Your thoughts on paid sex services (whether it's FJ or non-FJ)

[quaintatmospher]

Actually went through the entire 8 pages here looking for discussions on this and only interesting thought I could find was this (https://sbfsg.net/showpost.php?p=15654140&postcount=13).

Just curious what you guys think about such services.

I'm fairly religious and was raised in a conservative family (no sex before marriage, etc etc). However, my thoughts are that engaging in such activities are a normal part of our sexuality and is in line with normal sexual exploration. We literally evolved to be highly sexual, so that we could reproduce. Men (most of us, anyway) in particular evolved to be sexually-charged in the hopes of spreading our genes.

I understand where I'm asking this and the likely bias that will occur. :p

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A little bit about myself for those who're interested why I asked such a question.

I'm 24/M/C and I've never had sex before. However, over the past 2 years, I have amassed a small collection of sex toys. I was fine with that because I felt that was just exploration. Better that I have them than go look for prostitutes right? I think I have a fairly high libido, and it's very hard for me to go a few days before I feel the need to fap. On most days I fap about 2-3 times in 3 days.

A few years ago, I went on a family trip to Bali and got a legit massage, but ever since then, deep down I've always thought that happy endings were very hot, because I found out I was wet from the massage. It's probably just the body's reaction to so much physical interaction (even if non-sexual in nature), but I think the seed has been planted.

Last week, I went for an impromptu massage after an interview. The naughty guy in me went for some prostate care therapy, which was basically a massage + some hot stones on my pelvic region and some touching by the masseuse (I popped the GQ because she was touching me so sensually. At one point she was playing with my nipples and fondling my balls. Still got rejected in the end).

Now another seed has been planted. The past few days, I've been seriously thinking about going to get a massage with a happy ending. Was very conflicted because I was guilty of it, like I'm disappointing the people around me, but I've come to terms with it, so I no longer feel bad about it. Now I'm just curious to see what the people on here think.

[strikeback4]

Don't think so much

You want just do it, don't want than don't do it

Its just a transaction why you think so much? Instead of worrying, you should enjoy it

[siamkia49]

... Now I'm just curious to see what the people on here think.

I think its fine as long as u know your limits and how the game is played...

This is a sex forum so what do u think about what the people here thinks? :rolleyes:

[caoputt]

Actually went through the entire 8 pages here looking for discussions on this and only interesting thought I could find was this (https://sbfsg.net/showpost.php?p=15654140&postcount=13).

Just curious what you guys think about such services.

I'm fairly religious and was raised in a conservative family (no sex before marriage, etc etc). However, my thoughts are that engaging in such activities are a normal part of our sexuality and is in line with normal sexual exploration. We literally evolved to be highly sexual, so that we could reproduce. Men (most of us, anyway) in particular evolved to be sexually-charged in the hopes of spreading our genes.

I understand where I'm asking this and the likely bias that will occur. :p

************************************************** *****************************************

A little bit about myself for those who're interested why I asked such a question.

I'm 24/M/C and I've never had sex before. However, over the past 2 years, I have amassed a small collection of sex toys. I was fine with that because I felt that was just exploration. Better that I have them than go look for prostitutes right? I think I have a fairly high libido, and it's very hard for me to go a few days before I feel the need to fap. On most days I fap about 2-3 times in 3 days.

A few years ago, I went on a family trip to Bali and got a legit massage, but ever since then, deep down I've always thought that happy endings were very hot, because I found out I was wet from the massage. It's probably just the body's reaction to so much physical interaction (even if non-sexual in nature), but I think the seed has been planted.

Last week, I went for an impromptu massage after an interview. The naughty guy in me went for some prostate care therapy, which was basically a massage + some hot stones on my pelvic region and some touching by the masseuse (I popped the GQ because she was touching me so sensually. At one point she was playing with my nipples and fondling my balls. Still got rejected in the end).

Now another seed has been planted. The past few days, I've been seriously thinking about going to get a massage with a happy ending. Was very conflicted because I was guilty of it, like I'm disappointing the people around me, but I've come to terms with it, so I no longer feel bad about it. Now I'm just curious to see what the people on here think.

I agree with you, I do believe that indulging in these services is fine, it's just simply enjoying the spoils of life.

I've only got one piece of advice for you TS, try not to take any negative backlash you may receive to heart.

Many brothers here are tired of just having a fuck job where it's more taxing on their energy pool, they enjoy being serviced by the girls and prefer to just have a relaxing massage with an added sexual benefit at the end.

[rtlfy]

Do what makes you happy, paid sex helped me improve my confidence a lot, and now I am not as shy when talking to regular girls or even in my day to day life. You'll eventually realize it's not a big deal, sex becomes just like any other activity you enjoy doing. :)

[vanness]

don't do it. its a slippery slope of no return.

[18BronzeMen]

don't do it. its a slippery slope of no return.

Agree with you on this

[siamkia49]

don't do it. its a slippery slope of no return.

Agree with you on this

Why are u surfing sbf then? :confused:

[quaintatmospher]

I think its fine as long as u know your limits and how the game is played...

This is a sex forum so what do u think about what the people here thinks? :rolleyes:

Haha exactly! That's why I left this in the opening post:

I understand where I'm asking this and the likely bias that will occur.

Just interested to see what the people who have done it think. :o

[strikeback4]

Why are u surfing sbf then? :confused:

I am thinking the same thing...

Come sex forum ask to do or not to do :confused:

[Hanazono]

Why are u surfing sbf then? :confused:

Surfing sbf means must do everything in every section, from local to overseas to outerspace to the next universe? Did you do that? :rolleyes:

[siamkia49]

Surfing sbf means must do everything in every section, from local to overseas to outerspace to the next universe? Did you do that? :rolleyes:

I didn't know there is a astronomy section in sbf and I don't fuck aliens...
But I did local and overseas.

[quaintatmospher]

Agree with you on this

don't do it. its a slippery slope of no return.

Are you guys speaking from experience? That was one of my initial concern as well, but I figured if I end up not being able to get out of the rabbit hole, then so be it. I already rationalized it to be healthy exploration anyway.

What I was concerned with is that, over the years, I can see my tastes getting a little more eclectic. From normal fapping, to dabbling with ballbusting (it's now almost a routine part of my sessions :rolleyes:) to vibrators and prostate vibrators. But, eh, who knows if it's really a slippery slope or just the nature of exploration where one slowly tests one's limits.

[theDarkness]

once u go down this path, there's no turning back. u will definitely wanna go again and again.

[strikeback4]

once u go down this path, there's no turning back. u will definitely wanna go again and again.

Unless he have self control

Or 1st time tio KC than small head take over

[Sumkiu]

once u go down this path, there's no turning back. u will definitely wanna go again and again.

Very true!!

[Mitchrapp2000]

I just did it yesterday.

Didnt enjoy the sex. Didnt managed to finish the job end up just a HJ to finish. It was quite a clarifying experience for me. Will I engage FL again? Nope but it was money well spent to a certain extend.

[chirpydog]

you have a choice to go for it....but that doesn't mean you have to go for it..

It's like Smoking...too much or too heavy is no good...and after trying you would probably ask yourself why did you want to try in the first place.

Like smoking, you might want to know exactly what it means to your body, besides the shiok part

Check out one of my comment below on what it means to fuck someone

https://sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=15913204&postcount=40

In short sex is meant to be good and we are made to fuck like rabbits ... the question is who we are fucking...

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[conquer]

For me, calling chicken is like playing video game -- it is fun, but no matter how good you play the character, it can never be real.

It is meant to fulfill some of my desires which can never be realized in reality, e.g. I cannot just fuck any random girl on the street. Of course there are some drawbacks:

1) This game is super additive, you have to waste a lot of time and money for it. I used to spend more than 2k/month for this shit, but now I'm cutting off.

2) This game is dangerous, anything gone wrong may cost your health and even your life. I did my HIV test last month (because of changing job) I was so worry anything bad might happen. Luckily I am safe.

3) This game encourages criminal activities, e.g. document fraud, human trafficking, etc. The amount of manpower spent by the blueboys ended up the cost is bear by the tax payers.

4) For those who are in relationship, you are actually cheating your partner. Of course, unless you let them informed of your this little "hobby".

Overall, good and bad. Calling chicken is not a necessity, but if you like it, play it with caution. :)

[sadfa]

For

1) This game is super additive, you have to waste a lot of time and money for it. I used to spend more than 2k/month for this shit, but now I'm cutting off.

2) This game is dangerous, anything gone wrong may cost your health and even your life. I did my HIV test last month (because of changing job) I was so worry anything bad might happen. Luckily I am safe.

3) This game )

What is super additive.
Ntuc got sell bo.
Is it oyster sauce made from endangered giant clams.

And company health test wont cover HIV cos company have to pay more n there are endless tests u can do. unless of cos u work in those industrys where it can b contagious like medical n maybe food.
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[conquer]

What is super additive.
Ntuc got sell bo.
Is it oyster sauce made from endangered giant clams.

And company health test wont cover HIV cos company have to pay more n there are endless tests u can do. unless of cos u work in those industrys where it can b contagious like medical n maybe food.
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Exchange points must spell ma

Haha, additive refers to the following mathematical operation:

Chicken = money + time :p

[squiggle]

Control on your budget for paid sex, put all the religion thingy aside. As long you never rape anyone, being single and doing these in a legal brothel will do.

Try not to go for illegal massage parlours now, as it is against the law. They will chop you with expensive rates, which is not worth it.

Some people started all these when they reach 30, others they will start as soon as possible when they reach the legal age.

[strikeback4]

Haha, additive refers to the following mathematical operation:

Chicken = money + time :p

addictive la, spelling error, lol

[strikeback4]

Control on your budget for paid sex, put all the religion thingy aside. As long you never rape anyone, being single and doing these in a legal brothel will do.

Try not to go for illegal massage parlours now, as it is against the law. They will chop you with expensive rates, which is not worth it.

Some people started all these when they reach 30, others they will start as soon as possible when they reach the legal age.

Agree on this, if you are afraid you may break the law, GL is the best answer, no hidden cost and girls have to go for monthly check up and of legal age, so no need to worry for scandal where your name and face is posted on newspaper

[moty]

We never paid as we get free lol thanks to my wonderful Wife.
She enjoys and I too :)
Don't pay for sex just get a partner and if you want to pay then think twice as you better off masterbating and saving that money .
Try one day go into your room put the money on the computer table watch porn jerk off and clean up and pocket the money you will be a happy man after .

[conquer]

Try one day go into your room put the money on the computer table watch porn jerk off and clean up and pocket the money you will be a happy man after .

Yes, jerking yourself actually makes you richer... at least not poorer. :D

[strikeback4]

We never paid as we get free lol thanks to my wonderful Wife.
She enjoys and I too :)
Don't pay for sex just get a partner and if you want to pay then think twice as you better off masterbating and saving that money .
Try one day go into your room put the money on the computer table watch porn jerk off and clean up and pocket the money you will be a happy man after .

LOL good advice for those who have guilty conscience looking for WL / FL

[sgjoey]

You are so young.... better get a partner first and enjoy all that love offers. If you manage to find a good one, that probably beats anything that professionals offer.

But try not to commit to marriage too soon.... the costs and demands are high. When babies come along.... it gets worse....

Some years down the road may be a better time to get a taste of the professionals. That's when the chemistry between you and your spouse is not so strong, but you still find yourself attracted to the ladies.

As others have observed, it is rather addictive. I started about ten years ago, and am still enjoying it as much as ever. It's not cheap, but actually compared to the developed countries, it's much, much cheaper. Just make sure you can afford it.

[minxzk]

Yes, jerking yourself actually makes you richer... at least not poorer. :D

Yes you will be saving lots of $50.00 . :)