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Met my fren on Tues. I did her two times many years back..
We did heavy petting on Tues night. Got a msg from her next day asking do I want more. Found out that she is actually married but hubby got infected...and said she is clean but if I dun want, it's ok & she understand. I didnt ask her what her hubby kena.
I got a shock :eek: on her marital status & hubby thing. No wonder she's so horny every time. Now I worried. and dunno wanna do it with her onot.
unsung80
24-07-2008, 08:49 PM
No worries, if you don't want you can share with some of the good bros here. Got points to earn somemore. :D
fenwick
24-07-2008, 09:04 PM
Better not bro ! Maybe she already got from her husband now trying to take revenge on other man .....Think twice !!!!:cool:
Keroberus
24-07-2008, 09:14 PM
Better not bro ! Maybe she already got from her husband now trying to take revenge on other man .....Think twice !!!!:cool:
But no reason to sabo an old friend right? :confused:
unsung80
24-07-2008, 09:40 PM
Then better send her for check up first. :p
akirawatase
24-07-2008, 10:33 PM
play safe bro. raw can lead to war. always remember this golden rule.
Scared the shit out of me...did raw with her many years back..I think 4 yrs :eek:
I will follow all bros advice
ferrari355
24-07-2008, 11:17 PM
this is how i see it.
her husband's been infected and she believes she's clean, so doesn't want to do it with her hubby so as not to catch the infection.
however, she knows that she still needs it very much, hence she tries to get it from her friends, perhaps those that she can trust to keep it discreet. i doubt she would go around looking for sex from just about anyone if she can't get it from her friends. cos that would open her up to possible infections as well.
so TS, this is my suggestion to you if you want to take advantage of this situation and get a FB for yourself easily, yet stay safe. explain to her your willingness to take care of her needs but yet also your fears of complications. assure her of your respect for her as well as your trust in her. but explain to her how you value her friendship and how you don't want any subsequent infections, if any, to sour that friendship. so in order to prevent such things from happening, ask her tactfully and lovingly, if she would accept a request to go for a checkup.
if you use the right tone, the right words, in the right situation, i believe she'll accept your request especially if she can see how after a simple checkup, she can have (1) a regular sex partner (cutting down chances of disease and also privacy of the arrangement), (2) all the sex she wants with a friend she's comfortable with and trusts.
it's a win-win situation for both. try it. no harm trying since based on current situation, you're not getting any sex from her.
Ultimate1234
24-07-2008, 11:30 PM
The best advice to TS is to control your urge. It is best not to take this kind of risk.
wat2woopee
24-07-2008, 11:59 PM
Met my fren on Tues. I did her two times many years back..
We did heavy petting on Tues night. Got a msg from her next day asking do I want more. Found out that she is actually married but hubby got infected...and said she is clean but if I dun want, it's ok & she understand. I didnt ask her what her hubby kena.
I got a shock :eek: on her marital status & hubby thing. No wonder she's so horny every time. Now I worried. and dunno wanna do it with her onot.
Let me ask u a simple question, what happens if the hubby got the infection from her in the 1st place? Then u ho sei or her??
chatlovers
25-07-2008, 12:06 AM
this is how i see it.
her husband's been infected and she believes she's clean, so doesn't want to do it with her hubby so as not to catch the infection.
however, she knows that she still needs it very much, hence she tries to get it from her friends, perhaps those that she can trust to keep it discreet. i doubt she would go around looking for sex from just about anyone if she can't get it from her friends. cos that would open her up to possible infections as well.
so TS, this is my suggestion to you if you want to take advantage of this situation and get a FB for yourself easily, yet stay safe. explain to her your willingness to take care of her needs but yet also your fears of complications. assure her of your respect for her as well as your trust in her. but explain to her how you value her friendship and how you don't want any subsequent infections, if any, to sour that friendship. so in order to prevent such things from happening, ask her tactfully and lovingly, if she would accept a request to go for a checkup.
if you use the right tone, the right words, in the right situation, i believe she'll accept your request especially if she can see how after a simple checkup, she can have (1) a regular sex partner (cutting down chances of disease and also privacy of the arrangement), (2) all the sex she wants with a friend she's comfortable with and trusts.
it's a win-win situation for both. try it. no harm trying since based on current situation, you're not getting any sex from her.
Nice Advice Bro Ferrari. Your mind works faster than ferrari... TS worth giving a try. Anyway its your call.
weisianz
25-07-2008, 12:36 AM
mm.. try to persuade her to go for a check up first? better for u and her..
D@rk Force
25-07-2008, 12:41 AM
Better don't since you know her status
bringiton
25-07-2008, 01:32 AM
Kelantan Lane beckons. A check b4 bonging her will be alot safer..:)
HumpBackOak
25-07-2008, 02:01 AM
Met my fren on Tues. I did her two times many years back..
We did heavy petting on Tues night. Got a msg from her next day asking do I want more. Found out that she is actually married but hubby got infected...and said she is clean but if I dun want, it's ok & she understand. I didnt ask her what her hubby kena.
I got a shock :eek: on her marital status & hubby thing. No wonder she's so horny every time. Now I worried. and dunno wanna do it with her onot.
i strongly suggest both of you take a trip and get tested first.
just incase, since she already mentioned that her hubby is infected.
rooter
25-07-2008, 11:37 AM
i strongly suggest both of you take a trip and get tested first.
just incase, since she already mentioned that her hubby is infected.
yes, tell her it's also to protect herself ie. to check if TS is clean? haha...reverse psychology???:D
MightyYoung
25-07-2008, 12:40 PM
Golden rules for cheong, play safe.
I once have the same experience with u, but mine was a totally different case and it scare the shit out of me.
I met a girl on IRC and later continue into ym... she told me her husband is oversea and she feel lonely.. then mah ho sei liao loh.. ask her came out and went to H81 and have a wild night. That time I was using condom but discover it is broke when done deal. Well I didn't actually think that much that time since she is married with 2 kids.
Then after 2 days, she told me that her husband actually infected by a deathly STD. Read "DEATHLY". Shit man, and the next few days, I started to develop the symptons of the big A. Fever, red rashes etc.. Really scare the hell out of me and dare not tell anybody.
I suspected also being infected and need to wait a full 3 months before go for the AFA annonymous test. Result come back negative and I really experienced 3 months of sleepless night.
6 months after the incident, meet her around raffles place.. and she suggest we go for another round... shit man,,, reject directly...
so for TS, better play safe hor... else u will hv 3 months of sleepless night... PLAY SAFE
Flavoured
25-07-2008, 01:31 PM
no worth it bro, some STDs cant be cured (not talking about HIV) if you're lucky, you get painless bumps which might subside or you might be painful reoccuring blister like crap all over your genitals 3 to 4 times a year.
thats alot worse then aids, at least when you get aids, you die after a couple of years.
Young_Gun
25-07-2008, 02:22 PM
Nice Advice Bro Ferrari. Your mind works faster than ferrari... TS worth giving a try. Anyway its your call.
Ya, talk to her in the right tone. sure work one... play safe and don't forget to write FR after that. :p
chilin
25-07-2008, 03:06 PM
i tHinK pLay sAfe beTter....Be sAfe rather sOrrY
Fuckster
25-07-2008, 03:07 PM
世上没有白吃的午餐,小心一点吧兄弟 :d
aces68
25-07-2008, 03:33 PM
世上没有白吃的午餐,小心一点吧兄弟 :d
so true..take care, bro.
Thanks to all bro for your advice.
How about continue on only petting? I guess that should be fine:confused:
colins
25-07-2008, 07:21 PM
Petting? Still can't let go eh?
If its me, I won't even kiss her.
I-Connect
25-07-2008, 07:30 PM
..I got a shock :eek: on her marital status & hubby thing. No wonder she's so horny every time. Now I worried. and dunno wanna do it with her onot.
Bro, 2 reasons you should not proceed further, 1. she is married, you may risk being the third party, 2. better be safe then sorry, don't know what her husband contracted any thing deadly anot.
Keroberus
25-07-2008, 07:46 PM
Thanks to all bro for your advice.
How about continue on only petting? I guess that should be fine:confused:
But heavy petting can easily lead to....sex and then where will you be? I bet in the sack.
ok. i will put a full stop with her. thks bros:)
jameswood
25-07-2008, 08:23 PM
Mind i ask a silly question,what is her hubby infected with????
kelvan
25-07-2008, 10:09 PM
this is how i see it.
her husband's been infected and she believes she's clean, so doesn't want to do it with her hubby so as not to catch the infection.
however, she knows that she still needs it very much, hence she tries to get it from her friends, perhaps those that she can trust to keep it discreet. i doubt she would go around looking for sex from just about anyone if she can't get it from her friends. cos that would open her up to possible infections as well.
so TS, this is my suggestion to you if you want to take advantage of this situation and get a FB for yourself easily, yet stay safe. explain to her your willingness to take care of her needs but yet also your fears of complications. assure her of your respect for her as well as your trust in her. but explain to her how you value her friendship and how you don't want any subsequent infections, if any, to sour that friendship. so in order to prevent such things from happening, ask her tactfully and lovingly, if she would accept a request to go for a checkup.
if you use the right tone, the right words, in the right situation, i believe she'll accept your request especially if she can see how after a simple checkup, she can have (1) a regular sex partner (cutting down chances of disease and also privacy of the arrangement), (2) all the sex she wants with a friend she's comfortable with and trusts.
it's a win-win situation for both. try it. no harm trying since based on current situation, you're not getting any sex from her.
good say :)
hotsoup16
25-07-2008, 10:25 PM
TS,
Always remember this deeply in mind:" There is no free lunch in this World"
Mind i ask a silly question,what is her hubby infected with????
Bro, I didnt ask her
madix
26-07-2008, 03:59 AM
not worth the risk i say.
tempting at face value, but there are other flowers to pick...
Vectra
26-07-2008, 08:05 AM
We did heavy petting on Tues night. Got a msg from her next day asking do I want more. Found out that she is actually married but hubby got infected...and said she is clean but if I dun want, it's ok & she understand. I didnt ask her what her hubby kena.
Sibei dangerous. Like walking a land filled with mines:eek:
Xgenre
26-07-2008, 09:36 AM
Bro, I didnt ask her
You come here ask us so many questions but you didn't ask her the most important question? Let that how to help...? What if she tells you that her husband is only infected with Hep B? I tell you giving her up will be quite wasted if so. Ask lar... Now we ask you to open your mouth only what, not like opening wallet or opening ass right?
Ijustwantoloveu
26-07-2008, 10:28 AM
bro,
if she wanted to infect you deliberately she wouldnt tell you all these things rite? so i think she just wants to have sex with you , so no harm trying. to be safe, pretend to tell her to go for tests as you are concerned for her as a friend that she may have been infected by her hubby
michael_368
26-07-2008, 11:24 AM
Hi Bro,
As others bros already mentioned,
i strongly suggest both of you take a trip and get tested first.
Since she already mentioned that her hubby is infected.
X_plorer
27-07-2008, 08:33 AM
this is how i see it.
her husband's been infected and she believes she's clean, so doesn't want to do it with her hubby so as not to catch the infection.
however, she knows that she still needs it very much, hence she tries to get it from her friends, perhaps those that she can trust to keep it discreet. i doubt she would go around looking for sex from just about anyone if she can't get it from her friends. cos that would open her up to possible infections as well.
so TS, this is my suggestion to you if you want to take advantage of this situation and get a FB for yourself easily, yet stay safe. explain to her your willingness to take care of her needs but yet also your fears of complications. assure her of your respect for her as well as your trust in her. but explain to her how you value her friendship and how you don't want any subsequent infections, if any, to sour that friendship. so in order to prevent such things from happening, ask her tactfully and lovingly, if she would accept a request to go for a checkup.
if you use the right tone, the right words, in the right situation, i believe she'll accept your request especially if she can see how after a simple checkup, she can have (1) a regular sex partner (cutting down chances of disease and also privacy of the arrangement), (2) all the sex she wants with a friend she's comfortable with and trusts.
it's a win-win situation for both. try it. no harm trying since based on current situation, you're not getting any sex from her.
Bro ferrari 355,
I salute you.. Your explaination is too good and absolutely acceptable.. Too bad i dun know how to upz you.. Otherwise confirm up you...
jacky chan
27-07-2008, 09:35 AM
bro even is free but reject is better than sorry. Moreover all bros here always got cheap n gd lobang. Jus control the big head over the small head wil do. Cheers
WiredBrain
30-07-2008, 04:06 AM
One more issue:
Even she agrees to do a checkup and the results are negative, you'll still need a condom because she's still with her husband. You won't know when she will give in and has sex with her husband.
By the way, hepatitis B is not something you'll want to have as there is a very small percentage that it'll cause death.
SILVERBULLET_C
30-07-2008, 04:54 PM
Bro, this sort of thing is very risky. Thankfully she is honest in disclosing her status (married) and hubby's (infected). These 2 info is enough to ring alarm bell in a head man.
Bonking a married woman do create some sort of excitement but the stigma of doing it with another man wife can caused guilty in the long run.
Furthermore you dont know what the hubby gets. All we know that she might get it too. Even if it is not the dreaded AIDS. Some STD can cause a huge embarrassment to oneself. Got a friend in customer service line that contrated oral herpes. When the virus attack, you can see very clearly a huge ulcer forming at the corner of the lips.
For some they wont know what is that but for bros here, one look and you can tell already. Anyway just my 2 cents worth of though here. Not offending any bros here. Cheers........
Lanchio1
30-07-2008, 06:39 PM
Agree wif hotsoup16 "There's no free lunch"
Just be careful.
old_yet_horny
30-07-2008, 06:55 PM
Bro TS...
Since u already up her before.. just let her go since she mentioned that her husband is "affected"..
Seriously, bros here got no idea what the hubby is affected with but really not worth the risk since u aleady up her before...
Just move on and change target.
Good luck.:)
Stephenchow
30-07-2008, 06:56 PM
Met my fren on Tues. I did her two times many years back..
We did heavy petting on Tues night. Got a msg from her next day asking do I want more. Found out that she is actually married but hubby got infected...and said she is clean but if I dun want, it's ok & she understand. I didnt ask her what her hubby kena.
I got a shock :eek: on her marital status & hubby thing. No wonder she's so horny every time. Now I worried. and dunno wanna do it with her onot.
Bro, She got hubby and might be infected. What you thinking?
XtintX
30-07-2008, 07:18 PM
No worries, if you don't want you can share with some of the good bros here. Got points to earn somemore. :D
Be careful..... points is not important. Health is!
Heaven_Sent
30-07-2008, 07:25 PM
Better be safe than sorry bro :(
bros...couldn't resist meeting her for two nites..just petting and some touching.
lucky my big head controls the small head..the 2nd meeting she took off her tights..went blading then met her and hanky panky in my car.
Guess she was too turned on and undress my jean, luckily I stopped and didnt continue.
Think of it, not worth it at all...I shall move on...and hunt for other targets.
thanks bros for the advice
David_Ginola
30-07-2008, 09:42 PM
Bro ferrari is damn good. TS, i think most bros gave a very good advise here. Whatever it is, u r the one making the decision. :D
cheers
Starlite
31-07-2008, 07:42 AM
bros...couldn't resist meeting her for two nites..just petting and some touching.
...
Bro TS, it is hard to resist such temptation but it is safer not to proceed as you have chosen. It could have been better if you would ask her what her husband has gotten then you know better to cheong anot. Better not to live with regret and sorry.
hotshot23sg
23-09-2008, 01:01 AM
dun do it with her
pastandnow
23-09-2008, 02:23 AM
At least your partner tell you. If they dont, u wont even know.
Just take precautionary measures
GRain
12-10-2008, 02:26 AM
Better don't since you know her status
hey dark force ,when you going to pay my money?:rolleyes: pm you also never reply...how can you treat me this way?:mad:
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