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Bomberboy
05-01-2007, 08:35 PM
hi bros, i always came very fast before my gf do.. hw to last long? i cant control it leh.. pls help
curiosityz
05-01-2007, 10:35 PM
bro, i think this should be put under sexual section...
asdfghjkl
05-01-2007, 10:37 PM
i thought this one is the sexual section? :o
Bomberboy
05-01-2007, 10:40 PM
okie..thanks:)
hi bros, i always came very fast before my gf do.. hw to last long? i cant control it leh.. pls help
bro, why don't you just go for second or more shots with her? normally second shot can last much longer... after that depends on your stamina :p
guai_boi
05-01-2007, 11:45 PM
masterbate a few hrs b4 having sex?
many of the gers i have sex wit always ask me the same old question.........
y u last so long 1 ah???
ass_robber
05-01-2007, 11:54 PM
u got to breathe, and you got to relax. Also, try to go slowly and just enjoy the sensation instead of bam bam bam...
Bomberboy
05-01-2007, 11:59 PM
i try le.. but still very fast leh
the small overtake the big wan. haha.. how ah
guai_boi
06-01-2007, 12:09 AM
u got to breathe, and you got to relax. Also, try to go slowly and just enjoy the sensation instead of bam bam bam...
ya........ jam the e brake when needed....... no need to go fast and furious de..... too fast and furious end the game too quickly..... add in some deep and hard strokes......... if feel like cumming, stop and french your ger loh.......
stephan
06-01-2007, 02:47 AM
Haiz... me always last very long till sometime not even can cum, anyone can help? :p
EricssonMan
06-01-2007, 09:35 AM
It takes practise
David_Ginola
06-01-2007, 10:20 AM
Bro can try Performa, the condom tat last longer. It does help for me....
cheers
otamay
06-01-2007, 12:32 PM
Withdraw for a while and try breathing slowing, then distract yourself by doing other activities like licking...etc. Hope this can help to prolong your cumming as what I normally do and it helps. Just my contribution....:cool:
JediMaster
06-01-2007, 01:06 PM
Personally, I think there is 2 way that will work for me.
1. Use your hand and tongue do the work till she comes or till she about to come. Then let the real action begin. Need to focus and can try using different variety. By speed, pump very fast and stop suddently then slowly rotate your didi to get control of your 'excitement', repeat the sequence. By depth, think is quite common, just count 9 times by penetrating half or rest of your didi and pump hard for the last one (chinese term 9 shallow 1 deep). You can change the times of shallow and depth, varies with speed.
2. Just raw action but keep your mind occupy. Eg. think of church, your parents, etc that will kind of serious stuff that will take away your 'excitement'. You can try also by fantasizing. Eg. imagine yourselves as a movie icon, football star, etc something you cannot achieve for the rest of your life. The shortcoming of this is that sometime when you are too deep into your fantasy, your didi soften. Another way is to take Viagara or equivalent and focus on your fantasy. This will ensure your didi remain hard.
The are other method such as squeezing your didi at the base if want to come, put medicine (like 'six god pill' hokkien) to numb your didi head, aid of sex toys like vibrator, etc. As mentioned, I find these 2 the best. Communicate with your gal when where is her 'G spot' and work more on that. You will be surprise some gal go crazy when you suck her ears, neck, etc. Need to know whatever way, you sensation is only secondary. With this in mind and lots of patience, your gal should appreciate you.
Women enjoyedd the whole sequence while men usually the climax part, though is siok when didi is swallowed and tickled. You will get tired very easily as blood are pumped to your didi to maintain the stiff-ness. Typically, when a man can last real action for 10 mins without any medical or alcohol aid, in my standard, that is good or very good. Of course once a while, you will find brothers that can last for hours, which of course is beyond words of 'very good'.
Good bonking...
High till Dry
06-01-2007, 01:14 PM
hi bros, i always came very fast before my gf do.. hw to last long? i cant control it leh.. pls help
Drink alcohol. It works!!
High till Dry
06-01-2007, 01:15 PM
Haiz... me always last very long till sometime not even can cum, anyone can help?
No alcohol for u for the next few days? :p :D
asdfghjkl
06-01-2007, 04:32 PM
Of course once a while, you will find brothers that can last for hours.
i am curious about this.. does it mean the guys can pump continuously for hours? :cool:
Know_yr_role
06-01-2007, 05:06 PM
i think most of the bros have given their ideas....masterbating before sex or alcohol does help...
personally, I normally give my gf 3 steps during sex..
first is oral til she comes, then follow by finger on the gstop til she comes again then is the final show of using me brother til she comes again....confirm your gal will be super duper satisified each and everytime...
:D :D
Kyser Soze
06-01-2007, 07:28 PM
I usually PCC before sex. Indeed, it does make me last longer. But the fact is the 'shiokness' is not as good. The cum is also little. My girl usually know that I have done a handjob before making love to her. :o
JediMaster
06-01-2007, 07:34 PM
In my opinion, I do not believe guys can pump not stop for hours. But there are SBF bro stated that they are able to do it. I have to trust and respect that. Anyway, I do see such action in Jap video. So, maybe with practise and control, you are able to do it. :eek:
enzer88
06-01-2007, 07:48 PM
[QUOTE=JediMaster;1795474]2. Just raw action but keep your mind occupy. Eg. think of church, your parents, etc that will kind of serious stuff that will take away your 'excitement'.
Bro,i almost choked on my dinner!!:D
SexFreak
06-01-2007, 08:15 PM
Haiz... me always last very long till sometime not even can cum, anyone can help?
:cool: ......... You can't even stand how to cum ......... bwahahahaha .........:p
Cheers !!!
SexFreak
06-01-2007, 08:18 PM
put medicine (like 'six god pill' hokkien) to numb your didi head
:rolleyes: Something new ... hehe ... must try liao then come here and report progress :D
Cheers !!!
Bomberboy
06-01-2007, 08:32 PM
thanks guys.. will try tonight.. HEe:D
GLHunter
06-01-2007, 09:12 PM
hi bros, i always came very fast before my gf do.. hw to last long? i cant control it leh.. pls help
I think u can prolong the foreplay. make your gf feel very loved, hug her, stroke her body sensually, kiss her gentlely, give her fast & furious oral sex,
something to excite her so that she feel fun & will not feel missed out anything.
David_Ginola
06-01-2007, 10:01 PM
thanks guys.. will try tonight.. HEe:D
Bro care to share wat method u will try to use??? If u intend to, pcc, take medicine, apply '6 god pill' , put on delay-enhanced performa condom......i think u can last very very very long liao....:D
cheers
ass_robber
06-01-2007, 11:29 PM
i am curious about this.. does it mean the guys can pump continuously for hours? :cool:
That really depends on the mood of the day.... pump for hours is possible, but the lower back will get tired, and not so much as wanting to cum. So gotta change positions like get the girl to go on top. But sometimes quickie also fun, so even if can't cum, then just pull out and get my ger to cim.
Again, its just a personal thing, different guys different timing. As long as the girl feel satisfied, its enough. Some gers dun like guys to last v long. I got a ger, do more than 20mins she will be dry, and complain here pain there pain.
Red-Card
07-01-2007, 12:49 AM
So many new tricks to pick up here
trainee1964
07-01-2007, 02:10 AM
No alcohol for me. After alcohol, cum lagi faster.
steamystreamsg
07-01-2007, 02:12 AM
For me, it's the other way round...last longer after alcohol
otamay
07-01-2007, 10:55 AM
Different people react differently because of thier body constitution is different, so the response and reaction also totally different. Just as the sayings goes, "Different strokes for different folks.".....;)
mike2006
07-01-2007, 11:02 AM
For me, drink stout with raw egg works wonder.
Mr Canon
07-01-2007, 11:16 AM
Stout workds well wif me too
Shuang_Jie_Gun
07-01-2007, 11:21 AM
Haiz... me always last very long till sometime not even can cum, anyone can help? :p
u need to go see sex doctor!kidding hor!:D
Cum_Luver
07-01-2007, 02:07 PM
go for more bonking sessions lor !
and practice those tips given by bros here.
practice make perfect.
juzjoin
07-01-2007, 04:00 PM
a pill of Viagra will do the trick. cum liao still stand
Keep fit. Exercise more. Pick up jogging/swimming and jog/swim regularly. When you have good stamina, you can keep pumping and pumping until she cums and cums.
No need for all that pills/herbs/think of church/press penis base/ masterbate before sex stuff.
randyboy73
08-01-2007, 04:04 PM
bro, why don't you just go for second or more shots with her? normally second shot can last much longer... after that depends on your stamina :p
2nd time is always the charmed one... better range, better motion, but only if ur didi can recharge fast enuf
randyboy73
08-01-2007, 04:05 PM
For me, drink stout with raw egg works wonder.
bro.. drink stout oredi won't mabok meh? i drink too much other kinda liquor, then didi cannot homat leh...
hotdick69
08-01-2007, 04:36 PM
foreplay....... women will cum easily when u do long and good foreplay.... so they horny liao and cum a few times in foreplay... when u pump her she will cum more easily so dont need to do long hard pumping.... :D but if u still cant hold till she cums.... then next trick is to ask her to pinch u.... to take ur mind of cumming.... or think of things that make u no mood.... hahahaha that usually works... hahahaha
BigGuy
08-01-2007, 05:03 PM
foreplay....... women will cum easily when u do long and good foreplay.... so they horny liao and cum a few times in foreplay... when u pump her she will cum more easily so dont need to do long hard pumping.... :D but if u still cant hold till she cums.... then next trick is to ask her to pinch u.... to take ur mind of cumming.... or think of things that make u no mood.... hahahaha that usually works... hahahaha
wa i din know you r into torture sex:)
hotdick69
08-01-2007, 06:11 PM
hahahaha no lah..... ur the "Master in Torture" not me hor....:D me only know how to make them wet only
BigGuy
08-01-2007, 06:14 PM
ya ya ya like real.....
When MoS?
hotdick69
08-01-2007, 06:16 PM
hahahaha dont off topic lah.....
Bomberboy
08-01-2007, 06:42 PM
haha, okok.. wow, do exercise also can pump longer? hw to recharge faster?:D
surfer888
09-01-2007, 10:51 AM
hi bros, i always came very fast before my gf do.. hw to last long? i cant control it leh.. pls help
Simple!
Just imagine she is your WIFE!
But don't imagine too much or sometimes cannot even get erection!
CoolBlack
09-01-2007, 12:43 PM
Personally there are 2 factors thats affects my duration performance :
a) when was the last time I "discharged". If soldier kept for too long....they eager to come out quickly.
b) the gal that i am doing with. Not too sure how to describe this but some gals I can last very long but some I cannot tahan come very fast.Guess it's the mood, the feel of the gals hole (tight/loose) and also the response of the gal. When the gal gets very high (i.e. when she screams, shakes,etc.) this excitment will definately intensify my soldiers to dispatch quick quick.
Just my 2cents.
mokermania
09-01-2007, 02:24 PM
mayb can try position like she on top.
read in some other thread that like dat this position we guy can tahan longer & also yr partner may orgasm easier if im not mistaken.
or u can read this by Bro Thaivisitor.
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=35094
or this by bro Big Sexy ( No.5 & 6 post)
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=40699
hope these help:)
Albertlsh
09-01-2007, 02:58 PM
Before sex applied "Snake " brand menthol powder to the head of the dick. This will numb the area for a while. After that have sex, it will prolong the action.
haha, okok.. wow, do exercise also can pump longer? hw to recharge faster?:D
exercise keep improve your stamina and hence you dun feel tired after a few pumps. when u start to feel tired, u will cum very fast. and that's why morning sex are the best cos the body is fully recharged. if u have a sex session for 30 mins - 1 hour, i dun think u need to have a fast/immediately recharge for a 2nd session...
Monster_Q
09-01-2007, 03:50 PM
i got an idea, wear 5 layers of condoms, sure can tahan to cum, then remove every single layer of the condom during intercourse till the last piece sure cum liao... the feeling is getting better and better with less condoms... whew..!
jimmyccc
09-01-2007, 04:00 PM
i got an idea, wear 5 layers of condoms, sure can tahan to cum, then remove every single layer of the condom during intercourse till the last piece sure cum liao... the feeling is getting better and better with less condoms... whew..!
damn good idea... i'll do just that...
wildbeast
09-01-2007, 05:22 PM
Wow... different bros hv various interesting methods to prolong SEX. very informative! Thanks. To bro Bomberboy, I personally would also recommend the method by Bro PKTM. KEEP FIT! EXERCISE REGULARLY! I am into this! Is a win-win in a way ur physique gets attractive to woman and ur self-confidence will go up. Your sex drive would be strong and your performance would be enhanced. Most impt ur overall health would be GOOD!
I personally find the breathing control method and to stay motionless when the urge to shootz method works!!!
I would recommend you to go natural. Avoid edible catalyst unless really needs one.
Juz my humble contributions..
Onyx2Rock
09-01-2007, 05:58 PM
Wah... Interesting Topic sia...
Try switch positions frequently, and slowing down the thrustings works for me.
Sometime speed isn't the thing... try deep and consistant thrustings... likely the gal enjoy it too.
Happy Bonkings
Bomberboy
09-01-2007, 06:13 PM
wow, i guess all bros have different matters n i learn quite alot.. but.. yesterday try on the image other things but i guess i cant.. the small brain take over big brain den less den 5 mins out, den too tired to go second time.. hai.. like tat my gf will sure think i no use wan.. my gf dun like foreplay too much also.. :(
cuntlover123
09-01-2007, 06:35 PM
For me, store ur cum for at least 2-3 days, eat oysters/hums n 1/2-boil or raw eggs b4 bonking.. Don drink too much alcohol as it'll make u cnnt cum n ur kuku wil go soft n dwn aft some time
hi bros, i always came very fast before my gf do.. hw to last long? i cant control it leh.. pls help
Bomberboy
13-01-2007, 09:15 PM
wear condom n do RAW gt different ma? as in can last long ma?:p
SexFreak
13-01-2007, 09:43 PM
Before sex applied "Snake " brand menthol powder to the head of the dick. This will numb the area for a while. After that have sex, it will prolong the action.
:eek: ......... But the vagina can tahan meh :confused:
Cheers !!!
golden tongue
13-01-2007, 11:45 PM
I heard that eating raw egg helps but i personally never try it and drinking stout and have sex immediately will not help.
You need to wait for about 15 ~ 20 minutes before engaging in sex because the alcohol need to get into your bloodstream. Drinking stout/alcohol will numb your nerve and it will take a longer time for you to ejaculate.
Stout helps your brother to recover faster after the first round and you can definitely bonk your gf till she cum. Your rod will be as strong as ever.
Trust me. I have tried it many times with my lover and I certaintly endorsed it.
PS. Drink stout only if you like it. Drinking beer can make your didi stand but it will be soft. Drinking stout will make your didi strong and hard.
jng1103
14-01-2007, 12:06 AM
I heard that eating raw egg helps but i personally never try it and drinking stout and have sex immediately will not help.
You need to wait for about 15 ~ 20 minutes before engaging in sex because the alcohol need to get into your bloodstream. Drinking stout/alcohol will numb your nerve and it will take a longer time for you to ejaculate.
Stout helps your brother to recover faster after the first round and you can definitely bonk your gf till she cum. Your rod will be as strong as ever.
Trust me. I have tried it many times with my lover and I certaintly endorsed it.
PS. Drink stout only if you like it. Drinking beer can make your didi stand but it will be soft. Drinking stout will make your didi strong and hard.
Great information...!!! I heard about it times and times but I really dun like the smell of stouts... so, no chance to try yet. Anyway, thanks for the "confirmation" :D
jimbo
BatistaSG
14-01-2007, 12:21 AM
It works fine for me as I lasted longer after alcohol
Malefikus
14-01-2007, 12:29 AM
It works fine for me as I lasted longer after alcohol
Yep, always works, but never overdo it, because that can lead to other problems, hehehe...;)
new30
14-01-2007, 01:01 AM
1- Eat well
Raising a massive erection is an expensive proposition for your body. Blood and hormones all take up valuable nutrients. So good nutrition is key for those looking to having sex multiple times. Carbohydrates, being the building block of energy, are essential. Our sexual needs require eating carbs and plenty of them! Pasta and bread are solid carb sources. You also need to ingest zinc every day. Zinc is vital for production of testosterone, seminal fluid and sperm. You can find this mineral in liver, seafood, peas, and beans. Or take a zinc supplement.
Avoid high fat meals before sex. Excess fat intake lowers testosterone levels in your body, decreases libido and makes erection and ejaculation more difficult. And an unhealthy diet may lead to poor circulation and hence erection problems. Avoid overeating and stuffing yourself before sex. If you're going out for dinner together, don't gulp down a five-course meal with wine and dessert, at least not if you know you're going to have sex later on that night. Eat at least one hour before sex so you are properly digested.
new30
14-01-2007, 01:06 AM
2- Get positioned properly
Sexual positions where you are on top, like missionary and doggy style, allow more blood flow and a bigger, sturdier erection. It's gravity, simple as that. So don't do it in positions with her on top at first. The tug of gravity will drain the blood from your erection. Having her on top also gives her control of the movement, so it may lead to your loss of control in well more than one way.
3- Limit your sensitivity to go longer
The classic way to limit oversensitivity is to wear a condom, which you should be doing anyway. If you don't need to wear a condom with your woman, you can try focusing on other things. Periodically take yourself out of the scene mentally if you think you're going to lose control. The trick is to transport your mind away just long enough to avoid ejaculating too early, but not lose your erection.
4- Try this device
Most penis enlargement devices are painful, scary and terribly ineffective. There are, however, always those faithful who claim these extreme techniques give them big results. The safest and best bet amongst these is the ever-dependable penis ring. This is a little rubber or plastic ring you place at the base of your penis to trap blood inside, kind of like tying off a balloon. This won't make you bigger, but it will make your penis firmer.
new30
14-01-2007, 01:12 AM
5- Manage any medication you are on
Medication for some ailments such as depression, social phobia, OCD, and anxiety are more and more common these days. These medicines are murder on your erection. If you're on these types of drugs, work with your doctor to make sure you're not over-medicated, or it's goodbye sex life.
6- Save your strength
Don't tire yourself out too quickly in the sack. If you exhaust yourself, your erection is going to feel like a marshmallow. Know your limits.
7- Calm your nerves
Too much anxiety and nervous energy can shrink your penis like a cotton T-shirt. Unfortunately, sex is often riddled with anxiety resulting from a negative body image, a fear of intimacy or concerns about having a small member. This "stage fright" always seems to happen at the worst possible time, like the first time with someone new. So it's pretty essential that you find a way to make yourself comfortable if you're prone to bouts of nervousness during sex. The best way is to practice with many different women until you're comfortable (
new30
14-01-2007, 01:15 AM
8- Exercise, exercise, exercise
Do abdominal exercises. This will help your abdominal muscles support and hold your erection, as opposed to holding your belly. Furthermore, if you have a large gut, it tends to make your unit small by comparison. Being in shape and having a good physique will make you feel good about yourself and up your confidence. This will, in turn, make you comfortable with your body, enticing you to have sex and increasing your sex drive. You can also give your penis a workout with some Kegel exercises. While there's no hard evidence that they will produce a larger size, they will help you stay hard longer.
9- Don't smoke & drink to excess
Smoking cigarettes gives you bad circulation. And when you want to get down, the blood's gotta be flowing. So there's one more reason to quit. Drinking too much alcohol numbs your wiener and can inflate your prostate. So don't tap the keg if you want to tap her.
10- Don't masturbate too often
You want to save your money-shot for Miss Right, not Mr. Five Fingers. If you ever needed an excuse not to masturbate, that's it. This calls for a little self-control and most of us have that, right?
Alexxander
14-01-2007, 05:44 AM
Bro new30, priceless piece of information. :)
sslimsy
14-01-2007, 07:02 AM
As for me, I take kambing soup b4 I bonk. Ever bonk for half hour continously untill condom dry, the girl dry still cannot cum. Finally, apply ky on condom and girl, then cum.
Hope the above helps.
David_Ginola
14-01-2007, 11:10 AM
Thanks bro new30......gd info.
cheers
Albertlsh
14-01-2007, 10:16 PM
:eek: ......... But the vagina can tahan meh :confused:
Cheers !!!
Normally before having sex, will shower , this will wash away the powder, but then your bro head will be a bit numb.
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