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loster
28-07-2008, 10:43 PM
Bros,

Recently have a prob. Can seem to mantain erection when with wife. Dunno what is happening to me. But I can mantain an erection when flirting with my other gal. May I know if bros here encounter the same prob? My wife is slim n pretty btw.

Hope to hear your exp on this.:o

sammyboyfor
29-07-2008, 07:01 AM
Bros,

Recently have a prob. Can seem to mantain erection when with wife. Dunno what is happening to me. But I can mantain an erection when flirting with my other gal. May I know if bros here encounter the same prob? My wife is slim n pretty btw.

Hope to hear your exp on this.:o

You're obviously bored with your wife and she no longer excites you sexually.

Think about your other girl while you're fucking your wife. That'll help maintain your erection.

After all, you're wife is probably thinking about someone else while you're fucking her.:p

weisianz
29-07-2008, 09:17 AM
think u lost interest in having sex with ur wife..

try something new.. talk to her.. create atmosphere.. sometimes guys are like girls.. need something special to spark us off.. :D

HughGrant
29-07-2008, 12:17 PM
After all, you're wife is probably thinking about someone else while you're fucking her.:p

wa, thats a low blow.
but seriously do women do tat? ie fantasize abt someone else while bedding husband

chriskohth
29-07-2008, 12:33 PM
interesting.... do foreplay... touch and kisses.. sure turn you on one....

anyway... the woman will know that u not interested and start looking around for better ones... so u better improve

astonteo1981
29-07-2008, 12:50 PM
You're obviously bored with your wife and she no longer excites you sexually.

Think about your other girl while you're fucking your wife. That'll help maintain your erection.

After all, you're wife is probably thinking about someone else while you're fucking her.:p


tats a nice one lolx

old_yet_horny
29-07-2008, 04:10 PM
wa, thats a low blow.
but seriously do women do tat? ie fantasize abt someone else while bedding husband

Hahahaha... as long as my wife dun call out the wrong name, I am fine with it..kekeke:D

cheongsterjon
29-07-2008, 07:06 PM
Think of some syts or some female colleagues you have been fantasizing over when bonking your wife..sure can erect one...no choice..no matter how pretty your wife is.over time you will still lose interest in her and thats what FLs and WLs are around for right??

wudi
29-07-2008, 08:01 PM
you are probably not turn on by the routine sessions you have with your wifey. create something different. go for some naughty fun. it will add fire to your sessions.

loster
29-07-2008, 08:45 PM
She expect me to be erected instantly the moment she wans it... haix... when i was young it is possible but now seems like abit difficult.

David_Ginola
29-07-2008, 09:04 PM
She expect me to be erected instantly the moment she wans it... haix... when i was young it is possible but now seems like abit difficult.

Tats a difficult task for me too......:(

Bangster
30-07-2008, 02:43 AM
HA HA HA HA HA

That was really funny. very true very true...

Actually I also have this problem sometimes. And while it's not difficult to imagine a girl of your fancy during the deed(I very imaginative one mah), the feel is just different lor.

Seriously, it's more of a mental problem than a physical one when you are facing difficulties sustaining or even starting that erection.

Unless u r horny like the IVS character in Bro Benxmenda's story "Home Wrecker".....knn always "I have feel for you mah" Nabey damn cheesy.

:D

colins
30-07-2008, 07:51 AM
Well Bro TS, at least you're bothered by this problem enough to seek some answers here. Most of the guys would probably get help somewhere else, use that as an excuse to open up other choices.

Xiao Hei
30-07-2008, 08:07 AM
Not sure if thinking of somebody else will work if you bonking your wife, wont it make you feel guilty and lil' bro become even more flaccid .... :)

natsuki
30-07-2008, 08:24 AM
She expect me to be erected instantly the moment she wans it... haix... when i was young it is possible but now seems like abit difficult.

To TS, i dunnoe whether it helps... But my ex-idiot love to ask me wear all sorts of costumes de lo... Try to add in some spice in the bedroom fun bah... Use whip cream? wax? handcuffs? Dun be lik my ex-idiot... He tried to cover my mouth with his hand den after sex still tell me he actually wanna to use pillow covered my mouth... =.='''
Hmmm... Or is she too over demanding den u stress till sianz?

aiyah, as long as she says "darling darling", she's safe already. thts y the PRCs say "bao bei bao bei", so won't call wrg name

but u can always prevent this by spanking her and shout "say my name, say my name" :D

tell her where got everything instant one? even superman wanna save the world also must 1st find a phone booth and wear his underwear outside mah

Haha... Your answers r so cute!! Say ma name~ Say ma name~ Machiam the song... Haha~ Even spiderman oso mus go home change clothes too... LoLx~

loster
30-07-2008, 09:34 AM
haa, thanks. actually i can get a full erection when being bj by a syt. so i guess it is becos of the syt? i m avoiding the syt and hope it solves the problem?

koolie
30-07-2008, 09:45 AM
is psychological... maybe guilt;) be good to her and have fun bro;)

ronaldlimwt
30-07-2008, 11:48 AM
Dear Brother,

1. Go to a urologist to check if you are 35 years old or more. It could be high blood pressure, high cholesetrol or diabetes.
2. Take some chinese herbs like ginseng to boost your energy
3. Take tungat ali or viagra etc before you want to have sex with your wife.
4. Learn to relax and don't think of other girls.
5. Know your own body's ability.

loster
30-07-2008, 03:02 PM
Thanks bro. Any idea what u mean by "know ur own body ability?"

Temujin
30-07-2008, 03:11 PM
Usually penile dysfunction is linked to stress .....

Bangster
30-07-2008, 04:54 PM
One suggestion:

Watch some porn together and then proceed to foreplay lor.
Maybe you can keep replaying the images in your mind after that to sustain the erection.

If nothing helps, try a 3-some. Oops. Bad suggestion. :D

BST10
30-07-2008, 05:01 PM
Bro TS, how long you have not change your bed and blanket? and buy your wife a sexy nightie to wear.....it may help :D

Stephenchow
30-07-2008, 06:39 PM
Bros,

Recently have a prob. Can seem to mantain erection when with wife. Dunno what is happening to me. But I can mantain an erection when flirting with my other gal. May I know if bros here encounter the same prob? My wife is slim n pretty btw.

Hope to hear your exp on this.:o

Ask your wife to give you BBBJ first. Encourage her to talk dirty to you and act slutty.

Bros,

She expect me to be erected instantly the moment she wans it... haix... when i was young it is possible but now seems like abit difficult.



If everything try also cannot, just blame her for no skill lor.:D