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LF1FWB
11-12-2017, 02:54 AM
Hi all,

I'm looking for long term companionship/FwB (as can see from title)

About me
Age: 24
Height: 172cm
Race / Nationality: SG Chinese
Weight: 55kg, between thin build to average (Recently started gymming).
Smoking: Social smoker
Drink: Rarely
Dick: 15~16cm
Experience: Twice
Drug and disease free.
Not very good talking, but I will do my best.

My preference for the girl
Age: 18 - 29
Race / Nationality: Local Chinese
Marital status: Single (No other casual sex partner as well)
Height: 155cm+
Figure: Lean / Slim
Boobs: No preference
Pussy: Shaved/Trimmed
Drug and disease free.

First few meetups, I prefer to know about your character and personalities (I know is almost like looking for a girlfriend).
Not every meetup have to be sex, can be for dinner, movie, gym or other activities too.

No picture for now but i will disclose more as we talk.

I am open to the relationship progressing further than just companionship/FwB if both of us are mutual.

If manage to find one, I will inform and stop contacting to the rest. Please understand.

Old birds here please don't bully me hahaha

Jebuschris91
11-12-2017, 03:50 PM
Aren't you better off doing this on Tinder?
Basically what you want is, guaranteed sex but no commitment initially, only to commit to a relationship if you feel like it.

You can't speak well, you aren't experienced in bed and there is only an off chance that you are rich.
And I don't think you're drop dead gorgeous either, because you are shy about your appearance.

"If manage to find one, I will inform and stop contacting to the rest. Please understand."

This line makes it sound like you want the women to be fighting over you, I don't think there will be that many to make it an episode of the bachelor.
And understand what, that they are supposed to be for you to pick and choose? Men here queue up and hope to be picked by the type of girl you are describing, some even fork out money. Not the other way around.

Swiping right and left on profiles will probably get you laid faster than this.
I can guarantee you.

Siriusam
11-12-2017, 03:56 PM
Wechat and Tinder very easy to hook up girls. Play smart.

masterwanker
11-12-2017, 09:24 PM
Thank you for using the template . Wish you good luck in your search . :)

LF1FWB
11-12-2017, 09:36 PM
Aren't you better off doing this on Tinder?
Basically what you want is, guaranteed sex but no commitment initially, only to commit to a relationship if you feel like it.

You can't speak well, you aren't experienced in bed and there is only an off chance that you are rich.
And I don't think you're drop dead gorgeous either, because you are shy about your appearance.

"If manage to find one, I will inform and stop contacting to the rest. Please understand."

This line makes it sound like you want the women to be fighting over you, I don't think there will be that many to make it an episode of the bachelor.
And understand what, that they are supposed to be for you to pick and choose? Men here queue up and hope to be picked by the type of girl you are describing, some even fork out money. Not the other way around.

Swiping right and left on profiles will probably get you laid faster than this.
I can guarantee you.

You could say it like that, but from my perspective I just wanna tell that I'm open to further relationship but if the girl just want to be strictly NSA I'm fine with it. So she can rest assured things won't end up ugly.

I think I'm a better listener compared to a talker.
True enough. I honestly don't think I'm drop dead gorgeous, probably an average Joe u see on streets and I don't want to talk too big only to not meet the expectation.

"If manage to find one, I will inform and stop contacting to the rest. Please understand."
You're right that it seems like I'm trying to let them fight over me but I just wanted to be clear I only want to find one girl not many girls so as to assure the one that I feel the most connection with I really is not trying to pretend to find one yet behind her I'm actually still talking to many other girls. The reason for only finding one is to make sure I are clean too since I hope the girl also only have one sexual partner. Secondly, is to at least let the rest know I will inform them rather than just disappear in the thin air if I do find one, so as to be responsible.

Hopefully, I clear up some misunderstands. :)

Jebuschris91
12-12-2017, 09:26 AM
You could say it like that, but from my perspective I just wanna tell that I'm open to further relationship but if the girl just want to be strictly NSA I'm fine with it. So she can rest assured things won't end up ugly.

I think I'm a better listener compared to a talker.
True enough. I honestly don't think I'm drop dead gorgeous, probably an average Joe u see on streets and I don't want to talk too big only to not meet the expectation.

"If manage to find one, I will inform and stop contacting to the rest. Please understand."
You're right that it seems like I'm trying to let them fight over me but I just wanted to be clear I only want to find one girl not many girls so as to assure the one that I feel the most connection with I really is not trying to pretend to find one yet behind her I'm actually still talking to many other girls. The reason for only finding one is to make sure I are clean too since I hope the girl also only have one sexual partner. Secondly, is to at least let the rest know I will inform them rather than just disappear in the thin air if I do find one, so as to be responsible.

Hopefully, I clear up some misunderstands. :)

Well said, I guess the phrasing was off but I get what you're talking about. If anyone does contact you, just tell them again so there won't be any misunderstandings.
But sometimes even if you do stick to one, you might not be their only one, but I guess you will have to respect that if you're really into that particular girl.

Good luck in your search

LF1FWB
12-12-2017, 04:39 PM
Wechat and Tinder very easy to hook up girls. Play smart.
Not sure about Wechat but I did try Tinder and met a few girls through it. Sadly, it didn't work out.
Hence, I decide to try here since the target audience might be the type that I am searching for.

Thank you for using the template . Wish you good luck in your search . :)
Thanks, the template made things easier too

Well said, I guess the phrasing was off but I get what you're talking about. If anyone does contact you, just tell them again so there won't be any misunderstandings.
But sometimes even if you do stick to one, you might not be their only one, but I guess you will have to respect that if you're really into that particular girl.

Good luck in your search
I will do that, thanks for the advice :)
Indeed, but I do hope it won't have to be like that hahaha

LF1FWB
15-12-2017, 06:11 PM
Bump it up!

LF1FWB
12-01-2018, 01:08 AM
Bump it up again

masterwanker
12-01-2018, 09:16 PM
Surprise somebody did not ask you for your picture.

LF1FWB
17-01-2018, 05:24 AM
Surprise somebody did not ask you for your picture.

Hahaha maybe because I included it before he could ask 😂

LF1FWB
22-05-2018, 08:19 AM
Guess I'm back here!