How long does your FWB/FB vibe last?

[BackstageBambi]

Hi, am new here. As the title is self explanatory - How long do you and your FB/FWB have that sexual chemistry/good vibes going before one or both parties get a bit bored of each other? And what are some dealbreakers for you E.g the other person has any undesirable traits that emerge over time? Do you sense your FB getting less interested as time goes by and how do you plan to revert the situation if you still want it to continue?

[the2econdlife]

I've had my current FWB for about three years now. From experience, maintain the communication and make sure the sex is enjoyable for both. That's about it :cool:

[BackstageBambi]

I've had my current FWB for about three years now. From experience, maintain the communication and make sure the sex is enjoyable for both. That's about it :cool:

Oh 3 years is a long time to be sticking to one FWB. At any point do you guys get a bit bored of each other and the meet ups get lesser in frequency?

[D-joker]

Is it hard to find a FWB/FB?

I feel its abit hard as most girl want commitment or that exclusive feeling.

[BackstageBambi]

Is it hard to find a FWB/FB?

I feel its abit hard as most girl want commitment or that exclusive feeling.

Oh not in my case. I know it’s obviously NSA. Yup most girls eventually end up getting emotionally involved in some way.

[the2econdlife]

Oh 3 years is a long time to be sticking to one FWB. At any point do you guys get a bit bored of each other and the meet ups get lesser in frequency?

Ideally, we'd want to meet like once a week. But it's been like once every three weeks. Of course, I'm on the lookout to add to the FWB list :p

[Auza]

Hi, am new here. As the title is self explanatory - How long do you and your FB/FWB have that sexual chemistry/good vibes going before one or both parties get a bit bored of each other? And what are some dealbreakers for you E.g the other person has any undesirable traits that emerge over time? Do you sense your FB getting less interested as time goes by and how do you plan to revert the situation if you still want it to continue?

The most exciting part is when we are exploring new things, if there's lots of new things to explore, then the experience will prolong.

[BackstageBambi]

The most exciting part is when we are exploring new things, if there's lots of new things to explore, then the experience will prolong.

Agree on this. But eventually we all reach the end of the fun things to try out list and then things can become kinda boring. Current fb is a guy who is into mild bsdm lol.

[BackstageBambi]

Ideally, we'd want to meet like once a week. But it's been like once every three weeks. Of course, I'm on the lookout to add to the FWB list :p

Just curious, how do you usually meet FWBs? Apps? IRL?

[the2econdlife]

Just curious, how do you usually meet FWBs? Apps? IRL?

I met this one via a dating app!

[rachangelx]

Hi, am new here. As the title is self explanatory - How long do you and your FB/FWB have that sexual chemistry/good vibes going before one or both parties get a bit bored of each other? And what are some dealbreakers for you E.g the other person has any undesirable traits that emerge over time? Do you sense your FB getting less interested as time goes by and how do you plan to revert the situation if you still want it to continue?

almost one year, as long as you keep making things interesting it'll always be fun? haha

[unsung80]

2 to 10 times is my max, I prefer variety.

[Brother]

the longest i've kept to one is prob 1.5 years

[Dreampie]

For me about few weeks if we meet 3 times a week

[BackstageBambi]

almost one year, as long as you keep making things interesting it'll always be fun? haha

Haha I agree. I wanted to try a 3some but the fb was unwilling to.

[BackstageBambi]

2 to 10 times is my max, I prefer variety.

So it just dies off naturally and you don’t contact her anymore?

[BackstageBambi]

the longest i've kept to one is prob 1.5 years

Same here. Was it mutual though? The chemistry died?

[BackstageBambi]

For me about few weeks if we meet 3 times a week

That’s a lot! Lolz

[the2econdlife]

Haha I agree. I wanted to try a 3some but the fb was unwilling to.

my FWB wasn't willing to try a threesome too.

[xsdcxsd]

around half a year

[unsung80]

So it just dies off naturally and you don’t contact her anymore?

it can be she initiate not to meet up anymore or quietly fade off. I won't bother anyone life. I rather not contact if she is not keen.

[TheTrader2359]

Been about 5 years for me now.

[repairman]

I had a fwb who mention she will only be willing to try mff gangbang as she say she feels more comfortable with another lady around. Sadly we lost touch just before Covid struck and has not been in contact since

[cdfghk]

3 months.........

[rachangelx]

Haha I agree. I wanted to try a 3some but the fb was unwilling to.

mmf? or ffm? hahaha different for the girl!

[BackstageBambi]

my FWB wasn't willing to try a threesome too.

Most girls aren’t willing to try (especially if it’s a FFM) cos women get jealous easily. I know cos I would get jelly too lol. Even if it’s just sex.

[BackstageBambi]

it can be she initiate not to meet up anymore or quietly fade off. I won't bother anyone life. I rather not contact if she is not keen.

That’s true. If guys know how to play their cards right and with good timing and luck, there shouldn’t be any issue finding a new fb.

[BackstageBambi]

I had a fwb who mention she will only be willing to try mff gangbang as she say she feels more comfortable with another lady around. Sadly we lost touch just before Covid struck and has not been in contact since

Aw shucks, was she good? Rare to find a female who doesn’t mind a FFM...

[BackstageBambi]

mmf? or ffm? hahaha different for the girl!

Haha I am willing to explore both FFM and MMF with my fb. But he said he’s not really keen... Which was kinda meh to hear... but I respect his wishes.

[davidiiideee]

the longest i had lasted 4 years. it only stopped because i moved to SG for work. when i go back, most likely it will resume :D

[Cheesebeast]

My previous one lasted close to 3 years. Broke off arrangement as emotions started getting involved. As much as we say no strings attached, some things just cant be controlled by word of mouth

[benxiong]

Mine was 11 yrs. She was 9 yrs older then me. After we broke off, I start chionging.