WLs and Respect

[super_manny]

Personally I am a firm believer in the economics of supply and demand. Prostituting is just an age old trade that the world can't do without.

I've heard about how some clients can easily become carrot-heads while some punters use their spending powers to degrade another fellow human being.

I'm really curious about how people treat ladies who earn money using their bodies in a vendor and client situation.

Do you respect the other fellow human being who may or may not be in the trade out of her own desire?

Do you sympathize with their situation?

Or do you treat them as objects of lust?

[Tai_zi21]

To mi personally paid sex is like u walk inside to this shop,u like this gal and u book her for an hour,after that deal is done....

after an hour,services gd or lousy,i still get wat i wan....

no feelins involve or anything at all... only $ involve

i'm just a paying customer and they are just selling themselves.... :)

[GL Roamer]

To me, they just providing service. Will not short change them, no will I treat them with sympathy and gif more .....

[WOOHOO]

normally I dun really sympathise them I empathise them but I do treat each and everyone of them with the respect they deserve if they really deserve it. I'll make an assesment first before doing anything. Call me selfish but that's the way i feel most comfortable with. I dun like to jump into situations that I'm not ready for and not aware of. I'm a more straight to the point chop chop person. You dunwaste my time and I won't waste yours.
but basically i treat most of them pretty well to make them feel comfortable with me and give me the best service. That's how I really hope it will be

[sun-x]

To mi personally paid sex is like u walk inside to this shop,u like this gal and u book her for an hour,after that deal is done....

after an hour,services gd or lousy,i still get wat i wan....

no feelins involve or anything at all... only $ involve

i'm just a paying customer and they are just selling themselves.... :)

I agree with you...any way they also human:D

[dap26]

To me,juz pay and move on...:)

[DOM ROUGH]

Both hv to respect each other, Willing Buyer , Willing Seller.

[SexCult]

Most people will agree that they are humans too , but I suppose there are people who say one thing but do another, thats why have people who bargain after the sexxion ..... :eek:

[longwinter]

Although they are WLs, l tink they do deserve respect too becos they are human like me and u.

[ChangCarl]

Perhaps we may ask ourselves - would we treat a salesgirl with respect as well, when we patronise her shop? I suspect those who do not treat WL with respect are the same type who would give hell to waitresses in a restaurant.

[Flavoured]

imo, its a profession, i discourage the words buying selling although it is the brutal truth.

I love women, so whenever i do visit them, i try my best to not make the session like some sort of transaction. and it is ok to be emotional attached to them, but it should last untill the session is over (be it 1 hours, 2 hours or 1 day)

i am not saying that it is impossible to find love in these situations, but a stand firm that a fuck is a fuck, regardless who, if you get too emotional, you'll only hurt yourself. (even with gf or wifes) in the ideal world, love should only occur without gentials or pleasure, if there is such a thing a love anways.

well thats my weird saddistic point of view anyways.

[newbadass]

It really depends on what you mean by "respect". I know guys who will put the WL on a pedestal and try to cultivate a relationship, try to help out, try to sian them for freebies instead...

... and all the while they tell me. "Snake! You know why the WL treat me so good? Because I show her RESPECT, that's why".

Bullshit.

When you have ulterior motives, show sympathy, give her a shoulder to cry on, all the while treating this as an investment of your time for greater gains, you are treating her as a potential conquest. You call that respect? Grow up lah... don't confuse being noble and being chee hong. If she got no tits, no good BJ and no pretty face, you think you'd have sympathy?

This is the way I show respect: Arrange for time and place, let her know up front what I expect for what I'm paying. I don't try to arouse her during the session or get her to enjoy it. That's a fucking waste of her time. I just lie back and let her do her job like a pro. When it's done, pay up, tip her if you think the situation warrants it, say thank you and shake hands. And then never call her again unless you need her services.

[ekemono]

Respect dun cost a cent, but sympathy will make you foolish.

We should give them admiration not sympathy.
I am not joking.

Look at them, a female species that are in thier nature tightly governed by emotions, and the act of love-making directly translate emotional intimacy to them.
Yet, they can be exposured to so many "emotionally trying" situations and yet stay focused and determined to thier objective, and that is to earn $.
No one can change thier plan, and they shouldn't even try to anyway.

If those "drive" of focus and determination can be applied to us men in our career, we will definately be successful.

[naemlo]

Do you sympathize with their situation?


U can't ignore the fact there r thousands selling their bodies because they want luxury lifestyle. No feeling, I treat it like a normal shopping expense. I rather sympathize victims in Myammar. :rolleyes:



To me,juz pay and move on...:)

Hmmmm when u move on with me in TH? :D

[unlock]

To me,juz pay and move on...:)

Yes move on.

[Prostate Intact]

Dear TS,

Do you respect the other fellow human being who may or may not be in the trade out of her own desire?

I do. Because she is, as you have mentioned, a fellow human being.



Do you sympathize with their situation?

I do and don't, depending on what she tells me. I do sympathize when she says that her hubby has left her with a kid in tow and she cannot make it financially.(Can be KC?) I don't when she tells me she's turning tricks to finish paying the bank loan for her apartment. (In any case, what's so bad about that? Don't we all want to clear our loan obligations?).
So this SYMPATHY thingy is very very subjective. It depends on that gut feel at that point in time.



Or do you treat them as objects of lust?

YES! I would't PAY to scr*w them if I don't! I lust, therefore I engage them, its as simple as that. What transpire AFTER the session(s) is anyone's guess. I do not have the moral authority to tell anyone what's right or wrong to do. Some of us mortals are born with hearts of gold, and others; with stone. At the end of day, it is 'to each his own'.

Happy oystering,
Prostate Intact

[Drone Bee]

Financial transaction nothing more. I pay them $ they give me sex. Any human emotions (save lust) should best be put away once the clothes are off.

[jojojojo1989]

actually i do sympathasise wif them. no ger would want 2 do such a job if given a choice. so i wil give them tip if i can so as to compensate them?

[Happy2004]

Is a trade with mutal understanding....:D

[cheongsan]

It all depends on their servitude. Some really reciprocate your kindness and the respect you give them.