hardly wan to have sex with wife

[pcc_king76]

Hi, all samster after my 17 over years of marriage now i hardly wan to have sex most only 2 to 4 times a month am i in serious problem but outside when i see og i might turn on. Jialat liao .

[sundial]

Hi, all samster after my 17 over years of marriage now i hardly wan to have sex most only 2 to 4 times a month am i in serious problem but outside when i see og i might turn on. Jialat liao .

you are not alone.

[Bangster]

You came to the right place.

Why jialat? Your wife blame you ah? :D

[Big Semens]

......but outside when i see og i might turn on.
At least you know your sex organs are still normal.

[SammyHulk]

17 years leh. Can understand.

[havana]

17 years of eating same dish also sian:(
Must have a change lah...Sometime try nasi lemak(malay), sometime try tomyum(thai)....:D

[superchevy]

me 20years worst 1 month 1 to 2 time sometime take time to hard how to fuck man..... but outside my mistress 1 week 2 - 3 time no problem..
may be as some bro say is true sain laio... but at least outside our dragon still alive.. but some time need power pill to tong man.:p

[dirtymonk82]

mine 2 yrs and already i got the problem :(

[corsiar74]

why so fast brother?

mine 2 yrs and already i got the problem :(

[superchevy]

mine 2 yrs and already i got the problem :(

bro dirty monk 2 years you already have pro laio never still ups u for that.... :) never mind try harder cause still OC .

[sgname]

I have a frd who are married for over 20 year and amolost once a week have sex with his wife...:p So how does that explain?:D

[Bangster]

I have a frd who are married for over 20 year and amolost once a week have sex with his wife...:p So how does that explain?:D

Erm, your friend is lying.

[David_Ginola]

Hi, all samster after my 17 over years of marriage now i hardly wan to have sex most only 2 to 4 times a month am i in serious problem but outside when i see og i might turn on. Jialat liao .

you are not alone.

Dun worry bros.....you guys are not alone. Me too.............:(

[XboxSG]

Seems like my case is worst so far.....1~2 times a year

[humpcheepang]

Seems like my case is worst so far.....1~2 times a year

I'm about to say that, but a little better, TS is 3-4 times a month, mine may 3-4 times a year! So TS, no worries, this is normal and mind you, you are very very much luckier :cool: Cover the face and fire the base, JUST DO IT!

[Bronco]

Dun worry bros.....you guys are not alone. Me too.............:(


Pls count me in...:o

[y68708903]

i am not alone too....mine can be rare.....sometimes seasonal, blue moons never comes even...so hard to get......also depends on mood...if it does not click too bad...gotta find other sources to turn me on....like ofc gals....or ppl to recommend me here to get the urge and splurge.....so its happens...afterall we are human.....sometimes we gotta be realistic and patient....if no luck...hit the black patch.....try other places for punt .....gotta move on ....i guess

[cpcheongster]

same situation ... after the birth of my child, the interest in her went down. BUT other girls can wake my little bro up. feel real bad. wife is still slim n pretty but don't know y.

mayb i went into the labour ward n watch the birth of my child? a myth or real?:confused:

[iswift]

After 8 yrs of marriage, decressing every yr. now wife only feel like doing 2-3 times per month. previously got ask for more but every time kena reject, seems more like beggar. Now resign liao, switch to PCC and FL. (TS u are not alone, lots of bro here in the same ship)

[Clit_LickeR]

after my 17 over years of marriage
now i hardly wan to have sex most only 2 to 4 times a month am i in serious problem but outside when i see og i might turn on..
that is considered VERY VERY GOOD already.
after 2 1/2 years of marriage (we married for 5 years ald), additional kid, me and my wife only bonk once a year.. :eek: not that she doesnt want.. it's me..
Reason: More 'variety' ouside and the 'food' is more tantalising.. Its too exciting outside already. :D

[louis2002]

count me in............

me also like that...........

rather "eat" outside than at home...............

[iceman72]

me also like that,feel guilty abt it.

[sundial]

me also like that,feel guilty abt it.

When In-house can't provide ... out source :)
Now addicted. Pay money get sextisfaction. no complains

[SinDellman]

I always never imagine anyone more abnormal than me .... never had a screw with my wife for about 8 years now. It's not that we can't but somehow kanna rejected a few times by her in the past, I have "lost face" and never wanted to touch her again.... only solution is to PCC and HC.
But somehow on the surface, our relationship seems to be normal in the eyes of everyone, including my children :confused:
BTW we are in the 40's

Now after reading, I am begining to feel "normal" again :D

[peter88798]

i think it is common for long marriage couple to cut down on sex as there no more excitment. i think that explain why my parent dont share same bed.....:(

[David_Ginola]

.....
Reason: More 'variety' ouside and the 'food' is more tantalising.. Its too exciting outside already. :D

Wah bro CL........u also power leh....tried so much different dishes.....buay pai leh......:D

[Clit_LickeR]

u tried so much different dishes.....buay pai leh..
you wanna tell me you eat Nasi Padang/Chap Chye Png you only order rice and 1 dish only meh? :rolleyes:
dai kor, chicken rice also have cucumbers (some still got achar and tomatoes) besides chicken lor... :D

i mean, no offence here. me no hero or what. but if she 'eat out', simple lor, mai teo liak. if kena caught, deep inside the bottom of my heart i will say 'Thank you' to that guy. :D (get my drift?)

just my 2 cents.

[Neighbour]

"You are not alone....." (sing it out) :cool:

Count in me..

[tendersex]

It's consoling to read this thread. Count me as one too. My OC even suspected that I have become impotent. But when I think of some other girls, still can get a hard-on easily. So I am clearly losing interest in her. I never count how many times in a year, but clearly two hands are more than enough to do the counting. Sex is always initiated by her. I always need a BJ to get hard, and when pumping have to imagine is with another girl whom I fantasize, then can cum. Sometimes do halfway soft liao, and can't get erection again even after 1 hour. Well, I do feel sorry for her, but what can I do...didi doesn't obey me. I am one who loves variety and fresh new things. So even a girl who is older and uglier than her may be able to thrill me. Sigh, maybe I need some therapies.

[bangala69]

I have a frd who are married for over 20 year and amolost once a week have sex with his wife... So how does that explain?

Erm, your friend is lying.

maybe he is not lying... just that he called anyone he had sex with "his wife" :D


Seems like my case is worst so far.....1~2 times a year

I always never imagine anyone more abnormal than me .... never had a screw with my wife for about 8 years now. It's not that we can't but somehow kanna rejected a few times by her in the past, I have "lost face" and never wanted to touch her again.... only solution is to PCC and HC.
But somehow on the surface, our relationship seems to be normal in the eyes of everyone, including my children :confused:
BTW we are in the 40's

me not yet as jiat lat as 8 yrs but i think should have at least twice yearly...
1 time at CNY ...1 time at Thanksgiving... :D

[WOOHOO]

you are not alone.....:D

[hardcoremayhem]

dis is a common problem All Over the WORLD - which is why men and women have affairs.

just curious, if you sian of your wife/gf; possible for wife/gf to sian of fXXKing you also? Then they go fXXk others (men or woman) just like you are fXXking other char bo, can?

for me i know that i sian of cha bor when i don't mind her fXXking others as i fXXk around also.

[carol888]

I Used to fuck my wife once in 2months about 2 yrs ago..after broke up with mistress..have been fucking my wife 4 times a month..

think of it, i started fucking girls only at the age of 25, as prefer bjs that time.. that is why i cum quite fast during fucking , but started to enjoy fucking..

fucking wife is not so bad overall, at least can do raw, with mistress and freelance, how to

[David_Ginola]

......
i mean, no offence here. me no hero or what. but if she 'eat out', simple lor, mai teo liak. if kena caught, deep inside the bottom of my heart i will say 'Thank you' to that guy. :D (get my drift?)

just my 2 cents.

No offence bro.....i understand.......after reading so much, seems like is common. Looks like man always look for better food outside. hehehe

[bluefrog]

i think the title subject is wrong

anyway to all brother here, this is the best way to help can send this to your wife private e-mail secretly without letting them who is the sender

YouTube - Give Head not War (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gGdowLAf4oQ&feature=related)

can any brother copy this video clip on this thread i do not know how to do it

Check out this and i think this is an excellent advice given by a working lady.

[hotsoup16]

I think it's so-called commonly seem all over the world. u can't expect a man to smell the same rose for so many years

[steamystreamsg]

New things is always good

[Bangster]

Except for ERP gantries.

[lightning]

i think the title subject is wrong

anyway to all brother here, this is the best way to help can send this to your wife private e-mail secretly without letting them who is the sender

YouTube - Give Head not War (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gGdowLAf4oQ&feature=related)

can any brother copy this video clip on this thread i do not know how to do it

Check out this and i think this is an excellent advice given by a working lady.


Hahahaha! Excellent!!!:D:D:D:D

[kewlguy]

It's consoling to read this thread. Count me as one too. My OC even suspected that I have become impotent. But when I think of some other girls, still can get a hard-on easily. So I am clearly losing interest in her. I never count how many times in a year, but clearly two hands are more than enough to do the counting. Sex is always initiated by her. I always need a BJ to get hard, and when pumping have to imagine is with another girl whom I fantasize, then can cum. Sometimes do halfway soft liao, and can't get erection again even after 1 hour. Well, I do feel sorry for her, but what can I do...didi doesn't obey me. I am one who loves variety and fresh new things. So even a girl who is older and uglier than her may be able to thrill me. Sigh, maybe I need some therapies.

wow my case exactly the same as urs bro... worse is my wife is getting fat and she's already fatter than me liao. see liao sianz one half... and the worsT part is, she doesn't like to give BJ... so if didi soft soft she'll say 'always ur problem' and turn away liao. even juz after i've eaten her to orgasm... damn sianz.. sigh :(

[kewlguy]

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[roll3r]

do whatever u want, except getting caught in the act!! :eek: :D

[Pineapple]

do whatever u want, except getting caught in the act!! :eek: :D

That's why should swing.. swinging helps get both ur urges up... :P

[BushTracker]

Sigh... so many of us out there.. maybe this IS the way marriage life is.

[ahl30ng]

Hai

I am just the opposite.....OC still look ok slim..and I find her still attractive...

BUT the blo0dy prb is...she seems sexless....as in no craving for sex at all...one week 1 or 2 times...sometimes must sweet talk.......hai~ She always gave reason tired.....next day working....this and that....

I am the one who always initate...other then that...think she will not loh..hai~

[geckoSG]

Hai

I am just the opposite.....OC still look ok slim..and I find her still attractive...

BUT the blo0dy prb is...she seems sexless....as in no craving for sex at all...one week 1 or 2 times...sometimes must sweet talk.......hai~ She always gave reason tired.....next day working....this and that....

I am the one who always initate...other then that...think she will not loh..hai~

Bro, she already had her fair share outside liao before coming home issit.

Anyway guys, if you have stopped foreplay on women, dun blame them for
not wanting to have sex, cos its like u just plug in, release and left them
hanging there for more... :o

[ahl30ng]

Bro, she already had her fair share outside liao before coming home issit.

Anyway guys, if you have stopped foreplay on women, dun blame them for
not wanting to have sex, cos its like u just plug in, release and left them
hanging there for more... :o


No lah she's those guai guai type loh.

Hai foreplay??!! .. i always does it...i wanted to paint her...she will stop me ..say it's dirty it's only for peeing and not licking and stuffs like that..hmmm..im kinda fetish for BBBJ...but married until now...she didnt try to attempt before leh hai~

anyway just got into war last night.....told her how i feel about her being sexless...well...she just got it away calmly..."ok i will try harder next time" ...

[Coupe399]

[QUOTE=ahl30ng;3047157]No lah she's those guai guai type loh.

Bro anl30ng, I agree with bro gecko,
Beware, the more guai guai one look.
The more devil is inside then...
It pay if you also check ur blind spot from time to time.

If you got chance go GL walk walk in after about 4pm.
U will see all the guai guai uncles going in and out the "chicken farm"
They also look super family man..

[whitegals]

No lah she's those guai guai type loh.

Hai foreplay??!! .. i always does it...i wanted to paint her...she will stop me ..say it's dirty it's only for peeing and not licking and stuffs like that....

I'm no expert on women, although I have shagged women between ages of 17 - 45 and they number to at least a 3 if not 4 digit figure.

Mostly, if a char bo stops u from painting her, it is because you have not made her completely comfortable with being in bed with you. She might have sex with you but it could be out of necessity, some of them think of it as "part of their duty" being a wife.

Go for seduction bro, dun think of having sex at the end, try to make her cum first, 3 things you can do, lick, kiss and suck, attack her neck, her hands, her face, her chest (not including tits), her inner thighs, calves etc. Give her such ecstasy that she can think of nothing else but to have your dick penetrate her, then you will know you have arrived at your target.
:D

[ahl30ng]

I'm no expert on women, although I have shagged women between ages of 17 - 45 and they number to at least a 3 if not 4 digit figure.

Mostly, if a char bo stops u from painting her, it is because you have not made her completely comfortable with being in bed with you. She might have sex with you but it could be out of necessity, some of them think of it as "part of their duty" being a wife.

Go for seduction bro, dun think of having sex at the end, try to make her cum first, 3 things you can do, lick, kiss and suck, attack her neck, her hands, her face, her chest (not including tits), her inner thighs, calves etc. Give her such ecstasy that she can think of nothing else but to have your dick penetrate her, then you will know you have arrived at your target.
:D

Thanks for your learned advise

sad to say...she dun allow me to lick her neck..she complain very itchy and uncomfortable...she also explained that although she's aroused if i paint her but then she feel i dun have to do so as it's dirty down there and pussy are only for normal sex and peeing...hence to say ..she dun BJ for me too loh..hai~

Sometimes when she agree to have sex....i does alot of foreplay ....when i starts to finger her...after a while she does get super aroused and insist i penetrate her fast

Now the prb is like what u mention..but then it's ME who Feel that she have sex with me out of " the duty of being my wife" that bothers me much. I will need to ask then she have sex with me ...other then that it's normal..... hai~ sad hor..

Anyway ...i can somehow comfirm she's ok lah not extra BF outside as she only goes to work and comes home on time...off day stay at home or together with me to visit her parent side...so i can safely say she's just being sexless...

[Amour]

Sometimes when she agree to have sex....i does alot of foreplay ....when i starts to finger her...after a while she does get super aroused and insist i penetrate her fast

Bro, never give her what she wants even she insist on you penetrating her fast. Make her ultra aroused, cannot give in to her one. MAke her beg you to fuck hard, then you start considering whether you want to enter her or not.

Let her know whose the king! :D

[StarBust]

thsi is normal... no one wants to do the same thing with the same person over so many years.....

[SinDellman]

Mostly, if a char bo stops u from painting her, it is because you have not made her completely comfortable with being in bed with you. She might have sex with you but it could be out of necessity, some of them think of it as "part of their duty" being a wife.

Go for seduction bro, dun think of having sex at the end, try to make her cum first, 3 things you can do, lick, kiss and suck, attack her neck, her hands, her face, her chest (not including tits), her inner thighs, calves etc. Give her such ecstasy that she can think of nothing else but to have your dick penetrate her, then you will know you have arrived at your target.
:D
Don't think we have failed to do all these ..... it's easily said than done. I don't think it is more a physical/intimate thingy more like a mental problem or problems, because in my example, my wife does NOT WANT to talk/discuss about the issue. Thought of asking her to see a Dr but no way she would want to, probably of our eastern upbringing.....:mad:
I really don't know what to do now ..... even at times I felt that if somehow she dies tomorrow I would be a happier person :rolleyes:

[Clit_LickeR]

All bros, please do the necessary..
here's the PM i've recieved from this Fucker. :mad:

Hi Bro, (Please refer to your msg that I attached together)

U want to try to ignite your sex life with your wife again? I am 27 years old healthy malay male from Malaysia... tell you the truth I dont have so much experiences in sex.. However I read a lot of sex stories in the net. Why dont you try some creative way... you may invite me to have sex with your wife while you watch... Maybe thats too much, but you can start watching your wife being kiss and careses by me.. I think that will turn you on. I not charge anything for my help or service. You just need to come here in KL and pay your hotel.. keep it discreet ok.. And, If I need your help to ignite my sexual dream, one day, IF i married (hopefully. hehe), wish you can help me bro..

Think about it ok.. Whether you want me to have sex with her (Thats also depend on my little brother. I dont have so much experiences. :) or you want me to kiss, caresses her... Or threesome (I never doing it, so most probably my penis unable to get up)

Thank you


that is considered VERY VERY GOOD already.
after 2 1/2 years of marriage (we married for 5 years ald), additional kid, me and my wife only bonk once a year.. not that she doesnt want.. it's me..
Reason: More 'variety' ouside and the 'food' is more tantalising.. Its too exciting outside already.


Did i ever mention that I AN INTRODUCING MY WIFE TO GET FUCKED??!!
U fucker fantasized too much.
tell you what, i seldom read sex stories, i make it come true.
and i have experiance in sex and anal too!
Why dont you try some creative way...
you just come to SG, book hotel, bring ur GF here,
i'll fuck her ass FOC. :rolleyes:
Hotel, u pay. Caps i can sponsor.
my Simple request is you must book Fullerton hotel hor. :rolleyes:

[Bangster]

:eek:

Yes Sir! Your command is heeded right away!

*radar searching*
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POSSIBLE TARGET SPOTTED IN MALAYSIA.

"Deee dee duu duu dee duu dee dee duu duu"
TARGET IDENTIFIED - <CCB neo4ride>

Get ready for missile launch.
T minus 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.....BOOOOOOOMMMMFFFFFFFFF

we have blast off. 1 ZAP-69 MK II away!!

:D:D

(oops but cannot find any posts by the ccb leh...)

[whitegals]

Don't think we have failed to do all these ..... it's easily said than done.

Why is it easier said than done? I do it all the time! I'm not into the Wham Bam thank you Ma'am, ok lah, maybe once a month get to pick up a ONS then yah lah, got to get it over and done with before the father or husband comes home...

I don't think it is more a physical/intimate thingy more like a mental problem or problems, because in my example, my wife does NOT WANT to talk/discuss about the issue.

Like I said bro, I'm not an expert with women psychology, but personally, I feel that sex is for doing, not for talking. Is a bit like fighting, you know, are you gonna get over here and actually fight or are you just gonna stand over there and tell me how you wanna kick my face in? that sort of thing bro, I guess maybe that's why sex and violence goes hand in hand. OK, but that's not the issue here, what I'm saying is, if a gal pulls away from being intimate with you, it could be that she feels used, for sex.

Maybe you start with a cuddle, then straight away alarms go off in her head, she starts thinking that she has to pay you back by letting u screw her, so she'd better stop things now.

I'm not saying you didn't do things to make her feel important or comfortable, only a suggestion, you could try to go for purely physical intimacy without the final penetration. Go for a cuddle and then gently stroke her hair till she falls asleep. Or give her a shoulder rub then followed by a hug then hold hands and watch TV. No sex.

Once you do this often enough, she may start to feel that you are not being intimate with her just because you wanna screw. Then she'll start to feel more comfortable being near to you without the nagging thought that all you want is sex. Once she can get past this, she should then be able to get her herself in the mood and let you score. :D

[ahl30ng]

Bro Whitegal and sindellman

just one word lah ...girls are hard to please ..hahaha...so here comes SBF for us hahah tio bo.......

[ahl30ng]

All bros, please do the necessary..
here's the PM i've recieved from this Fucker. :mad:




Did i ever mention that I AN INTRODUCING MY WIFE TO GET FUCKED??!!
U fucker fantasized too much.
tell you what, i seldom read sex stories, i make it come true.
and i have experiance in sex and anal too!
Why dont you try some creative way...
you just come to SG, book hotel, bring ur GF here,
i'll fuck her ass FOC. :rolleyes:
Hotel, u pay. Caps i can sponsor.
my Simple request is you must book Fullerton hotel hor. :rolleyes:

WHAT THE CRAP!! ......this fella is crazy man...bro clit-licker...dun be angry....we know what to do

But i cant find him leh

[tendersex]

WTF??!! I got the same message from this JOKER neo4ride. He should consider acting in Batman since he is the real JOKER! I suggest he brings his mother and sister to Singapore so that I can have a MFF with them :mad:

[Clit_LickeR]

Yes Sir! Your command is heeded right away!
(oops but cannot find any posts by the ccb leh...)
we know what to do
But i cant find him leh
this joker ZERO postings.. we shall wait.. ;)
I got the same message from this JOKER neo4ride. I suggest he brings his mother and sister to Singapore so that I can have a MFF with them :mad:
maybe he's on school holidays lah.. :rolleyes:
anyway, please refrain from bringing his 'giver of life' into the picture and scold them. they are innocent party. ;)

Lastly, a very sincere and BIG THANK YOU to all bro who offer their assistance.

[Nolatari]

i think the title subject is wrong

anyway to all brother here, this is the best way to help can send this to your wife private e-mail secretly without letting them who is the sender

YouTube - Give Head not War (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gGdowLAf4oQ&feature=related)

can any brother copy this video clip on this thread i do not know how to do it

Check out this and i think this is an excellent advice given by a working lady.

Eh, freaking zai this post...hahahha, "when he wakes up in the morning, GIVE HIM A BLOWJOB!" HAHAHA

ITS DARN farking TRUE. Think one whole day, kenna suck till dry....No mood to even find other FLs. hahahaha

[ch18]

Originally Posted by ahl30ng
Hai

I am just the opposite.....OC still look ok slim..and I find her still attractive...

BUT the blo0dy prb is...she seems sexless....as in no craving for sex at all...one week 1 or 2 times...sometimes must sweet talk.......hai~ She always gave reason tired.....next day working....this and that....

I am the one who always initate...other then that...think she will not loh..hai~

Same same for me..........Really can't understand woman......

[ahl30ng]

Hai! that y i say girls are hard to please lah ...nevertheless we have SBF here hahaha

[lightning]

Originally Posted by ahl30ng
Hai

I am just the opposite.....OC still look ok slim..and I find her still attractive...

BUT the blo0dy prb is...she seems sexless....as in no craving for sex at all...one week 1 or 2 times...sometimes must sweet talk.......hai~ She always gave reason tired.....next day working....this and that....

I am the one who always initate...other then that...think she will not loh..hai~

Same same for me..........Really can't understand woman......
Attached the clip to her and see wats her reponse :D
create another unknown user and send it to her

[whitegals]

Got a few bros PM me with similar questions, I guess they PM because they wanted to remain anonymous, so I'm not gonna name them. Basically, the question is, "I am already providing massages / touching / fingering " for 2 weeks already, how long do I need to keep this up before I get to f**k?"

So my answer is, THAT my bros, is the problem. Try not to attach a time frame to what you are doing. As long as it takes, if you start thinking, wah lau eh, already touch her, stroke her hair for 2 weeks leow, still no action, another 15 mins still no action, I'm going to go watch ESPN lah, KNN.

Once you start to think liddat, sure lose interest one, and women are very sensitive to this kind of thing, they'll pick it up if you are not paying attention, and then you will be back to square one. Don't rush matters, the best sex is SLOW sex, work on her senses, followed by her body, then her sex.

Hope this helps. :D

[damienlkw]

Originally Posted by ahl30ng
Hai

I am just the opposite.....OC still look ok slim..and I find her still attractive...

BUT the blo0dy prb is...she seems sexless....as in no craving for sex at all...one week 1 or 2 times...sometimes must sweet talk.......hai~ She always gave reason tired.....next day working....this and that....

I am the one who always initate...other then that...think she will not loh..hai~

Same same for me..........Really can't understand woman......

Bro ch18,

Think you should seriously start to monitor yr wife now. I had exactly the same situation like yours. Only recently I found out my OC being fxxking hard day and night w some motherfxxker behind my back for nearly 2 years now.

I can't stop her from doing anything now, just hv to give up hope lor. She even can disown her family for tt bustard who have a happy family w son delon and OC rex.

Hope yrs not like mine case.

D day
:(

[ahl30ng]

Attached the clip to her and see wats her reponse :D
create another unknown user and send it to her

hahaha like that abit hiong leh hahaha

anyway nice to see u again bro lightning :)

anyway we have a good talk the other night...she say she will try her best lah...let's hope she can change for beta...*keeping finger cross*

[dingdong88]

Give up long time leow. married for 12 years, only get to sleep with wife for 3 !!!:eek:
She prefers to sleep with the kids and mind you, they are already 10 !!!
Have to drag her out n the middle of the night to have a "quickie" just to safe a few bucks instead of heading to HC or GL.
Life sucks...marriage is no answer to satisfying sex drive.....$$$ IS.

[nomoretimes]

Give up long time leow. married for 12 years, only get to sleep with wife for 3 !!!:eek:
She prefers to sleep with the kids and mind you, they are already 10 !!!
Have to drag her out n the middle of the night to have a "quickie" just to safe a few bucks instead of heading to HC or GL.
Life sucks...marriage is no answer to satisfying sex drive.....$$$ IS.

Bro feel sad for you like that being single be better than being married

[BushTracker]

Hai

I am just the opposite.....OC still look ok slim..and I find her still attractive...

BUT the blo0dy prb is...she seems sexless....as in no craving for sex at all...one week 1 or 2 times...sometimes must sweet talk.......hai~ She always gave reason tired.....next day working....this and that....

I am the one who always initate...other then that...think she will not loh..hai~

Bro, share my story with you.. many many years ago in the same situation. . wife always complain why I so horny all the time. I always retorted that she should be happy that I am horny for her, if one day I am not, then she will miss it.

Well, that day came a few years ago. Now she complain I have no interest in her. Go figure.

[BushTracker]

Hai foreplay??!! .. i always does it...i wanted to paint her...she will stop me ..say it's dirty it's only for peeing and not licking and stuffs like that..hmmm..im kinda fetish for BBBJ...but married until now...she didnt try to attempt before leh hai~

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Sorry bro, you seem to have the wrong idea about foreplay... painting her is NOT foreplay... it's part of the sex liao.. If your idea of foreplay is painting her, no wonder.

[Bangster]

aiyah painting can be considered a part of foreplay lah.

If you really want to put it down into categories, then I think it's a transition act before the "foreplay" you are talking about and the real act of sex itself. Not very clear cut one.

Some of us think that foreplay is more like a sensual and erotic massage...kissing, frenching, touching of sensitive parts, whispering dirty words, sweet words, sexy words.. Some may include fingering, painting, rimming etc of the private parts.

Whatever it is, aiyah as long as we get the JUICES flowing before we rammed it in, it's HO SEH liao. Don't care foreplay or foreskin.

For me, if I find myself too long never touch OC...then I'll work the brain abit. Watch some porno....come SBF read some kinky stories....channel my thoughts and energies into what to do with OC when night comes...heh heh. I always find spontaneity a great partner to work with, surprise her with a hug or a rough push against the wall a la rape scene about to take place....

And the rest will work itself out usually.

[ahl30ng]

Bro, share my story with you.. many many years ago in the same situation. . wife always complain why I so horny all the time. I always retorted that she should be happy that I am horny for her, if one day I am not, then she will miss it.

Well, that day came a few years ago. Now she complain I have no interest in her. Go figure.

Exactly! I told her the same thing.....She should be glad that she still turn me on leh hahaha....if not...once lost interest in her....and here come 3rd party liao hmmm....

[ahl30ng]

aiyah painting can be considered a part of foreplay lah.

If you really want to put it down into categories, then I think it's a transition act before the "foreplay" you are talking about and the real act of sex itself. Not very clear cut one.

Some of us think that foreplay is more like a sensual and erotic massage...kissing, frenching, touching of sensitive parts, whispering dirty words, sweet words, sexy words.. Some may include fingering, painting, rimming etc of the private parts.

Whatever it is, aiyah as long as we get the JUICES flowing before we rammed it in, it's HO SEH liao. Don't care foreplay or foreskin.

For me, if I find myself too long never touch OC...then I'll work the brain abit. Watch some porno....come SBF read some kinky stories....channel my thoughts and energies into what to do with OC when night comes...heh heh. I always find spontaneity a great partner to work with, surprise her with a hug or a rough push against the wall a la rape scene about to take place....

And the rest will work itself out usually.

Good idea

I always channel my thoughts.....tuned it and prepare for it just to get her aroused.....

I do suprise her with a hug...but she's too busy for her work stuffs even at home..... If i go pushing her to the wall...think i will get into trouble later...hahaha

She just abit sexless ....maybe too conservative and lack of exploration spirit lah hmmm ...

[yang punk]

Anyway ...i can somehow comfirm she's ok lah not extra BF outside as she only goes to work and comes home on time...off day stay at home or together with me to visit her parent side...so i can safely say she's just being sexless...

Last time hor...my office fb also every day go to work and then go home before hubby... but before going home she would bj and fuck me and the use tissue to cover pussy to prevent my cum from dripping out... and she was the ideal wife and perfect d-i-l... :p

[hairy2007]

Actually I think my problem is another way round...my wife kept on wanting to have sex with me...she is a housewife but she believes too much in those articles in the women magazine stating that 1 week should have 3-4 times of sex to maintain the marriage. So she will calculate every time to have sex with me. I have taken 3 jobs to fend for the family...sometimes I really have no mood. She will just give me BJ etc to keep me alive. I know she is a good wife...and she is pretty and has well-maintained figure too...not sure the problem is with me. But when I was in business trips...I will have a lot of sexual desire and usually end up in the bed of FL/WL... am I really having problem??

[cashier]

Good idea

I always channel my thoughts.....tuned it and prepare for it just to get her aroused.....

I do suprise her with a hug...but she's too busy for her work stuffs even at home..... If i go pushing her to the wall...think i will get into trouble later...hahaha

She just abit sexless ....maybe too conservative and lack of exploration spirit lah hmmm ...
, 3 belongs to another man. Woman (some) are ridiculous nowadays. the wife wants better gene from another handsome salesman from her company so she wants the seed from him instead of her hubby and the hubby foolishly took care of the childs like his own. she is pretty milf and the salesman is a handsome guy who spread his seeds among different clinic's nurses.

When she feel guilty years later, she admit it and got divorce. he is now alone, hurt and is a MOE scholar earning 8k+ per month. yet he needs to pay $2k for ailmony and childcare.. so sad to see him as he is green hatted ...


anyway, it is always safe to get dna checked for all ur child nowadays..

[Bangster]

....When she feel guilty years later, she admit it and got divorce. he is now alone, hurt and is a MOE scholar earning 8k+ per month. yet he needs to pay $2k for ailmony and childcare.. so sad to see him as he is green hatted ...
anyway, it is always safe to get dna checked for all ur child nowadays..

I really believe what you've just mentioned above is pure lan jiao wey. You must merely using 1 example that you may have seen or heard to typify all the rest.

I believe you are still a young man, not married yet. Don't be so narrow minded and paranoid about things. The rice that you ate today could have been shitted on by the ox or a fly, are you going to stop eating rice from now onwards?

I'll make a bet you're a Wan Bao reader.

[SammyHulk]

Give up long time leow. married for 12 years, only get to sleep with wife for 3 !!!:eek:
She prefers to sleep with the kids and mind you, they are already 10 !!!
Have to drag her out n the middle of the night to have a "quickie" just to safe a few bucks instead of heading to HC or GL.
Life sucks...marriage is no answer to satisfying sex drive.....$$$ IS.

Ermmm.....do u snore loudly or tush and turn frequently (might kick onto her) when sleeping?

[LiptonTea]

I think you guys are maybe not doing certain things to get into the mood.
i understand that being married for so many years sure will sian. Even me being the lady, if given i see the same guy and know all his gross habits all those years, i will also get turned off also.

but it's important to keep romancing and dating each other no matter how busy each other get. little things will keep the romance going and know how to appreciate each other. i think that's one quality alot of women are lacking. they fail to see the smallest effort the guys try to make. and i know sometimes after trying you all also give up.

i had an ex at first we bonk everyday for months and after 3yrs, it grew lesser and lesser until i have to ask him for it. even then, I get rejected. i was working so i donno whether he had been eating outside anot. sure, i was sian of him since we were together 24/7 apart from work. but at least i made the effort. after awhile i also felt like a beggar and i couldnt be bothered to ask anymore and start used my rubber toys instead.


of coz, we broke up. now i'm dating a really wonderful guy. he couldnt get it up at first (think he has been wanking himself too much cuz he nv had sex before) and lost his self esteem. after much reassurance, and that he is highly desired by me, our sex lives improved tremendously since then and we meet daily. not that i have a super high drive but i really do want him to know that on top of loving him, i'm not afraid to show that i'm eager to please him as well. eg: he doing his work email and i yank off his boxers and give him a blow while he doing his work. or when he's on the fone. it's always fun to watch him wriggle and trying to concentrate.

i think it is reallllly important to do little things for each other, i mentioned i had never eaten godiva chocs one time and yesterday he surprised me with it even tho its goddamn expensive (he only bought like 4 little chocs la but still it was really sweet of him).

so ladies, you wanna keep your man, you gotta learn how to appreciate him and of coz don't keep to your boring one position. a nice long bj always get things started. and if you don't know how, start asking your guy how to do it right. even if you don't, he'll appreciate that you're trying and you gotta keep practicing. i'm sure he doesn't mind. just don't use your teeth.

and guys, you wanna have a good sexual life instead of seeking for gratification outside, you gotta start trying harder to bring that spark back into the r/s. isn't it all our dream to still be holding our partner's hand like the first day you got together by the time we're 80yrs old?

Remember, just because you've been together for 10yrs, doesn't mean those compliments stop. you still can reduce your spouse into a giggly school girl by telling her she looks nice in her dress and would be nicer if you can steal her off somewhere and bonk.

[ch18]

I think you guys are maybe not doing certain things to get into the mood.
i understand that being married for so many years sure will sian. Even me being the lady, if given i see the same guy and know all his gross habits all those years, i will also get turned off also.

but it's important to keep romancing and dating each other no matter how busy each other get. little things will keep the romance going and know how to appreciate each other. i think that's one quality alot of women are lacking. they fail to see the smallest effort the guys try to make. and i know sometimes after trying you all also give up.

i had an ex at first we bonk everyday for months and after 3yrs, it grew lesser and lesser until i have to ask him for it. even then, I get rejected. i was working so i donno whether he had been eating outside anot. sure, i was sian of him since we were together 24/7 apart from work. but at least i made the effort. after awhile i also felt like a beggar and i couldnt be bothered to ask anymore and start used my rubber toys instead.


of coz, we broke up. now i'm dating a really wonderful guy. he couldnt get it up at first (think he has been wanking himself too much cuz he nv had sex before) and lost his self esteem. after much reassurance, and that he is highly desired by me, our sex lives improved tremendously since then and we meet daily. not that i have a super high drive but i really do want him to know that on top of loving him, i'm not afraid to show that i'm eager to please him as well. eg: he doing his work email and i yank off his boxers and give him a blow while he doing his work. or when he's on the fone. it's always fun to watch him wriggle and trying to concentrate.

i think it is reallllly important to do little things for each other, i mentioned i had never eaten godiva chocs one time and yesterday he surprised me with it even tho its goddamn expensive (he only bought like 4 little chocs la but still it was really sweet of him).

so ladies, you wanna keep your man, you gotta learn how to appreciate him and of coz don't keep to your boring one position. a nice long bj always get things started. and if you don't know how, start asking your guy how to do it right. even if you don't, he'll appreciate that you're trying and you gotta keep practicing. i'm sure he doesn't mind. just don't use your teeth.

and guys, you wanna have a good sexual life instead of seeking for gratification outside, you gotta start trying harder to bring that spark back into the r/s. isn't it all our dream to still be holding our partner's hand like the first day you got together by the time we're 80yrs old?

Remember, just because you've been together for 10yrs, doesn't mean those compliments stop. you still can reduce your spouse into a giggly school girl by telling her she looks nice in her dress and would be nicer if you can steal her off somewhere and bonk.


Tried but FAILED.........

[lightning]

I think you guys are maybe not doing certain things to get into the mood.
i understand that being married for so many years sure will sian. Even me being the lady, if given i see the same guy and know all his gross habits all those years, i will also get turned off also.

Remember, just because you've been together for 10yrs, doesn't mean those compliments stop. you still can reduce your spouse into a giggly school girl by telling her she looks nice in her dress and would be nicer if you can steal her off somewhere and bonk.

It would be lucky if anyone has a wifey like u who knows how to appreciate hubby:p

[lightning]

, 3 belongs to another man. Woman (some) are ridiculous nowadays. the wife wants better gene from another handsome salesman from her company so she wants the seed from him instead of her hubby and the hubby foolishly took care of the childs like his own. she is pretty milf and the salesman is a handsome guy who spread his seeds among different clinic's nurses.

When she feel guilty years later, she admit it and got divorce. he is now alone, hurt and is a MOE scholar earning 8k+ per month. yet he needs to pay $2k for ailmony and childcare.. so sad to see him as he is green hatted ...


anyway, it is always safe to get dna checked for all ur child nowadays..

Wat a selfish woman and in the 1st place dun like then dun marry:rolleyes:

[Real07]

of coz, we broke up. now i'm dating a really wonderful guy. he couldnt get it up at first (think he has been wanking himself too much cuz he nv had sex before) and lost his self esteem. after much reassurance, and that he is highly desired by me, our sex lives improved tremendously since then and we meet daily. not that i have a super high drive but i really do want him to know that on top of loving him, i'm not afraid to show that i'm eager to please him as well. eg: he doing his work email and i yank off his boxers and give him a blow while he doing his work. or when he's on the fone. it's always fun to watch him wriggle and trying to concentrate.

i think it is reallllly important to do little things for each other, i mentioned i had never eaten godiva chocs one time and yesterday he surprised me with it even tho its goddamn expensive (he only bought like 4 little chocs la but still it was really sweet of him).

so ladies, you wanna keep your man, you gotta learn how to appreciate him and of coz don't keep to your boring one position. a nice long bj always get things started. and if you don't know how, start asking your guy how to do it right. even if you don't, he'll appreciate that you're trying and you gotta keep practicing. i'm sure he doesn't mind. just don't use your teeth.

Remember, just because you've been together for 10yrs, doesn't mean those compliments stop. you still can reduce your spouse into a giggly school girl by telling her she looks nice in her dress and would be nicer if you can steal her off somewhere and bonk.

Ur man is just one lucky guy to meet such understanding woman..... guess most wifey is like their hubby they will start to take each other for granted if the r/s is too long.

For my wifey she dont do BJ for me and we only make love 5-6 times a year... (Shame..) I had try all kind of method from Romantic dinner to playing slow music, she still complain tired and stressful from her works. :mad:

[lightning]

Ur man is just one lucky guy to meet such understanding woman..... guess most wifey is like their hubby they will start to take each other for granted if the r/s is too long.

For my wifey she dont do BJ for me and we only make love 5-6 times a year... (Shame..) I had try all kind of method from Romantic dinner to playing slow music, she still complain tired and stressful from her works. :mad:

i wld tell her stress and tired from no sex, maybe save money from romantic dineer go tao pao lunch outside:p