How to deal with men who keep hitting on others’ wives?

[parrotkid]

I find men who hit on others’ wives to be the most despicable kind if scumbag.
Even if the woman’s marriage is in trouble, a man should never take advantage of the situation. To me it is a code of conduct of a respectable human being. You don’t do to others what you don’t want to happen to yourself.

I have unfortunately met a guy who lacks such code of conduct. How do I deal with him?

[jake1]

I find men who hit on others’ wives to be the most despicable kind if scumbag.
Even if the woman’s marriage is in trouble, a man should never take advantage of the situation. To me it is a code of conduct of a respectable human being. You don’t do to others what you don’t want to happen to yourself.

I have unfortunately met a guy who lacks such code of conduct. How do I deal with him?

Be polite and ask him to back off.
If cannot, then warn him verbally and list out everything to him about what is going to happen if this continues, then see what you want to do.

[parrotkid]

Already told him very nicely without threatening him.
He refuses to back off.
My friends suggest I beat him up.

[jake1]

Already told him very nicely without threatening him.
He refuses to back off.
My friends suggest I beat him up.

Then if you want to beat then beat. No need to say so much since you have your own thinking. I mean if you are that nature, that guy wouldn't want to step on your tail in the first place. At times, maybe is the way you behave that let others feel that you are a pushover. If you are smart enough, all you need is to pay money and it works wonder.

[parrotkid]

Then if you want to beat then beat. No need to say so much since you have your own thinking. I mean if you are that nature, that guy wouldn't want to step on your tail in the first place. At times, maybe is the way you behave that let others feel that you are a pushover. If you are smart enough, all you need is to pay money and it works wonder.

I do not interact with that bastard. He is married and should pay attention to his own marriage instead of messing with others’.

[jake1]

I do not interact with that bastard. He is married and should pay attention to his own marriage instead of messing with others’.

There are many form of people in this world. Just sbf alone, there are tons of weirdos around. There was a divorcee whom told me that there are many guys who gave fake photos to meet her up and I do believe her. I mean I am certain you do have some form of betrayal too as in visiting ml, going to ktv or thai discos. Many of those are others' woman too. Every thing has two side of a coin.

[parrotkid]

If that guy is itchy I can pay him to go Geylang for fucks.

[Sfan]

If that guy is itchy I can pay him to go Geylang for fucks.

If he is married why don’t you find out his marriage status? If he’s happily married maybe you can let the wife know. If he’s not happily married you know why he’s hitting on your wife. But in the first place why is your wife responding ?

[Cheesebeast]

I do sleep around and am fortunate enough to get ons quite regularly with my uni friends, international students and chance encounters. But i will never bang another guy's gf or wife - its a code of respect for me and i live by this virtue. I wouldnt like it if another dude banged my gf so i will never do it to others.

I think guys who bang other dude's wife or gf knowingly are srsly jerks.

[joncheong]

why is your wife reciprocating in the first place? have a chat with her first?

[ibanezjem555]

Take evidence of his gallivanting and show his wife. Wife sure piss off that he spend time with another woman instead of wife and kids. Put it on their Facebook account and reposting.

As to why your wife still reciprocate, I don't know, but you have every right to your sanctity of your marriage.

Rock On Bro :cool:

[parrotkid]

Take evidence of his gallivanting and show his wife. Wife sure piss off that he spend time with another woman instead of wife and kids. Put it on their Facebook account and reposting.

As to why your wife still reciprocate, I don't know, but you have every right to your sanctity of your marriage.

Rock On Bro :cool:

My wife is naive. We are not on the best of terms. maybe just a normal marriage. This guy is jobless so he has plenty of time to entertain my wife. That bastard's wife works so he does not have to.
I work everyday to maintain the family especially now that my wife has stopped working. The burden on me is very great. While I am supporting the family she goes out and is play Pokemon and gets sweetalked this way. I am truly very disappointed with my wife. She finds excuses for neglecting my kids.

[YELLOW]

sad to say i ve a lot of this kind of woman . your wife is unlikely to be beyond reproach here bro . perhaps they find solitude in each other's company. hav a chat w ur wife bro .... and move on if needed.....


My wife is naive. We are not on the best of terms. maybe just a normal marriage. This guy is jobless so he has plenty of time to entertain my wife. That bastard's wife works so he does not have to.
I work everyday to maintain the family especially now that my wife has stopped working. The burden on me is very great. While I am supporting the family she goes out and is play Pokemon and gets sweetalked this way. I am truly very disappointed with my wife. She finds excuses for neglecting my kids.

[Xyberduke]

Unfriend him. I did.

[jason910]

U started another thread on this topic. It takes two hands to clap if ur wife is not interested in him no matter what he goes she will ignore.

[jason910]

I do sleep around and am fortunate enough to get ons quite regularly with my uni friends, international students and chance encounters. But i will never bang another guy's gf or wife - its a code of respect for me and i live by this virtue. I wouldnt like it if another dude banged my gf so i will never do it to others.

I think guys who bang other dude's wife or gf knowingly are srsly jerks.

So u r very sure those ons u had they r single or u Did find out 100% they r single before bonking them

[JacqueMerlin]

I find men who hit on others’ wives to be the most despicable kind if scumbag.
Even if the woman’s marriage is in trouble, a man should never take advantage of the situation. To me it is a code of conduct of a respectable human being. You don’t do to others what you don’t want to happen to yourself.

I have unfortunately met a guy who lacks such code of conduct. How do I deal with him?

The problem lies on your wife not that guy. As long as she continues to respond, getting the guy to back off is useless. Next guy comes along and you will have the same problem.

[JacqueMerlin]

So u r very sure those ons u had they r single or u Did find out 100% they r single before bonking them

This if the girl deliberately covers that up will have the onus transferred to her.

[Mikka]

As the saying goes "it takes two to tango".

[jameschong1]

[QUOTE=parrotkid;17039346]I find men who hit on others’ wives to be the most despicable kind if scumbag.
Even if the woman’s marriage is in trouble, a man should never take advantage of the situation. To me it is a code of conduct of a respectable human being. You don’t do to others what you don’t want to happen to yourself.
U mean she let u wear GREEN hat?
maybe u are low salary or low sex drive too?
so now your name is GREEN parrotkid?

[youmee]

End of the day, we should not blame wife or the man. Likes some says, it takes two hand to clap.

Instead of finding fault with their behaviour, did TS find out what is wrong with yourself? You already know there is some problem in your marriage, did you do something about it?

Your wife is not working, you say you are working your arse off, are you saying you work 2 jobs or are you working 16hrs a day that you have no time with your wife?

You need to spend time with your wife to get rid of her boredom. And of course, you still need to upkeep the relationship going by buying gifts like when you are wooing her back in the days. Did you still do all these?

What i can say is, work hard yes, show her the money, and her heart will return to you. Sadly to say, this is the money world right now, wife or no wife, heart changes where the money are.

[magical]

My wife is naive. We are not on the best of terms. maybe just a normal marriage. This guy is jobless so he has plenty of time to entertain my wife. That bastard's wife works so he does not have to.
I work everyday to maintain the family especially now that my wife has stopped working. The burden on me is very great. While I am supporting the family she goes out and is play Pokemon and gets sweetalked this way. I am truly very disappointed with my wife. She finds excuses for neglecting my kids.

Bro,

Your thread tittle say "How to deal with man who keep hitting on others' wife"....Have he hitted? or is he still hitting.......is it right to say still hitting means not successful?

Why dun you try hitting his wife, since you know his wife is working.
Complaining wont stop the hitting until it is hit. :D

The truth is there are plenty of samsters here who hit other ppl wives, maids, mothers and some so gross which i will not mention and they even post their pictures here.:p

The hawks and crows will flock here if there is enough meat to attract them.:eek:

[warrior2013]

I do not interact with that bastard. He is married and should pay attention to his own marriage instead of messing with others’.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g-FTOKCxxFw&has_verified=1
Works either way.
If he didnt touch ur wife hes stuck in his missus.

https://www.deccanchronicle.com/world/asia/050716/former-japanese-boxer-jailed-for-chopping-off-flushing-laywers-penis.html
This, however is too pricey in SG.

[SCRAZE]

I find men who hit on others’ wives to be the most despicable kind if scumbag.
Even if the woman’s marriage is in trouble, a man should never take advantage of the situation. To me it is a code of conduct of a respectable human being. You don’t do to others what you don’t want to happen to yourself.

I have unfortunately met a guy who lacks such code of conduct. How do I deal with him?

The man is married or not? I was almost the same situation few years back.
Beating him up is wrong, so have to play him another way

[iloveu4ever]

End of the day, we should not blame wife or the man. Likes some says, it takes two hand to clap.

Instead of finding fault with their behaviour, did TS find out what is wrong with yourself? You already know there is some problem in your marriage, did you do something about it?

Your wife is not working, you say you are working your arse off, are you saying you work 2 jobs or are you working 16hrs a day that you have no time with your wife?

You need to spend time with your wife to get rid of her boredom. And of course, you still need to upkeep the relationship going by buying gifts like when you are wooing her back in the days. Did you still do all these?

What i can say is, work hard yes, show her the money, and her heart will return to you. Sadly to say, this is the money world right now, wife or no wife, heart changes where the money are.

Yup totally agree..when u have no money...ur attractiveness goes to zero....then every small thing will blow up...till she leaves u. Same goes with guys...when women turn fat n not what we love when bonking....most will turn to fl.

[jake1]

The man is married or not? I was almost the same situation few years back.
Beating him up is wrong, so have to play him another way

Nothing is right or wrong. You seek the best solution to the problem. If giving him a lesson can get a good result then go for it. No point complaining if you want your woman back otherwise just move on.

[JacqueMerlin]

I find men who hit on others’ wives to be the most despicable kind if scumbag.
Even if the woman’s marriage is in trouble, a man should never take advantage of the situation. To me it is a code of conduct of a respectable human being. You don’t do to others what you don’t want to happen to yourself.

I have unfortunately met a guy who lacks such code of conduct. How do I deal with him?

If other men hit on your wife = you got a taste valued by another
If your wife does not respond = you got a good wife
If your wife responds = you got a shit wife

[thewildone]

The man is despicable. But so is the woman who falls for him. Taking action, confronting, fighting will only push your woman further away from you; you're proving her right that you're insecure.

Get yourself a private investigator and a lawyer...save your assets while you can.

[NewHampshire]

End of the day, we should not blame wife or the man. Likes some says, it takes two hand to clap.

Instead of finding fault with their behaviour, did TS find out what is wrong with yourself? You already know there is some problem in your marriage, did you do something about it?

Your wife is not working, you say you are working your arse off, are you saying you work 2 jobs or are you working 16hrs a day that you have no time with your wife?

You need to spend time with your wife to get rid of her boredom. And of course, you still need to upkeep the relationship going by buying gifts like when you are wooing her back in the days. Did you still do all these?

What i can say is, work hard yes, show her the money, and her heart will return to you. Sadly to say, this is the money world right now, wife or no wife, heart changes where the money are.

Since he started this thread means TS dun think he has anything wrong.

Men hardly will admit his fault.

[labbityeo]

Be humble and admit your weakness.
Do it in writing first then find a moment to muster your courage to read it out

[parrotkid]

Be humble and admit your weakness.
Do it in writing first then find a moment to muster your courage to read it out

Ok. Long time since I last posted. The guy has stopped but another guy is trying to start something now. What is wrong with these men? Can't they stay faithful to their own wives? I think a lot of Pokemon players are tend to be like that. They have lost interest in their wives and will hit on other people's wife.

[parrotkid]

That bastard has moved on to someone else’s wife. Pity that husband. It has been 7 months and he doesn’t know.

[sexcision]

That bastard has moved on to someone else’s wife. Pity that husband. It has been 7 months and he doesn’t know.

And how u know so well?

[Bullshitlar]

You can always seduce their mum and hang out with their dad.

Fuck his mum and give him a little sister then your kid can fuck his Sister.