View Full Version : Enjoying it and at e same time dun wan it
AppleStar
02-07-2008, 06:50 PM
Nid some help fr bros here. Whenever i engage foreplay wif gf, she seems to like wat i do, fondling her breasts/nips, fingering her, licking her everywher etc coz can see fr her facial expression n soft moans. But whenever i bring her to the height of almost orgasm, she always hold me back, wan to get me to stop... Then i got ask her if she likes wat im doing then she said yes, then i ask him then how come ask me stop or pull my hand away, then she say she cannot tahan... Duno wats stopping her fr enjoying it, i tot i nv do tings correctly... Any bros here experience same ting?
cheongsterjon
02-07-2008, 07:36 PM
WOW..she say she cannot tahan? bro..you've done a good job! cannot tahan and you bang somemore she will reach the big 'O'..
AppleStar
02-07-2008, 07:57 PM
tried but everytime she'll struggle to get me to stop... dunwan to accidentally hurt her coz she quite small size compared to me...
Charmaine
02-07-2008, 08:22 PM
This can happen to men as well..
I scored with a beautiful woman in a club two years ago and I really couldn't believe my luck when she agreed to follow me back to my place, but I remembered being so drunk then that I hated the sex. The sight of a gorgeous lady riding on top of me right on my own bed was an amazing experience and I was eager to savour every moment of it, but all I wanted to do was visit the bathroom every 10 minutes. Needless to say I had a hard time trying to get it going again everytime I returned and she didn't offer to blow me because she knew my bladder was dangerously full and didn't want to take the risk (if you know what I mean)!
I was so wasted that I had a hard time just maintaining my erection and my ego led me to want to make her not regret her decision (lest she called all her friends the next day complaining how bad a fuck I turned out to be), so I concentrated on giving her a mind-blowing experience (whole world still spinning from the alcohol and all) at the expense of my own enjoyment. She seemed to appreciate it and proceeded to prolong my misery from 2.30am right till dawn. At one point I was so sleepy that I actually stole 40 winks while a hot chick was bouncing on top of me. I almost wanted to suggest to her to climb off me but I knew I would regret it the next morning so I persevered. It seemed more like she was borrowing my dick than I was fucking her the entire night.
I was enjoying it, but sure as hell didn't want it.
True story. Not every one-night stand with a hot girl has a happy ending - this isn't Hollywood. :) Or maybe I'm just a loser.
RayCom
02-07-2008, 08:33 PM
hahaha.I think you do a very good job so thats y she cannot tahan. she worry she will eventually enguage in wild sex if she dun pull the handbrake. But i did experience some gals are just too shy to cum in front of their bf cos she make make funny sound or face when she cum hehe just joking....
but some gals are too self concious , they actually feel that it is a sin to cum or enjoy sex. so you better find the actual reason. another reason is she may have already cum already. Some gals after they cum they actually dun like to be touched .:D
dun ask me why cos I also dunno them... gals are difficult to understand .... hahaha
alanthegreat
02-07-2008, 09:23 PM
some girls experience orgasm as if they are about to pee. probably that is the reason. my gf alws say she felt like peeing during her climax and ask me to switch position etc to calm down and reclimax.. she probably have the probia of wetting the bed. :D
forumer
02-07-2008, 10:30 PM
has your gf ever experienced orgasm?
one of my earlier sexual encounters was similar. gf enjoying the process, but dun dare to let it all go (cum)... cos she said similar to peeing feeling..:o
sex addick
02-07-2008, 10:33 PM
soem girls just don't dare to let it all out..... its like pee really, liquid coming out.
Encourage them to cum.. they will really enjoy!!!:D
True true ... if they never O before ... so next time no need give chance ... when they say stop, you must shift gear even higher and get them over the cliff :)
Toyota Honda
03-07-2008, 09:31 AM
Ya, experienced it with my ex before. I was licking her 'sister' and finger fucking her at the same time. She was enjoying so much that she was moaning very loudly and holding on to my head at the same time. But suddenly she say, 'dear, don't. stop now..'
TheGreatOne
03-07-2008, 09:41 AM
Yes i also did experienced this.
Was rocking furiously to get off my load then she suddenly stop me saying she feel like peeing. Ask her to just pee la, she die die don't want.
XiaoJing
03-07-2008, 09:43 AM
Haha, the experienced gers will say harder faster harder faster ... :D
Steadyman1
03-07-2008, 10:03 AM
It will take a while for the girl to O or shift gear..
More practice make perfect.:p
clan004
03-07-2008, 10:13 AM
Agree ... even the ger must be psychologically ready for it ... :D
ifeelhorny
03-07-2008, 10:25 AM
interesting real life stories from u all bros...
monster98
03-07-2008, 11:08 AM
Nid some help fr bros here. Whenever i engage foreplay wif gf, she seems to like wat i do, fondling her breasts/nips, fingering her, licking her everywher etc coz can see fr her facial expression n soft moans. But whenever i bring her to the height of almost orgasm, she always hold me back, wan to get me to stop... Then i got ask her if she likes wat im doing then she said yes, then i ask him then how come ask me stop or pull my hand away, then she say she cannot tahan... Duno wats stopping her fr enjoying it, i tot i nv do tings correctly... Any bros here experience same ting?
ok....ok.....let me just give u a very brief summary... Short and simple... :D
Don't doubt about yourself, U did a good job. foreplay is very important. Every girl will definitely enjoy foreplay... Foreplay definitely made a gal very high if u did it the correct way... at a point of the foreplay where the gal is unable to tahan anymore, that is the time where she want you to start making love with them. They still enjoy with your real dick rather than using your hand............ Don't believe????? Ask her and she will give you the same answer as i did...... :p
Bramble
03-07-2008, 11:28 AM
Kong Long ... well said .... you should know you are expert DOM :D
Regular1000
03-07-2008, 12:51 PM
... Duno wats stopping her fr enjoying it, i tot i nv do tings correctly... Any bros here experience same ting?
I hope I am wrong but it sounds like your gf might be having a possibilty of a narrow vaginal track. Meaning if you have a relatively long penis, it would actually hit her Anterior Fornix at Uterus every time you penetrate her at your max.
After the initial sensation, she would be feeling like your penis head was ‘banging on her stomach’ kind of pain.
Talk to her, and seek professional advice if true, but not us, we are only cheongsters... half past six fellows! :p
All the best and happy bonking!
Bro regular1000, is that a serious problem, my ger also complain that bonking her is like bonking her stomach
Regular1000
03-07-2008, 01:01 PM
Bro regular1000, is that a serious problem, my ger also complain that bonking her is like bonking her stomach
congratulation, you have a long cock lor! :D :D :D
thorn_horn
03-07-2008, 02:49 PM
congratulation, you have a long cock lor! :D :D :D
Haha!!! that must be the longest cock in the world to reach the tummy
jiro08
03-07-2008, 02:53 PM
its hard for my gf to reach orgasm too. sometimes i do foreplay on her til she very song and i ask for sex and she don't want. :(
easybaby
03-07-2008, 03:47 PM
Trust me, she's just feeling shy.
The feeling of a female orgasm is just as when she's about to release pee. So your girl may not feel appropriate to do so, because she may not be able to tell whether she's really gonna pee, or if she's reaching her orgasm.
Talk to her about it. It's just a mental inhibition. Assure her that it's gonna be okay, you love her the way she is. Tell her to relax... and don't resist :p
Ah Orh
03-07-2008, 06:08 PM
Make sure GF is mentally prepared first.
congratulation, you have a long cock lor!
Haha, then mine hv to grow a few inches more, now only 6"
Haha!!! that must be the longest cock in the world to reach the tummy
:) bro feel like hitting tummy nia, I think in certain position with deep penetration, the ger will feel like it .
Regular1000
04-07-2008, 10:39 AM
Haha, then mine hv to grow a few inches more, now only 6"
wow, 6" hotdog!! :D :p
no worries lah, i think u n your ger should b doing fine. I suggest u sacrifice a little by spending more time on foreplay and aportion more time on position with less full length penetration.
I am no profession in this field hor... just my 2 cents!
have an enjoyable weekend with ur ger ger, happy bonking! :p ;)
AppleStar
04-07-2008, 01:12 PM
I hope I am wrong but it sounds like your gf might be having a possibilty of a narrow vaginal track. Meaning if you have a relatively long penis, it would actually hit her Anterior Fornix at Uterus every time you penetrate her at your max.
After the initial sensation, she would be feeling like your penis head was ‘banging on her stomach’ kind of pain.
Talk to her, and seek professional advice if true, but not us, we are only cheongsters... half past six fellows! :p
All the best and happy bonking!
Ya, i felt it when doing deep penetration but she seems to like it coz 1 time she say a certain position she can feel my whole length n she likes it... But still seems quite difficult to get her to achieve orgasm in any position... haiz...
Bangster
04-07-2008, 02:04 PM
Bring her to a hotel where you 2 don't have to worry about dirtying the linen.
Load a hot porno vcd where the actress orgas during fingering, into the player. Start foreplay and try to match the sequence of the show.
When the actress in the show starts to show signs of cumming...talk dirty to your girl and ask her to be like that actress. Tell her she is making your fantasy come alive. If she wants to pee, ask her to go ahead, dont be scared since you guys r not at home. Rub quicker and ask her to lose all her inhibitions and follow the actress to please you.
Hopefully she will reach her first real orgasm, and hey if your lucky, you may get yourself a SQUIRTER!! Never cum yourself also never mind...see liao also lagi song
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