Trying to bed PA

[infinitiumus]

There was already a thread on how one brother was bonking his PA and now I am starting one as well.

Well, I have not bonk my PA yet but after my debacle with Carol I need to find a regular fuck buddy and my PA is my next target. But it is tough.

I am not sure if at the end of the day, I will be successful but this will be my journey. But why I decided to start this thread when it was going to be a long shot?

OK. some background first.

My this new PA joined a few months back as temp - replacing the previous PA who was pregnant and going on maternity. But she was learning very fast and she was recently converted to a contract position.

Actually she is not exactly sweet young thing but at a very ripe age of 23 years go. When we converted her to a contract position I had an interview with her - asking her why she wanted to work as PA when based on her qualification, she can do other things. She said she liked to work in my department and like working for me as I am a good boss.

This PA is not a stunning beauty but she was attractive in her ways. Sometimes she put on her specs and I was at times dreaming about bonking her in her specs. Other times she would put on her contact and wow, she would transform herself to a office lady. She is quite tall - at least 1.65 but I guess she had small boobs as is evidenced by her blouse - sometimes I managed to take a peek or two. She was always in office wear and never wear anything sexy - low cut or short skirt... but still the very thought of bonking her in her office wear is driving me crazy at times..

What made me wanting to make a move on her?

The other day I was in another department talking to the manager there. Then after that I was outside his office and flirting with his PA. Wow, his PA more chio (lau chio) and at the same time I realized that his PA was on MSN with my PA. And I managed to catch a glimpse of their conversation. My PA apparently was telling the lau chio that she liked me!

I didn't know if she liked means liked me as a boss or she found me attractive?

With this new knowledge, I know I can perhaps be a bit more aggressive.

Stay tuned for more.. I am not 100% sure that I can bed her but the odds are good if she finds me attractive.. the only thing is that she looks to be conversative.. but that is for me to unlock the horny girl in her. Sometimes underneath a conversative cover is a wild-horny woman trying to get out..

[charsiew]

bro TS, you da MAN..!!

[Corphish]

Early 20s are a good age! Go bro! Go! Corphish cheering you on!

[HumpBackOak]

There was already a thread on how one brother was bonking his PA and now I am starting one as well.

Well, I have not bonk my PA yet but after my debacle with Carol I need to find a regular fuck buddy and my PA is my next target. But it is tough.

I am not sure if at the end of the day, I will be successful but this will be my journey. But why I decided to start this thread when it was going to be a long shot?

OK. some background first.

My this new PA joined a few months back as temp - replacing the previous PA who was pregnant and going on maternity. But she was learning very fast and she was recently converted to a contract position.

Actually she is not exactly sweet young thing but at a very ripe age of 23 years go. When we converted her to a contract position I had an interview with her - asking her why she wanted to work as PA when based on her qualification, she can do other things. She said she liked to work in my department and like working for me as I am a good boss.

This PA is not a stunning beauty but she was attractive in her ways. Sometimes she put on her specs and I was at times dreaming about bonking her in her specs. Other times she would put on her contact and wow, she would transform herself to a office lady. She is quite tall - at least 1.65 but I guess she had small boobs as is evidenced by her blouse - sometimes I managed to take a peek or two. She was always in office wear and never wear anything sexy - low cut or short skirt... but still the very thought of bonking her in her office wear is driving me crazy at times..

What made me wanting to make a move on her?

The other day I was in another department talking to the manager there. Then after that I was outside his office and flirting with his PA. Wow, his PA more chio (lau chio) and at the same time I realized that his PA was on MSN with my PA. And I managed to catch a glimpse of their conversation. My PA apparently was telling the lau chio that she liked me!

I didn't know if she liked means liked me as a boss or she found me attractive?

With this new knowledge, I know I can perhaps be a bit more aggressive.

Stay tuned for more.. I am not 100% sure that I can bed her but the odds are good if she finds me attractive.. the only thing is that she looks to be conversative.. but that is for me to unlock the horny girl in her. Sometimes underneath a conversative cover is a wild-horny woman trying to get out..

I personally think its a bad idea to eat and shyt at the same place, especially since you should be at least management level. ( since you got a PA )

i mean.. meh.. sure its nice to have a "regular fuck" in the comfort of your own office. if you willing to take the repercussions, go ahead!

[infinitiumus]

I personally think its a bad idea to eat and shyt at the same place, especially since you should be at least management level. ( since you got a PA )

i mean.. meh.. sure its nice to have a "regular fuck" in the comfort of your own office. if you willing to take the repercussions, go ahead!

thanks bro. I have had office affair.. it is both exciting and also risky as you said. But for me, as long as I don't physically "fuck in the office" I can manage the risk.

[maila]

Bro, the problem with office tryst is that even if you can manage the risk, can she 'manage' it ....

[infinitiumus]

Bro, the problem with office tryst is that even if you can manage the risk, can she 'manage' it ....

don't know what you meant. For me, my job is not at risk. For her her job per se not at risk because she can be transferred as well. But mostly, for these young girls, they won't stay for long and most likely they would change job.

Of course, I will not be cheating her of her feelings.

[Kexu]

Bro, time for u to get more action liao. :D

[featherbird]

Never eat and shit at the same place......
you never know what shit you wil kena :D

[infinitiumus]

Never eat and shit at the same place......
you never know what shit you wil kena :D

thanks for your concern.

For me I would stop at "making out with the maid".. other than that office tyrsts are ok with me as long as the rules are clear.

[infinitiumus]

I don't know about you guys but from what I can see.. office affairs are quite common. We spent a good part of our time in the office - at times we spend more time with our colleagues than with our family.

As long as your wife don't come to the office and slap your mistress it should be OK.

[featherbird]

thanks for your concern.

For me I would stop at "making out with the maid".. other than that office tyrsts are ok with me as long as the rules are clear.

That's a definite no 1 "RULE". :D
just be cautious

Anyway, will up you for the consistent sharing of stories! you are good. Loves your stories.. read them whenever I'm free

[OceanEleven]

thanks for your concern.

For me I would stop at "making out with the maid".. other than that office tyrsts are ok with me as long as the rules are clear.

Given your position, I guess you are the best to know where you stand. Keep the updates coming. :)

[infinitiumus]

That's a definite no 1 "RULE". :D
just be cautious

Anyway, will up you for the consistent sharing of stories! you are good. Loves your stories.. read them whenever I'm free

thanks. I am always cautious as I have had bad experience as well.

funny isn't it. I am not even bonking this PA yet and there are already so many comments. It is still some way to go before I can even bed her.. and who knows.. she may not be receptive at all..

[Naval Trooper]

thanks. I am always cautious as I have had bad experience as well.

funny isn't it. I am not even bonking this PA yet and there are already so many comments. It is still some way to go before I can even bed her.. and who knows.. she may not be receptive at all..

They all mean well but I hope you will keep us updated of your progress!

[Bangster]

A sumptuous candlelight dinner.

A box of nice chocolates.

A bouquet of roses.

A bold question.

A shy answer.

An ounce of courage to hold her hand to lead her out of the restaurant.

A mad dash to the nearest hotel.

An unbelievable moment.

A kiss on her lips.

A stroke on her face.

A hand to cup her breasts.

A firm push onto her body.

Finally,

A story waiting for you to finish here.

Let's go TS!! :cool:

[HumpBackOak]

don't know what you meant. For me, my job is not at risk. For her her job per se not at risk because she can be transferred as well. But mostly, for these young girls, they won't stay for long and most likely they would change job.

Of course, I will not be cheating her of her feelings.

its a game of seduction when it comes to women, as long as you don't show undue care or concern about the girl. She will realize its just sex instead of something serious i guess.

[Lanchio1]

Thread very very carefully.

She's your direct report. Any complains of sexual harassment will get you into trouble big time.

But Good Luck. ;)

[humpcheepang]

Thread very very carefully.

She's your direct report. Any complains of sexual harassment will get you into trouble big time.

But Good Luck. ;)


Maybe wait for her to resign and TS can bonk her as EX-PA.

[otamay]

Maybe wait for her to resign and TS can bonk her as EX-PA.

I think is best to be more careful and discreet, anyway best of luck to you...:)

[luv1299]

Believe TS must be quite good-looking guy, so many gals have fallen for him.:p

[infinitiumus]

Believe TS must be quite good-looking guy, so many gals have fallen for him.:p

On the contrary, a man's look is not the most important factor.

When I was younger I had more problems hooking girls. Now as I am well into middle-age, surprising it is much easier as in recent years most of my fuck buddies/lovers are much much younger than me. For me now I don't even look at a girl when she is past 30 years.

Actually man don't age that fast and girls somehow prefer matured man.

[The Big Gee]

this thread is one to follow. hee hee :D

[High till Dry]

let the show begin....:D

[mini_morris]

wait no more...pls:)

let me think of my PA a prc, bonk her any where in my office:D

[AD69]

Another story from you. Camping here for it too. :D

[infinitiumus]

Actually this is not a story but is happening in real time. I have hooked many girls before but right now I must say this is a bit tricky. There are a certain amount of risks because she is working for me. I cannot be too aggressive but at the same time I cannot simply let nature take its course.

That is why I am now developing a strategy. One of the most tested strategy is to have maximum contact with her outside the normal work environment. Doing something together that will let her hair down so that she is more relax and more open to ideas.

For me now I am going to speak to her in the office about her work and about her aspirations and to see how I can help her on this in the official manner. And then we shall see.

I will ask her for lunch on monday for a casual chat and hopefully she will respond positively.

Stay tune on monday.

[charsiew]

yo TS, good luck and looking forward to your story...

[hyde09]

parent told me to study hard when i was young.
nw reget coz study hard hard,later in life got PA to bonk...:p

[drahcir]

Bro, i believe in you. Tink as long as you dun get her pregnant, thing will be under control. hmmm, on a second thought, i hope it get out of control.

[Girl Scouting]

As what the wise man will say, stay our of affair in office.

[infinitiumus]

Today I came to the office and when I saw her the first thing in the morning, I spoke to her. And Sue is her name

Me: "Sue, how was your weekend?"
Sue: "Ok lah"
Me: "Do you have lunch appointment?"
Sue: "No sir.. anything?"
Me: "Yes, I want to talk to you about a possible position that you might be interested in.. let's do lunch "
Sue: "Ok.. "

Then I didn't disturb her the whole morning as I went for meetings. I finished my meeting at around 11 plus and when I went back to my office, she caught my eye. As usual, she was wearing a blouse with a tight skirt (not short leh) and she wore a jacket - so that was nothing I can see. She was wearing her specs today and I found that very sexy.

So I walked over to her desk and she looked up at me. Tried to take a peek but there was nothing for me to see.

Me: "So, are you ready for lunch?"
Sue: "Yes, anytime.."
Me: "Ok.. I am going to washroom first.. See you in 5 mins at the lobby"
Sue: "OK.."

So I went to the washroom, ease myself and looked at myself in the mirror. Then I went down to drive my car up to the drop-off area. And shortly after she came down and I led her to my car.

It was not even 12noon and I drove her to this quiet eatery. After we have ordered our food, I began to talk to her:

Me: "Sue, I have this position of PA. Project Administrator and not Personal Assistant for a new project that we will be signing soon.. I thought it would be suitable for you. Are you interested?"

Sue: "Oh.. sure.. yeah.. I am interested.. can you tell me more"

Me: "yes, because I have looked at your resume and qualifications and I thought you should be able to handle or at least learn.."

Sue: "Yes.. as I don't really want to be a Personal Assistant for long"

Me: "this job will require you to take minutes, organize meeting, prepare reports, track project status and other miscellaneous tasks.. "

Sue: "this is interesting.."

And then our food came and I saw her grinning. We spoke casually about this new position as we ate our food. The reason why I wanted to ask her to try this new position because, firstly we really need someone. And it is better to ask someone that we are familiar with. And secondly it would mean more contact with her and also possibly to meet client and also more contact with her outside the office.

This new position being new to her she will definitely need help and what better way than to be able to teach her on the job? The only problem was that we haven't sign the contract yet so officially I still have to wait. So I passed her a copy of the scope of work for the contract and asked her to read it to get familiarize.

At the same time after discussing about the new position I asked her casually about her personal life. I got to know she was from Penang and is currently staying with her aunt in Singapore. And of all places, she is staying in Bedok! (oops, same as Carol). Only knew that she liked Yoga and is a movie buff. I was already dreaming about the karma-sutra position that she is able to do on the bed.

The best thing was that I got her MSN. I told her that sometimes would need to discuss project matters and it is easier to communicate via MSN than on the phone because sometimes we need to share files.. etc etc..

As you know, instant messaging is one of the most powerful tool to court girls. It is really easy to flirt a little on MSN without appearing to be to desperate. And normally girls may not flirt openly on the phone but they would dare to do so on MSN.

So it was a good start and after lunch we went back to the office.

I beginning to feel that I am on the right track.

[ccl69]

Thanks Bro TS for this wonderful story....hmm...i'm also in project based environment...maybe we are colleague...haha..enjoy writing...;)

[242424]

there is a saying :rolleyes:

[Marco Lee]

Bro

Wish you luck!

I wish I could be like you. I have 8 secretaries working for me and they average 21 to 22 years old. But I can only see and cannot touch. It's too dangerous and any cock-up will affect morale and business. sigh. But yes, I dream about it every day...:)

[Wedge]

Be careful, eating and shitting at the same place can get messy.

[infinitiumus]

Today I came into my office and as I was reading my email, Sue came into my office.

Sue: "Sir, can I ask you something about the scope of work.. I was reading yesterday night.."

Me: "Sure.... take a seat"

But she didn't sit. Instead she walked over, bent down and showed me highlighted areas on the document itself. She was just a foot away from me and this time round I took a peek and bingo.

I saw her white bra and I thought I saw a little glimpse of her nipples? My cock was full erected as I was peeking and I wasn't paying much attention to what she was trying to say.

I took the documents from her - my hand brushing hers.. as I flipped though the pages. She stood up and I noticed that she was not wearing her specs. Suddenly I thought she looked damn beautiful.

As I looked up at her, staring her intently. She blushed a little as she moved away and took the seat in front of me.

Me: "hey today you are not wearing your specs"
Sue: "yeah.. i can't wear contact everyday.. sometimes i got infection"
Me: "I see... you look great without the specs.. actually you looked great with your specs as well"
Sue: "thank u.. so regarding the sow."

Me: "Ok.. I was dreaming just now.. can you repeat"

So she repeated her questions and I answered them. She was taking notes.

Me: "don't have to worry so much.. take it easy.. we still have time.."
Sue: "Okie..but I want to be sure that I am well-prepared "
Me: "ok"

... to be continued..

[String_Bean808]

young working women are easily attracted to men with power/influence.

I rate your chance of success as HIGH.

Keep us posted.

[Orgasmic]

young working women are easily attracted to men with power/influence.

I rate your chance of success as HIGH.

Keep us posted.


Somehow I quite agree with u. Even if the man is in his 40s and the young chicks in her 20s, the girl will be attracted to him somehow.

[skman]

U r on track .. she walking over to u instead of taking the seat across the table .. fantastic feeling, she a foot away .. brings back exciting memories. Take your time ... get her to want u

[*FiReWoRkS*]

TS i think you really stand a chance but based on what you have shared with us so far i think it's best to go with the flow first without being too agressive cos i think Sue might be the type of girl whom are easily frightened by sudden agressive gestures..so far so good for you..

wish you all the best :)

but remeber to keep us posted :D

[infinitiumus]

TS i think you really stand a chance but based on what you have shared with us so far i think it's best to go with the flow first without being too agressive cos i think Sue might be the type of girl whom are easily frightened by sudden agressive gestures..so far so good for you..

wish you all the best :)

but remeber to keep us posted :D

I know. As I can see, she is really a conservative girl. So her clothes are blouse with skirt (not short one) - so far haven't see her wear anything revealing yet.

Actually I already have a plan but I need to play it slowly. It will take weeks for it to materialize.. And I don't even want to date her till I know she is ripe for the picking.

For now, the best is to let her have a taste of hot/cold feeling.. going to ignore her for a few days..

[jit singapore 1]

Hey brother is too dangerous to flirt on your own office. Just my 2 cents advise according to my passed experience.......:p 不值得 even it quite exciting.

[Eric22]

Bro, nice encounter. Pls continue with good news.
Camper reporting... :D

[zl1983]

all e best... :D

[SM01]

Nice story... camping in....

[ppss230]

Wow envy u bro, unlike me however camping here wait for more..:)

[KingBong]

Agreed, rumours spreaded like fire and true enough the FT was sent home. If he was local might have lost his job.

Hey brother is too dangerous to flirt on your own office. Just my 2 cents advise according to my passed experience.......:p 不值得 even it quite exciting.

[imaginative]

Bros, guessed that for TS, the small head already takes the big one liao.

It's hard to control being in such situation. Easier said than done.

Agreed, rumours spreaded like fire and true enough the FT was sent home. If he was local might have lost his job.

[Glen2712]

Looking forward to read your encounter, Bro infinitiumus! :D






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[BatistaSG]

Well, no risk, no gain

[infinitiumus]

thanks bro for all the concern.

I know exactly what I am doing.

a) I won't be forcing myself on her.. no sexual harassment. If she tells me to
fuck-off.. I will fuck-off

b) I won't be screwing her in the office (if even I can get to screw her)

c) If I manage to bed her - it will be consensual sex between two adults
in a hotel..

[Stephenchow]

Best of luck for your chase, bro. Support you.:D

[adrianus]

Make it such that she is the one who wants it and you are just weakly falling in... That has always worked for me...

[Hooters666]

infinitiuimus

what you said are all true...gals like matured man with career and control make decisions kind...also very true they also like msning....

in no time her pussy will be dripping wet for your stone hard dick...but play it slowly and make her so gian until you kenna fuck by her and not the other way round...i once teased a chick badly i.e. prolonging fucking her many occasions and when i finally shag her the amount of cunt juice is unbelieveable!

Best of Luck!

[KingBong]

It's not what you know or don't, it's what others might do when they find out.

thanks bro for all the concern.

I know exactly what I am doing.

a) I won't be forcing myself on her..

[infinitiumus]

It's not what you know or don't, it's what others might do when they find out.

Sorry, find out about what?

It is not illegal or a crime to date a colleague - even someone working for you as long as there is no conflict of interest and as long as personal relationship does not interfere with work.

[yinyang]

It's not what you know or don't, it's what others might do when they find out.
..I know exactly what I am doing. c) If I manage to bed her - it will be consensual sex between two adults in a hotel..
Well, as TS knows the pitfalls... he's going in with open eyes. We are here slurping up on your (soon-to-be?) tryst.:p

But the snag is there is usually a victim (seen it before in office dalliances)... often more than not, it's the gal. So tread carefully;)

[weisianz]

here wishing u good luck in ur latest hunt!~! :D:D:D

[keano]

Wah man..

power giving real time update eh!

Same as you le TS, but this girl of mine wanna make it serious relationship while i wanna jus have fun, regular funz.

sianz..dunno how to work this out.

[The Rock]

Nice encounter, hope to see your next move :)

[infinitiumus]

Not much happening this week as I was out for meeting and MC for two days (wed & thu). Tomorrow I am going back to office to check things out. By the way, the project that I was talking about there was some good news. Customer will be in town next week to sign the contract and after that we will need to start work.

And I'll get another new PA to replace Sue, who will then be involved in the project.

Stay tune for more updates along the way.

[charsiew]

best of luck to TS on his conquest... support you...

CS

[infinitiumus]

It has been a while.

My customer has already signed the contract this week and officially we can start work. I was still looking for a new PA and in the mean time I asked Sue to double up. She took up the challenge readily.

As customer was in town, we went to meet them at their office and to gather requirements. I brought Sue along for her to be exposed and to take minutes of the meeting.

It was a very pleasant meeting and customer seemed to be very impressed with us. And that night we took customer for dinner at Clarke quay. There were six of us, three of us from my company (myself, sue and another colleague) and three from the customer side.

After dinner, we went for a drink or two and by 11 plus, we decided to call it a day. The customer went back in by themselves as one of them was driving. The other colleague drove as well and he left too. So I turned to sue:

Me: "I can drop you off at Bedok"
Sue: "Only if it is convenient"
Me: "It is OK"

We just had two drinks and I can see that Sue's face was red.

Me: "Sue, are you ok.. your face is flushed"
Sue: "Ok.. guess have a drop too much.. i don't normally drink"
Me: "OK. not to worry.."

So she got into my car and I drove off. We didn't talk much in the car and very quickly we have reached Bedok. As i was turning into the car park, I turned to speak to sue

Me: "So, how do you like this job so far"
Sue: "hmm.. much more interesting than a PA's job.. I like it.. can learn a lot of things"
Me: "Sure.. but you have to work very hard"
Sue: "I know.. have to learn more from you"

My car pulled into the car-park and I stopped my car.

Me: "It is late now.. I see you up to your door"
Sue: "Actually it is OK.. "
Me: "No.. I have to.. it is almost midnight now"

She didn't say much as I walked her along the path-way to her block. Then we went into the lift. It was quite bright and I can see her flushed face. She looked quite pretty to me then and I thought I would move forward to kiss me. But I didn't. And I sent her to her door-step, saw her opened the door, walked into the flat before I took my leave.

As I started the engine of my car, a SMS came in:

Sue: "thanks for the ride and thanks for seeing me home... good night"
Me: "My pleasure.. good night too"

.. to be continued..

[Cytan7]

Tomorrow it will get only better :D

[suar]

real story r much2 more better than fake ones. ups ar bro!

excellent score 4 u! 5pts!

im camping in....

[infinitiumus]

The next morning I felt much refreshed as I went for my morning jog. After the jog I dipped in the pool for a while and then take my shower and headed to work.

It was before 9am when reached the office. And very surprisingly I bump into Sue at the pantry.

Me: "hey you are early today"
Sue: "Not really.. you are early.. "
Me: ""Oh ya.. i am hardly in office before 9"
Me: "You slept well yesterday?"
Sue: "Ya... a drop too much.. ha ha good for sleeping though"
Me: "Me too. and this morning I woke up early and went to jog/swim"
Sue: "wah.. u so health-conscious"
Me: "not really.. once in a blue moon. how about u? U exercise?"
Sue: "not really.. I only do Yoga"
Me: "mm that is interesting.. always find Yoga interesting.. but for a middle-age man like me.. yoga suitable?"
Sue: "Why not.. it is for all"
Me: "Really? I know nuts about yoga.. maybe need your help to kick-start this interest"
Sue: "Sure.. I can give you the link to the website .. to this yoga centre I am going to.. "
Me: "ok.. thanks. Another thing. I need you to work on some process documents.. I'll give you the template and will need you to start work on it based on the requirements that we gathered yesterday.. and let me know if you have any problem. I give you a week.. to complete by end of next week and for me to review?"
Sue: "Ok. I'll try my best"

Then we walked out of the pantry. I intentionally dropped my pace so that she was walking in front of me. I saw her slim figure and early in the morning I was already feeling hot for her. Wow.. but I know I have to play my cards right.. it is going to be a long long way to go..

.. to be continued..

[yinyang]

...saw her slim figure and early in the morning I was already feeling hot for her. Wow.. but I know I have to play my cards right.. it is going to be a long long way to go..
We hope yours gonna be aces:p

[terminator33]

more please.. this is getting interesting

[meanguy]

Buying potato chips n camping in here.....:)
Hope you can get a hole in 1.....

[MakeYouWet]

Wow nice story, hope more will come :D

[*FiReWoRkS*]

actually we are all entitled to dish out any comments or advice but at the end of the day its up to TS to decide for himself..im sure given his exp he will know what he is doing so lets all don't worry so much for him and enjoy his adventure :D

so far so good TS another milestone by sending Sue home to her doorstep :)
luckily you didnt do anything rashly like kissing her or you might have ruined all your previous effort..

good luck!

[infinitiumus]

It was a great yesterday as I went bonk a PRC to release. After than I went back to the office and finished up some work. It was already 5 plus and then I saw sue. She smiled at me and came to ask me some questions on the assignment I gave to her. So I spent 15 minutes with her explaining to her - I was sitting and she was standing, half bending beside me - I tried to peek but nothing could be seen. She was wearing a white blouse and all that I saw was a very small corner of her bra. Still it got me aroused.

Then she left to do her work and I continued with my work. I worked till around 7pm before I packed my stuff and decided to head home. I had my dinner and was sitting in front of the TV - watching Channel 8, then Channel 55 and then watching the olympics highlights as I saw Michael Phelps won his 4th and 5th Gold medal.

It was after 10pm and I on my notebook to read my email and to surf sammyboy.

When my notebook was on I notice a message in my MSN. I had previously added sue to my MSN (it was pending) and now it was added. And she was online, so I message her:

Me: "hi sue.."
Sue: "Hi hi.."
Me: "So late still not sleeping"
Sue: "oh ya.. doing some work.. and reading some stuff"
Me: "I see.. don't work so hard.. "
Sue: "I know.. but want to finish the work assignment you gave me asap"
Me: "Don't hurry.. you still got time till next week.."
Sue: "I know..but I impatient lah.. "

Actually as I was MSNing her, I noticed that her responses were erratic - sometimes she replied immediately, sometimes she took a while.

Me: "Are you also chatting with someone on MSN? you MSN frequently huh?
Sue: "yeah.. I MSN frequently.. how you know I am chatting now"
Me: "ha ha.. your response is not consistent leh.."
Sue: "oh.. sorry hor.. yeah.. talking to frens"
Me: "I see.. talking to boy friend huh"
Sue: "no lah.. no bf.. "
Me: "You sure or not.. no bf.. so pretty girl no bf.. cannot believe"
Sue: "Real one lah.. bluff you for what.. actually broke up already"
Me: "I see... "
Sue: "Dun talk about those bad things lah.. feel angry talking about it"
Me: "Ok.. but sometimes it is better to talk to release and get over it"
Sue: "I know.. but not now... now I wanna be happy"
Me: "OK.. how can make you happy?"
Sue: "ha ha.. eat.. holiday... ha ha"
Me: "eat.. what you like to eat?"
Sue: "anything.. as long as food.. Japanese food the best..."
Me: "I see.. I also like to go out to eat.. but at times eat alone also sian"
Sue: "You not married meh? I thought you are married?"
Me: "Yes.. married.. but divorced already .."
Sue: "Oh.. sorry.."
Me: "It is Ok.. like you I also want to be happy.. eat.. holiday.. ha ha"
Sue: "okie okie"
Me: "So next time I asked you out for dinner will you join me? We go eat Japanese food.. "
Sue: "Sure.. "

And we chatted a while on bo liao things - bitch a bit about the office and after that she signed-out.

So I was happy that I can at least date her for for dinner already.

.. to be continued..

[yinyang]

Good going TS. But we all eyes (and ears) for you to go beyond your preliminaries. Quick, go for your eats and get to her archiles heel:p:D

[infinitiumus]

Good going TS. But we all eyes (and ears) for you to go beyond your preliminaries. Quick, go for your eats and get to her archiles heel:p:D

Cannot be quick lah.. must be patient lah.. otherwise scare her away..

[surbana]

Nice one. Camping for more ...:)

[zl1983]

more pls!! :)

[meanguy]

This is getting xciting.Camping here for more:)

[infinitiumus]

It was friday and I went to office late - at around 10 plus. And yes, Sue was there. Today she was dressed casually as normally on Friday - we dressed-down.

She was wearing jeans with blouse - wow, I noticed that she got nice bumps. Still, her blouse was button right up to the top - nothing to see.

We exchanged some greetings and went about doing our own stuff. At around 11 plus I went to the pantry to get water (normally I get my own water as sometimes I like to walk around rather than get PA to get) and guess who I met in the pantry?

Shucks! I saw Carol talking to Sue!!! I was taken a bit aback when I saw them talking to one another. Oh shucks!.. I haven't seen Carol for two weeks already and she cut her hair! What a refreshing change!

Me: "hi carol... "
Carol: "Hi.."
Sue: "you know each other?"
Me: "yeah, I know her many years already.."
Sue: "Oh.."
Me: "How you know each other as well?"
Carol: "It is a small world.. sort of complicated as we know friends of friends.. and we happen to stay in Bedok.. so as fellow malaysians.. I got to know sue much better these few months"
Me: "I see.. really small world"
Me: "Carol, where have you been these few weeks?"
Carol: "nothing much.. went to Australia for holiday to visit my sister then went back to malaysia.."
Me: "oh.. so you just came back?"
Carol: "yeah.. "
Me: "Ok.. leave you girls to chat.. I got to be going"

Wah.. Now I really have a problem up my sleeve. Since they know each other, it was going to be complicated. Surely, Carol will tell sue about our relationship.. and definitely she would warn Sue about me?

My mind was racing for a solution and I thought that I should try to contact Carol to try to catch up with her first. For now, I really have to be very careful about Sue. And I know I really have a tough road ahead.

... to be continued..

[meehunkway]

Nice experience bro, thanks :)

[meanguy]

Wah Bro Infinitiunus, i really must salute you. Hormat! Going with 3 ladies at a time.

Camping in here for more updates!:D

[infinitiumus]

I had tried to lie low for the time being after knowing that Sue and Carol were friends.

And then on Monday night, Sue MSN me:

Sue: "Hi.."
Me: "Hey dear, what can I do for you?"
Sue: "No nothing.. just saying hi to you"
Me: "ha ha.. pulling your legs.. how is the documentation coming along?"
Sue: "Almost completed.. can review tomorrow"
Me: "Ok.. so what's up now"
Sue: "nothing leh.. tonight so boring.. no one to chat to"
Me: "is it? so I am a spare tyre.. no one to chat to then you find me?"
Sue: "No lah.. "
me: "By the way, how well do you know Carol?"
Sue: "Pretty well.. but recently didn't catch up with her as she was away"
Me: "I see.. did she tell you about her personal life?"
Sue: "Personal life.. as in?"
Me: "ha ha boy friend .. etc etc.."
Sue: "Ha ha.. you interested in her is it?"
Me: "ha ha ha very funny.. I know her very well already.. ya interested in getting her onto bed... ha ha ha"
Sue: "Don't be so bad lah.. Carol is a very nice girl.. don't bully her ok.."
Me: "I won't dare bully her.. "

At that point I realised that Carol has not spoken to Sue about me as Sue apparently did not know I was sleeping with Carol.

Me: "OK.. I won't bully her.. but can I bully you?"
Sue: "you dare!"
Me: "why not?"
Sue: "I dare u!"
Me: "OK.. when we meet next time.. you see how I bully you"
Sue: "See who bully who!"
Me: "Let's see"

Me: "You got no boy friend now.. don't you feel bored and lonely at times"
Sue: "Not really lah.. "
Me: "Why not?"
Sue: "I still got friends"
Me: "But if your friends are not free... then how?.. like tonight"
Sue: "Ya lor.. so sometimes I just go sleep early lor.. what to do"

Me: "sue, can I ask you a personal question?"
Sue: "shoot.."
Me: "How do you find me?"
Sue: "ha ha you are a nice boss.. that is all"
Me: "not as a boss lah.. I mean as a man.. "
Sue: "OK lah.. ha ha.. "
Me: "What is Ok lah.."
Sue: "Means.. ok lah.."
Me: "So if I date you, will you go out with me?"
Sue: "Date me?"
Me: "Yes, as in movie, dinner, etc etc"
Sue: "Okie for me.. "
Me: "You don't mind such a old man like me?"
Sue: "No lah.. you don't look that old.. anyway, I prefer matured man"
Me: "Means I can date you right?"
Sue: "ha ha if movie, dinner, then it should be OK"
Me: "Ok.. then what is not OK"
Sue: "how i know.."
Me: "I mean .. "
Sue: "what?"
Me: "I mean if I want more than movie and dinner"
Sue: "Like what?"
Me: "Like trying to hold your hands... trying to kiss you.."
Sue: "ee.. this type of thing.. cannot say one.. have to come naturally"
Me: "I see.. can I ask you another question?"
Sue: "yes.."
Me: "what do you think of having a sexual relationship?"

There was silence for a while

Me: "Ok.. sorry. it is ok if you don't answer"
Sue: "I think for me.. only can make love to the person I love.."
Me: "ok.. understand.. just asking questions only.. hope you don't mind"
Sue: "I am cool.. nowadays already 21st century.. sexual topic is not taboo anymore"
Me: "I am glad to hear that"

Me: "so back to the topic.. So can I have the privilege of asking you out for dinner this friday?"
Sue: "Friday should be ok"
Me: "So fix hor.. We go eat Japanese food"
Sue: "yippee.."
Me: "So wear something nice on friday huh.. we leave office at around 6:30pm.. is it ok?"
Sue: "Ok"

Then we chatted for a while on other things and then I sign-off. I was glad that I made a move today to date her and I was so excited that I can't really sleep as I turned and tossed in bed.




"

[tungsten]

Bao Jiak case already....

[infinitiumus]

Bao Jiak case already....

where got such thing as bao jiak..

I have similar experience.. sometimes the food right up to the mouth.. can also disappear..

[dgsk]

"where got such thing as bao jiak..

I have similar experience.. sometimes the food right up to the mouth.. can also disappear.. "

Fully agree. Too many times, it becomes I enjoy your company as it is. Full Stop. *sigh*

Need to learn in from real time tutorial. Good Luck Bro, show us how it's done.

[infinitiumus]

Some times even worse..

right up to the bed.. but can also chicken out..

Sometimes it is luck.. sometimes you have to read the signals.. sometimes you wish you should have make the move earlier...

Like there was this girl.. that I fancy in my ex-office.. didn't dare to approach her.. then many years later met her.. and then she said that she actually fancy me back then.. oh shucks..

that is why nowadays, due to aging liao.. more thick-skin... I am ready to be slapped than to let opportunity slip away..

[yinyang]

...sometimes you have to read the signals..
..due to aging liao.. more thick-skin... I am ready to be slapped than to let opportunity slip away..
On flip side, also can mis-read signals.

No office tryst, but allow me to digress with my 1 mishit. Met 1 chio pinoy coyote newly arrived in some bar here. Double dated with friend, makan. Then I coyly suggested some "quality" time. She said ok, so I headed to nearest 81. She broke down in car whe in vicinity.. but I quickly managed to salvage situation with drive to east coast and ice cream treat. Misunderstanding cleared, phew:o:p

[zl1983]

great post! :)

[*FiReWoRkS*]

I had tried to lie low for the time being after knowing that Sue and Carol were friends.

And then on Monday night, Sue MSN me:

Sue: "Hi.."
Me: "Hey dear, what can I do for you?"......
"
"
"
Me: "I see.. can I ask you another question?"
Sue: "yes.."
Me: "what do you think of having a sexual relationship?"


wu..cant believe that you asked such a qn..it might foil your whole operation if Sue had been a prude..

nice move...:cool:

[dodger]

BO CHEE DAR POR FUCK U understand!!

[CUM2ME]

Today Thursday liao,... anything more??? Waiting in anticipation,.... :D

[Bangster]

....She broke down in car when in vicinity.. but I quickly managed to salvage situation with drive to east coast and ice cream treat. Misunderstanding cleared, phew:o:p

That's such an anti-climax!! Wah lao.

You didn't get to taste abalone, but have to treat her eat ice-cream.

By the way, is it your ice-cream or the real ice-cream? Hehehe

[yinyang]

..such an anti-climax!! You didn't get to taste abalone, but have to treat her eat ice-cream. By the way, is it your ice-cream or the real ice-cream? Hehehe
I wish. :p Just shows I was too fast stepping on the gas. Sure can get it 1(unlike OL in TS case), just that I wasn't inclined for the angling or chase. Neither did I have the means $$ hehehe

TS, next instalment soon?

[infinitiumus]

Met 1 chio pinoy coyote newly arrived in some bar here. Double dated with friend, makan. Then I coyly suggested some "quality" time. She said ok, so I headed to nearest 81.

Speaking of which. Today I had some fun with my team and was introduced to a new team member recently recruited by one of my manager. Can you believe it? A sweet young chio pinoy! Very the cute leh, especially with her specs. She is petite but can see that her boobs are sizable!

Oh gosh. Before I even land this PA, another target to get me drooling.

[infinitiumus]

Next installment will be after my dinner date on Friday. But I don't think I am taking any action yet...

[infinitiumus]

Shucks! I didn't realize that I have a conflict in appointment on Friday.

Friday, I am meeting someone else... that is another story..

[tendersex]

Talking about PA, I would like to off-topic a bit, forgive me.

There's this new PA in my company that I am lusting over. She got no lunch partner now and always asked me to accompany her for lunch. When we were outside, she walked very close to me. When we talked, she touched my hand and arm on and off (sign of flirting?). She also told me before that she got some problems with her hubby (not sure how true and to what extent lah).

But here comes the problem, everytime we went lunch, she never brought along her wallet. After paying a few times, I start to grow wary. Not that I am stingy, but I don't wish to be sponsoring lunches 5 days a week without something in return. It simply does not make good business sense.

If you were me, what would you do? My OC watches me very closely, and my phone is always on silent mode. Any incriminating SMSes are deleted straightaway. I sure want to bed this new colleague, bonk her hard and raw. But how to progress beyond lunch partners? How do you signal in such cases? If other gals, I don't mind prompting openly, but for a colleague the risk factor is there. Sigh, maybe I should give up the thought and focus on my work...haha!

[ChuiTaLan]

Talking about PA, I would like to off-topic a bit, forgive me.

There's this new PA in my company that I am lusting over. She got no lunch partner now and always asked me to accompany her for lunch. When we were outside, she walked very close to me. When we talked, she touched my hand and arm on and off (sign of flirting?). She also told me before that she got some problems with her hubby (not sure how true and to what extent lah).

But here comes the problem, everytime we went lunch, she never brought along her wallet. After paying a few times, I start to grow wary. Not that I am stingy, but I don't wish to be sponsoring lunches 5 days a week without something in return. It simply does not make good business sense.

If you were me, what would you do? My OC watches me very closely, and my phone is always on silent mode. Any incriminating SMSes are deleted straightaway. I sure want to bed this new colleague, bonk her hard and raw. But how to progress beyond lunch partners? How do you signal in such cases? If other gals, I don't mind prompting openly, but for a colleague the risk factor is there. Sigh, maybe I should give up the thought and focus on my work...haha!

Bro, have u ever thot of having a 2nd hp wif another no. for all ur alternate activities? I have been doing so since i got busted last time. now, all my 'outside food' is in my other hp. even my prc gf oso call/sms me at the other no. even though she noes abt my official hp. Like tat sure safe! of cos, unless u OC found out abt ur other hp....;)

[infinitiumus]

Talking about PA, I would like to off-topic a bit, forgive me.

!

Ok Two things here.

Firstly, she is married. You sure you are OK to bed her. I never touch a married woman. It is just me.

Secondly, your OC is watching you closely. You want to risk your marriage? For me I will consider it carefully.

Other than that, if next time she touches you, hold on to her hand and don't let go. See what she says.

Got opportunity should bring her out for dinner instead.. got more time to talk. find a quiet place, maybe have a drink or two. Let her pour out her woes. She will be vulnerable.. so will be easier pickings.

Otherwise, if she only want to take advantage of you and nothing in return, I will avoid her at all cost.

[chinacat]

Ok Two things here.

Firstly, she is married. You sure you are OK to bed her. I never touch a married woman. It is just me.

Secondly, your OC is watching you closely. You want to risk your marriage? For me I will consider it carefully.

Other than that, if next time she touches you, hold on to her hand and don't let go. See what she says.

Got opportunity should bring her out for dinner instead.. got more time to talk. find a quiet place, maybe have a drink or two. Let her pour out her woes. She will be vulnerable.. so will be easier pickings.

Otherwise, if she only want to take advantage of you and nothing in return, I will avoid her at all cost.

Pei Fu TS, you really a old bird:D
Better play save then sorry:p

[Angel.Janus]

She got no lunch partner now and always asked me to accompany her for lunch. When we were outside, she walked very close to me. When we talked, she touched my hand and arm on and off (sign of flirting?). She also told me before that she got some problems with her hubby (not sure how true and to what extent lah).

But here comes the problem, everytime we went lunch, she never brought along her wallet. After paying a few times, I start to grow wary. Not that I am stingy, but I don't wish to be sponsoring lunches 5 days a week without something in return. It simply does not make good business sense.

1. dun let her use flirting skills to get away with free lunches... this may be her motive... before lunch, can jus smile and play a game with her... who lose who pay for meal... or say Lunch she pays, dinner you'll pay...

2. old sec sch trick... grab her hand when crossing road... dun let go, see if she wan to take hand away...

3. ask her to go for an innocent drinking or ktv session after work... say good for stress relieve...

[Bangster]

Bro Tendersex,

Bring your friendship with her to a level where it's alright to talk about more intimate things together. Let her confide in you on her problems.

Once you think it's reached a comfortable level, ask her in a fun way, "wah you so forgetful...always never bring wallet. So what do I get for treating you all these lunches?" This is the BAIT on the hook.

If she bites, congratulations.

If she doesn't, don't take it too hard. Look on the bright side that you do not have to fork out any more lunch money on her. As for the amount that's been spent, well if you wanna makan her, there's no free lunch so to speak.

[tendersex]

Thanks for all the suggestions, guys. I would adopt them at the appropriate time :D

One thing is for sure, she definitely likes to talk to me as she can't click with any others in the company yet. But you know lah, a chatting partner does not necessarily lead to a sexual partner.

I have a feeling that she hasn't done it with her husband for quite some time. But again, she could be uninterested in sex after an unhappy marriage life.

You can call me a piece of crap, but I just love married women, ie. other people's wives are always better mentality. But of course, if married but fat and ugly also can't stimulate my interest lah.

She did share with me that some of her friends are having affairs, and it seems she doesn't think that is very wrong provided they have a valid reason for doing so.

There is another thread on how often you screw your wife, and I am one who hardly. Many forumers' problem is that the wife is uninterested, but for me, it's me who isn't not keen. I need some excitement to bring back my sexual desires, and this PA is someone I very much lust after now :cool:

[terminator33]

Ts, more please

[richmenson]

nice one.. :)

[ray2003]

Shucks! I didn't realize that I have a conflict in appointment on Friday.

Friday, I am meeting someone else... that is another story..

Bro,
Reading your story in Japan. All the best in today's appt... Hope to read your FR when I am back to sillypore this evening!

Good luck!

[infinitiumus]

Bro,
Reading your story in Japan. All the best in today's appt... Hope to read your FR when I am back to sillypore this evening!

Good luck!

ha ha as I said I have a screw-up in my appointment tonight so I am not meeting Sue this evening.

And I am starting to have a little doubt about what I should do with Sue - to continue to pursue or to let her go..

[dgsk]

Personally, I would have gone with Sue tonight and meet the new found FL some other time. That way I'd get my doubts out of the way.

[infinitiumus]

Personally, I would have gone with Sue tonight and meet the new found FL some other time. That way I'd get my doubts out of the way.

ha ha I know I know.. but Sue is really a long shot.. signals are encouraging but sometimes we can read it wrongly..

Can easily date her next week. It is ok to be patient although as much we would like to rush it.

Again, I am starting to have doubts if I should continue to pursue Sue, knowing that I could hurt a sweet and innocent girl in the process of bedding her..

So I rather be patient and take things slowly..

[infinitiumus]

Just notice one thing.

Anticipation is more exciting than the FRs.

Like for this thread, I have almost 30K views only slightly less than the thread for CAROL (in which I have already numerous sexual trysts and FRs).

For this one, it is just a journey.. a long shot from the target and yet it generated more interest..

[tryherout]

Just notice one thing.

For this one, it is just a journey.. a long shot from the target and yet it generated more interest..

We are all learning to romance.....not bonk bonk bonk...

Personally, I am one who enjoys slow build up while enjoying with empathy.

[Angel.Janus]

Thanks for all the suggestions, guys. I would adopt them at the appropriate time :D

One thing is for sure, she definitely likes to talk to me as she can't click with any others in the company yet. But you know lah, a chatting partner does not necessarily lead to a sexual partner.

I have a feeling that she hasn't done it with her husband for quite some time. But again, she could be uninterested in sex after an unhappy marriage life.

You can call me a piece of crap, but I just love married women, ie. other people's wives are always better mentality. But of course, if married but fat and ugly also can't stimulate my interest lah.

She did share with me that some of her friends are having affairs, and it seems she doesn't think that is very wrong provided they have a valid reason for doing so.

There is another thread on how often you screw your wife, and I am one who hardly. Many forumers' problem is that the wife is uninterested, but for me, it's me who isn't not keen. I need some excitement to bring back my sexual desires, and this PA is someone I very much lust after now :cool:

agree with you... chatting partner does not mean sexual partner... needs a lot of time to fish for FB

as for crap... honestly, different people different tastes... jus remember SAF rules 1&2: Do anything you wan, dun get caught. If get caught, pay consequence... The grass is greener on other side...

[infinitiumus]

bro your exp / stories and threads are one of the best...maybe your shd change job become romance writer or write an autobiography...cfm chop chop i be the 1st to buy your book...u must rem to autograph hor...:D

hmm.. actually i am really thinking about writing a book - series of stories about the local sex scene... different encounters .. massage parlour, tuina, gl, FL, thais, viets.. it would be interesting..

[DanziG]

hmm.. actually i am really thinking about writing a book - series of stories about the local sex scene... different encounters .. massage parlour, tuina, gl, FL, thais, viets.. it would be interesting..

I'm a new follower of your thread but I'm quite sure if you do write the book, it'll be a No.1 Bestseller :D

Better if it's banned here, than it will become a cult classic :cool:

[yinyang]

...about writing a book - series of stories about the local sex scene... different encounters .. massage parlour, tuina, gl, FL, thais, viets..
Sounds good. Find a horny publisher (like sam, maybe with authoritative preface hehehe?:p) Whilst you are sleeping on it, any thoughts on title? Encounter of sexy kind?;)
starting to have doubts if I should continue to pursue Sue, knowing that I could hurt a sweet and innocent girl in the process of bedding her..
Not unreasonable, it's your values (like taboo on hotting married ladies). Guilt too? :)
..rather be patient and take things slowly.. Anticipation is more exciting than the FRs.
Build up's like foreplay. Culminating with final act, maybe anti-climax (just my humble opinion)

[infinitiumus]

Not unreasonable, it's your values (like taboo on hotting married ladies). Guilt too? :)



Ya mixed feelings at times.. Even with FL - the sweet young thing.. ya it is very shiok but at times you think about it.. i actually hope that they make enough and quit quickly..

[dgsk]

It does sound like an oxymoron, but that's exactly what I tell a lot of working girls and ladies.

[wolf2305]

after reading Bro TS real life story,
I will be camping here for more.

Must thank BRO TS for the counsel along the way,
prove to be helpful.

THis is abit off topic

Wanted to get to know a ger in my company, but as BRO TS has mentioned,
only when you aged that you will know that you let the opportunity slip away, nowadays, I also rather get slapped on the face then let it slip away.

working to get to bed a ger, but on only as a chatting friend, that will be another story to tell, hope that i can get a thread starting like BRO TS here.

Might need some advice along the way.

Cheers

[infinitiumus]

after reading Bro TS real life story,
I will be camping here for more.


Might need some advice along the way.

Cheers

Just think. LIfe is short. YOu won't know what is going to happen tomorrow. So live your life to the fullest. Setback and failure is ok. Like right now I realize the more you don't heck care, the more successful you will be.

You can be bold without appearing desperate..

[CUM2ME]

hmm.. actually i am really thinking about writing a book - series of stories about the local sex scene... different encounters .. massage parlour, tuina, gl, FL, thais, viets.. it would be interesting..

Wah,.. that is an excellent idea... I will help you market it internationally. SGP will have IR,... I am sure that book will cum in handy...

Just imagine, after winning in the casino, need to make merry and be even more happy,... yeee haaaaaaa:D

[infinitiumus]

This morning I went to the office late, around 11 plus (trying to avoid Carol). There were ton of work to clear and yet I was day-dreaming. I was looking out of the window when Sue came to spoke with me

Sue: "Hi boss.. "

I turned sheepishly to her

Me: "hi sue.. what's up"
sue: "Boss.. u ok.. you look dazed"
Me: "Yeah, lost in thoughts.."
Sue: "What's up..?"
Me: "Oh.. nothing.. tell you another time.. must apologize that I had to cancel dinner last friday... so sorry"
Sue: "It is ok.. not to worry"
Me: "OK.. I'll make it up to you.. sometime this week ok?"
Sue: "Ok.. u let me know"
Me: "how about tonight? olympics over.. nothing to do at night anyway"
Sue: "tonight? Actually carol also asked me to go out tonight"
Me: "in that case ok.. we arrange again"
Sue: "Oh.. but I haven't said yes to her yet.. "
Me: "It is ok Sue.. "
Sue: "How about asking her to join us as well?"
Me: "hmm don't think it is nice.. "
Me: "OK.. I'll tell you.. I have a little problem with Carol.. not problem.. but a long story.."
Sue: "Oh sorry.. Okie.. I know .."
Me: "Then how about tomorrow instead?"
Sue: "Tuesday night? I got Yoga"

At that point my interest in the dinner subsided as I will be making plan on wed to fri for something else and won't want to be occupied with a dinner date.

Sue: "Ok.. why don't I tell Carol I meet her another day.. we have dinner tonight"
Me: "You sure it is ok? "
Sue: "Ok lah.. I know u busy man.. so if later in the week may not be able to make it... for me I can always have dinner with carol on another day"
Me: "OK.. u let me know to confirm"
Sue: "Yes sir... after I call her I will let you know"

Then we discussed a bit about the work I gave her. She had completed the documentation and next would be to schedule a meeting with the customer for a review.

So I left the office and went out for a bite. I had nothing in mind. I saw Sue joining other PA for lunch as they headed down the lift. I took the lift as well, down to the basement to get my car.

I need some fresh air. It has been raining the whole of sunday and the weather was still very cool even though the rain had stopped. The sun was out but it was very pleasant.

I was trying to sort out my thoughts. I have had a failed marriage and now at the cross-road. I have been filling the void in my life with women and more women - screwing as many as I can - at least 3 to 4 times a week although I slowed down in recent weeks. I was getting a bit tired of seeing new faces every week and how I longed for a good lover to be always there for me when I needed it. I thought I had Carol - she was quite good really - womanly curves and willing to try new things.. but I couldn't try to cheat her of her feelings.. And all the other diversions I had - the PRCs, the thais, GL, Massage Parlour - all the girls that I had, they seemed to fade the moment I had them. It was much better with the local FL but even then it was not something I could rely on - mostly meeting them are on a hit-and-miss basis. If I can't get them on a regular basis when I wanted them, they would remain largely a diversion. I don't want diversion. I want my main course - someone that I can rely on week-in and week-out to meet me at least twice a week. And I don't mean just the sex but the whole process - having dinner, then making out, then going for a drink, then possibly round 2 before heading for supper or home. Or to have a whole fucking weekend, booking a 5 star hotel and fucking silly the whole day through.

Or yet better still, have sexual trysts to some nearby location - bali, phuket or even bintan. But I was really dreaming. For now I have no purpose. The next target is Sue and I am not quite sure if I would actually want to bed her - I am already feeling very guilt about Carol and I wouldn't want to hurt another girl. But I can resist the temptation. She is sweet and innocent (I like to believe so) and that is all the more more exciting and challenging.

Shucks! Really killing me inside. Shall I go a screw now? The quickest and easy way is to go GL or just dial some PRC on my mobile. But I really hate the whole process in GL and the fake moans of the PRCs. What the fuck!

[wolf2305]

Just think. LIfe is short. YOu won't know what is going to happen tomorrow. So live your life to the fullest. Setback and failure is ok. Like right now I realize the more you don't heck care, the more successful you will be.

You can be bold without appearing desperate..


After much thinking, you are right in that direction. The more you heck care about most things the more you will get things coming your way unexpectedly.

[yinyang]

...I don't want diversion. I want my main course - someone that I can rely on week-in and week-out to meet me at least twice a week. And I don't mean just the sex but the whole process - having dinner, then making out, then going for a drink, then possibly round 2 before heading for supper or home. Or to have a whole fucking weekend, booking a 5 star hotel and fucking silly the whole day through.
Can relate. But often than not, we cannot have our cake and eat it. :p
Shucks! Really killing me inside. Shall I go a screw now? What the fuck!
Will pass (I think)... any plan B as it's close to eob now?;)

[infinitiumus]

Can relate. But often than not, we cannot have our cake and eat it. :p

Will pass (I think)... any plan B as it's close to eob now?;)

ha ha.. just some ranting that is all. this world is not perfect so we have to live with its imperfections

Plan B is just to get some hole to screw and release.. easily done. Just did that.

[Spud_Boy]

ha ha I know I know.. but Sue is really a long shot.. signals are encouraging but sometimes we can read it wrongly..

Can easily date her next week. It is ok to be patient although as much we would like to rush it.

Again, I am starting to have doubts if I should continue to pursue Sue, knowing that I could hurt a sweet and innocent girl in the process of bedding her..

So I rather be patient and take things slowly..


hmm.. in that case, why u never considered her seriously as a partner rather than a conquest?

[infinitiumus]

hmm.. in that case, why u never considered her seriously as a partner rather than a conquest?

ha ha in life it is much more complicated than that. Being in love and sleep together is one thing. A partner for life is another thing. Don't confuse the two.

[Spud_Boy]

ha ha in life it is much more complicated than that. Being in love and sleep together is one thing. A partner for life is another thing. Don't confuse the two.

quite true though.. all 3 different stuff.. well, it's never easy finding all 3 factors in 1 person.. it's making do with what u have.. :)

[CUM2ME]

ha ha.. just some ranting that is all. this world is not perfect so we have to live with its imperfections

Plan B is just to get some hole to screw and release.. easily done. Just did that.

Sigh,.. I guess that's what happens when the cookie crumbles... :o

[ManU74]

ha ha in life it is much more complicated than that. Being in love and sleep together is one thing. A partner for life is another thing. Don't confuse the two.

I think as most senior bros here say - sometime it is better that just pay n get it done with...

Do understand your feeling of not wanting 2 hurt another fellow human... I did my fair share and sometime do feel bad when i think about it... But too bad that a lot of time, a lot of decisions are ruled by emotions or worse lust...

Nevertheless, it is great following your life stories - much better than TV drama serial... Carol, SYT and Sue - following closely all your threads...

Can't wait to read all your happenings on daily basis...

[levisex]

very solid, bro! I want to receive tips fro you

[infinitiumus]

Just to let all know more about me. I am actually a very ordinary man, in my 40 and have stable job with good income. I spent easily about a few Ks a month on sexual activities. I am not good looking of any sort - average height and weight (read 1.7+ M, 70+ KG) with a tummy as most middle-aged man has. Nothing remarkable about me. I have no OCs to bother me, I am free to do what I want - except to bring girls to my house and marriage is out of question.

So, how can I possibly date sweet young things? That is the most puzzling question. I used to be so self-conscious of my age when I was with young girls until one of my ex-fb said she didn't even think about the age and the most important thing was that we are both happy for the moments we are together. I can tend to be a little over-protective over them, even sometimes the boyfriends that they went out with - but always as a concerned "uncle", nothing more. But mostly I am easy going, comforting them when they needed a shoulder, partying with them when they needed me, fetching them when they called in the middle of the night, sending them home when they were drunk or at times just chatting with them till the day break. Some of these girls I gave them money because that was how we started; some stopped taking money from me but still I gave them on at adhoc basis or other times I will give them presents or take them out for shopping.

So I have been hopping from one girl to another and in between there would always be commercial sex for me: GL, HC, thai, local FL, PRC etc etc. this is because even as my FB, these girls are not exclusive to me. Some of them have boyfriends (but was neglected), others have more than one FBs. The only type of girls I don't touch: young girls less than 18 years of age or married women. Mostly I target women from 20 to 30.

And now suddenly I found myself without a regular FB. The last was Carol. The girl before carol (that is another story) decided to stop because her boyfriend was back from overseas and she was feeling guilty. Some lasted like for just a few fucks, some lasted for more than 2 years.

So as I set out to find another FB, I began to ask myself where I will be heading to. But at times I tell myself that life is short and I won't have many more years to enjoy the sex as I can now. One of my friends suggested I "bao" women. I don't like the very idea. He was telling me that "baoing" a PRC is cheap.

I don't like the idea of "baoing" because that would mean it is exclusive to me and if it is exclusive to me, it means mutually exclusive as well. So the girl I baoed cannot sleep with another guy and to be fair I wouldn't sleep around as well. This is too restrictive and I don't have all the time in the world to stick with one girl. And to bao in this manner, the sex would get monotonous. And in my personal opinion, PRC grils suck at sex. By and large, they are very realistic and their motivation is to extract the maximum out of out. I prefer local girls, still find that they are the best in terms of GF feel when you find the genuine ones. the only problem is that we have to be discreet as mostly they wouldn't want to be seen in public.

So much for the digression


So yesterday night I took Sue for dinner. I brought her to this German eatery in Yio Chu Kang road. Nothing fancy but just to enjoy the time with her. We spoke at great length and eventually I decided to tell her about Carol.

Me: "You know Carol well right?"
Sue: "Yes.. quite well"
Me: "Did carol tell you about me?"
Sue: "No.. never. I don't know you knew each other till that day we met at the pantry"
Me: "Ok after that.. did she tell you anything?"
Sue: "No.. why?"

I took a deep breath.

Me: "OK.. I am going to tell you something but ..."

I paused, searching for the right words.

Sue: "Ok.. what is it about?"
Me: "It is regarding me and Carol"
Sue: "Ok.. i am willing to listen"

My tone was serious and Sue was looking intently at me. I didn't know why but suddenly I felt a sense of closeness to her that I thought I can lay my heart to her.

Me: "As you know, Carol was divorced.."
Sue: "Yes, I know that"
Me: "I as well.. in the same boat as her"
Sue: "Oh.. I don't know that.. sorry.. can't tell cos you are ever so cool and happy"
Me: "Well, we guys hide all our emotions inside. We hide in our caves when we are down. We don't bring them to the office"
Sue: "Ok.. I can understand.. want to tell me more"
Me: "Mine is complicated, tell you about it some other time.. for now I just want to tell you about me and Carol"
Sue: "Ok.."
Me: "You know, or perhaps not.. I knew Carol 8 years ago when she just joined the company. "
Sue: "oh.. i didn't know that"
Me: "ha ha.. back then Carol was a bit over-weight.. She actually fancy me then.. but I was then happily married.. and I took no attention of her"

Sue was nodding her head.

Me: "Then we met recently and being in the stage we are.. some sparks flew and we ended up..."
Sue: ".. together?"
Me: "not actually.. She sort of confided in me about her marriage.. getting a bit emotional.. we had some drinks.. emotionally charged.. and we ended up in a hotel"
Sue "Oh dear"
Me: "I am sorry but Carol is really a nice girl. And I don't want to hurt her. So I told her that the sex was a mistake because I told her I could not get into a relationship with her"

Me: "But still we meet frequently and ended up as FB"
Sue: "What is FB?"

I moved closer to her and whispered in her ears:

"Fuck Buddy"

Sue: "Oh.."

I thought I saw her blushed and she was giggling. Then there was silence.

.. to be continued..

[infinitiumus]

Yes, there was a long silence and I looked into her eyes. She was shying away. The atmosphere was a bit tense and I wasn't sure if I had used the wrong words. But I knew I didn't want to lie about my relationship with Carol. That is me. I rather be frank and direct with a woman.

Me: "Sue.. u ok?"
Sue: "Ok.."
Me: "Why so quiet now?"
Sue: "hmm... don't know what to say"

Me: "Ok.. why don't I tell you a joke?"

Me: "What type of mushrooms we can eat?"

I saw her trying to think..

Sue: "wait huh.. what type.. can eat type lah.."
Me: "try harder"
Sue: "don't know.. i fail biology"
Me: "All types"
Sue: "You sure? thought some are poisonous?"
Me: "Yes some are poisonous.. but still we can eat"
Sue: "Poisonous.... how to eat?"
Me: "Ha ha still can eat.. only difference is you are dead after eating"

Sue broke into a laughter and she was laughing quite loudly and she almost choke on her saliva. And her right hand was grabbing onto my hand and squeezing it.

Then she took a sip of water and let go of my hand. I didn't know if her grabbing of my hand was intentional or just an instinctive action.

Sue: "Can I ask you something.."
Me: "Yeah .. shoot"

Sue was looking at me shyly and then:

Sue: "What is a FB. I mean why FB and not lover or ?"
Me: "ha ha why you want to know"
Sue: "I heard about it but always wonder why would any girl want to be FB.. won't they lose out?"

Me: "Ok.. it is a bit complicated. OK for guys you know lah... the concept of FB cos guys can separate sex from love.."
Sue: "yes.. that I understand"
Me: "For girls a little complicated but there are already many emancipated girls who view sex as something to be enjoyed.. and not necessary for love.. in that sense it is not something different from what girls like to do.."
Sue: "is it.. I always thought sex is for doing with the one you love.."
Me: "Yes, that is probably the traditional way of thinking. Mostly girls who are not exposed will think that way.. but for some when they are sexually awake.. they will not think like that"
Sue: "Sexually awake?"
Me: "Yes, I mean a lot of girls don't enjoy sex because they think it is just their duty as a girl friend/wife to do it.. not because it gives them pleasure.. so to them sex is a chore.. not an activity to enjoy"
Sue: "Yes.. i am like that too"
Me: "But once you are able to be sexually-awaken.. once you can enjoy sex as it is.. then you may want more.. just sex for sex-sake.. not for love"
Sue: "Really difficult to think in that manner... for me"

Me: "Can I ask you a personal question?"
Sue: "yes.."
Me: "You had sex before right"

She didn't answer but nodded her head.

Me: "Did you enjoy it?"
Sue "Not really.. "

Me: "ha ha.. quite normal.. you are not awaken yet"
Sue: "I don't know.. to be .. like most girls.. we do it cos boyfriend asked for it... I rather prefer the closeness than the sex.. I mean the sex itself not much feeling.. a bit pain.. but not much joy.."
Me: "Don't you even have an orgasm?"
Sue: "No.. not from having sex.. err.. orgasm yes.. by myself .."
Me: "As in masturbation?"

Sue turned her head and I must say she was really shy to talk so much about the sex and masturbation. She nodded her head.

Me: "I am sorry to ask you personal question. ha ha.. Do you think I am a pervert trying to lay you and lead you on?"
Sue: "No.. no.. you are very nice.. actually I don't talk about such things.. even with my ex... and never with any guy.. so I feel a bit pai sei.. but ok.. you are ok.. I mean the way we talk..
Me: "Actually you are wrong. I am a very bad man.. Dirty old man.. wolf in sheep-skin.. you just didn't see the real me yet"
Sue: "No lah.. no lah.. "
Me: "ha ha pulling your legs lah.. "
Sue: "Now can i ask you a personal question as well?"
Me: "Yes.. shoot"
Sue: "Do you think guys find me attractive.. I mean as in sexually-attractive"
Me: "Yes of course... err.. at least I find you attractive, sexually that is"
Sue: "in what ways? cos my girl friend told me I am lao tu always wrapped all wrapped up"
Me: "Ha ha.. that is the beauty.. wrapped up means what is concealed is more interesting.. ha ha"
Sue: "Is that so.. she always ask me to dress a bit more sexily.. but I am very self-conscious.."
Me: "Self-conscious of what"
Sue: "Cos I got small boobs.. I am am very worried and self-conscious"
Me: "Ok.. don't worry. Sexuality is about confidence.. not about boobs size"
Sue: "Is it.. I have no confidence leh.."
Me: "It takes time.. when we got time I'll tell you more.."
Sue: Ok.. thanks"

It was getting late and I saw sue took a peek at her watch.

Me: "Getting late.. you have to go?"
Sue: "Yeah.. but ok lah.. been nice talking to you. In the office you are normally very serious and cool.. but I find it nice and refreshing to talk to you. Learn a lot of things. Me a mountain tortoise. Really nice.. need to learn more from you"

Me: "don't say that. It is my pleasure. We can have another date right?"
sue: "yes, dinner anytime"
Me: "How about besides dinner.. "
sue: "what do you mean?"
Me: "I mean.. mm.. other than dinner we can do other things together"
Sue: "Like what.. don't tell me you want to ask me go..."
Me: "Go where, can you guess what I am thinking"
Sue: "Go hotel?"
Me: "ha ha no lah.. You dirty girl.. I was thinking of asking you to go outdoor.. I like to take some picture of you.. outdoor.. cos I find your look is really refreshing.."
Sue: "opps.. must be too much talk about sex.. you brain-wash me already"
Sue: "Take photos huh? I am shy leh.. Not photogenic leh."
Me: "Not to worry lah.. just relax.. if you don't want.. I can take it naturally.. you like botanical gardens.. been there?"
Sue: "Actually no.. never been there.."
Me: "I arrange ok.. bring you to botanical garden.. we go there for picnic"
Sue: "yeah.. haven't done picnic for ages.."


.. to be continued..

I don't know what you guys think. Actually if I have asked her to go hotel, I was thinking she will say yes. But somehow I am not ready. Shucks. I really got reservation about bedding her.. so I prolonged the process

[tryherout]

I don't know what you guys think. Actually if I have asked her to go hotel, I was thinking she will say yes. But somehow I am not ready. Shucks. I really got reservation about bedding her.. so I prolonged the process

Maybe....she reply "sakura? fuji?"

[infinitiumus]

A little more diversion

It has been a couple of years since I was in my current situation - a marriage on the rocks and with me neither here not there. I have dated some girls but mostly SG girls or other girls after a few dates would asked a lot of questions about my personal life - what what was I doing for a living, where do I live, who in my family.. etc etc.. I can't blame them as sometimes they look at me as a potential partner although up front when I dated them I told them straight that marriage is out of question. Still they tried but after a few dates it will naturally die a natural death.

Mostly, I haven't even touch them yet let alone have sex with them. But having sex with them is not my only intention - I am finding a companion, in fact multiple companions to do things together (including sex) and in this sin city, it is really a tough challenge to find one.

So I ended up hunting for girls just to fuck. This is easy especially if I am willing to pay. And I find paying for sex is good because at times because there are not messy business to clean up.

And yet, after the debacle with Carol it really sets me thinking. And now with Sue - this really sweet and innocent girl, I really don't have the heart to just fuck her.. and yet, I am lusting for her deep inside.. and somehow I am so worried that I would reach my destination too soon (and it will end pretty soon) and that is why I am trying to go slower.. maybe it will give me a bit more time to collect my thoughts.

[yinyang]

...if I have asked her to go hotel, I was thinking she will say yes. But somehow I am not ready. Shucks. I really got reservation about bedding her.. so I prolonged the process
Imho, not quit cock sure it was affirmative then. You did right, tarik more a bit. Who knows, beneath that surface runs a torrent of unfulfilled needs:p. If no go, at least no guilt.

[infinitiumus]

Imho, not quit cock sure it was affirmative then. You did right, tarik more a bit. Who knows, beneath that surface runs a torrent of unfulfilled needs:p. If no go, at least no guilt.

ha ha.. i know.. u were not there. She was nervous when she spoke those words about going to "hotel"

anyway If I am in the mood yesterday, I would bring her to another place more "romantic", get some wine... tell her I am moody and need her listening ear.. she wouldn't reject.. and then there could be more.

But I was not ready myself.

[infinitiumus]

As I was staring out of the window of my office, Sue walked in.

Sue: "hello sir.. you want coffee or tea?"
Me: "No thanks. cutting down on coffee and tea.. prefer something else"
Sue: "What you like?"
Me: "You lah.. what else"

She was blushing. Ha ha, I love to see her blushing.

Me: "Joking only.. just get me some warm water.."

So she went to get me my water and I started at my computer. My work was done at last. It has been a productive day, finished my work, replied all emails and still got time to update my threads in SBF.

I was updating the thread about "Another Sweet Young Thing" and suddenly I felt the urge to UP her. So I sent her a SMS:

Me: "U free by any chance today? U set the time"
Sweetie: "Sorry. today cannot leh :)"

So LL, just have to wish her to have a nice day. Then Sue walked in with my water.

Me: "Sue... can you call customer and check with them when we can meet them to review the documents?"
Sue: "Yes sir"
Me: "Ok I am leaving office early. So, you SMS me later OK?"
Sue: "Yes. will do.. have a nice day"
Me: "You too.. sweetie.."

Ha ha.. I guessed I got confused who is sweetie and who is Sue. But I know where I am heading soon. I have just made appointment with yet another FL and it is time to go now.

[zl1983]

nice post. :)

[infinitiumus]

After I left office I rushed over to H81 for my appointment with TE's hesper. Read the FR here:

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/welcome-fl-dome-2-free-stds-included/86154-19-years-old-chinese-permanent-resident-hesper-3.html#post3008889

When I got home, SUE sms me telling me that appointment with customer already made for 2pm tomorrow. It was a sex-tisfied day. I have unloaded but still I cannot but dream of UPping Sue.

[yinyang]

..sex-tisfied day. I have unloaded but still I cannot but dream of UPping Sue.
Sexual tension relieved, but only with Sue's proxy?:p

Not alone in your (involuntary?) sweetie mixup, I have been guilty of calling some FLs "honey" -from too snacking on my tg side (OL) dish in LOS. Rated X for Oc though... damn hope not sleep talking:o

[infinitiumus]

Sexual tension relieved, but only with Sue's proxy?:p

Not alone in your (involuntary?) sweetie mixup, I have been guilty of calling some FLs "honey" -from too snacking on my tg side (OL) dish in LOS. Rated X for Oc though... damn hope not sleep talking:o

Ha ha I am determined to unload today so that tomorrow I am not so horny. tomorrow going to customer place in the afternoon with Sue. And after that, I can make my move if I want. Hopefully I am not so horny tomorrow.

[ray2003]

Ha ha I am determined to unload today so that tomorrow I am not so horny. tomorrow going to customer place in the afternoon with Sue. And after that, I can make my move if I want. Hopefully I am not so horny tomorrow.

Good luck with the customer meeting. I wish I am in your shoes. Looking for a FB but can't seemed to find one. Still looking. :(

I'll be keeping an eye on your progress. :)

[infinitiumus]

Good luck with the customer meeting. I wish I am in your shoes. Looking for a FB but can't seemed to find one. Still looking. :(

I'll be keeping an eye on your progress. :)

ha ha not much really. Not making my move yet.

shucks after 10 pages and 40K view still no action...

[infinitiumus]

Today I went to customer location with Sue. It was drizzling at first but when we reached the destination it was raining very heavily. Shucks no basement car-park - so have to dash from the car to the building.

I took a big umbrella, opened my door and went over to the passenger side and opened the door for Sue. Then I was like half-holding and half-hugging her and we walked quickly to the building. Wow, damn shiok and happening - I was like a little boy touching a girl for the first time.

When we reached the building, my long sleeves were wet and some part of my shirt was wet as well. Ha ha... Sue's blouse was wet in some areas - and it was a sight - can see her blouse stuck to her body. It was wet and sexy. We were not very wet but still it was a little feast for me.

Then we went to the cafe to have a hot drink and settled and dried ourselves first before going into the customer's office.

After the meeting the rain had stopped and the sun was out. She wanted to go home so I gave her a lift home.

There was no happening action but I was happy in a way.

[dodger]

A little more diversion

It has been a couple of years since I was in my current situation - a marriage on the rocks and with me neither here not there. I have dated some girls but mostly SG girls or other girls after a few dates would asked a lot of questions about my personal life - what what was I doing for a living, where do I live, who in my family.. etc etc.. I can't blame them as sometimes they look at me as a potential partner although up front when I dated them I told them straight that marriage is out of question. Still they tried but after a few dates it will naturally die a natural death.

Mostly, I haven't even touch them yet let alone have sex with them. But having sex with them is not my only intention - I am finding a companion, in fact multiple companions to do things together (including sex) and in this sin city, it is really a tough challenge to find one.

So I ended up hunting for girls just to fuck. This is easy especially if I am willing to pay. And I find paying for sex is good because at times because there are not messy business to clean up.

And yet, after the debacle with Carol it really sets me thinking. And now with Sue - this really sweet and innocent girl, I really don't have the heart to just fuck her.. and yet, I am lusting for her deep inside.. and somehow I am so worried that I would reach my destination too soon (and it will end pretty soon) and that is why I am trying to go slower.. maybe it will give me a bit more time to collect my thoughts.


Don't come and talk all this lAN JIAO WEI LA! What don't have the heart to fuck. KNN you just want to FUCK and siam say la. KNN trying to say till you so bo bian KNN. CHAO DAR POR.

[Toyota Honda]

There was no happening action but I was happy in a way.

Actually, the best part of a relationship other than the sex is.. going affter the girl and not knowing whether you would succeed in getting her.. While on the other hand, she does things that makes you feel motivated.

Understand how you feel.. Have not felt this way for a long time.

[infinitiumus]

I didn't go back office today so I didn't get to see Sue. Anyway she SMS me telling me she had finished the minutes of yesterday's meeting with customer and asked me to review - she had sent the minutes to me via email.

So I reviewed the minutes and replied to her.

Then I decided to call her:

Sue : "hello.. sue speaking"
Me: "It's me lah. wait.."
Sue: "Ok.. "
Me: "Ok.. So we finished the minutes... and then next week we should complete most of the action items?"
Sue: "Yes.. should be completed by then"

Me: "You free this Sat or sun?"
Sue: "Yes.. why?"
Me: "I mean the sat or sun morning?"
Sue: "yeah.. normally nothing much in the morning"
Me: "Want to go Botanical garden for walk walk and picnic?"
Sue: "hmm.. that would be nice"
Me: "so ok right?.. sat or sun?"
Sue: "Sat better.. sunday normally a bit lazy.. ha ha"
Sue: "So what do I need to bring?"
Me: "nothing much.. bring yourself... that is all"
Sue: "I thought you said picnic?"
Me: "yes.. leave all that to me.. "
Sue: "You sure or not.. i can help prepare"
Me: "Ha ha ok lah.. tomorrow night I will go buy stuff and then prepare"
Sue: "You sure you don't need my help"
Me: "No need.. next time ok.. next time you prepare"
Sue: "Ok.. thanks so much "
Me: "So I picked you up at 8:30am.. your block downstairs.."
Sue: "Okie.. "
Me: "Wear something comfortable.. don't wear office wear hor"
Sue: "Ok sir"

So Saturday appointment with Sue done. Another step forward. Actually by making this appointment, I am already making another appointment because the next time she promised to prepare the food. And it is about time I see her in some casual weekend clothing. Not the long sleeve blouse thingy she always wear to office. And I will bring my camera long.

[dgsk]

The way you're proceeding, I suspect you're going in for the long haul, consciously or not. Totally different from your attitude and approach towards Carol.

[infinitiumus]

The way you're proceeding, I suspect you're going in for the long haul, consciously or not. Totally different from your attitude and approach towards Carol.

Yes I know!

[dgsk]

So you're prepared for a LTR for as long as the ring thing don't come up?

[yinyang]

..you're prepared for a LTR for as long as the ring thing don't come up?
Ask him again in a month or 2, hehehe:p

[dgsk]

True. Let's see if he can overcome his peculiar circumstance mindset excuse.

[Spud_Boy]

Sounds like a very good development.. slow & steady.. :)

[relaxguy]

Bro, I definitely understand your thinking.

I feel you are something who wants his cake and eat it too (no offense) and I am sure there are many people like you (including myself), except that I dont do it in Singapore or any small countries. I find that people in small countries (i.e. Singapore, hongkong, Taiwan) tend to be very prone to "social pressure", the need to own, to follow social trends and to be "accepted", like marriage, a proper relationship. People from bigger countries, China, Indonesia, Thailand then to be more liberated I do not know why perhaps its harder for them to get caught or recognized?

I am in my early 30s, travel alot, married and got kids, however I am also a person that gets lonely(not just the sex) but requires people to go out, spend time, watch movie to love, shopping and also sex. The journey is more important than the destination to me, but of course I always get there. =P

I have many SBs around the region as my job requires me to travel, all I need to do is call and tell them my schedules, they would make arrangements to spend time with me. If yes ok, if no, I call the next one or go hunting.

SBs come and go, but some stay for life. I have a shanghaiese SB who I know before I got married and we still sms every day. too used to it, she said. Now she is married and have kids, still, we get together when we can, to celebrate her birthday or weekend getaway.

Like the Beijing one that will call purely for sex, I will call when i am there and she will call when she is around where I am... no strings, but 100% comfortable when we are together, as if we known for a million years.

My requirements are simple and honest, when I am with them, I am 100% with them. I tell them straight, I am married, have kids, I am not planning on hurting anyone, just hope for someone to spend the night and enjoy the times spent together. No strings attached, we cannot have any future, but for now, you can have 100% of me. I do not give money nor ask for any, but when we go out, I pay for all. My girls are all very understanding, and I do share with them my problems at work, life and other areas. Many also help me, and I really sincerely appreciate them and adore them whenever I can.

My SBs come from all walks of life, from 19 gorgeous PRC girl to 38 korean girl (although she looks 28). Some are Directors, universitiy girls, some sales girls and some are just out from school

I had a PA previously from Yunnan when I was stationed in PRC, almost a double of cecilia cheung, 23 years old fresh out of U 1.7m, firm boobs, who was my SB for almost 1 year. Quite capable, hardworking and very beautiful, very positive, ambitous, can write and speak native english just being exposed to me for few months. Took me for her laogong, wash my clothes, clean my house, sleep, cook shop with me. almost like 2nd wife. The times with her was great, after work go nice dinner with beautiful woman and all man staring, then go nice bar, have some drinks, then back to my apt to raw fuck the daylights out of her... then sometimes, go beach, go movies, or when feeling adventurous bring and fuck her in funny places like meeting room, changing room, movie threatres, beaches and yachts etc.

Everything end when she saw my wife 1 day in my office visiting me (She knows I am married and have kids but she never met them before). Stayed in the toliet and cried for the whole day until my wife ask where my PA is, why not outside at her desk? In the end has to make up a story to tell her I send her on errand, will return as soon as she is done.

Throw me the resignation letter the next day, didnt even handover properly. Thats where I realize that no matter what, women will still fall in love with the man they grow used to, even when they know it is not exclusive. I lost a good helper and in the end learnt never to get too close to them.

Once I feel they start giving gifts and harboring thoughts of 天长地久，　I push them away... brainwash them again... like 2 porcupines trying to make love, better keep a certain distance, otherwise no good ending... at least thats how i managed my balanced life for the past decade...

Just want to share a thought with you, if you are looking for what I think you are looking for, perhaps you are looking at the wrong places?

Your intention initially was simply just to find companionship, but in the end it morphed into something totally different. You dont seem to be a non-conscious man, just a lecherous man at the same time looking for honest feelings (like me) :D

A little more diversion

Mostly, I haven't even touch them yet let alone have sex with them. But having sex with them is not my only intention - I am finding a companion, in fact multiple companions to do things together (including sex) and in this sin city, it is really a tough challenge to find one.

So I ended up hunting for girls just to fuck. This is easy especially if I am willing to pay. And I find paying for sex is good because at times because there are not messy business to clean up.

[relaxguy]

Bro, you know, these things are strange, like finding taxis... when you really stop finding, they will all start to appear... :D

be patient dont be too desperate and you will find your time table full for whole week, trust me....


Good luck with the customer meeting. I wish I am in your shoes. Looking for a FB but can't seemed to find one. Still looking. :(

I'll be keeping an eye on your progress. :)

[Toyota Honda]

The way you're proceeding, I suspect you're going in for the long haul, consciously or not. Totally different from your attitude and approach towards Carol.

Ya man.. Thats the trend nowadays...

Like SIA buy A380 for long haul... short flights not making too much and time wasting infact...

[CUM2ME]

Bro relaxguy, That's good advice... ...

Bro, infinitiumus, just be true to your yourself,.. For all things real, you can never go wrong.

Just take a small step at a time and not let your primal instincts take over you... :D

For selfish reasons, I hope it does,.. then can share share,... :D:D

Bro, I definitely understand your thinking.
Thats where I realize that no matter what, women will still fall in love with the man they grow used to, even when they know it is not exclusive. I lost a good helper and in the end learnt never to get too close to them.

Once I feel they start giving gifts and harboring thoughts of 天长地久，　I push them away... brainwash them again... like 2 porcupines trying to make love, better keep a certain distance, otherwise no good ending... at least thats how i managed my balanced life for the past decade...

Just want to share a thought with you, if you are looking for what I think you are looking for, perhaps you are looking at the wrong places?

Your intention initially was simply just to find companionship, but in the end it morphed into something totally different. You dont seem to be a non-conscious man, just a lecherous man at the same time looking for honest feelings (like me) :D

[relaxguy]

Bro Cum2me,
Thanks for appreciating my advice....

I have been lurking here for a long time... maybe its time I share some of my experience here...

Primal Instincts, hmm....
maybe only when I meet the right girl... I remembered the last time was in Shenzhen, only 150 per bonk, but she was so good that I bao her for whole night, pound her 6 times....
Sichuan girl, 18, soft tender white skin, pink nipples, long straight silky hair, large eyes, pretty face, orgasmic moans, thiny figure... man, jus thinking about her make me hard. Feels like I am making love to youth itself!

Sad news is when I returned to find her, heard she left and went home... maybe scared of seeing me again ? :(

Bro relaxguy, That's good advice... ...

Bro, infinitiumus, just be true to your yourself,.. For all things real, you can never go wrong.

Just take a small step at a time and not let your primal instincts take over you... :D

For selfish reasons, I hope it does,.. then can share share,... :D:D

[CUM2ME]

Bro Cum2me,
Thanks for appreciating my advice....

I have been lurking here for a long time... maybe its time I share some of my experience here...

Primal Instincts, hmm....
maybe only when I meet the right girl... I remembered the last time was in Shenzhen, only 150 per bonk, but she was so good that I bao her for whole night, pound her 6 times....

Sad news is when I returned to find her, heard she left and went home... maybe scared of seeing me again ? :(

Wah,.. 6 times,.. no wonder she went home,.. her pussie must be damn sore,... wahahaha... :D

[Uchiha_Itachi]

nice real life story..learn something gd from here ^^ i mean really gd thing, not those that r ONLY gd for myself =) thank ^^

[richmenson]

Great posts. Simply food for thoughts.

I'm also married but yet habouring a FB at the same time.

I have been with my FB for coming close to 3 years, almost as long as my marriage.

She bought me a phone along with a line registered to her name so that my wife would not find out about the new line.

On my birthday, she would send gifts in name of her company so that nobody would suspect.

Sometimes, I wonder is it that she owe me a lot in her previous life?

Some FBs are just emotional.

[yinyang]

TS, speaking of obvious...weekend's date is a start of next phase. Now the rest is really up to you. Meaning, makan or drinks on the job are 1 thing.. but a picnic on a weekend is quite something else.;)

Bro relaxguy, wow.. yours is machiam a gal (or more) in every port. Best part of it, is holistic experiences (than commercial sex). Envious leh:p

[Willie]

Bro, I definitely understand your thinking.

Once I feel they start giving gifts and harboring thoughts of 天长地久，　I push them away... brainwash them again... like 2 porcupines trying to make love, better keep a certain distance, otherwise no good ending... at least thats how i managed my balanced life for the past decade...

Just want to share a thought with you, if you are looking for what I think you are looking for, perhaps you are looking at the wrong places?

Your intention initially was simply just to find companionship, but in the end it morphed into something totally different. You dont seem to be a non-conscious man, just a lecherous man at the same time looking for honest feelings (like me) :D


Thanks for sharing, great advise. In where I work, PAs are at leat 50 years old. Guess I will never have your problems!

[Bangster]

Thanks for sharing, great advise. In where I work, PAs are at leat 50 years old. Guess I will never have your problems!

Hence I shall presume with an acceptable level of accuracy that "P.A." stands for "Pesky Ah-sohs" where you work. :D

Poor thang...

[geckoSG]

Everything end when she saw my wife 1 day in my office visiting me (She knows I am married and have kids but she never met them before). Stayed in the toliet and cried for the whole day until my wife ask where my PA is, why not outside at her desk? In the end has to make up a story to tell her I send her on errand, will return as soon as she is done.

Throw me the resignation letter the next day, didnt even handover properly. Thats where I realize that no matter what, women will still fall in love with the man they grow used to, even when they know it is not exclusive. I lost a good helper and in the end learnt never to get too close to them.


I understand how you feel bro, a FB no matter how comfy she is with you,
once they understand too much of your family life or see your family...
They will feel guilty and leave you... So, make sure you dun make them meet
if you can...

[relaxguy]

yalor,

come to think of it, she must have "run road" home to nurse her "wounds".

hahahaha :D

Think she must be thinking money very hard to earn these days.... ;)

Wah,.. 6 times,.. no wonder she went home,.. her pussie must be damn sore,... wahahaha... :D

[relaxguy]

Hi Bro, richmenson,
treasure your FB, shes a gem. She truly loves you...

my old GF loved me so much and would do anything for me, but I went to marry the person that would make the best wife... :( , life's always unfair sometimes...

now she is also married (to a person who she thinks is mediocre, but at least can tell people she is married) and still continue to be my lover FB...



Great posts. Simply food for thoughts.

I'm also married but yet habouring a FB at the same time.

I have been with my FB for coming close to 3 years, almost as long as my marriage.

She bought me a phone along with a line registered to her name so that my wife would not find out about the new line.

On my birthday, she would send gifts in name of her company so that nobody would suspect.

Sometimes, I wonder is it that she owe me a lot in her previous life?

Some FBs are just emotional.

[relaxguy]

Hahaha,
who knows what the world would turn at us?

Maybe the old cows would try to hook you up instead? hahaha :D


Thanks for sharing, great advise. In where I work, PAs are at leat 50 years old. Guess I will never have your problems!

[relaxguy]

Absolutely agree with you...

The breakoff is very sudden and violent... I remember after my wife left, the PA still came over and stayed with me for the night and when seems like things are back to normal, the next day just throw letter and walk away...

I wish they are more rational, and still continue to be friends.. (SB better...hahaha :D)

Why can't we be friends, why can't we be friends.... (The song singing in the background)


I understand how you feel bro, a FB no matter how comfy she is with you,
once they understand too much of your family life or see your family...
They will feel guilty and leave you... So, make sure you dun make them meet
if you can...

[relaxguy]

Bro yinyang,
thanks for your kind words :D

you know, I never really purposely go out and find one, it just causal causal talking and asking then, things move on...

Thats why I advise the bros who want to find them, Stop finding them, and they will start appearing...

like go bars, or go eat or the last time when in shanghai asked me about a bread in breadtalk... then we end up sharing same table having bread...go for coffee, some dancing then the rest is history, become my regular SB in shanghai.

dont be envy of me lah, everyone chance will come...when it comes, just be sure to have the courage and balls to grab it. :D


TS, speaking of obvious...weekend's date is a start of next phase. Now the rest is really up to you. Meaning, makan or drinks on the job are 1 thing.. but a picnic on a weekend is quite something else.;)

Bro relaxguy, wow.. yours is machiam a gal (or more) in every port. Best part of it, is holistic experiences (than commercial sex). Envious leh:p

[infinitiumus]

TS, speaking of obvious...weekend's date is a start of next phase. Now the rest is really up to you. Meaning, makan or drinks on the job are 1 thing.. but a picnic on a weekend is quite something else.;)



I have already decided to really take it very slowly. I rather enjoy the process.

[HornySexFreak]

Nice story bro, anymore coming? :)

[infinitiumus]

Absolutely agree with you...


I wish they are more rational, and still continue to be friends.. (SB better...hahaha :D)

Why can't we be friends, why can't we be friends.... (The song singing in the background)

I guess they are going through a lot and have a lot of courage to throw the letter. Some others will try other method to be sticky.. It is really a complex relationship. I had my fair share of FB and all of them acted differently - can't use logic at times

[CUM2ME]

Thanks for sharing, great advise. In where I work, PAs are at leat 50 years old. Guess I will never have your problems!

Hmmm gotta be careful... it will be disastrous if the 50yr old PA has the hots for you.... :D

That will be a whole different set of problems,.. woahohoooooo:p

[infinitiumus]

We went for picnic at Botanical garden in the morning. Nothing much other than just talk. It has been nice, talked to her about her family and such. Her family in Penang and she has been in Singapore for 7 or 8 years already. She is currently staying with a relative in Singapore.

So this is really good to know her better and we chatted on a lot of things - from her hobbies, to her aspirations and so on and so on. Nothing on her personal life yet!

It was a cloudy morning - not much of the sun. And then it started to rain. Luckily we were already on the way to my car and we made a dash for it. We didn't really get wet but since it was raining, we decided to have lunch instead. So I drove to the nearby mall and we had lunch in the food-court.

After that I sent her home.

After seeing her disappearing, I sent her a SMS:

Me: "thanks sue for the time! I enjoy the moments. Hope to see u again!"
Sue: "thanks too. I want to tell you the truth and that I really enjoy the time with you"

So I drove off and went home to prepare for my 10km run in the late afternoon.

[sexsexsex4me]

Nice stories, thanks bro

[Timmer]

thanks for sharing

[yinyang]

Sue: "thanks too. I want to tell you the truth and that I really enjoy the time with you"
So I drove off and went home to prepare for my 10km run in the late afternoon.
Bodes well for you. Asides, you do get fit for sexercise.. just a (horny) dig:p

[infinitiumus]

Bodes well for you. Asides, you do get fit for sexercise.. just a (horny) dig:p

Ya, trying to shed a few Kilo .. and yes, to keep up with young things, have to keep up fitness level

[chimyh]

quietly camp for next episode:D:D:D

[ray2003]

Bro, you know, these things are strange, like finding taxis... when you really stop finding, they will all start to appear... :D

be patient dont be too desperate and you will find your time table full for whole week, trust me....

Yes, after I read your story, I am starting to be patient. Let's see how it goes. Maybe I'll start a thread when that happens. Thanks... :rolleyes:

[diversity_08]

Nice post. Camping here to read more.

[CUM2ME]

Bro infinitiumus,
You can be the SBF Idol... :D Salute Salute Salute...

:D

Camping for more...

[infinitiumus]

Today is already thursday and you wouldn't believe that I haven't have sex for a week. It is quite unusual that I would go without sex for a week. The last time I had was with sweetie last thursday. I didn't write an FR for that but it was a good night.

And this week there was so much promise but in the end nothing turned out right. Yes, I got to date Sue on Sunday to go to botanical garden but we did nothing after that. Monday was the worst as I waited for Niki till 2:30 am the next morning and yet she didn't call at all. So I did nothing. On tuesday, I went out with Carol for dinner and then to East coast park. And then I sent her home. On wednesday I did nothing as I was dead tired. So today I wanted to fuck desperately. But for once I felt so lost that actually I don't have a target in mind.

I browsed SBF aimlessly. FL thread was flooded with thai girls that grew sick of it. Then I went to FL2 thread and it was flooded with PRC and then there were some local FL. So I tried my luck and randomly chose one. I chose Rainbow. PM her and then I was in a meeting when she SMS me.

Firstly she arranged 7:15pm. I said OK. Then she changed to 8pm. I said OK too. Immediately after that my mahjong kaki asked me to play mahjong but I had to reject them as I needed to satisfy my little brother. Then she SMS again, changing the time to 6:45pm. At this point, I was feeling a bit exasperated. Still I told her it was ok. Five minutes later she said 6:50pm. I was like WTF.. what is the difference of 5 mins. I didn't even bother to reply her. Then yet another SMS came in: "Final timing seven forty". I was at that point a bit boiling but I kept my cool.

So at 7:00pm I started to make my way to the designated hotel. I told her H81 Lavender and she said OK. I reached there early at 7:30pm and got my room and SMS her the room number. She didn't reply. It was ok as it was not time yet. At 7:40pm I reminded her of the room number again. Again, no response from her. I waited and waited till it was 7:55pm, she SMS to give her another 10 mins. So I waited. 10 minutes later, she called and asked where I was. I told her Lavender81 then she asked if it is near the food court. I told her no. Told her it is Lavender near the main road. So I waited for another 10 mins before she arrived. She was by then more than 35 minutes late.

My mood was somewhat subdued when I saw her. She looked pretty ordinary, I was expecting a cuter and sweeter girl. Still, she is damn young. I thought she looked like 18 rather than 20. Look a bit like Frey but Frey is prettier and taller. So I thought like Frey, youth is power.

But it was a SOP exercise. She is not very experience.. squirming when I painted her. Frenching was a far cry from the likes of Frey or Angelica. And she wouldn't do BBBJ. So I told her to skip the BJ. Fucked her in two positions and I came in missionary.

She remarked that I looked fierce and tired. I was feeling empty. Maybe I was trying to find a replacement for Niki or Carol. But I felt so empty because it was really a poor substitute. I hated this feeling of emptiness. Yes, when I got to fuck the wrong girl I have this feeling. I really hated this feeling. It was worst to fuck and yet to have such feelings. I might as well just fuck a PRC or Thai for that matter. But I can't really blame her. I was the one looking for her, trying to find in her shadows of my regular fuck buddies. Of course I would be disappointed. I was more disappointed with myself for choosing to fuck her.

And then she took her shower. She asked if I wanted to shower together. I kept quiet and asked her to go ahead. I really have no mood to face her. I was glad that she dressed quickly and I paid her and she was out of the room.

Then I went home. I watched a bit of TV. Had some drinks and then I was on the computer.

And guess what... .. Sue was online!

Sue: "Hi boss"
Me: "Hi sue.. don't call me boss leh"
Sue: "yes sir"
Me: "So what's up"
Sue: "nothing.. what is 'fuck all that' in your tag line"
Me: "nothing.. just fuck up.. that is all"
Sue: "why?"
Me: "long story lah.. feeling so empty.."
Sue: "why.. you want to tell me.. i am a good listener"
Me: "ha ha fuck up man.. feeling so lost at times"
Sue: "why today like this?"
Me: "Yeah, i don't know as well. Just feeling lousy"
Sue: "what happened today?"
Me: "not just today.. it is cumulative.. long story lah.."
Sue: "I can listen"
Me: "U sure? I just feel lonely at times.. lack of companion..."
Sue: "Go find a girl friend lah"
Me: "ha ha you think so easy to find a girl to click?"
Sue: "that is true.."
Me: "so sian lor.. "
Sue: "maybe you shouldn't just look for girl friend.. just go out with friends lah"
Me: "I know.. I know.. ok lah.. don't talk about me.. how abt u?
Sue: "what about me?"
Me: "you not lonely meh?"
Sue: "Me.. ok lah.. do my own things lor.. don't think so much"
Me: "How about me dating you for movies, dinner.. is it ok"
Sue: "Ok lah.. I don't mind.. I told you ok what.. but u hardly ask me out"
Me: "ha ha is it? you not scared of me?"
Sue: "Scared of what?"
Me: "I am a wolf..."
Sue: "ha ha not scared of wolf.."
Me: "You sure or not.. i can eat you alive"
Sue: "you think so easy to eat me lah"
Me: "You wanna try?"
Sue: "why not.."

....

[cpcheongster]

more more more

[oeioei]

Me: "I am a wolf..."
Sue: "ha ha not scared of wolf.."
Me: "You sure or not.. i can eat you alive"
Sue: "you think so easy to eat me lah"
Me: "You wanna try?"
Sue: "why not.."

....

Bro...mai tu liao lah.......

Sue is inviting you to eat her......Yummy!!
:p

[BabyJane]

I have been following your thread faithfully from day one and I must say the anticipation is building up. You are playing all your cards right and eventually you will be rewarded :)

Women love to be wined and dined and pampered. Show her lots of TLC and she will melt at your feet. One word of advice though, don't rush things. Take it slow and enjoy the entire process. Then only will the reward be as sweet as ever.

Good job so far.... keep it up!!! ;)

[Cytan7]

nice start between u and your PA... u definitely can eat her alive.. hehe

[paulsun]

very nice :p

[infinitiumus]

.. continuing..

After that I veered the conversation towards something less sexual.. each time I am speaking to her I bring up the heat a bit and then I cool it down.
But we promised to meet next week for dinner.

So in the end we said good night and she went offline and went to sleep.

[zl1983]

not bad an update.. :)

[peterpan81]

Believe there will be some action happening next week dinner??

[infinitiumus]

With the disappointment of last week fading, I have a feeling that this week will be a great week. But I was in for a shock that over the weekend and with the confirmation on monday that I have a feeling that next week will be the greatest week and probably a turning point for me with regards to sue.

Customer has requested for us to visit them in Europe to finalize the documents that we have submitted to them as they would want to discuss it face and face and then we could have a sign-off for the documents after the discussion.

And what stroke of luck that can be as I will be going to Europe and Sue will be there with me! I couldn't believe my luck as normally I would travel alone but this time round I told them I needed help as my assistant was the one helping me in the documentation. And customer said, ok bring her along! I was trying my luck and couldn't believe that they would approve it so easily.

So yesterday was a day of mad rush to get tickets and book hotel. Flights were almost full and fortunately we were taking business class and it helped a lot in securing the tickets.

When I asked Sue to my office on monday morning to tell her about the trip, she was elated beyond dreams:

Me: "hey sue.. come here"
Sue: "Yes sir"
Me: "we are going to europe"
Sue: "Ok.. u want me to help you book tickets"
Me: "No.. you are going as well.. I'll get the other PA to book the tickets"
Sue: "Me going? U kidding?:
Me: "No.. not kidding.. you are going.. don't you want to go?"
Sue: "You sure.. me going.. wow hoo.. Never in my dream"
Me: "yes, get yourself prepared.. flight will be on sunday night"
Sue: "boss are you sure?? Am I dreaming"
Me: "Not joking lah.. give your details to Jess (PA) and she will make the arrangement"
Sue: "Sure.. I will do that.. But what to do there huh? I never travel for business before"
Me: "don't worry.. I am going as well.. just follow and listen to me.. "
Sue: "Yes sir.. I don't know what to say.. how long will we be there?
Me: "A week.."
Sue: "Wow.."


..

So at the end of Monday we have all the airline tickets and hotel reservation all sorted out. As it was Sue's first time on business trip she was decidedly excited and asked me a lot of questions. I told her to relax and not be so excited. But deep inside me, I was terribly excited as well.

...

[chimyh]

Got happening on board a plane ??:D:D

[airbrush]

brother infinitiumus enjoy your trips to europe, waiting for your FR cheer!

[dgsk]

Wow bro, your lucky star's starting to shine. The proverbial sunshine after the recent cloudy days.
Great for you!
btw thx for the pts,

[unsung80]

Europe sia....... have fun. :)

[redboi]

camping for more updates:D

[Cytan7]

So at the end of Monday we have all the airline tickets and hotel reservation all sorted out. As it was Sue's first time on business trip she was decidedly excited and asked me a lot of questions. I told her to relax and not be so excited. But deep inside me, I was terribly excited as well.

...

Bro, i am feeling excited for you also... :D

[zl1983]

great post! :)

[Carl_Brand]

Bro, Up for your exciting Europe.

Should have a lot of bonk bonk :D

[AD69]

Hope you have lots of "Fun" in Europe. :)

[Brother...Bob]

I am already standing by in Europe! Bro TS, where r u??????

Carry on, bro!

Bro...Bob

[CUM2ME]

Wooohoooo,... Bro infinitiumus.... you da best,....

Keep it cumming,... Europe can be a very romantic place to be at... :D

[dgsk]

Guess we're not going to hear much from you on this thread until your flight.
Have a great and productive trip in ALL aspects.
Would really love to receive blow by blow real time live updates, iff it's convenient at all.
Cheers!!!

[infinitiumus]

One of my sexual fantasy would be to do it in flight.. but that will remain a fantasy ..

Shucks.. if I have made attempts to bed Sue earlier.. I could actually fulfill my sexual fantasy in flight..

And imagine.. I can update it in real time on the plane's internet access..

For now it remains a fantasy..

[HardcoreMassage]

One of my sexual fantasy would be to do it in flight.. but that will remain a fantasy ..

Shucks.. if I have made attempts to bed Sue earlier.. I could actually fulfill my sexual fantasy in flight..

And imagine.. I can update it in real time on the plane's internet access..

For now it remains a fantasy..

Bro infinitiumus, you can make your fantasy come true on your way back home;)

[ChuiTaLan]

One of my sexual fantasy would be to do it in flight.. but that will remain a fantasy ..

Shucks.. if I have made attempts to bed Sue earlier.. I could actually fulfill my sexual fantasy in flight..

And imagine.. I can update it in real time on the plane's internet access..

For now it remains a fantasy..

Well, there's always a return flight that u can try again.
like wat u say, if u manage to bed sue during ur trip, then i guess ur flight fantasy may jus come true!
all the best to u, bro!:D

[infinitiumus]

Well, there's always a return flight that u can try again.
like wat u say, if u manage to bed sue during ur trip, then i guess ur flight fantasy may jus come true!
all the best to u, bro!:D

You are absolutely right. I was only thinking one step at a time.. ha ha

It makes me so much excited..

Ha ha But I guess she won't be so daring.. and depends on the flight.. if not too full then there is hope

[ChuiTaLan]

You are absolutely right. I was only thinking one step at a time.. ha ha

It makes me so much excited..

Ha ha But I guess she won't be so daring.. and depends on the flight.. if not too full then there is hope

Well, its a long haul flight, rite? n taking business class, rite?
then sudn't b a prob. all u need to do is to 'wake' her sexual desire
n mayb she'll b daring enuff to do it.
anyway, not many ppl have to chance to do it in the flight...
:p

[infinitiumus]

Well, its a long haul flight, rite? n taking business class, rite?
then sudn't b a prob. all u need to do is to 'wake' her sexual desire
n mayb she'll b daring enuff to do it.
anyway, not many ppl have to chance to do it in the flight...
:p

I know. For biz class.. two person can squeeze together and still comfortable enough to do it..

And yeah, there will be lights off for sleeping and especially if the same row no one occupying.. then it will really be a romp

[dgsk]

HAHAHA!!! Ya, "squeeze" is the key word; in my case.... You are definitely going to raise an eyebrow, if nothing else, of all who sees.

[*FiReWoRkS*]

Im so bloody excited for you bro!

hope that there will be good news when you returned..

reading your threads is just like watching TVB drama..every night must log in to update myself :D

cheers :)

[infinitiumus]

Live Updates from Paris

It was a very good flight to France. After the stewardess served supper, and after watching a movie we went to sleep. And I was dreaming in my sleep... dreaming that I was fucking Niki... I woke up, my cock fully erected (luckily never have wet dreams) and I turned to look at Sue - she was sleeping soundly. For business class seat, it was almost like a bed and there was this little divider between us. She was curled up and wrapped around with the blanket. It was quite dark but I can still see her beautifiul face and I almost wanted to give her a kiss. But good sense prevailed. I went to the toilet instead to pass urine.

When I returned to my seat, Sue was still sleeping so I went back to sleep again. I slept for another hour or two before I woke up again. The stewardess asked me what breakfast I wanted. Sue woke up as well and she went to the toilet to wash up.

We had our breakfast and were chatting:

Me: "Have a nice sleep"
Sue: "yeah.. totally knocked out.. very comfortable even though there was the noise of the aircraft"
Me: "Ha ha.. I can see that you sleep very soundly.."
Sue: "I had this weird dream"
Me: "what dream?"
Sue: "Ha ha I was dreaming that I was driving home to Penang from Singapore.. and you were sitting beside me.. funny thing because I don't have a car.. and then.. why are you sitting beside me? ha ha"
Me: "Maybe u borrow my car.. so I have to sit beside you to make sure you don't crash my car"
Sue: "ya hor.. maybe.."

We landed not very long after we finished our breakfast. It was early in the morning and we got through the customs and got our luggages pretty quickly. And then we took a taxi to the hotel. There was a little bit of traffic jam long the way.

By the time we reached the hotel it was already 8:30am. We dumped our luggages at the hotel and brought Sue out for some sightseeing. I brought her to see the Arc de Triomphe, then went strolling along Champs Elysees (to visit the LV flagship store) before heading to Eiffel Tower. The weather in Paris was very nice - the sun was out but it was very cooling - around 10 to 12 degrees celcius. We walked around the surroundings of Eiffel tower, took some pictures before we decided to climb up Eiffel tower (instead of taking the elevator) - all 328 steps to reach mid level. It was a nice view from Eiffel tower as we can see much of paris. I love Eiffel tower and each time when I visit paris, I would visit Eiffel tower without fail. It was the first time to Paris for Sue and she was very excited and happy.

We didn't spend much time there as we had meetings with the customer in the afternoon. So we took the metro back to the hotel, freshened up and headed to customer's office.

We finished our meeting and by 6pm, we left the customer's office. It was a long day and we were pretty tired. I can tell that Sue was visibly tired. I was still OK, being a seasoned traveller. When we reached the hotel, I turned to sue:

Me: "Think we call it a night.. you just order room service and then you take a rest"
Sue: "Ya.. I am feeling sleepy"
Me: "Yes, very late now in SG .. think it is way pass your sleeping time"
Sue: "Ya.. "
Me: "OK.. see you tomorrow 8:00am at the lobby"
Sue: "Ok"

So I went back to my room, on the TV and then I was already surfing SBF.

[JonnyAsstronut]

camping for more!!! one of the best stories here!!

[dgsk]

Good evening, Mr. Gentleman.
You're really playing it smooth, aren't you?
The proverbial "giving enough slack to catch the biggy".
You're really going for the long haul on this one.
Enjoy! and Salut!

[infinitiumus]

Yesterday (tuesday) we ended the day quite late. By the time we left the office, took the train and went back to the hotel it was almost 8pm. So we did nothing much. I brought Sue to nearby restaurant for dinner and after dinner we went back to the hotel.

We were both tired and we retried to our respective rooms.

Today (wednesday), we finished the meeting at around 6 plus. But we needed to amend/revise the documents for final wrap-up on thursday. However, I told Sue that we better leave office early and suggested that we have to go out - else we won't have a chance to go out at night as thursday night will be reserved for dinner with customer.

Sue was asking:

Sue: "where are you going?"
Me: "Ill tell you shortly", as we reached our hotel. Told sue to freshen up and meet at the hotel lobby in 15 minutes. At that moment, it all became clear to me about the next course of action. I dawned upon me that I should bring her to Montmarte - that is a beautiful place, with a church up the hill and with a spectacular view of Paris. The atmosphere will be very romantic and I know it will melt the hearts of most girls.

It was already 7plus when we left the hotel. The sky was still bright as we walked towards the train station. We took the metro, and needed to change to another line to get to Montmarte. We would alight at the Anvers station. Once we were out of the station at the street level, we could see a very different Paris that we have seen for the past few days.

Sue: "Where is this place?"
Me: "This is Montmarte.. Up the hill there is a church and from there you can see Paris .. very nice there at night to look at Paris lighting up"
Sue: "wow.."

It was after 8pm and the sky was darkening. We walked up the hill using the stairs - some 200+ of them. It was a bit cold as the wind was blowing and the sky was getting dark. Scores of people were around, with music blasting on the steps in front of the church. And I brought Sue to look at the night scene of paris - the sky was not dark enough and we just took some pictures and toured around the church.

Me: "We go get dinner first and come back later.. it will be darker and nicer"
Sue: "Okie"

So we walked towards the restaurant area. There were shops lining up both sides of the streets - mostly selling souvenirs and paintings. Montmarte used to be place where famous artists lived and stayed there. In those days struggling artists lived in the area and Picasso and Van Gogh both lived and stayed in Montmarte in their earlier years. Now it has become much of a tourist attraction. We found a restaurant and had our dinner. I had beef as the main course and Sue had chicken. I ordered a bottle of wine and we took our time to finish our meal. By the time we finished our meal and had our coffee and ice-cream, it was almost 10:00pm. By then we had finished the bottle of red wine. We walked out of the restaurant and went to look at the night scene of Paris. From afar we could see Eiffel flickering in the dark. And when we reached the main viewing area, we could see much of Paris being lighted up. The wind was howling and it was cold - it must have been around 10 degrees but with the wind, we felt much colder than that. I took some pictures and when I looked at Sue I realized that she was like shivering.

Me: "Feeling cold?"
Sue: "yeah.."
Me: "ha ha.. not to worry"

I took her hands and it was really cold.

Me: "Poor thing.."

I took off my cardingan and put it around Sue.

Me: "You will feel better with this"
Sue: "How about you?"
Me: "Don't worry.. "
Sue: "No.. you will be cold as well"

I didn't talk or let her continue talking. I took her hand and I wrapped my arm around her. I held her close to me. She didn't resist. Perhaps my body heat was warming her. The wind was blowing hard at me and I was feeling cold. But with her in my arms, I didn't feel the coldness. There were so many couples around, some embracing each other, some were even kissing. Such was the atmosphere!

Her face was very close to mine and I could even feel her breathing. I turned to give her a kiss on her cheek. She didn't resist or move. I used my hand to turn her face towards me. She looked downwards shyly. And I planted a kiss on her lips. I was cold and shivering. Her lips were quivering as I kissed her again. This time round, we embraced each other as she responded to my kiss. So the moment has arrived. We kissed for a while but it was damn bloody cold.

I held her hand and led her away.

Me: "Let's go back.. it is cold here"

She did not say anything or looked at me. We descended the stairs and took the metro back to the hotel. When we reached the hotel, it was already 11 plus. We have not finished revising our documents.

Me: "So you got your notes with you.. on the revisions to be made?"
Sue: "Yes... the notes are in my room""
Me: "Ok.. let's finish it first before.. we need to share tomorrow"
Sue: "OK"

So we went to her room. She on her notebook and I was looking at her notes and trying to make correction.

Sue: "Let me do it.."
Me: "It is Ok.. I can do it.. you take a rest.. you seem to be very tired"
Sue: "Ya. very tired.."
Me: "You rest for a while.. will wake you up later. I can finish the revision very quickly"

I was at the desk working on her computer. She took off her jacket and she was lying on the bed. I was working very quickly and when I finished, I looked up and realised that she had fallen asleep.

She looked so sweet in her office attire. I didn't have the heart to wake her up. And surprisingly, looking at her then, I didn't have the urge to fuck her. It would be nice to as I was imagining, taking off her blouse and sucking at her breasts, spreading her legs and giving her a paint job.. But I did nothing. I copied the file to my USB drive.

I went to look at her again. Her legs were slightly bent and she was lying on her side. I went to look at her face again. It was so close to me and I gave her a kiss on her lips.


I gave her a kiss on her lips.

[genius]

My heart also melt... Sue must be feeling lucky... What a gentleman...
Keep up your good work.... impressive writing...:)

[*FiReWoRkS*]

bro infinitiumus..

you serious about Sue?or just wana play around only..?

i think you must be undecided too but better think this through properly..

cos i think Sue is quite a nice girl..if really wana play at least play with a heart..

else i think you yourself won't feel good also..

cheers :)

[dgsk]

* CLAP! CLAP! CLAP! *

Standing Ovation !!!

U de MAN !!! The PERFECT GentleMAN!!

[Zhao Yun]

Is this a blog or SBF forum??
Zzzzz......
:rolleyes:

[Cytan7]

Nice update from Paris.. still no action yet ah? Not many days left there liao leh... :D

[dgsk]

Bro Infinitiumus is not going for a quick wham bam thank you ma'am with this one. It is quite obvious from early on he's going for the long haul. Who knows, maybe even a ring on the 3rd finger of his left hand,:D despite his previous misgivings. Hope I don't jinx it for him by saying it. :eek:
Let's wish him well and that they do find true happiness with each other.
It's a Love Story in the making. Not a Conquest.

Bro Infinitiumus, if I am right, perhaps you'd like to refrain from sharing the details of your "intimately physical" moments when they do happen with us. (I admit I am an idiot for suggesting this because we would love to have ALL the gory details.:D But for your own sake.....;))

[edmundhello]

Bro, what a trip you have man... up you 3 points for your effort in updating us even while you're in Paris... :)

[yinyang]

TS, you have arrived. Ooops, nearly there.. groundwork was nice:p:D

[airbrush]

Sue: "where are you going?"
I should bring her to Montmarte - that is a beautiful place, with a church up the hill and with a spectacular view of Paris. The atmosphere will be very romantic and I know it will melt the hearts of most girls.

In those days struggling artists lived in the area and Picasso and Van Gogh both lived and stayed in Montmarte in their earlier years. Now it has become much of a tourist attraction.

Wah! brother you are bring back memory of Paris for me a thousand thanks, Yes Montmarte is indeed a very romantic place. There are many artists waiting to paint you.

When I was there with my girl companion, she wanted to be paint by the artist but I took her that I can paint better. So that night after Montmarte, I did the most unforgettable "painting" on her after having red wine.

[AD69]

Cool !!! Live update from Paris. :)

[kjin9999]

Thank you so much for updating even when u are so far away... Will be following ur tread... wishing u good developments...

[CUM2ME]

Wah,.. so romantic,...

I thought this happens only in novels...

This is becoming like a love story... but very nice,...

Seems like bro infinitiumus, is either taking it slow, or could this turn out to be a serious relation... We await the next episode...

Still a noob, cannot upz u... Heart, mind and spirit, upz you,... :) Hope you don't mind.

[AAconnection]

Really romantic can't wait to hear from you again:)

[mr_alantis]

Hope to hear more from you ??

[mr_alantis]

:)Hope to hear more from you

[infinitiumus]

Just came back to Singapore.

OK. I wasn't really sure what I was doing the other night. She was there for me - highly intoxicated with the wine and the romantic atmosphere and she was physically weak and there for the pickings. Yet, I let it go. Somehow I didn't feel right precisely because she is not the normal girl that I picked up.

I was quite sure that I could have acted blur and said drunk and I was sober enough to get away from her room

The next day we went to the office and finished up all the work. It was another long day at work as we needed to wrap up. We finished late at 7pm and we had dinner with customer. Again, lots of wine and by the time we got back to the hotel it was already 11pm.

Sue's face was flushed and she looked damn pretty to me. We were staying at the highest floor and there were only two of us in the lift. I was highly intoxicated as well and I couldn't resist kissing her in the lift. She didn't resist and this time round, we frenched furiously.. And for the first time I went to feel her breasts - through her clothes. But the elevator ride was pretty fast and we dis-engaged from our frenching... She looked shyly at me and I led her out of the lift.

We did not talk. I walked her to her room (as it was closer to the lift). She got her door opened and I stood outside her room. Things were racing through my mind and I thought I would just push her into the room.. I was pretty high and I thought I would want to fuck her there and then.. And yet somehow I didn't.

Me: "Sue, good night"
Sue: "Good night"

And I moved forward to give her a good night kiss that turned out to be yet another frenching.

Then I dis-engaged again.

Me: "tomorrow, you need not go to office. I go there myself to settle some last minute thing.. you get ready and wait for me to check out at 12noon"

Sue: "Ok.."

Then I pushed her into the room and closed the door. I went back to my room. I took my shower and then got into bed.

Next morning I went to the office to settle some last minute things and then I came back to the hotel at 12noon to check out. We check-out, dumped our luggage at the hotel lobby and I brought Sue out for more sight-seeing.

I brought her to the shopping area to look around, and we roamed the whole afternoon. When we were tired and hungry we stopped at the cafe by the side of the boulevard and had our lunch/break. It was nice. The wind was howling and it was so nice to be eating in the open.

The funny thing was that the waiter was chatting with us and asked if we were on our honeymoon! Ha ha it was to be a very pleasant feeling with Sue by my side. We were enjoying our moments and it seemed like we were a couple. We were sitting side by side facing the road and at times I would turn to kiss her - almost treating her like my lover. She was feeling a bit embarrassed at first but when she realized other couples are doing the same thing, she didn't resist my advances. And I was there enjoying one of the best moments of my life - yes, there was no sex and yet I couldn't but feel the subtle sense of happiness.

We did some shopping but basically we immersed ourselves among the crowds and enjoying the mingling with the people of Paris. We watched street performances and we walked till we were really tired.

We didn't have time to visit the museums except just to look at them from the outside. But I told her - there will always be the next time.

We roamed the streets till it was 6 plus before heading back to the hotel. We got our luggages and took a taxi to the airport and we were on the way home.

I was happy with this trip even though I did not manage to bed her - somehow I feel it is a matter of time and there is no need to hasten the paste. But it was really nice to be able to hold her and kiss her. It was a funny sort of relationship - we are not a couple yet as we didn't talk about it and yet we behaved like couples when we were in Paris.

[oeioei]

I was happy with this trip even though I did not manage to bed her - somehow I feel it is a matter of time and there is no need to hasten the paste. But it was really nice to be able to hold her and kiss her. It was a funny sort of relationship - we are not a couple yet as we didn't talk about it and yet we behaved like couples when we were in Paris.

U r in love bro!!!

Sue might be the one that will spend at least for the next 30yrs with you. Treasure her.

Cheers!!!

;)

[CUM2ME]

We did not talk. I walked her to her room (as it was closer to the lift). She got her door opened and I stood outside her room. Things were racing through my mind and I thought I would just push her into the room.. I was pretty high and I thought I would want to fuck her there and then.. And yet somehow I didn't.

Me: "Sue, good night"
Sue: "Good night"

And I moved forward to give her a good night kiss that turned out to be yet another frenching.

Then I dis-engaged again.

Me: "tomorrow, you need not go to office. I go there myself to settle some last minute thing.. you get ready and wait for me to check out at 12noon"

Sue: "Ok.."

Then I pushed her into the room and closed the door. I went back to my room. I took my shower and then got into bed.


Hi Bro infinitiumus,
This is unbelievable... I'm in this predicament too... It is really strange... But I just hope that you are not as confused as I am... :confused: (long story)

Anyway, that aside, what was actually on your mind at that junction when things were racing through your mind?

Has the lust turned into love?

Hope you are not as confused as I was... :D

[dgsk]

Love is in the Air!!! :p :D

[Suck_My_Dick]

Ya bro... You have fallen for her without realising.... Congratulations.. :)

[airbrush]

Yes in Paris Paris everyone will fall in love with the environment first, then the environment shaped people to fall in love with each other. Haha congratulation if you fall in love with Sue.

[semen]

Bro, I seriously think You're in Love! :)

Guess you're really in the mist of your mid life crisis, you need a Life Partner instead of a FB. ;)

I wish you all the best, bro. :cool:

[cashier]

Nice Story wriiten by the Thread Starter. Really well written with lots of drama of love lust power and money and romance involved. can write it into a erotic korean drama serial.

may become a blockbuster . hehehehe

[tough_solar]

bro TS.... A very nice story... will camp here to hear more...

[infinitiumus]

Most of you think this is love?

I must admit that I am not too sure. But it is very unlike me to let her go when she is already mine - I could had her a couple of times already.

Of course we had many conversations - most of which are not described here. She is really a very nice girl. If I can turn the clock back, I would not have any hesitation of making her my girl. But now I am hesitant because I am fearful of hurting her unwittingly. I know, maybe I had already started the hurt but I must say that I am not out to cheat her feelings. My initial intention was to bed her but now I am really hesitant.

My current situation is complicated and I cannot get into a serious relationship as yet. My guess is that I may have to disappoint a lot of brothers here and abandon my lust for her.

Shucks. AFter 17 pages and 90,000 views there is still no action .. And it may not have any action after all. Thanks brothers for the support. I don't even know how everything will play out.

[Suck_My_Dick]

Bro, U can always tell her about ur situation.. If she loves u like the way u do her, then she will understand and wait it out..

Don't worry about eventually no FR to share.. I'm sure sensible bros here will be happy for you if you really find ur love.. :)

Best of luck!

[genius]

Most of you think this is love?

I must admit that I am not too sure. But it is very unlike me to let her go when she is already mine - I could had her a couple of times already.

Shucks. AFter 17 pages and 90,000 views there is still no action .. And it may not have any action after all. Thanks brothers for the support. I don't even know how everything will play out.

You have all my support, may you find some love eventually. Although this maybe a Sex forum.. I (and hopefully all bros here) also wish all bro. here to have healthy and normal sex and love life.

Take care and Best of luck too...:)

[blahzzz]

Most of you think this is love?

I must admit that I am not too sure. But it is very unlike me to let her go when she is already mine - I could had her a couple of times already....

....Shucks. AFter 17 pages and 90,000 views there is still no action .. And it may not have any action after all. Thanks brothers for the support. I don't even know how everything will play out.

bro infinitiumus, you are already more confused than us readers.. she made your heart flutter and hesitate at the same time, so let your heart make that decision for you.

[ray2003]

Most of you think this is love?

Of course we had many conversations - most of which are not described here. She is really a very nice girl. If I can turn the clock back, I would not have any hesitation of making her my girl. But now I am hesitant because I am fearful of hurting her unwittingly. I know, maybe I had already started the hurt but I must say that I am not out to cheat her feelings. My initial intention was to bed her but now I am really hesitant.

My current situation is complicated and I cannot get into a serious relationship as yet. My guess is that I may have to disappoint a lot of brothers here and abandon my lust for her.

Bro, I have been following your treads since your first post and i must stay that it's both of you that needs to decide where this is going moving forward. Be truthful and be upfront and see what she says.

Good luck!

[Thunder God]

Bro - You may have found your soul mate.

Be patient and keep her within sights till things in your personal life blow over. Dont make any rash decisions as matters of the heart are hard to heal when broken. If you really love her then you can explain things to her and ask her to be patient.

When I was much younger I had no patience and willingly let go a girl I think I loved alot (I didnt touch her sexually) as I judged it was not appropriate (she just broke up with my two timming cousin) and situation was bad (she was in another city in USA) and it hurts till today.

On hind sight maybe the best gesture of love you can give her is the gift of time and space and may be just maybe when the pieces fall together - you guys will be together.

We are behind you , good luck!

[yinyang]

Most of you think this is love?
I am hesitant because I am fearful of hurting her unwittingly.
My current situation is complicated and I cannot get into a serious relationship as yet. ..don't even know how everything will play out.
Dun think your heart's taken (yet?). Think it's your alarm bells ringing, given your values and situation. But yes, if you had done her in, she'd be the casualty (not just personal but also workwise).

Let's face it, work (and travel) is a catalyst for r/s like yours. ;)

[CUM2ME]

Most of you think this is love?

My current situation is complicated and I cannot get into a serious relationship as yet. My guess is that I may have to disappoint a lot of brothers here and abandon my lust for her.

Shucks. AFter 17 pages and 90,000 views there is still no action .. And it may not have any action after all. Thanks brothers for the support. I don't even know how everything will play out.

We will only know when we can be honest with each other. The other half is willing to listen and understand your situation.

I am not here to give advice, but if I were in your shoes, I will have to be clear of what I want...

Once that is established, will take things slowly and see if the other party is willing to accept or understand your situation. Take one step at a time... while still able to go into a start of a relation.

Take one step at a time... :D Cumminications is key... I mean,.. communications.

[infinitiumus]

Thanks brothers for all the advices.

Well, to be frank. I don't really know what I want. From the outset I am looking for a fuck or many fucks.. not a relationship. It would be nice to be in a relationship but in the circumstances, I wouldn't imagine it is possible and I dare not dream that it is possible. There are far too many obstacles and I am a very realistic person. Some of these obstacles are beyond my control.

So in the meantime I would just let things be. I don't really have the heart to bed her now; I won't even want to get emotionally entangled with her right now. I will hold my cards and will only let her know when it is one way or another when things become clearer.

I just hope that I have not led her too far for her to turn back as I don't really wish to hurt her. Actually I am glad that I have not Up her as it would fill me with guilty feelings. I must say I have some feelings for her and that is precisely my reservations as I do not have a very optimistic feeling about the possible future I can have with any girl. When it comes to affairs of the heart, I am somewhat hardened and will not commit to a relationship easily.