Best friend

[Cheesebeast]

Hey guys need some genuine advice and experience. Im in my final year of uni and have been really good friends with one of my coursemates. We have been close since the first day of school and i hope to remain good friends long after we graduate. I have been having the urge to have sex with her recently however i'm afraid that it would jeapordise our friendship. Personally im ok with a ons and going back to normal the day after but i dont know if she can be as cool about it.

Can anyone advise or share any experiences? Thanks

[haozboiboi]

Bro, advice is just try lorh.

After all, outcome is very much determined by the execution style. Some may pull it off, some can't.

There's no shame in trying.

[zeusfist]

if u afraid of losing the friendship den dun. i tried with 2 quite good female good friend. lost 1 but the other became one of the best fucks ever and become best friend with benefits. so i guess, u lose some, u win some.

[sexcision]

Hey guys need some genuine advice and experience. Im in my final year of uni and have been really good friends with one of my coursemates. We have been close since the first day of school and i hope to remain good friends long after we graduate. I have been having the urge to have sex with her recently however i'm afraid that it would jeapordise our friendship. Personally im ok with a ons and going back to normal the day after but i dont know if she can be as cool about it.

Can anyone advise or share any experiences? Thanks

Why not consider making her yr gf instead?

[Cheesebeast]

Why not consider making her yr gf instead?

We friends for too long alrd and i don't see her in a romantic way. Im not emotionally connected to her

Do you have gf? she have bf? or you just want fuck her?

Im seeing someone but we're not that serious yet. She doesn't have a bf. Im really curious to try her out just for one night. Ever since she took up a sport she looks extra sexy

[ddog]

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[xrage]

bro

IF you don't try, don't ask, you don't get.

If you don't try, you will never know. which is the same as now.

So why not?

[WesternWood]

We friends for too long alrd and i don't see her in a romantic way. Im not emotionally connected to her




Usually when people want to have sex with each other there will be some form of a connection whether it be physical or others . Since you are not connected to her romantically suggest that you either take a cold shower or just pcc yourself.

[freefuck]

Friend can try to go for friendly match once in a blue moon, especially when world cup is coming.

[Jebuschris91]

Usually when people want to have sex with each other there will be some form of a connection whether it be physical or others . Since you are not connected to her romantically suggest that you either take a cold shower or just pcc yourself.

Western wood is right, if you aren't emotionally connected to her how are you two friends for so long? Ask yourself if you lost her as a friend, would you be sad? If yes, then yes you are emotionally connected and it can develop into love. Afterall you two are male and female and you are already physically attracted to her, so unless she's a full time bitch in your opinion then nothing is stopping you from pursuing her.

But if she is a bitch then I don't even know why you are friends with her.

Anyway, dating someone who you can click with, and is physically attractive to you is a very good combo. Especially if she manages to be your best friend.

[haozboiboi]

Hey guys need some genuine advice and experience. Im in my final year of uni and have been really good friends with one of my coursemates. We have been close since the first day of school and i hope to remain good friends long after we graduate. I have been having the urge to have sex with her recently however i'm afraid that it would jeapordise our friendship. Personally im ok with a ons and going back to normal the day after but i dont know if she can be as cool about it.

Can anyone advise or share any experiences? Thanks

Haha, while contemplating your next moves, maybe you can update your story in your other thread first?

Serves the purpose of clearing your thoughts, and also strengthening your resolve either choice you make. Haha.

[Cheesebeast]

Haha, while contemplating your next moves, maybe you can update your story in your other thread first?

Serves the purpose of clearing your thoughts, and also strengthening your resolve either choice you make. Haha.


Hahaha wow a fan. School just started bro and have been a little busy. Dont worry i will update. Honestly didnt expect my story to turn into my reality haha

[lowhc]

You asking this question in a sex forum. Basic advice - ask her about her opinions on sex and if she's open on it, have sex. Do you really need to consider the future? :)

[Jtjan]

Hey guys need some genuine advice and experience. Im in my final year of uni and have been really good friends with one of my coursemates. We have been close since the first day of school and i hope to remain good friends long after we graduate. I have been having the urge to have sex with her recently however i'm afraid that it would jeapordise our friendship. Personally im ok with a ons and going back to normal the day after but i dont know if she can be as cool about it.

Can anyone advise or share any experiences? Thanks

Bro, in my experience, most gals are up for it.
Some may get emotionally attached though.

So it is important to give them a way out.
Go for drinks, alcoholic! In the comforts of your hostel room with no one around. When she is high, guide the topic to sex. Then move from there.

You are giving her the opportunity to have sex without looking like a slut. She can blame it on the alcohol. She will say things like normally she is not so promiscuous. Then if she gets serious emotionally, you have a back out option. Saying you want the friendship and it is the alcohol that took over when you did it. After careful guidance, you guys can put it off like a one-off occurrence.

If she wants it the next time, she wont mind drinking with you alone. That will be the signal. And if that becomes frequent, you have yourself a fuck buddy who knows you are not looking at her as a gf.

Many birds one stone.
Update me if you have tried my "tactic".



Cheers.

Jtjan

[koebshaq0_0]

Very true.

Bro, in my experience, most gals are up for it.
Some may get emotionally attached though.

So it is important to give them a way out.
Go for drinks, alcoholic! In the comforts of your hostel room with no one around. When she is high, guide the topic to sex. Then move from there.

You are giving her the opportunity to have sex without looking like a slut. She can blame it on the alcohol. She will say things like normally she is not so promiscuous. Then if she gets serious emotionally, you have a back out option. Saying you want the friendship and it is the alcohol that took over when you did it. After careful guidance, you guys can put it off like a one-off occurrence.

If she wants it the next time, she wont mind drinking with you alone. That will be the signal. And if that becomes frequent, you have yourself a fuck buddy who knows you are not looking at her as a gf.

Many birds one stone.
Update me if you have tried my "tactic".



Cheers.

Jtjan

[purepulp]

Hey guys need some genuine advice and experience. Im in my final year of uni and have been really good friends with one of my coursemates. We have been close since the first day of school and i hope to remain good friends long after we graduate. I have been having the urge to have sex with her recently however i'm afraid that it would jeapordise our friendship. Personally im ok with a ons and going back to normal the day after but i dont know if she can be as cool about it.

Can anyone advise or share any experiences? Thanks

Let me say this directly..

YOU want to to have sex with her and YOU are ok with a ONS. But what makes you think SHE wants to have sex with you and that SHE is ok with a ONS?

So to answer your question, stop thinking in your perspective but think in her perspective. Are there any signs? Is she also up for it? If you have doubts, abort the mission.

:cool:

[D-joker]

To be honest i lost quite a few good female frens due to sex. So i start restricting myself not to go for frens as well. They will start to want to own u n make u theirs once they fall in love w u. Then they start setting the rules n jelousy n supsicion start to set in. I dont like this kind of stuff hence i aways tell them. I rather be ur life long fren then to loose u forever.

[Cheesebeast]

I know this thread died like 2 years ago but felt like needed to close the loop:

Just banged her last night 😀

[jiajialiangteh]

nice one bro. so whats the status with her?:D

[diputs1269]

I know this thread died like 2 years ago but felt like needed to close the loop:

Just banged her last night 😀

Just one sentence is not closing but killing this thread.

You should elaborate in more details.

[HeLovesMe]

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Not true! Oxytocin is just stress relief to both sexes.

[AngelNguyen]

Just one sentence is not closing but killing this thread.

You should elaborate in more details.

Agree with you bro, we need juicy stuff :D

[smellie]

I know this thread died like 2 years ago but felt like needed to close the loop:

Just banged her last night 😀

Congrats bro, was she good? :p

[Cheesebeast]

Felt like it was the right time to finally do it. Decided not to sleep with her during our uni days as it might risk some awkwardness as we have the same circle of friends. But since we alrd graduated and dont see each other much, it was time to fulfill my curiosity.

[D-joker]

Aye. Since she is your best friend why not be honest to her and if it works out. Set out some ground rules lor.

[Cheesebeast]

Aye. Since she is your best friend why not be honest to her and if it works out. Set out some ground rules lor.

Bro like i said, she's just a good friend and im definitely not into her romantically. That night was just a case of lust curiosity. I dont intend of pursuing her as a gf

[Cheesebeast]

Congrats bro, was she good? :p

It was ok i guess, nothig to brag about. But all those tennis training and competition gave a her a great bod with toned abs though her boobs kinda small. Can tell she definitely inexperienced as i was initiating most of the moves and positions. She was also quite grossed out when i pulled out and came on her stomach - almost a definite sign shes not used to it

[wantedbryan]

It was ok i guess, nothig to brag about. But all those tennis training and competition gave a her a great bod with toned abs though her boobs kinda small. Can tell she definitely inexperienced as i was initiating most of the moves and positions. She was also quite grossed out when i pulled out and came on her stomach - almost a definite sign shes not used to it

So in the past all her sex was capped or cip? haha :D

[lancelim]

It was ok i guess, nothig to brag about. But all those tennis training and competition gave a her a great bod with toned abs though her boobs kinda small. Can tell she definitely inexperienced as i was initiating most of the moves and positions. She was also quite grossed out when i pulled out and came on her stomach - almost a definite sign shes not used to it

Some girls are grossed out at the idea of having cum on their body. This one reason alone can make me change targets.