[Question]Girls would allow their bfs to piak around?

[daryl76]

hihi, long time no see, curious cos of an argument with my friend. Would a girl allow their bf to piak around den come back to her? as in, the bf dun ask her things, allow her the total freedom, den can piak around with other girls den come back and piak her again. got such girls around? what is this kind of relationship?

[onion_rings]

hihi, long time no see, curious cos of an argument with my friend. Would a girl allow their bf to piak around den come back to her? as in, the bf dun ask her things, allow her the total freedom, den can piak around with other girls den come back and piak her again. got such girls around? what is this kind of relationship?

Let me be your 1st supporter :D

Of course there are such cases. But it very few & rarity in our society. Btw if it the vice-versa do u think u can accept it too? If both of u really dun mind. U can piak other girl & she can piak other guys liao den both of u meet up & piak together this kind of relationship is term as "FxxkBuddy". Dun u think so? :rolleyes:

[greenboy]

I let u in on something that i asked my wife. One day, we were chatting and suddenly i dunno which bird hit me, i ask her is it ok if i had ONS wif some girls that i met in clubs. But while bonking them, i will only think of her.
She tout for a while then said ok. Go lor. But when i return, she'll castrate me.......... so....... yah. i think there are ladies/gf/wife who allow their men to boink outside. But we singaporeans must always remember; in this society, there is not such things as freebies!!!!!! Always read the fine prints. There should be a thread attached to it. a very fine but painful thread. :p

[Flavoured]

Of course there are such cases. But it very few & rarity in our society. Btw if it the vice-versa do u think u can accept it too? If both of u really dun mind. U can piak other girl & she can piak other guys liao den both of u meet up & piak together this kind of relationship is term as "FxxkBuddy". Dun u think so? :rolleyes:


Maybe... but there are cases where couples do screw around and still have a pretty strong relationship. but then again the couple i know have a fetish for swinging...and they are both very very bisexual....
well generally more women can accept thier parthners screwing around as long as it isnt that serious.. but i cant say the same for men.. would you?

[slick]

generally if she's my FB who will really care if she screw around or what? The ultimate result u want is u can still continue screw around n screw her if u need her :cool:

[TheGreatOne]

in general,

men are considered one of womens' so many properties and the only person they allow you to fuck beside them are ourselves. :o

[5stars]

Never would I take this chance, if you wish to fool outside, you must keep this secret from GFs at all cost.

Girls are very sentimental. No such things as forgiving and lenient :)

I would assume most guys will try to cover their ass, than to seek open permission from our Empress :D

[gilagila100]

You can go piak around and then later let ur gf or spouse know.

If she ok and bochap, it means that she dun love you and most likely the relationship is not serious at all.

If she kpkb and really angry, it means that she really love you but by then the relationship is over.

Either case you lose ...

But ofcoz there are rare exceptions, but ask yourself, are you so extremely different from others as well ?

[aczeta76]

They will say YES but never tell them u do.

They will know you LIE but to be truthful means u DIE

WOMEN never FORGIVE or FORGET:eek:

[TheGreatOne]

actually they do practise "Forgive & Forget" but in different version...

When they say they can forgive and forget if they catch us bonking around, it actually means: Forgive me as I'm gonna do the same to you, jerk! Forget means: Forget about getting me to forgive you, asshole!

[airforcegurl]

many girls will say NO but they close one eye for the sake of peace. however there are more and more couples with open relationships these days so it is not uncommon. do not be so suprized :)

[Ex-Men]

allow her the total freedom, den can piak around with other girls den come back and piak her again. got such girls around? what is this kind of relationship?

Let me be your 1st supporter

Can two of you be my BF? I give you two total freedom to piak around, if you two like, you can even piak each other too :D

[newbadass]

Yes. Got such kangtao. But not among the younger generation. Of course, this comes with conditions attached.

1) You can chiong, but I chiong you don't KPKB.
2) Inform me either before or after, immediately.
3) Use protection.
4) Make it commercial. ALWAYS commercial. Don't be like the other losers keh kiang try to play kum cheng. Only I can have your kum cheng.

This kind of relationship is not a bed of roses. If you're the jealous or possessive type, or you constantly need attention from your gf, forget it.

[dadoda]

I think got la...now alry new generation.
most of the man dun look for "V" liao as long both enjoy.
my 2cts.

[ekemono]

If I am attached, i won't piak around.., until i walk out of the relationship.
For FB case its different. She and I can piak around.
But so far i never tell FB i piak around. cos one occasion i told her i go massage immediately she question this and that. Ok, i learnt to keep mute liao:D

[onion_rings]

Can two of you be my BF? I give you two total freedom to piak around, if you two like, you can even piak each other too :D

Me definitely got no interest in piaking guys or LB.. So if ever u nid to gib anyone freedom, pls gib to TS only.. If u also nid to piak TS for any reason? U can pm TS & piak piak each other :D

[easybaby]

Would you accept it if you're in a serious relationship with this lady, and she's out there sleeping around enjoying sexual pleasures given by other men?

I know this may sound possessive, but if my boyfriend wants to piak around, I would rather not have him.. maybe that's because I wouldn't sleep around any old how if I'm attached.

Personally, I feel that it's a form of respect. You honour the relationship between you and your girlfriend by exercising self-control. If you wish to sleep around, then don't be in a relationship or find someone who is really okay with it.

Yes you may talk about as long as you practise protective measures, everything will be fine. But a condom's (and most of the commercially available products) main function is to prevent pregnancy, and not STDs. So there's still a risk. How would I know if he comes to me one day infected with STD? How can I trust him like that, if he has the habit of sleeping around?

[ryanlim]

Would a girl allow their bf to piak around den come back to her?

why not??????????????? :confused:

as in, the bf dun ask her things, allow her the total freedom, den can piak around with other girls den come back and piak her again.

of course can lah............... :D

got such girls around?

got............ intro you ai mai??????????? :rolleyes:

what is this kind of relationship?

Fuck Buddy.............. :cool:

[David_Ginola]

I dun think gal will let her bf piak around................like my married friend, he always piak around, wife sticks by him, bcos of? their chidren. She dun wish her children to have a single mom family. She endure.......for the sake of her children.

[colins]

actually they do practise "Forgive & Forget" but in different version...

When they say they can forgive and forget if they catch us bonking around, it actually means: Forgive me as I'm gonna do the same to you, jerk! Forget means: Forget about getting me to forgive you, asshole!

hahahaha...thats true!

I asked my ex-wife once, that given a scenario where a man go for commercial sex, FNF, or where a man go and get a mistress, which is worse? The reply is of course, a mistress is worse. I never get around to test that becos I din try even commercial sex when I was married, but the point is, we do not enjoy anything that is remotely similar to an 'open relationship'. Her sister, I remember, is quite open about it becos her husband is often overseas. She once said that he sure go for sex la, given his high sex drive, the manner she said it showed that she either will not know and therefore dun want to know or she already resigned to her fate liao.

But that doesn't give him any good life when he came back from overseas, becos as what we saw, she automatically assumed that he did it and gave him all the shit that ties with such belief.

[Romeo]

Used to have this gf when young, and she promise her grandma won't have sex till married. So she'll bj me almost everytime me meet. We'll go naked, heavy petting, anything but intercourse. N 1 day after releasing my urge in her mouth, she pop this statement to me " i knows u have very high sex drive and petting and bj is all i can do for u, so u want u can go out and have ons but must not have true feelings n must wear protection" To tell u the truth, the first thing that comes to my mind is "WU YIAR BO?" (really or not?) never really tried as eventually she defies her grandma :p

[appleman35]

think...possible...my ex gf allow it.....but she is demanding....everytime, she will ensure i am dry......she just told me 1 day:"as long as u remember when u come to my room, leave me some sperm". she likes eating my cum. so i just feed her with tat....well, 2 satisfied her means 1 encounter min must do 3 times....can't take it, back very pain.....no doubt very shiok......

[babyonboard]

From my personal experience, FB will usually dun mind - if they mind, means they're treating you as a bf already, and have invested emotion. Time to bail out I would say.

My current squeeze is open about it - she say to go piak around if I want, but keep it commercial. :D Nothing emotional. But after married, no such luck: you sleep with me only and if I ever catch you doing it elsewhere, I'll tok your didi. :eek:

If you're interested to do it, try probe probe the topic abit, see what her response is - you never know. some girls could be open enough about it.

[onion_rings]

nnkc where is the TS??? After posting out on such boliao issue den MIA :eek: Think perhaps we nid to zap TS for wasting our time :D

[shuaige84]

no girls will allow their bf to piak around...

[Bigbluebird]

I thought this kind of question really don't need to be asked at all. Maybe in European or American culture, perhaps yes. Asian culture, not to mention with you know what kind our local women are like, answer is as straight as it can be :D

[CowLevel]

Some girls do allow.. I have a god sister who allows her ex husband to do that, but in the end still divorce

[Daiso]

I think girls tend to be jealous if her guy piak around, maybe this can make them work harder to satisfy you.

[daryl76]

me is here la.. all of u nnkc say got such gers.. intro me leh

[super_manny]

If she loves you, she won't allow it. Just like if you love her, will you allow her to play with other men?

[daryl76]

okies.. guess my answer and conclusion is, this bitch dun love at all
she juz need a dick to fuck her as and when needed.. :mad:

[aczeta76]

If she loves you, she won't allow it. Just like if you love her, will you allow her to play with other men?

There is no ALLOW... you and her are different entities so neither one can and should try to control each other.

Key is if you can put up with each other's behaviours:cool:

[=LatexDolly=]

I'm female and I would allow it. BUTBUTBUT the girl must be less hot than I am. HAHAHA. I have my dignity to preserve. I might even ask him to bring her home so we can all "have fun together". If I'm required to be faithful to my man, he has better be faithful as well.
This fucking around thing will only work if neither partner gets jealous that his gf or her bf is fucking some other person and possibly enjoy it more. But of course, good sex can't overtake years of love. Well, not unless you're really hard up. lol. :cool:

[Dani_69]

Hi I am new to this forum and was reading this question and as a young girl in a very strong relationship I would like to say that there are girls that allow this. Although I am not ok with my bf going out and screwing around, I am ok doing it together, getting a girl and him fucking us both, getting a bi girl or lesbian and a straight girl and having some fun. I have to realize that it is only sex and it should not be deprived of. I think you can have a stronger relationship and still have fun. Although he says I can screw other guys right now I am not into that I am happy with his cock and like some pussy every now and then :)

[Ah Keong]

Just a short contribution.

1. Happen to a close friend of mine and I seen it. We went JB for a good "massage" and my friend was sotong enough to bring back the hotel room key. After we came back sg and he go picked his wife with me at the back seat; his wife found the hotel room key and ask him what is that; he panic and say the key belongs to me; the wife kept quiet for 2 mins or so and then smile and ask whats for dinner. Other occassion, she knows her husband has to go nite club for "entertainment" which she never questioned. But once her hubby, my best friend, got involve with feeling with a gal, she threw a fuss and threathen with divorce.

2. My ex gf allows me to go nightclub or oversea for "entertainment", but she always warned me to practise precaution.

So my verdict is gf or wife knows there's such thing call night club or gelyang but as long as we remember to go home and we dun't let them know what we do outside and no feeling involve, my guess is they dun;t bother much.

Just my own personal experience.

[johnwong1970]

I'm female and I would allow it. BUTBUTBUT the girl must be less hot than I am. HAHAHA. I have my dignity to preserve. I might even ask him to bring her home so we can all "have fun together". If I'm required to be faithful to my man, he has better be faithful as well.
This fucking around thing will only work if neither partner gets jealous that his gf or her bf is fucking some other person and possibly enjoy it more. But of course, good sex can't overtake years of love. Well, not unless you're really hard up. lol. :cool:

I wonder if I could be latex dolly's BF....:rolleyes: