Married men of SBF - why do you chiong ? How often ?

[tacobell]

Title says its all - if you are married and still chionging, what are your reasons ;) ?
How often do you go for teasing, HJ or full service ?

[Cumming2wice]

If you want to chiong, don't get married. If you want to get married, don't chiong? I am saying these on the basis of being free from financial burden and free from getting found out. I decided not to get married back in the 90s when I first started chionging.

Be stress free in whatever you do. You cannot have the best of both worlds:D With the current PRC ML I am with, the agreement is companionship (sexually satisfy each other needs) and being her customer with no obligations even though she hinted a few times if i ever considered to get married. With no obligations, you are free to enjoy multiple relationships at one's own time and own target:D

[sunce]

If you want to chiong, don't get married. If you want to get married, don't chiong? I am saying these on the basis of being free from financial burden and free from getting found out. I decided not to get married back in the 90s when I first started chionging.

Be stress free in whatever you do. You cannot have the best of both worlds:D With the current PRC ML I am with, the agreement is companionship (sexually satisfy each other needs) and being her customer with no obligations even though she hinted a few times if i ever considered to get married. With no obligations, you are free to enjoy multiple relationships at one's own time and own target:D

I agreed with you. I do not understand why married men still chiong and get married.

[orangeboyman]

I agreed with you. I do not understand why married men still chiong and get married.
Just my two cents worth

Men are very easily satisfied, home cooked food, peace,quiet and harmonious home occasional stroking of ego and regular sex is all a typical man wants. Give him all these and there is very Low risk of the man stealing eat outside. Problem is that after the initial period the woman is rightly or wrongly changing. Career first so no home cooked meals, stress from work or childrearing so no sex, no ego stroking and worst still wife start blaming husband for her loss of freedom, stress, children.....

At that stage since man got no food to eat at home, he then eats outside Lo. Just my observation.

[guygaga]

Follow your heart, end day still be responsible to your partner.
If you do, be safe for yourself and closed ones.

[morrissey1209]

Just my two cents worth

Men are very easily satisfied, home cooked food, peace,quiet and harmonious home occasional stroking of ego and regular sex is all a typical man wants. Give him all these and there is very Low risk of the man stealing eat outside. Problem is that after the initial period the woman is rightly or wrongly changing. Career first so no home cooked meals, stress from work or childrearing so no sex, no ego stroking and worst still wife start blaming husband for her loss of freedom, stress, children.....

At that stage since man got no food to eat at home, he then eats outside Lo. Just my observation.

Yup, men are easily satisfied. Just don't talk so much, suck my dick and go fix me a sandwich.

[Cumming2wice]

Just my two cents worth

Men are very easily satisfied, home cooked food, peace,quiet and harmonious home occasional stroking of ego and regular sex is all a typical man wants. Give him all these and there is very Low risk of the man stealing eat outside. Problem is that after the initial period the woman is rightly or wrongly changing. Career first so no home cooked meals, stress from work or childrearing so no sex, no ego stroking and worst still wife start blaming husband for her loss of freedom, stress, children.....

At that stage since man got no food to eat at home, he then eats outside Lo. Just my observation.

Those women I flinged with in the past (pinay from pubs and prc from spa) all also cooked for me:D but the moment they crossed the line on pestering to buy expensive things and hinting why not get married, I just disappear:D No obligation and stress free. Some of them wanted me to cum inside them hoping to get pregnant and to get me obligated but i always use the rubber:D Chionging is a game where one must observe the rules in order to enjoy it and also budgetted for sustainability:D

[liketosleep]

All of the issues are being enacted by Hong Kong drama Wonder Women 多功能老婆 on TV Channel 8 at 7.30pm weeknights. Cheers.

[TheTrader2359]

Just my two cents worth

Men are very easily satisfied, home cooked food, peace,quiet and harmonious home occasional stroking of ego and regular sex is all a typical man wants. Give him all these and there is very Low risk of the man stealing eat outside. Problem is that after the initial period the woman is rightly or wrongly changing. Career first so no home cooked meals, stress from work or childrearing so no sex, no ego stroking and worst still wife start blaming husband for her loss of freedom, stress, children.....

At that stage since man got no food to eat at home, he then eats outside Lo. Just my observation.

90% agree with you. But usually after 6-12 months, men will still go out and eat if given the opportunity! lol

[kombust]

men are programmed to seek multiple partners while women are programmed to seek the best resourced partner. in society, the female programming is accepted but not the male one.

[pandab]

Plenty of reasons why married men chiong and frequent ML, among the more serious types are those men didnt get sexual satisfaction at home.

In some society, it is still lawful to marry more than 1.

Love you all 😘

[sibeinerd]

men are programmed to seek multiple partners while women are programmed to seek the best resourced partner. in society, the female programming is accepted but not the male one.

That why humans race is still flourishing as it has proved to work for many centuries :D
Things like this csnnot be changed so easily, that why still majority of males seek out.

The world has changed to be more inclusive of women rights, which nerfed our human instincts, but that do not mean we have changed overnight. Nature built us for survival.

[tnuc]

Variety. No strings attached

Marriage is a commitment. I am committed to my family. I just need a quick release

[riotspace]

Cos men can compartmentalise their needs. And of course, men always the fresh new thing. You can choose to act on your thoughts or you can choose to keep it as a thought, but don't lie to self you won't want to fuck other women besides your wife.

[Cumming2wice]

Variety. No strings attached

Marriage is a commitment. I am committed to my family. I just need a quick release

We need this in a secular context https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obedient_Wives_Club where wives are taught on how to satisfy their husbands fantacies. Can save money on a quicky. Haha. If there are such women, I can consider getting married. Haha

[wantedbryan]

We love our wife so we chiong instead of cheat.
Chiong got no commitment and normally we only go for things our wife won't provide. 3some anal etc or body type that your wife isn't. D cup E cup, tall or short girls. can't expect wife to be syt at 30-40 or cant expect syt to be milf.

I would rather pay for sex then cheat on wife, either way don't get caught and break her heart.

[Pochinki]

How do you guys deal with the guilt after chionging? For myself im not married yet but i do have a partner. Used to chiong ML/FL before i have a partner. Havent chiong-ed since i got into a RS.
Very tempted to book but scared of the guilty feeling..
Any advise?

[tacobell]

Just my two cents worth

Men are very easily satisfied, home cooked food, peace,quiet and harmonious home occasional stroking of ego and regular sex is all a typical man wants. Give him all these and there is very Low risk of the man stealing eat outside. Problem is that after the initial period the woman is rightly or wrongly changing. Career first so no home cooked meals, stress from work or childrearing so no sex, no ego stroking and worst still wife start blaming husband for her loss of freedom, stress, children.....

At that stage since man got no food to eat at home, he then eats outside Lo. Just my observation.

This is a good perspective.

[Baddecisions]

How do you guys deal with the guilt after chionging? For myself im not married yet but i do have a partner. Used to chiong ML/FL before i have a partner. Havent chiong-ed since i got into a RS.
Very tempted to book but scared of the guilty feeling..
Any advise?

I started chionging ML after my first breakup. Never tried FLs or asked for anything more than a HJ because I was afraid of catching something and not knowing how to explain to my future partner (talking about HPV or herpes).

Am in a very happy relationship (not married) now and partner satisfies me in every way. But massage + HJ provides a different kind of satisfaction that sex with my partner does not. Also, I am super horny la.

When I first got back to the hobby, the guilt hit me too. On and off visits of MLs. But after a while, I realised no one will get hurt as long as I take some precautions (hide my hobby well, nothing more than HJ so that low/no risk of STDs that I may pass on to partner etc.). So now, I still visit MLs to satisfy my urge but of course, still try to minimise ML visits (need save money for future and for marriage. Yes, I am even thinking about marriage). With this arrangement, everyone is happy and no one gets hurt. But next time if married liao, hard to keep this up so enjoy while I still can :D

[Crunchtime]

My colleague started to chiong ML after his wife hit menopause..

[sxem]

I started chionging ML after my first breakup. Never tried FLs or asked for anything more than a HJ because I was afraid of catching something and not knowing how to explain to my future partner (talking about HPV or herpes).

Am in a very happy relationship (not married) now and partner satisfies me in every way. But massage + HJ provides a different kind of satisfaction that sex with my partner does not. Also, I am super horny la.

When I first got back to the hobby, the guilt hit me too. On and off visits of MLs. But after a while, I realised no one will get hurt as long as I take some precautions (hide my hobby well, nothing more than HJ so that low/no risk of STDs that I may pass on to partner etc.). So now, I still visit MLs to satisfy my urge but of course, still try to minimise ML visits (need save money for future and for marriage. Yes, I am even thinking about marriage). With this arrangement, everyone is happy and no one gets hurt. But next time if married liao, hard to keep this up so enjoy while I still can :D

Once cohabited, no chance already. Trust me. Want to go massage have to geh siao go to work when you actually took leave.

[morrissey1209]

How do you guys deal with the guilt after chionging? For myself im not married yet but i do have a partner. Used to chiong ML/FL before i have a partner. Havent chiong-ed since i got into a RS.
Very tempted to book but scared of the guilty feeling..
Any advise?

U already never chiong liao still want what advice?

[Spangler]

I can give u an essay on why we chiong. But I lazy to write to so long so I will just give u the short answer - Because we are MEN!

[thoreldan]

I can give u an essay on why we chiong. But I lazy to write to so long so I will just give u the short answer - Because we are MEN!

Best reply !!!!
Upz u to reveal your power !!!

[rey69]

Every man has his vice & every woman has her price.

[tropiccana]

Need some excitement in life.

[barrysteakfries]

How do you guys deal with the guilt after chionging? For myself im not married yet but i do have a partner. Used to chiong ML/FL before i have a partner. Havent chiong-ed since i got into a RS.
Very tempted to book but scared of the guilty feeling..
Any advise?

All male animals are biologically programmed to fuck as many females as he can in his lifetime, to spread his progeny and ensure higher survival rate of his offspring. The horniness we all feel is in our DNA. Dont need to think too much.

The guilt you are talking about is you accepting the moral compass that society gave to you. Toss it away.

[hannibald]

Sex to men are just like eating.

Sometimes when you are hungry, you just eat McDonald's or KFC just to satisfy the hunger.

Simple as that. No complicated reasons.

Unless the wife are willing to open leg as and when we want, and doesn't care about being satisfied, men will always be likely to go out and look for "fast food" to satisfy their biological needs.

Pay, fuck and go, no need to care about performance, no need to care about foreplay and the partner doesn't ask to be satisfied, but only seek to satisfy the men.

[LurkerLurks]

we go out makan mainly because wife/gf doesnt wanna give it to us. like some of the bros mentioned, if u hungry u confirm go out eat right?

[Yod4]

Everyday eat chicken rice also will get tired.

[Cumming2wice]

Need some excitement in life.

The excitement of not being caught. Haha

[Cumming2wice]

Sex to men are just like eating.

Sometimes when you are hungry, you just eat McDonald's or KFC just to satisfy the hunger.

Simple as that. No complicated reasons.

Unless the wife are willing to open leg as and when we want, and doesn't care about being satisfied, men will always be likely to go out and look for "fast food" to satisfy their biological needs.

Pay, fuck and go, no need to care about performance, no need to care about foreplay and the partner doesn't ask to be satisfied, but only seek to satisfy the men.

This is a common answer. Haha.

I cannot do a quikie. I have be groomed by Jap porn to perform for a least one hour. I love sex. I love to satisfy women that they beg me for more. That is the excitement. I can do all these at the comfort of my home because I live alone. And l love doing it all night long till morning. So far I have this prc ML coming over regularly. We watch Jap porn together and perform accordingly. The price tag is a steal.

[Pochinki]

Thanks bros for the advise.

[nocsag]

whether married or not, when maybe no girlfriend. after all sg girls usually all close leg. so repressed. then growing up you take what is available from nightclub friend circle. then knn parents say get married early. so that itch havent scratched fully stuck with some woman and kids.
so every chance get go out. standard story la. now sg so many foreign women
russian prc angmo...u know best job tbh is the mbs swimming pool attendant. everyday eyes wash.

[lovecim]

Same theory as why there are duck shops for ladies.

[Terkorpek]

I found out i am like sex addict after married.... so now at times still need to release outside. Just like those gambling addiction... after released sure feel regret,,, and later do it again....

Maybe need to see doctor.

[pandab]

I found out i am like sex addict after married.... so now at times still need to release outside. Just like those gambling addiction... after released sure feel regret,,, and later do it again....

Maybe need to see doctor.


I am the love doctor. The casanova.

Love you too 😘💞

[Madaboutmalays]

Great reply! Upped you my humble points!

Everyday eat chicken rice also will get tired.

[liketosleep]

Channel 8 Chinese drama at 9pm, Super Dad ( 男神不败)，also offer an insight played by 陈泰鸣 why rich man flirt around. Cheers.

[afterburn]

Biologically good for you too, as testosterone spikes up when you go around ravaging syt chio bu or other assorted female strangers :D

Can google, research shows that testo drops for married guys and worse when caring for kids. It is just part of evolution, nature and self-preservation , i.e. less aggressive males tend to provide better care for the family unit, less prone to getting into trouble too.

[kombust]

I found out i am like sex addict after married.... so now at times still need to release outside. Just like those gambling addiction... after released sure feel regret,,, and later do it again....

Maybe need to see doctor.

i'm having the same problem bro. worse is i need to find fresh ones every few months as i get sian fast.

[Iceman11]

Quote from Eddie Murphy talk show back in 80s -“Raw” and it goes like this...

“All man fxxk other women. We are Low by nature and has to do it. Men must find and conquer as much pussy as they can get... It is a dick thing and you need to have a dick to understand it.....” :D

[enzyme]

Every men do it. All men.

For those that have not yet, it’s not yet.

[Mankok]

Personally I believe that in these era you should stay away from institutional marriage. For a man there is not much to gain in a marriage. Children? Why should I have children in this world?
Freedom is very important. I was married for a couple of years after which I realized I was living in a lie and in a prison. So I divorced her. Didn't regret. I became free to party in Bangkok, Bukit Bintang, Geylang and many other places. Now after almost 20 years living this life I am still happy I took this direction.
But hey, this is just my humble opinion.

[TheIdesOfMarch]

Personally I believe that in these era you should stay away from institutional marriage. For a man there is not much to gain in a marriage. Children? Why should I have children in this world?
Freedom is very important. I was married for a couple of years after which I realized I was living in a lie and in a prison. So I divorced her. Didn't regret. I became free to party in Bangkok, Bukit Bintang, Geylang and many other places. Now after almost 20 years living this life I am still happy I took this direction.
But hey, this is just my humble opinion.

I mean, much as your lifestyle is enviable for many, won't you worry about dying alone in old age, with nobody related by your side? Dying in an old folks home or alone at home is very different from dying with family around you and a legacy left behind.

I live an equally free wheeling life as you do now as a single man. But it's only made me want to settle down even more when I find the right person, if I find the right person. Because all men when we reach a certain age we want to leave something behind. A child. A legacy. A family. Not feel like we live and die freewheeling and hedonistic but we won't even be remembered when we one day shuffle off this mortal coil.

Just my two cents.

[AmeShin]

How do you guys deal with the guilt after chionging? For myself im not married yet but i do have a partner. Used to chiong ML/FL before i have a partner. Havent chiong-ed since i got into a RS.
Very tempted to book but scared of the guilty feeling..
Any advise?

Dont start.
Once start u may be hard to return
For now u post here is like trying to look for justification to nullify the chabces of being guilty.
Still dont start is better

[afterburn]

I mean, much as your lifestyle is enviable for many, won't you worry about dying alone in old age, with nobody related by your side? Dying in an old folks home or alone at home is very different from dying with family around you and a legacy left behind.


True also. We don't have the kind of retirement community or retirement villages like in foreign western countries. These are places where old folks can stay in one place, have peers around them for friendship and mutual looking-after, with shared care services nearby - while remaining independent as much as they can.

[SexCraved]

It's all about freshness in new stuff. 新鲜感

[raedong]

i'm having the same problem bro. worse is i need to find fresh ones every few months as i get sian fast.

Wow I thought I was the only one with this issue.
Family first but more often, will find other girls to have fun with. Paid sex is the best option, no strings attached

[raedong]

And sometimes wife not very open to try new things like cosplay, etc. On the other hand, ML or FL can fulfill such fantasies easily 😂

[kombust]

Wow I thought I was the only one with this issue.
Family first but more often, will find other girls to have fun with. Paid sex is the best option, no strings attached

i agree on the benefits of commercial transaction. however more than once the commercial ladies have tried to cross the line.. managed to stay sane enough to reject and delete the past few times.

[MassageSicko]

Once a week or if time permits twice a week 😋

Need weekly enjoyment and polish of my rod

[Powerman881]

Chiong is no commitments, better than sleeping with your colleague/ friend behind your wife's back.

[lovetocum]

Should post this under Adult discussions about sex

[Cumming2wice]

Personally I believe that in these era you should stay away from institutional marriage. For a man there is not much to gain in a marriage. Children? Why should I have children in this world?
Freedom is very important. I was married for a couple of years after which I realized I was living in a lie and in a prison. So I divorced her. Didn't regret. I became free to party in Bangkok, Bukit Bintang, Geylang and many other places. Now after almost 20 years living this life I am still happy I took this direction.
But hey, this is just my humble opinion.

Bro, I am on the same direction as yours. I have high sex drive that's the reason why i don't want to get married. If wife moody, pregnant or busy with children, where will she have the energy to satisfy her husband with high sex drive? So I rather be free with any women I want with no obligations. This chionging game takes a lot of discipline of the big head thinking ahead of the small head to enjoy to the max. Haha

[Jamester999]

Yup, men are easily satisfied. Just don't talk so much, suck my dick and go fix me a sandwich.

haha remind me of chris rock : "fuck me, feed me and shut the fuck up"

[Jamester999]

How do you guys deal with the guilt after chionging? For myself im not married yet but i do have a partner. Used to chiong ML/FL before i have a partner. Havent chiong-ed since i got into a RS.
Very tempted to book but scared of the guilty feeling..
Any advise?

Don't worry.
Just cum first, there will be chance for guilt again later.
Respect the cycle

Horny -> Cum -> Guilt *Loops

I think sometimes people yearns the "guilt".
No guilt not feel alive enough.

[Iceman11]

Need to behave like panda....

Eat shoots and leaves.... :D


Don't worry.
Just cum first, there will be chance for guilt again later.
Respect the cycle

Horny -> Cum -> Guilt *Loops

I think sometimes people yearns the "guilt".
No guilt not feel alive enough.

[paganwinter]

Personally I believe that in these era you should stay away from institutional marriage. For a man there is not much to gain in a marriage. Children? Why should I have children in this world?
Freedom is very important. I was married for a couple of years after which I realized I was living in a lie and in a prison. So I divorced her. Didn't regret. I became free to party in Bangkok, Bukit Bintang, Geylang and many other places. Now after almost 20 years living this life I am still happy I took this direction.
But hey, this is just my humble opinion.

that right no regrets

[Sadly]

Personally I believe that in these era you should stay away from institutional marriage. For a man there is not much to gain in a marriage. Children? Why should I have children in this world?
Freedom is very important. I was married for a couple of years after which I realized I was living in a lie and in a prison. So I divorced her. Didn't regret. I became free to party in Bangkok, Bukit Bintang, Geylang and many other places. Now after almost 20 years living this life I am still happy I took this direction.
But hey, this is just my humble opinion.

In BKK, GL and BB you cant party at 60 years old.. challenge yourself at your age bro and party/fetch chicks in HK/Shanghai or any metropolitan city!

[AaronLeeKwok]

Chiong is no commitments, better than sleeping with your colleague/ friend behind your wife's back.

100% agreed bro!

[eastscorpion]

I have the same routine as you:D:p
Once a week or if time permits twice a week 😋

Need weekly enjoyment and polish of my rod

[cornyham]

Wife allow me to chiong once a month.

[tacobell]

Wife allow me to chiong once a month.

You lucky bro .. we all need a wifey with such attitude , to let her man have some ‘fun’ outside -;)

[afterburn]

You lucky bro .. we all need a wifey with such attitude , to let her man have some ‘fun’ outside -;)

"Chiong" just means go out with friends :D, I am guessing. Ok what. Once a while have meet-up with friends.

Wifey also need time to go out and meet friends. It's good for each to maintain own circle of friends, and own time to meet and carry out personal activities, as long as don't neglect family time. Basis of a mutual respect, happy marriage.

I don't believe in those r/ships where "my friends must be your friends" that kind. Very forced.

[naysmith]

Channel 8 Chinese drama at 9pm, Super Dad ( 男神不败)，also offer an insight played by 陈泰鸣 why rich man flirt around. Cheers.
JUst Uppppp 13pts... Bro liketosleep...
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[xiasangju]

need some variety in life. usually once every 1-2 months but due to work/family stress recently, tempted to go everyweek to destress....haiz

[iluvp]

The subject matter should be without “ SBF “ . More appropriate in general.Tell me which married man doesn’t want a new toy to play with ?

[Baddecisions]

For bros who have regular action with wife at home but still chiong, have you encountered a situation where you caught something and passed it to your wife? How did you deal with that situation?

[victorlee10]

To be honest the cost of chionging is too cheap relative to our salaries. Imagine a middle age middle income guy would take home maybe 6-7k and when GL was open 150 can already get you the a young and super syt. When I was 18 I didn’t think much about having a 18 yo gf but now at 40 being able to fuck a 18 yo model is like eating white truffles. Of course need to space it out la. Say 1 week fuck once is only 150x4 or 10% of your salary. I spend more than that on grab food the past few months.

Having wife is to have someone to take care of you and the kids. To have a family so you have ppl to share things with. But the other side of man is also want to enjoy different women, treating like them just objects to satisfy your carnal lust. So I personally don’t think having family and chionging are mutually exclusive. They satisfy different things. The wife by now would also have less appetite, pussy is hairy, musky and loose. In that case then save energy asking for sex. Just go GL once in a while for worry free sex and can choose the type of girl you like. Try many many different girls. Sometimes watching them strip is like opening a present. You don’t know whether they are shaved, big or small tits, tight or loose pussy till you go in to the room.

[boldoynx]

To be honest the cost of chionging is too cheap relative to our salaries. Imagine a middle age middle income guy would take home maybe 6-7k and when GL was open 150 can already get you the a young and super syt. When I was 18 I didn’t think much about having a 18 yo gf but now at 40 being able to fuck a 18 yo model is like eating white truffles. Of course need to space it out la. Say 1 week fuck once is only 150x4 or 10% of your salary. I spend more than that on grab food the past few months.

Having wife is to have someone to take care of you and the kids. To have a family so you have ppl to share things with. But the other side of man is also want to enjoy different women, treating like them just objects to satisfy your carnal lust. So I personally don’t think having family and chionging are mutually exclusive. They satisfy different things. The wife by now would also have less appetite, pussy is hairy, musky and loose. In that case then save energy asking for sex. Just go GL once in a while for worry free sex and can choose the type of girl you like. Try many many different girls. Sometimes watching them strip is like opening a present. You don’t know whether they are shaved, big or small tits, tight or loose pussy till you go in to the room.

Guys are wired differently from female, this is just lust not love so we can compartmentalised family and vice separately.

Well actually Chiong in Singapore is more expensive relative to our neighbouring countries, I reckon I spent 1.4K a month in SG on this extra curriculum activities nowadays if I go and count, so better don’t think too much else heart pain.

The problem is once you have tried the forbidden fruit, it’s probably hard to quit the game?
I wonder has anyone managed to stop or get caught by your OC ?

[victorlee10]

Ya man. Nowadays it’s more expensive compared to before covid. Sigh you’ll only miss GL when it’s gone. Back then can get like model quality with good attitude or ytl for just 150. And no need depend on luck if you already know a few okt you can trust.

Now it’s either you take your chances with PRCs at 150 or dome L for the novelty. Even ML now need to know which one has fj and even then think will be close to 200 all in.

[belgarion79]

Answering thread starter, chiong to me means fulfilling sexual needs outside, cos wife is low sex drive, lower even with kids in schooling age. Lucky i have my usual ML contacts that i stay loyal to, and visit them each once a month 😜

[JasmineJ]

one of the ways to be safe is i go to spas who look legit and like no other special services, but actually have. (only open to trade with experienced samsters here and open to trade for similar ones)

so in a way, when i go, wife very hard to find out..it is not those sleazy spa with dark front door glasses and lame images.

when we want to cheong, cheong safe and smart la. hahaha

[kombust]

To be honest the cost of chionging is too cheap relative to our salaries. Imagine a middle age middle income guy would take home maybe 6-7k and when GL was open 150 can already get you the a young and super syt. When I was 18 I didn’t think much about having a 18 yo gf but now at 40 being able to fuck a 18 yo model is like eating white truffles. Of course need to space it out la. Say 1 week fuck once is only 150x4 or 10% of your salary. I spend more than that on grab food the past few months.

Having wife is to have someone to take care of you and the kids. To have a family so you have ppl to share things with. But the other side of man is also want to enjoy different women, treating like them just objects to satisfy your carnal lust. So I personally don’t think having family and chionging are mutually exclusive. They satisfy different things. The wife by now would also have less appetite, pussy is hairy, musky and loose. In that case then save energy asking for sex. Just go GL once in a while for worry free sex and can choose the type of girl you like. Try many many different girls. Sometimes watching them strip is like opening a present. You don’t know whether they are shaved, big or small tits, tight or loose pussy till you go in to the room.

i have your exact thoughts.

[BK4ever]

i cheong during lunchbreak 12nn, once or twice a week. uses another mobile number and wechat for these wls and never brings that phone home, either leave it in my car or office.

[afterburn]

i cheong during lunchbreak 12nn, once or twice a week. uses another mobile number and wechat for these wls and never brings that phone home, either leave it in my car or office.

If your employer is liberal about lunch breaks, then sure, you can "disappear" for a little extra time without being noticed. Because going to ops area, doing the deed, and exfil back to office, at least take up to 2 hours. Long "lunch" :D After work day is better, leave a bit early. Also tired after session, can straight go home.

[BK4ever]

If your employer is liberal about lunch breaks, then sure, you can "disappear" for a little extra time without being noticed. Because going to ops area, doing the deed, and exfil back to office, at least take up to 2 hours. Long "lunch" :D After work day is better, leave a bit early. Also tired after session, can straight go home.

once or twice a week long lunch, my boss is ok. my regular wl starts work about 1230 and her place about 10-15 mins drive from my office. always book in advance 1st slot, finish still can get a quick bite before driving back to office.

lunchtime safer for me, after work hours need to pick up co. in case co at night needs me to hand in homework, doing it during lunch gives me enough time to recover my bullets. )

[Ant0816]

once or twice a week long lunch, my boss is ok. my regular wl starts work about 1230 and her place about 10-15 mins drive from my office. always book in advance 1st slot, finish still can get a quick bite before driving back to office.

lunchtime safer for me, after work hours need to pick up co. in case co at night needs me to hand in homework, doing it during lunch gives me enough time to recover my bullets. )

My males friends with more than 10 years marriage basically have little or no homework. This is what I dislike with the local marriage scene, the benefits expected from the woman is temporary but the commitments and obligations expected from the man are forever. :D

[yowtf]

My males friends with more than 10 years marriage basically have little or no homework. This is what I dislike with the local marriage scene, the benefits expected from the woman is temporary but the commitments and obligations expected from the man are forever. :D


Indeed. That's why FL/ML are there for a reason, to help us unload and de-stress :D:p

[victorlee10]

My males friends with more than 10 years marriage basically have little or no homework. This is what I dislike with the local marriage scene, the benefits expected from the woman is temporary but the commitments and obligations expected from the man are forever. :D

Its ok bro. That’s why our Govt is so good to give us GL lol. It’s one of my simple pleasures in life. When my wife goes with her girlfriends on a half day spa experience, I just spend the same amount of money fucking 3-4 girls back to back when she is at the spa. Back when I was younger la. Now 1 shot the didi sleep already.

[afterburn]

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lunchtime safer for me, after work hours need to pick up co. in case co at night needs me to hand in homework, doing it during lunch gives me enough time to recover my bullets. )

Damn .. took a while to dawn on me what is "homework". Thought you meant too tired to do your share of house-work :D

[Cumming2wice]

Its ok bro. That’s why our Govt is so good to give us GL lol. It’s one of my simple pleasures in life. When my wife goes with her girlfriends on a half day spa experience, I just spend the same amount of money fucking 3-4 girls back to back when she is at the spa. Back when I was younger la. Now 1 shot the didi sleep already.

My friend's style on how to avoid suspicion from wife is after his fling with ML, he goes back to pretend to want to have sex with her, if she refuses then at least he had his fill earlier. If the wife is okay, then he can have another round which he really enjoys as it takes longer to cum, so more aggressive banging. Haha.

[Ant0816]

My friend's style on how to avoid suspicion from wife is after his fling with ML, he goes back to pretend to want to have sex with her, if she refuses then at least he had his fill earlier. If the wife is okay, then he can have another round which he really enjoys as it takes longer to cum, so more aggressive banging. Haha.

I do know of girls who checked how much you cum, so in this case, your friend’s method will fail. :D

[Ant0816]

Damn .. took a while to dawn on me what is "homework". Thought you meant too tired to do your share of house-work :D

I don’t think this forum is for discussion of housework :D

[Zzz59]

Once a week during working hours.

[pete_the_fish]

It's possible to be married , have kids and still have your fun outside.....i know so many people who do this. :D

[victorlee10]

Think it’s pretty common. You will find cars parked outside the GL houses with child seats in them. I’m guessing most men will eat outside just a matter of how often.

[Happytallman]

Going to an ML 1 per week for HJ raises my testosterone. This make me more interested in my wife and we have more sex. She noticed and asked what is the difference. I told her. Now she books the appointments. :)

[jotan]

Going to an ML 1 per week for HJ raises my testosterone. This make me more interested in my wife and we have more sex. She noticed and asked what is the difference. I told her. Now she books the appointments. :)

:eek:

You win. Enough said.

[BK4ever]

Damn .. took a while to dawn on me what is "homework". Thought you meant too tired to do your share of house-work :D

not worried about the house-work or kid duties part, only worry is the homework part. this is the main reason why i only cheong at 12nn lunchtime.

[Cumming2wice]

I do know of girls who checked how much you cum, so in this case, your friend’s method will fail. :D

It is done in the dark and the wife doesn't check. If the wife check, then do the other way round. Unload on the wife first, then next day go out for second round. My friend has everything thought out. By the way, he is a high performer so the wife cannot suspect he tired himself outside. Haha

[riotspace]

For bros who have regular action with wife at home but still chiong, have you encountered a situation where you caught something and passed it to your wife? How did you deal with that situation?

Ya always feel guilty about this, so I always make sure to abstain for few days after ML visit, see got any rash or whatnot come up.

[RecursiveLoop]

Going to an ML 1 per week for HJ raises my testosterone. This make me more interested in my wife and we have more sex. She noticed and asked what is the difference. I told her. Now she books the appointments. :)

This is the pinnacle of married life, bro.

[tacobell]

Going to an ML 1 per week for HJ raises my testosterone. This make me more interested in my wife and we have more sex. She noticed and asked what is the difference. I told her. Now she books the appointments. :)

This is what married life should be. Wifey happy, husband happy and well knit family -;)

[xiasangju]

Going to an ML 1 per week for HJ raises my testosterone. This make me more interested in my wife and we have more sex. She noticed and asked what is the difference. I told her. Now she books the appointments. :)

u have achieved the pinnacle liao bro...

[bryanlailai]

Going to an ML 1 per week for HJ raises my testosterone. This make me more interested in my wife and we have more sex. She noticed and asked what is the difference. I told her. Now she books the appointments. :)

U mean she book the ml for u and go tgt?

[Cumming2wice]

once or twice a week long lunch, my boss is ok. my regular wl starts work about 1230 and her place about 10-15 mins drive from my office. always book in advance 1st slot, finish still can get a quick bite before driving back to office.

lunchtime safer for me, after work hours need to pick up co. in case co at night needs me to hand in homework, doing it during lunch gives me enough time to recover my bullets. )

My another friend lagi better. He honestly told the wife if she can't fulfill his needs and fantasies then he has to find it somewhere and what he do outside she wouldn't know. Now he can save money. Btw the way, his wife is fleshy, butty, busty and specky. Has those porn secretary looks. Everytime I meet them and see her, I stim. Haha.

[afterburn]

not worried about the house-work or kid duties part, only worry is the homework part. this is the main reason why i only cheong at 12nn lunchtime.

My usual ML remarked that don't know how soon the restrictive work-from-home measures will be further loosened up - because a number of her regulars stopped visiting after being "forced" to WFH till now :D No go to office, no opportunity to chiong.

[sexy78d4]

My usual ML remarked that don't know how soon the restrictive work-from-home measures will be further loosened up - because a number of her regulars stopped visiting after being "forced" to WFH till now :D No go to office, no opportunity to chiong.


Ya. With this lockdown, all brothers unable to go out or travel, so all activities stopped. With WFH worse. Likely Malaysia should be open by early Jan. Office opening up next week, so some local activities can resume.

[StealthBomber]

Ya. With this lockdown, all brothers unable to go out or travel, so all activities stopped. With WFH worse. Likely Malaysia should be open by early Jan. Office opening up next week, so some local activities can resume.

Office opening up, but still say 50 percent of workforce only. I thought this was the same as all along since Phase 2 started in the end of June.

[Cumming2wice]

My usual ML remarked that don't know how soon the restrictive work-from-home measures will be further loosened up - because a number of her regulars stopped visiting after being "forced" to WFH till now :D No go to office, no opportunity to chiong.

I have no issue. As I lived alone and WFH, my regular ML has been coming over during phase 2 when she has no booking at the shop.

[BK4ever]

My usual ML remarked that don't know how soon the restrictive work-from-home measures will be further loosened up - because a number of her regulars stopped visiting after being "forced" to WFH till now :D No go to office, no opportunity to chiong.

my regular mls are all based in shopping centres and they say business way better than before as geylang still closed so alot switch to mps for the time being.

[sexy78d4]

My usual ML remarked that don't know how soon the restrictive work-from-home measures will be further loosened up - because a number of her regulars stopped visiting after being "forced" to WFH till now :D No go to office, no opportunity to chiong.

Office opening up, but still say 50 percent of workforce only. I thought this was the same as all along since Phase 2 started in the end of June.

Just hope office can be fully resume by Nov.

[darkness4311]

As for me i do not chiong once I married. But sadly no girls want me as girls do not want this tyoe of guy who is faithful to them. I mostly likely will stay single for the rest of my life.

[TheTrader2359]

As for me i do not chiong once I married. But sadly no girls want me as girls do not want this tyoe of guy who is faithful to them. I mostly likely will stay single for the rest of my life.

How you know you won’t chiong once you married?

[Eversome]

For me is incompatible sexuality with the wife. I am open and excitable while she is basically happily asexual, if she can have it her way, no sex is the best sex. And chiong frequency wise, just started in the open market 4 times in the past 4 weeks? Used to be more with colleagues but they are all back to their home countries :(

[sexy78d4]

As for me i do not chiong once I married. But sadly no girls want me as girls do not want this tyoe of guy who is faithful to them. I mostly likely will stay single for the rest of my life.

Built your pocket deeper should be no problem to find a wife. But how faithful she will be is another issue.

[Cumming2wice]

How many of you bros have wives who have looks and good body figure that you know will turned on other men but not intersted in sex?

[stan12345]

Built your pocket deeper should be no problem to find a wife. But how faithful she will be is another issue.

I had FL that husband doesn't give enough and turn into FL..lol

[sexy78d4]

I had FL that husband doesn't give enough and turn into FL..lol


Hmm.. Not surprised. Think nowadays more women also had extramarital affairs as their husband not satisfying them while they enjoyed better with different men outside.

So looking at more divorces due women actions outside.

Time have changed. Maybe in future women will have 2 or more 'husband' !

[Cumming2wice]

Hmm.. Not surprised. Think nowadays more women also had extramarital affairs as their husband not satisfying them while they enjoyed better with different men outside.

So looking at more divorces due women actions outside.

Time have changed. Maybe in future women will have 2 or more 'husband' !

When women have tasted the pleasure of sex, they will go looking for other men if their husbands cannot perform. Those wives not really interested in sex is because they have not experience the climax of it. So the burden is on the husbands to give them that climax.

Actually premature ejaculation is not a problem to those men who have it, all they need to go for round two and three where it takes longer to cum and that's where the women can be satisfied. Some women take longer to climax, my longest pumping on a prc ML was 45 mins to give her multiple orgasm/climax until she begs me to cum as she could not take it anymore and that was 20 years ago. Haha.

Now I can take my time from night to morning every week with a certain prc ML. We can drink till high, kiss and lick from head to toe and perform all possible positions from JAV. Before she knew me, she said she didn't know sex was so pleasurable and now she is addicted to me. Haha.

[BK4ever]

I had FL that husband doesn't give enough and turn into FL..lol

remembered a regular told me once: she enjoy sex and is getting paid to do something she likes so why not.

[Cumming2wice]

remembered a regular told me once: she enjoy sex and is getting paid to do something she likes so why not.

Some of them told me that too. There was once i didn't perform to her expectation and she wasn't happy even though she was paid. Haha

My current one enjoyed so much that she gave me a discount. Haha

[sexy78d4]

I had FL that husband doesn't give enough and turn into FL..lol

When women have tasted the pleasure of sex, they will go looking for other men if their husbands cannot perform. Those wives not really interested in sex is because they have not experience the climax of it. So the burden is on the husbands to give them that climax.

Actually premature ejaculation is not a problem to those men who have it, all they need to go for round two and three where it takes longer to cum and that's where the women can be satisfied. Some women take longer to climax, my longest pumping on a prc ML was 45 mins to give her multiple orgasm/climax until she begs me to cum as she could not take it anymore and that was 20 years ago. Haha.

Now I can take my time from night to morning every week with a certain prc ML. We can drink till high, kiss and lick from head to toe and perform all possible positions from JAV. Before she knew me, she said she didn't know sex was so pleasurable and now she is addicted to me. Haha.

Wow. That's wonderful Bro! 👍👍👍👍

Think with more stresses at work, more guys are performing poorer. Especially in this island.

[victorlee10]

When women have tasted the pleasure of sex, they will go looking for other men if their husbands cannot perform. Those wives not really interested in sex is because they have not experience the climax of it. So the burden is on the husbands to give them that climax.

Actually premature ejaculation is not a problem to those men who have it, all they need to go for round two and three where it takes longer to cum and that's where the women can be satisfied. Some women take longer to climax, my longest pumping on a prc ML was 45 mins to give her multiple orgasm/climax until she begs me to cum as she could not take it anymore and that was 20 years ago. Haha.

Now I can take my time from night to morning every week with a certain prc ML. We can drink till high, kiss and lick from head to toe and perform all possible positions from JAV. Before she knew me, she said she didn't know sex was so pleasurable and now she is addicted to me. Haha.

Bro, my girlfriend then (now wife) was more hungry for sex than a porn star. We would do it multiple times a day, in private (every room in my house and her house) and in public (cinema, Botanic Gardens at night, hdb staircase, balcony). For our honeymoon we went to an island resort and she told me she wanted to do it 10x a day. She surprised me by bringing viagra to our honeymoon coz she know I usually max can only do 3-5x a day.

Now many years later and after 2 kids I get sex maybe once every 2 months. She also doesn’t bother to groom herself, wear lao ah ma type underwear. I think many bros here have similar experience as me.

[Cumming2wice]

Bro, my girlfriend then (now wife) was more hungry for sex than a porn star. We would do it multiple times a day, in private (every room in my house and her house) and in public (cinema, Botanic Gardens at night, hdb staircase, balcony). For our honeymoon we went to an island resort and she told me she wanted to do it 10x a day. She surprised me by bringing viagra to our honeymoon coz she know I usually max can only do 3-5x a day.

Now many years later and after 2 kids I get sex maybe once every 2 months. She also doesn’t bother to groom herself, wear lao ah ma type underwear. I think many bros here have similar experience as me.

Yes, that is the reality and that's the reason why I don't want to get married. Only have companionship as long as both can mutually benefit each other. When the day comes where bother cannot mutually benefit each other, then part way and find another one. That is the agreement with the prc ML I am with for 4 years now. We are keeping a ML and customer relationship as long I can pay her for her services and she is happy to earn from me and my fulfillment of her sexual needs.

[Happytallman]

U mean she book the ml for u and go tgt?

She makes sure I go every week and will call to set up the appointment. I go in mornings so by evening I am ready for her. She likes me relaxed and horny, she says. HJ only, with real P Massage. Same Spa.

Actually the routine is a bit boring so sometimes I go outside. That is my secret though.

[bryanlailai]

She makes sure I go every week and will call to set up the appointment. I go in mornings so by evening I am ready for her. She likes me relaxed and horny, she says. HJ only, with real P Massage. Same Spa.

Actually the routine is a bit boring so sometimes I go outside. That is my secret though.

Hahah....power la bro...great to have a open minded wife

[mattydil]

yes this is true, all the mls are popular and fully booked right now. Hard to get a proper booking

That's right bro.
I heard from my regular ML that the booking rate is now almost at 100%.
When i went few days ago, she shared that she used to up to 4 clients per day. Now become 9-10 clients per day.
That day no chance to extend time cos rooms 100% occupied.
And when i left the spa, there were like 3 bros waiting for their turn.
Business is booming right now.

[Sadly]

That's right bro.
I heard from my regular ML that the booking rate is now almost at 100%.
When i went few days ago, she shared that she used to up to 4 clients per day. Now become 9-10 clients per day.
That day no chance to extend time cos rooms 100% occupied.
And when i left the spa, there were like 3 bros waiting for their turn.
Business is booming right now.


Yes very good and easy money for MLs these days. However many are overworked, not in good mood and nipples are very sore. Just imagine feeding so many babies. For bros rushed services and often cut massage time.

[Cumming2wice]

That is a nice share bro.

Thanks! Hope all our sharings can give us the creativity and the innovations to turn our fantasies to realities, our challenges to opportunities. Haha

[slientreader01]

Bro, my girlfriend then (now wife) was more hungry for sex than a porn star. We would do it multiple times a day, in private (every room in my house and her house) and in public (cinema, Botanic Gardens at night, hdb staircase, balcony). For our honeymoon we went to an island resort and she told me she wanted to do it 10x a day. She surprised me by bringing viagra to our honeymoon coz she know I usually max can only do 3-5x a day.

Now many years later and after 2 kids I get sex maybe once every 2 months. She also doesn’t bother to groom herself, wear lao ah ma type underwear. I think many bros here have similar experience as me.

once every 2 months is still something to look forward to...... me not getting any