silverstar
02-01-2021, 04:56 PM
Inspired by a post I read on this forum, I would like to share my story in the event there are other brothers who are in a similar boat as me.
I joined this site 15 years ago when I was in my 20’s and in the early days this site was helpful especially during my frequent business trips abroad. I am grateful for the advice and cool people I’ve met on here. I feel the experience is so much better and more enjoyable when with I have others to explore with (eg bars, KTV) in foreign countries. I feel like there’s a shared, and somewhat secretive, bond that comes when partaking in these activities.
I am now in my 40’s and fortunate to be in a career situation where I am financially secure. For the past few years, I have used sugar dating almost exclusively. Simply put, it has been an amazing experience. I am lucky to have been with women from many different countries/nationalities (for example Korean, Japanese, HK, Vietnamese, Indonesian, British, French, Greek, American, Latin American) and backgrounds (students, artists, but mostly white collar professionals such as teachers, finance professionals, accountants, even a doctor and lawyer and a few horny housewives). To this day, I still keep in touch with some even after a few years and remain on friendly terms. When I’m with these women, it’s been particularly enjoyable getting to hear about their personal lives (eg family, work, sex stuff, etc.), beyond just fun in the bedroom. In terms of the latter, some have shared their dirtiest kinky fantasies and we've explored some of these. It has really opened up my world to things like BDSM and even orgies.
It’s been an incredible experience, and I appreciate my time with each and every single one. But it’s also made it harder to have a ‘stable SO’ type of relationship. Also, while I enjoy sharing stories with friends, I feel hampered in some ways because I do not talk about any of this stuff with my normal guy friends due to discretion purposes. I do miss the bonding aspect among guys when talking and partaking in these activities.
Anyhow, I thought I’d share the above. Really curious if any other brothers have similar experience? If so, would be fun to swap stories over a beer when Covid situation improves.
I joined this site 15 years ago when I was in my 20’s and in the early days this site was helpful especially during my frequent business trips abroad. I am grateful for the advice and cool people I’ve met on here. I feel the experience is so much better and more enjoyable when with I have others to explore with (eg bars, KTV) in foreign countries. I feel like there’s a shared, and somewhat secretive, bond that comes when partaking in these activities.
I am now in my 40’s and fortunate to be in a career situation where I am financially secure. For the past few years, I have used sugar dating almost exclusively. Simply put, it has been an amazing experience. I am lucky to have been with women from many different countries/nationalities (for example Korean, Japanese, HK, Vietnamese, Indonesian, British, French, Greek, American, Latin American) and backgrounds (students, artists, but mostly white collar professionals such as teachers, finance professionals, accountants, even a doctor and lawyer and a few horny housewives). To this day, I still keep in touch with some even after a few years and remain on friendly terms. When I’m with these women, it’s been particularly enjoyable getting to hear about their personal lives (eg family, work, sex stuff, etc.), beyond just fun in the bedroom. In terms of the latter, some have shared their dirtiest kinky fantasies and we've explored some of these. It has really opened up my world to things like BDSM and even orgies.
It’s been an incredible experience, and I appreciate my time with each and every single one. But it’s also made it harder to have a ‘stable SO’ type of relationship. Also, while I enjoy sharing stories with friends, I feel hampered in some ways because I do not talk about any of this stuff with my normal guy friends due to discretion purposes. I do miss the bonding aspect among guys when talking and partaking in these activities.
Anyhow, I thought I’d share the above. Really curious if any other brothers have similar experience? If so, would be fun to swap stories over a beer when Covid situation improves.