place and we spent a great nite together, haha. :p

[Rainman]

So how do u put this..

U had a GF, casual kind of friend....

Then u had sex because both were high and then became GF/BF???

Cheers

[sun814]

for me, with my current gf (lets call her L) of 8 years now, i know her from work, i only get to know her for about a week before i left for another company. of course we had a liking for each other already, but i did not express it to her, as i have a gf at that time. after i broke off with my former gf, me and L meet up occassionally for meals and movies. only upon my 1st year of knowing her that i ask her to be my gf, from then on, things just happens, we engage in french kiss on the second day, and we made love to each other 4 days later.

[joannelee]

Hi,

are you a male or female?
from this posting you act like a female while on other posting you act like male.

Im a 100% female, bro

[soul_vision]

Trans ......:o

[PacWizard]

I first dated my gf, we were still underage. Eight years thereafter, we got engaged and two years later, we got married. Only then we had sexual intercourse. Before that, the most were just heavy pettings and rubba²(I did cum in a few occasions). So from first date to the time we had sex to be exact is 10 years and 6+ months. How about that? Primitive? That's your prerogative. At least we achieve to "safekeep" before marriage. The best gift to each other for our first night :)

*Ps ... But that doesn't mean I had to resist other gals in that 10 years and 6+ months.

Cheers ~

PacWizard

[Wins88]

1st date went for dinner. After dinner, I dropped her off at Velvet and went to meet my friends at KTV. About 1am gal sms me ask me if I wanted to join her at Velvet. Decided to abandon ship (n the cute KTV gal) to go to Velvet. Met her at Velvet, had a few drinks and then send her home. Wen we got to her block of flats (north part of SG - long drive), kissed her goodnight and found her toungue halfway down my throat! Maitu leow - took life to top floor, go to staircase, and she BJ me and I simply hiked up her skirt n did her on the spot! From dinner to sex - erm ... 6 hours?!? This happened about 8 years ago

[sex4LiFe]

Event: Liverpool VS Singapore (Calsberg Challenge Cup, can't remember which year).

Venue: Singapore Stadium

Half-time: got nothing better to do so take out my binoculous to "bio" for chio Liverpool female supporter.. very lucky spotted one and she was also using bino looking ard.. we looked at each other thru bino and waved..

Full-time: whipped out my my bino again and spotted her, we hand-signal each other to exchange phone number via hand-sign.

On the way home: sms her asking wana meet up for supper later and she said ok.


Reach home: sms her where and she asked me buy supper to her place coz she lazy to go out, i was lah.. WAH RAU, got anything more heng than this bo?? must be liverpool giving me luck..


Her place: bought Geylang dim sum for her, tcss a bit, finished my har kau and siew mai and the rest, is history. Bonked her 4 times that night and i stayed till morning.

Duration: Abt 3+hrs or so.. the fastest one for me so far..