Think I am in a mix..

[medicheng]

I like a girl recently, and wanted to chase her. But, she just broke off from her bf, and recovering mode. I am like practically by her side all the times. Hugging, kissing, petting mode between me and her all come out. Haiz. She knew I like her alot, but she scared she will turn back to her bf when her bf turn back. How? Should I be liking her? Or should I just be a sexual hunter? I dunno. I already lost that love feelings long ago, and she sort of bring me back the feeling, I felt like inside an endless pit...

Bros, if u r me wat will you do?

[Animagi]

Bro, go for it , in life everything is about experiences .... maybe she with you becos she on rebound .... but then, with time maybe that will change ... whether she go back to ex BF or not depend on you, show her you are the better one ....

[covenn]

bro, if i were u, i'll wait til she settles all her issues first before considering taking the r/s to the next level. it will be better for everyone. even if u manage to start a r/s with her now, a bad foundation wont get u far. moreover she's one of those rare ones who can give u that kinda 'feelin', dun plunge into anythin hastily. wat i said r juz my personal thots, not necessarily the best advice. gd luck!

[JediSkull]

I like a girl recently, and wanted to chase her. But, she just broke off from her bf, and recovering mode. I am like practically by her side all the times. Hugging, kissing, petting mode between me and her all come out. Haiz. She knew I like her alot, but she scared she will turn back to her bf when her bf turn back. How? Should I be liking her? Or should I just be a sexual hunter? I dunno. I already lost that love feelings long ago, and she sort of bring me back the feeling, I felt like inside an endless pit...

Bros, if u r me wat will you do?

bro!~!~ juz screw her lar!~!~ end of the day!~!~ that's love too!~!~ ;)

[WOOHOO]

I like a girl recently, and wanted to chase her. But, she just broke off from her bf, and recovering mode. I am like practically by her side all the times. Hugging, kissing, petting mode between me and her all come out. Haiz. She knew I like her alot, but she scared she will turn back to her bf when her bf turn back. How? Should I be liking her? Or should I just be a sexual hunter? I dunno. I already lost that love feelings long ago, and she sort of bring me back the feeling, I felt like inside an endless pit...

Bros, if u r me wat will you do?

doesn't that give you some sort of hint le bro?? If you really like her go all out to woo her and since you have already reached that intimate stage!!
Fight for your own happiness!! Let her know how much you care for her!! Express your feelings of love loudly!! Do not lose out to the other guy!! As the saying goes " See who's hand is longer!!"
I'm all fo you to carry on and totally win this gals heart completely^^
ALL THE BEST BRO:D

[Flavoured]

Dear TS

i am gona advice agisnt what bro covenn said, you should be more agressive. once, i was faced with a simlar situation and i gave her time and space to settle her own issues and she soon after, things got complicated and lets jsut say shes with another guy(not her ex btw)

if a girl allows you to be close to her regardless whether if she has just broken up or not, it means she has a liking for you, give it your all and let her be one to make the diffcult choice of chosing, not you.

[geckoSG]

Goes where your heart goes.

If you love her, go for it, but reserve some space for you to fallback if she
leaves u for her old BF. :o

If you wanna continue to be her good friend like current, then stay as it
is, she will be your forever FB. :D

[Be Safe]

I dont think you have anything to lose if you just proceed ... the most is tio dump, pick yourself up again and move on. But since you are already thinking of that, so if it come, you wont be so devastated anyway :)

[Si Geena]

Go slow Go slow. That's the advice I keep telling myself and the best I can offer to you.

Also chasing char-bor. If you just want to wham bam thank you m'am, then go fast fast.

[Animagi]

Still can go slow meh ... already heavey petting etc etc liao .... within the week is bonk liao :) ... anyway Just Do It ...

[medicheng]

Last night when I was with her, I was hugging her. She told me I not supposed to go so fast, take it slow, or else I might fall into an endless pit myself.

The next moment before she reach her home, she hugged me and kissed me passionately.

I am really lost.

I think I will try win her heart over. I dun mind in the future give up every porn i know, just for her.

She got once tell me she wan to give herself to me, to thank me. I think I will not accept it, til I win her over right?

[airforcegurl]

just go for it. the opportunity may not come again. try your best and you will not regret. good luck :)

[MistressVamp]

I like a girl recently, and wanted to chase her. But, she just broke off from her bf, and recovering mode. I am like practically by her side all the times. Hugging, kissing, petting mode between me and her all come out. Haiz. She knew I like her alot, but she scared she will turn back to her bf when her bf turn back. How? Should I be liking her? Or should I just be a sexual hunter? I dunno. I already lost that love feelings long ago, and she sort of bring me back the feeling, I felt like inside an endless pit...

Bros, if u r me wat will you do?

From a ger's view, i think she juz taking u as a sub nia...as she might still in love with her ex n might sometime confuse btw u n her ex...which lead to all these hugging, kissing and petting.

As geckoSg mentioned, folo ur heart.
But ask urself if u 2 together le n 1 day she juz turn back...wat will u do...
If ur ans is...tio dump = no big deal...den go for it. But if ur ans is tio dump = cant live on ...den i think u 2 be frenz better lar. No point make urself suffer so much...

Of cos it will also be better if u could have a nice talk with the ger, asking abt how she feel about you.

Chiong too fast....the ger might be irritate..
Goes too slow...the ger might juz go with another guy liao...

juz my 2 cent tot

[XiaoJing]

Bro just take it, its not that she is virgin. From there see how it goes. Already, it is very fast already .... if really want her for life, then work o it from there ... no t wrong to take her so fast if she wants it.

[medicheng]

*repost* sorry for the error

[lazyguy]

Bro take it easy :)

if u really love her... give her the time.. show her ur love... i believe if u give in ur best... she will appreciate and accept u.. and b in love wit u ...

but... leave ur choice wide... just get to know more girls... no harm rite :)

[shadezz69]

I like a girl recently, and wanted to chase her. But, she just broke off from her bf, and recovering mode. I am like practically by her side all the times. Hugging, kissing, petting mode between me and her all come out. Haiz. She knew I like her alot, but she scared she will turn back to her bf when her bf turn back. How? Should I be liking her? Or should I just be a sexual hunter? I dunno. I already lost that love feelings long ago, and she sort of bring me back the feeling, I felt like inside an endless pit...

Bros, if u r me wat will you do?


well... since she already knew tat you like her... why not juz tell her straight in the face (if you havent) tat you like her alot too and really wanna be with you.. tell her tat you would be worth loving more than her ex-bf.. If she ok and decide to enter a new r/s w you.. good lor... then you see where it take you 2 from there, but I would suggest that you dun plunge your head in and commit too deeply for a start first (since gal on the rebound and pretty vulnerable and sometimes makes clouded decisions), else if things din turn out well and you too deeply committed, you might ended the sadder one here. Juz my 2 cents worth of thots...

[Thom07]

Bro, my view is to take it slow and steady lest the situation turns ugly and someone get hurt.

[xhardboiled]

Well, i ll say unless u cn take total 180 deg turn from this gal- dnt go for it. A gal in this state is like a time bomb if she still hv feeling for her ex. She cn just shut u off completely if her bf takes her back.
i got into such a mess before. So if I were to do it again, i wld jus treat it as a casual fling, just treat as a FB. dnt think too much about it.

[diamondo]

Go for it if you really like her. It may or may not work into the relationship you want, but at least no one will say you did not try your very best. Pursue your dream but be prepared to take the fall if it does not work out your way. The heartache will not be so painful then.

[BogeyM]

Bro, from what it seems, she aien't exactly those hardcore conservative kind. Probably the kind who is modern and adventurous to some extent. Also since she can be confused to this extent, shes probably not those who knows 100% what she wants and can be influenced. So taking it from there, I think you should

1) Do not be the good guy. This kind of scenario, good guy finish liao. You are already so intimate, go in hard. But take care, should always maintain some control. Don't give her the feeling that she can twirl you around her little finger. That way, she might find you "less challenging" than before and hence less attractive. Must be MAN yet nice at same time.

2) Buy insurance. Take the sex first, in case you get dump, you still get some memory.

3) Going into sex doesn't mean there will be no more "love". You can still work on it concurrently and in fact, the sex if good, may make it harder for her to leave you.

[~|@|~]

well, we have advice from both camps. go or no go? :rolleyes: best is to follow your heart and let things flow naturally. too much advice clouds the mind ;)

[mmhunter]

Soot first, but remember not to fall in love. Remember, your interests come first. Dun want you to get hurt. Was in a similar situation once but I ended up on the losin end.

[Be Safe]

Whatever it is can 'soot', 'soot' first, then from there see how it progress ....

[honybro]

Hi bro..guess so many bro advice is too much sometimes...so is the best act fast..don think too much no point..action always speak louder than words or even to think too much yourself..so tell her how u feel about u,her & her ex..maybe is just what she need to hear so both of u can discuss..if not just do what a man got to do finish the job like other bro here say have a good memory or maybe more next time..fuck buddy for future..haha :D

[Frankiestine]

alamak lesson no. 1, don't trouble troubles until troubles trouble you...if she has not settle her issue completely, you are just stepping into one deep shit...better you step away from the picture and let her cool down...then she can see for herself whether she really misses you and wants you around rather then the other guy...

monster last time younger days also similar situation end up only hurting myself becos investing too fast and too much into relationship...

[justl00king]

Bros, if u r me wat will you do?Bro,

If I were in your postion, I will eat first and talk later. :D

If her BF comes back and she decide to go back to him, then so be it. Do not invest too much feelings for a start. If later things turn in your favour then can happily ever after?

If not, still don't lose out too much because eat already. :D :D

[joep]

Anything else I dun know... but I know for sure you going to regret it big time if you dun onz her if you have the chance.

Take it from someone (that's me) who has been thru it.... you be nice guy... you prob end up like me... ai wan after so many years that I let the chance slip thru my hands. She doesn't seem to be that "pure" anyway since you have already petted and stuff with her... so what's holding you back??

Look at it this way... if she wants to be with you.. you will makan her too sooner or later.... BUT, if she goes back to the ex bf or with some other guys, at least u can tell yourself that you had tasted her before!:D So at least won't be so ai wan....

my 2 cents worth of advise...

[colins]

Why dun you ask her how long she want to wait for her ex-bf?
Seems like she still love him, but is starting to like you. If you do love her, show her you're better than him. But if you just want to eat her up, tell her you'll always be around, then find a good opportunity to place her on your plate. A lot of times, sex will do the trick, becos its also a form of commitment to the next level of relationships.

[Alucard_x]

Bro, you are lucky to get this chance, I am still waiting for my chance, don't when its coming....

My advice to you is you go ahead if you like this gal, don't have to bother if she will go back to her ex or not. Just keep her by your side, don't wait. If she has recovered, you might not stand a chance.

As for whether to go all the way for sex, its up to you. Just don't push it, you should be fine.

[easybaby]

My friend had been through a similiar situation.. in the end they didn't get together. You should be good to her but not to the extent that you're giving all of yourself to her before her mind is settled. You'll just end up hurting yourself if you put too much of feelings too soon. Take things slowly. :)

[medicheng]

Yeah I think what most of the brothers here had given me good advise. I think I love her too much to think of sex. But I will chase her to be by my side. May the one above give me luck... thanks... will update more when the time comes...

thanks on those who advise me.

[Show Stopper]

I have a similar experience with you a few years ago but not as lucky as you in getting the "hugs & kisses". I was with her for a few weeks to help her get over her bf who had left her for another lady...during that few weeks, we were behaving like a couple(chatting on phone, going for movies, picked her up from her home & sent her back whenever we go out together, etc). However, i asked her a question one day..."Would u go back to ur bf if he comes back to u a year later or so?"...she replied immediately w/o any hesitation..."Yes!". That fast reply broke my heart and tat day onwards...i decided to discontinue treating her like my gf and slowly distant away from her. The feelings will fade away as time goes by...provided tat u will not get to see her again.

Perhaps u could try asking her the same question. If she gives u an immediate "Yes" reply...think u should know wat to do next. But if she ponders for a while and tells u that she's confuse and can't give u an answer right now...means u still stand a chance and u could continue to shower her with love & concern to win her heart totally. U could at the same time psycho her to forget her ex-bf by deleting his hp no. from her hp, dispose the photos they had taken together, etc to slowly erase him from her memory.

Hope my sharing helps....gd luck to u bro! :)

[medicheng]

She did replied a yes.... but inside me, told me she is the one girl i been looking for...

[Flavoured]

:)Last night when I was with her, I was hugging her. She told me I not supposed to go so fast, take it slow, or else I might fall into an endless pit myself.

If she told you that she is prolly hinting that she wants you to fall in to the endless pit with her (i know its a horrible metaphor but its the best i can do for now)



The next moment before she reach her home, she hugged me and kissed me passionately.

I told you she was hinting...


be agressive, take control, as rhetorical as it may seem, especially after she has outwardly said otherwise, women somehow hope differently ever so often, as if hoping to be swept off thier feets by the very existence of denial.

All the best~:)

[KingEros]

Haiz. She knew I like her alot, but she scared she will turn back to her bf when her bf turn back.
How? Should I be liking her? Or should I just be a sexual hunter? I dunno. I already lost that love feelings long ago, and she sort of bring me back the feeling, I felt like inside an endless pit...

Bros, if u r me wat will you do?
You are presented with a pot of rice, a pot of fragrant rice which appeals to you.
Since you are hungry, eat your rice first ... later on, you can worry about whether you get to keep the pot.
Even if you dun get to keep the pot at the end, I'm sure you'd be smiling every time you remember how fragrant the rice tasted.

Not much thinking needed ... especially if you can be enlightened on the fact that for any feeling of love, it is still very mch a feeling ... meaning yo dun need her to be by your side to feel the love. :D

[Flavoured]

She did replied a yes.... but inside me, told me she is the one girl i been looking for...

omg i cant believe you asked her that question >.< its definately not the best thing to ask..

i had the same exp. too, well i didnt ask her, but she did openly tell me she hoped to get back with her ex.

but she still ended up with a different bloke. so dont lose heart~

she will already know that you're interested in her, so well, it all up to you to make her make the choice.

[Know_yr_role]

something simliar happened to me few yrs back tooo

well stay by the gal as many would, talked on the phone, went out, kopis for months... in her mind she knows the EX will never choose her but sub-con she still wants to be with him... we even go to the places the EX will frequent, so she might get a chance to catch a glimpse of him... eventually she saw with her own eyes, the EX with another lady hugging n laughing. She finally gave up and took my love :D:D.

It took months for her to get over the EX after that incident,and i kept showering her with care, concern and love... so eventually we go together...

if u feel tat u have even a slightest chance in the r/s just go for it!, better to take action now then regret later in life tat u never made the move

my 2 cents

:D:D

[t123]

Different views from different aspects.

If u like her as in emotions - then u take the risk, mostly gals on rebound hard to move on within short period. She petted with u becos she got needs to feel like a woman.

If u after her becos of lust - rather kill the innocent than to let it off, becos what u got to lose. Sorry that I sound rather ruthless.

If u hesitating between the above 2, I suggest ditch the emotions and do it, aftermath mentally prepared that she gonna U turn if her ex, just wave at her again.

Nowadays, no one will empathised with u should the hurt comes. Anyway, she's more likely to play the 1st team than the sub. Not everyone like Ferguson cherish Ole Gunnar Solskjaer.

[kenneth21]

I may not be as old as some other contributers in this thread nor i'm as knowledgeble as them. But from my previous experienced, it seems to me that good guys never ever get anything in the end.

I have come across situations whereby i did not had sex with them because i love them and in the end, they tell me i am one of the nicest guy they ever met. Fullstop, thats it.. and we hardly come into contact.

Basically what happen was that, i was at her becking, fetching from work, doing whatever i can do for them (you need it? i'll do it) kind of mentality. 6 months later, its all back to square 1, + wasted effort, energy, time and a total drain of your emotional energy. And now looking back, i definately regret not doing the deed with her.

The life is yours, you have only one chance. Miss it, and you might never get it back again. My say is, go ahead and and make love with her and who knows, things might be so different.

As for the guy who left her, she might say she will get back to him if he ask, but, my guess is, she will not. If you still do not feel safe, probably you want to badmouth that guy jialat jialat which might juz go wrong for love is blind. So, just take the title deed 1st, and take 1 step at a time.

Btw, just for some past experience, normally girls who say they will get back to their ex-bf, will not. and those who say no, will have higher chance to get back to them. But it only apply to the girls who said this during the age of 17-22.

[greenboy]

Bro, have you ever gambled before? walk into a casino, feeling lucky but at the end of the day, you walk out broke. Or maybe played mahjong feeling quite put out, but end of the game, you're the sole winner. I can safe assume that your situation is now a walk into casino. You won't know what awaits you at the end. There is no way to predict what will happen. This is not a situation of a properly calculated mathematical problem. I think you post the question to the wrong set of ppl. You shouldn't be asking us Samsters, cause i feel that the only ppl who know the situation best is the two of you. not your best friends, not her best friends. Parties involved is only you and her. I think that your should actually post the question to her. Ask her if it is worth it to continue staying by her side, will she be yours in time to come and not a temp period of time where she will leave you for some other. Prob you should try that. then from there you gauge if it is worth it for you to wait.
I once waited for a girl for 7 yrs. Now i'm getting married. But its not to that girl. Its to someone whom i realised is worth much more than the 1 i waited for. sometimes, it is not waiting, sometimes its better to be direct. If she can't answer, then you gif her some time to think lor. but make sure she thinks. cause a day delayed is a day of pain for you.

Cheers. Good luck and all the best. If she really is the one, then may you attain your wish. :)

[scott999]

This gal may or may not be an angel in the end.

One can tell that you are completely smittened.
But I feel you will get heartbroken if u put all yr heart n soul to this relationship.

I suggest you still follow yr heart but thread cautiously and not 100% totally.

[medicheng]

:)

If she told you that she is prolly hinting that she wants you to fall in to the endless pit with her (i know its a horrible metaphor but its the best i can do for now)

I told you she was hinting...

be agressive, take control, as rhetorical as it may seem, especially after she has outwardly said otherwise, women somehow hope differently ever so often, as if hoping to be swept off thier feets by the very existence of denial.

All the best~:)
She knew I am in the pit. And I think inside her heart she wanted me by her side, give her the love she needed. But if the meantime her ex waved to her, I know she will be gone.

Now she even purposely sms me say that got other guy sms her jio her.

I showed my jealousy, then she ask me control control. If I cannot give her assurance, how to be together.

Woman, no wonder we man die in ur arms.

[medicheng]

Bro, have you ever gambled before? walk into a casino, feeling lucky but at the end of the day, you walk out broke. Or maybe played mahjong feeling quite put out, but end of the game, you\'re the sole winner. I can safe assume that your situation is now a walk into casino. You won\'t know what awaits you at the end. There is no way to predict what will happen.

I agreed, love is a gamble. If you never try, you never know. Was hurt deeply last time twice. Haiz. I thought I never fall into the pit, in the end I still do.

[medicheng]

Different views from different aspects.

If u like her as in emotions - then u take the risk, mostly gals on rebound hard to move on within short period. She petted with u becos she got needs to feel like a woman.

If u after her becos of lust - rather kill the innocent than to let it off, becos what u got to lose. Sorry that I sound rather ruthless.

If u hesitating between the above 2, I suggest ditch the emotions and do it, aftermath mentally prepared that she gonna U turn if her ex, just wave at her again.

Nowadays, no one will empathised with u should the hurt comes. Anyway, she\'s more likely to play the 1st team than the sub. Not everyone like Ferguson cherish Ole Gunnar Solskjaer.

Love or lust, I think is love. She make me lose interest in watching the video in the other section of the forum. For a se lang like me to lose interest, I think is not easy as well.

Haiz....

[Si Geena]

It's like layang lah. Remember to play slowly. Otherwise later your string not strong enough then break off.

If you so helpless and vulnerable, you must use all your mental fortitude to tarik. Not Tirak huh, Tarik hor. Pull back. Sometimes do something with your friends to try and forget her for the moment.

I know it's hard. Hey look at me, I chase char-bor also sio siang. KNN, she y'day never sms me, then once sms is ji-tao sms 5-6 times, asking where I am, what I doing. I play gentleman, "Miss you alot, when can we meet again?"

Then once meet up, is only hold hands, kiss kiss. When she wants to touch my KKJ, I hit her hand, say cannot. Must go slow and develop KC first.

Actually it's all due to experience sometimes, how many times have I gone so fast like a fucking train, end up kenna train-wreck myself. So now I'm older Budweiser.

[TheGreatOne]

Good theory from Bro KingEros.

If you like her and she don't mind going thru the physical stage with you with no string attached why not? Sometimes love also can be developed via intercourse.

Eat first think later :D

[greenboy]

I agreed, love is a gamble. If you never try, you never know. Was hurt deeply last time twice. Haiz. I thought I never fall into the pit, in the end I still do.


wah. serious ah? pain rite... haiz. sad. but its reality. bo bian, some girls are dead practical. some... just live in the cinderella dream.... so how bro, got find someone to pull you out of pit bo?

[yummyburger]

at this stage, it sounds like you are just a rebound to her bro, dont give more than 20% of your feelings now and see how it goes as time past.

[greenboy]

wah. serious ah? pain rite... haiz. sad. but its reality. bo bian, some girls are dead practical. some... just live in the cinderella dream.... so how bro, got find someone to pull you out of pit bo?

oops. sorry. just realised i posted to TS. tout its someone else. paiseh ah, bro.

[medicheng]

oops. sorry. just realised i posted to TS. tout its someone else. paiseh ah, bro.

No prob bro. I believed I am right now deep inside the pit. It is only all the way and either will die in a very ugly way, or will be happily everafter.

Haiz.

[medicheng]

at this stage, it sounds like you are just a rebound to her bro, dont give more than 20% of your feelings now and see how it goes as time past.


I think I already throw in more than 20%. Man is such lovable creature, haha.. like me... I thought myself, I thought to take it slow, but I realise how deep she is inside my heart. I think already hard to take out.

[machoman]

No prob bro. I believed I am right now deep inside the pit. It is only all the way and either will die in a very ugly way, or will be happily everafter.
Haiz.

Bro medicheng, agree with bro greenboy's comment that all relationships are full of risks.

How they turn out in the end nobody can really foretell. :confused:


I think I already throw in more than 20%. Man is such lovable creature, haha.. like me... I thought myself, I thought to take it slow, but I realise how deep she is inside my heart. I think already hard to take out.

That's right, bro.

Agree that you can't really control the speed of the feelings & before you know it, you are already deep in the pit. :eek:

[HeadOn]

its easier to say than done..to ask one not to fall too deeply..or treat her as a FB for now n see how in future..when u really like a gal or ur 1st step in knowing her is to wan her be ur gf, bonking her is the last thing in ur mind...u only wan her to be w u all day all night..

bro, just go for it..if u fail again, at least u know u worked hard for it..all bros here wishing u all the best!!

[milky05]

I like a girl recently, and wanted to chase her. But, she just broke off from her bf, and recovering mode. I am like practically by her side all the times. Hugging, kissing, petting mode between me and her all come out. Haiz. She knew I like her alot, but she scared she will turn back to her bf when her bf turn back. How? Should I be liking her? Or should I just be a sexual hunter? I dunno. I already lost that love feelings long ago, and she sort of bring me back the feeling, I felt like inside an endless pit...

Bros, if u r me wat will you do?

why u like to eat leftover food? :D ppl dun want this cai u pick up and eat. poor thing :D

[MistressVamp]

u sure u onli throw in 20% ?

juz remember...ger like to control n be control.
and of cos...do things tactfully n dun gan chiong.

Thru am not a guy...but i do agree with the rest... up her 1st! :D

[sensit32]

LUST VS LOVE well jus do it if got fate then c how nothing to lose lor tis is part of our life.n oso u r learning in every bgr even yr bgr dun work out u oso learn n prepare n understand for yr future bgr.i rem i 1stt ime asked a gal num i was scare n tongue tight but now no problem in courting gals i learn from starting include bonking lessons LOL

[Frankiestine]

Thru am not a guy...but i do agree with the rest... up her 1st! :D

:eek:how can you say lidat.....thought you must support your sistas...:D

[Looksee]

I think I already throw in more than 20%. Man is such lovable creature, haha.. like me... I thought myself, I thought to take it slow, but I realise how deep she is inside my heart. I think already hard to take out.

bro......love is abstract and subjective......go with your heart

but remember to take a step back once in a while and look at the situation....because sometimes when u r in the picture, u can't see the frame

[medicheng]

MistressVamp, I know... haha but I dun wan to take advantage of the situation. I know it is tempting, but then if I will lose her after the session, I might as well go and bang wall and die. haha, but in too deep cannot pull out le.

sensit32, yeah sometimes love and lust is only a string of difference, you will get lost if u cannot see properly...

machoman, ^5

[mmhunter]

Bro,

aft writing my comments a few days earlier, I gave your problem more thoughts. I still think just 'soot' 1st. Sooting is very good.

Let me share with you my situation. I am in love and in lust with this hot chick 10 years my junior. Anyway this gal is someone I can never have (for reasons I cannot divulge). So 1 fine day (it was unplanned), we went drinking and we drank gallons that nite. She got drunk and I had to carry her to my car. In her drunken state, she starting talking abt everything and crying abt everything (like a typical drunk). So I started comforting her, told her that everything will be ok, that I will take care of her and that I love her.

She replied that she loved me too and we started making out. And boy was that make out session hot!!! My hands were all over her body and hers over mine. The only reason why we didn't have sex was because she was wearing 1 of those difficult to remove dresses. Plus of cos I was drunk too, and I didn't want to dirty the car. And also because I thought I could have her again.

The next few weeks passed by and she behaved as if nothing happened. I was not devastated but rather disappointed. But I realised that as the days went by, I was becoming more and more obsessed with her! I was so obesessed with her that I could not work, eat, and function like a normal person! It got very bad. I would see guys trying to hit on her and all I could do was walk away. I felt terrible.

So 1 fine day, I could not take it anymore. I brought her out for dinner at a really fine restaurant and bought a really nice champagne. After dinner, we went to the beach for a walk and asked her abt 'that nite'. She claimed she didn't remember a thing!! I was shocked. Anyway, to cut the long story short, that nite ended on an ugly note. Till today, I am still very obsessed with wanting to bed her but it would take a miracle. I am sure if I had done her that nite, I would feel much better today.

So take it from me. Soot first!!

[greenboy]

[QUOTE=machoman;2771857]Bro medicheng, agree with bro greenboy's comment that all relationships are full of risks.

How they turn out in the end nobody can really foretell. :confused:QUOTE]


lolz.. for once someone agree wif me. haha.
eh.. but serious lah. Go have a nice chat with her. Slowly bring up the topic. if she serious with you but still scared, she'll choose not to answer, else she may say she dun know or something like that bah. Assuming tht she is honest with u lor. Talking with her can solve many of ur sleepless nites. :)

Please up me a little....... my miserable 10 points long lasting sial.......

[medicheng]

Bro,

...Till today, I am still very obsessed with wanting to bed her but it would take a miracle. I am sure if I had done her that nite, I would feel much better today.

So take it from me. Soot first!!

I ate her up already. It was really one of the most passionate session even, now she said she miss me more than last time, but she will close her heart for some years before able to love someone again.. I told her I will wait.

I think after the session, I also become more obessed with her.

I think I am madly in love.

Haiz, someone help me!

[medicheng]

Go have a nice chat with her. Slowly bring up the topic. if she serious with you but still scared, she\'ll choose not to answer, else she may say she dun know or something like that bah. Assuming tht she is honest with u lor. Talking with her can solve many of ur sleepless nites. :) .

been chatting with her on the phone the past few days, and I understand her more... I now sure know what am I going to do with her. Thanks for you all the advises. Now I can have peaceful sleeps le...

[greenboy]

lolz. great. now that u're sleeping in peace, no need to change ur nick le. else if u continue to go sleeples, ur nick can change to pandacheng liao. (",) good luck wif her.:p hope u have a nice story to share in the near future. May not be sexual, but maybe share how u actually sian and get her. then nxt time bros in a fix can refer to ur dictionary. haha.

another thing, this 1 out to all other bros, understand that some bro hit Batam for some chiong activities, i also got go Batam, but not to cheong, went there wif my wife to the villas there. ok lah, quite swee lor, nice place to bring ur wifey/gf to relac relieve stress. i went to the batam view resort. stayed in the 1 bedroom villa. ON THE WATER SIAL. song, at nite cannot slp, waves damm noisy. but quite romantic, recommand to bros. not bad lor. ( my preference lah) budget romantic getaway. :)

[Flavoured]

been chatting with her on the phone the past few days, and I understand her more... I now sure know what am I going to do with her. Thanks for you all the advises. Now I can have peaceful sleeps le...

Gratz bro and good luck~