Companion

[JordonT]

Hi. I am hoping to meet a lady whom I can share my daily happenings with, someone who can lend a listening 'eye' and just chat about daily stuff. Being able to hold a conversation is important, including texts (not the raunchy talks). Let's see where it takes us to. I think Chemistry is more important than the lady's age and stats. So I won't lay down any expectations on that. A little refresher of my info.

Me:
race = Chinese
height = 1.80m
weight = 76kg
age = 35
looks = I haven't heard anything negative (still)
hair = short
Smoke: No but I am surrounded by smoker friends.
Drinks: social
Personality: like to watch movies, travel, food.

Again, I have no qualms if you're looking for something discreet. Whatever works for us.

[FreebiezWanker]

Sounds like u need a mother....

[JordonT]

I welcome Milfs too. :)

Sounds like u need a mother....

[larue]

And wtf do you have to offer?

Besides some vague assurance that you aren’t ugly. And a ‘listening ear’? What kind of shitty template did you get that off?

Pretending that you aren’t looking for sex? Do you seriously think women here, or pretty much any dating platform don’t bloody know than men ARE looking for sex?

Assist Vivian has put it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with me looking for women for sex. It’s an inbuilt impulse for men. There’s nothing to deny there.

What is embarrassing is how you all pretend that’s not the case (because you think it somehow helps you) or don’t realize it’s not about what you want, but what you can offer.

Remember, even the f-ugliest girls can get laid every single night if they applied male standards to what they’re looking for in a ‘sex’ partner. Men on the other hand, have to work a lot harder.

Yes, even the handsome ones.

[JordonT]

Take a chill pill dude. Everyone's has different order of desire at different stages of life. I'm not here to engage in any war of words. I don't think I owe anyone explanation here. You are entitled to your own opinion. I'm cool with that.

And wtf do you have to offer?

Besides some vague assurance that you aren’t ugly. And a ‘listening ear’? What kind of shitty template did you get that off?

Pretending that you aren’t looking for sex? Do you seriously think women here, or pretty much any dating platform don’t bloody know than men ARE looking for sex?

Assist Vivian has put it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with me looking for women for sex. It’s an inbuilt impulse for men. There’s nothing to deny there.

What is embarrassing is how you all pretend that’s not the case (because you think it somehow helps you) or don’t realize it’s not about what you want, but what you can offer.

Remember, even the f-ugliest girls can get laid every single night if they applied male standards to what they’re looking for in a ‘sex’ partner. Men on the other hand, have to work a lot harder.

Yes, even the handsome ones.

[larue]

Take a chill pill dude. Everyone's has different order of desire at different stages of life. I'm not here to engage in any war of words. I don't think I owe anyone explanation here. You are entitled to your own opinion. I'm cool with that.

As far as ripostes go, that was pretty good actually. Despite my criticisms, I really hope you (and so many other guys here) find what you seek.

But I, being me will always encourage guys to go on a lot more about what they bring to the table, rather than what they hope to find.

Tell the women why they should want to go out with you. You sound fairly eloquent, I can’t imagine you having trouble with that. Assuming your intentions are what you say they are :D

[terminator33]

And wtf do you have to offer?

Besides some vague assurance that you aren’t ugly. And a ‘listening ear’? What kind of shitty template did you get that off?

Pretending that you aren’t looking for sex? Do you seriously think women here, or pretty much any dating platform don’t bloody know than men ARE looking for sex?

Assist Vivian has put it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with me looking for women for sex. It’s an inbuilt impulse for men. There’s nothing to deny there.

What is embarrassing is how you all pretend that’s not the case (because you think it somehow helps you) or don’t realize it’s not about what you want, but what you can offer.

Remember, even the f-ugliest girls can get laid every single night if they applied male standards to what they’re looking for in a ‘sex’ partner. Men on the other hand, have to work a lot harder.

Yes, even the handsome ones.

I beg to differ.

I don't find the post pretentious at all. Not every guy is looking for sex here. I know I am not. If I am looking for sex partner (like SB for example), I would state so. Some times you just want people to talk to you and have dinner or whatnots.

And TS is entitled to post what he wanted and there is no need to state what he can offer.

[jabwemet]

Yeah.. not all of us seek sex.. sometimes companionship in our old age helps with the loneliness !
But the intro was pretty lame though!
Can do better! :D

[larue]

I beg to differ.

I don't find the post pretentious at all. Not every guy is looking for sex here. I know I am not. If I am looking for sex partner (like SB for example), I would state so. Some times you just want people to talk to you and have dinner or whatnots.

And TS is entitled to post what he wanted and there is no need to state what he can offer.

Indeed, we have very differing viewpoints, which is important I believe for both of us professionally.

I really have no problems with men seeking women for sex, or no sex. And whatever guys are looking for, I really wish them well.

And TS is looking primarily for sex if you read between the lines. No male who doesn’t want sex goes out of his way to emphasize that ‘I’m not after sex but I’m okay if you offer it!’ No offence to TS, you know deep in your heart what you’re after. Recognising it will help you attain it.

He certainly is entitled to post what he seeks. It’s the anonymous internet, there are no repercussions.

But we all know that for somebody to take the bait, something must be offered. It could be money, looks, personality, wit or ideally a combination of all of it.

As bro Jab put it, his intro is somewhat lame. And therein lies the issue: too many focus so much on what they want, and not what they can offer. And women are all after something.

Not always money. Frequently far from it. But a man who wants to attract women must have something to offer them, and this post, like so many go on and on about what they want, and not what they can offer.

No prizes for guessing the outcome of most of these sort of posts.

[Shiofukis]

Surprisingly CW wasn’t here yet!

[4Dguru]

Wow.. come to sex forum not looking for sex....hmm...

[Cuntworth]

Surprisingly CW wasn’t here yet!

Was here n there :D

[terminator33]

Indeed, we have very differing viewpoints, which is important I believe for both of us professionally.

I really have no problems with men seeking women for sex, or no sex. And whatever guys are looking for, I really wish them well.

And TS is looking primarily for sex if you read between the lines. No male who doesn’t want sex goes out of his way to emphasize that ‘I’m not after sex but I’m okay if you offer it!’ No offence to TS, you know deep in your heart what you’re after. Recognising it will help you attain it.

He certainly is entitled to post what he seeks. It’s the anonymous internet, there are no repercussions.

But we all know that for somebody to take the bait, something must be offered. It could be money, looks, personality, wit or ideally a combination of all of it.

As bro Jab put it, his intro is somewhat lame. And therein lies the issue: too many focus so much on what they want, and not what they can offer. And women are all after something.

Not always money. Frequently far from it. But a man who wants to attract women must have something to offer them, and this post, like so many go on and on about what they want, and not what they can offer.

No prizes for guessing the outcome of most of these sort of posts.

I don't think there is a need to openly say what we can offer - if no one takes the bait, then TS will adjust accordingly. But it doesn't mean if we don't offer anything explicitly, we gets nothing. Who are we to teach him how to "bait"? How you know others are not successful in "baiting"?

[jabwemet]

I am a successful masturbater

[JordonT]

Thanks everyone for your feedback. Again, I don't see a need to explain myself but since so many took interest in my post, allow me to clarify. I don't think there's a need to read between the lines. No need to second guess. Maybe the post wasn't well thought out, wasn't well articulated. And I apologize for the confusion it brings to some. Regarding the nature of this forum, I do think there are people who do order salads at a fast food joint, coke in a pub; I think you get the drift.

[TanYeeSian]

And wtf do you have to offer?

Besides some vague assurance that you aren’t ugly. And a ‘listening ear’? What kind of shitty template did you get that off?

Pretending that you aren’t looking for sex? Do you seriously think women here, or pretty much any dating platform don’t bloody know than men ARE looking for sex?

Assist Vivian has put it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with me looking for women for sex. It’s an inbuilt impulse for men. There’s nothing to deny there.

What is embarrassing is how you all pretend that’s not the case (because you think it somehow helps you) or don’t realize it’s not about what you want, but what you can offer.

Remember, even the f-ugliest girls can get laid every single night if they applied male standards to what they’re looking for in a ‘sex’ partner. Men on the other hand, have to work a lot harder.

Yes, even the handsome ones.


Someone sounds damn butthurt about smth

[peanodood1337]

Someone sounds damn butthurt about smth

And you are slinking in like a hyena to pick up the scraps. Good job.

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I'm not saying TS is lying about his intentions. Nor do I feel that TS needs to justify anything to anyone. That's the reason why I didn't post here previously. However, I'm speaking up now to play Devil's Advocate for larue. Because I think he has a point and people should get off his back.

Anyone can say "not looking for sex blah blah" but let's look at the facts.

If what TS is looking for is someone to "chat about daily stuff", why didn't he just head to the local kopitiam and talk cock sing song with the friendly neighborhood uncle?

If what TS is looking for is a listening ear, why is he specifically looking for a lady? Are there no empathetic guys around? Can bros apply to be his confidant here?

And since "chemistry is more important than age and stats", will TS accept a 70 year old Lau Ah Mah? Will he accept obese, physically unattractive applicants?

Btw these are all rhetorical questions. We all know the answer to them. Nothing wrong with larue thinking how disingenuous the OP sounds.

Regarding the nature of this forum, I do think there are people who do order salads at a fast food joint, coke in a pub; I think you get the drift.

Anyway, I'll like to point out that's a strawman there. This is a "orgies/swinging/fuck-buddies/sugar-daddies" forum. You are not ordering coke in a pub. You are ordering something that is not on the menu at all. A better analogy would be ordering a Milo-peng or Teh-C in a pub. And some people are rightfully going da fuck bro?

That said, it remains your prerogative to try to get KFC at McDonald's. I myself have done the same awhile back by starting a "Bro looking for Bros" thread to look for friends. So don't get me wrong, I'm not faulting you here. If anything, I think you were nothing but polite and dignified in your responses.

Good luck with your search.

[larue]

And you are slinking in like a hyena to pick up the scraps. Good job.
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Thanks Dood, good man. I really wasn’t going to engage because it would simply have been endless, pointless aggravation.

But yeah TS is really cool, and I’m sure he can find what he seeks.