Time changes everything.

[Atomants]

Just a sharing for the weekend :)

This happened some 10 years ago .

She was in her 30s I was in my 40s , we were 6 years apart,

It was with online chat and we decided to meetup after chatting for sometimes. She was separated and I was married.

It started with a kiss , a BJ afterwards and it set us on a 10years journey with each other.

Looking back there were alot alot of hot sex for the next 8 years or so and as time goes by things changes.

She wanted to move on with her life and I was prepared to let her go because I can't promise her anything after all.

It was difficult for both of us I guess and the next 2 years things changes the sex and passion was lesser and there were more arguments and such.

She began to go out with other guys and also having fling with them ( learn from her close friend ) and I was left high and dry.

So time do change things

It must have been 2 yrs plus that we have not contacted and I have since left this behind and decide to refocus my life.


Just sharing :) have a great weekend everyone!

[yobyella]

Ya. Just move on. No point looking back your past

[loneyheart]

When u r there just enjoy to its fullest
When its gone just let go n move on
We r always lonely anyway n will leave everything behind n gone someday

[orangeproud]

Indeed, time changes everything including human heart. We human everyday also change due to circumstances or others. 我觉得你们若是个性上的不和而经常吵架,倒不如大家好聚好散,留给彼此好的回忆! 就算充满不舍,也要往前走!因为她也许只是您生命中的过客!缘起缘灭!

[MoeLanYong]

TS,
Without being rude, your title should be: Wisdom changes everything.

If you had invested those passions with your wife instead, you could have brought your marriage to another level and reminisce about the past without heartbreaks. Why get married when you are not done flirting? When married, why don't you keep your vow to your wife and focus on her all the time?

You see your affair as a conquest. It is actually a scar. One you cannot talk about openly except in this forum. If only cows knew the grass is not necessarily greener the other side.

[GCEresult]

Ya. Just move on. No point looking back your past

Agreed as well

[sweet17]

You build on failure. You use it as a stepping stone. Close the door on the past. You don't try to forget the mistakes, but you don't dwell on it. You don't let it have any of your energy, or any of your time, or any of your space.