advice needed [Archive] - The Asian Commercial Sex Scene

SoSolidSnake

21-03-2007, 04:28 AM

Openbook

21-03-2007, 05:59 AM

Bro, its hard to give this kind of advice.. if say yes, we're advising u to cheat on ur wife-to-be.. if say no, we'd be kind of hypocritical.. what we can offer here is contacts for good lays... ethics and morals aren't exactly abundent here..

perhaps some bros might want to lay out some pros and cons for our groom-to-be?

Rub&Buah

21-03-2007, 07:09 AM

Bro Snake,i got to congrat u on ur coming soon wedding.Are u a slient reader always but only registered now cos u are feeling infuriating?

Its not easy for man to have sex with just one woman in life morever shes gonna be ur wife to be,& im proud of u.Rite now u asking whether u should bonk a pretty gal before marriage to see what u are missing.a few qs here may answer ur doubt.

1:What do u think u are missing?
2:How much u love ur wife to be?
3Since u have decided to marry & u only have sex with her before,why would u think of doing it with another Fl only now?
4,if u do happen or whether not to spend last two mth period of fling/bonking,will u stay faithful thru out after marriage?
5)Are u the only one that she make love with in life till now?

If u could answer this qs honestly,i think a lot of bro should be able to help u out here.Anyway u posted in the wrong session,should be under adult discussion.

My signature might be just what u are feeling rite now.Cheers

lopo

21-03-2007, 07:55 AM

hello all sbfers!!!

it has taken me a lot of courage to even register with sb, so i hope i can get the advice i very desperately need...

i am getting married 2 months later, so i was wondering if it will be good to have a last fling before that... my wife to be is slightly plump with average looks, and my only experience is with her....

so do you guys think that i should try to bonk a fl who is slim and pretty, to see what i am missing out on??? if yes, any recommendations?? i need a lot of secrecy though....

hope to get some replies.... thank you!! :D

I may still be a newbie in SBF who has just got out of mediation but being senior in age, I feel I am competent enough to give you, my bro, my two-cent's worth of advice.

Flinging in the fl market is like taking drugs, and to you, my bro who has never been flingging before, it can even be more powerful than drugs. Unless you are one who is tired of flingging and now decides to get settled down or one who is tired of home food, my two-cent's worth of advice to you is, never, I stress, never start or learn to fling just before you are going to get married.

The meat in the fl market is so diverse, delicious and flagrant compared to your home meat (家花不比野花香）that once you entered into it you will be so addicted and mesmerised that you will forget your way home (沉迷在温柔乡中，流连忘返).

You will find that your home meat becomes so tasteless that you may even sneak out of your bridal chamber on your very wedding night！Believe me!

Do please think carefully！ (务望三思!)

lopo

mars2000

21-03-2007, 08:09 AM

i am getting married 2 months later, so i was wondering if it will be good to have a last fling before that... my wife to be is slightly plump with average looks, and my only experience is with her....

This is what I will advise you. Do not get married. You do not know what you are missing(FL) and what you are getting into.(Married)
Married life is all about being together and staying filial to your spouse.
Cheonging FL is the best action you will love and you will be tempted by the different FL.
.
I am very frank to you. DO not get MARRIED or Make this your one and only post if you are getting married.

** Better get the Admin to move this thread to adult discussion.

steamer

21-03-2007, 09:34 AM

ace7788

21-03-2007, 10:04 AM

Some comments.

Do not try the "honey" if you are a "bee" - Once you test it, you might not be able to abstain.

Frankly, since I entered the commercial sex scene, it is a mental torture to stop yourself at times... You obtain the sexual satisfaction, but the financial strain is there too.

Accord_JDM

21-03-2007, 10:04 AM

hey bro,

not that i am biased against u but...
if u have no intention to bonk a FL then y bother to register here or reading about the threads here???

pls don't ask stupid qns...
and also don't assume bros here will pity u and give u FOC contacts...
nowadays many undercovers here liao...

pls read the rules of SBF before u start a thread... :eek:

mahalosux

21-03-2007, 10:12 AM

onion_rings

21-03-2007, 10:18 AM

since..u complain..your wife-to-be is plump and av...and u will like to bonk a slim and pretty FL...

my advise is dun get married...stays single...and u can bonk pretty and slim gal at anyday...anytime..u wanted to....:D

Bro must stay single den can bonk slim & pretty FL meh. As long as done yr homework in the house & time arrangement is properly arrange also can one :D

buzzing

21-03-2007, 10:24 AM

Bro...

Where got cat no eat fish.... but it will become addictive... u will want more... more pretty, more excitement... etc... If u have not started, why do u want to start at all... But if u do... it will not be b ur only one... :)

There is no advice from ur situation.. do want u think is the best of u...

But u must remember in the FL circle especially..... Love is Love and Sex is Sex... they dun mix...

cheers!!!

sianren

21-03-2007, 10:29 AM

Bro must stay single den can bonk slim & pretty FL meh. As long as done yr homework in the house & time arrangement is properly arrange also can one :D

Stay married or single oso can bonk slim pretty gals lah..

Most important is to have Money and Time..

No Money, no honey...
i am getting married 2 months later, so i was wondering if it will be good to have a last fling before that... my wife to be is slightly plump with average looks, and my only experience is with her....

Remember this is not your last fling B4 married, but new destiny that my thinking oni...

Mr cactus

geminitwinmale

21-03-2007, 10:32 AM

Yo,

My 2 cents of advice...

I totaly agreed with some of bro advice to you especially lopo.

Once you are into FL, sometimes it is very difficult to stop and takes alot of disciplines and mind power. It has been rollercoaster ride for me, sometimes it strain my family commitments.

However, if you want to try then I could only advise you to take care of your home first before you bonk further. If financial is a problem, don't even go into here just to see see... flesh is weak as your temptation is greater and urge is powerful.

Lastly, please play SAFE sex!:o

mahalosux

21-03-2007, 10:33 AM

Bro must stay single den can bonk slim & pretty FL meh. As long as done yr homework in the house & time arrangement is properly arrange also can one :D

threadstarter says..he need a lot of 'secrecy' ... therefore..i dun tink he dare to 'tao jiak' type... so must as well dun get married...hehehehehe :D

Sayangku

21-03-2007, 10:34 AM

Wah lau, since when this section becomes Auntie Aggie's corner? hahaha. Congrats to your marriage, it's too late for flings lah, but marriage is good :)

Tycoon72

21-03-2007, 10:48 AM

Hi bro,

come, I had 3 pretty and young viet mei mei in town. Go for 4p you sure high in heaven... hahaha

Cheers!!

Frankiestine

21-03-2007, 10:52 AM

my wife to be is slightly plump with average looks, and my only experience is with her....

so do you guys think that i should try to bonk a fl who is slim and pretty, to see what i am missing out on???

If you do that, the next thing you going to do is dump your wife..

onion_rings

21-03-2007, 10:57 AM

threadstarter says..he need a lot of 'secrecy' ... therefore..i dun tink he dare to 'tao jiak' type... so must as well dun get married...hehehehehe :D

Oic lidat still want to come out & play? kns want to play den dun scare, want to scare den dun play mah :D

onion_rings

21-03-2007, 10:58 AM

Stay married or single oso can bonk slim pretty gals lah..

Most important is to have Money and Time..

No Money, no honey...

Fully agree bro cactus, no money how to have honey leh. Stay at home also got honey liao :D

mahalosux

21-03-2007, 11:07 AM

Oic lidat still want to come out & play? kns want to play den dun scare, want to scare den dun play mah :D

u see... he dun hv the experience of engaging WL b4 wat...but dunno y he wan to choose until wan to get married...then put himself in a dilema to look or not to look for WL...if look..oso wan to adopt 'secrecy'... haiz...:confused:

onion_rings

21-03-2007, 11:12 AM

u see... he dun hv the experience of engaging WL b4 wat...but dunno y he wan to choose until wan to get married...then put himself in a dilema to look or not to look for WL...if look..oso wan to adopt 'secrecy'... haiz...:confused:

Yes bro ur rite, till getting married den want to come out & play. He's simply a idiot & moron :D

Castrol

21-03-2007, 11:19 AM

so do you guys think that i should try to bonk a fl who is slim and pretty, to see what i am missing out on???

no no... you should bonk a FL who is fatter and uglier, then you'll know what you are not missing out on. :D

MuffDiver69

21-03-2007, 11:21 AM

congrats on your up-coming wedding.

what happens when you root some slim and pretty FL and you found out what you are missing? are you gonna call the wedding off? or are you gonna go through with it and when it comes to fulfilling your duties with your wife, you pretend she is the FL? or are you gonna bolt everytime your wife wants it as you can't bring yourself to give it to her? Mate, I don't think its a good time to look for FL at the moment, maybe after a few years of married life and when you are getting sick of eating the same bearded clam everyday.

By asking a question like this in the forum signifies that you on't have the bollocks to do it on your own, you require others to egg you on. and you'll probably waste your money because you are a likely 3sec wonder.:D

slyer

21-03-2007, 11:22 AM

no no... you should bonk a FL who is fatter and uglier, then you'll know what you are not missing out on.

bro its very hard to find a fat and ugly FL... :D if u find one rmb to intro me leh :D

masterjake

21-03-2007, 11:34 AM

Bro while cheonging also must b tactical. Yesterday read a article about a going to wed couple. The gf found out the bf having fling putside n called off the wedding tat is suppose to b held next week. :D

Marlborolgt

21-03-2007, 11:46 AM

Bro.. i think u have started the post in the wrong thread..:p

Me have also tha same thinking as you.. and i have been sharing my thoughts in the Adult Discussion section.. if you search thru.. you can see the past comment until i as zapp by dunno whoo.. CUT SHORT!!

I have been thinking wat you are thinking.. and its been almost 2 years since then..now i'm still happliy bonking away...( But remember to take pre-Caution) :D

Evo^Madz28

21-03-2007, 11:50 AM

hi brother... just my 2 cents worth of advice... actually its really a good news that you are such a loyal guy. `Try` not to involve in FL cos Its just like drug, you gonna addicted to it before or after your marriage. I am very very sure... now if you try a hot spicy pretty FL... you will try again again and again... hehe... provided vitamin M is rich la....:cool:

consus

21-03-2007, 12:02 PM

hi snake bro,
my advice to u,pls read all the rules and regulation b4 u post in FL forum.
from your topic,pls post into adult discussion on sex/Newbies forum.
this place is for all bros here to share FL contacts and not tcss abt you future doings,if u have fl contacts,pls go ahead to share.
if not pls post at related forum.Gam Xia.:)

Castrol

21-03-2007, 12:08 PM

bro its very hard to find a fat and ugly FL... if u find one rmb to intro me leh :D

haha bro you can open a thread titled "looking for fat and ugly FL"... your wish will surely be granted by helpful samsters. :D

soberguy

21-03-2007, 12:41 PM

bro its very hard to find a fat and ugly FL... :D if u find one rmb to intro me leh :D

Hmm... since you asked, I do know one fat and ugly FL if you want. And cheap too. Just PM me and I direct you there. I am not sure if her contact number still same or change.

cx75

21-03-2007, 01:23 PM

Hi bro, a piece of advice from me, like what other bros have mentioned. Once you are in it, it is very difficult to pull out.

I was once like you being loyal to my gf but now become a frequent KTV cheongster. The temptation is strong just cannot resist, especially when those pretty syt seducing you.:p

Small head always take over big head.:(

charsiew

21-03-2007, 02:14 PM

Just my two-cents worth..

Bro, take my advice; don't get into this game... or you'll always have an alternative when you have problems with your wife and you will get deeper and deeper into it and you won't be able to stop or get out of.

Enjoy your marriage.

_________________________

--- I come in Peace ---

slyer

21-03-2007, 03:06 PM

haha bro you can open a thread titled "looking for fat and ugly FL"... your wish will surely be granted by helpful samsters. :D

haha bro... i need a ugly and fat FL to make me quit commercial sex ma... now i am addicted and hard to kick this habit :D

idjones

21-03-2007, 05:12 PM

hello all sbfers!!!

so do you guys think that i should try to bonk a fl who is slim and pretty, to see what i am missing out on??? if yes, any recommendations?? i need a lot of secrecy though....

hope to get some replies.... thank you!! :D

Bro, since you have already the thought of bonking a fl, it does not matter you do it before or after you get married. The thing is, if you can guarantee that you don't get horny and want to bonk a fl after you get married, then it's a different story, u know what I mean?

lge8

21-03-2007, 05:27 PM

The meat in the fl market is so diverse, delicious and flagrant compared to your home meat (家花不比野花香）that once you entered into it you will be so addicted and mesmerised that you will forget your way home (沉迷在温柔乡中，流连忘返). lopo

Bro lopo tat's a good piece haha...btw upz u 2 humble pts for Liuqi's contact thks...;)

lge8

Castrol

21-03-2007, 05:32 PM

haha bro... i need a ugly and fat FL to make me quit commercial sex ma... now i am addicted and hard to kick this habit :D

maybe bros onion and chickenzip can help you quit commercial sex, they are now into tong zi stuff. :D

creatox

21-03-2007, 05:36 PM

Wahaha, this topic make me very excited, so i never read through all the replies.

juz wanna say
1)why must have a "last fling" b4 u married? majiam going to walk into tomb already...but nvm, many of the FL can be tomb raider ever after u married.

2)if you gonna cheat on her, whats the diff to do it b4 or after married? wanna have fun means wanna have fun, dun make it sounds like u wanna try something new.

3)many of the bros here are married or attached, they still cheong as long as they can keep it descreet.

i rest my case

ps: sorry to skip the many replies and jump to conclusion..but now working, so no time to read page by page..will find time to read if this tread still alive. :D

Wbmk

21-03-2007, 05:50 PM

Congratulations on ur plans to get married! I agree with some of the bros here, that this FL scene is like a drug. You'll keep wanting more and more. If you can live with the guilt of screwing other women behind your wife's back, then go ahead. If you think not, stay faithful. Besides morals, there are health risks as well...you wouldn't want to pass it on to your wife now would u?

Dude, we can't tell you what to do/not do coz only you know yourself. Besides, if your wife-to-be is a little plump, take her out to the gym or go jogging together. Average looks? There are tons of make-over salons out there. Try to spice up your sex life with your Mrs too. Even tho u wanna bonk other SYTs and babes, these gals cant give you what your wife can...that's love. And man...that's deep.

lopo

21-03-2007, 09:48 PM

Bro lopo tat's a good piece haha...btw upz u 2 humble pts for Liuqi's contact thks...;)

lge8

Bro lge8

Glad that you appreciate my 2 cents worth of contribution and tk Q very much for your kindness in upping me in respect of my appeal for help for the PRC fl in distress. To me a newbie who had only 12 points then, 2 points certainly isn't "humble". It represents a 16,7% increase in what I had in my kitty. It is to me a bumper harvest... tks again...will reciprocate when I have the power to do so.

lopo

SoSolidSnake

21-03-2007, 10:35 PM

wow... so many replies....

1stly i wanna apologize for starting this thread in the wrong place... newbie ma.... will not do it again i swear.... will modes shift this??? or do i need to start a new thread in ad section?

i want to thank all those that congratulate me and give advice also... :D

i want to make it clear that im not asking for pity contacts here.... i have read the faq liao... i will pm some bros to ask nicely if i really decided to do it....

i really love my wife to be... besides her appearance everything else is plus points.... what i am feeling is sometimes when i see fat and ugly guys with slim pretty girls i will think... why not me? don't you guys feel that way too... especially those married bros?? what if i cannot resist the temptation after i get married.... worse right???

i have been thinking of this for very long le.... i read sbf quite regularly one.... not that i purposely wait until want to get married then think about getting a fl... but up to now still no balls and the date is getting closer... that's why ask for advice....

some of the advice given are very good... i think the advice that i will get addicted is very true... that is one thing i am afraid of too....

while i agree that bonking a fl before or after wedding still is unfaithful... i feel that after wedding brings about more consequences le...

as to whether i will call off the wedding if i find out that i really prefer slim pretty girls a lot.... i think quite possible.... imagine i really cannot tahan sex with my wife to be in the future... both people also will not be happy lo... if i sneak out after we get married... worse right....

i guess what i really want to do is compare sex (which is a big part of married life) between my wife to be (a plump girl) and a pretty slim girl... to see if it is actually about the same (close eyes imagine can liao... which is what i do now) or if it is really heaven and earth difference....

fattyman

22-03-2007, 01:10 AM

Make sure you call off the marriage or else i report you to your future in-law :p

It's addictive, very very addictive, once you're in its very difficult to get out, you decide urself.

Only one advice, BEWARE ! :D

davedavedave

22-03-2007, 02:59 AM

Hi

Just kpo a bit , ask you dont bonk not possible maybe you can try
HJ with fl ..... seee and feel all the different boob not should let you think straight for a while then you think again still want

lopo

22-03-2007, 09:08 AM

I have no further 2 cents to give. But to my pleasant surprise this morning I have been awarded 2 more points. Please therefore allow me to place on record in this thread my gratitude to the bro who upped me these further 2 pts.

lopo

_AXL_

22-03-2007, 09:33 AM

as to whether i will call off the wedding if i find out that i really prefer slim pretty girls a lot.... i think quite possible.... imagine i really cannot tahan sex with my wife to be in the future... both people also will not be happy lo... if i sneak out after we get married... worse right....

i guess what i really want to do is compare sex (which is a big part of married life) between my wife to be (a plump girl) and a pretty slim girl... to see if it is actually about the same (close eyes imagine can liao... which is what i do now) or if it is really heaven and earth difference....

bro sosolidsnake, go read other threads about bros not being able to find a nice girl to marry, then u will be thankful.

1. wife, a bit plump, truly loves u, will go through happiness and hardship with u.
2. fl, nice face and nice body, truly loves yr $, will go through some shortlived happiness and bring hardship to u.
choose.

if u never start, dont start. most of us (myself included) who did start here, cant stop. if u insist on starting, pay, f**k and f**k off. never fall for them or their tricks. a newbie cheongster, u'll be fair game and these fls will smell u from a mile away. no kidding.;)

take care, ya? and congratulations...

Frankiestine

22-03-2007, 10:00 AM

i guess what i really want to do is compare sex (which is a big part of married life) between my wife to be (a plump girl) and a pretty slim girl... to see if it is actually about the same .

Bro, size don't matter when it comes to having good sex, it all about technics and approach...you can have a fat gal but one that reponsive and blows your mind when wild sex is concern or end up with a nice slim chick who is just a dead fish in bed...just like my oc:(

slyer

22-03-2007, 10:25 AM

maybe bros onion and chickenzip can help you quit commercial sex, they are now into tong zi stuff. :D

haha wad is tong zi stuff? :D

john99

22-03-2007, 02:43 PM

Bro,

I am not sure what line of work you are in but going by yr words, perhaps you are truly sheltered or you are not what you claimed to be.

Most guys would have some knowledge of commercial sex in this day and age. Geylang and Desker Road are famous land marks in Singapore plus all these FL/KTV/Massage all over the place. I am not trying to be funny here but it is better to keep your dick and marriage intact rather than trying out an FL who may pass you STDs which will definitely ruin yr marriage.

A wife who is faithful and loyal is worth a 1000 whores who only want yr $$ and ruin yr life. So who do you want in the end??

As for you being envious of guys having pretty galfriends/wives, you have to appreciate that even some of their closest friends could be scheming to bonk their gals/wives. It had happen b4 in Singapore so be happy and contended with what you have.

SoSolidSnake

22-03-2007, 11:52 PM

many thanks once again....

i definitely do have some knowledge of the commercial sex scene in singapore.... read a lot of sbf le.... hahaha...

i guess that i have come to the conclusion that i will not start... and do what so many of you bros advise.... think with the big head and not the small... :D

thank you very much for the advice.... will deregister this nick liao... many thanks!