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wishingtree
22-09-2021, 09:04 PM
I love talking about sex during sex... It excites me. When a girl tells me what she wants and how she likes it I get off on it. The more sex talk, the better during sex. Am I alone?

bluecot
23-09-2021, 12:48 AM
I like talking too, but some girls hate it and find it a hassle.

NoIdea
23-09-2021, 06:13 PM
Depends on your sex partner. Some girls need to concentrate on the pleasure. There was once a girl who called me a "machine" because I could converse about mundane stuff with her while ramming her with my cock. She said I was the first person she did with who could fuck while still talking normally.

Another time, there was another girl who came over to talk me up in pub and eventually we fucked that night at my place. The best part is she had introduced herself at the pub and came over to my table (I was alone) with the excuse that she opened a bottle of Auchentoshan and it tasted bad.

I looked over to her table and there were 2 guys with her. Couldn't help but feel bad for them that their female friend chose to come over to talk to me instead. She introduced herself but I did not. I just asked her since her whisky wasn't good, would she like to come to my place for some good whisky instead.

She played it very cool and thought about it for a few seconds before saying "Sure" and I said "Let's go right now then"

Eventually we were fucking at my place and I remembered when I was on top of her thrusting away, she suddenly looked me directly in the eyes and said "What's your name?"

That was quite funny and surreal at the same time and I think out of the many girls I had sex with, this was the only time that I forgot to introduce myself before fucking haha.

Bustea
23-09-2021, 09:27 PM
Depends on your sex partner. Some girls need to concentrate on the pleasure. There was once a girl who called me a "machine" because I could converse about mundane stuff with her while ramming her with my cock. She said I was the first person she did with who could fuck while still talking normally.

Another time, there was another girl who came over to talk me up in pub and eventually we fucked that night at my place. The best part is she had introduced herself at the pub and came over to my table (I was alone) with the excuse that she opened a bottle of Auchentoshan and it tasted bad.

I looked over to her table and there were 2 guys with her. Couldn't help but feel bad for them that their female friend chose to come over to talk to me instead. She introduced herself but I did not. I just asked her since her whisky wasn't good, would she like to come to my place for some good whisky instead.

She played it very cool and thought about it for a few seconds before saying "Sure" and I said "Let's go right now then"

Eventually we were fucking at my place and I remembered when I was on top of her thrusting away, she suddenly looked me directly in the eyes and said "What's your name?"

That was quite funny and surreal at the same time and I think out of the many girls I had sex with, this was the only time that I forgot to introduce myself before fucking haha.

So you told her "NoIdea" :D

NoIdea
23-09-2021, 10:06 PM
So you told her "NoIdea" :D

Hahahaha good one!

Piglet777
23-09-2021, 10:30 PM
Depends on your sex partner. Some girls need to concentrate on the pleasure. There was once a girl who called me a "machine" because I could converse about mundane stuff with her while ramming her with my cock. She said I was the first person she did with who could fuck while still talking normally.

Another time, there was another girl who came over to talk me up in pub and eventually we fucked that night at my place. The best part is she had introduced herself at the pub and came over to my table (I was alone) with the excuse that she opened a bottle of Auchentoshan and it tasted bad.

I looked over to her table and there were 2 guys with her. Couldn't help but feel bad for them that their female friend chose to come over to talk to me instead. She introduced herself but I did not. I just asked her since her whisky wasn't good, would she like to come to my place for some good whisky instead.

She played it very cool and thought about it for a few seconds before saying "Sure" and I said "Let's go right now then"

Eventually we were fucking at my place and I remembered when I was on top of her thrusting away, she suddenly looked me directly in the eyes and said "What's your name?"

That was quite funny and surreal at the same time and I think out of the many girls I had sex with, this was the only time that I forgot to introduce myself before fucking haha.

Do you mind PM-ing me what pub is this hahaha

Piledriver
24-09-2021, 12:34 AM
I love talking about sex during sex... It excites me. When a girl tells me what she wants and how she likes it I get off on it. The more sex talk, the better during sex. Am I alone?

I guess that is called "talking dirty"?

Yup, I like to do that. But that depends on the lady. Some women prefer to talk less and just fuck.

But most women I fucked tend to like my dirty talking, because I know for a fact that women are turned on by words.

Also by talking during sex, she will reveal to you her sensitive spots so you know what to do to make her cum. Its a win-win.

Neoguri
24-09-2021, 01:07 AM
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Eventually we were fucking at my place and I remembered when I was on top of her thrusting away, she suddenly looked me directly in the eyes and said "What's your name?"
....

This is a good one!

Neoguri
24-09-2021, 01:16 AM
I love talking about sex during sex... It excites me. When a girl tells me what she wants and how she likes it I get off on it. The more sex talk, the better during sex. Am I alone?

I guess some guys likes to talk dirty during sex and some women might follow along if they are comfortable with it.
I don't do that, but do look out for their responses as a feedback to what I am doing at that moment.
When both are more comfortable with each other, some verbal feedback might happen.

Strange to talk about mundane stuff like the stock market or what happened at work. :D
It shows that you are not 100% mentally into that intimate act.

Xgenre
24-09-2021, 07:45 AM
Depends on the topic you talk right? If you spell her out her name while licking her clitoris, I don't think she minds. If the tips of your tongue trace out the alphabets in her name while you read out the alphabet, I don't think she will object. Just don't try it out on PRC ladies lah. Their name many strokes and if you use the wrong word, they may ask you WHICH GIRL IS THAT? :p

Or you use anticipation in your speech. Like you tell her on the count of three, I will give you a deep thrust all the way ah.. 1, 2, then you thrust her deep deep and hold it there for 10 seconds. She may even ask you later where is the 3? Then you say you forgot and repeat.

I kenna scolding from 1 particular girl for not moaning enough. She say she moans so much yet I hardly moan. It's like I am not enjoying her as much as she enjoys me. I just told her not all guys moan during sex. Maybe more moaning from us when we are about to cum. I think guys are more focused on breathing hard and catching our breath. We are doing most of the work afterall. Doggie, missionary, spooning... girls don't do much physical work right?

I think the worst topics to talk during sex will be... why boob so small? why cb so loose? why everywhere so smelly? why bj so lousy? why your face so ugly during sex.. like want to shit like that?

Sione
24-09-2021, 09:38 AM
talk dirty isgood

r.fowler
29-09-2021, 01:28 PM
I like talking too, but some girls hate it and find it a hassle.

My ex-FB talks a lot when she is high from alcohol. not the overly-drunk but just the right quantity.

she said it makes her mood good. she would says things like, fuck me harder, don't come until i come, etc etc.

missed being the time with her but i guess all things gotta come to an end.

unsung80
29-09-2021, 01:42 PM
If talk too much any woman on bed would turn off, if dirty talk on and off like calling her a wet slut and she admit it is more fun. :D

McMahon
29-09-2021, 08:17 PM
I prefer to be quiet and focus on the deed at hand :D

JudyP8511
29-09-2021, 09:22 PM
I prefer to be quiet and focus on the deed at hand :D

Same here as well

daring70
01-10-2021, 02:59 PM
used to play this game with a ML, it only works if the partner is someone who loves to be eaten down there. one day, when i was licking her down there, the radio played a song that she liked she started singing along to it.

i then challenged her to continue singing while i licked. i tell you, i have never heard such erotic singing and she was trying really hard to hold a tune.

beats any moan :)

i guess it wouldn;t work on ladies who dun react much to oral service

georgie1994
02-10-2021, 06:38 PM
love to, my sugarbook.live girl loves to sex talk during sex too, make me more excited

georgie1994
02-10-2021, 06:38 PM
I like talking too, but some girls hate it and find it a hassle.

haha i thought nature of girl is love to talk

georgie1994
02-10-2021, 06:41 PM
Same here as well

without talking is like very quiet and is weird right

georgie1994
02-10-2021, 06:42 PM
If talk too much any woman on bed would turn off, if dirty talk on and off like calling her a wet slut and she admit it is more fun. :D

haha yes talk also need to choose the right topic

USB2ega
02-10-2021, 07:49 PM
haha yes talk also need to choose the right topic

haha yes can talk politics

candeo_88
03-10-2021, 03:06 PM
Best is to continue to talk dirty during sex...keeps or even builds up the mood...Must stay focused on anything sexual during sex...

Any other topics can potentially be a taboo or sensitive in nature as it may bring on unpleasant memories for either party, e.g. saying that China vaccine is not good to a Chinese partner...:D:cool:

coached
03-10-2021, 05:14 PM
Best is to continue to talk dirty during sex...keeps or even builds up the mood...Must stay focused on anything sexual during sex...

Any other topics can potentially be a taboo or sensitive in nature as it may bring on unpleasant memories for either party, e.g. saying that China vaccine is not good to a Chinese partner...:D:cool:

True, keep to sexual topics is safest! :)

Rickey
04-10-2021, 07:49 AM
Best is to continue to talk dirty during sex...keeps or even builds up the mood...Must stay focused on anything sexual during sex...

Agreed ...Sex is always best enjoyed when thére is some dirty talk not when she lie on the bed diam diam like a deadfish

naan1974
04-10-2021, 01:09 PM
i used to make my ex gf tell me her day from A to Z while i licked/pumped her. slowly she will start slurring,
damn turn on for me. now, nobody entertain my request anymore.
Tried with my wife but she thinks i am silly trying talking while having sex. sigh...

georgie1994
06-10-2021, 06:43 PM
True, keep to sexual topics is safest! :)

true not only sex, during sugarbook.live i also send dirty message and girl loves it very much

georgie1994
06-10-2021, 06:44 PM
before do it, drink a glass of wine, you will be even braver to do this

georgie1994
06-10-2021, 06:45 PM
Agreed ...Sex is always best enjoyed when thére is some dirty talk not when she lie on the bed diam diam like a deadfish

why like deadfish, she no feeling?

georgie1994
06-10-2021, 06:46 PM
I like talking too, but some girls hate it and find it a hassle.

depends on your tone, you need to talk in sexier voice

georgie1994
06-10-2021, 06:47 PM
I prefer to be quiet and focus on the deed at hand :D

isnt that the environment is not too soothing if too quiet

georgie1994
06-10-2021, 06:47 PM
and yes you talk more sex during sex, the girl more easy to wet

Cheesebeast
06-10-2021, 06:59 PM
Really depends on the girl. Normally i will start some dirty talk and see her response. If she reciprocates then i will continue. But there are some girls who are quiet even after repeated attempts - im still ok with such girls. In this case, talk only to give instructions.

Most of the talking during sex is normally dirty talk. Never really had a casual/friendly conversation during sex.

fde83
06-10-2021, 09:32 PM
Most gals wana hear during sex are, "I'm gonna cum", "Im cumming", "open your mouth, I'm gonna cum" and the best one, moaning. when we are cumming.

lrjk1985
07-10-2021, 05:46 PM
I love talking about sex during sex... It excites me. When a girl tells me what she wants and how she likes it I get off on it. The more sex talk, the better during sex. Am I alone?

It depends. A few girls I've been with like to talk while we fuck. Talking dirty seems to get them off. Other girls like to whimper and moan silently, preferring to just get fucked hard.

zhenghuaboys
07-10-2021, 10:50 PM
Bro to get her really wet is to sex her mind. I always talk dirty to my gf when she's riding me, that's how she cums.

USB2ega
08-10-2021, 09:26 PM
and yes you talk more sex during sex, the girl more easy to wet

Before sex haven't get wet?

ulysses84
08-10-2021, 10:01 PM
maybe OP can try singing during sex 🤣

SammyLee88
11-10-2021, 08:47 PM
i do love to try it out with guy in sugarbook.live see whether we can get climate faster

SammyLee88
11-10-2021, 08:48 PM
wondering if introvert partner can do this?

SammyLee88
11-10-2021, 08:49 PM
Bro to get her really wet is to sex her mind. I always talk dirty to my gf when she's riding me, that's how she cums.

sex her minds first then only sex her anal

SammyLee88
11-10-2021, 08:50 PM
Most gals wana hear during sex are, "I'm gonna cum", "Im cumming", "open your mouth, I'm gonna cum" and the best one, moaning. when we are cumming.

this made girls proud that she can satisfy her guy

georgie1994
13-10-2021, 06:46 PM
i do love to try it out with guy in sugarbook.live see whether we can get climate faster

sugarbook.live seems many lenglui lengzai, also can give you better sex performance, by looking at their face

georgie1994
13-10-2021, 06:47 PM
Bro to get her really wet is to sex her mind. I always talk dirty to my gf when she's riding me, that's how she cums.

yes not only partner, fwb or ml in FB SB also worked like that, chat using words but with yellow words

georgie1994
13-10-2021, 06:48 PM
human naturally will have little shy on sex in natural, thus they will have some kind of response toward the sex talk

georgie1994
13-10-2021, 06:49 PM
I guess that is called "talking dirty"?

Yup, I like to do that. But that depends on the lady. Some women prefer to talk less and just fuck.

But most women I fucked tend to like my dirty talking, because I know for a fact that women are turned on by words.

Also by talking during sex, she will reveal to you her sensitive spots so you know what to do to make her cum. Its a win-win.

while talking then touching...haha

georgie1994
13-10-2021, 06:50 PM
Before sex haven't get wet?

girl not like guy, they need time to get aroused

zhenghuaboys
14-10-2021, 11:02 PM
yes not only partner, fwb or ml in FB SB also worked like that, chat using words but with yellow words

Correct brother

BankOfEngland
14-10-2021, 11:53 PM
Correct brother

Agreed as well

poof3pang
15-10-2021, 10:05 PM
girl not like guy, they need time to get aroused

Indeed bro

9pokes
19-10-2021, 11:41 PM
I like dirty talk during sex but unfortunately my current gf doesnt appreciates and would rather prefer to be quiet and just "enjoy" according to her terms :(

georgie1994
20-10-2021, 08:37 PM
I like dirty talk during sex but unfortunately my current gf doesnt appreciates and would rather prefer to be quiet and just "enjoy" according to her terms :(

i talk with sugarbook.live girl a day before sex make both our mood prepare for next day sex

georgie1994
20-10-2021, 08:38 PM
Indeed bro

we need to find many ways to let them wet first

georgie1994
20-10-2021, 08:42 PM
Correct brother

you also found girl in both SB and FB most important they are opened to it

georgie1994
20-10-2021, 08:56 PM
haha yes can talk politics

talk politics during sex? looks superb

georgie1994
20-10-2021, 08:57 PM
talk can talk but not talk too much until lost focus on main things

pondscaper
21-10-2021, 02:08 AM
we need to find many ways to let them wet first

confirm must