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Ahnook78
01-08-2007, 05:07 PM
I have not seen a poll for this when I do a search.

Recently I had a mini discussion with a friend when we were talking about Malaysian gals.

I'll like to find out on your views with regards to them?

Potentially good wives? :p

Let's poll and discuss....

Eunuch
01-08-2007, 05:28 PM
I have a lot of relatives in Msia, to me no difference leh ,...... but of course my opinion is bias as hv dealings since young ....

sherrry
01-08-2007, 05:38 PM
I travel very often for my work, have seen girls of different nationality. Depends where & when you encounter the girls. For every flock of sheep, there's always a few black ones. Whether or not she makes a 'good wife', depends on individual's criteria for a 'good wife'.

If really must to compare foreign nationality to Sgporean ones, then I believe, many foreign ladies make good wife. Why? Simple, some foreign ladies can & willing to stoop low hold less glorious jobs like; domestic helper, care giver, or even as (worse come to worse) bar hostess etc. to help with the family finance.

While some (not all) of our Sgporean ones prefer to lead the care free shoppaholic lifestyle.

Ahnook78
01-08-2007, 06:05 PM
When I talked with my friend we feel that 1st of all there is no major communication barrier as compared to other neighbouring countries.

Esp. those that are brought up from rural areas, most of them are simpled minded. The don't scheme as much as the city gals. Not only that, they know how to cook and take care of the family. They are also hardworking and submissive.

One of the auntie is a M'sian and she really makes good wife and a good mother of 4...

M'sian gals, our closest neighbour. Hmm...

Fiery Phoenix
01-08-2007, 06:09 PM
Interesting question. Most other singles I know are of the opinion that they are. Most married ones I know cannot comment on the subject for all the obvious reasons ;) . Guess it is all pretty subjective.

K P O
01-08-2007, 06:14 PM
I think they are ok as wife lah ... but depends on what you looking for, they have English educated (maybe study overseas) and those local educated, English I think not so good one ... correct me if I am wrong ...

Ahnook78
01-08-2007, 06:57 PM
I think they are ok as wife lah ... but depends on what you looking for, they have English educated (maybe study overseas) and those local educated, English I think not so good one ... correct me if I am wrong ...

ya. generally in our region, few countries can speak good english. Think Malaysian may be one of the better one as compared to Thailand or Vietnam.
I'm a Chinese and thus I'll be looking for Malaysian Chinese who can speak mandarin. Alternatively, I can also brush up on my Melayu...:p

Qing_Bang
01-08-2007, 08:03 PM
My answer would be yes! Especially those with PR status and decent jobs.

sunping
02-08-2007, 01:01 AM
I see no meaning in such comparison.

I've seen SG girls become good wife, of course, the bad wife type too.
Same for foreign wife, some are good and some are bad.

It all depends on the attitude and their up-bringing

Heavycasualties
02-08-2007, 04:33 AM
Most my friend wife malaysian so far so good as long good heart ok

Ahnook78
02-08-2007, 04:05 PM
I see no meaning in such comparison.

I've seen SG girls become good wife, of course, the bad wife type too.
Same for foreign wife, some are good and some are bad.

It all depends on the attitude and their up-bringing

I understand where u r coming from. Every countries got good and rotten apples.

What essentially I am trying to do is to get singles to weigh and consider if M'sian gals if we think it's difficult to get a local gals here.

I'm still not married...:)

Hakoshu
02-08-2007, 04:18 PM
Lets go look for malaysian girls then :D

I'm still not married...:)

Ahnook78
02-08-2007, 04:26 PM
Lets go look for malaysian girls then :D

u got lobang?

So, u had fun in SJPS yesterday?

Sea Wolf
02-08-2007, 10:06 PM
Lets go look for malaysian girls then :D

But remember if they are holding work permit must apply for permission from MOM first before marrying them otherwise she may be banned from entering Singapore!

manager
03-08-2007, 09:39 AM
Generally Malaysian girls are not having so high demand as the Singaporean gilrs. I vote yes to Malaysian grils :)

sherrry
03-08-2007, 09:39 AM
When I talked with my friend we feel that 1st of all there is no major communication barrier as compared to other neighbouring countries.

Esp. those that are brought up from rural areas, most of them are simpled minded. The don't scheme as much as the city gals. Not only that, they know how to cook and take care of the family. They are also hardworking and submissive.

One of the auntie is a M'sian and she really makes good wife and a good mother of 4...

M'sian gals, our closest neighbour. Hmm... Brought up in rural area & simple minded is nice to have, but I'd alert you to hold that thought for now. You'll never know when that taste & hunger for material pleasures will swell.

I've had some friends who chose m'sian wife over sg wife (obvious reason), but soon realised his m'sian wife, has an appetite that soon grew comparitive with that of a typical sg woman.

Its perfectly fine, if she climb over our little head for some fierce action in bed, but I believe the key is not to let the woman climb over our greater head to build castle, or, toilet.

sherrry
03-08-2007, 09:48 AM
But remember if they are holding work permit must apply for permission from MOM first before marrying them otherwise she may be banned from entering Singapore! "Disclaimer: stricly my own opinion"
Another alternative, if there's much trouble to marry the m'sian girl while she holds EP in sg, I've heard some cases thrown out the window and the relationship later torn apart. But since the m'sian girl & the sg man are both competent in english, they can look into options of going elsewhere to settle.

wuxiboyz
03-08-2007, 01:14 PM
maybe abit ot...
a friend of my once told me they are generally good on bed!:p
personally had some bad experience with 3!none work out

labman
03-08-2007, 01:51 PM
generally i feel that malaysian girls make good wives or even girlfriends. personally i feel that they are not as "tau" as their singaporean counterparts.

when the MY girls are your girlfriends, they are not as demanding as our singapore girls and they will stick to you through thick and thin. most of my friends who have MY wives have no regrets and they even encourage their single friends to go for MY girls.

i hope i dun sound too prejudiced towards our singapore girls. our SG girls always find that the SG guys are not romantic enough and too "deadwood" and always look up to the angmohs who have bigger wallets and possibly even bigger c&%ks. well in return this is how our SG guys find their SG girls.

anyway this is just my personal opinion. if anyone feels that i am wrong, please feel free to rebutt me.

itsabt6x
03-08-2007, 05:24 PM
IMHO, all foreign gals r good wives until they get their PR status.....:o

so far, 4 out of 5 cheating wives i've had r of foreign origin.....:D

hotsoup16
03-08-2007, 09:36 PM
I voted yes. Their humble upbringing lead them to who they are today.

Regaine
03-08-2007, 10:36 PM
I vote yes.Generally they are quite close in terms of culture and upbinging. :)

Ahnook78
03-08-2007, 11:25 PM
Most Bros here think they make good wives.

How about those who voted against M'sian gals.

We'll like to hear from ur point of view as well....:)

qw2op
03-08-2007, 11:26 PM
bro, u r looking 4 a wife hor ... nt a mistress ...

me thinks a woman who is willing 2 stick 2 u thru thick n thin is a gd choice ... nationality does nt cum in2 ze eqn ...

desk13
04-08-2007, 12:37 AM
It all depends on luck & fate, I guess

margaux
04-08-2007, 01:09 AM
Yes, they are generally less demanding and very family caring, when compared to S'pore gals.

S206
04-08-2007, 01:22 AM
For me all the girl are same as long as their inner heart is good,why care which races,religion,from where or what

weer
04-08-2007, 03:23 AM
For me all the girl are same as long as their inner heart is good,why care which races,religion,from where or what

totally agree with you.

for husband and wife to stay close to each other, we need to talk more to find common interesting topic so that the caring part can be improved.

sherrry
04-08-2007, 10:31 AM
Put it in simple words, girls from foreign lands (presume have not seen the cruel world yet), with the conservative upbringing that a woman's place is in the confinements of the home, will somehow fulfill the criteria of a dutiful spouse & mother.

As for our Sg ones, they're living & breathing "girl power". Our Sg standards on a constant rise, setting us men behind in the name of NS. Inevitably, serves to be a springboard, projecting our girls to believe they're doing fine with or without the men.

Having seen, witnessed, experienced, compared girls of different nationality, I'd agree that our Sg girls (in general )pale in comparison to those of other nationalities.

Maybe its just me, but I see the domestic helpers (aka foreign maid) fulfilling more duties of a mother, than the spouse that went thru the 9mths labor.

lacoruna69
04-08-2007, 11:10 AM
IMHO, all foreign gals r good wives until they get their PR status.....
so far, 4 out of 5 cheating wives i've had r of foreign origin.....

100% agree. Got some smart PRC female uni grads married a lowly educated SG guy just to get PR status. Once get liao, immediately filed for divorce.
I got one guy friend who likes to backpack to ulu places in PRC. When some of the locals knew he is from SG, he was asked point blank by some of them whether he is willing to sell them his SG passport. SG passport is valued highly in some countries black markets.

ah_phah
04-08-2007, 11:18 AM
good or no good is see u heng or suey la. also must see u wan be fussy or not fussy.

got some is suey suey kena wife working 8-5, then after work come home will do everything, can take care everyting in the house, children, parents n in-law, but don noe how to farking.

but heng heng, some kena the wife, don noe how to working, cooking, washing, cleaning, but consalation is noe how to farking.

then some is kena heaven blessing, the wife good for everyting, working, cooking, washing, cleaning, farking, take care parent n in-laws, take care children

now, think back, long long time ago, have 1 fb in jb, she also quite nice character n got cutting to be good wife. but that time still young, only wanna farking & enjoy life.

Bika
04-08-2007, 12:45 PM
my friend got bad experience with M'sia gals leh...but some i encountered are nice and friendly. can consider lor. anyway both my parents are from M'sia too mah..:p

aarge
04-08-2007, 04:10 PM
If you would compare to Singaporean Gals then I would vote Yes for Malaysian Gals will be a better wife, as they are generally less demanding then Singaporean gals.

Ahnook78
05-08-2007, 12:37 PM
If you would compare to Singaporean Gals then I would vote Yes for Malaysian Gals will be a better wife, as they are generally less demanding then Singaporean gals.

Malaysian gals make good wives while Singapore gals make more $$...:D

Ventpot
05-08-2007, 10:20 PM
My answer is yes, Malaysian gals are generally more obliging then Singapore gals.

ChinaSex
06-08-2007, 02:37 AM
Malaysian Gals are not as demanding as SG ones, but definitely more demanding that China MMs. :p

But they are good wife material

bkkstar
06-08-2007, 07:43 AM
Malaysian boleh!! :D

magixcal
06-08-2007, 08:12 AM
i have a good impression of malaysianz

Ahnook78
06-08-2007, 07:43 PM
I used to be courting this Malaysian gal.

She is from East Malaysia. Good natured, got a great voice with good looks.

Unfortunately I was sabotage by our common friend who told her bluntly that I liked her. :o :(