FB woes

[BackstageBambi]

Current FB loves power play in the bedroom. Loves calling me his slut, while I’m happy to please him 100% in bed within a daddy / kitten kink; he’s starting to treat me literally like a slut at his beck and call in real life too. As in, when I try to initiate a meetup, he is never available, yet he doesn’t try to reschedule either. It’s just dead end. Until the next time he decides to be all enthusiastic because he wants pussy. This leaves me feeling annoyed and upset and yet I continue to meet him after everything’s said and done.

Do you folks (guys and ladies) have FBs like that?

And what do you do to handle it?

[hi2u]

Well, I am sorry to hear what you are going through. I can't speak for all other guys but I think most of us, we tend to treat ladies, even if she is just a FB, with respect.
If he doesn't match your values, perhaps wanna consider having a change? Pretty sure bros here would love to respect and pleasure you haha.

[formidable]

Below articles sharing if make sense to you
https://i.ibb.co/2SWVwtG/mmexport1632132098801.jpg (https://ibb.co/2SWVwtG)


English translation:
The meaning of two people together

Two people are together for someone to rely on and love, not for feeling wronged, tears from the pillow, and thinking about whether it is worth it or not. Feelings-the first thing to consider is whether you like this person or not. After getting along for a long time, you You have to consider whether you like yourself at the moment. If you become irritable, negative and humble, and often radiate various negative energies, I suggest you get out of this relationship that consumes you as soon as possible. The meaning of two people being together is to encourage each other. Nourish and grow with each other and support each other, and work side by side against life's problems, instead of losing your faith in loving life


https://i.ibb.co/8Ng0dc8/IMG-20210924-222922.jpg (https://ibb.co/8Ng0dc8)
English translation:
The highest level of love a man has for a woman is to teach her social survival skills, to give her resources and support, even if one day without him, a woman will live well and decently;

The highest level of love a woman has for a man is to appreciate his qualities, tap his potential, affirm his uniqueness, teach him love and self-love, and he knows how to care for himself without her. #emotion (https://samsforum.store/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=emotion)

https://i.ibb.co/s6r88qv/IMG-20210925-185531.jpg (https://ibb.co/s6r88qv)

[BackstageBambi]

Well, I am sorry to hear what you are going through. I can't speak for all other guys but I think most of us, we tend to treat ladies, even if she is just a FB, with respect.
If he doesn't match your values, perhaps wanna consider having a change? Pretty sure bros here would love to respect and pleasure you haha.

Thanks for your reply.
Yes I’m thinking hard to let go now.
Anyway it’s been a year, so I think it’s long past its days of glory.
I’m just disappointed at the lack of basic respect in the form of communication which I think should be the basis of any human to human interaction.
:)

[TheGreatOne]

He took you for granted, I'm sure you feel it and know it.

The better question is, what are you gonna do about it?

[BackstageBambi]

Below articles sharing if make sense to you
https://i.ibb.co/2SWVwtG/mmexport1632132098801.jpg (https://ibb.co/2SWVwtG)


English translation:
The meaning of two people together

Two people are together for someone to rely on and love, not for feeling wronged, tears from the pillow, and thinking about whether it is worth it or not. Feelings-the first thing to consider is whether you like this person or not. After getting along for a long time, you You have to consider whether you like yourself at the moment. If you become irritable, negative and humble, and often radiate various negative energies, I suggest you get out of this relationship that consumes you as soon as possible. The meaning of two people being together is to encourage each other. Nourish and grow with each other and support each other, and work side by side against life's problems, instead of losing your faith in loving life


https://i.ibb.co/8Ng0dc8/IMG-20210924-222922.jpg (https://ibb.co/8Ng0dc8)
English translation:
The highest level of love a man has for a woman is to teach her social survival skills, to give her resources and support, even if one day without him, a woman will live well and decently;

The highest level of love a woman has for a man is to appreciate his qualities, tap his potential, affirm his uniqueness, teach him love and self-love, and he knows how to care for himself without her. #emotion (https://samsforum.store/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=emotion)

https://i.ibb.co/s6r88qv/IMG-20210925-185531.jpg (https://ibb.co/s6r88qv)

Thanks for your reply. I’m not sure how it relates to my case but appreciated nonetheless :)

[BackstageBambi]

He took you for granted, I'm sure you feel it and know it.

The better question is, what are you gonna do about it?

Of course I feel it and I know it. But I continue to “forgive” and let it slide. There was once he just completely ghosted me right up to the time that we were supposed to meet, citing some excuse about his mom. Oh well.

[TheGreatOne]

Of course I feel it and I know it. But I continue to “forgive” and let it slide. There was once he just completely ghosted me right up to the time that we were supposed to meet, citing some excuse about his mom. Oh well.

If you can accept his aimai aimai attitude then carry on, I'm sure he is special in his own ways to have you forgo his behavior

[FreebiezWanker]

Cant even respect u as a human being.... Time to fuck him off....

As a girl, no worry no cocks... SBF here long Q for u if u need 1...or 2...or 3... :D

[|-R3D-|]

Of course I feel it and I know it. But I continue to “forgive” and let it slide. There was once he just completely ghosted me right up to the time that we were supposed to meet, citing some excuse about his mom. Oh well.

If you can stand it just carry on, if not just forget..
Hands upp ✋✋, i want apply for this post if available..🤭🤭

[BackstageBambi]

If you can accept his aimai aimai attitude then carry on, I'm sure he is special in his own ways to have you forgo his behavior

I’m sad to say he does have a certain charm. Plus yes he’s great in bed. Ultimately though I’m a logical person who will not continue with this.

[BackstageBambi]

Cant even respect u as a human being.... Time to fuck him off....

As a girl, no worry no cocks... SBF here long Q for u if u need 1...or 2...or 3... :D

Haha thanks a lot for your kind words :)

[larue]

Why are you upset about his behaviour you condone and cultivate?

[BackstageBambi]

If you can stand it just carry on, if not just forget..
Hands upp ✋✋, i want apply for this post if available..🤭🤭

Lol I know I’ll probably get some offers here. It’s also why I’m here anyways.

[BackstageBambi]

Why are you upset about his behaviour you condone and cultivate?

You made an excellent point: I’m just one of those who forgives easily especially if the person has some quality I like. As to what it is about him, I’m not sure myself. But definitely not romantic attachment.

[larue]

You made an excellent point: I’m just one of those who forgives easily especially if the person has some quality I like. As to what it is about him, I’m not sure myself. But definitely not romantic attachment.

Then you need to figure out what it might be, or what it is you actually want from him.

[formidable]

Try have heart talk with him on each other expectation.

Else not sure if your absence(break off) make his heart yonder, yearning to get you back/cherish u more

This happen to me ("heart 💔 break /loss")when I took her for granted/due to small matters etc recently after two year "affair".

[TuttiFruitti]

Lol I know I’ll probably get some offers here. It’s also why I’m here anyways.

If you're pretty and shapely, don't have to worry about no guys interested in you! :)

[BackstageBambi]

Try have heart talk with him on each other expectation.

Else not sure if your absence(break off) make his heart yonder, yearning to get you back/cherish u more

This happen to me ("heart �� break /loss")when I took her for granted/due to small matters etc recently after two year "affair".

I don’t think we need to have a heart to heart talk. It’s just a bang and go fb relationship. I think the moment I start to want to “talk”, he will bail. And no point really. He is banging other chicks too. And that’s the biggest reason why he is treating me as just one of many options. I’m fully self aware. I’m just here to rant and be upset. Lol. Thanks for reading.

[TuttiFruitti]

You made an excellent point: I’m just one of those who forgives easily especially if the person has some quality I like. As to what it is about him, I’m not sure myself. But definitely not romantic attachment.

If what attracts him to you is physical satisfaction, that means you're looking for one who is a bf / husband quality guy?

You can look for one with a romantic attachment while keeping him as a fb only if you want.

[BackstageBambi]

If you're pretty and shapely, don't have to worry about no guys interested in you! :)

Ok lah. I’m not AngelaBaby, looks are always subjective anyway :)

[BackstageBambi]

If what attracts him to you is physical satisfaction, that means you're looking for one who is a bf / husband quality guy?

You can look for one with a romantic attachment while keeping him as a fb only if you want.

No I’m not looking for a bf or husband in him. Lol. That’s madness. I’m saying that he treats me like I’m an option. All our meetups are super last minute and it’s always him asking me, but when I initiate; he’s never available.

[TuttiFruitti]

No I’m not looking for a bf or husband in him. Lol. That’s madness. I’m saying that he treats me like I’m an option. All our meetups are super last minute and it’s always him asking me, but when I initiate; he’s never available.

Where do you guys normally go when he initiated? Hotel only? Any pre-hotel arrangements e.g. meal and movie, etc.?

And where do you usually wants to go with him when you initiated it? Perhaps its somewhere that he doesn't like / wants to go? Or the time is always not right for him?

[ilovepantyhose]

andy low has a list of the fb/fwb on hand

A is a 9, B an 8, and C a 7

one saturday, andy low msg A, B and C "ai sio gan mai?"

A and B nv reply, C reply ok so andy low meetup with C for a sexxion

another saturday, andy low did the same thing

C reply ok and andy low made plans to meetup, but last minute A reply can meet so andy low decided to plane C because he can fuck A who is higher on his list

:o:o

[TheGreatOne]

You made an excellent point: I’m just one of those who forgives easily especially if the person has some quality I like. As to what it is about him, I’m not sure myself. But definitely not romantic attachment.

Memories of the fish
Any chance you might be Pisces?

[cygnono]

If you're pretty and shapely, don't have to worry about no guys interested in you! :)

Even baby elephants will have takers :D

[Fatcharsiew]

I don’t think we need to have a heart to heart talk. It’s just a bang and go fb relationship. I think the moment I start to want to “talk”, he will bail. And no point really. He is banging other chicks too. And that’s the biggest reason why he is treating me as just one of many options. I’m fully self aware. I’m just here to rant and be upset. Lol. Thanks for reading.

you allow him to bang other chicks? not an exclusive fb?

[Dumboy]

Respect for a person's effort to make time to meet up is a basic etiquette imo.

There are so many cocks in the sea for you to take your pick, so why settle less for a prick?

Take your time to choose and tease. :p

[DJPY]

No I’m not looking for a bf or husband in him. Lol. That’s madness. I’m saying that he treats me like I’m an option. All our meetups are super last minute and it’s always him asking me, but when I initiate; he’s never available.

I am not gonna sugarcoat it…he is not treating u like an option, u are an option. He has a list of fb and I am sure u are not at the top. I used to be a player when I was much younger, that’s how the game is played, sorry to say.

[poi123]

Even it’s just a FB r/s, i still want it a 1 to 1 r/s.. Once either one of the party loses the interest, its time to move on no matter what qualities the FB has..

There are still many trees in the forest. Move on and find a new one, be decisive since u even knows that he has some other chicks out there.

[shawnanderson]

Lol I know I’ll probably get some offers here. It’s also why I’m here anyways.

Many bros here Gian liao. Please put me in your queue number!

[linda tan]

Ok lah. I’m not AngelaBaby, looks are always subjective anyway :)

If u r unhappy,move on..no point to continue,sad to say.

[BackstageBambi]

Where do you guys normally go when he initiated? Hotel only? Any pre-hotel arrangements e.g. meal and movie, etc.?

And where do you usually wants to go with him when you initiated it? Perhaps its somewhere that he doesn't like / wants to go? Or the time is always not right for him?

We don’t date. We meet up for sex only.

[BackstageBambi]

andy low has a list of the fb/fwb on hand

A is a 9, B an 8, and C a 7

one saturday, andy low msg A, B and C "ai sio gan mai?"

A and B nv reply, C reply ok so andy low meetup with C for a sexxion

another saturday, andy low did the same thing

C reply ok and andy low made plans to meetup, but last minute A reply can meet so andy low decided to plane C because he can fuck A who is higher on his list

:o:o


Thanks for this analogy. It is a good one.

[BackstageBambi]

Memories of the fish
Any chance you might be Pisces?

Hi. Nope I’m not Pisces.

[BackstageBambi]

you allow him to bang other chicks? not an exclusive fb?

Lol how am I supposed to tell him not to bang other chicks. Come on.

[BackstageBambi]

Respect for a person's effort to make time to meet up is a basic etiquette imo.

There are so many cocks in the sea for you to take your pick, so why settle less for a prick?

Take your time to choose and tease. :p

I agree. Thanks :)

[BackstageBambi]

I am not gonna sugarcoat it…he is not treating u like an option, u are an option. He has a list of fb and I am sure u are not at the top. I used to be a player when I was much younger, that’s how the game is played, sorry to say.

I totally get that. And I am aware that’s the case for me. Still hurts in a sense. I’m sure there is a certain amount of off-the-bed PR that should be done in between fucks to keep the arrangement going. But I feel like I’m just being totally taken for granted. Treated like invisible when not required.

[BackstageBambi]

Even it’s just a FB r/s, i still want it a 1 to 1 r/s.. Once either one of the party loses the interest, its time to move on no matter what qualities the FB has..

There are still many trees in the forest. Move on and find a new one, be decisive since u even knows that he has some other chicks out there.

Thanks and yes I’m trying to do that. It’s a bit tough for me. Maybe due to the length of the fb relationship and familiarity. But I will do it.

[BackstageBambi]

If u r unhappy,move on..no point to continue,sad to say.

Thanks for your reply sis. :)

[ceeko]

Well, bonk buds are when there's mutually convenient time/place

However I draw the line at when there's already a scheduled bonk and one side ghosts for no reason (Even more so if a room is booked). At the very least apologize or "compensate" somehow with another booking.

At most don't contact anymore.

But yes he wants u when he's horny but doesn't want when u are wet, that unfortunately cannot be avoided nor is there a simple solution. He's got options definitely, I bet u have too. Maybe just scroll through your bonk list and see which dick is hard when you're wet?

[Piledriver]

I don’t think we need to have a heart to heart talk. It’s just a bang and go fb relationship. I think the moment I start to want to “talk”, he will bail. And no point really. He is banging other chicks too. And that’s the biggest reason why he is treating me as just one of many options. I’m fully self aware. I’m just here to rant and be upset. Lol. Thanks for reading.

There you go. You said it yourself ;)

Its a typical FB thingy. Just bang and fuck off.

But I understand that some women will get too emotionally attached, and end up falling for the guy. And once that happens, its difficult for the lady to let go.

Even more so if the sex is too good. I used to have a FB where I like to blind fold and tie her up, and then play the sex games you see in 50 shades of grey. She kinda got so addicted to it. I had unleashed the little slut in her. LOL. She has since gotten married, so we parted.

Since you are fully aware of whats going on, then you should just accept the consequences. Nobody force you into it. You can always come into this forum and continue your rants :D

[donut88]

I speak from experience, dear.

Women thinks very differently from man. FB never meant to last because women craves for emotional attention, while men doesn't value much of it.

U wan sex, time and emotional attention from the man.
The man wan sex, sex, sex and abit of time and almost zero emotional attention.

That's the true, dear.

It's difficult to find a woman who needs exactly the same as the man. Its not impossible but one in million chance.

U will face multiple times thinking whether u wan to move on. So yeah, FB is never meant to last.



Current FB loves power play in the bedroom. Loves calling me his slut, while I’m happy to please him 100% in bed within a daddy / kitten kink; he’s starting to treat me literally like a slut at his beck and call in real life too. As in, when I try to initiate a meetup, he is never available, yet he doesn’t try to reschedule either. It’s just dead end. Until the next time he decides to be all enthusiastic because he wants pussy. This leaves me feeling annoyed and upset and yet I continue to meet him after everything’s said and done.

Do you folks (guys and ladies) have FBs like that?

And what do you do to handle it?

[Fatcharsiew]

Lol how am I supposed to tell him not to bang other chicks. Come on.

then you allow yourself to become an option to him. for me, it's a 1-to-1 rs even if she's just a fb.

[TuttiFruitti]

Lol how am I supposed to tell him not to bang other chicks. Come on.

Maybe you could share how did you get to know him? How long has it been in a fb relationship already?

[NoIdea]

I don’t think we need to have a heart to heart talk. It’s just a bang and go fb relationship. I think the moment I start to want to “talk”, he will bail. And no point really. He is banging other chicks too. And that’s the biggest reason why he is treating me as just one of many options. I’m fully self aware. I’m just here to rant and be upset. Lol. Thanks for reading.

You have to be honest with yourself; do you like him or are you feeling your self-worth being attacked due to his disrespect?

What do you have to lose if he bails? Do you really care that much if he disappears from your life?

If you do care, then why?

Ultimately, if you have questioned yourself from different angles and find that the answer is yes, you have somewhat fallen for this guy, be it out of true love or fear of loss, then my suggestion is to be brave and break it off.

Break off the FB relationship, not his cock ah.

Cos short pain always better than long pain.

[Kovovo]

Is the vacancy still open?

[DJPY]

My own rule of thumb, other than we are in an exclusive relationships. For my flings and fb..I dun fuck any of them more than 3x. No matter what the girls can claim, they always wanted more. I dun like those conversations in bed that starts with …’ so, what are we now?’ Never ends well…

[NiceNClean]

I don’t think we need to have a heart to heart talk. It’s just a bang and go fb relationship. I think the moment I start to want to “talk”, he will bail. And no point really. He is banging other chicks too. And that’s the biggest reason why he is treating me as just one of many options. I’m fully self aware. I’m just here to rant and be upset. Lol. Thanks for reading.

I guess this circles back to you both being FBs instead of FWBs. Personally, I prefer the latter as it humanises your partners. For FBs, I’ve found it’s very easy to see your partners as walking onaholes/vibrators, which I feel is too transactional to really be sustainable.

As with any arrangement, setting expectations and drawing lines are key to making things work long term. But I’ve learned that not everybody has that sort of macro outlook; many just wanna fuck and fuck off 😂

[cherrylover]

To TS,

Imho, I do not think your FB is worth your attention. cocks are everywhere. If he do not treasure you, find another. Females finding fb is an easier process. Srsly, time to switch.

My 2cents worth, fb rs should be a little exclusive and happy. Not like how he is treating you. I treat my fbs with respect. And if they ask/call, i will always try to be there. Not ghosting

[Neoguri]

Current FB loves power play in the bedroom.
....
And what do you do to handle it?

If he is only a FB to you, you should correct your mindset to treat him as a FB only.
I think it is wrong of him for the lack of communication and show of concern. It is my believe that even FB relationships needs some emotional connection too. - at least that's the way I like it.

I suggests you either get over and forget about him, or just take his call to ons at your own terms/timing.
Whatever you decide to do, don't get yourself hurt with this emotional roller-coaster.

There are lots of people here wanting to be your FB. - so easy for a woman.
I am sure you had a lot of PM. Just chat and find one who clicks with you. :)

[Destin6wU]

Back then my FB/FWB all 1-1 never had an option of other women until we cut each other off. So I can put effort on bed and on her emotional needs. Risky, cause at the end won't be gf/wife. Lol.

Importantly, still gotta respect each other effort and time. ghosting is one bad habit people usually have. Respect you sis, still can pull out for so long.

Since everyone in the Q, I'll join in too. Lol.. Have a good week ahead everybody

[linda tan]

Thanks for your reply sis. :)

Sorry..i m a guy..juz use tis nick out for fun many years ago,my apoligies

[sexshoot]

People nowadays tend to mix up FB, fwb and ONS. I had 1 FB whom we were in contact for 3 years plus, stopped last year because she was getting into a serious relationship. Met up once every week to chit chat and daily messaging. Life was good.

Having said this, I am now open for FB and chat buddies. Let's support each other in this covid pandemic

[SiliconVibrator]

Basic respect is 2 way. Hes taking it for granted n its time to let go. Y subject yourself to tis kind of disrespect? Im sureu will find more gentlemen here. :D

[pingtimeout]

FB or not, basic human respect is important still. I'm sure you can find a FB who will know how to treat you proper. :)

[ConnerDoReMe]

has FB definitely better than w/o FB... :p

[bfreemen]

respect its important . move on .

there are so many friendly men in this group .

may be its time to update your tinder account ?

[ceeko]

Move on.... there are literally hundreds of cocks auditioning for any female's FB partner anytime.

If you "feel" something, its not FB anymore.

[Lucifer666]

has FB definitely better than w/o FB... :p

Agreed for a male prospective….. 🤣
As for female, getting a male Fuck Buddy is an easy task. But the issue will be when the female develops emotional feeling for the male… that is where the trouble start.

[donut88]

My own rule of thumb, other than we are in an exclusive relationships. For my flings and fb..I dun fuck any of them more than 3x. No matter what the girls can claim, they always wanted more. I dun like those conversations in bed that starts with …’ so, what are we now?’ Never ends well…

Been through it. It's too emotional draining

In K drama, the Koreans like to use this phrase "Know your place" on someone junior or younger. The meaning is everyone must know his/her position in an environment.

Don't overstep your position

So in FB relationship, both parties must know his/her place. FB is FB. Not gf/bf aiming for marriage or serious relationship

[Shadow_warrior]

Current FB loves power play in the bedroom. Loves calling me his slut, while I’m happy to please him 100% in bed within a daddy / kitten kink; he’s starting to treat me literally like a slut at his beck and call in real life too. As in, when I try to initiate a meetup, he is never available, yet he doesn’t try to reschedule either. It’s just dead end. Until the next time he decides to be all enthusiastic because he wants pussy. This leaves me feeling annoyed and upset and yet I continue to meet him after everything’s said and done.

Do you folks (guys and ladies) have FBs like that?

And what do you do to handle it?

seems he just wants sex

but isn't that what a FB is?

maybe you are feeling romantic towards him and he is just having lust for you

for my FBs I will tell them to keep it light, and if I feel they cannot or have gotton too involved, I will pull the brakes.

No point hurting the other person.

But as much as I try to cushion things, sometimes, its inevitable and I have lost friends that I slept with, even though we said we would be okay with it

[SammyLee88]

i tend to have sugarbook.live friend like this too, we even to love to love talk and sex talk to each other

[SammyLee88]

Agreed for a male prospective….. 🤣
As for female, getting a male Fuck Buddy is an easy task. But the issue will be when the female develops emotional feeling for the male… that is where the trouble start.

as long as you treat the girl well, she would not make your life difficult

[SammyLee88]

every girl has different character, some girls do like this in order wish to grab your attention

[SammyLee88]

Lol how am I supposed to tell him not to bang other chicks. Come on.

propose to her, hope she will become your only one

[SammyLee88]

Lol I know I’ll probably get some offers here. It’s also why I’m here anyways.

perhaps some girls will give you some special offer

[llpatrick]

Thanks for this analogy. It is a good one.

If you are an option, why bother continuing? U only get your fix when his other options are not available.

Definitely someone out there can be equally/more charming and similarly good in bed, it's just asking and trying
When an ex partner wanted time, despite the bad situation just after CB, I find and make time.
Could be a short 20-30mins, quick sit & chat.. To getting down waiting a bonk, both parties should be able to request for it..

If u are only giving & not receiving what you want, find another, seriously.

Find any name you like, just name it here, you should be able to get a Queue.

[BackstageBambi]

Dear all, apologies for being MIA a couple of weeks.
Read through all your replies and wish to clarify a few points:

(1) I’m not romantically attracted to my fuck buddy at all. So I’m not interested in a relationship with him.

(2) I’m just pissed over the lack of respect. My ego hurts. Period.

We haven’t been in contact since the last time he blew me off and I’m not initiating contact either. So let it die off on its own as I’m not the kind who will put up drama of any sort. Still I appreciate all of you who wrote back. Have a great day. :)

[BackstageBambi]

If you are an option, why bother continuing? U only get your fix when his other options are not available.

Definitely someone out there can be equally/more charming and similarly good in bed, it's just asking and trying
When an ex partner wanted time, despite the bad situation just after CB, I find and make time.
Could be a short 20-30mins, quick sit & chat.. To getting down waiting a bonk, both parties should be able to request for it..

If u are only giving & not receiving what you want, find another, seriously.

Find any name you like, just name it here, you should be able to get a Queue.

Thanks. Your words hit the nail on the head.

[CyberRod]

Thanks. Your words hit the nail on the head.

I'm a guy and I used to initiate sex with my FB all the time. Until I feel pai seh. I also wish my former FBs initiate as I don't wish to feel just 1 sided. So sis, I feel you....

[Shadow_warrior]

I'm a guy and I used to initiate sex with my FB all the time. Until I feel pai seh. I also wish my former FBs initiate as I don't wish to feel just 1 sided. So sis, I feel you....

I gave up

from scouting and curating fun sex toys, to lots of cosplay uniforms, fun hotels, it was a soccer ball situation- kick me I move

Made me feel like a hard up beggar, so I moved on.

The FB has become just F- Friend.

[BackstageBambi]

I'm a guy and I used to initiate sex with my FB all the time. Until I feel pai seh. I also wish my former FBs initiate as I don't wish to feel just 1 sided. So sis, I feel you....

That’s sad. You prefer the lady to initiate sometimes too. I hardly initiate. When I do, my fb can’t make it and he just cuts me off there leaving me hanging. I’m bothered enough to start a thread on this lol.

[BackstageBambi]

I gave up

from scouting and curating fun sex toys, to lots of cosplay uniforms, fun hotels, it was a soccer ball situation- kick me I move

Made me feel like a hard up beggar, so I moved on.

The FB has become just F- Friend.

Am curious why do you invest in all those things. She likes them?

[TuttiFruitti]

That’s sad. You prefer the lady to initiate sometimes too. I hardly initiate. When I do, my fb can’t make it and he just cuts me off there leaving me hanging. I’m bothered enough to start a thread on this lol.

Most likely you're both not keen in chatting about each other's kinks e.g. 3some, tour together, couple swaps, petting in cinemas, doing it in secluded places, etc. Very boring fb relationships... Both already very bored with each other already. No new stuff... just go hotel to fxxk. Not doing any other new things together. Tired of each other liao...

[Shadow_warrior]

Am curious why do you invest in all those things. She likes them?

well no one wants to seem like a beggar and after some time, there is a hope to spice things up instead of looking for another person

she's wasn't adverse to them, was game, but after it was done, it was just put away, we never reused any cosplay attire or sex toy again

[CyberRod]

That’s sad. You prefer the lady to initiate sometimes too. I hardly initiate. When I do, my fb can’t make it and he just cuts me off there leaving me hanging. I’m bothered enough to start a thread on this lol.

I usually find time to make it if my (ex)FB ask. Cos, I feel that it's not nice rejecting them. If I really cannot make it, I'll make it up with them on other days. I want them to know that they are still wanted and still attractive. :cool:

[CyberRod]

I gave up

from scouting and curating fun sex toys, to lots of cosplay uniforms, fun hotels, it was a soccer ball situation- kick me I move

Made me feel like a hard up beggar, so I moved on.

The FB has become just F- Friend.

Yes... I totally feel you bro. Sex is always a 2 way traffic.

[WiseGuy]

Sex is always a 2 way traffic.

Indeed bro :)

[Tysondragon]

Most likely you're both not keen in chatting about each other's kinks e.g. 3some, tour together, couple swaps, petting in cinemas, doing it in secluded places, etc. Very boring fb relationships... Both already very bored with each other already. No new stuff... just go hotel to fxxk. Not doing any other new things together. Tired of each other liao...

Agree. Fb is meant to fulfill both needs n fetish probably. Is fun to have adventurous fb n noe each position like what u shared bro.

[Tysondragon]

To TS,

Imho, I do not think your FB is worth your attention. cocks are everywhere. If he do not treasure you, find another. Females finding fb is an easier process. Srsly, time to switch.

My 2cents worth, fb rs should be a little exclusive and happy. Not like how he is treating you. I treat my fbs with respect. And if they ask/call, i will always try to be there. Not ghosting

Agree sis cherry..is a mutual respect even for fbs. Then both will enjoy d intimacy n fun

[Tysondragon]

No I’m not looking for a bf or husband in him. Lol. That’s madness. I’m saying that he treats me like I’m an option. All our meetups are super last minute and it’s always him asking me, but when I initiate; he’s never available.

Sis can feel u..maybe sometime u should reject him when last min invitation
Human being always have a weakness of taking for granted.perhaps i guess probably u never reject him b4 , that's why dis happen..anyway like many said just find another fb..is easier job for lady than guy

[H4rdOn]

I don't get it though, how y'all brush upon the topic of asking to be FBs with the other party or sense if they are interested in being FBs?

[alea]

TS, sorry to hear that your fb has been taking you for granted. Sounds like there’s power play here. He probable knows he’s a good catch and thus is able to have that take-it-or-leave-it attitude. No point feeding his ego anymore.

Time to move on and find another fb that meets your needs. Am sure you will :)

[maomao34]

Current FB loves power play in the bedroom. Loves calling me his slut, while I’m happy to please him 100% in bed within a daddy / kitten kink; he’s starting to treat me literally like a slut at his beck and call in real life too. As in, when I try to initiate a meetup, he is never available, yet he doesn’t try to reschedule either. It’s just dead end. Until the next time he decides to be all enthusiastic because he wants pussy. This leaves me feeling annoyed and upset and yet I continue to meet him after everything’s said and done.

Do you folks (guys and ladies) have FBs like that?

And what do you do to handle it?
If its FBs you are looking for then get involve emotionally... If you want a serious relationship then this Uncle is not for you as he's a player. And the truth is... Players will lie without blinking that they LOVE you, emo yr feelings but thats when they want yr pussy. After getting what they want, kick you aside until they miss your sex or they cant get it anywhere else, they will look for you again. You are alike a sex doll to satisfy their needs sexually. Thats what FB is all about... Satisfy each other needs sexually and nothing emotionally. Thats my view... Hope it helps...

[llpatrick]

Thanks. Your words hit the nail on the head.

Hope it can help you get out of your dilemma.

Dont worry, you will get your fix.

Me also looking for a fix

[georgie1994]

Current FB loves power play in the bedroom. Loves calling me his slut, while I’m happy to please him 100% in bed within a daddy / kitten kink; he’s starting to treat me literally like a slut at his beck and call in real life too. As in, when I try to initiate a meetup, he is never available, yet he doesn’t try to reschedule either. It’s just dead end. Until the next time he decides to be all enthusiastic because he wants pussy. This leaves me feeling annoyed and upset and yet I continue to meet him after everything’s said and done.

Do you folks (guys and ladies) have FBs like that?

And what do you do to handle it?

i used to have one too, that time during young time that we meet in sugarbook.live

[georgie1994]

I don't get it though, how y'all brush upon the topic of asking to be FBs with the other party or sense if they are interested in being FBs?

can straight away asked, many people is opened

[georgie1994]

as long as you treat the girl well, she would not make your life difficult

this really important, if not, girl is a real headache

[georgie1994]

Thanks for your reply.
Yes I’m thinking hard to let go now.
Anyway it’s been a year, so I think it’s long past its days of glory.
I’m just disappointed at the lack of basic respect in the form of communication which I think should be the basis of any human to human interaction.
:)

just let it go and start your new life

[georgie1994]

I’m sad to say he does have a certain charm. Plus yes he’s great in bed. Ultimately though I’m a logical person who will not continue with this.

boy who is great in bed will cause many suspicious in the girl

[BackstageBambi]

Got played out again for the third and final time. I finally gathered the courage to dump him.

Last Thursday we planned to meet. He initiated it via text.

So after the usual sexting to ramp up the feels. We arranged to meet that night at 9plus.

About 2 hours before meet up he suddenly said that he had a last minute meeting at 9pm and an early event the following morning. So to postpone it to another day.

I didn’t know how to react because it was like, the third time he’s doing this to me. And I’m just damn disappointed. Some time ago I got to know that he’s fucking another chick (we were discussing whether we had other partners; again it was something he brought up, not me).

So I asked him was it because the other chick made herself available that evening lol. Obviously he said no.

I’m drained... I said it’s ok. I’m out of here. Proceeded to delete him off my life...

For those who think I have romantic feelings for him. Let me just clarify for the final time that I do not like him that way.

It’s just the setting me up for constant disappointment, and taking me for granted factors...

Even if the work meeting was genuine, I cannot help but overthink. Should have just kept the topic about fucking other people out of bounds.

He apologised but it was just beyond repair at that stage.

So this is it.

He’s made his choice; and I’ve made mine.

:)

[larue]

Wonderful, taking (or retaking, whatever the case may be) control.

I’d suggest not overthinking things but your personality probably compels you. How unfortunate.

[skihon]

Got played out again for the third and final time. I finally gathered the courage to dump him.

Last Thursday we planned to meet. He initiated it via text.

So after the usual sexting to ramp up the feels. We arranged to meet that night at 9plus.

About 2 hours before meet up he suddenly said that he had a last minute meeting at 9pm and an early event the following morning. So to postpone it to another day.

I didn’t know how to react because it was like, the third time he’s doing this to me. And I’m just damn disappointed. Some time ago I got to know that he’s fucking another chick (we were discussing whether we had other partners; again it was something he brought up, not me).

So I asked him was it because the other chick made herself available that evening lol. Obviously he said no.

I’m drained... I said it’s ok. I’m out of here. Proceeded to delete him off my life...

For those who think I have romantic feelings for him. Let me just clarify for the final time that I do not like him that way.

It’s just the setting me up for constant disappointment, and taking me for granted factors...

Even if the work meeting was genuine, I cannot help but overthink. Should have just kept the topic about fucking other people out of bounds.

He apologised but it was just beyond repair at that stage.

So this is it.

He’s made his choice; and I’ve made mine.

:)

I believe the next guy will make you happy. Just stay positive

[Shadow_warrior]

I didn’t know how to react because it was like, the third time he’s doing this to me. And I’m just damn disappointed. Some time ago I got to know that he’s fucking another chick (we were discussing whether we had other partners; again it was something he brought up, not me).
So I asked him was it because the other chick made herself available that evening lol. Obviously he said no.
I’m drained... I said it’s ok. I’m out of here. Proceeded to delete him off my life...
For those who think I have romantic feelings for him. Let me just clarify for the final time that I do not like him that way.
It’s just the setting me up for constant disappointment, and taking me for granted factors...
Even if the work meeting was genuine, I cannot help but overthink. Should have just kept the topic about fucking other people out of bounds.
:)

you sound young, probably are. So let me tell you as a much older man who has been through many of the like- being on both sides, the one dumping and the one being dumped, my 2 cents. Feel free to ignore if years down the road, you feel its is not, was not you.

You like him, you have feelings for him, you are romantic about him. Maybe you want to tell yourself that you don't- young people face. When you are older, face is not so important, truth is. If you didn't you wouldn't even open a thread and talk about it for a decent period of time.

The light is you are moving forward, and do not move back. Many do.

The truth in relationships of any kind is, the power of the relationship lies in the hands of who cares LESS.

Good luck with your future endeavours.

[BackstageBambi]

Wonderful, taking (or retaking, whatever the case may be) control.

I’d suggest not overthinking things but your personality probably compels you. How unfortunate.

I cannot help it; when he said he’s got another chick; that’s the first thing that came to my mind. That she’s a better option and he’s replaced me. If not for that knowledge I’d swallow the last minute meeting excuse and be none the wiser. Which is good but eventually scenario would shift anyway

[BackstageBambi]

I believe the next guy will make you happy. Just stay positive

Thank you. I hope so too.

[DJPY]

Got played out again for the third and final time. I finally gathered the courage to dump him.

Last Thursday we planned to meet. He initiated it via text.

So after the usual sexting to ramp up the feels. We arranged to meet that night at 9plus.

About 2 hours before meet up he suddenly said that he had a last minute meeting at 9pm and an early event the following morning. So to postpone it to another day.

I didn’t know how to react because it was like, the third time he’s doing this to me. And I’m just damn disappointed. Some time ago I got to know that he’s fucking another chick (we were discussing whether we had other partners; again it was something he brought up, not me).

So I asked him was it because the other chick made herself available that evening lol. Obviously he said no.

I’m drained... I said it’s ok. I’m out of here. Proceeded to delete him off my life...

For those who think I have romantic feelings for him. Let me just clarify for the final time that I do not like him that way.

It’s just the setting me up for constant disappointment, and taking me for granted factors...

Even if the work meeting was genuine, I cannot help but overthink. Should have just kept the topic about fucking other people out of bounds.

He apologised but it was just beyond repair at that stage.

So this is it.

He’s made his choice; and I’ve made mine.

:)

No feelings no disappointment…think about that.

[BackstageBambi]

you sound young, probably are. So let me tell you as a much older man who has been through many of the like- being on both sides, the one dumping and the one being dumped, my 2 cents. Feel free to ignore if years down the road, you feel its is not, was not you.

You like him, you have feelings for him, you are romantic about him. Maybe you want to tell yourself that you don't- young people face. When you are older, face is not so important, truth is. If you didn't you wouldn't even open a thread and talk about it for a decent period of time.

The light is you are moving forward, and do not move back. Many do.

The truth in relationships of any kind is, the power of the relationship lies in the hands of who cares LESS.

Good luck with your future endeavours.

I’m not that young.

Erm... I have just stated again, that I do not carry any romantic feelings for this guy, I’m not sure why anyone would impose their ideas that I do. Thanks for your reply though.

:)

[skihon]

Thank you. I hope so too.

Sure will, there are guys sure willing to be your FB. All the best. Smile

[BackstageBambi]

No feelings no disappointment…think about that.

In the absence of romantic feelings, do you not think that humans would have other forms of expectations that are from a non romantic place as well?

[DJPY]

In the absence of romantic feelings, do you not think that humans would have other forms of expectations that are from a non romantic place as well?

May not be purely romantic feelings, but only positive feelings warrant disappointments when it’s not met or unsatisfied. But good to move on from something toxic, you will do just fine…

[Piledriver]

Got played out again for the third and final time. I finally gathered the courage to dump him.

For those who think I have romantic feelings for him. Let me just clarify for the final time that I do not like him that way.

It’s just the setting me up for constant disappointment, and taking me for granted factors...

Even if the work meeting was genuine, I cannot help but overthink. Should have just kept the topic about fucking other people out of bounds.

He apologised but it was just beyond repair at that stage.

So this is it.

He’s made his choice; and I’ve made mine.

:)

I hope this is the last time you are coming in here to rant :D

You should have made this choice long ago. But better late than never. Go ahead and pop a champagne to celebrate.

Close this door and lock it. There are many other doors waiting for you to open :cool:

[TuttiFruitti]

In the absence of romantic feelings, do you not think that humans would have other forms of expectations that are from a non romantic place as well?

My gf required me to wait for a few weeks after her period came before I can book a decent hotel to spend a night with her. She said to take this time to build our relationship so that the sex would be more enjoyable. :rolleyes:

She said after the 1st time at the decent hotel, we could do it any other time and anywhere with her. She said romantic feelings must be there to make it more enjoyable.

I think she is very patient and right about having romantic feelings first before our first session.

[Piledriver]

My gf required me to wait for a few weeks after her period came before I can book a decent hotel to spend a night with her. She said to take this time to build our relationship so that the sex would be more enjoyable. :rolleyes:

She said after the 1st time at the decent hotel, we could do it any other time and anywhere with her. She said romantic feelings must be there to make it more enjoyable.

I think she is very patient and right about having romantic feelings first before our first session.

So are you saying that there wasn't any romantic feelings when you got together with your gf?

You don't necessarily need romance for the sex to happen. But you do need sexual attraction to fire up the feelings of lust for you and the woman.

In layman's term, sex will come easy for you if you know how to make your woman horny.

[TuttiFruitti]

So are you saying that there wasn't any romantic feelings when you got together with your gf?

You don't necessarily need romance for the sex to happen. But you do need sexual attraction to fire up the feelings of lust for you and the woman.

In layman's term, sex will come easy for you if you know how to make your woman horny.

We met thru Tinder and so there wasn't any romance to start with. But 1st meetup we already cuddling and kissing in the cinema (watched 007 but only paid attention to the first and last part where 007 died. The rest of the time were mostly frenching, petting, etc).

So we had that mutual sexual attraction I guess.

I know how to make woman horny so sex will come naturally at the right place and time (i.e. our coming staycaytion this week).

Btw, I'm not young anymore... late 40s already...

[geelang]

This other guy is weak leh.
Can’t even man up. Squirm away last minute like a wuss.
Also don’t seem to be able to last in bed.
Surely he wasn’t stupid enuff to schedule his FBs at the same time. Or maybe he booked the place and invited all his FB but chose only the one he craved the most since he can only last 1 round?
If he was a stud, I think he would invite for a 3some and fire away!

Wooo

[slackin80]

This whole post is painful to read.
Not in a painful bad cringey way.
Just the whole situation for the TS.

[Juliest]

I cannot help it; when he said he’s got another chick; that’s the first thing that came to my mind. That she’s a better option and he’s replaced me. If not for that knowledge I’d swallow the last minute meeting excuse and be none the wiser. Which is good but eventually scenario would shift anyway

Been a silent reader for a while now and decided to input some of my thoughts here, hope you don’t mind.

It’s okay to overthink. We are human after all and he must have said something to have led you to overthink certain issues in this arrangement. I believe mutual respect is a given when one is in this said arrangement and when it’s not fulfilled, this is where things goes south.

While you may or may not have condone his action, i urged you to never compare yourself to his other side chick. You’re a human being, not his trophy and there’s no need to compare. You are special and unique in your own way and if he can’t see that, it’s his loss and your gain. Moreover if his side chick manages to snatch him away from you, he’s better off gone anyway.

Lastly, never feel that you’re not enough. You’re enough, you’re enough a thousand times over. Remember that. :)

P.S. Not every guy can afford expensive items. Food For Thought. ;)

[spaman7]

In the absence of romantic feelings, do you not think that humans would have other forms of expectations that are from a non romantic place as well?

Sure will have. All the best to your next endeavour if there is any.

[skihon]

May not be purely romantic feelings, but only positive feelings warrant disappointments when it’s not met or unsatisfied. But good to move on from something toxic, you will do just fine…

I agree with bro, time to close this door and open other doors. How i wish i have a fb but then again. I dont really have time and the balls to get 1. All in my dream only.

[Zeith]

I agree with bro, time to close this door and open other doors. How i wish i have a fb but then again. I dont really have time and the balls to get 1. All in my dream only.

+11 for exchange

[dongdongchiang]

In the absence of romantic feelings, do you not think that humans would have other forms of expectations that are from a non romantic place as well?

Hmmm while others might think that you have feelings, will you consider him as part of your "possession"?

[dongdongchiang]

I agree with bro, time to close this door and open other doors. How i wish i have a fb but then again. I dont really have time and the balls to get 1. All in my dream only.

Haha and what's stopping you man?

[skihon]

Haha and what's stopping you man?

No balls to go for it and no lady luck haha

[Juliest]

I cannot help it; when he said he’s got another chick; that’s the first thing that came to my mind. That she’s a better option and he’s replaced me. If not for that knowledge I’d swallow the last minute meeting excuse and be none the wiser. Which is good but eventually scenario would shift anyway

Been a silent reader for a while now. Giving my perspective into this issue, hope you won’t mind.

It’s okay to overthink. We’re all human after all. He might have said something that led you to overthink certain issues but mutual respect towards each other in this said arrangement is vital.

While you may or may not have condone his actions, i urged you not to compare yourself with his side chick as there’s nothing to compare. You are special and unique in your own way, if he can’t see that, it’s his loss and your gain. Moreover, if his side chick managed to “steal” him away from you, he’s better off gone anyway.

Lastly, never ever feel that you’re not enough. You’re enough. You’re enough a thousand times over. Remember that. :)

P.S. Not every guy can afford expensive items. ;) Food For Thought.

[dongdongchiang]

No balls to go for it and no lady luck haha

Hahahah lady luck aside, why no balls? Lol

Like what's the hesitation?

[skihon]

Hahahah lady luck aside, why no balls? Lol

Like what's the hesitation?

Didnt encounter any haha.. scare thats why no balls

[dongdongchiang]

Didnt encounter any haha.. scare thats why no balls

Have you considered SB? Lol

[SammyLee88]

my SB there have many people share their experiences too then we chit chat

[SammyLee88]

Have you considered SB? Lol

yes i do considered SB especially during this pandemic where we can stay at home only

[SammyLee88]

Hahahah lady luck aside, why no balls? Lol

Like what's the hesitation?

his balls is goals, cannot success he means

[SammyLee88]

Hope it can help you get out of your dilemma.

Dont worry, you will get your fix.

Me also looking for a fix

yes time will cure all the things

[skihon]

Have you considered SB? Lol

Sex buddy?

[dongdongchiang]

yes i do considered SB especially during this pandemic where we can stay at home only

Hahha and what held u back man?

Hahaha no goals, but have money support SB why not? I think those SB websites you can ask them out for dinner and see how it goes. Maybe eventually can arrange something.

[dongdongchiang]

Sex buddy?

Sugar Baby bro. Sex Buddy is FB.

[skihon]

Sugar Baby bro. Sex Buddy is FB.

Oh.. nah..

[Juliest]

I cannot help it; when he said he’s got another chick; that’s the first thing that came to my mind. That she’s a better option and he’s replaced me. If not for that knowledge I’d swallow the last minute meeting excuse and be none the wiser. Which is good but eventually scenario would shift anyway

Been a silent reader for a while and would like to include my two cents of it but i assume the seniors in this forums has a better view in this situation.


It’s okay to overthink. We’re human after all. He must have said something to have led you to overthink certain issues but mutual respect between each other in this said arrangement is vital.

While you may or may not have condone his actions, i urge you not to compare yourself with his side chick as there’s nothing to compare. You’re special and unique in your own way. And if he can’t see that, It’s his loss and your gain. Moreover, if his side chick can “steal” him away from you, he’s better off gone.

Lastly, never ever feel that you’re not enough. You’re enough. You’re enough a thousand times over. Remember that :)

P.S. Not every guy can afford expensive items ;) Food for thought.

[Shadow_warrior]

Been a silent reader for a while and would like to include my two cents of it but i assume the seniors in this forums has a better view in this situation.


It’s okay to overthink. We’re human after all. He must have said something to have led you to overthink certain issues but mutual respect between each other in this said arrangement is vital.

While you may or may not have condone his actions, i urge you not to compare yourself with his side chick as there’s nothing to compare. You’re special and unique in your own way. And if he can’t see that, It’s his loss and your gain. Moreover, if his side chick can “steal” him away from you, he’s better off gone.

Lastly, never ever feel that you’re not enough. You’re enough. You’re enough a thousand times over. Remember that :)

P.S. Not every guy can afford expensive items ;) Food for thought.

Been a silent reader for a while now. Giving my perspective into this issue, hope you won’t mind.

It’s okay to overthink. We’re all human after all. He might have said something that led you to overthink certain issues but mutual respect towards each other in this said arrangement is vital.

While you may or may not have condone his actions, i urged you not to compare yourself with his side chick as there’s nothing to compare. You are special and unique in your own way, if he can’t see that, it’s his loss and your gain. Moreover, if his side chick managed to “steal” him away from you, he’s better off gone anyway.

Lastly, never ever feel that you’re not enough. You’re enough. You’re enough a thousand times over. Remember that. :)

P.S. Not every guy can afford expensive items. ;) Food For Thought.


Been a silent reader for a while now and decided to input some of my thoughts here, hope you don’t mind.

It’s okay to overthink. We are human after all and he must have said something to have led you to overthink certain issues in this arrangement. I believe mutual respect is a given when one is in this said arrangement and when it’s not fulfilled, this is where things goes south.

While you may or may not have condone his action, i urged you to never compare yourself to his other side chick. You’re a human being, not his trophy and there’s no need to compare. You are special and unique in your own way and if he can’t see that, it’s his loss and your gain. Moreover if his side chick manages to snatch him away from you, he’s better off gone anyway.

Lastly, never feel that you’re not enough. You’re enough, you’re enough a thousand times over. Remember that. :)

P.S. Not every guy can afford expensive items. Food For Thought. ;)

Oi, silent reader. You not silent leh....

You only have 6 post, and 3 post is the same, same post on page 8 twice and you just reposted again today. Changing the blue smiling face position got difference meh?

Lol...okay will read your silent post properly. No worries

[Juliest]

Oi, silent reader. You not silent leh....

You only have 6 post, and 3 post is the same, same post on page 8 twice and you just reposted again today. Changing the blue smiling face position got difference meh?

Lol...okay will read your silent post properly. No worries

My apologies, for the multiple post. When i posted it, it says that the moderater needs to moderate it therefore it wasn't on the post as i can't see it in the forum hence i thought it wasn't posted. So i tried 2 more times and the final one got posted.

I haven't actively post things here and i'm sorry if i screwed up a little.

[Shadow_warrior]

My apologies, for the multiple post. When i posted it, it says that the moderater needs to moderate it therefore it wasn't on the post as i can't see it in the forum hence i thought it wasn't posted. So i tried 2 more times and the final one got posted.

I haven't actively post things here and i'm sorry if i screwed up a little.

heh heh. just making fun of ya, no worries yeah? its the weekend TGIF

[Juliest]

heh heh. just making fun of ya, no worries yeah? its the weekend TGIF

Oh god ! You got me there ! hahaha XD

No hard feelings ! :D Have a great weekend ahead ! :D

[fdomme]

That’s sad. You prefer the lady to initiate sometimes too. I hardly initiate. When I do, my fb can’t make it and he just cuts me off there leaving me hanging. I’m bothered enough to start a thread on this lol.

Dont bother too much, u r good fb material and want to make fb more interactive and fun. U just get the wrong fb.
I take the queue number here also :D

[fdomme]

I cannot help it; when he said he’s got another chick; that’s the first thing that came to my mind. That she’s a better option and he’s replaced me. If not for that knowledge I’d swallow the last minute meeting excuse and be none the wiser. Which is good but eventually scenario would shift anyway

U have feeling for him, and lucky noe you moved on already. Better fb ahead , good luck and God bless

[Jamesdyson]

All the best!

[BackstageBambi]

Been a silent reader for a while and would like to include my two cents of it but i assume the seniors in this forums has a better view in this situation.


It’s okay to overthink. We’re human after all. He must have said something to have led you to overthink certain issues but mutual respect between each other in this said arrangement is vital.

While you may or may not have condone his actions, i urge you not to compare yourself with his side chick as there’s nothing to compare. You’re special and unique in your own way. And if he can’t see that, It’s his loss and your gain. Moreover, if his side chick can “steal” him away from you, he’s better off gone.

Lastly, never ever feel that you’re not enough. You’re enough. You’re enough a thousand times over. Remember that :)

P.S. Not every guy can afford expensive items ;) Food for thought.

Hi hi thank you for taking time to write this reply to encourage me!
I’m back after a hiatus of an entire year!
Aside to that: Hope all of you are doing great!!

:)

[Cochran]

Reminds me of. HAHAHA

Was just thinking about that in my mind, lol

[AllInObama]

When the updates starting again??

[dryar]

Very nice share. Wish to read more updates. :)

[AgentNumber2]

Story has ended??

[AllInObama]

Story has ended??

Maybe TS is on a short break?

[Dragonfish78]

Been a silent reader for a while and would like to include my two cents of it but i assume the seniors in this forums has a better view in this situation.


It’s okay to overthink. We’re human after all. He must have said something to have led you to overthink certain issues but mutual respect between each other in this said arrangement is vital.

While you may or may not have condone his actions, i urge you not to compare yourself with his side chick as there’s nothing to compare. You’re special and unique in your own way. And if he can’t see that, It’s his loss and your gain. Moreover, if his side chick can “steal” him away from you, he’s better off gone.

Lastly, never ever feel that you’re not enough. You’re enough. You’re enough a thousand times over. Remember that :)

P.S. Not every guy can afford expensive items ;) Food for thought.

Because man always thinking with ego then feeling

[AAdydy1122]

Everyone is created differently with their own strengths and weaknesses