For guys with a wife or gf

[dannywee75]

how many times u have sex with your gf or wife ?

paid sex need not apply ;)

[Clonie]

who in this world will pay to have sex with their wife or gf? :confused:

[jkljkl]

who in this world will pay to have sex with their wife or gf? :confused:

i think he meant paid sex with FL, WL not included. strictly sex wif wife/gf lah.;)

[MM&MM]

I would probably do it once a week if she allows me to.:D

[planet]

twice a week. if not tired, more:D

[Jus74]

Not married. Once a week with gf :p

[angrybigpenis]

Used to be once a month but have made it a point to do something each night before sleeping.

It could be oral sex or penetrative sex but idea is to do something. After 2 months, both me and my partner have increased libido. I guess what they say is true - use it or lose it. :)

[liewkc2503]

who in this world will pay to have sex with their wife or gf?


Hmmm!!!! I think u still have to pay your wife !

but in monthly ,:D :D

twice/three time a week .

[velp]

Once a week for me ;)

[pet pet]

At least once a week :D

[Regular^^]

2times when we off? if busy month den 2times a week... ~~girlfriend

[GLCC]

once a week with my g/fs :D

[dannywee75]

Sadly ,the true of me is once a month my wife and i will have sex...

and its always me who will ask from her.

She like no sex drive one ... why ar ? and she don't work ,she is a full time house wife...

but luckily got this forum, can get to bonk value WL twice every week...

Seriously i think my marriage sex life is a shame ... i ask my friend s around me , most of them twice a week even after they have kids ... knz :(

[toss]

i use to have sex with my ex-gf almost everyday
damn horny lah the both of us

[cheong_man]

Bro dannywee75, nothing better to have a open heart to heart with your wife to really understand why she is not so interested. Is she afraid of something(for example being pregnant..etc) or is she having some stress from house work?

Hope that you can have a successful marriage sex life soon.

Cheers:)

Me already voted at least once a week, unless got to travel.

[isotonik]

at least once a week with my gf.

[jkljkl]

Sadly ,the true of me is once a month my wife and i will have sex...

and its always me who will ask from her.

She like no sex drive one ... why ar ? and she don't work ,she is a full time house wife...



Hi.

Here are some answers i found in the net regarding low sex drive. I hope u will find that useful and won't offend u.

It's very common in relationships to start off with a flurry, including lots of sexual encounters. Over time, life between the sheets tends to cool off as everyday routines kick-in. That being said, going from lots of sexual encounters to zero is not normal. This is clearly a sign that something else is going on here.

The big question is what exactly is that "something else?" It could be that she's interested in someone else. It could be that there's nobody else but she's losing interest in this relationship. Or it could be that there's something going on for her personally that she doesn't feel comfortable sharing with you. The point is, you really won't know unless you ask. And you need to ask, but not in a threatening way.

Instead, find a relaxed time to see if she'll open up to you. If it is someone else or a loss of interest in you, better to know now. If it's something else entirely, by being supportive you can find out the truth and support her through it.

Here's some info from some study/research.

Low sex drive affects at least one out of five women in the United States. A study presented at this year's American Psychiatric Association meeting found that bupropion hydrochloride sustained-release tablets may be an effective treatment for some women who suffer from hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD). There is currently no approved drug treatment for low sex drive in women.
Researchers found that almost one-third of the women in the study responded with increases in the number of episodes of sexual arousal, sexual fantasy, and interest in engaging in sexual activity. Women included in the study were aged 23 to 65 and had experienced HSDD for an average of six years. Participants saw improvement as early as two weeks after beginning treatment.

Taylor Segraves, M.D., Ph.D., lead investigator and professor of psychiatry at Case Western Reserve University School of Medicine said, "The results of this study are encouraging. One aspect that demonstrated a substantial improvement was that by the end of the treatment phase nearly 40 percent reported being satisfied with their sexual desire, whereas 100 percent were dissatisfied before starting treatment."
Although a person diagnosed with HSDD can still function sexually, the disorder is characterized by a combination of factors including persistently diminished or absent sexual fantasies or desire for sexual activity. Low sex drive is a condition that can cause both emotional distress and problems in intimate relationships, according to Dr. Segraves.

Bupropion hydrochloride SR enhances the presence of neurotransmitters, norepinephrine and dopamine, in the brain and is not associated with the sexual side effects often experienced by patients using selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) anti-depressants such as Prozac, Paxil, and Zoloft.

Is bupropion hydrochloride SR the answer for your low sex drive?
It may be, but even Dr. Segraves agrees that more research is needed on the use of this drug as a treatment for HSDD. The drug is currently approved for the treatment of depression and is marketed as Wellbutrin SR by Glaxo Wellcome Inc.

[randyboy73]

Not had sex wif wifey for almost 2 years.. loser rite? when i moved out of the houe last year pending seperation, I stayed with my GF and we bonked every nite.. sometimes even more than once...

[dannywee75]

[QUOTE=jkljkl;1810800]Hi.

Here are some answers i found in the net regarding low sex drive. I hope u will find that useful and won't offend u.

It's very common in relationships to start off with a flurry, ~~~~~~~~~~~~the sheets tends to cool off as of for the treatment of depression and is marketed as Wellbutrin SR by Glaxo Wellcome Inc.

thanks, that is a nice readup ;)

[bolaking]

used to be twice a week but now getting older once in 2 weeks :D

[picoman]

twice a week

[fivehundred]

I bonk her once a week but before and after her menses period, I bonk 2-3 times a week :D

[zapper]

once a week and at time once in 2weeks.

[mokermania]

Sadly ,the true of me is once a month my wife and i will have sex...
and its always me who will ask from her.
She like no sex drive one ... why ar ? and she don't work ,she is a full time house wife...
but luckily got this forum, can get to bonk value WL twice every week...
Seriously i think my marriage sex life is a shame ... i ask my friend s around me , most of them twice a week even after they have kids ... knz

mayb she is tired due to taking care of kids during the days....

mayb wkend ask yr in laws to take care yr kids & u n her go "pak Tow" with her like going to movie ( mayb romantic movie etc) to build up her mood n than go hotel to bonk etc.

hope these help:)

me voted once a week and only on wkends:D

[Littlefeet]

I do it at least once a week with my gf. But sometimes when she is horny can also 3 times a week. :)

[Zebra]

I have it once a week :D

[city73]

Average twice per week with wife.

[Qimonda]

Cant recall when was the last time with wife but at least twice a week with GF

[Regaine]

Managed to do twice a week. :)

[SiberianTiger]

:p sorry i know how to read this poll is for guy...

how abt a poll for ger with husband or bfren????? :cool:

[Eragon]

Only once a month .:(

[speedpass]

Me & my wife also every other day . :o

[dannywee75]

just married of course la ...everyday ! but then after 10 years if still got 1 time a week also good liao ... LOL :)

[ekemono]

yah, bro dannywee75,

do open up to talk to your wife. Sometimes housework, some misunderstanding kept inside the heart and monotonous lifestyle can put a tow on one's life.

I use to have those bored, lost all hope, pessimistic feeling and work stress, $$ problem that causes me bro difficult to stand, and i rejested my wife a few occasional. Just no mood at all
Luckily I decided to open up and discuss with her.
gradually i found a more coping job and we change our lifestyle to be more active and do a vareity of activities. The good feeling came back again

[ekemono]

Not had sex wif wifey for almost 2 years.. loser rite? when i moved out of the houe last year pending seperation, I stayed with my GF and we bonked every nite.. sometimes even more than once...

no bro you are not a loser. you are doing wat's right for you.
I can understand. I am divorcee too
Now re married liao

[ah_hong]

I find the poll abit inconclusive leh..

Maybe can another one for only GFs, and one for Wives..

If GFs, I will also choose everyday and every single second lor until I am sick of it...

[chickenpie]

between 2 to 3 times a month.

[Qimonda]

Wife not sure liao but gf anytime possible

[maleslave69]

Hi

This subject to many reason..

If it's a new GF..maybe everyday, every second when two were together
If it's a GF that have known for yrs....maybe once a week or even try going out fishing already lo....:eek:

If it's a newly web, maybe everyday or every time when there is a chance.
If it's a wife who has known for yrs..... no ANSWER:eek:

[goat79]

Twice per week with OC, if not she will jump. :p

[Lawrence21]

Not married, meet up with gf every weekend for a bonk either her place or my place.

[4-eyes]

While mine allow us do once a week.

[ninty5sword]

1-2 times a week. Mostly need to see her mood. If happy, anytime can. If tired or cranky, then bo pian ..

[taka]

at most 2-3 times a month :)

[big ben]

Twice per week with wife :p

[liewching]

two times a week with wife

[willy]

Twice per week with wfe, usually on fri & Sun. On weekday, mon till thur it's once or twice in HC :D