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xiaoqiang
26-12-2017, 11:43 AM
She is a Vietnamese, got her pr 2 yr back.
CSI this photo on fb about a year ago.

http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j155/andy530/321A16FE-AA87-46F2-A5AD-6DD15A945BD4.jpg

And I believe she give birth to another to this guy

http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j155/andy530/9EE656F4-C613-4756-8A42-D0375CC9FD21.png


Thinking of divorcing since she left 2’yr ago.

And her next singapore bf(somehow, I know where this man stay)

http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j155/andy530/4A2BCC3F-BD1F-42AB-843C-D5877CCEB5C6.png

My question is,

Will the judge give my daughter custody to my Wife despite what she did during our divorce?
My daughter is with me all the while while she left and never
Come back to visit my daughter.
We are still Husband and Wife in the law eye.
Kindly advise.

JadeBird
29-12-2017, 11:08 AM
She is a Vietnamese, got her pr 2 yr back.
CSI this photo on fb about a year ago.

http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j155/andy530/Mobile%20Uploads/321A16FE-AA87-46F2-A5AD-6DD15A945BD4.jpg (http://s79.photobucket.com/user/andy530/media/Mobile%20Uploads/321A16FE-AA87-46F2-A5AD-6DD15A945BD4.jpg.html)

And I believe she give birth to another to this guy

http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j155/andy530/Mobile%20Uploads/9EE656F4-C613-4756-8A42-D0375CC9FD21.png (http://s79.photobucket.com/user/andy530/media/Mobile%20Uploads/9EE656F4-C613-4756-8A42-D0375CC9FD21.png.html)

Thinking of divorcing since she left 2’yr ago.

And her next singapore bf(somehow, I know where this man is staying ;)

http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j155/andy530/Mobile%20Uploads/4A2BCC3F-BD1F-42AB-843C-D5877CCEB5C6.png (http://s79.photobucket.com/user/andy530/media/Mobile%20Uploads/4A2BCC3F-BD1F-42AB-843C-D5877CCEB5C6.png.html)

My question is,

Will the judge give my daughter custody to my Wife despite what she did during our divorce?
My daughter is with me all the while while she left and never
Come back to visit my daughter.
We are still Husband and Wife in the law eye.
Kindly advise.

I empathise with you on your plight but this is Singapore..... where the Womens Charter is skewed and in favour of women regardless of their sins. She may be a loose woman or even a prostitute but the WC will still be in her favour as her morality is never an issue when it comes before the court. So what if you have evidence of her sleeping around? It can only be used as a reason to file for divorce but is given no consideration when comes to looking at deciding factors. A woman with bad morals does not mean she will be a bad parent. Sad to say this..... but looks like you have been screwed by the WC.

JadeBird
29-12-2017, 11:12 AM
Your child is only 2 yrs..... definitely will go to the mother unless she declares she does not want the child..... or she is certified as being unfit to be guardian to the child. Other than these 2 reasons...... unlikely you can hold on to your child.

lipe
29-12-2017, 01:00 PM
Bro refer to this Woman’s Charter for guidance:

What are the Rights of a Singaporean Woman under the Women’s Charter?
Last updated on October 19, 2017




What are the rights of a Singaporean woman under the Women’s Charter?
The wife shall have the right to use her own surname and name separately.
The husband and the wife shall have equal rights in the running of the family home.
A married woman can own her own property. Her property is not necessarily her husband’s.
A wife is not liable for her husband’s debt.
Housekeeping allowance given by the husband to the wife shall be treated as belonging to both parties in equal shares, unless there are exceptional agreements proving otherwise.
In the event that the wife loans money to her husband for his business, and the husband becomes bankrupt, the wife can reclaim the loan as a creditor, but remains last in priority after other creditors.
Gifts given by the husband to the wife may be treated as attempts to defraud creditors, and may be claimed by creditors, if the husband becomes bankrupt.
Under section 68 of the Women’s Charter, parents have a duty to maintain their children.
Under section 69 of the Women’s Charter, any married woman whose husband fails to provide her reasonable maintenance may apply for her maintenance of either a monthly allowance or a lump sum to the Court.
Divorce cannot be filed within 3 years of a marriage and can only be for the sole reason that marriage has irretrievably broken down. The Court would accept the following as grounds for divorce:
One party has committed adultery;
One party has behaved in a way that the other cannot be reasonably expected to continue living with him or her;
One party has deserted the other for at least 2 years;
The parties have separated for at least 3 years, and the defendant consents to divorce
The parties have separated for at least 4 years, and whether the defendant has consented to the divorce is irrelevant
Judicial separation can also be filed, allowing both parties to stop cohabiting, for the above mentioned reasons.
The court can order for the division of matrimonial assets upon divorce.
The court can order a man to pay maintenance to his wife upon divorce, separation or annulment of marriage.
Pimping (living on the earnings of a prostitute), as well as the trafficking of women and girls, are all offences under the Women’s Charter, in addition to other acts.

MoeLanYong
29-12-2017, 01:14 PM
TS,
I have to agree with Jadebird. You are kinda screwed by the Women's Charter. Your wife gets Care and Control of your daughter in the event of a divorce regardless of her philandering. She can choose to give up Care and Control to you.

But this is just the Law. You can be smart about it. She left her daughter with you, right? She is a PR right? She is still in-between new boyfriends right?

Chances are she will not want her child around while finding a new boyfriend. How will she go dating with a 2 y.o. baby? Which guy wants to raise someone else's child?

So if I were you, I will seize the moment and file for a divorce quickly. Before she changes her mind when she is settled with another man. Or before your daughter is big enough to follow Mommy go dating too. Force a decision on her. Hope she surrenders Care and Control to you bec of her situation. Don't wait and see. You are playing a losing deck of cards.

I suspect she may not agree bec she needs the marriage to keep her PR status? But you already have photo evidence of her committing adultery. You need not wait out the required 3 years.

Of course, don't openly say you want the child lah. Treat it like a proper divorce, and that the child is just part of ancilliary matters. Part of the paperwork. You know how vicious women can be. Once she finds out you are after her child, she will know how to make you pay the price for it.

senters89
29-12-2017, 01:57 PM
cannot view the photo le.

xiaoqiang
29-12-2017, 10:11 PM
TS,
I have to agree with Jadebird. You are kinda screwed by the Women's Charter. Your wife gets Care and Control of your daughter in the event of a divorce regardless of her philandering. She can choose to give up Care and Control to you.

But this is just the Law. You can be smart about it. She left her daughter with you, right? She is a PR right? She is still in-between new boyfriends right?

Chances are she will not want her child around while finding a new boyfriend. How will she go dating with a 2 y.o. baby? Which guy wants to raise someone else's child?

So if I were you, I will seize the moment and file for a divorce quickly. Before she changes her mind when she is settled with another man. Or before your daughter is big enough to follow Mommy go dating too. Force a decision on her. Hope she surrenders Care and Control to you bec of her situation. Don't wait and see. You are playing a losing deck of cards.

I suspect she may not agree bec she needs the marriage to keep her PR status? But you already have photo evidence of her committing adultery. You need not wait out the required 3 years.

Her motive for the current singaporean bf is clear. Only wanna cheat him $ only like what she did to me 2 yr ago.

Of course, don't openly say you want the child lah. Treat it like a proper divorce, and that the child is just part of ancilliary matters. Part of the paperwork. You know how vicious women can be. Once she finds out you are after her child, she will know how to make you pay the price for it.

Her pr expires in the year of 2020. If she file for a divorce, I can choose not too right? And can she renew her pr by herself? If let say by then, my Daughter is 5 yr old already. She have the rights to choose her favourite parents as well isn’t?

As for the divorce, she leave her daughter with her vietnam family side to care and come to Singapore to work. I believe she will also bring our daughter back. Does this even allow as our daughter is a singaporean?

And the best part is she is still with her Vietnamese bf or husband.

Can I wait until Her pr expired and file for desertion? Since she is no longer a pr, woman charter is invalid to me already right?

xiaoqiang
29-12-2017, 10:26 PM
Under section 68 of the Women’s Charter, parents have a duty to maintain their children.

Under section 69 of the Women’s Charter, any married woman whose husband fails to provide her reasonable maintenance may apply for her maintenance of either a monthly allowance or a lump sum to the Court.

Divorce cannot be filed within 3 years of a marriage and can only be for the sole reason that marriage has irretrievably broken down. The Court would accept the following as grounds for divorce:
One party has committed adultery;
One party has behaved in a way that the other cannot be reasonably expected to continue living with him or her;
One party has deserted the other for at least 2 years;
The parties have separated for at least 3 years, and the defendant consents to divorce - this is my advantage ;)

The parties have separated for at least 4 years, and whether the defendant has consented to the divorce is irrelevant - by then her pr is already expired.

Can I say by then, woman’s charter does not have any effect on me already?

And before she leave my place, she forget to bring her original birth cert, education cert and any other impt documents ;) can I just throw away? Or burn away ;)

She don’t have my ic number Nor our marriage cert. can she still file for a divorce?

MoeLanYong
30-12-2017, 08:20 AM
Her pr expires in the year of 2020. If she file for a divorce, I can choose not too right? And can she renew her pr by herself? If let say by then, my Daughter is 5 yr old already. She have the rights to choose her favourite parents as well isn’t?

As for the divorce, she leave her daughter with her vietnam family side to care and come to Singapore to work. I believe she will also bring our daughter back. Does this even allow as our daughter is a singaporean?

And the best part is she is still with her Vietnamese bf or husband.

Can I wait until Her pr expired and file for desertion? Since she is no longer a pr, woman charter is invalid to me already right?

No, my guy friends's son is 12 y.o. His son could not choose his favourite parent. Care and Control went to his mom. Which is your major problem, and why you should not wait it out. 10 years later, she wants her daughter back, she can get her back.

How did she get her PR? Through work or marriage? Chances are high that she can renew it. Just find a job.

When she gets Care and Control, yes, she can bring her daughter anywhere, even Vietnam. She just has to sort out the Vietnam citizenship, pr etc to let your daughter stay there, which I believe is not difficult. The judge is likely to grant you access to your daughter e.g. 5 hours a week. But when she is gone, how you enforce?

She does not need to be a PR to win her case in court. Even if she has no legal status, as long as she manages to file her application to our courts, the court will execute its job

You are basically screwed.

The desertion part is plausible. You should speak to a divorce lawyer. I am thinking, right now, your best bet is "you don't even know where she is". Serve her the divorce papers without an address and hope the judge will grant the divorce bec of the proven adultery and rule Care and Control in your favour.

There is a chance she may be proven unfit to get Care and Control since she deserted your daughter.

I suggest you divorce sooner rather than later. Once she settles and knows our system e.g 10 years later, she can and will get your daughter back. Then she is fit to get Care and control. So see a lawyer quick

naemlo
30-12-2017, 10:10 AM
My question is,

Will the judge give my daughter custody to my Wife despite what she did during our divorce?
My daughter is with me all the while while she left and never
Come back to visit my daughter.
We are still Husband and Wife in the law eye.
Kindly advise.

If u are serious on getting back on track with your life, dun waste time asking legal questions in SBF. A lot of us are just giving u ideas of what they see or read. WC does not equate a slut is always right. Visit a proper lawyer and ask for an opinion.

My friend same situation with u, went to the lawyer and now daughter staying with him.

cleyeo
30-12-2017, 10:33 AM
Her pr expires in the year of 2020.

Bros, fyi,, (and for the rest of PR holder)

Many people misunderstood about the PR status. Please take note,, THERE IS NO EXPIRATION FOR PR IN SINGAPORE. Once you are get a PR status in Singapore, you can stay here until you die.

The expiration here is actually, not a PR,, but a ENTRY/RE-ENTRY PERMIT. When you get your PR in Singapore, you are also given an ENTRY/RE-ENTRY PERMIT. This permit valid for 5 years. you can renew your permit, with certain condition,, for example,, you must have job (and other conditions).

What happen if you don't re-new your ENTRY/RE-ENTRY PERMIT when it is expired. Well, you STILL can stay in Singapore PERMANENTLY. The only problem, the moment you go out of Singapore, then that's it. When you come back, you are treated as normal visitor, no longer PR. In other word, you are no longer a PR.

The moral of the story, is,, when your ENTRY/RE-ENTRY PERMIT expires, you still can stay in Singapore forever,, but NEVER EVER leave Singapore before you renew your ENTRY/RE-ENTRY PERMIT. Once you have renew you Entry/Re-entry, you are free in out Singapore freely, any time you want.

Hope this info clear, because many friend of mine (who are PRs) misunderstood this expiration thing.

jameschong1
30-12-2017, 10:43 AM
[QUOTE=xiaoqiang;16836371
And her next singapore bf(somehow, I know where this man stay)
your wife got poor taste - just look at her next bf photo

nitecrawllerr
30-12-2017, 11:39 AM
[QUOTE]
your wife got poor taste - just look at her next bf photo

My meat ur poison. Havent u heard?:D

MoeLanYong
30-12-2017, 12:06 PM
If u are serious on getting back on track with your life, dun waste time asking legal questions in SBF. A lot of us are just giving u ideas of what they see or read. WC does not equate a slut is always right. Visit a proper lawyer and ask for an opinion.

My friend same situation with u, went to the lawyer and now daughter staying with him.

Naemlo is spot on. TS, mai tu liao. Kin kin go see a divorce lawyer. The more you know, the better your odds. Good luck. :)

sammyboyfor
30-12-2017, 01:07 PM
She has very poor taste when it comes to men. :rolleyes:

I'm sure you must be better looking than both these retarded looking characters.

144443

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kim-seng-heng
30-12-2017, 04:12 PM
Didn't know that Vietnamese woman also so jia lat.......thought sg behaves like this too.

Penguin23
30-12-2017, 04:49 PM
Her pr expires in the year of 2020. If she file for a divorce, I can choose not too right? And can she renew her pr by herself? If let say by then, my Daughter is 5 yr old already. She have the rights to choose her favourite parents as well isn’t?

As for the divorce, she leave her daughter with her vietnam family side to care and come to Singapore to work. I believe she will also bring our daughter back. Does this even allow as our daughter is a singaporean?

And the best part is she is still with her Vietnamese bf or husband.

Can I wait until Her pr expired and file for desertion? Since she is no longer a pr, woman charter is invalid to me already right?

Go to a lawyer quickly and find out your options, and do it fast. Take note that under the law filing for divorce on grounds of adultery (which gives you probably the strongest case of getting care and control), the the divorce suit must be filed within 6 months of you finding out (of the adulterous affair).

If you do not file for divorce after the 6-month deadline you can no longer use the evidence to sue for divorce on grounds of adultery.

So bro, time is of the essence. Please at least go to a lawyer, even if you do not pull the trigger in the end (for whatever reason), at least you become much better informed.

If you have documentary evidence also of her being married in VN, that will definitely help. Bigamy is a criminal offence and carries a jail sentence

http://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/courts-crime/eight-questions-on-bigamy-in-singapore-answered

Another bro already commented on your mistaken assumption of a PR status expiring - the blue IC has no expiry date, all she needs to do is to renew her Re-entry permit (REP) which she can do electronically in roughly 15 minutes. And she can renew her REP anytime within 6 months before the expiry of her current one, so you cannot count on this factor to give you any advantage whatsoever.

All the best to you bro, I was in a similar situation years ago and I know first hand the emotional turmoil this situation can bring.

xiaoqiang
20-03-2018, 12:55 PM
Well, A picture shows a thousand words, thanks all bros for the informative advice.


http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j155/andy530/266D8366-1C0C-47F5-A6FA-C48BC6568B51.jpg

http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j155/andy530/F86324C2-EC5D-4773-9126-3BC9A90E8B8B.jpg

http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j155/andy530/032A6906-8631-46E6-8ACF-147B4C47CD2B.jpg

potatoesbouncer
20-03-2018, 05:46 PM
Well, A picture shows a thousand words, thanks all bros for the informative advice.

TS, very happy for you that the custody of your child goes to you :)

xiaoqiang
21-03-2018, 03:47 AM
TS, very happy for you that the custody of your child goes to you :)

Thank you ;)

BGNeo
21-03-2018, 08:30 AM
Hi Bros,

I need help from you guys and hope someone can offer a helping hand, I suspect my GF having an affair behind my back, but I have a target suspect that I'm suspicious of. I know he drives and pick up my GF and have the car plate number it is a weekend car and I want to find out where he lives.

I know that the car plate number is confidential, any undertable methods to get the information?

Please advise or someone can help me if u r a car dealer, I can pay for the information

potatoesbouncer
21-03-2018, 10:23 AM
Hi Bros,

I need help from you guys and hope someone can offer a helping hand, I suspect my GF having an affair behind my back, but I have a target suspect that I'm suspicious of. I know he drives and pick up my GF and have the car plate number it is a weekend car and I want to find out where he lives.

I know that the car plate number is confidential, any undertable methods to get the information?

Please advise or someone can help me if u r a car dealer, I can pay for the information

Hi Bro.. I understand that you are desperate for help. But don't spam on so many thread. I worry later you get zap for flooding till you become moderate. Than your post will take time to be posted. Since you request something just be patient and wait, I believe someone will reply you. Just my 2 cents :)

NoFearSg
21-03-2018, 02:48 PM
Hi Bros,

I need help from you guys .......

If a girl had a change of heart, let it go.
My advice is, have a heart to heart with her.
No point clinging and doing further things.

I have seen some using violence, attempting suicide etc.... but there are better things to do in life. Have a bigger heart, bro.

hccheonger
21-03-2018, 02:50 PM
Totally agree with you.

You are in my UP list.

Cheers

If a girl had a change of heart, let it go.
My advice is, have a heart to heart with her.
No point clinging and doing further things.

I have seen some using violence, attempting suicide etc.... but there are better things to do in life. Have a bigger heart, bro.

hccheonger
21-03-2018, 02:58 PM
I had the same experience with a SQ ex-gf. Was bitter when I found out the third party and her orgy sex during her stay overseas.

Now I have a better gf. Not easy but it is best for you to let it go.

Hi Bros,

I need help from you guys and hope someone can offer a helping hand, I suspect my GF having an affair behind my back, but I have a target suspect that I'm suspicious of. I know he drives and pick up my GF and have the car plate number it is a weekend car and I want to find out where he lives.

I know that the car plate number is confidential, any undertable methods to get the information?

Please advise or someone can help me if u r a car dealer, I can pay for the information

senters89
22-03-2018, 08:59 AM
Hi Bros,

I need help from you guys and hope someone can offer a helping hand, I suspect my GF having an affair behind my back, but I have a target suspect that I'm suspicious of. I know he drives and pick up my GF and have the car plate number it is a weekend car and I want to find out where he lives.

I know that the car plate number is confidential, any undertable methods to get the information?

Please advise or someone can help me if u r a car dealer, I can pay for the information


What will you do if you know who is he? Kill him? Beat him? Cry to him?

You must count yourself Fuxking lucky now, because she is only your GF. So I ask you, now you go and kill the guy and her heart will come back to you?

In life, if you can't keep the person, don beg, move on. One day, you will find something more happy in life.

Wan check carplate also need NRIC last 5 digit. And how to be sure the car belong to him?

Come on bro, ask your GF, if yes, move on.

Cheers

xiaoqiang
22-03-2018, 12:01 PM
Hi Bros,

I need help from you guys and hope someone can offer a helping hand, I suspect my GF having an affair behind my back, but I have a target suspect that I'm suspicious of. I know he drives and pick up my GF and have the car plate number it is a weekend car and I want to find out where he lives.

I know that the car plate number is confidential, any undertable methods to get the information?

Please advise or someone can help me if u r a car dealer, I can pay for the information

Would you give up an entire forest because of a tree? Same goes to the entire ocean fishes just because of a fish.

No need to cry over it. Be a man and move on. Woman’s heart is as good as the flows of water, when they change direction, they will not turn back. But if they do, have to be cautious if u are accepting the trust twice again.

arowanna
28-03-2018, 03:55 PM
Bro, at least u discovered earlier rather than later.,
Count this as your blessings..
Hope she never pass any diseases to u ..

stillgottheblue
01-04-2018, 11:17 PM
Please stay far far away from this type of girl and see your lawyer ASAP.

JacqueMerlin
04-04-2018, 10:07 AM
I had the same experience with a SQ ex-gf. Was bitter when I found out the third party and her orgy sex during her stay overseas.

Now I have a better gf. Not easy but it is best for you to let it go.

How did you find out? Sounds shit

Bigbadcolorwolf
28-06-2018, 02:37 AM
I just found out recently that my gf has been working as an escort behind my back because she really needs the money to support her family. While I strongly believe that she is truly in love with me should I forgive her despite feeling that I have lost trust in her because she did it for so long behind my back and that the image of her with other men is constantly bothering me

erkianpeng
28-06-2018, 06:50 AM
I just found out recently that my gf has been working as an escort behind my back because she really needs the money to support her family. While I strongly believe that she is truly in love with me should I forgive her despite feeling that I have lost trust in her because she did it for so long behind my back and that the image of her with other men is constantly bothering me

Can you accept the fact that many other dicks have entered your gf's pussy and many other hands have grabbed her breasts and many other mouths have sucked on her tits?

She could have talked to you about needing the money to support the family and both of you try to work something out. When you gf does something behind your back, there is no trust.

kim-seng-heng
28-06-2018, 11:14 AM
Divorce and move on.....

Shadow_warrior
28-06-2018, 01:50 PM
I just found out recently that my gf has been working as an escort behind my back because she really needs the money to support her family. While I strongly believe that she is truly in love with me should I forgive her despite feeling that I have lost trust in her because she did it for so long behind my back and that the image of her with other men is constantly bothering me

you should move on

she loves money and her family more than she loves you and doesn't love you enough not to hurt you in the worse way

find a better woman who loves you and doesn't bare to hurt you.

Bullshitlar
06-07-2018, 11:35 PM
Hi Bros,

I need help from you guys and hope someone can offer a helping hand, I suspect my GF having an affair behind my back, but I have a target suspect that I'm suspicious of. I know he drives and pick up my GF and have the car plate number it is a weekend car and I want to find out where he lives.

I know that the car plate number is confidential, any undertable methods to get the information?

Please advise or someone can help me if u r a car dealer, I can pay for the information

Dont be ztupid. Use her for sex and try to have almost 0spending on her. Treat her like the slut she is while u start to find a better gf or dont find at all.

Go live a better life, eat gd food, gym, go overseas all without her. Treat her like a prostitute call her only for Fucking but pretend to be her bf or in love. One day when she tell u the truth just said u already know n u dont love her. If she n that guy no more then u should also tell her to break up. So end up she got nobody

babe90
30-07-2018, 05:12 PM
Hi don't mind me and sorry if I sound offensive or offended you bros but I just want ask a question

Y Singapore got so many girls you bros still want go find all these type of woman example, Viet, Thai, etc. These women just want to marry you bros for the status only and they don't even care about you and they also want you to provide for them and support their family. Once they get what they want or u don't provide them with what they need they just going block you and find others. Finding a local is better than finding a Thai, Viet woman who gives fake love and talk cock only. Next time when they say they love u just ask them back u sure u love me or u love other people also... their well knowned to KC people so don't fall for their tricks or sympathy..

jameschong1
30-07-2018, 10:50 PM
[QUOTE=babe90;17630017]Hi don't mind me and sorry if I sound offensive or offended you bros but I just want ask a question

halo sorry hor! not everyone like u or me hor!
close one eye easily make $5k a month hor!

simontan82
31-07-2018, 09:11 PM
Hi Bros,

I need help from you guys and hope someone can offer a helping hand, I suspect my GF having an affair behind my back, but I have a target suspect that I'm suspicious of. I know he drives and pick up my GF and have the car plate number it is a weekend car and I want to find out where he lives.

I know that the car plate number is confidential, any undertable methods to get the information?

Please advise or someone can help me if u r a car dealer, I can pay for the information

Consider yourself lucky compare to others bro.. I find out that my partner cheated on me for 2 years! 2 fuking years.. Am I stupid or what! And we are married.. :mad:

fallen11
31-07-2018, 09:58 PM
well done
:D

Shadow_warrior
31-07-2018, 10:23 PM
Consider yourself lucky compare to others bro.. I find out that my partner cheated on me for 2 years! 2 fuking years.. Am I stupid or what! And we are married.. :mad:

bro. you are not stupid.

we have just become too trusting of women, believing in the BS from our parents time that women are faithful and men are unfaithful cads.

the truth is for the last 2 decades I think the official stats and from a unwritten understanding in this forum, women cheat as much as men, and I am willing to bet, in some age categories, even more than men.

jameschong1
01-08-2018, 08:48 PM
[QUOTE=Shadow_warrior;17634627]bro. you are not stupid.

u not stupid but kam lang & siat suay to spore man

JacqueMerlin
03-08-2018, 09:24 AM
Hi don't mind me and sorry if I sound offensive or offended you bros but I just want ask a question

Y Singapore got so many girls you bros still want go find all these type of woman example, Viet, Thai, etc. These women just want to marry you bros for the status only and they don't even care about you and they also want you to provide for them and support their family. Once they get what they want or u don't provide them with what they need they just going block you and find others. Finding a local is better than finding a Thai, Viet woman who gives fake love and talk cock only. Next time when they say they love u just ask them back u sure u love me or u love other people also... their well knowned to KC people so don't fall for their tricks or sympathy..

Marry a local girl is shortcut to suicide or suffering. Fidelity itself is a problem many local girls have difficulty upholding. Let's not get me started with others. We would rather take our chances with foreign women.

Shadow_warrior
03-08-2018, 11:16 AM
[QUOTE]

u not stupid but kam lang & siat suay to spore man

don't quote me when you are trying to suan people.

your points also very sia suay lor. 8 year -ve. Good job hor.

simontan82
03-08-2018, 03:35 PM
bro. you are not stupid.

we have just become too trusting of women, believing in the BS from our parents time that women are faithful and men are unfaithful cads.

the truth is for the last 2 decades I think the official stats and from a unwritten understanding in this forum, women cheat as much as men, and I am willing to bet, in some age categories, even more than men.

Yes bro, and the most trusting person in your life cheated you for 2 years not 2 months or 20 months.. Think of it is scary.. I be having trust issue all my life from now on seriously..

I feels women can be more dangerous than men when comes to this kind of things. They can hid and control better than man. Damn dangerous creatures. You don't know what they are thinking in their mind..

Shadow_warrior
03-09-2018, 11:12 AM
I know a woman who has divorced from her husband based on husband's infidelity but what the husband didn't know through the process is while he was fucking another woman(single lady), his wife was also fucking someone husband. So the poor fucker is paying alimony even though his wife was cheating too. Imagine the difference in the outcome if he had known her dark deeds too.

But she had the holier than thou attitude, telling the whole world the husband cheated. If confronted about her own actions she remarked that 1. she was only playing with this other man. 2. she will let go anytime she is discovered by the other guys wife 3. she doesn't want to break up his marriage(so she is more moral than her husband and the lass he is banging)

so women can be scary. they can so critical of the man's indiscretions but when its their own, they can hide the darkest secrets and her female mates will side her and cover the matter with her in justification. neither does she care that the husband's woman whom she deem as a slut, is really a reflection of her. she doesn't care about the feelings of the woman whose husband she is screwing too.

for her pic. look at my recent post in milf

all I can say is poor bro. if only you knew.

69monster
03-09-2018, 11:28 AM
which one bro? post 7623 that one we know is a btich who breast feed her baby but not divorce

post 7624 there are 3 gals in that post lay :D



for her pic. look at my recent post in milf

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Shadow_warrior
03-09-2018, 11:32 AM
which one bro? post 7623 that one we know is a btich who breast feed her baby but not divorce

post 7624 there are 3 gals in that post lay :D

can't be so obvious. that's why I don't post the pic here.

3 pics, only 1 consistent lady.

just reveal this way, the ex husband, and ex lover probably visits this forum too.

69monster
03-09-2018, 11:40 AM
ok thanks bro that is what i thought but i was hoping it was the one who only appear twice :D can't be so obvious. that's why I don't post the pic here.

3 pics, only 1 consistent lady.

just reveal this way, the husband probably visits this forum too.