justwanadoit
01-01-2021, 12:13 PM
Hi fellow bros and sis in Christ, as a Christian I know what is the right thing. But somehow my body and also my imagination betray me.
What i need is not condemnation but grace.
I also speaking on behalf of those guys in teens, 20s, 30s even 40s who have raging hormones.
I remember there was once i was so discipline in 26 or 27 and manage to go 6 months almost without fapping but was crazy. I have wet dreams even at 20s. And when i go church, i all needed is for me to sit beside a girl in spaghetti strap or shorts and when leader say lets hold hands pray, i will steam already. Its just hormones, i am no pervert, just ordinary guy.
But how to control ? Even with exercise , how uch can you control? I approach church consellors but they did not give me straight answers. But they prayed for me.
By the way i am already 40s and married and have children and cannot say i have fully overcomed this sexual problem of mine. It could jusy be life long struggle although i do look forward to deliverance
Romans 7:21-25
21So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me. 22For in my inner being I delight in God’s law; 23but I see another law at work in me, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within me. 24What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death? 25Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord!
What i need is not condemnation but grace.
I also speaking on behalf of those guys in teens, 20s, 30s even 40s who have raging hormones.
I remember there was once i was so discipline in 26 or 27 and manage to go 6 months almost without fapping but was crazy. I have wet dreams even at 20s. And when i go church, i all needed is for me to sit beside a girl in spaghetti strap or shorts and when leader say lets hold hands pray, i will steam already. Its just hormones, i am no pervert, just ordinary guy.
But how to control ? Even with exercise , how uch can you control? I approach church consellors but they did not give me straight answers. But they prayed for me.
By the way i am already 40s and married and have children and cannot say i have fully overcomed this sexual problem of mine. It could jusy be life long struggle although i do look forward to deliverance
Romans 7:21-25
21So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me. 22For in my inner being I delight in God’s law; 23but I see another law at work in me, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within me. 24What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death? 25Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord!