What does it mean if you find an empty morning after pill box at home?

[Neoguri]

Well, as the subject described, I recently found an empty morning after pill box as I was cleaning up the house.
I know it is definitely not mine, meaning it can only be from my wife.
But we had never use any morning after pill before, so that got me thinking.

Some facts about the situation:
- that empty box was probably from 10 years ago. But I don't know when its content were used, or were there even a pill?

I can expect some of the thoughts you guys might have. - feel free to voice them as well.
However, I would like some comments from girls in order to understand what my wife could be thinking? - maybe focus on possible legit uses or thoughts?

[lalaliang]

Well, as the subject described, I recently found an empty morning after pill box as I was cleaning up the house.
I know it is definitely not mine, meaning it can only be from my wife.
But we had never use any morning after pill before, so that got me thinking.

Some facts about the situation:
- that empty box was probably from 10 years ago. But I don't know when its content were used, or were there even a pill?

I can expect some of the thoughts you guys might have. - feel free to voice them as well.
However, I would like some comments from girls in order to understand what my wife could be thinking? - maybe focus on possible legit uses or thoughts?

When is the expiry date? Just put it in her sight and see how she react to it

[Xgenre]

It means think carefully before you make your next move. If you let her know or show her the box, will it mean the secret is out of the bag to her and then she proceeds to divorce you? Given how Women's Charter favours ladies, will you end up paying a heavy price because of an empty morning after pill?

Think carefully. Are you sure it is a morning after pill?

[sex crusader]

Means you wear green hat liao!:D

[secretlurker88]

got pic of the box? how long have u known your wife?(since started dating)

if box more than 10 years ago then likely forget about it la...

[nitetcrawler]

How do you know the box is 10 years ago

Is it because it is base on expiry date?

Did you and your wife made out in this residence more than 10 years ago

There could be possibility that it was your wife's friend came over and confide in her



Some facts about the situation:
- that empty box was probably from 10 years ago. But I don't know when its content were used, or were there even a pill?

[kt88_2]

Maybe u yrself shot into yr wife,the wife go n take the pills cos don want to hv kids st a young age but jept it from u ,don think too much. If really 偷吃,the box wont be there for u to find , it will be cleared long ago.Don think too much.

[SerflySGR]

Well, as the subject described, I recently found an empty morning after pill box as I was cleaning up the house.
I know it is definitely not mine, meaning it can only be from my wife.
But we had never use any morning after pill before, so that got me thinking.

You found mentioned: you recently found it so, as you mentioned it could have been some time back. If so, do you want to 're-open' this case? Is it worth it? What are you trying to achieve by doing so? Are you prepared for the worst consequences?

You confirm it's not yours but I would go out on a limp to say that you cannot also confirm it's your wife's since you already mentioned that neither of you use this product. So... You really need to find out; cannot assume it can only be from your wife.

Some facts about the situation:
- that empty box was probably from 10 years ago. But I don't know when its content were used, or were there even a pill?

I think some of the bros here did mention to find out the expiry date of the pills... Could be she did use last time and now no longer using or......

I can expect some of the thoughts you guys might have. - feel free to voice them as well.
However, I would like some comments from girls in order to understand what my wife could be thinking? - maybe focus on possible legit uses or thoughts?

From what I gathered from my ex-wife, she just did not want to have any children. So she took the pills.

She didn't let me know because she knew that I would be against it as I like children.


Just sharing some thoughts, Bro Neoguri. No offense.

[Neoguri]

Thanks for all your thoughts.
We had been married for 20 years.
I knew the box was from 10 years ago because it was from China with Chinese printing and we went there with the kids for a holiday then.
That was the only time she could have got it from China.

It is definitely a morning after pill because I bought morning after pills for my mistress before and I knew the scientific name of the drug.

She knew about this incident because I was cleaning the house with her as I found the box and I asked her.
At first she said she didn't know what is the content, but I read it and told her this is a morning after pill.
She then said she was afraid of being rape and I thought it was a lame excuse.
Anyway, I am not angry at all and the whole conversation was like just being curious how there is such an empty box at home?

I am also not angry at all because I really believe in men and women equality.
I had started my FB adventure since 4 years ago, and really have no moral high grounds to be angry with her.
However, if she had been unfaithful, she did it 6 years earlier than I did! :eek::eek:
In any case, I am really relaxed about if and just brushed it off. I really forgot about it in the next few days, but then suddenly remember I could ask the bro and sis here what they think about it?

No, I am not about to create a storm with her and get divorced.
In fact, the case is already closed and I just didn't further discuss with her anymore.

My last few years of FB adventure really makes me think that it is sex only.
I need the sex and I know my FBs have their sexual needs too and some other emotional needs depending on their state of mind at that moment.
I am still a very responsible husband and father and really care for the family.
There is no way I will scarify them.

Please continue to post if you have other interpretation of the incident?
I am curious to know.

[Neoguri]

[INDENT][FONT="Comic Sans MS"]From what I gathered from my ex-wife, she just did not want to have any children. So she took the pills.

She didn't let me know because she knew that I would be against it as I like children.


Just sharing some thoughts, Bro Neoguri. No offense.

Thanks Bro SerflySGR for your thoughts.
I certainly agree with your point above about your ex-wife because I did bought morning after pills for my mistress because she doesn't want another baby with her husband but want my baby.
But her husband would trick her into sex during her fertile period, then cum inside her without her consent.
She was so angry and had to take a morning after pill after that.

You have a good point because my wife is terrified about getting pregnant again.
But then, we had never not use condom since our second child, so she don't really have to prepare a pill.

[secretlurker88]

bro Neoguri, just wondering - saw ur old posts and you state you had been divorced.

yet this one you've been with your wife for 20 years?

just wondering how to connect the two..

[Neoguri]

bro Neoguri, just wondering - saw ur old posts and you state you had been divorced.

yet this one you've been with your wife for 20 years?

just wondering how to connect the two..

We were preparing to divorce and were separated for a year.
She decided to come back so we did not proceed with it eventually.

[xxx_OrOcO_xxx]

TS, here's my two cents worth:

- If you wish, have a heart-to-heart talk with your wife, and find out more what she meant by her comment - "afraid of being raped"

- Need to ask yourself honestly, on how you want this marriage to be? Only both of you can answer.

Hope things work out fine for both of you...

[kombust]

We were preparing to divorce and were separated for a year.
She decided to come back so we did not proceed with it eventually.

sounds like she realized her lover can only CIM but CMI for relationship.

however, i believe its easier to close one eye and move on if you are still keen on maintaining the relationship. you are also playing outside anyway.

[snooker]

Thanks for all your thoughts.
We had been married for 20 years.
I knew the box was from 10 years ago because it was from China with Chinese printing and we went there with the kids for a holiday then.
That was the only time she could have got it from China.




you can buy from China and her lover cannot buy from China and give it to her?? must be from the china trip 10 years ago? it could be last year before covid

[Neoguri]

TS, here's my two cents worth:

- If you wish, have a heart-to-heart talk with your wife, and find out more what she meant by her comment - "afraid of being raped"

- Need to ask yourself honestly, on how you want this marriage to be? Only both of you can answer.

Hope things work out fine for both of you...

Thanks for your advise.
I won't be talking to her again about this.
I had a light-hearted joke with her when we discover this box together then, and I also don't think it helps anything to push and try to find out more details.
Some things are better left unknown, or if known just let it go.

She is a good mother to the kids and had taken care of of them and the household stuff.

[Neoguri]

you can buy from China and her lover cannot buy from China and give it to her?? must be from the china trip 10 years ago? it could be last year before covid

You have a point there, there are many possibilities.
She could have bought it or got it from a friend, either locally or during the trip.
Or there could be a lover who got it for her, I will never know.

[hhlover]

jus wondering.. an empty bottle of after morning pill.. wat is there to be worry n wat is the big deal??????
If u find an used condom or few unused condom.. n u dun use it when having sex with yr wife then is big big deal..
Hahaha

[Neoguri]

jus wondering.. an empty bottle of after morning pill.. wat is there to be worry n wat is the big deal??????
If u find an used condom or few unused condom.. n u dun use it when having sex with yr wife then is big big deal..
Hahaha

Haha, you are right.
A used condom is a smoking gun.
Empty pill box is a just a gun. :D

[phantomboyz]

Thanks for all your thoughts.
We had been married for 20 years.
I knew the box was from 10 years ago because it was from China with Chinese printing and we went there with the kids for a holiday then.
That was the only time she could have got it from China.

It is definitely a morning after pill because I bought morning after pills for my mistress before and I knew the scientific name of the drug.

She knew about this incident because I was cleaning the house with her as I found the box and I asked her.
At first she said she didn't know what is the content, but I read it and told her this is a morning after pill.
She then said she was afraid of being rape and I thought it was a lame excuse.
Anyway, I am not angry at all and the whole conversation was like just being curious how there is such an empty box at home?

I am also not angry at all because I really believe in men and women equality.
I had started my FB adventure since 4 years ago, and really have no moral high grounds to be angry with her.
However, if she had been unfaithful, she did it 6 years earlier than I did! :eek::eek:
In any case, I am really relaxed about if and just brushed it off. I really forgot about it in the next few days, but then suddenly remember I could ask the bro and sis here what they think about it?

No, I am not about to create a storm with her and get divorced.
In fact, the case is already closed and I just didn't further discuss with her anymore.

My last few years of FB adventure really makes me think that it is sex only.
I need the sex and I know my FBs have their sexual needs too and some other emotional needs depending on their state of mind at that moment.
I am still a very responsible husband and father and really care for the family.
There is no way I will scarify them.

Please continue to post if you have other interpretation of the incident?
I am curious to know.


I think its ok that if your wife really seeing someone else for the past 20 years of marriage since you are also aware that karma has playing with both of you both round and round. Its called open marriage concept if im not wrong.Its nothing new. Will - Jada Smith had already done that. While the affair person was someone they knew well. Similarly, your wife's FB (provided she has) could be some Samster as well. Nothing wrong mah,since the rule of the game is just purely sex,no emotional attached. Even your mistress could also have some other FB/FWB as well. What most important thing is never ever neglect your both responsibilities as parent/guardian to your children.

[superstiffy]

bro... dun think so much la... this kind of thing if want to hide is forever wont discover one... still got chance let u find the box meh? u mean ur wife let you wear green hat, eat pill liao then keep the box for souvenir ah? cannot be right...

more possible is after ur last child... u still like to do raw... but she dun dare to tell u to wear condom so just buy the pill for insurance lo... in case u misfire then can eat....

my guess la...

[Neoguri]

bro... dun think so much la... this kind of thing if want to hide is forever wont discover one... still got chance let u find the box meh? u mean ur wife let you wear green hat, eat pill liao then keep the box for souvenir ah? cannot be right...

more possible is after ur last child... u still like to do raw... but she dun dare to tell u to wear condom so just buy the pill for insurance lo... in case u misfire then can eat....

my guess la...

Thanks for your advice.
I tend to think like you said so as well.

[Neoguri]

I think its ok that if your wife really seeing someone else for the past 20 years of marriage since you are also aware that karma has playing with both of you both round and round. Its called open marriage concept if im not wrong.Its nothing new. Will - Jada Smith had already done that. While the affair person was someone they knew well. Similarly, your wife's FB (provided she has) could be some Samster as well. Nothing wrong mah,since the rule of the game is just purely sex,no emotional attached. Even your mistress could also have some other FB/FWB as well. What most important thing is never ever neglect your both responsibilities as parent/guardian to your children.

Totally agree too.
I did the same thing with my mistress too. - bought morning after pill for her.

[LordVader]

Pills have expiry date.

10 years old pills even if taken will not work.