Missed Signals

[newbie22]

Over the years, i have missed a number of signals. Some obvious, some not obvious. What are yours? Let's hear it. I'll start.

During my tertiary years, I am very close with a classmate of mine, lets call her Jane. Jane stayed near me and we both always went to school and went home together. As we both drive our parent's car, we will take turns to fetch each other.

Over the time in school, Jane and I, we became closer. We did many projects together and always hang out after school too. We played mahjong, we went drinking, you name it. We were the best of friends. So close, we watched porn together but did nothing sexual with each other.

After a while, we both have our girlfriend/boyfriend and that didnt stop our routine. We carried on our daily routine and remained extremely close. Unfortunately, I broke up with my girlfriend and I was devastated. Jane was always there for me to listen to me and gave me a comforting shoulder to cry on. She was my best friend.

During our final year, she was having issues with her boyfriend. She talked to me on how big a problem she was having. Soon after, she switched on porn and we were watching it. She told me "if I have a chance to cheat on my boyfriend, I will definitely do so.". And what did I reply her? Nothing. I just kept quiet. Not because I was afraid, but the stupid me was thinking "Wow you must be very sad.". Not a single moment did I tbink that she wants to fuck me. Worse of all, I only realise this was one of the MANY signs she gave me that she wants to be with me. Stupid me only realise it 10 years later... Sigh...

So whats yours? Let's hear them.

[ah rat]

Ts, can't turn back the time.
I too encounter this with my colleagues.
Went out with her to settle her problems.
After that I asked her where she want to go.
She replied hotel in a very soft manner.
That time I still ask her to repeat it.
Confirm the word hotel.
Pretend hear wrongly.
Hahaha! I sent her back home. :)

[daring70]

wah this one really missed opportunity

[bigmannow]

I’ve got a few also overseas and one or two came over sg also but now cannot travel cannot make amends Liao sian

[Piledriver]

Over the years, i have missed a number of signals. Some obvious, some not obvious. What are yours? Let's hear it. I'll start.

Over the time in school, Jane and I, we became closer. We did many projects together and always hang out after school too. We played mahjong, we went drinking, you name it. We were the best of friends. So close, we watched porn together but did nothing sexual with each other.

During our final year, she was having issues with her boyfriend. She talked to me on how big a problem she was having. Soon after, she switched on porn and we were watching it. She told me "if I have a chance to cheat on my boyfriend, I will definitely do so.". And what did I reply her? Nothing. I just kept quiet. Not because I was afraid, but the stupid me was thinking "Wow you must be very sad.". Not a single moment did I tbink that she wants to fuck me. Worse of all, I only realise this was one of the MANY signs she gave me that she wants to be with me. Stupid me only realise it 10 years later... Sigh...

So whats yours? Let's hear them.

Holy shit, bro. Sounds like you blew it big time. You could have fucked her like a porn star and watching porn at the same time. That will be so fun.

Okay, here's my own sharing. This happened a few years ago at my previous company. Went out with a fellow colleague to celebrate birthday together, because our birthdays are close to each other's.

She's divorced with a kid. Always wear very sexy when working. That day, we had a simple dinner at Astons'. After that, bought a cake, some candles and drinks and then went over to Esplanade park to celebrate. Had a good time chatting about all the fun times we had when young.

Then she asked to use the washroom. So we went over to Fullerton to use the ground floor toilet. I am done in 5 mins, and waited for her outside. Waited, and waited. What's taking her so long? Then she finally came out.

Then she asked, where shall we go next? I was a bit tired actually, so I said we go back. She replied, you don't want to go "somewhere else"? That was the cue. But I didn't pick it up. So I did the dumb thing and sent her back. Yeah, fuck me.

Then it hit me that she was probably taking her time to clean up her pussy in the toilet, so that she can let me to ravish it later at a hotel.

During that time, I was fucking around with some other FBs, so this loss was nothing to me. But still, I could have missed out on a mind-blowing blowjob or an amazing fucking session that ends with a creampie.

So Sammy bros, always remember this: can eat, don't waste!

[YakunBoy]

Mine was back in my Uni days.. like almost 10 years ago. Had a close female friend who was recently attached. She was easily the top 5 hotest babe in the uni with many guys chasing her. She was looking for someone to travel with her in Europe as she just did her exchange program there. I agreed and I met her at the airport in one of the EU country. The closest encounter was we shared a queen bed, and she agreed to let me massage her. On the 1st night, she subtly removed her bra and hid under her pillow. While massaging, i kinda groped her sideboob but there wasnt any reaction or resistence.. i was having a hardon and tried to rub on her ass.. but no reaction too. Thinking back, there was no resistence too. I should have pushed further and perhaps try touch her pussy area more.. but also I didnt want things to turn sour and spoil the rest of our trip if she doesnt want it. Kinda regreted that years later. Oh well.

[ILoveV]

This brought back so many memories. I have a puppy love to share. It could have been more than a one night puppy love.

It was my JC classmate. That time, the guys just got into uni and the girls already senior year in college due to us going army. So we had some sort of class reunion party at Zouk. Mambo night in those days. The prettiest girl in my class just broke up with her boyfriend, so she was a bit wild, drinking a lot. As we stayed close by, I sent her home. She was quite drunk so she was leaning against me in the lift, breathing hard against my neck. I was totally aroused then but the stupid young boy then just think of being a gentleman and nothing else. When we reach her floor, she hestitated at the lift landing. She just held my hand and led me up the staircase to the alternate floor staircase area. In those days, lifts dont stop at every floor and there are huge staircase landings on certain floors. She just put her lips onto mine and kissed me. Then she put her hands around my shoulder and said she had always liked me and whether I liked her. She was looking at me dreamily with her eyes half closed. The stupid me then said, yes I like you but you are drunk now. I not sure if you know what you are saying. Maybe when you are sober and really like me, then we can be together because I like you too. After that I sent her home like a good gentleman.

Thinking back, I was the biggest idiot. If I had just closed in and kissed her there and then, I don’t think it would be difficult to grope her sexy body and maybe even more. I regret big time now.

Worse is, I messaged her “I love you” the next day. No response ever from her again. haha

[newbie22]

Nice reading fellow bros encounters. I have another to share.

I was working in a company who had dealings overseas. So here came a supplier, lets name her Jenny, from china. She was smoking hot. There was a convention in Expo and my company took one of the booths. As the convention was for four days, our days working together started the week before with all the preparations. Even though the convention was in Expo, my company booked her to stay in panpac city hall. I was the designated driver for her.

During that two weeks together, I will always fetch Jenny to office and send her back to her hotel lobby. After two days in Singapore, we began to have breakfast together and then dinner after work. Throughout this entire time, I didn't think much of bringing things further because she was of a high management position in the overseas branch. To me she is like a "boss" although she is not stationed in Singapore.

After the entire convention which ended on a Sunday, she was scheduled to leave Singapore on Monday. Likewise, as with our routine and my job as a designated driver, I will be sending her home after a sumptuous company dinner for celebration as it was a very successful convention and since it was a celebration, everyone, including Jenny, drank a lot except me(for obvious reason,). Upon reaching her hotel lobby, she asked if I can send her to her hotel room, which was something new as I usually drop her off in the lobby. The stupid me then was thinking "oh she is drunk, I better send her up for safety". On the way to her room, she was holding my hand, swinging it around playfully like how you would when you are with your gf/bf. Upon reaching her room, she asked me if I would like to see her room. I said ok. We then proceed to her room and I saw the city view and was like "wow so nice.".

We then chatted for a while and after some time, I said "you must be tired, I shall not disturb you anymore.". she was like "oh you can stay. no problem I am not tired.". AND THE STUPID ME REPLIED "You have a plane to catch tomorrow. Its ok. you rest. See you tomorrow.". She then send me to the door, holding my hand, hug me. and as I left, SHE PULLED MY HAND AS IF SHE DOESN'T WANT ME TO LEAVE. and what did I do? I FUCKING LEFT~~~ Thinking back, knn how can I be so stupid... it was such an obvious invitation...

So the next day when I was sending her to the airport, we chatted like nothing happened, well actually nothing happened......... but yea... before leaving, she gave me a gift. its was in something like a gift box, those hard cover type and told me I can only open it when I am alone. She gave me a hug, a kiss on the cheek and went into the airport.

I was so curious about the gift i opened it immediately when I was in the car. It was her underwear with some stain at her pussy area. I was fucking shock. I texted her and asked what does this mean? she said I missed a golden opportunity last night and she had to diy to satisfy her urge. ask me not to be so stupid in future when she is back. I began looking forward to the next time she come over singapore. unfortunately, not too long later, she resigned from the company and I never heard from her again. fml~~~

[JacqueMerlin]

Never missed a signal in my life but I fuck with caution.
I can share on one incident when a local girl i met on skout went out with me for dinner. She invited me to her home to watch netflix. I declined and sent her home. We continued communicating and then she asked if i was interested to visit her again to watch a horror movie at her home. I declined again. So she went direct and told me she was horny.

I declined again. I know she was offended by them. remember she asked if i was gay or something like that. But I told her I don't want to be caught in a situation of regret sex because I'm not a caucasian. She got extremely defensive and started calling my hypocrite etc...

No regrets rejecting her.

[afterburn]

Went to this tuina shop which is a OWO operation. Legit tuina, not those illegal ops, but the lady does give regulars something on the side, only hand action though.

Have been a regular with her for quite a few months, and grow comfortable enough that hand action now accompanied with roaming allowed sometimes to the point she has to grip the bed to steady herself and suppress her moans :D

Then recently during session it started raining very heavily outside. Finished, and it was still pouring cats and dogs. She ask me to stay on in the shop if i was not in a hurry. She had no further bookings and likely no more walk-in given the bad weather.

Somehow ..... maybe mind tired after a day's work ..... not thinking straight ........ i told her never mind, my car parked just behind the block, I won't get very soaked. She insisted again. And again I told her it's okay, i don't want to trouble her. Then she started rummaging behind the counter for an umbrella and told me to please at least take it with me.

Only later that night, with a clearer mind, start thinking, was that a missed signal? Should have stayed and found out what will happen? :D

[JacqueMerlin]

Went to this tuina shop which is a OWO operation. Legit tuina, not those illegal ops, but the lady does give regulars something on the side, only hand action though.

Have been a regular with her for quite a few months, and grow comfortable enough that hand action now accompanied with roaming allowed sometimes to the point she has to grip the bed to steady herself and suppress her moans :D

Then recently during session it started raining very heavily outside. Finished, and it was still pouring cats and dogs. She ask me to stay on in the shop if i was not in a hurry. She had no further bookings and likely no more walk-in given the bad weather.

Somehow ..... maybe mind tired after a day's work ..... not thinking straight ........ i told her never mind, my car parked just behind the block, I won't get very soaked. She insisted again. And again I told her it's okay, i don't want to trouble her. Then she started rummaging behind the counter for an umbrella and told me to please at least take it with me.

Only later that night, with a clearer mind, start thinking, was that a missed signal? Should have stayed and found out what will happen? :D

She gave you an umbrella. You didn't miss anything.

[expatamerican]

On a business trip to KL once my colleague (male) had made arrangements to meet a girl he met online and my GF from Singapore flew in to meet me. We all had dinner together and he went to the room with a girl, who was showing herself as a nice muslim girl and a virgin. My colleague tried with her but short of a little cuddle, didnt get any further.

Next time I went to KL I was alone and was bored so asked her to meet me for dinner. After dinner she came to my room but I still thought she was a good muslim virgin and didnt make a move. My GF told me not to believe that shit and the girl wanted me to fuck her. I didnt believe it. The same thing happened on my next trip to KL.

Finally one more trip to KL and the girl is in my room AGAIN. This time I made a move on her and nice muslim girl was not a virgin and very horny. So yeah I missed signals twice but scored the third time around. My GF was laughing her ass off telling me "I told you so" and how those muslim girls in Malaysia are all sluts.

[afterburn]

She gave you an umbrella. You didn't miss anything.

:D Maybe. But only after I insist to go. Real life does not play out like a porn movie, bro, although we all wish they do. Signals you encounter in actual settings are very subtle, that's why they can be missed.

[BroTrustMyWords]

Nice thread!

[bpafree39]

I had drinks with my ex schoolmates a few years ago, one of them brought their colleague along and introduced to us. She was from US, in her 30s looks ok and had a well maintained body. All my friends went home drunk and 2 of us were tipsy but still fine. In the end we decided to go for supper and shared a cab home. When we were reaching her apartment, she asked me gently whether I wanna go up with her? I politely declined as I was a little tired. And in the end nothing happened, 😂 felt really stupid when I reach home!

[Deadpool28]

Now thinking of it, it was more than 10 years ago. During schooling days, my senior got close to me as I was friends with her sister. We used to hang out together. So this senior of mine mentioned she like me but back then being the young and innocent boy, I didn't respond to it.
There was 1 occasion where both the sisters and the younger sis bf came to my house to study. My senior suggested we study in my room and she locked the door. She asked if I was virgin and if I'm interested to let her teach me. Things escalated and we were frenching and I was sucking on her A cup boobs. She guided my hands down south and when I touched her panties, I stopped whatever I'm doing and told her we shouldn't be doing this. Then I left the room.
Thinking back, I really was young and innocent. Face-palm lol.

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Had a ex colleague married, used to give her lift to office everyday even going home. We used to chat everything under the sun, literally. Her breast feeding, breast engorgement, how some times her hub seems to avoid sex etc...we grew very close, went out for dinner and even movies just two of us...but some how I never got on to push it to the next level..now even though we still keep in touch occasionally but feel it not the same as before..:(

[Edwq]

This brings back memory of an episode of a potential missed signal that I once had. I was pretty close with this hot female colleague of mine but purely on a platonic level.

She was having issues with her fiancé, and they broke up. I was pretty much there for her and accompanied her whenever she felt down. Again, this is purely from a platonic standpoint and I also didn’t want to get involved with someone who was in a messy state of mind.

One day, we were doing a roadshow. I think she went to the toilet or something and I went to chat with my other colleagues. Suddenly, I received a MMS from her. Without thinking much, I opened the text and was shocked to see that it was a boob pic.

I just pretended that nothing happened and the rest of the day just went on normally.

Thinking back now, I think she might had been hinting me but i guess I really just saw her as a friend in need of help without any devious thoughts. Oh well!

[ichigo_ichie]

Many years back, an ex-colleague told me she able to tell whether a guy is a virgin by looking at the dickhead, knows how to hj to make a person cum by shooting or flowing out. Also told me things like do i know friends also can have sex? And when we go shopping for clothes, she will tell me its exciting when her guy friend peep into the door curtain when she is changing halfway, asked me to piggy back her when i send her home.

Some years later then I realize with much regret that she may be actually hinting me...

[Piledriver]

Went to this tuina shop which is a OWO operation. Legit tuina, not those illegal ops, but the lady does give regulars something on the side, only hand action though.

Then recently during session it started raining very heavily outside. Finished, and it was still pouring cats and dogs. She ask me to stay on in the shop if i was not in a hurry. She had no further bookings and likely no more walk-in given the bad weather.

Somehow ..... maybe mind tired after a day's work ..... not thinking straight ........ i told her never mind, my car parked just behind the block, I won't get very soaked. She insisted again. And again I told her it's okay, i don't want to trouble her. Then she started rummaging behind the counter for an umbrella and told me to please at least take it with me.

Only later that night, with a clearer mind, start thinking, was that a missed signal? Should have stayed and found out what will happen? :D

You still have to return that umbrella, didn't you? I hope you didn't jerk off onto that umbrella :D

Actually, you still have a chance since you can visit her again. The next time you visit her, just confess to her that she made you felt a strong sexual urge on that rainy day. And then see what is her response.

[Xgenre]

Small head says missed signal, big head says missed bullet. :p

Somethings cannot be undone. Some girls cannot be un-bedded. Many girls I missed out on but there are many girls I am glad I missed out on. Sticky, blood-sucking leeches.

[afterburn]

For married bros, well, that's the only one we didn't miss the signal :D

[entering]

So Sammy bros, always remember this: can eat, don't waste!

Totally agree. Best advice ever and one that I will always give too

[entering]

The stupid me then said, yes I like you but you are drunk now. I not sure if you know what you are saying. Maybe when you are sober and really like me, then we can be together because I like you too. After that I sent her home like a good gentleman.

Sound like Bro Shrouded. Are you his brother?

[Kovovo]

Holy shit, bro. Sounds like you blew it big time. You could have fucked her like a porn star and watching porn at the same time. That will be so fun.

Okay, here's my own sharing. This happened a few years ago at my previous company. Went out with a fellow colleague to celebrate birthday together, because our birthdays are close to each other's.


She's divorced with a kid. Always wear very sexy when working. That day, we had a simple dinner at Astons'. After that, bought a cake, some candles and drinks and then went over to Esplanade park to celebrate. Had a good time chatting about all the fun times we had when young.

Then she asked to use the washroom. So we went over to Fullerton to use the ground floor toilet. I am done in 5 mins, and waited for her outside. Waited, and waited. What's taking her so long? Then she finally came out.

Then she asked, where shall we go next? I was a bit tired actually, so I said we go back. She replied, you don't want to

So Sammy bros, always remember this: can eat, don't waste!
Very true, can eat dun waste! Ups u!

[entering]

Since I commented so much let me also pen my missed signal. I had a china student. 23 years old taking A levels. She has a tattoo on her left thigh.

Everytime my class, she will wear a dress or skirt short enough to show that tattoo. So I always comment nice tattoo.

Best part is after a year, she will tell me where she go and eat supper. That place is the place i always go also.

Then she tells me her mother bring her go fortune teller say her first lover will be someone 20 years older than her and someone she admires. I'm 20 years older than her.

Actually if she's any other girl, I would have Grab her and bend her forward in the toilet and just fuck till we both cum.

But somehow, for her I just kept my distance. Maybe cuz of fear that she's my A level student or fear she may report but that said, now thinking back, she gave me all the signals and I didn't advance.

She got into law faculty after that and we lost contact. After that I had other students including another China girl that was also like her.

After that I never miss a signal anymore.

[georgie1994]

sometimes i do miss girl signal in sugarbook.live because when in live, they will not say it frankly until i pm her only realise what she means

[georgie1994]

You still have to return that umbrella, didn't you? I hope you didn't jerk off onto that umbrella :D

Actually, you still have a chance since you can visit her again. The next time you visit her, just confess to her that she made you felt a strong sexual urge on that rainy day. And then see what is her response.

more chance you meet the girl, more impression the girl will have on you

[georgie1994]

Now thinking of it, it was more than 10 years ago. During schooling days, my senior got close to me as I was friends with her sister. We used to hang out together. So this senior of mine mentioned she like me but back then being the young and innocent boy, I didn't respond to it.
There was 1 occasion where both the sisters and the younger sis bf came to my house to study. My senior suggested we study in my room and she locked the door. She asked if I was virgin and if I'm interested to let her teach me. Things escalated and we were frenching and I was sucking on her A cup boobs. She guided my hands down south and when I touched her panties, I stopped whatever I'm doing and told her we shouldn't be doing this. Then I left the room.
Thinking back, I really was young and innocent. Face-palm lol.

young still innocent and still shy on sex matter

[georgie1994]

This brought back so many memories. I have a puppy love to share. It could have been more than a one night puppy love.

It was my JC classmate. That time, the guys just got into uni and the girls already senior year in college due to us going army. So we had some sort of class reunion party at Zouk. Mambo night in those days. The prettiest girl in my class just broke up with her boyfriend, so she was a bit wild, drinking a lot. As we stayed close by, I sent her home. She was quite drunk so she was leaning against me in the lift, breathing hard against my neck. I was totally aroused then but the stupid young boy then just think of being a gentleman and nothing else. When we reach her floor, she hestitated at the lift landing. She just held my hand and led me up the staircase to the alternate floor staircase area. In those days, lifts dont stop at every floor and there are huge staircase landings on certain floors. She just put her lips onto mine and kissed me. Then she put her hands around my shoulder and said she had always liked me and whether I liked her. She was looking at me dreamily with her eyes half closed. The stupid me then said, yes I like you but you are drunk now. I not sure if you know what you are saying. Maybe when you are sober and really like me, then we can be together because I like you too. After that I sent her home like a good gentleman.

Thinking back, I was the biggest idiot. If I had just closed in and kissed her there and then, I don’t think it would be difficult to grope her sexy body and maybe even more. I regret big time now.

Worse is, I messaged her “I love you” the next day. No response ever from her again. haha

puppy love let me think of mine too

[georgie1994]

if missed, try if there is any chance to search it back

[Cheesebeast]

Back during uni days, was dating this girl from Sociology. We were in the same Linguistic module and sat together as we were the only ones in class who were taking it as an elective while the rest were Linguistic majors. We got along easily because of this and dated quite soon after. On the 3rd date we did something fun - went to Uncle Ringo at night. By this time i already knew i wasnt interested in pursuing her as i had my eye on some other girls.

At the end of the date, i asked her what she wanted to do afterwards. She recommended, "how about we go back dorm, watch netflix and chill?". By this time I was alrd quite tired so suggested to call it a night instead. I sent her home and went back to my dorm to sleep afterwards.

Only realised what "netflix and chill" meant a few years later 🤦🏻‍♂️

[Deadpool28]

young still innocent and still shy on sex matter

Yeah. Now thinking back, kind of wasted. She does feel like she's hungry and willing to go all the way. I was too innocent back then, inexperienced.

[fenton]

Only realised what "netflix and chill" meant a few years later 🤦🏻‍♂️

Probably means fuck with the TV switched on :D

[Neoguri]

More than 20 years ago, I travel frequently to Malaysia for business.
Developed friendship with a Guest-Relationship-Officer from the hotel I stayed in.
She knows that I like her. - she asked me before and I replied yes without missing a beat.
Once, after a karaoke outing with other GROs, she purposely sent the others home first and l was the last at the hotel.
She showed me the night view around the city and then drove to a dark secluded spot for lovers and asked if I want to move to the back seats of the car?
I froze and just kept quiet and the chance passed. - could have lost many first time that night.

[LordVader]

sometimes i do miss girl signal in sugarbook.live because when in live, they will not say it frankly until i pm her only realise what she means

Isn't sugarbook what it is?

I mean it's like going Geylang and telling everyone you miss the signals given by the working girls there? :confused: :confused: :confused:

[ichigo_ichie]

Back during uni days, was dating this girl from Sociology. We were in the same Linguistic module and sat together as we were the only ones in class who were taking it as an elective while the rest were Linguistic majors. We got along easily because of this and dated quite soon after. On the 3rd date we did something fun - went to Uncle Ringo at night. By this time i already knew i wasnt interested in pursuing her as i had my eye on some other girls.

At the end of the date, i asked her what she wanted to do afterwards. She recommended, "how about we go back dorm, watch netflix and chill?". By this time I was alrd quite tired so suggested to call it a night instead. I sent her home and went back to my dorm to sleep afterwards.

Only realised what "netflix and chill" meant a few years later 🤦🏻‍♂️

Next time another girl say "netflix and chill" think of this immediately:

https://img-fs-1.wnlimg.com/p/dae/e2e/d27/4ad5e0187002be35fa2a8c8/x354-q80.jpg

[Staycalmsg]

I have quite many miss chances instead of signals. Is it same?

Remember when I studied at overseas U, we always have happening night during Fri and Sat. I went to club every week. Every time we drank a lot, and I have few encounters that I bring diff girls back to my room. My problem was I would feel tired and just want to sleep after drink. In my memory, I remember those girls that I bring back to my room and I did NOTHING to them! We just hug each other and sleep, even my bro was rock hard and rubbing their ass or pussy outside the pant.

Another story, I rented a 3 room apartment when I studied. At that time, I have a gf which we stay together, another for another couple, and last room for a single girl. During one weekday afternoon, my gf and all my housemate went to their class. Since I were alone, so I just half naked and wear a thin piece of short sitting at living room. Then the girl finished her class earlier and came back. I didn’t really care when she was back. She came out from bathroom and obviously she just done her shower. She was just wearing a white and big Tshirt and I can tell she was not wearing anything under the shirt as the clothe was quite transparent. Then we were talking to each other on the sofa, and I cant keep my eye away from her sexy body. Since I just wear a thin short paint, it was very obvious that I have built up a huge tent! I believe she saw it. Before she walk back to her room, she cheeckly asked me whether want to watch tv together in her room. I knew what she meant, but I were not sure when my gf will be back. So I answered her: I wish too, but not the right timing. She just said too bad and close her room door. Damn!

[lailai841230]

Wow. This post remind me of one of my encounter long time ago.
I still remember one night, I went for drink with a colleague and her friends (mixture of guy and lady).
On that night, we drink quite a lot and change a few drinking place as well.
About 3am+, time to call it a night. I was abit high but still sober and offer to send my colleague back home. She was also abit high but I believe still sober.
While in the taxi, she hold my hand, lean her head on my shoulder and keep telling me why you are so nice, literally not anyhow touch her during drinking session like other guy did.
When reach her place, she keep on asking me to accompany her to go up to the house and telling me she stay alone.. but too bad, at that time my big head still function well and managed to control small head.. haha..
so end up she went up herself. Not long after that incident, she resigned and we rarely contact each other.

[virgone]

Mine was back in my Uni days.. like almost 10 years ago. Had a close female friend who was recently attached. She was easily the top 5 hotest babe in the uni with many guys chasing her. She was looking for someone to travel with her in Europe as she just did her exchange program there. I agreed and I met her at the airport in one of the EU country. The closest encounter was we shared a queen bed, and she agreed to let me massage her. On the 1st night, she subtly removed her bra and hid under her pillow. While massaging, i kinda groped her sideboob but there wasnt any reaction or resistence.. i was having a hardon and tried to rub on her ass.. but no reaction too. Thinking back, there was no resistence too. I should have pushed further and perhaps try touch her pussy area more.. but also I didnt want things to turn sour and spoil the rest of our trip if she doesnt want it. Kinda regreted that years later. Oh well.

Haiz. Same here during younger days, went to nearby country for holiday with another 3 friends. During last night, one of the girls wanted to swap room with the guy that's sharing room with me.

In the end, was tired & just slept. The girl keep telling me not to sleep & ask if want to drink alcohol from the bar fridge, and chat. But still went on sleeping. What a waste now thinking about it.

[afterburn]

2 - this was when i was queuing up for lunch at a YTF stall during work lunchtime. this quite pretty lady, probably late 20s or early 30s, made small talk with me and asked if she could cut queue and go infront of me because of some urgent meeting or something, can't remember the reason. then while picking her dishes, she took one brinjal and said "this is brinjal, right?" and flashed a really cute smile. in the emoji world, brinjal is a symbol for dick, lol. not sure if it was a missed signal or if she was really asking.


I love this one, ha haha :D YTF brinjal is already cut to pieces, no?

[ILoveV]

Sound like Bro Shrouded. Are you his brother?

haha really? I dont know bro shrouded. Maybe young and stupid, we all do the same stupid things. Now old and wiser, I just fuck any chance I find ha

[gimmeakiss]

Very nice shares bros, thanks! :)

[Camryaltis]

When I did my undergrad abroad, had quite a few such missed signals. Last time got ICQ la, IRC la, met up with 2 girls also studying abroad and loneliness made it even more tempting for both gender to find companionship in order to forget abt the homesickness.

[bigmannow]

Last time I sprain my thumb the China reputable tcm milf doc first ask me if I’m married , then ask me lie on the bed , keep stroking my thumb joint ... then ask me if my below ok... I very blur why ask below ok or not ? She say below meaning my shitting n urinating .. I say ok .. all the while she kept stroking my thumb joint … and she like reluctant to let me go …

A While later she finally let me go Liao ... I should have ask if she Wan check further I show her my kkj and see what happen but too bad nvr … maybe could have got fwb…

[randyrockhard]

Isn't sugarbook what it is?

I mean it's like going Geylang and telling everyone you miss the signals given by the working girls there? :confused: :confused: :confused:

Don't feed the troll.

[akira07]

Had a new female colleague at one of my previous jobs. She wasn't local and was of the same nationality as one of our long time colleagues. It was obvious he was trying to make a move on her even though we all knew she has a boyfriend. As me and her stayed not too far from each other, i offered to send her home as we ended work quite late that day. Upon reaching her block, she asked if i wanted to come up for some coffee. I declined. She added, 'my housemates won't be home tonight.' I declined again and walked home. Upon thinking again when i reached home, i just realised i missed a chance. No further chances as she resigned 2 weeks later.

[Piledriver]

Last time I sprain my thumb the China reputable tcm milf doc first ask me if I’m married , then ask me lie on the bed , keep stroking my thumb joint ... then ask me if my below ok... I very blur why ask below ok or not ? She say below meaning my shitting n urinating .. I say ok .. all the while she kept stroking my thumb joint … and she like reluctant to let me go …

A While later she finally let me go Liao ... I should have ask if she Wan check further I show her my kkj and see what happen but too bad nvr … maybe could have got fwb…

I was wondering how did you manage to sprain your thumb? Did you use your thumb to rub your wife's clitoris so hard till you sprained it? :D

[rototime]

I never take any form of signal for granted, and in many situation, I tell myself. better to have missed the signal, and this has been proven in a few of the recent cases. ie, the PHV driver and the SMU undergrad?

I have in may instances had girls and women telling me how they worship their father, and love their "Daddy, and love hanging out with oldergr guys, one even told me she love the smell of second hand smoke coupled with a glass of ice cold beer, still remember the one many years back telling me she have never tried dating a guy doing the type of work I do.

I believe some are really asking for a good fuck, but also cannot rule out the possibility that they just wanted some companionship? yeah, watch netflix on bed together, share some drinks and tit bits, but that's it. Try to lay on top of her, and she may scream rape.. seriously. can happen.

I only pay attention to and react to signals, hit or miss from my partners. The kind of signal I always miss are when they subtlety grace their breast against my arm or sometime rubbing against my body, and I always take them as accidental touches, as it always only happen when either I am busy at work or we are in a group setting, and only until she shows the "I am really pissed" face.. then I realize.. but in all cases.. always a hit, after a miss.. LOL!!..

[tuyp]

Guys tell me if i missed this signal

Bumble date in SG pre-covid, Im Malaysian.

After dinner and drinks, went for walk around Esplanade, Marina all the way till 3am, she held my hand and said something along the lines of 'dont mind staying up late as long as my parents see me in my room the next day'.

Walked to a club and got her home via a cab not long after

I should have brought her home right?

[bigmannow]

I was wondering how did you manage to sprain your thumb? Did you use your thumb to rub your wife's clitoris so hard till you sprained it? :D

Old injury but it’s a true story if u dun believe it I can’t say much

[JacqueMerlin]

I never take any form of signal for granted, and in many situation, I tell myself. better to have missed the signal, and this has been proven in a few of the recent cases. ie, the PHV driver and the SMU undergrad?

I have in may instances had girls and women telling me how they worship their father, and love their "Daddy, and love hanging out with oldergr guys, one even told me she love the smell of second hand smoke coupled with a glass of ice cold beer, still remember the one many years back telling me she have never tried dating a guy doing the type of work I do.

I believe some are really asking for a good fuck, but also cannot rule out the possibility that they just wanted some companionship? yeah, watch netflix on bed together, share some drinks and tit bits, but that's it. Try to lay on top of her, and she may scream rape.. seriously. can happen.

I only pay attention to and react to signals, hit or miss from my partners. The kind of signal I always miss are when they subtlety grace their breast against my arm or sometime rubbing against my body, and I always take them as accidental touches, as it always only happen when either I am busy at work or we are in a group setting, and only until she shows the "I am really pissed" face.. then I realize.. but in all cases.. always a hit, after a miss.. LOL!!..

Agreed that some are just hanging bits of it to lure you.
Never take the first step. Never assume she wants something sexual unless she explicitly says she wants. Even when she says it, always be ready to retract any advance. If you can't find certainty, never do it. Never go to her place, never bring her to your place, always go to a hotel, let the cctv capture you two in intimate positions. If you are unsure, just avoid singaporean women.

[LordVader]

Don't feed the troll.

I just gave him the benefit of the doubt, of being dumb. :D

[rototime]

Looks like our local ladies have bad reps.. LOL!!.. Actually, not all lah.. Just avoid those millennials SPG wannabe, most others should be ok, especially those sporty type as they're more adventurous..

When possible. Taking the ladies back home will be safest, as they guy will be in a much better position to defend himself in case if the lady were to cry wolf.




Agreed that some are just hanging bits of it to lure you.
Never take the first step. Never assume she wants something sexual unless she explicitly says she wants. Even when she says it, always be ready to retract any advance. If you can't find certainty, never do it. Never go to her place, never bring her to your place, always go to a hotel, let the cctv capture you two in intimate positions. If you are unsure, just avoid singaporean women.

[hhlover]

The only Signal n chance missed is a few yrs ago, happen to meet this china lady owning n working an Mp.. she is married to a singaporean guy.. visit her to massage quite regularly.. from starting just HJ to finally getting full course with her as we become very friend, will go lunch or even company her go chinatown send money.. but good thing always come to an end as she soon stop working n sell away the Mp, as her husband dun really like..
But even after she not working anymore, we still keep in contact n texting each other chatting.. then one day we meet up for lunch, then coffee n shop around till 3plus, during conversation told me her husband today work late till 9plus, she will be alone. 1st hint she give me tat i miss.. then 4plus told me she abit tired, dun wan shop anymore, ask me where i wan to go, we can go together, still i miss her signal n didnt bring her go hotel..
Told her since she tired n not more place to go i send her home.. really send her home after tat.. then the next day, when we was chatting, she told me actually sometimes when she was doing with her husband, she will think of me..
From tat very moment then i know i miss my chance.. but everything already too late cos a wk later she n her husbnd went back to china for holiday, after she come back, she was pregnant, n we oso start to contact less..

[Olympig2014]

Had a new female colleague at one of my previous jobs. She wasn't local and was of the same nationality as one of our long time colleagues. It was obvious he was trying to make a move on her even though we all knew she has a boyfriend. As me and her stayed not too far from each other, i offered to send her home as we ended work quite late that day. Upon reaching her block, she asked if i wanted to come up for some coffee. I declined. She added, 'my housemates won't be home tonight.' I declined again and walked home. Upon thinking again when i reached home, i just realised i missed a chance. No further chances as she resigned 2 weeks later.

Her hints very obvious!

[JasonPhang]

Since I commented so much let me also pen my missed signal. I had a china student. 23 years old taking A levels. She has a tattoo on her left thigh.

Everytime my class, she will wear a dress or skirt short enough to show that tattoo. So I always comment nice tattoo.

Best part is after a year, she will tell me where she go and eat supper. That place is the place i always go also.

Then she tells me her mother bring her go fortune teller say her first lover will be someone 20 years older than her and someone she admires. I'm 20 years older than her.

Actually if she's any other girl, I would have Grab her and bend her forward in the toilet and just fuck till we both cum.

But somehow, for her I just kept my distance. Maybe cuz of fear that she's my A level student or fear she may report but that said, now thinking back, she gave me all the signals and I didn't advance.

She got into law faculty after that and we lost contact. After that I had other students including another China girl that was also like her.

After that I never miss a signal anymore.

Forgot to ask back then,can tell us the other student story?

[WinterMelonTree]

Over the years, i have missed a number of signals. Some obvious, some not obvious. What are yours? Let's hear it. I'll start.

During my tertiary years, I am very close with a classmate of mine, lets call her Jane. Jane stayed near me and we both always went to school and went home together. As we both drive our parent's car, we will take turns to fetch each other.

Over the time in school, Jane and I, we became closer. We did many projects together and always hang out after school too. We played mahjong, we went drinking, you name it. We were the best of friends. So close, we watched porn together but did nothing sexual with each other.

After a while, we both have our girlfriend/boyfriend and that didnt stop our routine. We carried on our daily routine and remained extremely close. Unfortunately, I broke up with my girlfriend and I was devastated. Jane was always there for me to listen to me and gave me a comforting shoulder to cry on. She was my best friend.

During our final year, she was having issues with her boyfriend. She talked to me on how big a problem she was having. Soon after, she switched on porn and we were watching it. She told me "if I have a chance to cheat on my boyfriend, I will definitely do so.". And what did I reply her? Nothing. I just kept quiet. Not because I was afraid, but the stupid me was thinking "Wow you must be very sad.". Not a single moment did I tbink that she wants to fuck me. Worse of all, I only realise this was one of the MANY signs she gave me that she wants to be with me. Stupid me only realise it 10 years later... Sigh...

So whats yours? Let's hear them.

I think if you and Jane are really best friends, then missing the signal might be a good thing in disguise. Because after sex the friendship might be destroyed alr

[elune]

Was suppose to help a female colleague but in the end i didnt managed to help. So she texted me and say "its ok, next time treat you drink tea ;)"

I didnt reply her. Now that i think back... maybe i missed the chance

[entering]

Forgot to ask back then,can tell us the other student story?

Just want to state clearly first that I don't target students. Partly cuz it used to be my rice bowl. Now not anymore but I still don't target them per se cuz I'm not into SYT, more into either married and/or matures (milf and some over 50s).

But some students, they actually target us, especially in cases where I'm a foreigner in their country. So, I realised it's the same in sg. Sg girls like to fuck Ang mohs it's just cuz they're foreigners. Also makes me not keen on sg girls anymore since they need a lot of work and little rewards.

So, there's this student I used to teach in Indonesia, where I was faculty head. This one was from a well to do family. Smart, slightly taller than me (well I'm short too), and very pretty.

Breast is like a full B and she likes to go spin class, so her butt is super perky and firm.

High cheekbone and intellectually very smart. So, she likes to ask me questions about her work etc and also likes to Jio me out for dinner so that she can ask me about work life, how to climb the corporate ladder etc.

About 2 years into their degree, they had to come sg for a 6 months immersion programme at our local uni (private uni which I don't want to say the name but you can guess which one) and when she came over, she met this Singaporean guy that she likes.

Turned out, he fucked her then broke up with her and she was depressed about it.

So, her classmates told me about the break up and asked me if I wanted to console her, since they felt she's more receptive to my so called words of wisdom, being someone she apparently look up to.

So, about 3 weeks before they have to return back to Indonesia, I Jio her out for supper and brought her to Adam Road for supper at about 1130pm, since next day there's no class.

We ate and as we talked, she's quite dramatic. But mostly, she's also quite opened, about her needing sex, cuz she enjoys it. Well, of course I replied, "you want sex, just call your classmates lah." And she's like, "no... Sir, my classmates are all lamed. I want a guy that's mature and good in bed..."

Me: you know you're talking about your sexual preference with your teacher right? Plus, need I remind you, I'm a mature guy too.

Her: Sir, I want to ask you something and you be honest with me ok?

Me: er... Depends on what you ask

Her (let's call her T): when you're in Surabaya, you were fucking lots of girls from the other unis right?

Me: er... (Nervous laugh) hahaha, who told you that rubbish. Besides, I like older women. Not so into college students.

T: don't bluff, cuz I know Sir. You fucked like a friend's friend from this xxx uni.

Me: how did you find out...?

T: Sir, she's the prettiest girl in that uni and when my friend told me that she was having a great time with a foreign teacher, I was curious who was it. I found out, it was you.

Me:... Nah, you got the wrong info, like look at me. I'm fat, ugly, short and I'm broke. Which girl in Surabaya wants me.

T: let me show you

Then she pulls out her phone and showed me a picture of me and the girl, in the hotel room, taking a wefie together.

[entering]

Just want to state clearly first that I don't target students. Partly cuz it used to be my rice bowl. Now not anymore but I still don't target them per se cuz I'm not into SYT, more into either married and/or matures (milf and some over 50s).

But some students, they actually target us, especially in cases where I'm a foreigner in their country. So, I realised it's the same in sg. Sg girls like to fuck Ang mohs it's just cuz they're foreigners. Also makes me not keen on sg girls anymore since they need a lot of work and little rewards.

So, there's this student I used to teach in Indonesia, where I was faculty head. This one was from a well to do family. Smart, slightly taller than me (well I'm short too), and very pretty.

Breast is like a full B and she likes to go spin class, so her butt is super perky and firm.

High cheekbone and intellectually very smart. So, she likes to ask me questions about her work etc and also likes to Jio me out for dinner so that she can ask me about work life, how to climb the corporate ladder etc.

About 2 years into their degree, they had to come sg for a 6 months immersion programme at our local uni (private uni which I don't want to say the name but you can guess which one) and when she came over, she met this Singaporean guy that she likes.

Turned out, he fucked her then broke up with her and she was depressed about it.

So, her classmates told me about the break up and asked me if I wanted to console her, since they felt she's more receptive to my so called words of wisdom, being someone she apparently look up to.

So, about 3 weeks before they have to return back to Indonesia, I Jio her out for supper and brought her to Adam Road for supper at about 1130pm, since next day there's no class.

We ate and as we talked, she's quite dramatic. But mostly, she's also quite opened, about her needing sex, cuz she enjoys it. Well, of course I replied, "you want sex, just call your classmates lah." And she's like, "no... Sir, my classmates are all lamed. I want a guy that's mature and good in bed..."

Me: you know you're talking about your sexual preference with your teacher right? Plus, need I remind you, I'm a mature guy too.

Her: Sir, I want to ask you something and you be honest with me ok?

Me: er... Depends on what you ask

Her (let's call her T): when you're in Surabaya, you were fucking lots of girls from the other unis right?

Me: er... (Nervous laugh) hahaha, who told you that rubbish. Besides, I like older women. Not so into college students.

T: don't bluff, cuz I know Sir. You fucked like a friend's friend from this xxx uni.

Me: how did you find out...?

T: Sir, she's the prettiest girl in that uni and when my friend told me that she was having a great time with a foreign teacher, I was curious who was it. I found out, it was you.

Me:... Nah, you got the wrong info, like look at me. I'm fat, ugly, short and I'm broke. Which girl in Surabaya wants me.

T: let me show you

Then she pulls out her phone and showed me a picture of me and the girl, in the hotel room, taking a wefie together.



Then she pulls out her phone and showed me a picture of me and the girl, in the hotel room, taking a wefie together.

Broke the story into 2 parts in case can't load .

So, I saw the picture. Actually, now I think back, it's a bitter sweet moment cuz that student (can't remember her name now but let's call her D), she was really super super pretty. D asked me before if I'm willing to divorce my wife and be with her. That time, I was in a very dark place in my life and my relationship with my wife was horrid.

Till today, I always wonder what have been if I took up the offer. For sure, my 2nd batch of 3 kids would be super good looking too (actually my current 3 kids, being swimmers, all look damn good too).

Anyways back to T.

Me: where did you get that picture and who else knows?!?

T: Sir, it's safe with me. Don't worry. Only S knows.

Me: wtf, S knows too. Who else did she tell to?

T: no one Sir, we are going to use keep this to ourselves in case, we ever need a favor from you.

Me: (feeling afraid since it feels like blackmail now & also a bit angry and trying to keep calm) ok, what is it that you want from me? I can't see what I can give you since your grades are already all As. Maybe S may need the grades.

T: Sir... (She looked very intently into my eyes and I was feeling damn scared that she will report me to my boss, and I'll lose job), I want to ask you, to fuck me...

Me: huh?... (10 seconds pause). Excuse me, are you crazy?!? Before we even get to the part that I'm your teacher, are you blind? Which part of I'm fat, short, ugly and broke do you not understand and see?...

So, any how, to cut the story short, it was damn late, like 130am and she wasn't drunk. My wife and kids are home asleep and she's with me alone.

So it came to...

Me: are you sure about this. I sound naggy but seriously, do you know what you're getting yourself into?

T: I know Sir. Let's do this.

Me: aren't you scared that I've some sex disease or worse, you get pregnant?

T: just wear a condom . Cuz I know you always bring a whole box to Surabaya.

Me: wtf, D told you that.

T: yeah, girl talk you know. And she knows that I know you (which is why subsequently I lost the feeling for D, and slowly we drifted apart cuz knowing how she went around telling everyone, I was pissed and lost the àttraction to D).

So, I drove her to my favorite hotel 81 and at that time, rooms are available.

We entered the room, and SOP, I shower first. Then she went in to shower.

When she came out, only a towel covering her naked body.

So, I took the towel off her.

Man, she's padded in the right places. But firm. I like firm bodies.

I pushed her gently onto the bed and as we snuggled up the bed, I did my thing.

The slow kisses, esp behind all the sensitive areas. Used my tongue to play with hers.

Using hands just to hold her tight, and just kiss like for almost 10 minutes.

Then work my way down to the upper chest and breast area. At the same time, just gently rubbing her clit .

Eventually, went down on her. She's trimmed but not shaven. But no smell and also, I like to give oral to ladies .

The whole foreplay was long. Cuz I just wanted to make love to her. Not just fuck.

I was rock hard, and didn't want her to change her mind too. So just grab a rubber, put on lube on the tip, raised her legs and enter.

Oh man, she was damn wet but tight. And her toned legs from spin.

Fuck man, I entered her and about like 2 minutes cuz of all the excitement, her body and she's damn pretty too, I felt like cumming already.

So no choice, I had to do my times table in my head to distract myself. Usually it works, except for 1 problem. Once I pass the cumming stage, I will have a hard time cumming (cuz of age and also my cock, lost a lot of feeling after mistreating it so much with so many girls).

I actually literally banged her for a good 30-40 minutes. Until she started asking if I don't cum soon, she will die from cumming herself.

So, use the finishing move, where I turn her around, and fuck her from the back.

Omg, her butt and also I usually put their legs together while doing it from the back, so they can grip tighter around the cock.

But her butt man, super toned, very firm and having a 18 year old, Indonesia girl, who's my student. I got that familiar feeling of cumming and I was asking her, " where should I cum? Can I cum in your mouth?"

T: (panting, screaming but can answer me) don't want. Just cum inside the condom.

Me: ok

I came damn hard. Until I feel the back of butt muscles and my quads all have this crampy feeling .

Then, from the sweat dripping, exhausted, I just collapsed beside her and she was also like half gone.

T: sir, no one and I mean no one, has fucked me like that before .

Me: well enjoy it cuz it's a one time only...

[troikah]

Nice share, bro entering!

[bigmannow]

Bro entering enter at the right time right places :D

[silk_magic]

This happened during my poly days. Had this nice classmate of mine, quite pretty with a very unique voice. She approached me one day to share locker as it is nearer to lecture theatre.

I agreed thinking it was just books. However when I opened the locker, I found sanitary pad etc...very personal items. Did not get the clue at that time. Once I need to go for an exchange trip, she came over to my house to help me pack including my underwear etc. Still did not get it...lol....could have asked her to by my gf at that time...not thinking abt sex as I was quite young.

Wonder where she is now.

[captainofthewin]

There's once my female friend dare me to go into a secluded female toilet with her. And I refused.. who knows maybe I will get lucky

Another time was when my married female friend was alone for a weekend, as her husband is out to oversea for work, she asked wht can I stay for the night. And I didn't also. :(

[LeeKH]

I had many missed chances and signals. Wish I wasn’t so nerdy at that time.

One was in uni. This girl I kept bumping into while having a smoke break. Not same faculty but always see her. Once she hinted she wanted a quicky. I was like huh? And she said a quick smoke from my ciggy. So I handed her my mid smoked cigarette and instead of taking the stick, held my hand with the ciggy and took a drag. Subtly before putting her lips to the ciggy, licked my fingers coyly. Then another time in the canteen I bumped into her taking drink from the freezer. I walked up behind her as she bent over and she stepped back and grinder her ass onto my crotch. After that she asked if I was free to come to her room to study together. Stupid me said I have project to complete so can’t. Sigh. That was the last I saw her. She graduated after that I think.

[lalaliang]

A question to all bros.. how do u know its missed unless of course she told you after? Or maybe its just you that overthink?

[Killermage]

Mine was damn stupid.

I was playing tinder and matched with this girl, we met and had lunch and the conversation was pretty good.

So arranged for a 2nd meet up as she was preparing for the driving license, and ask if i can help her revise. Met up for lunch and during lunch, she was saying her driving exam is still awhile ago and she knows i love to play game, so asked me if i want to go to her house (1. missed signal) to use her computer (AND I REALLY JUST THINK ABOUT PLAYING GAME).

So went to her house, used her computer while she is lying on her bed and reading the driving test book (2. missed signal), and she asked me if i am tired and want to rest with her or on the bed (3. missed signal). That time still virgin so dint think about it so much, just replied her driving test soon so cannot rest.

Till today still regret cause she obvious DTF, but partially i scared if i F her, then i need to take responsibility. LOL

[inlandtaipan]

There's once my female friend dare me to go into a secluded female toilet with her. And I refused.. who knows maybe I will get lucky

Another time was when my married female friend was alone for a weekend, as her husband is out to oversea for work, she asked wht can I stay for the night. And I didn't also. :(

Both were pretty obvious hints.

[bigmannow]

When I was overseas on holiday, I met up a lady online and met for some drinks at night and after some chatting, she brush my leg with her foot 2 times .. then she ask what I want to do now .. I say I wan to go back to my hotel .. she say she want to stay and ask her friend come to drink with her .. then she say she will come my room later ( happens that we stay same hotel) .. so I went back my room and waited … msg her once before I fell asleep …

About 5am , she came to my room , was a bit drunk .. I was not in the mood to F cos was half asleep .. after some chatting she left back to her room

Next morning i msg her cos I want to F her first as i was leaving .. she was still sleeping .. so i left as I need to catch the plane

[captainofthewin]

Both were pretty obvious hints.

Yup sadded. Wise up and smarter now to pick up such hint in future. Hope chance will come again

[ilovepantyhose]

sharing two missed signals:

1) a female classmate asked me to accompany her home “陪她回家” after school. i said ok, accompanied her but when we reached her block, i said goodbye to her at the ground floor lift lobby because i wanted to rush home and play computer game

2) during school holidays, i joined a camp and there was an activity where the people were split into discussion groups which was held in a small air-conditioned hall. one girl sat next to me during the discussion, commented that the air-con was cold “很冷hor” and placed her foot on mine. i replied your foot is really cold “哇，你这么冷” and that was it

when i think back, the young me was sibeh kumgong kia :o:o

[botakkkk]

Back then in ITE, chat up with a junior of mine and one day she ask me go up her house to help her with school work. First thing I realize about her house is that there's like 5-7 camera around the ceiling of different part of the house.

halfway thru the study, she keep on use her nails to caress my thigh until i'm slightly turn on, then she say that she going to toilet, I spotted a blind spot for the camera and went over and kiss her deep. She told me that her house camera all is fake one, at that point of time I heard the word "Camera" I abit scare so I stop everything and go back to study, after 15 mins she kick me off her house. :confused::confused::confused:

[LeeKH]

Another time was when out at Zouk with friends. A girl, Fanny, friend of one of the girls, Sharon, joined us. I had my eye on Sharon. Fanny was getting drunk and leaning over me and dancing with me but stoom me didn’t think much of it. Fanny was a skinny A cup girl wearing a typical spaghetti strap top and mini skirt. Sharon is a C cup was wearing a strapless bustier and low hip jeans - do you remember when exposing butt cracks was the rage?

I offered to send Fanny and Sharon home. Thought I could send Fanny home first and get lucky with Sharon.

In the end, Sharon said she was tired and wanted to go home first then hinted for me to take care of Fanny. She told Fanny, within my earshot, that if I can’t drive after send her home, to let me sleep on her couch. Fanny replied that I couldn’t sleep on the couch cause her parents would see me in the morning but she would offer her bed. They laughed and I missed the point, as I was pissed not being able to continue with Sharon, but anyway, I obliged.

When reached Fanny’s home, she asked if I was okay to drive home else I could freshen up in her home first. But dumb me said I am okay to drive. Dropped her off and drove home. Thinking back, I missed that signal.

[LeeKH]

When reached Fanny’s home, she asked if I was okay to drive home else I could freshen up in her home first. But dumb me said I am okay to drive. Dropped her off and drove home. Thinking back, I missed that signal.

Just to finish off this story, Sharon called me the next day to find out if anything happened. After I said nothing, she called me a dumb f$$k, in jest of course, and she literally handed a wet pussy to me. I said, I wanted to f$$k her not her friend. She replied she’s got a boyfriend so too bad… maybe next time if she’s single.

[bigmannow]

Met a china girl SYT at a tourist walking street in Phuket. Chat her up and walked around together. I tested water by putting hands around her waist at times.. no resistance… took her to a noodle stall that was nearby which I tried and was tasty. She stayed at another part of Phuket far from my hotel. During our conversation, she suggested I could stay one night at Patong which I have yet to visit but I couldn’t understand why I needed to stay there when I could travel there and back anyway. My hotel was just around the corner from the noodle shop but it was raining. I suggested her to come up to wait the rain to stop. But she declined and left on her own. Next day , I went to visit Patong and in the evening , she message me she was also there having dinner. I went over and saw her eating but I noticed her head was lowered and her front zip on her dress was unzipped til I could see the shape of her right boob. I thought maybe she forgot to zip up fully ? We chatted and at end of the meal she asked if I booked a room in Patong ? I replied that I already booked my entire stay at my hotel but I could also book a room in Patong for the night. (I actually also brought some clothes also) She thought for a while and said she could send me back on her rented motorbike. I agreed.

When I got back home, I told her that I brought clothes that night and I realised she was giving me signal to f**k her that night. Few months later, I traveled to her home in china where she works and agreed to meet one night. I asked her to bring ID so she can come up my room to eat some snacks I bought for her. She became angry and did not want to meet anymore. I was a bit confused why she rejected me when it was not like this in Patong?

[Senteurs]

I asked her to bring ID so she can come up my room to eat some snacks I bought for her. She became angry and did not want to meet anymore. I was a bit confused why she rejected me when it was not like this in Patong?

By saying what you did, you made it clear that you were there only to bang her.
It may have been a given, but when you made it so obvious, the whole exercise becomes pointless.
She has already agreed to meet you, expectations is obvious that things will happen.
When you ask for the obvious, expectations becomes obligation and primary interest.

[bigmannow]

She actually said she was busy and not free to meet but after I said I bought the snacks she agree to meet and she also say she don’t bring ID usually.

When I first mention to bring ID , she did not reply anything but on actual day, I reminded her again and that is when things go awry. On hindsight , maybe I should not have reminded her.

[timeliness]

Sigh, this reminds me of my own younger days where I missed a rather obvious chance.

Was in uni and teamed up to complete a project, the rest have already completed their parts so they sent it to me, all except this girl who lived halfway between the uni and my place. She claimed she was having difficulties and it was already the last 2 days before submission so being the nerd I am, I offered to help her with her part..

Went for dinner with her, went up to her place and finished her part at around 11pm.

When she asked if I wanted to stay over since there were no classes next day, I said no coz I wanted to sleep on my bed FML.

It only hit me when I laid on my bed thinking what she meant :(

[fxty1989]

Met a china girl SYT at a tourist walking street in Phuket. Chat her up and walked around together. I tested water by putting hands around her waist at times.. no resistance… took her to a noodle stall that was nearby which I tried and was tasty. She stayed at another part of Phuket far from my hotel. During our conversation, she suggested I could stay one night at Patong which I have yet to visit but I couldn’t understand why I needed to stay there when I could travel there and back anyway. My hotel was just around the corner from the noodle shop but it was raining. I suggested her to come up to wait the rain to stop. But she declined and left on her own. Next day , I went to visit Patong and in the evening , she message me she was also there having dinner. I went over and saw her eating but I noticed her head was lowered and her front zip on her dress was unzipped til I could see the shape of her right boob. I thought maybe she forgot to zip up fully ? We chatted and at end of the meal she asked if I booked a room in Patong ? I replied that I already booked my entire stay at my hotel but I could also book a room in Patong for the night. (I actually also brought some clothes also) She thought for a while and said she could send me back on her rented motorbike. I agreed.

When I got back home, I told her that I brought clothes that night and I realised she was giving me signal to f**k her that night. Few months later, I traveled to her home in china where she works and agreed to meet one night. I asked her to bring ID so she can come up my room to eat some snacks I bought for her. She became angry and did not want to meet anymore. I was a bit confused why she rejected me when it was not like this in Patong?

When a girl was traveling along, her mind set was different. You should spend more time to test water first when you visit her city, instead of asked her to you hotel to fuck, this made her like a whore.

[Olympic2016]

She actually said she was busy and not free to meet but after I said I bought the snacks she agree to meet and she also say she don’t bring ID usually.

When I first mention to bring ID , she did not reply anything but on actual day, I reminded her again and that is when things go awry. On hindsight , maybe I should not have reminded her.

Thanks for info.

[RiyadMahrez]

You could have travelled back to fuck her that night.
She wasn't that interesting. HAHAHA.

I agree with you.

[fxty1989]

I was living in one of my female friend’s home for a few days due to the renovation of my own house. She is two years older than me, and we have known each other for around 10 years. We were very close back then, but the relationship between us never gone beyond friendship, and both of us were single at that moment of time.
One day we went to a party together, and she was already a bit drunk at the end of the party. After we went back home, she wanted to have a few more drinks before we rest, and I didn’t reject it. We started to chat in the living room while we having a few more beers. At one moment, the atmosphere became a bit intimate. She started to joke around like “If we still single a few years later, we can become a couple”. I was also following what she said “Why not, like what we are doing these a few days.” After we finished our beer, she went to her room to change her dress. She was wearing a black drees that day which I have seen her in that dress many times already. After she went in for a few minutes, she asked me to go into her room and help her unzip her dress as she said the zip was stuck. I wasn’t think too much and went to help her. The zip was not stuck, and after I help her unzip the dress, she straight away take off the dress and only left her underwear in front of me. I stood there for a few seconds until she turned around and watched me without saying anything. At that moment, there was an urge in my mind to go one step further. But at end, I didn’t do it and jut left her room with a “Good night”.
Now we are still close friends, but thinking back, if I did anything on that day, maybe our relationship would be different now…

[Pearce]

she asked me to go into her room and help her unzip her dress as she said the zip was stuck. I wasn’t think too much and went to help her. The zip was not stuck, and after I help her unzip the dress, she straight away take off the dress and only left her underwear in front of me. I stood there for a few seconds until she turned around and watched me without saying anything. At that moment, there was an urge in my mind to go one step further. But at end, I didn’t do it and jut left her room with a “Good night”.
Now we are still close friends, but thinking back, if I did anything on that day, maybe our relationship would be different now…

I wonder which she felt more, disappointment or incredulity.

[bigmannow]

I was living in one of my female friend’s home for a few days due to the renovation of my own house. She is two years older than me, and we have known each other for around 10 years. We were very close back then, but the relationship between us never gone beyond friendship, and both of us were single at that moment of time.
One day we went to a party together, and she was already a bit drunk at the end of the party. After we went back home, she wanted to have a few more drinks before we rest, and I didn’t reject it. We started to chat in the living room while we having a few more beers. At one moment, the atmosphere became a bit intimate. She started to joke around like “If we still single a few years later, we can become a couple”. I was also following what she said “Why not, like what we are doing these a few days.” After we finished our beer, she went to her room to change her dress. She was wearing a black drees that day which I have seen her in that dress many times already. After she went in for a few minutes, she asked me to go into her room and help her unzip her dress as she said the zip was stuck. I wasn’t think too much and went to help her. The zip was not stuck, and after I help her unzip the dress, she straight away take off the dress and only left her underwear in front of me. I stood there for a few seconds until she turned around and watched me without saying anything. At that moment, there was an urge in my mind to go one step further. But at end, I didn’t do it and jut left her room with a “Good night”.
Now we are still close friends, but thinking back, if I did anything on that day, maybe our relationship would be different now…

Basically , you chose to remain close friends .. it's your choice

[bigmannow]

When a girl was traveling along, her mind set was different. You should spend more time to test water first when you visit her city, instead of asked her to you hotel to fuck, this made her like a whore.

When I reminded her to bring her ID on actual day, she asked why and I told her the snacks were in the room. When she got angry, I gave her the reason that I was outside and did not bring the snacks so the idea is after meeting her for dinner we can go back my hotel to eat the snacks.

When I first mention to bring ID, she didn't say anything. So on hindsight, maybe I should just kept it at that and not remind her again.

[Alantino]

Most ladies still think we are mind readers.

[fxty1989]

I wonder which she felt more, disappointment or incredulity.

I also don’t know, but we just pretended nothing happened.

[fxty1989]

Basically , you chose to remain close friends .. it's your choice

Yes, it’s my choice, and I don’t regret it. On way way, it may get better, but there is also a chance that it become massive as we share a lot of mutual friends.

[fxty1989]

When I reminded her to bring her ID on actual day, she asked why and I told her the snacks were in the room. When she got angry, I gave her the reason that I was outside and did not bring the snacks so the idea is after meeting her for dinner we can go back my hotel to eat the snacks.

When I first mention to bring ID, she didn't say anything. So on hindsight, maybe I should just kept it at that and not remind her again.

Yes, actually there is no need to mention this “ID thing”, first, most of them carry ID with them all the time, as they may need to use it in their daily life. Also, high chance that hotel won’t check her ID if she came in together with you and acted like a friend to you. Should let the thing flow naturally.

[bigmannow]

Yes, actually there is no need to mention this “ID thing”, first, most of them carry ID with them all the time, as they may need to use it in their daily life. Also, high chance that hotel won’t check her ID if she came in together with you and acted like a friend to you. Should let the thing flow naturally.

The hotel staff mention she must bring ID and it's stated on their counter also. She also mention she don't bring ID usually. But the fact she din mention anything when I first mention bring ID , perhaps I should have taken she understood something maybe ?

[fxty1989]

The hotel staff mention she must bring ID and it's stated on their counter also. She also mention she don't bring ID usually. But the fact she din mention anything when I first mention bring ID , perhaps I should have taken she understood something maybe ?

Yes you are not wrong, the hotel staff will always say all the visitors need to register at counter because of the local regulations. But the truth is most of the time, they will just close one eye and let people in and out freely, as long as they have the key card. So far I only kena one time, they asked the girl to register as she came in dressed like a cosplayer.

As for the girl you met, I think at the moment when you invited her to your hotel, she got your intention already. If she didn’t say “no” at the moment, means she is ok with it. But this “bring your ID” thing hurts her pride, especially you mentioned it twice, makes her feel “cheap” or “easy to get”.

[Xgenre]

The hotel staff mention she must bring ID and it's stated on their counter also. She also mention she don't bring ID usually.

https://mothership.sg/2017/12/wechat-china-official-virtual-id/

Wechat is their digital ID since Jan 2018. That is why she said she doesn't bring her physical ID usually. She gave an excuse not to meet you.

[bigmannow]

Yes you are not wrong, the hotel staff will always say all the visitors need to register at counter because of the local regulations. But the truth is most of the time, they will just close one eye and let people in and out freely, as long as they have the key card. So far I only kena one time, they asked the girl to register as she came in dressed like a cosplayer.

As for the girl you met, I think at the moment when you invited her to your hotel, she got your intention already. If she didn’t say “no” at the moment, means she is ok with it. But this “bring your ID” thing hurts her pride, especially you mentioned it twice, makes her feel “cheap” or “easy to get”.

Yup on hindsight , I should not have reminded her again to bring ID.
About the snacks , I met up with another lady and gave to her already.

[bigmannow]

https://mothership.sg/2017/12/wechat-china-official-virtual-id/

Wechat is their digital ID since Jan 2018. That is why she said she doesn't bring her physical ID usually. She gave an excuse not to meet you.

She already agreed to meet me. Then I asked about bringing ID.
So her reply might be based on what you mention.

[Xgenre]

You insulted her without knowing. You still think she will want to fuck you? HAHAHA.

Please be nice to him. So many of us had downloaded the JAV videos he had been sharing. He is a major contributor to the forum.

[Pearce]

I also don’t know, but we just pretended nothing happened.

But what are you looking for if you hook up with her ? NSA or commitment ?
Either way, I think if you out of the blue send a msg to her about how you made a mistake the last time, it may yet start something.
But you would have to decide if what you both want is the same.

[Az284]

Yes, it’s my choice, and I don’t regret it. On way way, it may get better, but there is also a chance that it become massive as we share a lot of mutual friends.

I'm guessing either or both of you no longer single?

[fxty1989]

But what are you looking for if you hook up with her ? NSA or commitment ?
Either way, I think if you out of the blue send a msg to her about how you made a mistake the last time, it may yet start something.
But you would have to decide if what you both want is the same.

Many years ago already, hahaha.

[fxty1989]

I'm guessing either or both of you no longer single?

Yes, she married last year. As for me, I’m still single, lol.

[fxty1989]

Yup on hindsight , I should not have reminded her again to bring ID.
About the snacks , I met up with another lady and gave to her already.

Hahaha, have you bonk her?

[bigmannow]

Hahaha, have you bonk her?

You mean the lady I gave the snacks to? When we met up, she gave me some snacks and I told her i also have some snacks but in my room and she kind of know what I mean from her expression but she say she has made appointment with a client already so I ask her to fetch me back hotel and I gave her the snacks and she left

[Ahgor]

You mean the lady I gave the snacks to? When we met up, she gave me some snacks and I told her i also have some snacks but in my room and she kind of know what I mean from her expression but she say she has made appointment with a client already so I ask her to fetch me back hotel and I gave her the snacks and she left

Thanks for sharing.

[Ohio]

https://mothership.sg/2017/12/wechat-china-official-virtual-id/

Wechat is their digital ID since Jan 2018. That is why she said she doesn't bring her physical ID usually. She gave an excuse not to meet you.

Thanks for info.

[fxty1989]

You mean the lady I gave the snacks to? When we met up, she gave me some snacks and I told her i also have some snacks but in my room and she kind of know what I mean from her expression but she say she has made appointment with a client already so I ask her to fetch me back hotel and I gave her the snacks and she left

Haha, now it’s getting harder and harder to hook up a lady in China.

[bigmannow]

Haha, now it’s getting harder and harder to hook up a lady in China.

I actually had to leave the place after I met the lady so it was quite rush and no time for further activities

[fxty1989]

I acrually had to leave the place after I met the lady so it was quite rush and no time for further activities

Yes, that’s a problem, the shorter the time you take, the lower the chance you can get. Most of the time, it will take a few days before you invite a girl to your room, haha.

[Xgenre]

Haha, now it’s getting harder and harder to hook up a lady in China.

why so? With the way their economy is.. easier to find paid dates with extras?

[fxty1989]

why so? With the way their economy is.. easier to find paid dates with extras?

If you talking about “paying money to get laid”, yes, there are always so many lobangs there, as long as you willing to pay. If you stayed in one city long enough, you can find a girl company you for months. But if you want to hook up with a “良家”, it’s actually getting harder. Even though now the economic in China is down to the ground, with all these years development, most girls there with decent education have seen the world, that makes them become “smarter”, which also makes thing become tricky.

[Neoguri]

Yes, that’s a problem, the shorter the time you take, the lower the chance you can get. Most of the time, it will take a few days before you invite a girl to your room, haha.

It is a statistics game after all.
Don't think too much about the hits and misses.
The more you try the higher your chances. Every woman is different.

[fxty1989]

It is a statistics game after all.
Don't think too much about the hits and misses.
The more you try the higher your chances. Every woman is different.

Yes, you are right, got nothing to loose anyway, haha.

[bigmannow]

I find that a girl needs to have trust in you and also do things for them so they can have feelings for you. Then it can lead to further activities. But once that trust is broken, it’s quite difficult to get it back

[Laopizhui]

after reading from so many bros experience me too have quite a few

ITE days there are actually 2 girls, M and T
M was very close to me and close to T. T had a bf n ask me to go her house to do the FYP in her room, back then her mum came to look at me, n say u look v normal to me. i didnt catch tat, her mum was very hot n tone. then 3 times i was in T room, the last time she nvr wear any bra n a very big n loose shirt. she told me to finish the rest of the report n she want to nap n told me not to peak at her panty as she said she not wearing any shorts. still nvr do anything to her, till she totally ignore me n nvr return my call when i page her.(YES, i am from the pager era)

When T dumb me, M n me became even close. she purposely show me her upskirt and put rocket to her friends n come to meet me. she clearly show interrest to be my gf but i scare she will dumb me as after ite go NS high chance the girls will find another bf.

Poly time got 3 girls. B and E are sisters. and a japanese girl A

lets talk abt A, she here in sg since sec sch days, so she can speak really good english. we went out a few times in a group setting, one night she ask me to fetch her home from at clark quey, she was a bit high, so i did the stupid gentleman shit to fetch her home. from the pub at CQ to all the way home we hold hands together, n she ask is she cute, i say yes i press the door bell n her mum open the door, she look at me angrily n stop talking to me, this i felt the worse, japanese girl leh, know english n so fair n got C cups, NABEI

B and E are more on the heavy side. but thier boobs are at least E, B had show me her half ball as i make her wear half cup bra, but i didnt go fuck her as i worry she will tell her sis E and i will lose face in the bigger friends group circle

E was more daring, she took my keys n place them inside her bra, i wanted to put my hands into her shirt but B was staring at us, yes sibei hum ji that time. i was often invited to the sis house v often n sleep over as their parents had 3 semi D.

to the younger bros, do not miss ur chance n man up to fuck the girls who hinted u. dont be a hum ji kia. once the chance is gone, it will nvr come back to u

[bigmannow]

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[bigmannow]

Many years ago in Thailand, I was at the lobby of the hotel and chat up a german girl. She was a few years younger than me and worked as an escort. She has a nice rack. We chatted quite a long time standing up and during the conversation, she said "we could travel together". After a long while, she was feeling tired and wanted to go back to her room. I asked her where her room was, she said it was at the corner of the lobby. I waited to see if she would invite me to go her room which would confirm for possible action but she didn't. After a while, I asked her again where her room is and she again told me the same answer. I was not sure if I should suggest to go her room so in the end I bade her goodnight and left. SHe mentioned she would check out the next day and on the next day, I wanted to check the counter staff for her contact email to maybe contact her but in the end I didn't.

[Peacekeeping]

Read the stories here also kek sim.

[lipe]

Bro Laopizhui

Up you 22 points for your missed opportunities.

after reading from so many bros experience me too have quite a few

to the younger bros, do not miss ur chance n man up to fuck the girls who hinted u. dont be a hum ji kia. once the chance is gone, it will nvr come back to u

[X30R]

I find a good way for girls to give you a signal is asking.

"Do you still want to hang out/do things or are you tired and want to go home ?"

If she wants to go home, then time to cut your losses.
If not, slow, easy and subtle would give a good chance.
Speaking from experience :D

[bigmannow]

Met a china girl SYT at a tourist walking street in Phuket. Chat her up and walked around together. I tested water by putting hands around her waist at times.. no resistance… took her to a noodle stall that was nearby which I tried and was tasty. She stayed at another part of Phuket far from my hotel. During our conversation, she suggested I could stay one night at Patong which I have yet to visit but I couldn’t understand why I needed to stay there when I could travel there and back anyway. My hotel was just around the corner from the noodle shop but it was raining. I suggested her to come up to wait the rain to stop. But she declined and left on her own. Next day , I went to visit Patong and in the evening , she message me she was also there having dinner. I went over and saw her eating but I noticed her head was lowered and her front zip on her dress was unzipped til I could see the shape of her right boob. I thought maybe she forgot to zip up fully ? We chatted and at end of the meal she asked if I booked a room in Patong ? I replied that I already booked my entire stay at my hotel but I could also book a room in Patong for the night. (I actually also brought some clothes also) She thought for a while and said she could send me back on her rented motorbike. I agreed.

When I got back home, I told her that I brought clothes that night and I realised she was giving me signal to f**k her that night. Few months later, I traveled to her home in china where she works and agreed to meet one night. I asked her to bring ID so she can come up my room to eat some snacks I bought for her. She became angry and did not want to meet anymore. I was a bit confused why she rejected me when it was not like this in Patong?

After the dinner with her , she suggested to go buy some things so I accompanied her …she actually just finished wakeboarding and she was still in her wakeboarding suit and the whole time I was eyeing her body and really wanted to take her … at one point she showed me one photo of her doing wakeboarding and I commented she had a sexy body and she looked at me … maybe if I suggested to go room maybe she might still agree …

[lowhc]

Happened more than 10 years ago, I was in mid 30s, was assigned by boss to entertain an executive from a China business partner. She was near 40, and reasonably good figure with a pleasant face. Took her out for lunch after morning meeting, but the afternoon was free. She asked for massage to relax, so I brought her to typical spa (not atas one).

She asked for a double room, and we were in the same room for massage. Just entering the room with her, my dick was hard already. Then she just stripped in front of me while chit chatting casually with me. Wow!. I did so likewise with my duck pointing straight at her. Then we waited on our beds.

The massage girls came in and massged us. We took 2 hours, so we just casually chatted, sometimes about work. After 45 mins, both of us got sleepy and quieted down. Then I heard her telling the masauese to masturbate her. Wow! Girl on girl. She was really enjoying herself and climaxed (soft moans). My dick was so hard, and my masauese was also feeling hot from the scene. I got my handjob and had a happy ending, while I touched my masauese (I wonder if she cummed).

Massage continued after that until 2 hours ended. We got up, dressed up and paid up (she paid the tips for the extra services while my company paid for the official receipt). Then we went off, visited a factory for work and went for dinner.

I asked her about her being so open, and she said, everybody does it, so no need to be secret or ashamed.

But we did not have sex or even touched each other other than shaking hands. Maybe was hinting on sex.

[bigmannow]

Happened more than 10 years ago, I was in mid 30s, was assigned by boss to entertain an executive from a China business partner. She was near 40, and reasonably good figure with a pleasant face. Took her out for lunch after morning meeting, but the afternoon was free. She asked for massage to relax, so I brought her to typical spa (not atas one).

She asked for a double room, and we were in the same room for massage. Just entering the room with her, my dick was hard already. Then she just stripped in front of me while chit chatting casually with me. Wow!. I did so likewise with my duck pointing straight at her. Then we waited on our beds.

The massage girls came in and massged us. We took 2 hours, so we just casually chatted, sometimes about work. After 45 mins, both of us got sleepy and quieted down. Then I heard her telling the masauese to masturbate her. Wow! Girl on girl. She was really enjoying herself and climaxed (soft moans). My dick was so hard, and my masauese was also feeling hot from the scene. I got my handjob and had a happy ending, while I touched my masauese (I wonder if she cummed).

Massage continued after that until 2 hours ended. We got up, dressed up and paid up (she paid the tips for the extra services while my company paid for the official receipt). Then we went off, visited a factory for work and went for dinner.

I asked her about her being so open, and she said, everybody does it, so no need to be secret or ashamed.

But we did not have sex or even touched each other other than shaking hands. Maybe was hinting on sex.

Maybe should have test water and then take her

[Bradly]

I think a colleague in her early 20s is giving me hints ?
I'm late 40s but look early 30s, and I don't think she knows I am married or how old I am.
oh fuck oh fuck, I wish I could but I can't.
I seldom speak much outside of work related stuff.

The thinking is that I subtly tease her to progress the friendship and somehow maybe miraculously become fbs ?
But I am 85% sure she is a virgin tho, a fb is probably the last thing she is looking for and I do not intend to conceal the fact that I am married.
More than enough people in the company knows, any concealment would be futile.

buggers buggers buggers...

[Xgenre]

She asked for a double room, and we were in the same room for massage. Just entering the room with her, my dick was hard already. Then she just stripped in front of me while chit chatting casually with me. Wow!. I did so likewise with my duck pointing straight at her. Then we waited on our beds.

The massage girls came in and massged us. We took 2 hours, so we just casually chatted, sometimes about work. After 45 mins, both of us got sleepy and quieted down. Then I heard her telling the masauese to masturbate her. Wow! Girl on girl. She was really enjoying herself and climaxed (soft moans).

Maybe was hinting on sex.

You know she could have gotten whatever she had in a separate single room right? Why did she take the initiative to include you in the double room if you were not in her plans? She wasn't hinting. She was sending out an open invite to test if you have the balls.

How did the working relationship develop after this incident? Did the boss pass the China project to someone else? Are you on closer terms with her?

[loneyheart]

You know she could have gotten whatever she had in a separate single room right? Why did she take the initiative to include you in the double room if you were not in her plans? She wasn't hinting. She was sending out an open invite to test if you have the balls.

How did the working relationship develop after this incident? Did the boss pass the China project to someone else? Are you on closer terms with her?

U r very sharp bro I agreed ... its very upfront n doing with him beside :)

[Rat2020]

You know she could have gotten whatever she had in a separate single room right? Why did she take the initiative to include you in the double room if you were not in her plans? She wasn't hinting. She was sending out an open invite to test if you have the balls.

How did the working relationship develop after this incident? Did the boss pass the China project to someone else? Are you on closer terms with her?

Thanks for sharing info.

[iamnotstupid]

U r very sharp bro I agreed ... its very upfront n doing with him beside :)

Agree with you.

[lowhc]

Haha, it was work after all and some people are exhibitionists. Also her company and mine deals with rather big money, so I don't want to be a trouble maker...

After those few days of meetings, she went back to China and we communicate by emails and messages. But no further encounters.

My opportunity lost, perhaps. :)

[bigmannow]

Haha, it was work after all and some people are exhibitionists. Also her company and mine deals with rather big money, so I don't want to be a trouble maker...

After those few days of meetings, she went back to China and we communicate by emails and messages. But no further encounters.

My opportunity lost, perhaps. :)

As long as still in contact may have chance next time … never know

[ctan100]

As long as still in contact may have chance next time … never know

i feel sometimes for work. better to be safe than sorry. in any case later things backfire then jialat.

[Laopizhui]

I think a colleague in her early 20s is giving me hints ?
I'm late 40s but look early 30s, and I don't think she knows I am married or how old I am.
oh fuck oh fuck, I wish I could but I can't.
I seldom speak much outside of work related stuff.

The thinking is that I subtly tease her to progress the friendship and somehow maybe miraculously become fbs ?
But I am 85% sure she is a virgin tho, a fb is probably the last thing she is looking for and I do not intend to conceal the fact that I am married.
More than enough people in the company knows, any concealment would be futile.

buggers buggers buggers...


dont worry u did not missed any signal. u over think n overestimated yourself.
girls at the younger age are smarter then u think. judging by the way u express ur situatution, i suggest u get urself to see the world more.

[Xgenre]

Haha, it was work after all and some people are exhibitionists. Also her company and mine deals with rather big money, so I don't want to be a trouble maker...

After those few days of meetings, she went back to China and we communicate by emails and messages. But no further encounters.

My opportunity lost, perhaps.

Given the big business deals between the 2 companies, why will she risk it all in a foreign land? She may have requested for you to be assigned to her. She took the lead to ask for a double room and then waited for your response. You didn't object. She took off her clothes in front of you and waited for your response. You responded with a stiff cock. She asked for sexual service in your presence... you should have gone over to participate lah but you used another lady to service yourself. :p

Perhaps you should have done some fingering, pussy licking or even comment how sexy she is. Then remain in control by saying there is a limit to what we can do in strict Singapore. Then say if there is a chance in a more private setting, you will like to show her what type of 5 star service （五星级服务） you can provide. 5 star service because the Singapore flag has 5 stars mah. :D China flag also has 5 stars. Lame joke but it works. Basically, cock tease and remain in control then see what happens.

Anyway, thanks for sharing the experience. Not scolding you ah but just a discussion about sex lah. This section is a safe space to talk about things you cannot chat with others.

[bigmannow]

Yup on hindsight , I should not have reminded her again to bring ID.
About the snacks , I met up with another lady and gave to her already.

I forgot to mention that she mentioned to bring her bf for the meet also. I did not ask when she got bf. But I’m still in contact with her fortunately she began to chat with me again and she came here for holiday recently with her bf.

[TitsLover1]

Over the years, i have missed a number of signals. Some obvious, some not obvious. What are yours? Let's hear it. I'll start.

During my tertiary years, I am very close with a classmate of mine, lets call her Jane. Jane stayed near me and we both always went to school and went home together. As we both drive our parent's car, we will take turns to fetch each other.

Over the time in school, Jane and I, we became closer. We did many projects together and always hang out after school too. We played mahjong, we went drinking, you name it. We were the best of friends. So close, we watched porn together but did nothing sexual with each other.

After a while, we both have our girlfriend/boyfriend and that didnt stop our routine. We carried on our daily routine and remained extremely close. Unfortunately, I broke up with my girlfriend and I was devastated. Jane was always there for me to listen to me and gave me a comforting shoulder to cry on. She was my best friend.

During our final year, she was having issues with her boyfriend. She talked to me on how big a problem she was having. Soon after, she switched on porn and we were watching it. She told me "if I have a chance to cheat on my boyfriend, I will definitely do so.". And what did I reply her? Nothing. I just kept quiet. Not because I was afraid, but the stupid me was thinking "Wow you must be very sad.". Not a single moment did I tbink that she wants to fuck me. Worse of all, I only realise this was one of the MANY signs she gave me that she wants to be with me. Stupid me only realise it 10 years later... Sigh...

So whats yours? Let's hear them.

Miss means miss liao, no nd think so much one, think about the ending no point one, no return one. Just carry on with life.

[Thedestroyer]

Over the years, i have missed a number of signals. Some obvious, some not obvious. What are yours? Let's hear it. I'll start.

During my tertiary years, I am very close with a classmate of mine, lets call her Jane. Jane stayed near me and we both always went to school and went home together. As we both drive our parent's car, we will take turns to fetch each other.

Over the time in school, Jane and I, we became closer. We did many projects together and always hang out after school too. We played mahjong, we went drinking, you name it. We were the best of friends. So close, we watched porn together but did nothing sexual with each other.

After a while, we both have our girlfriend/boyfriend and that didnt stop our routine. We carried on our daily routine and remained extremely close. Unfortunately, I broke up with my girlfriend and I was devastated. Jane was always there for me to listen to me and gave me a comforting shoulder to cry on. She was my best friend.

During our final year, she was having issues with her boyfriend. She talked to me on how big a problem she was having. Soon after, she switched on porn and we were watching it. She told me "if I have a chance to cheat on my boyfriend, I will definitely do so.". And what did I reply her? Nothing. I just kept quiet. Not because I was afraid, but the stupid me was thinking "Wow you must be very sad.". Not a single moment did I tbink that she wants to fuck me. Worse of all, I only realise this was one of the MANY signs she gave me that she wants to be with me. Stupid me only realise it 10 years later... Sigh...

So whats yours? Let's hear them.

I was together with a gf that cheated on me together for 5 yrs found out after 3 yr later together.. all along my female friend was always comforting me saying that i deserve better n my gf will stop if i just be more patience.. then after i found out almost every night i worry n try to be better for her so she will stop cheating n love me. eventually she ran away from me, then i realise i always wanted an understanding girl that will love me n support me n comfort me. started liking my female friend but humji to tell her.. she told me after she got engaged that she all along like me even bfore me and my gf together but didnt want to spoil friendship.. sibei wasted.. dont know how i was so blind and boji..

[ThePeaceMakers]

This brought back so many memories. I have a puppy love to share. It could have been more than a one night puppy love.

It was my JC classmate. That time, the guys just got into uni and the girls already senior year in college due to us going army. So we had some sort of class reunion party at Zouk. Mambo night in those days. The prettiest girl in my class just broke up with her boyfriend, so she was a bit wild, drinking a lot. As we stayed close by, I sent her home. She was quite drunk so she was leaning against me in the lift, breathing hard against my neck. I was totally aroused then but the stupid young boy then just think of being a gentleman and nothing else. When we reach her floor, she hestitated at the lift landing. She just held my hand and led me up the staircase to the alternate floor staircase area. In those days, lifts dont stop at every floor and there are huge staircase landings on certain floors. She just put her lips onto mine and kissed me. Then she put her hands around my shoulder and said she had always liked me and whether I liked her. She was looking at me dreamily with her eyes half closed. The stupid me then said, yes I like you but you are drunk now. I not sure if you know what you are saying. Maybe when you are sober and really like me, then we can be together because I like you too. After that I sent her home like a good gentleman.

Thinking back, I was the biggest idiot. If I had just closed in and kissed her there and then, I don’t think it would be difficult to grope her sexy body and maybe even more. I regret big time now.

Worse is, I messaged her “I love you” the next day. No response ever from her again. haha

Wah bro... new to this thread because saw someone else up original poster, then scroll n saw yours.. damn shag.. kena blue tick by young sexy lady