Is your OC/GF low sex drive ?

[Big Semens]

I can't say that I am an expert in bed, but enjoy sex with many patterns with many past and present gf, even OC.

I used to have a gf (not a FL or WL) that is low sex drive, totally uninterested and unmotivated to give sex and enjoy sex, laying there most of the time like dead fish. So most of the time I work, unload, and go.

Any bros have such experience ?

[tryherout]

Bro, you didnt mention her Age, Occupation and Settings. I am not implying these are absolute reasons, though other factors such as pre-intercourse and mood do play a part. In the entire episode, it is not necessary for "dead fish" to be active in order to stamp that they have or have not enjoyed sex.

Perhaps until the "key" was found, there could be enormous truths.:p

[Big Semens]

Bro, you didnt mention her Age, Occupation and Settings.......
OL, 25 at that time .....

[qoobe]

my gf okay, i'm the one with the low sex drive

[Steadyman1]

I used to have a gf (not a FL or WL) that is low sex drive, totally uninterested and unmotivated to give sex and enjoy sex, laying there most of the time like dead fish. So most of the time I work, unload, and go.

At least she gave it to you. Some may not at all if uninterested and unmotivated to give sex. Maybe she needs a good companion that doesn’t drive for sex.

[Cyberspace Nerd]

My gf got high sex drive. depending on her mood, sometimes after giving her one orgasm and I cummed, she still want a few more orgasms. Have to use other means....

she is like 27 and I am more than 5 years older....if only I m in my 20s.........:D

[hotsoup16]

Sometime it's not becos of low sex drive but woman are more shy and dun know how to express their need when come to sex. Most of the time, I'm the 1 initial the moves with my wifey

[Liu Bei]

Shy is one factor but if can find the G-spot, she may turn it on. Once it on, you will be enjoying most.

[XboxSG]

After 2nd kids, OC totally not interested liao

[SeAHuM]

My gf often masturbates when I am not around. During sex if I cummed 1st and she have not, she will also masturbate herself to completion...

Does she has normal or high sex drive ???

[Steadyman1]

My gf often masturbates when I am not around. During sex if I cummed 1st and she have not, she will also masturbate herself to completion...

Does she has normal or high sex drive ???

Female normally cum later than male. Try to give more foreplay before you have sex.

[analog]

After 3 kids, CO not interested anymore.
Sad thing is, when you first get married there is always some bitching and nagging as there is from all women. After the kids, bitching and nagging remains, sex disappears.

This is how it is for men unfortunately unless you're one of the lucky few.

:)
Jim

[deptrai4u]

After 3 kids, CO not interested anymore.
Sad thing is, when you first get married there is always some bitching and nagging as there is from all women. After the kids, bitching and nagging remains, sex disappears.

This is how it is for men unfortunately unless you're one of the lucky few.

:)
Jim

As part of my job, i spent more than 50% of my time outside of sillypore. I like this kind of job very very much BECAUSE.... I am homesick and my wife is such a sex object. ... what I mean is that I am sick of home bcos my wife objects to sex... ;-)

[Frankiestine]

Female normally cum later than male. Try to give more foreplay before you have sex.

For me the job ain't done till the woman cums.....that is why i normally like to hold back till she had a sextisfying orgasm that makes me wanna bang her even harder...:D:D:D

as for my oc sex drive, she not on auto not even manual, every time i have to push start....:(

[D-joker]

I also facing the probs.
My gf think quite low sex drive. Been with her so many years le.
Most of the time is I who initial sex first..

I like gals to be take the first move. Seduce me and ask me if i want it or not...
BUt my gf, haiz... Everytime i must ask de...

:confused:

[brengsek]

I dunno wat to categories my OL...:confused:

She don't like to hv sex often but when we hv sex... she is very hot and wild...:)

[Steadyman1]

For me the job ain't done till the woman cums.....that is why i normally like to hold back till she had a sextisfying orgasm that makes me wanna bang her even harder...:D:D:D

as for my oc sex drive, she not on auto not even manual, every time i have to push start....:(

Sure is a tough job to make her cum when she doesn’t really have the sex drive.
Norm family with kids and especially both couple are working, the desire of sex is low or forgotten. I did come across some magazines like Parenthood and they are addressing sex drive after marriage for those with kids.

With some much commitment and distraction, the desire for sex drives deteriorates down the years.

[lao_teeko]

same here...sad...

my wife got zero sex drive...

[chrisss]

my wife same. sad case:(

[leecs]

KNN!! i also the same. Everytime i do the job, she just lie down. no BBBJ, no licking, nothing. sibe xian. Thought of upping my new msian colleague.

[openminded]

i think it's all about finding the right buttons to press to make her gian your 'services'.. my gf used to be cool towards sex.. now she comes to tell me that she's horny more often than me going to her!

[ch18]

Not only 'LOW', it is as good as 'NIL' sex drive........

[ch18]

The pussy as if not working anymore...........

[Mr Canon]

If kena wife declared not interested in sex anymore, does that warrant the hubby to eat OUT?

[confusedgirl]

p.s/ guys, wat does OC means?

[virginboy]

My OC still have high sex drive, and I'm the one that reject her. After married for 15 years, twice a month is good enough for me. I prefer to preseve my energy for my syt mei mei in china...heh heh.

[sg_boytoy]

p.s/ guys, wat does OC means?

Officer in Command, army term for the officer in charge of a military company.

[~Tauro~]

Can try out watching sex video with her a few times.
It might work too.... Gd luck :D

[canal73]

I agree totally after having 3 kids my OC is do not have any sex drive anymore. Before we have kids, she will BBBJ and let me cum my load into her mouth or f*ck in her mouth or boobies and do all sort of crazy acobatic position including mid-air position with both her feet off the ground and her body supported with her ankle by the edge of the bed rim. Now after 3 kids pop out she will only know how to shrugg her shoulder and cover her body with all her pillow to avoid anymore 'intrusion' or 'collision'. Sianz man......
Why married man after having kids can only pcc and have no more real action and let us feel like Rambo again.... hiaz...

[ch18]

Think guys just have to find other activities if wife not interested lor.......don't think guy is at fault........

[kendory]

Hi bros,

It seems like most singaporean men suffers the same problems and we just had to suffer in silence.

I know how you guys feels, I'm no better off. I believe it's a problem that will be here for good.

I used to frequent the FL here and Health Centre. Decided to stop, partly $$$ is getting low and also getting old.

I had not had sex with me wife for 9yrs, since the birth of my daughter.

Now I channel my energy on things and get myself tired and not think so much on satisfying my needs. It's difficult initially as time goes by I get better. :-)

I do PCC if the pressure builds up... once release in the Toilet and it's done...

Take care bro, if you really need to play, play safe, take care. :-)

kend

[Frankiestine]

Hi bros,

It seems like most singaporean men suffers the same problems and we just had to suffer in silence.


and the bloody garment blames the man for the low birth rate...

[singlad]

Hi bros,

It seems like most singaporean men suffers the same problems and we just had to suffer in silence.

I know how you guys feels, I'm no better off. I believe it's a problem that will be here for good.

I used to frequent the FL here and Health Centre. Decided to stop, partly $$$ is getting low and also getting old.

I had not had sex with me wife for 9yrs, since the birth of my daughter.

Now I channel my energy on things and get myself tired and not think so much on satisfying my needs. It's difficult initially as time goes by I get better. :-)

I do PCC if the pressure builds up... once release in the Toilet and it's done...

Take care bro, if you really need to play, play safe, take care. :-)

kend

May I know how old are you exactly ? Did you quit because of no funds or no interest in sex or one is the cause of the other?. I always wonder why some don't consider separation if there is no sex left?. You just resign yourself to circumstances. how sad?:( but I am glad that you have come to terms with yourself.:)

[3m3m3m]

i more chialat lor.. wife nowdays not very interest in sex liau .. even my permanant outside "food" also low sex drive .. haiz .... pai miah most of the time PCC.

[Frankiestine]

. I always wonder why some don't consider separation if there is no sex left?. You just resign yourself to circumstances. how sad?
bro don't you know by now that sinkees man always come out the loser in a divorce or separation..

[ch18]

bro don't you know by now that sinkees man always come out the loser in a divorce or separation..

LAWs never change for so long............Protect Women but nowaday, mostly women are at fault leh........

[strolling22]

before married = 3 times a week
after married = 3 times a month
after birth = 1 time every 2 month

I also dun know how liao............:rolleyes::rolleyes
perhaps it's a combo of a lot of factors

[y7u8i9o0]

Gee...im feelin kinda comforted when i came across this thread...seems like im not alone in this world. well, i agree with what most bros say in this thread, sex is pretty hard to come by after you have kids...sigh...and my OC being a working mum, her already low sex drive became to nil when she had to take care of the kids after coming back home.

i was a little angry initially but when i see her so tired after work and lookin after the kids...i felt acceptable to pcc or maybe eat out once in a while. But of course, play safe and return home safely.

[KingBong]

Lately I found that my sex drive also lower. Last time can 2-3 times a week no prob, but now once every 2 weeks is enough. Is age catching up? Could it be due to too much of it? Wonder if any bros here encounter before :confused:

[edmundhello]

I will reackon that a change of environment may help i.e. book a resort or surprise her gifts and so some sweet talk and checked into a more premium hotel. Go the extra miles and hopefully things may change for the better. 1 of my ex damn low sex drive and she's 28 at that time while i'm 3 years younger and she never BJ before...but I tried it and she lets me bonked her everyday and even BJ/69 for me soon after... :)

[Frankiestine]

Lately I found that my sex drive also lower. Last time can 2-3 times a week no prob, but now once every 2 weeks is enough. Is age catching up? Could it be due to too much of it? Wonder if any bros here encounter before :confused:

me too last time book fl minimum must be 2 shots...now a days after 1 shot...enough already...normally if fl wants go 2nd round ask her to bbbj until i cum...

[Big Semens]

before married = 3 times a week
after married = 3 times a month
after birth = 1 time every 2 month

I also dun know how liao......perhaps it's a combo of a lot of factors
That is usually the pattern.

[Steadyman1]

My OC still have high sex drive, and I'm the one that reject her. After married for 15 years, twice a month is good enough for me. I prefer to preseve my energy for my syt mei mei in china...heh heh.

You will come to a time when you look back and realise why hasn't you give it more to your wife.

[Steadyman1]

I had not had sex with me wife for 9yrs, since the birth of my daughter.


Has anything leads why both of you have stop having sex for that long??
She don't want or you don't give her or some other things??
Just curious...
In order to preserve the marriage some sex is required and that's how to rejuvenate the relationship.

[Steadyman1]

I always wonder why some don't consider separation if there is no sex left?.

By having separation, will things get better??
According Bro Kendory written, there might be other problem that he can't have sex.

Separation and divorce shouldn't be thought that simply. Many factors have to be considered especially with kids. The parent brings those kids to live and has the responsibility to provide them with reasonably good upbringing.