Why women like to say "I love u" after sex??

[pete_the_fish]

Just saw on TV that after the girl had sex with the guy, she said " I love u" to the guy. The guy was kind of confuse and did not say he love her. And the girl said it's ok , he doesn't have to say it.

Which reminds me of my first gf who also said "i love u" after we made out. Just making out and I didnt even made her cum or anything. And then my ex girlfriend also said " i love u" after I made her cum shiok shiok. And same for my current gf who said the love word after she had a good time in bed.

Under the circumstance which they say "i love u", I can't help but think that they love me because of my skills in bed. :D

So, do they really love u or they love u because of the wonderful sex? :rolleyes:

[Enzo]

women say that after sex because of the emotional intimacy and connection they wish to feel with their man. But sadly, most men are so thick in the head to not know what women really want when they say that. Nothing to do with how good the sex is.

[bloggert]

I think for them the crux of the sexual act is not so much the physical component, but since they gave themselves physically - it is a reflection of the emotional component. They see the sexual act as a kind of emotional event - a giving of themselves emotionally. Unlike men, they can't easily separate emotions from the physical. So it is unsurprising that they said those words.

[meganfox]

So, do they really love u or they love u because of the wonderful sex? :rolleyes:

Don't listen to the guys, anyhow agar agar one. Take it from a woman... :D

2 possibilities she said "i love you" "

1) She is feeling insecure. Women know that sex can mean nothing to the men so they have to make their position clear after the act. If you are not serious about her, RUN!

2) The sex sucks. She uses "I love you" which inadvertently translates to "you suck at making love to me but i still love you." Don't have to verify this, the girls sure deny no end to protect your ego.


:p

[bloggert]

Lol, that's a good one Fox. Heheh - "I still love you ..." really funny :) You know what would be really funny - if the guy thought about this and replied "I still love you too!" - touche! (especially after reading this post)

[ekemono]

LOL... if according to what meganfox said is true, then when we responded "I love you too", it means the gal's hole is la kopi. :p

[AAconnection]

when women say I love U mean, last time they don't love you but now with the Fcuk and probably shiok that they cannot experience with the other LOL

[aibimy]

what if the girl ask you "would you still love me?"
ahahahaha

[AustinPowers]

women need to say it so that they would not feel that they are loose.
women need to tell themselves that they would only have sex with a man they love.
in reality, they are just as horny as men and just want to have sex.
saying 'I love you' after sex makes them feel they are good girls.


women say that after sex because of the emotional intimacy and connection they wish to feel with their man. But sadly, most men are so thick in the head to not know what women really want when they say that. Nothing to do with how good the sex is.

[Power]

women need to say it so that they would not feel that they are loose.
women need to tell themselves that they would only have sex with a man they love.
in reality, they are just as horny as men and just want to have sex.
saying 'I love you' after sex makes them feel they are good girls.

So wat's the difference between a good girl n a nice girl ?

A good girl is a girl who goes to a date, comes back late n goes to bed.
A nice girl is a girl who goes to a date, goes to bed then comes back late :eek:

[DegenerationX]

So wat's the difference between a good girl n a nice girl ?

A good girl is a girl who goes to a date, comes back late n goes to bed.
A nice girl is a girl who goes to a date, goes to bed then comes back late :eek:

I like this. funny and rythms :D

[Criminalz]

Why men like to say "i love you" before sex??

Answer: To get the girl into bed.

Why women like to say "i love you" after sex??

Answer: To get the man out of the bed.

[skirtchaser639]

Don't listen to the guys, anyhow agar agar one. Take it from a woman... :D

2 possibilities she said "i love you" "

1) She is feeling insecure. Women know that sex can mean nothing to the men so they have to make their position clear after the act. If you are not serious about her, RUN!

2) The sex sucks. She uses "I love you" which inadvertently translates to "you suck at making love to me but i still love you." Don't have to verify this, the girls sure deny no end to protect your ego.


:p

LOL...interesting
any chance, i bed you, you said "i love you" and i RUN...:p
i don't mind the second scenario also, after we bedded you can run after you said "i love you" :D

[John Terry]

Man give love to get sex.

Woman give sex to get love. The woman after give sex liao, express her love to the man.... by saying "I love you"

[ss_revup]

When a woman says that, it's highly likely that she really means it.. so maybe we men should reciprocate by telling her that too??

Another reason could be she enjoys the sex and wants to let the man know.. :p

From my past experience, my ex thai gf did say " I love u" to me after sex.. so i guess she really means it..

[blondehead]

I rather they say, "One more time,please" than "I love you"

[PS3SG]

I'll say thank you dear after the session

[diversity_08]

Allow me to guess... They had their mind filled with a word "shiok" and a misture of this feeling be it sustainable or not the "I love you" was said to mean although these day has not been doing well for both yet the sax fill it all up; so it is good now... this does not assure future will be good, only means now.:D

[mokermania]

hi jus wanna share my experience.

my wife hardly/very often say i love u to me even tot i knw she love me more than i love her.....:o

but often she will said that to me during/after sex... guess i might make her very happy on the bed ba.:)

[shaggy999]

i like this post, so damny funny.

yea it happened to me oso, the very first time i have it with my gf, she said it to me, i was taken aback, but of cos i replied i love you too.

after subsequent sessions, she said it after every session, i felt abit scared lol, i think she too emo attached to me! jialat! haha

[Prostate Intact]

This girl told me 'I love you' after our session yesterday. Remembered reading this thread so I replied if she could tell me 'I love you' again in half an hour.

Wah lau, straightaway kenna one elbow jab into my ribcage. Still hurting as I am writing this... so sis meganfox may be right in her pt.2(the sex sucks) afterall...sigh:o

[Torch_Man]

xtracts from a bk "Why men don't listen & women can't read maps":

when it comes to sex,
women need a reason; men need a place.

A woman wants lots of sex with the man she loves.
A man wants lots of sex.


jz sharin

[j0n`_8]

they want to feel secure and want to feel it's love you're making to them and not using them for sex only. they want to know that you had sex with them cause you love them too.

[madman]

Men have sex... women make love...

[naruk_shuai]

agree with madman, though he is mad... :p

[asdfghjkl]

jon bro explaination is very rational.. will keep that in mind.. kekeke :D

[acer3939]

Hmmmmm woman dont say i love you to me leh:confused: they just say now that you cum liao $100 pay up:eek: keke:D

[havana]

Why the womans I have sex with never tell me she loves me but always tell me "Hurry up, time's up":confused:

[nicematt]

..Which reminds me of my first gf who also said "i love u" after we made out. Just making out and I didnt even made her cum or anything. And then my ex girlfriend also said " i love u" after I made her cum shiok shiok. ...
So, do they really love u or they love u because of the wonderful sex? :rolleyes:

Under normal circumstance (exclude commercial sex), when a gal give her precious thing to a guy, she loves him. She may not get her orgasm but she did it with love. To a woman she would want to re-express that in words to the guy, in case she felt that the guy may have thought that she has done it for enjoyment.

[BatistaSG]

Why the womans I have sex with never tell me she loves me but always tell me "Hurry up, time's up":confused:

Because those women did it for $ mah

[amelialowhuiyun]

Well TS...let me ask YOU a question instead..

Why do you guys say "I Love You" BEFORE sex?

[ch18]

Woman only like that moment when she enjoys lah........

[Avant Garde]

not met a women who say that yet good or bad? :p