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yuddle
19-10-2017, 09:59 PM
Inspired by the similar thread on Viet life partners.

Hope to hear from any experienced bros about their life together with their Thai partners and the cultural experiences integrating a Confucian belief system with that of your Thai partner :D

sweet17
02-12-2017, 03:21 PM
Thailand is separated into four distinct regions. Despite the overarching strength and unity of Thai culture, each region has its own unique cultural and geographic features.
Northern Thailand shares its border with Myanmar and Laos. This region is mountainous and filled with thick forests and river valleys. Its culture is heavily influenced by Burmese culture and it carries strong influences from the historical Lanna kingdom.
Northeastern Thailand, also known as Isan, is largely isolated from the rest of Thailand by a large mountain range. A Lao-speaking majority, as well as a primarily agricultural society, characterize this culturally distinct region.
Southern Thailand, located on the Malay peninsula, is home to many of Thailand’s pristine beaches and resorts. With a more tropical climate, this narrow land mass is home to a many fishing communities.
It is the region of Central Thailand that is predominant, though. This region is the seat of Thailand’s modern-day capital city, Bangkok. With its fertile plains, it has also long been the economic center of the country, producing the majority of Thailand’s rice. Central Thailand is also the area that has the greatest population density, and the greatest concentration of the ethnic Thai majority. It is the political, economic, and cultural center of Thailand.

lenz
02-12-2017, 03:30 PM
unless u are able to speak and understand the language.. is best not to mess with them

Tuanehkia
03-12-2017, 07:17 AM
Thai girls are awesome! Pretty, sexy and lovely. Their bbbj skills and fj skill are amazing. Basically they are out to please. CIM, COB, COF whatever you call it is possible. During CIM in mouth, they suck you dry till your last drop

yuddle
03-12-2017, 04:25 PM
Thailand is separated into four distinct regions. Despite the overarching strength and unity of Thai culture, each region has its own unique cultural and geographic features.
Northern Thailand shares its border with Myanmar and Laos. This region is mountainous and filled with thick forests and river valleys. Its culture is heavily influenced by Burmese culture and it carries strong influences from the historical Lanna kingdom.
Northeastern Thailand, also known as Isan, is largely isolated from the rest of Thailand by a large mountain range. A Lao-speaking majority, as well as a primarily agricultural society, characterize this culturally distinct region.
Southern Thailand, located on the Malay peninsula, is home to many of Thailand’s pristine beaches and resorts. With a more tropical climate, this narrow land mass is home to a many fishing communities.
It is the region of Central Thailand that is predominant, though. This region is the seat of Thailand’s modern-day capital city, Bangkok. With its fertile plains, it has also long been the economic center of the country, producing the majority of Thailand’s rice. Central Thailand is also the area that has the greatest population density, and the greatest concentration of the ethnic Thai majority. It is the political, economic, and cultural center of Thailand.

great read bro upped you, cheers!

Nickochee
03-12-2017, 06:00 PM
Thai girls are awesome! Pretty, sexy and lovely. Their bbbj skills and fj skill are amazing. Basically they are out to please. CIM, COB, COF whatever you call it is possible. During CIM in mouth, they suck you dry till your last drop

Lol. Tell them u got no money n see how dry they suck u la.

lenz
03-12-2017, 07:25 PM
Lol. Tell them u got no money n see how dry they suck u la.


Totally agree... how many of them will be willingly to stay with u when u have no money. Love cant feed them

moneymoneycome
04-12-2017, 09:17 PM
Totally agree with you guys, these puyings have only one thing on their mind, MONEY! Had seen too many of their tricks, always complain no money, no money for house, no money for family, no money for food, no money for car, no money for petrol, no money for electricity, no money for phone top up so cannot contact.....blah blah blah, the list is endless. See how their attitude change when you tell them you dont have money too. But if you do give, they will stay sweet for a few days and the nonsense will starts again.

One thing I notice, they always complain no money, but they always have money for drinking and partying with their friends! LOL

moneymoneycome
04-12-2017, 09:23 PM
Totally agree with you guys, they are nice to you when they get their money, if you tell them you dont have, see how their attitude change, been there, done that. But they always have money to go drinking, partying, clubbing, gathering. Even when they tell you they dont have money LOL.

moneymoneycome
04-12-2017, 11:37 PM
Couldnt agree more, no money their attitude changes 180 degrees. Always got excuses for asking for money. Never ending stories.

Underthetable
05-12-2017, 12:56 PM
Their only mindset is.....money makes the world go round

Tuanehkia
08-12-2017, 03:34 PM
Totally agree with you guys, these puyings have only one thing on their mind, MONEY! Had seen too many of their tricks, always complain no money, no money for house, no money for family, no money for food, no money for car, no money for petrol, no money for electricity, no money for phone top up so cannot contact.....blah blah blah, the list is endless. See how their attitude change when you tell them you dont have money too. But if you do give, they will stay sweet for a few days and the nonsense will starts again.

One thing I notice, they always complain no money, but they always have money for drinking and partying with their friends! LOL

Out of 100 girls, 99 will leave you if you have no $$. The only one that may stay with you is your wife. Yet whole freaking world is fucking around. Obviously $ is important la. With love, can buy bread or not.

End of the day, having enough $$ is important. Once $$ hit certain amount, it is not important anymore

naemlo
08-12-2017, 03:59 PM
unless u are able to speak and understand the language.. is best not to mess with them

It is the same in the world not only Thailand.

Lol. Tell them u got no money n see how dry they suck u la.

They will chop off your dick and feed the chicken.


Out of 100 girls, 99 will leave you if you have no $$.

Not 99.... the problem with men is, they get to know most of the gers from entertainment joints.... these gers will suck u dry. BTW not only Thai gers, any entertainment gers in this world will do the same.

moneymoneycome
08-12-2017, 09:18 PM
Not only from entertainment circle, even those that work in proper job behave the same way. Foreign men = big fat carrot on the chopping board

yuddle
09-12-2017, 12:43 PM
drama looks good! thanks for the rec, need to pick up some thai anyway so this is just the thing for me.

TS,

If you able the understand thai language, do watch this drama : หลงไฟ on YouTube. There’s no subtitle unfortunately.

Normally, I will just let the drama end all the episodes before watching it, but however this drama really good to the extend I need to watch it live on every mon and tue at 2020hrs. The ending part quite sad thou. :D

This drama portrays much what I’m wrote in my previous statement. ;)

moneymoneycome
16-12-2017, 03:43 AM
55555, forgot to add, they will be piss off when no money is given. Those puying will block you BUT when the money runs out, they will unblock and try to be nice and sweet again just to try their luck!

Come to think of it, if need to use money to keep these relationships, isn't it better to pay to fuck? Will get a new one to use everytime we pay.

moneymoneycome
16-12-2017, 05:14 PM
If you encounter such girl better get rid of her in your in your life. Negative people shouldn’t exist in your life. :D

Love is free and should come for free, if love involves money then it’s not genuine love. Once you run out of money, she will leave you. Matter of time. You playing with time bomb. :D:p

Fully agree, I dump that shit long ago. She still tries to contact me once in a while. I just play along but I had made it clear that no money will be given, it is either she stay on as a obedient puying or F*** Off, don't even give a damn for her now. Btw it is not one lady but a few!😏😏😏😎😛

moneymoneycome
16-12-2017, 11:38 PM
Jing jing Bro? Chan mai kow chai kuam khip khong stri chau thai

moneymoneycome
16-12-2017, 11:51 PM
One more point to add,thai ladies have this mentality that foreign men must not have a certain proficiency in thai language, they will question where you learn thai from? And they will assume that you have many many thai girlfriends. I will tell them off that now adays technology is so advance and we can pick up thai from the World wide web.

They want us to be 100% faithful and yet they can have multiples boyfriends and cannot question them on their behaviour, objectives, agenda ...... what a load of crap from these ladies!

naemlo
17-12-2017, 01:01 AM
Jing jing Bro? Chan mai kow chai kuam khip khong stri chau thai

Your Thai si beh chim. :confused:

One more point to add,thai ladies have this mentality that foreign men must not have a certain proficiency in thai language, they will question where you learn thai from?

What type of Thai gers have u been meeting? :confused:

moneymoneycome
17-12-2017, 03:53 AM
Your Thai si beh chim. :confused:



What type of Thai gers have u been meeting? :confused:

55555 normal girls working as teacher, in bank, office.

acebookie88
17-12-2017, 03:59 AM
Out of 100 girls, 99 will leave you if you have no $$. The only one that may stay with you is your wife. Yet whole freaking world is fucking around. Obviously $ is important la. With love, can buy bread or not.

End of the day, having enough $$ is important. Once $$ hit certain amount, it is not important anymore

I like your quote. Once $$ hit certain amount, it is not important anymore.

acebookie88
17-12-2017, 04:00 AM
55555 normal girls working as teacher, in bank, office.

Teach me thai can? damn chim

moneymoneycome
17-12-2017, 04:14 AM
Teach me thai can? damn chim

I am still learning thai as I go along. We can learn together. Youtube is a good teacher

naemlo
17-12-2017, 10:16 AM
55555 normal girls working as teacher, in bank, office.

Then u better move on with other group of so called friends. BTW, learn Thai also must learn properly and right channel. If your long hair dict is from issan, u might learn issan Thai. :D 1 example, aroi mai vs zap bor. :D

Thai language is a bit confusing for beginner. As a foreigner, a lot of effort to learn the right proper Thai but most of us learn "street Thai" for daily communication.

An example, address oneself, pom, pii, nong, dii chan and so on.... "Chan mai kow chai", u must have listen to too many Thai songs and learn to use "chan"... "Chan" mainly for women or very informal and no one uses this. :D On the street when u dun understand, normally Thai will just reply, "mai kow chai" or add a "pom".

BTW what is, "kuam khip khong stri chau thai"??? :confused: Vietnamese?

naemlo
17-12-2017, 10:17 AM
accurate, as there’s tone for each word. Diff tone represent diff meaning. i.e “Maa ” got 3 meaning. Can be dog, horse or come. But all 3 is at different tone.

Should be 5 different "maa".

moneymoneycome
20-12-2017, 07:54 AM
No way to be faithful when dating a thai girl. :p Better have min 5 spare besides than her. Unless you sure she doesn’t have anyone else. :D[/QUOTE]

This is very true, must have plenty of back up. Cover from hatyai to bkk to surin to khon kaen to udon thani to chiang mai to chaing rai. Been there done that:D

bluetooth
20-12-2017, 01:43 PM
https://image.ibb.co/njD4AR/25396057_397449634001141_4027891907041420549_n.jpg

Datingafter35
20-12-2017, 01:56 PM
Totally agree with you guys, these puyings have only one thing on their mind, MONEY! Had seen too many of their tricks, always complain no money, no money for house, no money for family, no money for food, no money for car, no money for petrol, no money for electricity, no money for phone top up so cannot contact.....blah blah blah, the list is endless. See how their attitude change when you tell them you dont have money too. But if you do give, they will stay sweet for a few days and the nonsense will starts again.

One thing I notice, they always complain no money, but they always have money for drinking and partying with their friends! LOL

Isn't it the same for Singapore girls? If you don't have looks then it's money.

moneymoneycome
20-12-2017, 03:43 PM
https://image.ibb.co/njD4AR/25396057_397449634001141_4027891907041420549_n.jpg

This is the only way to make them miss you. Kid Terng mak mak

old_yet_horny
20-12-2017, 04:09 PM
Can't compare myself to some veterans who have been residing in Thailand for many years but my 2 years living in Thailand have made me come to conclude something about Thai ladies especially those I get to know in clubs/pubs/bars & restaurants /any drinking places:


1) Telling lies is in their genes (never even believe 50% of what they said)

2) 60% will have more than 1 partner at any moment of time excluding yourself

3) Their priority as follows: Rank 1=Your money, Rank 2= her mother, Rank 3=her pet dog/cat, Rank 4=her friend(s),Rank 5= her Thai Giks and if your are lucky... Rank 13=yourself.

I have 3 friends who married Thai wives, Friend A who is happily married with 2 kids. Friend B divorced, ex wife got his 2 houses+ 1 Nissan Teana. Friend C got divorced 1 year later after he opened 2 hair salon and 1 cafe for his Thai wife.

So just proceed with lots of caution.

moneymoneycome
20-12-2017, 07:40 PM
Never trust those puyings. No matter how sad their stories are!. 100% agree with bro old yet horny said, telling lies are in their genes, it is an inborn trait pass on from generations to generations. One of my ex, her mum at 50++ still has many guys to fool around and those guys are in their 20s and 30s. Lol. Chinese saying upper beam not straight, lower beam follow suits!

naemlo
21-12-2017, 12:00 AM
Try do people watching in Bangkok, you can see many beauty and the beast walking at siam paragon/ central embassy. :D

Lucky, I am always in neighborhood shopping mall.

moneymoneycome
21-12-2017, 12:27 AM
[QUOTE=55055;16815480]They need sex. :p:D[/QUOT

Old pipe needs to be clear of choke 55555. Buchai ducks, need money from old goose.

naemlo
21-12-2017, 01:21 AM
5555 night bazaar, Talad Rot Faii, also many. :p:D

I better avoid these places... :eek:

moneymoneycome
22-12-2017, 07:31 PM
Those ladies will always make a u turn when they need a favour. Just happen to me now. 55555

bluetooth
23-12-2017, 05:02 PM
No money no honey.

A+++
29-12-2017, 05:33 PM
Inspired by the similar thread on Viet life partners.

Hope to hear from any experienced bros about their life together with their Thai partners and the cultural experiences integrating a Confucian belief system with that of your Thai partner :D

Well from what I understand is that thai girls are still better than viet chicks. Viet will take ur money to feed their useless family. As for culture thai is more modern & similar to us compared to viet.
Well like all bros said not all thai/viet are bad cos most bros here know thai/viet from clubs & ktv of course their 1st priority is to suck money from us :p

naemlo
30-12-2017, 10:14 AM
Well from what I understand is that thai girls are still better than viet chicks. Viet will take ur money to feed their useless family.

Then u better cheong more to change your prospective.... Thai ger will ask u to buy buffalo, buy pick up... behind u, label u as "kwai". :D

moneymoneycome
31-12-2017, 11:34 PM
Happy New Year everyone!

xchange
03-01-2018, 05:56 PM
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Agree that language is the key when wanting to have a relationship with a foreigner-knowing your prospective spouse/mistress/girlfriend language allow you to understand their thinking, behaviour and culture and help you decide if its the 'workable' choice.

There is no right and wrong-whether you can accept them for what they are.
I see many guys marry Thai women (mostly Isan or Chiangmai area ) and yet cannot speak beyond a few words of Thai and cannot even write a single alphabet-and yet start to complain they cannot understand the Thais (after the sex is over).
Perhaps a Thai Chinese will be a better match culturally/value wise but most will not be in Thailand long enough to venture beyond the bars/pubs/massage parlours/tourist belt.

moneymoneycome
03-01-2018, 07:37 PM
Yes, need to understand their language is the first priority. That will help in differentiate between lies and truth.

Money does helps in, smoothing out things but that is not the root of solving problems.

Another thing I've observed, a lot of them are single mums, but there are also singles which are quite rare. Think hard before committing with them if its a long distance relationship. A lot of time, money, effort, trust, heartpain will be involved.

Never try and you will never know, if successful, will be a blessing, if fail take it as a life experience. Better to know you had tried and failed rather than grow old with regrets.

This applies not only to thai girls, but also, cambodian, filipinos, Laotian, Burmese, Indonesian, Malaysian, etc.