Confused gal

[nikkie.candie]

Hi,

I have problem seducing my husband. We have been married for not more than 2 years but he does not like to make luv to me, futhermore he has affairs behind my back.
I can say I am a not too bad looking chinese gal with seductive looks as there are men around who wanted me to be their lover but I have declined them ( By the way I am a pure Singaporean). Can any good men out there advise me what else can I do? I have tried sexy undergarments, nighty but still no use.
Since courtship we hardly have sex for more than 10 times so it is impossible that he is sick of me. When we do make luv, he cannot do it for long and I am a high sex drive kind of gal, its driving me crazy!! Appreciate it if you can give me some advise but pls don't tell me to look for you to satisfied my hunger for I really want to try pleasing him.

[jjlsk777]

Hi,

I have problem seducing my husband. We have been married for not more than 2 years but he does not like to make luv to me, futhermore he has affairs behind my back.
I can say I am a not too bad looking chinese gal with seductive looks as there are men around who wanted me to be their lover but I have declined them ( By the way I am a pure Singaporean). Can any good men out there advise me what else can I do? I have tried sexy undergarments, nighty but still no use.
Since courtship we hardly have sex for more than 10 times so it is impossible that he is sick of me. When we do make luv, he cannot do it for long and I am a high sex drive kind of gal, its driving me crazy!! Appreciate it if you can give me some advise but pls don't tell me to look for you to satisfied my hunger for I really want to try pleasing him.

hi sis,
i think you had post in the wrong section of the forum.

maybe the senior bros can help to move the thread to the correct place.

[vodafoo]

you may consider experiencing different sex in different positions and places.

[dreadlord]

You may find 1 of the bro here to help you on your sexual urge. Just kidding...

[ishtarsg]

You should actually find out what type of girls your hubby is into actually and what makes you different from them. In that case you can know what your hubby is actually looking for

[akaza24]

Mabe u can go read up some books on how to improve couple sex lives and relationship, I believe a tour to the bookstore/library will able to nab u some resources ;)

[xhardboiled]

Reminds me of a gd friend. Super chio D cupper who is a stunner and yet her husband hardly made love to her except the few times where she gt pregn and give birth. He was however fkg afew gf outside.

i think u shld talk to ur hubby. Sometimes its nt the SEDUCTION. It cld be somethg v basic. Get it sorted 1st and then hopefully he will get horny over u again.

[Glamorous]

I don't mind give you try your skills on me.
Then I can FR for you to review... :p

[SammyHulk]

My soundest advice is go look 4 professional help. U will need a competent counselor 4 ur confused predicament. :)

[utd4ever59]

Its all down to his head.Maybe he likes to make love to other women cos they can satisfy his fantasies like sucking his cock or even let him enter via the back hole or even cum in mouth for him.Have you ever done this to him before?Maybe he lets to lick and suck your vagina but you don't allow him.There are so many reasons and the only possibilty is that both of you are too shy to tell your fantasies to each other.Try watching a blue movie and see his reaction and then you start your actions.Or even better ,do it in the car park or stairscase ...anywhere and everywhere when you have the urge.Rape him if you must.:p

[SaintArc]

To Confused WiFe
is yr hubby younger than u ?
do u have children ?
y not go for a tour like honeymoon do u think it will be better and see more concerts go bk to courtship Days

msg me

[Raidster1]

i think is better to talk to him. he should know what he wants from you.




my 2 cents.

[hang37]

maybe u ask urself few qns
1) in first place why u two marry?
2) did u do anything wrong to him first?
3) any medical problem for him?

[antlau]

good day sis,

another possibility is that your husband may feel inferior or scared of unable to satisfy your needs (since you said you have a high sex drive), and thus prefer to avoid making love to you. Then he may go outside and use money to satisfy his own "feelings"...

the only advice is communication and seek professional help.

All the best and take care.

[DaveConnell78]

Hi,
Hoped it help u...
Maybe u sld try to kiss him 1st with more passion then touch his sensitive parts (not private) but other near it...sld think of doing it outside...maybe garden it will increased his sex drive if do outside...

If u try many ways just to get him high...and still no chance...then maybe "love" factors not around anymore as u know..."make love" means there's love factor not just pure sex only...gd luck:)

[insomia]

actually, your relationship is very abnormal. and maybe i could share advices with you. your pm is full.

[scott999]

Appreciate it if you can give me some advise but pls don't tell me to look for you to satisfied my hunger for I really want to try pleasing him.

Here's one good advice - Start by reading my FRs in my signature. ;)

The other links in my signature might be useful for you too...

[KING1788]

Hi ,may be ur husband got a medical problem ? or is he a gay in the 1st place?
BTW,i am also high sex drive ,if u need a fuck buddy ,pm mi.

[shanghaifun]

Hi,

I have problem seducing my husband. We have been married for not more than 2 years but he does not like to make luv to me, futhermore he has affairs behind my back.
I can say I am a not too bad looking chinese gal with seductive looks as there are men around who wanted me to be their lover but I have declined them ( By the way I am a pure Singaporean). Can any good men out there advise me what else can I do? I have tried sexy undergarments, nighty but still no use.
Since courtship we hardly have sex for more than 10 times so it is impossible that he is sick of me. When we do make luv, he cannot do it for long and I am a high sex drive kind of gal, its driving me crazy!! Appreciate it if you can give me some advise but pls don't tell me to look for you to satisfied my hunger for I really want to try pleasing him.

dear sis,

first of all, i really pity u..but i do understand man as i a man too...

..."do u feel sick eating the same meal everyday"..

Basically, u may need to talk to your hubby first..but clamly...and in turn..if u do hv sex..try the following :

Man tends to like the follow :

1. Mind blowing deep throat blow job without condom
2. some foreplay like licking the nipples, sucking it..
3. while sucking the nipples, slowly strod your hubby dick
4. move south and give me a good good good blowjob and occassionally sucking his balls...
5. if u dare...u may even lick his ASShole..make sure he shower already
6. if possible...let him do doggie with u while u are in G-string...make sure it RED...

i hope the following will help improve your relation with your hubby...in this world now..it v v v v common (easy) to fuck with others... easily can find commerical girl who charge $60 / session and did a wonderful job...trust me on this..

best of luck..

Shanghaifun

[TheGreatOne]

TS,

no offence intended but do you happened to have foul pussy odour? :confused:

[loner7272]

Hi sis! If ur hubby had affairs behind u & yet don like to have sex with u.
Problem come frm ur hubby not u. If he still luv u, no matter wat he wil
still make luv to u. I think he has no feeling in u anymore. Don have to try pleasing him by finding ways to improve ur SEX!!! Once a man's heart is not with u, no matter how hard u try is still effortless!!!
Try talk to him & find out where or wat went WRONG.
Wish u good luck!!! :)

[goodpartner]

This confused gal is having problem even getting her hubby to bed her lah, so no point teaching her about what to do ON the bed...

These 2 advice are most sound indeed :

My soundest advice is go look 4 professional help. U will need a competent counselor 4 ur confused predicament. :)

maybe u ask urself few qns
1) in first place why u two marry?
2) did u do anything wrong to him first?
3) any medical problem for him?

The counselor will probably ask u those questions above anyway.

First of all, as per 1) above, I dun understand why nowadays ppl still wanna get married if they are not sexually compatible; I know there are, but it's mostly becoz of gratitude to the other party or the lengthy of courtship - all the wrong reasons.

And 2) is very true too, as a man will not want to make love to you with lots of anger and hate in the mind.

That's WHY he is eating outside; this is the effect, not the cause.

[goodpartner]

TS,

no offence intended but do you happened to have foul pussy odour? :confused:

Wah, this one is very probable... but if that hubby knew about this since courtship days and STILL marry her, then her hubby ought to be shot for not making love with her now becoz of this very reason.

Easy problem to solve if that's the case, so likely not the cause :p

[joens86]

Seriously if you need go to a family relation counselor, sit down and talk it may work too.

Some question, this question you may wanna think they may be a contributing factor.

1. are you very fierce?

2. when he reach home are you mostly asleep?

3. have you done something unknowingly making him piss with you ?

if you find me helpful may ask me for more opinion.

best regards

[jjlsk777]

Seriously if you need go to a family relation counselor, sit down and talk it may work too.

Some question, this question you may wanna think they may be a contributing factor.

1. are you very fierce?

2. when he reach home are you mostly asleep?

3. have you done something unknowingly making him piss with you ?

if you find me helpful may ask me for more opinion.

best regards


TS,
you two really needs to communicate and seek some help from the family relation counselor. wish you all the best.

[astrozz]

Hi,

I have problem seducing my husband. We have been married for not more than 2 years but he does not like to make luv to me, futhermore he has affairs behind my back.
I can say I am a not too bad looking chinese gal with seductive looks as there are men around who wanted me to be their lover but I have declined them

Since courtship we hardly have sex for more than 10 times so it is impossible that he is sick of me. When we do make luv, he cannot do it for long and I am a high sex drive kind of gal, its driving me crazy!!


Clearly , something is wrong with your husband :rolleyes:

[ekemono]

She mentioned she is high on sex drive ??
She registered to post this on FL dome ??
she purposely mentioned she is a local when her problems has nothing to do with nationality ??
and school holiday haven't ended ??

So potentially cock teasing

[soundworks]

She mentioned she is high on sex drive ??
She registered to post this on FL dome ??
she purposely mentioned she is a local when her problems has nothing to do with nationality ??
and school holiday haven't ended ??

So potentially cock teasingi suspect the threadstarter is a guy and a very bored one too!;)

[wat2woopee]

Hi,

I have problem seducing my husband. We have been married for not more than 2 years but he does not like to make luv to me, futhermore he has affairs behind my back.
I can say I am a not too bad looking chinese gal with seductive looks as there are men around who wanted me to be their lover but I have declined them ( By the way I am a pure Singaporean). Can any good men out there advise me what else can I do? I have tried sexy undergarments, nighty but still no use.
Since courtship we hardly have sex for more than 10 times so it is impossible that he is sick of me. When we do make luv, he cannot do it for long and I am a high sex drive kind of gal, its driving me crazy!! Appreciate it if you can give me some advise but pls don't tell me to look for you to satisfied my hunger for I really want to try pleasing him.

SCHOOL HOLIDAYS...... :mad:

[Taiko2006]

hi sis,
i think you had post in the wrong section of the forum.

maybe the senior bros can help to move the thread to the correct place.

Looking deep, maybe she din get the wrong thread. Maybe she can do a little FL. Can earn some money and at the same time find out whats the men in Singapore are looking for in woman, especially in having sex... Since she says she have high sex drive, then she can get the best of both world. This thread have men with lots of sex experience and high sex drive. Words can't tell how to do it. Try it. So you are in the correct track, Nikkie. Try me.

[bbbj-lover]

i suspect the threadstarter is a guy and a very bored one too!;)

Ya, I also think so.

[wat2woopee]

Ya, I also think so.

Not Guy, GAY:mad:

[greenboy]

i suspect the threadstarter is a guy and a very bored one too!;)

wah.... bo bao. BUT.... must give TS benefit of doubt bah.... haha. anyway TS, if ur problem truely exist, then, (just curious) what are u actually trying to achieve by posting ur query here? you mentioned that ur hubby has affairs outside, a normal wife would blow her top just knowing that. you mentioned that you are trying to get him to screw you, but he doesn't. are you actually trying to find ways to get him to screw you or are you actually trying to save your marriage by getting him to screw you? if it is the latter, then do the both of you actually understand the meaning of marriage? nvr was marriage 1 way unless its for money... lolz. joking. if u wanna save the marriage, trying to get him to screw u is not an option, you may want to try and recall y he married u and how you differ from then and now or how he differ from that time. if its just about sex, then you should rephrase the post. many will come to u if u remove the last few sentence.

forgive me for being direct. but i find this an isult to the word marriage, as i just got married.

[jason.8987]

hi hi, maybe u can contact me also, so i can really tell u abt wat u need to do ok ? [email protected] add me.

[whatafuck]

firstly hor...you post here where thosands of horny guys with harden dick waiting for good catch ...you only need to ask.....you might be suprise that one of the guys here could be your husband.... if not then satisfy your high sex drive and wait lor....hehehehe

[kwst79]

Hi Confused gal,

I think one of the bros is right, you should seek professional help as in a marriage counsellor. Dont think you'll get any sound advise to answer your problems.

Hope you get your answer soon and hope it all works out for your marriage.

=)
kwst79

[makelove]

Poor girl.... your husband should be very honored his wife, actually make the attempts and effort to learn how to serve him well!!!

some wife fuck care.....dead fish.
thats' why the FL market is thriving

[myst]

Your hubby is so lucky to have you.

I suggest you have a good talk with your hubby. Or if you prefer non-confrontational, write him a letter and express how you feel. Importance is to stress what is wrong and cannot go on indefinitely. Provoke him to express his thoughts, about your relationship. Depending on his character, he may try to evade or feign ignorance when the storm blows over. You must force/coax him for an answer else this will simply continue.

I can only give you my opinion based on what's wrong with my marriage. The guy when married, looks for a girl not unlike his mother, someone who cares for him unconditionally, and who takes care of his well being. If he is sensitive, he would do likewise, otherwise there are some who take the wife for granted or refuse to grow up and behave like boys. I've learnt my lesson unfortunately it has progressed beyond repair. The trust is gone when she found solace in another man.

He is taking you for granted. No doubt eating the same dish everyday is boring. But that shows his immaturity and he is not ready for marriage at all.

Have a good talk with him. Make him understand your needs. If nothing change, decide for yourself if this marriage is worth pursuing. I assume you do not have kids, you have to decide this before having kids. Never get children into the picture.

Last but not least, good luck.

[HotMandom]

HI

you have probably posted your message into the wrong section.

Nonetheless, i am Luke. Chinese M 175cm69kg, self employed.

i have a wife, and she is gorgeous. 1.71m 53kg ...all things and man wants in a wife. She is a good mother and hardworking and she loves me dearly. Except, like your hubby., she does not like sex.

if u do not mind, i like to chat more with you. Perhaps we can help each other by learning abt how to seduce our spouses.

my msn is [email protected]

regards
Luke

[bed69man]

hi,

as yourself a qns. wat he wan? sex or love? he might be very much in love with u but wanted sex from another ger which know what he is lookin for. why not, go holiday and have it out of this small daily place. sometime can try to be a bit wild like, having it out in open.

at the end. try to know wat he "want" and make him "want". not all man see ger with big breast get horny. hee...:p

[accord_max68]

hello , did u like to do FL now ?
pls reply me pm...
thanx!!!!

[Lauteko]

Nikkie, If you are trully what you are. Do reply. We are all curious. We all like to share. If you oso wants to share, then you are also welcome.

[timmy0123]

No replies from TS??

Sis, I think you should sit down with your husband and talk about how you feel. If the problem only started recently, it might be that your relationship is straining and therefore he does not have the "mood" for sex. Are you nagging at him every day about minor things in the household? Sometimes when my OC nags too much I will "lose" the mood even if I was feeling horny before that.

[ah rat]

i suspect the threadstarter is a guy and a very bored one too!;)

SCHOOL HOLIDAYS...... :mad:

Just wait and see ,her or his last log in -Last Activity: 19-06-2008 05:22 PM

[chutiya]

maybe it's the husband 1st affair? First time overtake a car on highway, and cannot stop speeding cos the feeling damn shiok.
Anyway, bottomline is you need to access the situation. I know some of the advise here is to ask you to talk to him but if the poison is too deep, he'll treat it as . So you play along. If no kids, easy but if got kids, good luck to you!
This is my 2 cents thought.

[Accord_JDM]

highly a prank case here... :mad:

dear bros who like to help, i suggust u wait and see before wasting more of your time on this...

[Da Vinci]

threads like this brings fun and entertainment, fresh novelty to this playground

[birdtau08]

Hi,

I have problem seducing my husband. We have been married for not more than 2 years but he does not like to make luv to me, futhermore he has affairs behind my back.
I can say I am a not too bad looking chinese gal with seductive looks as there are men around who wanted me to be their lover but I have declined them ( By the way I am a pure Singaporean). Can any good men out there advise me what else can I do? I have tried sexy undergarments, nighty but still no use.
Since courtship we hardly have sex for more than 10 times so it is impossible that he is sick of me. When we do make luv, he cannot do it for long and I am a high sex drive kind of gal, its driving me crazy!! Appreciate it if you can give me some advise but pls don't tell me to look for you to satisfied my hunger for I really want to try pleasing him.

Hi nikkie,

You need to re-make the chemistry... this is some nice stuff we bro practices here...

fling with a man will opens up your view for sure... I am not proposing for you to try me as that would oppose to your wish on the posting.

One day if you become a FL, do feel free to PM me as I will bonk you with some different variety; you will enjoy for sure.:p

[susuyamyam]

highly a prank case here... :mad:

dear bros who like to help, i suggust u wait and see before wasting more of your time on this...

I think so too haha, last activity is after the ONLY posting at 8AM is --> Last Activity: 19-06-2008 09:22 AM

[dgsk]

Talk to your man. But not in a confrontational manner. And find a condusive time and place. Be prepared for him to throw a temper in denial, but do persist without throwing a tantrum yourself. Good Luck.

[comm]

Hi,

I have problem seducing my husband. We have been married for not more than 2 years but he does not like to make luv to me, futhermore he has affairs behind my back.
I can say I am a not too bad looking chinese gal with seductive looks as there are men around who wanted me to be their lover but I have declined them ( By the way I am a pure Singaporean). Can any good men out there advise me what else can I do? I have tried sexy undergarments, nighty but still no use.
Since courtship we hardly have sex for more than 10 times so it is impossible that he is sick of me. When we do make luv, he cannot do it for long and I am a high sex drive kind of gal, its driving me crazy!! Appreciate it if you can give me some advise but pls don't tell me to look for you to satisfied my hunger for I really want to try pleasing him.

wah so bad....have you tried asking him directly face to face or a marriage counselor ? is sex is the only problem you 2 are facing

[David_Ginola]

Case of another prank??????:confused: