View Full Version : BBBJ Issue - Seeking Advise
curiouslooker
08-01-2007, 12:39 AM
Hi Bros,
Just wondering if any bros here can give expert advise. My gf does not seem to like BBBJ. But I luv it very much. How is it possible to entice her to like BBBJ?
martinhsk
08-01-2007, 12:55 AM
Bro, give & u shall receive...
try painting job on her la...give a good one & she'll respond likewise!;)
Schmi
08-01-2007, 01:24 AM
Such things cant be force, you got to have lots of patience to entice your gf into doing it....most importantly, she got to be willing and enjoy doing it.
Ask her what she is uncomfortable about...then try to educate her from there.
Some ladies find it, degrading, disgusting, etc...but the root must be known before correction
In the past i would watch some pornography and focus on the BBBJ scenes to my girlfriends whom were apprehensive
JWNY
forumer
08-01-2007, 02:01 AM
u mean she prefers to do it with a condom?
curiosityz
08-01-2007, 02:03 AM
try to talk wit her around and see if it helps...
Red-Card
08-01-2007, 02:04 AM
Usually gf dun blow wif condom lah
its either they like or they dun at all...hmmm...mayb u can try watching some porno with her?? then tell her u wanna copy them?? :D
maybe ensure her u clean it with strawberry shower foam :D
sammyboyfor
08-01-2007, 04:55 AM
Hi Bros,
Just wondering if any bros here can give expert advise. My gf does not seem to like BBBJ. But I luv it very much. How is it possible to entice her to like BBBJ?
Should be "Seeking ADVICE.".
"Advise" is a verb.
My ADVICE is to find a new girlfriend that enjoys giving BBBJs... a simple solution to a simple problem. :D
ChinaFriends67
08-01-2007, 07:10 AM
My ADVICE is to find a new girlfriend that enjoys giving BBBJs... a simple solution to a simple problem. :D
Bro, that's a good one. :)
ILoveCheapSex
08-01-2007, 08:18 AM
Have she ever tried giving you BBBJ or BJ with cap before?
Or she prefer to do it with cap?
Not very clear where your question is.
Ray06
08-01-2007, 10:02 AM
Hi Bros,
Just wondering if any bros here can give expert advise. My gf does not seem to like BBBJ. But I luv it very much. How is it possible to entice her to like BBBJ?
Well, I guess you should feel good about this...
If you come to know a gal who can Blow like Geylang WL then that will be the time you got to think twice about this gal to be your gf....:)
randyboy73
08-01-2007, 10:06 AM
Should be "Seeking ADVICE.".
"Advise" is a verb.
My ADVICE is to find a new girlfriend that enjoys giving BBBJs... a simple solution to a simple problem. :D
Haha Boss, u beat me to the punch.. wanted to post then lucky saw that u had already dispensed with your "advice" on the correct word to be utilised (hmm z or s) ...
Happy new year
randyboy73
08-01-2007, 10:12 AM
Well, I guess you should feel good about this...
If you come to know a gal who can Blow like Geylang WL then that will be the time you got to think twice about this gal to be your gf....:)
bro.. beg to differ.. some girls just got the talent in blowing.. there was this ex-uni mate of mine, who could did the helicopter on me and boy did she had powerful suction... almost felt so freaking high whenever she did the BBBJ on me.. since then I have stopped BJ of any kind, coz she spoil market for me oredi.. until my FB reminded me last wed during our usual fucking session that she os no slouch too.. so bros, not all GL gals can blow and not only GL girls can blow your brains out.. just a matter of luck....
Castrol
08-01-2007, 10:22 AM
Hi Bros,
Just wondering if any bros here can give expert advise. My gf does not seem to like BBBJ. But I luv it very much. How is it possible to entice her to like BBBJ?
maybe got to use force a bit. one hand hold her head and use the other hand slap your raw cock on her lips. after sometime she'll get the massage. :D
Ray06
08-01-2007, 10:26 AM
bro.. beg to differ.. some girls just got the talent in blowing.. there was this ex-uni mate of mine, who could did the helicopter on me and boy did she had powerful suction... almost felt so freaking high whenever she did the BBBJ on me.. since then I have stopped BJ of any kind, coz she spoil market for me oredi.. until my FB reminded me last wed during our usual fucking session that she os no slouch too.. so bros, not all GL gals can blow and not only GL girls can blow your brains out.. just a matter of luck....
OK, noted....
I am indeed surprise with these talent in our New generation gals...:confused:
evo76
08-01-2007, 10:30 AM
Do not treat your gf as a slave like slapping your cock on her lips. She will slowly warm up to it once she gets used to looking and feeling it. Oh, another tip is to have a bath together and get yourself clean and smelling nice. Sometimes its just the cleanliness issue that bothers the gal.
sinbad01
08-01-2007, 10:31 AM
bro.. beg to differ.. some girls just got the talent in blowing.. there was this ex-uni mate of mine, who could did the helicopter on me and boy did she had powerful suction... almost felt so freaking high whenever she did the BBBJ on me.. since then I have stopped BJ of any kind, coz she spoil market for me oredi.. until my FB reminded me last wed during our usual fucking session that she os no slouch too.. so bros, not all GL gals can blow and not only GL girls can blow your brains out.. just a matter of luck....
BJ or Sex from gf or partner all depends on how much the girl wanna please you. The more they wanna please you the further they would go usually.
For our thread starter, perhaps relationship already quite long so the willingness from the lady to please is not there or there isnt a conducive enviroment. Since you mentioned gf that was my guess, that your relation is already quite long as sex partner.
randyboy73
08-01-2007, 10:42 AM
BJ or Sex from gf or partner all depends on how much the girl wanna please you. The more they wanna please you the further they would go usually.
Some gals in GL also use a lot of teeth. damn pain man... either dat or no power.... agree with u that liking and wanting to please is a BIG factor, but some gals really cannot blow, even if their lives depended on it.
Deztruct
08-01-2007, 11:54 AM
last time i got an ex..who dun do bj also..so start from askin her to do with strawberry condoms..after a few times..then say no condom..ask her to do and she slowly willing to do without condoms liao..mayb u can try this also
Deztruct
08-01-2007, 11:57 AM
bro.. beg to differ.. some girls just got the talent in blowing.. there was this ex-uni mate of mine, who could did the helicopter on me and boy did she had powerful suction... almost felt so freaking high whenever she did the BBBJ on me.. ..
agreed with u..i got an ex who did her first bj on me..it was so gd tat even WL i had later cant match her..she really hv a talent for blowing
randyboy73
08-01-2007, 12:14 PM
agreed with u..i got an ex who did her first bj on me..it was so gd tat even WL i had later cant match her..she really hv a talent for blowing
spoil market rite? My ex-gf / current FB, turned me over last week when we were in bed and suddenly gave that naughty grin and gave me the best BJ of my life..... dam i felt like I had died and gone to heaven... dats it man... now for me, only bbbj with her and no one else...
Deztruct
08-01-2007, 12:30 PM
spoil market rite? My ex-gf / current FB, turned me over last week when we were in bed and suddenly gave that naughty grin and gave me the best BJ of my life..... dam i felt like I had died and gone to heaven... dats it man... now for me, only bbbj with her and no one else...
haa..too bad..my ex now is with another guy..i was the one who kind of brought them together so now can only remember the memories..no chance of being FB with her :p
nevi1977
08-01-2007, 12:39 PM
bro for my opinion you should either ask her to start with condom blow job first or you can try to lick hers then until when she is damn wet you can try to ask her to blow yours. hope this will help.
cheers
sean69
08-01-2007, 02:26 PM
if she likes sweet stuff maybe you can coat your dick with honey?? .. :D ...ok ok..if i get zapped probably i deserve it..
i think it could be one of the followings...
1. she may feels that it is very disgusting as it is where your piss comes out.. maybe you can take a shower together and get her to clean it for you so that it may appear "cleaner" ..
2. or maybe she thinks only "sluts/prostitute" do blowjobs... as what other bros propose, watch porn together.. but not those hardcore one lah... start with soft porn first... best if you can find those clips where famous actress do it.. den hopefully she will think that good girls also do it.. :)
end of the day it boils down to personal likes and dislike... you need to find out the rootcause first b4 you can fix anything.. shit.. now i sound like my boss... rootcause fix!!! ha ha ha
tunkudon
08-01-2007, 02:39 PM
patience..is the word..slowing teach she will blow....u 1 day...:D
otamay
08-01-2007, 02:52 PM
Bro, I also have the same problem as you. My partner also refused to do to me because she felt uncomfortable and dirty, I think it is the same with most girls who are not that adventurous and never try before. When we make love, I always constantly urge her to go down but she always reject me even when I do on her and make her high and enjoy. Then one day, to my suprise she managed to overcome her fear and started to lick mine prick. The feeling is just satisfactory but the fnal result is encouraging, from not doing to doing it. So quality can improve over a period of time. I think maybe due to my constant urging and also she wanted to please me to make the session a more enjoyable one. Be patient and just give her time, but don't drop the idea that you don't demand any more, maybe with constant urging impress on her of your needs to be sextified, I am sure she will give in to you one day.......;)
Know_yr_role
08-01-2007, 03:52 PM
still remember my ever first gf during sec sch also hates BBBJ...cant make herself to do it....then slowly and surely after many times of asking and teaching her, she gave the best bj i had so far in my life....still misses it....one thing i still remembers...she is always so wet...like a spoilt tap which cant stop dripping...excellent :D :D
SexFreak
08-01-2007, 05:07 PM
My gf does not seem to like BBBJ.
One of the reason I could think off is mere laziness ..... but to cover up her laziness, she will beautify her excuses by saying "Darling, I don't like it", "it's dirty", "it's unhygienic" ......... :eek: :p
Cheers !!!
SexFreak
08-01-2007, 05:10 PM
slowly and surely after many times of asking and teaching her, she gave the best bj i had so far in my life....
For that, I have given up hope le :o ......... If I can't change her, join her :(
Cheers !!!
TheGreatOne
08-01-2007, 09:08 PM
Stumbled upon this thread and find it kinda interesting so this is me and my 2 buddies's 2 cents...
Buddy A - Do a powerful muff-diving on her 1st to get her high and wild.
Buddy B - Ask her what she likes and apply the mentioned flavour(s) onto your tool to get her into the right appetite.
Me - 2 ways... Either change your own mindset and accept her for what she is, meaning forget about BBBJ from her OR change her.
curiouslooker
08-01-2007, 11:07 PM
thank you bros for all the enlightenment!!! Really appreciate it man!:D
.. so bros, not all GL gals can blow and not only GL girls can blow your brains out.. just a matter of luck....
You're kinda missing his point dude ...
golden tongue
08-01-2007, 11:39 PM
Bro,
There is another way to make her give you a blowjob.
Firstly, you make her high with your finger, when she is about to explode, stop. She will ask you why stop when her fountain is about to blow. just keep quiet.
Secondly, use your tongue to tickle her clitoris in a 69 position, make her moan like no tomorrow and when she is about to explode again, stop. She will ask the same question again. Just keep quiet.
Resume the licking and position and when she is high again, she would definitely put your cock into her mouth naturally.
Try it.
tk-king
09-01-2007, 12:03 AM
same here my gf hates too
but lucky my fb loves it, even request to
she claims dat it makes her high n song
any gal wanna confirm this?
faggort
09-01-2007, 02:08 AM
bro golden tongue.
i second wat u said.
currently im datin a PRC divorcee workin in TAM who had not had sex for 1plus year,
on 2nd bonk, ask her to bbbj me. she saay she nvr do before :eek: as she conservative n seldom have sex . i start to do wat i learn from samsters' class , eatin her high n wet then ask to change to 69, must push/urge her to change to 69. tell her to bbbj, she say no. then i suggest if she feel gd n horny jus suck my didi. i started to paint again, suddenly she jus swallow my didi n keep suckin.... haha , i did it. really first time, as she jus keep suckin like lollypop.
it really works, no hell trying, jus feel like HEAVEN.... :D
goodyoldshoes
09-01-2007, 02:32 AM
let her watch TAMMY's BBBJ video and then say.. "See? a young gal can do much better than u"
randyboy73
09-01-2007, 10:43 AM
You're kinda missing his point dude ...
u think so? In the words of the famous Pauline Hanson ... Please explain.... (too bad I cannot ad-lib her nasal accent into written text)
Just kidding.. I do understand his point... I just wanted to add another perspective towards the bro's statement that only GL WLs do great BBBJ or BJs...
randyboy73
09-01-2007, 10:45 AM
same here my gf hates too
but lucky my fb loves it, even request to
she claims dat it makes her high n song
any gal wanna confirm this?
same her bro.. my FB still got stereo surround sound when she BJ me... but not sure issit becoz i am also kneading her boobs at the same time.. keke
Ray06
09-01-2007, 12:00 PM
same here my gf hates too
but lucky my fb loves it, even request to
she claims dat it makes her high n song
any gal wanna confirm this?
Bro,
you so lucky, got gf Plus fb....but then what is the difference ? i mean how to distinguish the 2 if both also offer sex ?
My 'fb' are from commercial sex...counted or not ? :D
randyboy73
09-01-2007, 12:12 PM
Bro,
you so lucky, got gf Plus fb....but then what is the difference ? i mean how to distinguish the 2 if both also offer sex ?
My 'fb' are from commercial sex...counted or not ? :D
wa lau eh bro... u sure or not.. FB means anytime and anywhere F don have to pay la.. if ur WL don charge u and u do frequent enuf i guess can consider lor... kekekeke
newkid2006
09-01-2007, 12:38 PM
To all bros,
Just chance upon this thread, and apologies for the interuption to these discussion, but I have been wondering what is this term "bbbj", I know what bj means, but, "bbbj"....?
As for how to get your gf to bj u, I believe it dwells down to "feeling", as I believe that girls are very much into "feeling" first and action will follow....but of course if u can get her to watch some AV movies, especially those with some story once, where they slowly bulids up into the action scene, and u can also act along, and she "feels" right, she will "DO" it....
and if the first time fails, try and try again.....the result will surely CUM....
but if all fails.......than maybe it's high time to change....either a new girl or ur hope for bj.....
Toyota Honda
09-01-2007, 05:21 PM
Bro, I also have the same problem as you. My partner also refused to do to me because she felt uncomfortable and dirty, I think it is the same with most girls who are not that adventurous and never try before. When we make love, I always constantly urge her to go down but she always reject me even when I do on her and make her high and enjoy. Then one day, to my suprise she managed to overcome her fear and started to lick mine prick. The feeling is just satisfactory but the fnal result is encouraging, from not doing to doing it. So quality can improve over a period of time. I think maybe due to my constant urging and also she wanted to please me to make the session a more enjoyable one. Be patient and just give her time, but don't drop the idea that you don't demand any more, maybe with constant urging impress on her of your needs to be sextified, I am sure she will give in to you one day.......;)
right.. I had similar experiemnce..
This gf of mine is very innocent.. She doesn't like to blow but she knows I like.. on a few occasions, she will just paint awhile and get it done with.. so its not enjoyable.. I thought ah yah, forget about having a good one from her ever again...
Till one day when we were on the bed, I used a vibrator on her.. She was lying down while I was kneeling beside her... kissing her and placing the vibrator on the cunt.. wah, she was so high that she just turned and faced my cock, held it firm and quickly put it in her mouth.. and what a great helicopter she did for me man.. its like those jap scenes where the girl is like so high that she is lost in her own fantasy world..
whoa....
GLHunter
09-01-2007, 11:51 PM
Hi Bros,
Just wondering if any bros here can give expert advise. My gf does not seem to like BBBJ. But I luv it very much. How is it possible to entice her to like BBBJ?
try to pamper her & shower her with lots of love. in return, she may feel want to do something for you, to express her love & appreciation so you may get blow more.. maybe? :rolleyes:
jng1103
10-01-2007, 02:59 AM
try to pamper her & shower her with lots of love. in return, she may feel want to do something for you, to express her love & appreciation so you may get blow more.. maybe?
Yes agree... Did u ever wonder why some pets are so responsive to their master? it's all about practise and rewards/pets food. If dolphins can do all the stunts, why gf cant perform good bbbj? just give her some candy/gifts as rewards lor... :D
jimbo
Toyota Honda
10-01-2007, 08:45 PM
try to pamper her & shower her with lots of love. in return, she may feel want to do something for you, to express her love & appreciation so you may get blow more.. maybe? :rolleyes:
Ha, heres 2 sides to a coin..
U may end up spoiling her without getting anything in return..
GLHunter
14-02-2007, 12:23 AM
Ha, heres 2 sides to a coin..
U may end up spoiling her without getting anything in return..
Well, we must see how the progress goes & not give blindly lah.
If your gf is the appreciative type, likely will happened this way.
My gf is blowing my head off & gives me plenty of sex, simply becoz she
loves me & i pamper her very much. :)
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