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horny4life
19-10-2017, 11:16 AM
I have a recent story which I like to share. He confided in me and asked me to help him out. I have a friend who has a wife and was married for a couple of years. Their marriage has no more sparks within. So the wife recently used an app to look for people to talk and hola met a really nice guy on the app. They started to chat more and more and eventually went out to walk, eat etc. He was the man that every woman would like. He was handsome and rich from what he claims. He claims to be 31, working as a financial advisor, earning at a high income of $6k and also has 1 car and also a motorbike.
Everything was a dream to his wife and she was mesmerised by his looks. The time they spent took longer and she goes home late. My friend tracked her locations and found out the truth. He was furious and quarrels happened. Finally quarrels subsided when the wife promised not to look for him anymore.
The matter took for a turn when he found out that the wife actually slept with the man once in a hotel and after that, he was still in contact with her and also saying sweet stuff to her to make her hang on to him. He was devastated and wanted to find the man out. He confronted the wife and demanded for his contacts and details. The wife told him that all his details of his job, age etc were all fake when they were in the hotel. The guy confessed to her only after they had sex. The wife was sad and felt rotten to the core, left the hotel and went back home. After that, the guy still sweet talk to her until one day, he flared up and shot at the wife saying she did not trust him and looked down at him. He blocked her on the app and ignored his messages etc. My friend now wants to find this guy. He appealed to me to see if any of our brothers know him by face or know his real details.
fake info given:
Age: 31
Job: Financial Advisor
Salary: $6k
Real Info in truth ( need to know)
Name is Alex Teo Jun Wei
Age: 35
Job: Working in a pharmaceutical company selling botox around Alexandra area
Car: Honda SKG 6XXX
Secondary School: Claims to be from Dunman Sec ( not verified)
Address: Bedok Reservoir Road area (tried finding him but not found)
Contacts: unknown
claims to be a frequent member at gymmbox(Bedok)
(went to ask, no such person)
My friend's wife says she is pregnant with his kid, wants to look for the man and asked him what he intends to do? how can he run away and avoid her after seducing her and made her to have sex with him. My friend says if the guy is found, he will divorce her and give her his freedom.
Can any brothers help? If pic is needed, will see if photos can be given.
yuddle
19-10-2017, 11:46 AM
wah bro... what the heck man just divorce her even if he can't find him imo
xchange
19-10-2017, 12:53 PM
File for divorce and name the guy as Co-defendant in statement of claim as the wife has committed adultery .
He will be served a writ and make to pay for the legal costs and private investigation costs (provided a PI was hired)
If husband continue living with her after discovering the adultery 6 months without starting divorce he cannot use adultery for divorce.
kim-seng-heng
19-10-2017, 05:10 PM
Guess is too common for this nowadays. Seen many woman slept behind the hubby too.
Wife already pregnant with another man's child.... what is your friend thinking? Still trying to locate this man? And ask him to be responsible or gonna ransom him?
horny4life
19-10-2017, 08:33 PM
I think my friend wants to give him a good beating up first. Should I post his pic here?
MoeLanYong
19-10-2017, 11:17 PM
Yea, post his pic here for bros to help if you want a better chance of finding him. But I don't see the point. What are you going to do after finding him? You can bring friends to beat him, he can bring friends to beat you. You manage to ambush him, and beat him badly, he can file charges. Remember, it is not too long ago an aged man was sentenced to death for beating and killing his wife's young bf in a van with a few accomplices. Is this the revenge you seek? You sure you want to be a part of it? That murder was so gruelsome the van driver ran away halfway through the beating after smelling the blood. He got 5 years jail for his part.
Imho, your friend's wife made a choice. Suffer the consequences then. It is not a crime for people to tell fake bio data or impregnate a woman.
Xia406
19-10-2017, 11:55 PM
I have a recent story which I like to share. He confided in me and asked me to help him out. I have a friend who has a wife and was married for a couple of years. Their marriage has no more sparks within. So the wife recently used an app to look for people to talk and hola met a really nice guy on the app. They started to chat more and more and eventually went out to walk, eat etc. He was the man that every woman would like. He was handsome and rich from what he claims. He claims to be 31, working as a financial advisor, earning at a high income of $6k and also has 1 car and also a motorbike.
Everything was a dream to his wife and she was mesmerised by his looks. The time they spent took longer and she goes home late. My friend tracked her locations and found out the truth. He was furious and quarrels happened. Finally quarrels subsided when the wife promised not to look for him anymore.
The matter took for a turn when he found out that the wife actually slept with the man once in a hotel and after that, he was still in contact with her and also saying sweet stuff to her to make her hang on to him. He was devastated and wanted to find the man out. He confronted the wife and demanded for his contacts and details. The wife told him that all his details of his job, age etc were all fake when they were in the hotel. The guy confessed to her only after they had sex. The wife was sad and felt rotten to the core, left the hotel and went back home. After that, the guy still sweet talk to her until one day, he flared up and shot at the wife saying she did not trust him and looked down at him. He blocked her on the app and ignored his messages etc. My friend now wants to find this guy. He appealed to me to see if any of our brothers know him by face or know his real details.
fake info given:
Age: 31
Job: Financial Advisor
Salary: $6k
Real Info in truth ( need to know)
Name is Alex Teo Jun Wei
Age: 35
Job: Working in a pharmaceutical company selling botox around Alexandra area
Car: Honda SKG 6XXX
Secondary School: Claims to be from Dunman Sec ( not verified)
Address: Bedok Reservoir Road area (tried finding him but not found)
Contacts: unknown
claims to be a frequent member at gymmbox(Bedok)
(went to ask, no such person)
My friend's wife says she is pregnant with his kid, wants to look for the man and asked him what he intends to do? how can he run away and avoid her after seducing her and made her to have sex with him. My friend says if the guy is found, he will divorce her and give her his freedom.
Can any brothers help? If pic is needed, will see if photos can be given.
No offence bro, but has your friend lost his mind already? Wife already made him a cuckold. Still want to find her lover for f?
At this point after reading your story, I can only think that unless your friend still loves his wife very much... I don't see a point in staying in the marriage.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. A woman who is easily enticed into bed with some money and some sugar coated words, is nothing but a stupid woman. Not worth a guy's time.
The way I look at it there are only 2 ways out of it.
1) Ditch his wife, let her learn a painful lesson from her mistake.
2) If he still loves her, insist that she abort that b*****d in her womb and put her on probation.
Else, I don't see the coward owning up. I do know of a former colleague named Alex who was a douchebag, but not sure if its the same guy. Maybe u can share around his pic as he deserves a good beating too.
horny4life
20-10-2017, 04:22 AM
I will let my Friend know of all the suggestions of all our brothers provided. But in the meantime, there’s still time.
horny4life
20-10-2017, 04:25 AM
No offence bro, but has your friend lost his mind already? Wife already made him a cuckold. Still want to find her lover for f?
At this point after reading your story, I can only think that unless your friend still loves his wife very much... I don't see a point in staying in the marriage.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. A woman who is easily enticed into bed with some money and some sugar coated words, is nothing but a stupid woman. Not worth a guy's time.
The way I look at it there are only 2 ways out of it.
1) Ditch his wife, let her learn a painful lesson from her mistake.
2) If he still loves her, insist that she abort that b*****d in her womb and put her on probation.
Else, I don't see the coward owning up. I do know of a former colleague named Alex who was a douchebag, but not sure if its the same guy. Maybe u can share around his pic as he deserves a good beating too.
May I know this Alex of yours, is he working in the same industry as I mentioned? Or could u share to me what this Alex did? Thanks.
horny4life
20-10-2017, 09:43 AM
Just got to know of this piece of new information. This Alex will be going to Jurong camp for ICT and his birthday is 22/9/1982. Anybody knows him, kindly provide his actual info. Will up his points. Thanks
wells
20-10-2017, 06:18 PM
My thoughts are no point finding him out. Surely you can wack him jia lat and no lose reason for doing so.. Since marriage no spark liao why not take this chance to divorce for good?
Its tough during this period, tell your friend to bite the bullet and move on with pride and dignity.
Cuntworth
20-10-2017, 06:39 PM
Got pic to show???:D
horny4life
20-10-2017, 07:50 PM
Im trying to post his pic here but I don't know how to. Any brothers can teach? I tried posting his pic but it didn't load
GilengkiatMaMi
20-10-2017, 08:07 PM
your friend should dump his cheating wife, ask him to take care and find a better woman next time
KartoonKracker
20-10-2017, 11:48 PM
your friend should dump his cheating wife, ask him to take care and find a better woman next time
sounds like a good advice
Barracuda
21-10-2017, 08:39 AM
Im trying to post his pic here but I don't know how to. Any brothers can teach? I tried posting his pic but it didn't load
Upload the pic to imgur then paste the link here
horny4life
21-10-2017, 11:38 AM
The man photo is here. Please try to see if it works. First time posting
https://imgur.com/a/J6vQy
Xia406
21-10-2017, 09:45 PM
The man photo is here. Please try to see if it works. First time posting
https://imgur.com/a/J6vQy
Hi bro, no I confirm it is a different guy.
The Alex I know was in the telecommunications industry.
horny4life
22-10-2017, 09:53 AM
Hi bro, no I confirm it is a different guy.
The Alex I know was in the telecommunications industry.
What did that Alex do? Care to share?
iluvbreast
23-10-2017, 01:04 PM
File for divorce and name the guy as Co-defendant in statement of claim as the wife has committed adultery .
He will be served a writ and make to pay for the legal costs and private investigation costs (provided a PI was hired)
If husband continue living with her after discovering the adultery 6 months without starting divorce he cannot use adultery for divorce.
TS, I think what your friend should do is just to divorce his wife, there is no need to look for her lover in this case....
The quote above is not entirely true, this is still a civil case, to get the guy to pay for legal and PI cost is not going to be that easy and it will add on more cost for your friend.
What is true is that your friend have only 6 months to use adultery to divorce, it is especially easy now since he is certain that his wife is pregnant with another's child.
I think what you friend should do now is get his divorce done ASAP, with the minimal cost and get as much of the joint assets as possible, so that he can start afresh.
bfreemen
23-10-2017, 01:28 PM
the law is not equal to man . so dont need to waste time with her .
move on . woman keep saying all man can be trusted ? so now what ?
Arrogate
23-10-2017, 01:36 PM
Your fren wife pussy itchy n now become this guys fault? So jus bcos he lied abt his status?? So if he really rich then no issue is it?? Really damn ridiculous. What goes on between 2 consenting adults is their issue n doesnt warrant for a post like tis.
TS, ur lucky if this guy dun find u n sue u for tarnishing his reputation. U assume that the wife told everything truthfully? If she can let another guy fuck what makes u think she wun lie?
Really damn ridiculous.
cocky1234
23-10-2017, 01:42 PM
I suspect is TS wife kena fuck, thn use a cover story said helping friends.
Why don't TS post the wife pict. Mayb more bros can help identify if they had fuck her before
horny4life
23-10-2017, 06:29 PM
I suspect is TS wife kena fuck, thn use a cover story said helping friends.
Why don't TS post the wife pict. Mayb more bros can help identify if they had fuck her before
Sometimes I really wonder why guys always think so disgustingly. If woman commit adultery, then man lose out. If man commit adultery, still man lose out. Headache. Oh well. Anyway, my friend’s Wife decided to abort the baby. No point keeping as the man does not want to be responsible. She chose family instead of man.
Btw, can u don’t be so bastard, post my Wife pic for what? Y not u post your Wife pic instead and see if any Bros fucked her before!
marl13
24-10-2017, 08:08 AM
Hi,
Just sharing not being mean.
She will forever remember she killed her own baby. and if that friend is you , you will always remember the green hat she gave u no matter how much u can be in denial.
It is best to really really think if both the involved party can move on from such a big episode and frankly speaking very very few couples can , in fact i know not of any that did move on completely after wife or husband commit adultery , she also admit she loved that guy back then and wanted to leave to be with him to the point of having his baby.
So pls think really hard and good luck to the both of u.
cocky1234
24-10-2017, 10:32 AM
Sometimes I really wonder why guys always think so disgustingly. If woman commit adultery, then man lose out. If man commit adultery, still man lose out. Headache. Oh well. Anyway, my friend’s Wife decided to abort the baby. No point keeping as the man does not want to be responsible. She chose family instead of man.
Btw, can u don’t be so bastard, post my Wife pic for what? Y not u post your Wife pic instead and see if any Bros fucked her before!
Sorry for my bad English, not want to see ur wife. Can post your friends wife? Since you already posted the guy pic. Wont do more harm right for you to post the wife pic as well.
lawry
26-10-2017, 12:28 AM
Sometimes I really wonder why guys always think so disgustingly. If woman commit adultery, then man lose out. If man commit adultery, still man lose out. Headache. Oh well. Anyway, my friend’s Wife decided to abort the baby. No point keeping as the man does not want to be responsible. She chose family instead of man.
Btw, can u don’t be so bastard, post my Wife pic for what? Y not u post your Wife pic instead and see if any Bros fucked her before!
Lol. So this whole thing it’s not your friend.. it’s you..
by the way, what all brothers said are true.
Once a cheater always a cheater.
Man and women different,
Man fuck for physical feeling.
Women only fuck when they are emotional attached .
Anyway kudos that you forgive her. I would say it’s a wrong move. One hand can’t clap.. also you trust the story been told? It’s all the men fault.
That guy seduce, sweet talk.. blah blah blah.. lol
Why not it’s the lady act she is not married but has a bastard bf who can’t fuck well. Beat her up.. shout at her.. psycho at her.. that’s why she goes into online apps to find other men? This might be the story that she told the other guy and after the guy founds out (after a few fucks) he quickly run away and change all contacts? Or he might not be the only one who she fuck.. just that this guy is the worst fuck and he was given the sole blame?
All I have mentioned are possibilities.
I knew a SG club singer.. act pitiful say ex husband spend so much money and die leaving a bunch of ah Leong after her.. the ex husband has 2 kids from previous marriage. They are married for only 1 year plus..
The truth I have found out.. she loves spending. She owe the ah leong money not ex husband..
She even went to court to fight for the house the ex husband left and wanted to evict the 2 kids so she can’t sell the house,,
Bloody Bitch.. but when she comes to me.. she portray she is the victim..
KNNBACCB.
People kid also want to chased out of house so as to sell and get money..
So you so sure your wife is an angel? It’s all that guy fault? Don’t make me laugh. If she is mother mary. She would not go to online app and find men.
She would not do it raw when she has a husband..
We go call chicken also wear condom.. worst than chicken..
kim-seng-heng
26-10-2017, 01:41 PM
Lol. So this whole thing it’s not your friend.. it’s you..
by the way, what all brothers said are true.
Once a cheater always a cheater.
Man and women different,
Man fuck for physical feeling.
Women only fuck when they are emotional attached .
Anyway kudos that you forgive her. I would say it’s a wrong move. One hand can’t clap.. also you trust the story been told? It’s all the men fault.
That guy seduce, sweet talk.. blah blah blah.. lol
Why not it’s the lady act she is not married but has a bastard bf who can’t fuck well. Beat her up.. shout at her.. psycho at her.. that’s why she goes into online apps to find other men? This might be the story that she told the other guy and after the guy founds out (after a few fucks) he quickly run away and change all contacts? Or he might not be the only one who she fuck.. just that this guy is the worst fuck and he was given the sole blame?
All I have mentioned are possibilities.
I knew a SG club singer.. act pitiful say ex husband spend so much money and die leaving a bunch of ah Leong after her.. the ex husband has 2 kids from previous marriage. They are married for only 1 year plus..
The truth I have found out.. she loves spending. She owe the ah leong money not ex husband..
She even went to court to fight for the house the ex husband left and wanted to evict the 2 kids so she can’t sell the house,,
Bloody Bitch.. but when she comes to me.. she portray she is the victim..
KNNBACCB.
People kid also want to chased out of house so as to sell and get money..
So you so sure your wife is an angel? It’s all that guy fault? Don’t make me laugh. If she is mother mary. She would not go to online app and find men.
She would not do it raw when she has a husband..
We go call chicken also wear condom.. worst than chicken..
Woman words cant be trusted one . They always try to portrait themself as victims . Modern woman is like devil in disguise wearing angel uniform.
ilovepantyhose
26-10-2017, 10:57 PM
woman words cant be trusted one . They always try to portrait themself as victims . Modern woman is like devil in disguise wearing angel uniform.
张无忌他娘说过:“孩儿,你长大了之后,要提防女人骗你,越是好看的女人,越会骗人。”
.....
Man and women different,
Man fuck for physical feeling.
Women only fuck when they are emotional attached .
Bro, you are absolutely right on this pointer.....
Max77
31-10-2017, 09:36 AM
Erm...got car plate number still cant find him meh? Unless shared then dont say lah
HonkyTonkyMan
02-11-2017, 03:56 PM
Oh well. Anyway, my friend’s Wife decided to abort the baby. No point keeping as the man does not want to be responsible. She chose family instead of man.
Can your friend move pass this and carry on with his wife....
Shadow_warrior
04-11-2017, 02:47 AM
Woman words cant be trusted one . They always try to portrait themself as victims . Modern woman is like devil in disguise wearing angel uniform.
that's really true
women cannot believe. times are different now
they can no longer say all men are liars because they do a better job than men
Siriusam
15-12-2017, 10:04 AM
wah kaoz 6K considered high income ah..
6K with car and bike not enough to even support a family lah please
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