Feeling desperate and suicidal. Need advice and help.

[camoman]

I have no one else to turn to and no way out. Just hope to claw myself out of a bad situation.

First of all I have no job now. So why not find one? Find job also need money to travel and tahan for a month. I don't have those. So I'm lost as to how to start. In fact right now I'm surviving on 1 meal a day. Mostly instant noodles and an egg.

I don't even have the money to replace my broken spectacles. Have to use scotch tape to tape the side together and it keeps wobbling up and down.

To make things worse I have thyroid problems that causes slightly blurry vision and sweating. I cant continue with my treatment anymore because I'm broke.

All these things put together is driving me to the point of no return. In fact my back is so far up against the wall I just feel like ending everything. I think really no way out anymore. Even someone successful like Kate spade can kill herself what about lesser mortals like me?

Its the only thing I think about nowadays. Any advice or help would be appreciated

[camoman]

If I know what to do I wont need to ask here. So don't scold me.

I have nowhere else to go already.

[LateHunter]

What nonsense. Find job also need money travel and tahan a month?

I don't know if you are trolling or what, either way please go and die.

I have no one else to turn to and no way out. Just hope to claw myself out of a bad situation.

First of all I have no job now. So why not find one? Find job also need money to travel and tahan for a month. I don't have those. So I'm lost as to how to start. In fact right now I'm surviving on 1 meal a day. Mostly instant noodles and an egg.

I don't even have the money to replace my broken spectacles. Have to use scotch tape to tape the side together and it keeps wobbling up and down.

To make things worse I have thyroid problems that causes slightly blurry vision and sweating. I cant continue with my treatment anymore because I'm broke.

All these things put together is driving me to the point of no return. In fact my back is so far up against the wall I just feel like ending everything. I think really no way out anymore. Even someone successful like Kate spade can kill herself what about lesser mortals like me?

Its the only thing I think about nowadays. Any advice or help would be appreciated

[camoman]

What nonsense. Find job also need money travel and tahan a month?

I don't know if you are trolling or what, either way please go and die.

Not trolling. Up to you if you don't believe. If I have options I wont come sex forum ask for advice.

[YELLOW]

internet access also cost $$ .... cut it and u hav another 1-2$ more a day.

i m not dissing u but its a suggestion.

good luck.

Not trolling. Up to you if you don't believe. If I have options I wont come sex forum ask for advice.

[camoman]

internet access also cost $$ .... cut it and u hav another 1-2$ more a day.

i m not dissing u but its a suggestion.

good luck.

Thanks. I don't have a pc at home now. I'm using my phone to post.

[ddog]

Kate Spade = Manic Depressive, mental disorder
Normal person = don't give lame excuses not able to survive

[jonnyboi888]

hope you can find a part time job quickly bro.. please take care!

[camoman]

Kate Spade = Manic Depressive, mental disorder
Normal person = don't give lame excuses not able to survive

Maybe you never been desperate before. But I'm not trolling or giving excuses.

If I wanna troll I would have done so since 2003 when i created this account.

I just want to know if anyone ever kena this kind of rock bottom experience and how they come out of it.

[hi2u]

Hi bros here,
I think there are reasons why bro TS is in such plight.
If you have nothing beneficial to contribute kindly do not troll or scold.
There is no such thing as stupid question, only stupid people don't ask questions.
He feels helpless, thus he asked. True or not, we don't know. It may happen to anyone one day and would you want the same to be treated to you?
There are community resources available to help TS, and one of the good thing about this little red dot is universal access to healthcare services.
If you don't know what universal access means, kindly google.
Bros who are unhappy with the say I said things, it only shows that I strike a nerve with your nasty attitude, and I don't really give a fuck about lame points in the cyber world.

[ComplainKing]

Please go and seek help from your MP .

[camoman]

Please go and seek help from your MP .

I really hope got other ways. I really do.

[Fat Fatt]

Maybe you never been desperate before. But I'm not trolling or giving excuses.

If I wanna troll I would have done so since 2003 when i created this account.

I just want to know if anyone ever kena this kind of rock bottom experience and how they come out of it.

有手有脚不怕没有工作。start of a job first, 7-11 or other shop assistants first and get the salary coming in first. Then think of what to do next ....

[wangzzz]

Any advice or help would be appreciated[/QUOTE]

Medical condition - go Polyclinic apply Medifund. Covers yr medical bills.

Also,


172642

[hi2u]

Bro TS, read your pm.
Based on whatever you shared, those are what I could suggest.
If those can't help, do let me know more detail about your current plight :)
Cheer up man.

[ulysses84]

Steve Jobs' last words
He died a billionaire at 56yrs of Pancreatic Cancer and here are his last words on the sick bed:

"I reached the pinnacle of success in the business world. In others’ eyes my life is an epitome of success.

However, aside from work, I have little joy. In the end, wealth is only a fact of life that I am accustomed to.

At this moment, lying on the sick bed and recalling my whole life, I realize that all the recognition and

wealth that I took so much pride in, have paled and become meaningless in the face of impending death.

You can employ someone to drive the car for you, make money for you but you cannot have someone to bear the sickness for you.

Material things lost can be found. But there is one thing that can never be found when it is lost – "Life".

When a person goes into the operating room, he will realize that there is one book that he has yet to finish reading – "Book of Healthy Life".

Whichever stage in life we are at right now, with time, we will face the day when the curtain comes down.

Treasure Love for your family, love for your spouse, love for your friends...

Treat yourself well. Cherish others.

As we grow older, and hence wiser, we slowly realize that wearing a $300 or $30 watch - they both tell the same time...

Whether we carry a $300 or $30 wallet/handbag - the amount of money inside is the same;

Whether we drive a $150,000 car or a $30,000 car, the road and distance is the same, and we get to the same destination.

Whether we drink a bottle of $300 or $10 wine - the hangover is the same;

Whether the house we live in is 300 or 3000 sq ft - loneliness is the same.

You will realize, your true inner happiness does not come from the material things of this world.

Whether you fly first or economy class, if the plane goes down - you go down with it...

Therefore.. I hope you realize, when you have mates, buddies and old friends, brothers and sisters, who you chat with, laugh with, talk with, have sing songs with, talk about north-south-east-west or heaven and earth, .... That is true happiness!!

Five Undeniable Facts of Life :
1. Don't educate your children to be rich. Educate them to be Happy. So when they grow up they will know the value of things not the price.

2. Best awarded words in London ... "Eat your food as your medicines. Otherwise you have to eat medicines as your food."

3. The One who loves you will never leave you for another because even if there are 100 reasons to give up he or she will find one reason to hold on.

4. There is a big difference between a human being and being human.
Only a few really understand it.

5. You are loved when you are born. You will be loved when you die. In between, You have to manage!

NOTE: If you just want to Walk Fast, Walk Alone! But if you want to Walk Far, Walk Together!

Six Best Doctors in the World
1. Sunlight
2. Rest
3. Exercise
4. Diet
5. Self Confidence and
6. Friends

Maintain them in all stages of Life and enjoy a healthy life.

God loves you!

[camoman]

Bro TS, read your pm.
Based on whatever you shared, those are what I could suggest.
If those can't help, do let me know more detail about your current plight :)
Cheer up man.

Thanks for your pm. But if I can have an option not to involve the government I would take it.

Seriously government is the last resort.

My problem right now is a lack of seed money to tide me through my job hunt and last a month to get paid.

[hi2u]

Thanks for your pm. But if I can have an option not to involve the government I would take it.

Seriously government is the last resort.

My problem right now is a lack of seed money to tide me through my job hunt and last a month to get paid.

Bro, Govt help is a safety net for needy.
If you have other resources, e.g. family members, friends, who could be kind enough to loan you a bit to tide you through tough times, do approach them.
But I guess you don't, thus you posted here.
Channels of help and resources are available in your community. It is still your choice whether or not to seek them to tide you through temporary.
hang in there. Tough times don't last, tough men do.

[camoman]

Bro, Govt help is a safety net for needy.
If you have other resources, e.g. family members, friends, who could be kind enough to loan you a bit to tide you through tough times, do approach them.
But I guess you don't, thus you posted here.
Channels of help and resources are available in your community. It is still your choice whether or not to seek them to tide you through temporary.
hang in there. Tough times don't last, tough men do.

Yeah, family and friends can forget about it. Really. :(

[screwu]

I agree with the views of Hi2U. I really hope you will find your assistance here. There are brothers who will help you in kind in this forum. Be patient ....

[angusb]

Yeah, family and friends can forget about it. Really. :(

take care bro empathise with you. please be blessed

[camoman]

take care bro empathise with you. please be blessed

Thank you.

If I ever find my footing in life I'm gonna pay it forward and help those in need.

Seriously if anyone ever hit rock bottom then can understand how fucked up it is to not even have money to take MRT or buy a new pair of glasses or even buy food.

[screwu]

PM me when you can

[Yardstick]

Bro, I am been in your case before, only less severe since it is a case of post NS and cannot get a job. :o

No job for almost 1.5 months after sending out letters after letters. Did not dare ask my parents for money as they are not highly paid too. I can only stay at home most of the time. Luckily still can have 3 meals a day.

In the end, I started doing part time first. Serving tables, giving out leaflets. Back then, they only pay $4.50 an hour for serving table and $3 dollars an hour to finish giving 5000 leaflets in 4hours (something like that). I still did it. best thing, they pay by the day. So, after a few hours of work, at least have 10+ to 20+ dollars in pocket. I think you can start from there too. I am sure they pay better now.

As you earn some money each day thru part time, you have lesser worries and can use your free time to focus on finding permanent work.

It will be tough, I promise you. But you will have to put aside your pride and focus on it. Remember this, life can be harsh... but if you face up to it and walk it through, the light at the end of the tunnel makes the difference.

[Arucard]

go distribute flyer first they pay daily next go fast food restuarant most of them provide meals. save your money then change job. no need to die cry here cry there it not the end of the world. focus

[ilikeoldchangke]

Dear TS,

天无绝人之路.

Don't think of ending it all as a way out.

Solve 1 issue at a time.

There are many temples that serve free food in SG. Regardless of race, language or religion, they will serve you food. 7am to 7pm.
This might solve the food problem for a while if they are within reach of your place of residence. You should be able to find them on google.

Cycle if need to, can save some money as well.

I'm sure some of these temples accept volunteers as well or you can try asking if they are willing to pay you a part time wage to work in their kitchen or do the dishes.

Solves your food problem and maybe earn some cash to tide you through.


Don't wait to ask for help from your MP or community centres. Go and talk to them.

Hope your situation improves soon.

[FreebiezWanker]

Mus be Gnnivla's buddy, but tis one say wanna die. Other one just beg for money. Combine together shld be quite lethal combo.

Knn, cos like tis wan go DIE??? Then go DIE la fuck...Cfrm u no BALLS to go die also wan. U tink got no people worse situation then u???? If u wannna die then make sure u donate ur vital organs to people who appreciate life more n not wanna die cos going thru a tough situation.

[ddog]

Ddog no mean. Only being reasonable, find job for you all will be fine.

Doggystyle was beri poor puppy... school, parents never bothered. Ddog determined to study... moved off from family to foreign land, went hungry all the time. Classmates ate, Ddog study with empty stomach. Parents didn't bother much. Friends asked, with growling stomach, Ddog lied to classmate "not hungry".

Went a long way in life and built own world. Surrounded by beautiful people. Then all shattered with an accident that left Ddog almost paralyzed for life. Not because of selfish reason, but paralyzed from doing a good good deed. Long story.

Healed from beri sheer determination. Picked up life again, from front got to know tons of elites yet helping the poor from behind. You won't get blessed nor good luck from doing good deeds at all. Like this morning, Ddog saw poor grandfather collecting cans, placed $50 in his pocket and gestured 'eat'. You know why?

Because Ddog experienced much hardship and manage to rise above it. No better, no worse than anyone, just have a bit spare change to make a difference.

Last month Bangkok, walk with pretty Siambu, she suddenly missing Ddog, then came running to her panting and smiling. You
know why? because, was helping mother with kids. But gal didn't notice... she don't have to. Until 3rd beggar, she turned her back, saw.... me took beggars hand and placed some money, then told me Ddog different from other guys. She like deep deep, hugged Ddog entire trip that night.

But first, we must help ownself, basic rule #1. Helping others are optional choices (but chics like)

Beri simple advise: get a job, don't give lame excuses

[Latte]

If you have hands, legs, mouth, you can

1. Distribute Flyers
2. Take on Telemarketing jobs
3. Sell Tissue.

All these are physical jobs which require minimum or zero cost

[MaoSanWang]

camoman,

Want to commit suicide but still want to keep govt assist as last resort.
Pardon me for saying, but I think you are really quite sick, not thinking straight liao...

If you are sick, you cannot work. No work, no $.
Suggest to you seek medical help to get healthy ASAP.

Check out gumtree website part-time jobs or just google part-time job.
Plenty of jobs avail.
Most daily rated. You get your money at end of day.

Goodluck!

[camoman]

Mus be Gnnivla's buddy, but tis one say wanna die. Other one just beg for money. Combine together shld be quite lethal combo.

Knn, cos like tis wan go DIE??? Then go DIE la fuck...Cfrm u no BALLS to go die also wan. U tink got no people worse situation then u???? If u wannna die then make sure u donate ur vital organs to people who appreciate life more n not wanna die cos going thru a tough situation.

I really don't know who he is and what he did to make you so angry when I didn't even offend you.

[camoman]

Dear TS,

天无绝人之路.

Don't think of ending it all as a way out.

Solve 1 issue at a time.

There are many temples that serve free food in SG. Regardless of race, language or religion, they will serve you food. 7am to 7pm.
This might solve the food problem for a while if they are within reach of your place of residence. You should be able to find them on google.

Cycle if need to, can save some money as well.

I'm sure some of these temples accept volunteers as well or you can try asking if they are willing to pay you a part time wage to work in their kitchen or do the dishes.

Solves your food problem and maybe earn some cash to tide you through.


Don't wait to ask for help from your MP or community centres. Go and talk to them.

Hope your situation improves soon.

I hope so but my place here seems to have only 1 temple with no free food

I don't know for sure because I don't have a religion.

[camoman]

Ddog no mean. Only being reasonable, find job for you all will be fine.

Doggystyle was beri poor puppy... school, parents never bothered. Ddog determined to study... moved off from family to foreign land, went hungry all the time. Classmates ate, Ddog study with empty stomach. Parents didn't bother much. Friends asked, with growling stomach, Ddog lied to classmate "not hungry".

Went a long way in life and built own world. Surrounded by beautiful people. Then all shattered with an accident that left Ddog almost paralyzed for life. Not because of selfish reason, but paralyzed from doing a good good deed. Long story.

Healed from beri sheer determination. Picked up life again, from front got to know tons of elites yet helping the poor from behind. You won't get blessed nor good luck from doing good deeds at all. Like this morning, Ddog saw poor grandfather collecting cans, placed $50 in his pocket and gestured 'eat'. You know why?

Because Ddog experienced much hardship and manage to rise above it. No better, no worse than anyone, just have a bit spare change to make a difference.

Last month Bangkok, walk with pretty Siambu, she suddenly missing Ddog, then came running to her panting and smiling. You
know why? because, was helping mother with kids. But gal didn't notice... she don't have to. Until 3rd beggar, she turned her back, saw.... me took beggars hand and placed some money, then told me Ddog different from other guys. She like deep deep, hugged Ddog entire trip that night.

But first, we must help ownself, basic rule #1. Helping others are optional choices (but chics like)

Beri simple advise: get a job, don't give lame excuses

Trying to a job and some small cash to tide over till payday.

But good to hear you managed to rise above others. Got advice for me or not?

If I can get the right footing I'll also pay it forward. But need to unfuck myself first.

[ulysses84]

Once u replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you'll start having positive result.

Start with e2i (Employment and Employability Institute)

[Ntspannar]

I am sorry, but u said you're rock bottom and that means cant get worse. Yet u want to be selective and have a list of "last resort"

I've been suicidal before but never as privileged as you to be able to choose. Beggars cant be choosers...if you're still choosing well...then that's hardly rock bottom. So quit whining and start working...geez...

[TKee]

I ‘m afraid you come to wrong side for such help. Maybe try approaching your family, relatives, neighbors or MP for help first.

[conquer]

1) Don't waste money on food. Go to kopitiam and eat those leftover food. You'd save $2 per day. Also, those leftover food is more nutritious than instant noodle.

2) Check out every rubbish bin in your neighborhood see if you can find anything valuable, such as coins, papers or aluminum tins you can sell.

3) When you have enough money, go buy some tissue papers and sell at bars, food courts, MRT stations, etc.

4) You might think I'm trolling, but this is how you would survive and improve your life quality.

5) Last one, cancel your internet/phone service. You are wasting your time and money. :o

[JOGK]

I have no one else to turn to and no way out. Just hope to claw myself out of a bad situation.

First of all I have no job now. So why not find one? Find job also need money to travel and tahan for a month. I don't have those. So I'm lost as to how to start. In fact right now I'm surviving on 1 meal a day. Mostly instant noodles and an egg.

I don't even have the money to replace my broken spectacles. Have to use scotch tape to tape the side together and it keeps wobbling up and down.

To make things worse I have thyroid problems that causes slightly blurry vision and sweating. I cant continue with my treatment anymore because I'm broke.

All these things put together is driving me to the point of no return. In fact my back is so far up against the wall I just feel like ending everything. I think really no way out anymore. Even someone successful like Kate spade can kill herself what about lesser mortals like me?

Its the only thing I think about nowadays. Any advice or help would be appreciated

How old are you? Married? Family?
Did you go to social welfare?
If you are geniune broke and no one to turn to
They will help you like
Free medical care...monthly espenses
Pub bills and conservancy fees...
My friend just approved and got 6 months
If you are a gambler ..hard luck
Because you not allow to enter casino
And join singapore pools as member

[liberty666]

Instead of wasting time here, shouldnt you be actively looking for jobs? :confused:

[SamLoMo]

Just saying, but there's quite a lot of options for you left. In Singapore no such thing as no money. It's whether you want to put in effort or not.

No job? Go apply for Fast food restaurants. The pay is shit but at least having an income is better than no income. Even if you just start out, at least $1.8k if you don't slack off.

Don't tell me 'oh, I trying to look for a better job and working at a fast food restaurant won't give me the time to look for a proper job!'. You can send out your resumes and apply for shifts or off to go for interviews.

Your circumstances aren't as bad as my friend. My friend was literally thrown out of his house for drug abuse and after he got out of rehab, he had literally $0 in his name. No job, no certs, no house. Even when we friends tried to offer him help like let him stay at our house all this, he refused because he's willing to stand up on his feet on his own and not rely on others. For a month, he had to sleep at parks etc etc until he received his first salary then he start renting room. You can't tell me your situation as bad as him ba. If my friend can do it, so can you. If you want to corner yourself, no way anyone can help you.

[screwu]

Bro Camoman
I have done what I promised. Now and then you
will have brothers from this forum to help you in
kind. You need to emotionally pull yourself up.
Nobody else can but YOU.

[kanachu38]

There is many way to do things in life. Somestimes society always paints that this is the only path to take. Example apply a job good office job straight school and etc. But all this may not work for everyone circumstances. My advice is just take small steps and move on with life. You will find one path that will bring you out. I leave a quote in from the net. Bamboo seed take 2 years start growing shoots. Because it is developing its large network of roots in the ground.

[ourworld]

Hey TS!
I feel you!
Yeas ago when my hubby’s father fell and went into bedridden state,
He is the one person working making ends meet
To support his paralyses father, his mother whom is a housewife and need to stay home to take care of his father
And his sister who was still schooling,,
He need to work dbl hard to make ends meet,,
But he didn’t give up,,
Everything will eventually get over,,
Just need to bite the bullet

If you still have any assets,,
Maybe you might wanna pawn them or sell them in exchange for some cash,,
With the money,,
Fund for your daily expenses
Get a part time job first,,
I’m sure as a sporean
If you aren’t choosy,,
There is always jobs available,,

I don’t believe you go shops by shops asking if there is any job offers you won’t get one,,
Depends if you wanna do it or not!
Try those coffee shop
Stall assistant or whatever,,
My hubby use to work in the bank,,
In order to make ends meet,,
During weekend, he went to help a coffee stall as an assistant

Instead of coming here asking what you should do,
Find your own survival,,
People on the internet lack of compassion,,
They will shoot you and run you down
Becoz over in the internet,
Nobody identity is real therefore they speak irresponsibility
They don’t take accountability for their words here,,,

加油！

[I Love Boobs]

Work part-time in McD or any food place.
Even food court clearing plates.
That would give you some cash.
I was broke a few years back and my ex-Wife cheated on me, swindled my money and saddled me with her debts....

[camoman]

1) Don't waste money on food. Go to kopitiam and eat those leftover food. You'd save $2 per day. Also, those leftover food is more nutritious than instant noodle.

2) Check out every rubbish bin in your neighborhood see if you can find anything valuable, such as coins, papers or aluminum tins you can sell.

3) When you have enough money, go buy some tissue papers and sell at bars, food courts, MRT stations, etc.

4) You might think I'm trolling, but this is how you would survive and improve your life quality.

5) Last one, cancel your internet/phone service. You are wasting your time and money. :o

Cancelling my phone and internet will make things even worse because I can't find jobs and no one can contact me.

And I don't even have the money for a new PC after my old one spoilt. I'm using my phone now with prepaid card.

[camoman]

How old are you? Married? Family?
Did you go to social welfare?
If you are geniune broke and no one to turn to
They will help you like
Free medical care...monthly espenses
Pub bills and conservancy fees...
My friend just approved and got 6 months
If you are a gambler ..hard luck
Because you not allow to enter casino
And join singapore pools as member

The casino thing doesn't bother me at all since I don't even gamble.

[camoman]

Bro Camoman
I have done what I promised. Now and then you
will have brothers from this forum to help you in
kind. You need to emotionally pull yourself up.
Nobody else can but YOU.

Thanks so much bro. :)

[camoman]

There is many way to do things in life. Somestimes society always paints that this is the only path to take. Example apply a job good office job straight school and etc. But all this may not work for everyone circumstances. My advice is just take small steps and move on with life. You will find one path that will bring you out. I leave a quote in from the net. Bamboo seed take 2 years start growing shoots. Because it is developing its large network of roots in the ground.

I also hope to make something for myself in future. I just don't feel its right to punish someone for a couple of mistakes when younger.

If ex convicts can have a second chance why not people like me? I've never hurt anyone or been to jail before.

But oh well that's Singapore.

[camoman]

Hey TS!
I feel you!
Yeas ago when my hubby’s father fell and went into bedridden state,
He is the one person working making ends meet
To support his paralyses father, his mother whom is a housewife and need to stay home to take care of his father
And his sister who was still schooling,,
He need to work dbl hard to make ends meet,,
But he didn’t give up,,
Everything will eventually get over,,
Just need to bite the bullet

If you still have any assets,,
Maybe you might wanna pawn them or sell them in exchange for some cash,,
With the money,,
Fund for your daily expenses
Get a part time job first,,
I’m sure as a sporean
If you aren’t choosy,,
There is always jobs available,,

I don’t believe you go shops by shops asking if there is any job offers you won’t get one,,
Depends if you wanna do it or not!
Try those coffee shop
Stall assistant or whatever,,
My hubby use to work in the bank,,
In order to make ends meet,,
During weekend, he went to help a coffee stall as an assistant

Instead of coming here asking what you should do,
Find your own survival,,
People on the internet lack of compassion,,
They will shoot you and run you down
Becoz over in the internet,
Nobody identity is real therefore they speak irresponsibility
They don’t take accountability for their words here,,,

加油！

Your hubby is a strong man. I wish I can be strong like him.

I'm pretty sure I can pick myself up as long as I can take the first step out.

Work part-time in McD or any food place.
Even food court clearing plates.
That would give you some cash.
I was broke a few years back and my ex-Wife cheated on me, swindled my money and saddled me with her debts....

Wow that sucks. Want to share how to came out of it? I'm sure it can inspire a lot of people.

[camoman]

To those bros who told me to go to msf or other gov agencies, let me explain.

Because those agencies look upon your personal issues collectively as a whole this means I have to involve my whole family.

Now I'm not on really good terms with my family members. So if involve them sure fight and quarrel and everybody blame here blame there and talk about history. Given a choice I don't even want to stay with them. See their faces make me even more fed up.

[ulysses84]

First, recognize what is the problems that puts you in current state.

Next, there is no instant magic to resolve all the problems, start by crafting a list of actions items to improve your current state. E.g spend 3 hours shortlisting potential jobs, spend 2 hours to call various job agencies, spend 2 hours to learn and upgrade own skillsets relevant to your nature of job search.

Last, don't keep procrastinating, e.g I do not know , I don't have $, I do not have qualification. Take MASSIVE actions right now!

[lonesome1]

U give me your bank account. I transfer money to u

[JOGK]

To those bros who told me to go to msf or other gov agencies, let me explain.

Because those agencies look upon your personal issues collectively as a whole this means I have to involve my whole family.

Now I'm not on really good terms with my family members. So if involve them sure fight and quarrel and everybody blame here blame there and talk about history. Given a choice I don't even want to stay with them. See their faces make me even more fed up.

You staying alone?
My friend just divorce
He is staying alone at present
But have to give up his hdb flat soon
His daughter already married
Since he is staying alone
The officers only look on him

[thedevil666]

Your hubby is a strong man. I wish I can be strong like him.

I'm pretty sure I can pick myself up as long as I can take the first step out.



Wow that sucks. Want to share how to came out of it? I'm sure it can inspire a lot of people.

Stop wasting your time and get out the first step alr. U can walk, can talk, 有手有脚, don’t want to find work and keep procrastinating here. The time u spent replying to us is enough for u to earn $10 if u start collecting cardboard boxes and used alumininum can.

I gonna be straight, and I hope this can wake u up. The world will continue to spin with or without u. Tbh, your plight isn’t as bad as the really desperate ones. If u really commit suicide, nobody here will sympathsize and mourn for u.

Bloody hell wake up!

[FreebiezWanker]

Is damn obvious TS looking of nothing short of cash handouts on his terms... so just give him a freaking pan, he can go pan handle....

[hhlover]

A desperate person tat no money.. no job.. no idea.. WILL NEVER STILL GOT TIME TO COME post on a sex forum asking for advice.. PLUS REPLIES ALL BRO QUESTION N ANS..
Is so obvious TS is a fucking joker with nothing better to do..
Dun need go see ur MP.. straight away go rob him.. government will happily look after ur 3 meals for the next 3 to 5yrs.. come out still got some pocket money for u to travel look for job n tahan for one month..
This shld be the best idea for u joker..

[supershaft]

I have no one else to turn to and no way out. Just hope to claw myself out of a bad situation.

First of all I have no job now. So why not find one? Find job also need money to travel and tahan for a month. I don't have those. So I'm lost as to how to start. In fact right now I'm surviving on 1 meal a day. Mostly instant noodles and an egg.

I don't even have the money to replace my broken spectacles. Have to use scotch tape to tape the side together and it keeps wobbling up and down.

To make things worse I have thyroid problems that causes slightly blurry vision and sweating. I cant continue with my treatment anymore because I'm broke.

All these things put together is driving me to the point of no return. In fact my back is so far up against the wall I just feel like ending everything. I think really no way out anymore. Even someone successful like Kate spade can kill herself what about lesser mortals like me?

Its the only thing I think about nowadays. Any advice or help would be appreciated

find a job

[camoman]

You staying alone?
My friend just divorce
He is staying alone at present
But have to give up his hdb flat soon
His daughter already married
Since he is staying alone
The officers only look on him

I not staying alone so that's why.

[camoman]

find a job

Already on it. Thanks.

[jerko121075]

First of all, dun be choosy and learn to take hardship. Service industry needs lots of people, these are jobs that local shiam then kpkb gov give to FT.

[lonesome1]

Why not u go commit a crime like taking upskirts pics and share with us and then try and get caught. If u go jail stay in their resort, got free food & lodging & maybe can even study some enrichment courses inside... Idea bo?:D

[l0v3r]

Bro, one of the highest job demand in Singapore is probably kitchen helper because of it's heat I guess. If u willing to do it you will be paid.

[ulysses84]

There are plenty of on-demand work to tie you through.

For e.g sign up as foodpanda rider with options bicycle/motorbike/e-scooter.

[michael_368]

Thanks and up you back. :D

Just saying, but there's quite a lot of options for you left. In Singapore no such thing as no money. It's whether you want to put in effort or not.

No job? Go apply for Fast food restaurants. The pay is shit but at least having an income is better than no income. Even if you just start out, at least $1.8k if you don't slack off.

Don't tell me 'oh, I trying to look for a better job and working at a fast food restaurant won't give me the time to look for a proper job!'. You can send out your resumes and apply for shifts or off to go for interviews.

Your circumstances aren't as bad as my friend. My friend was literally thrown out of his house for drug abuse and after he got out of rehab, he had literally $0 in his name. No job, no certs, no house. Even when we friends tried to offer him help like let him stay at our house all this, he refused because he's willing to stand up on his feet on his own and not rely on others. For a month, he had to sleep at parks etc etc until he received his first salary then he start renting room. You can't tell me your situation as bad as him ba. If my friend can do it, so can you. If you want to corner yourself, no way anyone can help you.

[lumeiwan]

Hi, i've never really post on sbf before but i think i've went through the same situation as you before + i couldn't even afford to top up my prepaid right after i found a festive temp job and starhub terminating my line on owing two months of bills and fined me for early termination. I had to scrap what coins i have left to survive that one week of valentines work.

You might want to try gumtree, looks like they're hiring for a few days for festive events. I'm sure you'll will be able to pull through this, just don't stop fighting.

https://www.gumtree.sg/s-part+time-ad+hoc-jobs/temporary/page-2/v1c75a1jtp2

[Shadow_warrior]

don't wallow in self pity and realize there are many before and currently have things much harder than you

Go to YouTube listen to Les Brown, Eric Thomas, Tony Robbins, Jocko, Goggins, Sly, Nick Vujicic, Arnold etc... and listen to how they were once at bottom.

and once you get out of the mental despair, it's just in your mind and your emotions. Get up and go and seize the day, do it for those who depend on you.

[conquer]

If every excuse earns you 1 dollar, you would have earned at least 20 dollars from this thread. :o

[camoman]

If every excuse earns you 1 dollar, you would have earned at least 20 dollars from this thread. :o

Never made excuses.

I just told the truth about me but if people want to put me down because they've never been like me or simply want to talk cock also nothing I can do.

They have the right to say what they want.

In fact I even shared more details with some bros via pm.

[hellothis555]

I just told the truth about me but if people want to put me down because they've never been like me or simply want to talk cock also nothing I can do.


Commit suicide? Since you decided to post here, means you have no intention. Someone who wants to die will not "lion dance" telling others. :rolleyes:

Starting a thread of personal problem in a sex forum will invite tons of negative replies. If you want to read consoling, meaningful, supportive replies only then go to auntie agony or other Samaritan forum.

Just accept the fact you are now down in your life. I believe fast food chains are looking for part timer. Go and start work and stop wasting time here, whining how bad your situation and worse hoping. You are not putting an effort at all. Don't waste time hoping, move on.

BTW if you die, it is just another dead registered in SG. Others still moving on with their lives.

[screwu]

How are you doing TS. Guess you needed to unload
your problems here. We are all ears and some have honestly put forth views. Hope you are better than yesterday. Chhers

[camoman]

How are you doing TS. Guess you needed to unload
your problems here. We are all ears and some have honestly put forth views. Hope you are better than yesterday. Chhers

I feel better after airing out my problems despite the hate I get for reasons I don't even know why. But I guess its inherently human to want to watch others suffer as a form of self validation towards their own insecurities and issues. I mean, if I'm doing well for myself I might behave the same way for I'm as human? I don't know.

feeling better is the first step to moving forward. And I've also been looking out for opportunities.

And I did not receive any other financial assistance from anyone else aside from your small sum despite what some think. Neither did I pm anyone for any assistance. So I don't know why some said I'm asking for financial help.

Thanks bro.

[FOMO]

Hi, i've never really post on sbf before but i think i've went through the same situation as you before + i couldn't even afford to top up my prepaid right after i found a festive temp job and starhub terminating my line on owing two months of bills and fined me for early termination. I had to scrap what coins i have left to survive that one week of valentines work.

You might want to try gumtree, looks like they're hiring for a few days for festive events. I'm sure you'll will be able to pull through this, just don't stop fighting.

https://www.gumtree.sg/s-part+time-ad+hoc-jobs/temporary/page-2/v1c75a1jtp2

You still have phone ha?

For me, I dun even have 10 bucks.:confused:

[screwu]

It is their views. Take them with a pinch of salt.some have offered very valid advice. Condider them as you move forward one day a time....

[pantomime]

It is their views. Take them with a pinch of salt.some have offered very valid advice. Condider them as you move forward one day a time....

Exactly what I want to say.

[camoman]

It is their views. Take them with a pinch of salt.some have offered very valid advice. Condider them as you move forward one day a time....

I'm not offended and i think I learned a lot from this thread also.

[cowtory]

Exactly what I want to say.

I was about to say that too.

[fuckwannacry]

You still have phone ha?

For me, I dun even have 10 bucks.:confused:

Ya, I believe :confused:

[salmen]

You still have phone ha?

For me, I dun even have 10 bucks.:confused:

You still have an asshole …. after a few entries, should have 10 bucks :D

[Slaveatwork]

So many posters here talking asking TS to take a service job but he simply refuses to acknowledge them.

There's always a million excuses for those who refuse to keep an open mind.

Please all, Nobody should "lend" him any money at all!!!!! Even if you have so much extra money you don't know what to do with it, use it as toilet paper rather than give him. It'll only encourage him to come back asking for more.

[fallen69angel]

Care to share predicament via pm?

I’m not in the best of situations, but if you’re hungry I planja a meal or 2? I’ve been through some tough spots. But mentally you have to make sacrifices. Years ago, there was a time when I had only a dollar left. Took a bus to meet a friend to return me money.

Called my friend with the last 10c but kena makan. My friend said he steady will appear but I ended up kena aeroplane. Bad terms with parents who aren’t home always. I walked home from orchard to Jurong.

I will always remember that walk.

You just have to be willing to climb up.

[hellothis555]

There's always a million excuses for those who refuse to keep an open mind.


True.... days past and still not moving forward but indulge in SBF. If I am desperate for money, I won't waste my time reading and replying. I will work hard for money. No money to eat, no money to do this and that, yet wasting time here? :D

I remember those days I worked as banquet waiter in a hotel and Mc.. Day time in Mc. At about 5pm plus in hotel setting up the function room... after function, setting up the room for next morning breakfast function. Reached home about 1 or 2am, tired, showered and slept. Have time to SBF? :D

[camoman]

So many posters here talking asking TS to take a service job but he simply refuses to acknowledge them.

There's always a million excuses for those who refuse to keep an open mind.

Please all, Nobody should "lend" him any money at all!!!!! Even if you have so much extra money you don't know what to do with it, use it as toilet paper rather than give him. It'll only encourage him to come back asking for more.

I already said im looking at those options via pm and here. And if you had read properly above I already said I never asked for nor received any financial help except for a really small 2 digit sum from one guy.

I hope you don't hit rock bottom next time. What goes around comes around.

[Shadow_warrior]

I feel better after airing out my problems despite the hate I get for reasons I don't even know why. But I guess its inherently human to want to watch others suffer as a form of self validation towards their own insecurities and issues. I mean, if I'm doing well for myself I might behave the same way for I'm as human? I don't know.

feeling better is the first step to moving forward. And I've also been looking out for opportunities.

And I did not receive any other financial assistance from anyone else aside from your small sum despite what some think. Neither did I pm anyone for any assistance. So I don't know why some said I'm asking for financial help.

Thanks bro.

for a person who is relatively verbose you write well, articulate fine and the only reason I can conclude for your state is mental strength

you are just weak in your mental strength, you don't lack skill you lack will. And I did recommend you go listen to those speakers to boost your mental strength because life is 80% psychology 20% ability, wallowing in self pity does nothing. Neither is blame. Take responsibility and prove those who speak bad of you, WRONG.

you live in your world, you definitely don't have people to take care of, because if you did, you would get off your butt and go do what it takes to make it happen. If there are people depending on you, a gf, or wife or kids, my friend, you are not adding value to them.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fybi42dJHD4

[Thumbtacker81]

Dear Camoman,

You do sound younger than many of us here- a certain typical millennial who has been educated by today's society to blame others first, than upon yourself.

And you seem choosy with the jobs suggested by many fellows samsters here. You used the word desperate; people here suggested the right jobs to match your choice of vocab - simple and highly employable jobs to meet your basic needs (food & water; sex is arguably also a basic need but your hands work wonders) In this world, there are only a few rare fairy tales of poor people who could clear their desperate situation within a very short time.

It's all about being realistic & adjusting your own living standards against the state you are in. Something's not right? Make It Right by being REALISTIC.

I am also speaking from past experience. Your situation is really nothing. You at least got your roof covered.

[Slaveatwork]

plenty of good advice plus astute observations in the last few posts by Thumbtacker, shadow warrior, $$$$$$$$, and hellothis.

I'm very happy to see many smart Bros here!

[deadpool2]

plenty of good advice plus astute observations in the last few posts by Thumbtacker, shadow warrior, $$$$$$$$, and hellothis.

I'm very happy to see many smart Bros here!

Exactly what I wanted to say.

[nuckfuckle]

Exactly what I wanted to say.

Looks like we are the same.

[Bangster]

Bro Camoman

Like many mentioned, you are articulate in your writing and therefore I view you as someone with a reasonably good education, or at least have come from some respectable schools

I did not read all the pages so I do not know what got you in this predicament

But, the important thing is you yourself got to know the reason(s), the cause(s) that led you to this shithole

And if I may, I would guess pride has a rather high place in your life.

And pride is a tricky thing - she either makes us the most stubborn survivors in times of despair, calamity or she hinders the down-to-earth Mr Humility who tends to plan sensible routes for us.

And the job of finding solutions to quickly end your dire situation has been made easy by the many kind hearted bros here who gave suggestions of menial work positions (and trust me there are plenty of those) you can easily source

For once, ask Pride to take a backseat
She has no place now whatsoever in your life

[draven78eric]

Make a criminal case, have a long sentence, 2-3 yrs or above.
have 3 meals a day, and free counselling provided and free medical and can work inside also.
After which link to the "So called" Yellow Ribbon to help you if you are Lucky or even its a real deal to help the Ex convicts. But can try lah...:D
The 2-3 years inside, get to know as much people as you can.
Inside is "Wo Hu Chang Long" place...(Hidden Tiger Croaching Tiger)
Inside you can see guys with higher IQ than some really successful biz people out there now. Just that the way they make money is so different that the gov dont like lah...

Good luck

[draven78eric]

But also ah...if "Die" is the only way out for you, go do it in front of a MP or any ministers....make sure to have a great impact in their whole life after you pass on. Make a great favor for all of the rest of us in SIngapore. Make it a International Headline..
Make full use of own self when still possible. :cool: Just like how many hero die last min in War movies..
Just an out of the box suggestion lah
If and may as well mah...tio boh...

[sexcision]

Make a criminal case, have a long sentence, 2-3 yrs or above.
have 3 meals a day, and free counselling provided and free medical and can work inside also.
After which link to the "So called" Yellow Ribbon to help you if you are Lucky or even its a real deal to help the Ex convicts. But can try lah...:D
The 2-3 years inside, get to know as much people as you can.
Inside is "Wo Hu Chang Long" place...(Hidden Tiger Croaching Tiger)
Inside you can see guys with higher IQ than some really successful biz people out there now. Just that the way they make money is so different that the gov dont like lah...

Good luck

Ya, get to know kong hee while you are there, he should be your inspiration on how to make money lol

[Hornyong]

Just like how many hero die last min in War movies..


Usually the hero gets to piak piak a Syt before he dies on her lap😆

[sexynoob]

Hello if u wan eat temple and church provide free food to eat. I have been saving a lot since then I always go eat left over at temple. dun say dying u can go live at changi Airport and survive find a f***ing job,

[draven78eric]

Ya, get to know kong hee while you are there, he should be your inspiration on how to make money lol

Not easy to meet him lah... Unless have common friend to pass msg and say hello first....LoLx...also dont know at which Cluster and Housing...
Kong Hee is rich leh and can request for special cell if he wants leh...

[lonesome1]

TS, u still alive? Pls PM me if u still do I got a lobang for you. Just need you to help me transport something from JB to SG and you can earn quick bucks!!

[conquer]

TS, u still alive? Pls PM me if u still do I got a lobang for you. Just need you to help me transport something from JB to SG and you can earn quick bucks!!

LOL... I am not sure I want to wish TS luck or to anticipate TS' appearance on the newspaper headline tomorrow. :o

[lits]

hi TS,

I feel empathy for you. Please stand up and be strong. The darkest night is just before dawn, so keep holding on and stay strong, nothing lasts forever even though November rain.

I think you go to a wrong place to ask for advice here. If you feel depressed, try to call IMH 24-hour hotline at 6389 2222. I know you will feel hesitant but please try it, you never know if you never try.

Take care bro, I hope you make the right decision.

A brave person is not one who never scared, but one who is willing to face one's fear.

[Xgenre]

It is good that you are letting your thoughts out via this thread. Talk to someone. Do you notice the suicidal thought appearing for a while before disappearing again (probably replaced by another thought)? The next time a suicidal thought arises, just wait and don't act on the suicidal thought. It will pass. Alternatively, look back in time when you have helped someone. Replace a negative thought with a positive thought.

There are food places besides temples and churches that can provide you with free meals. Just google pay it forward meals. Balestier market has a wanton mee stall. Circuit road has food outlets on this too. Bukit batok too. Let me show you an example. https://mothership.sg/2018/01/bukit-batok-coffee-shop-belanja-a-meal-project/

Go find a job using job search engines. Even our government has a job portal. https://www.careers.gov.sg

Money can solve your physical needs but we human beings want to feel like we are part of this society too. No one likes to feel forgotten. Go help someone. Help an elderly person cross the road, give up a seat in the bus/mrt. Basically, bring a smile to others and the simple act will bring a smile into your life too.

Staying at home can be quite depressing. When you do not know what to do, just get out of the house and see if life can open doors/opportunities for you.

[prefshaven]

Dear desperate and depressed bro,

Don't loose heart and just give up the fight. To start off, you can just try to find a job at kopi shop first. Those are daily wage, near your home and you can get some money while you take stock on your next move. Think about how you land yourself in this situation and not repeat the same steps again.

Meanwhile, since you still have internet register yourself with Indeed.com job portal, you can try and put your resume there and find some jobs.

Don't give up, this world is only cruel to those who are down and out. Empathy is rare even from family and friends, especially more so when one is suffering from depression. Nobody will ever understand how you feel amd what goes on in your mind. Just take a deep breath and solider on. You will get out of this rut and things will get better slowly.

[FreebiezWanker]

Hello if u wan eat temple and church provide free food to eat. I have been saving a lot since then I always go eat left over at temple. dun say dying u can go live at changi Airport and survive find a f***ing job,

So can share which temple leftovers taste the best? U nvr jio TS to go together?

[oglaf1234]

What nonsense. Find job also need money travel and tahan a month?

I don't know if you are trolling or what, either way please go and die.

Wtf, you don't believe also don't need to ask TS go and die. Nothing useful to say then don't say anything, you worthless little shit.

[littlepok]

TS how liao?

actually go nearby mac to work lor or any fast food chain. walk over save transport cost. include jiak also

or any zhup cai png stall get paid daily type of work, ideally include 1 meal.

on the other hand... in here for 15 years liao got think how much paid to piak piak girls anot.

good days never last, this thought arise only when good days ended. irony...

[waaaaaa]

Do you have families, relative or friends? I’m sure they may help u tide over the period?