Should tell gf about FL past?

[hornybo1]

I lost my virginity to FL and have visited a few over the last few years. So far, I have not kena STDs. Now I have met someone I really like. If I were to get a gf, should I tell her I have visited FLs when the topic of sex comes? Or lie that I am a virgin still. I have not been in any relationships. Also, I will want to get her to do vaccine like HPV just in case I have but no symptoms. But I don't know how to start the topic.

[drinknsmoke]

Telling your gf about your FL Past is like your gf telling you she might have sex with 50+ other people before / was a social escort providing sexual services. Don't exactly feel that good right?

My 2-cents is, it does little to push your relationship in a correct direction and might even assist you in ending the relationship.

If you really so afraid, go do a full body checkup. Asking to her to take the vaccine is kinda implying you afraid she will spread disease to you since you are a "virgin". You might have to spin up some well made story for her to take the vaccine on the account that you are not a "virgin" and you had sex with a girl from the past who you heard rumors that she have XXX virus.

IF you are so affected about your FL finding days and would wish to come clean to your soon to be gf, just be prepared she might not be understanding about it and ask you to fuck off.

[Banaber]

you dont need to be virgin. u had ex-girlfriends.;)

[larue]

Bros are correct, what good will come out of letting her know?

You want her to tell you about her sexual past? You won't like it.

If it bothers you that much tell her, just be aware it may completely change how she feels towards you.

[hornybo1]

Thank you bros for your advice. I am leaning more towards not telling her since it is the past and I know I am clean (Did urine and blood test recently but did not test for HPV since no warts). I also realised you guys are right that I would not want to know about my partner's past. Though she is probably a virgin in the current case.

I think even if she accepts me for my past, she would be rightly suspicious about what I do in the future since I have done it before. Probably better to keep Pandora's box closed.

I can't say I have ex-gf because eventually she will ask more about it or if it comes up in conversation with my other friends then hong gan liao. All my friends think I am virgin since I didn't tell anybody about FL so got nobody to cover for me.

I am only worried about HPV since I read that it can cause cancer for women. I have a friend who got the vaccine even though don't have partner just to be safe so maybe I can just bring it up without too much suspicion.

[fallen11]

I lost my virginity to FL and have visited a few over the last few years. So far, I have not kena STDs. Now I have met someone I really like. If I were to get a gf, should I tell her I have visited FLs when the topic of sex comes? Or lie that I am a virgin still. I have not been in any relationships. Also, I will want to get her to do vaccine like HPV just in case I have but no symptoms. But I don't know how to start the topic.

No!
Never!
never ever tell gf or wife about such past. yes you might think you are just being honest or your gf/wife will accept it as it is. Boy you are going to be sooooo wrong! They will just keep thinking about it and never ever forget it. She is very likely to bring it up everytime when the 2 of you quarrel. Such secrets can only be brought with you to the grave.
regarding HPV vaccine. If she doesnt want to take it, you can go for HPV vaccine too. Its not only available for females, just that males wont enjoy any subsidy for it.

[ah rat]

Ts, only things you can tell to your gf.
What the size of neh neh and type of pussy you like ?

[frizen]

Don't say anything better lol. That's my opinion

[99problems]

don't ask or talk about the past... thats the way to maintain a healthy r/s

you don't wanna know how many guys she has fucked before too right?

[nimf91]

Instead of asking your gf to take HPV (it her choice) why don't you just go for a full detailed HIV check up if you're think she's the one?

Man up and take the test

[gamerguy]

I lost my virginity to FL and have visited a few over the last few years. So far, I have not kena STDs. Now I have met someone I really like. If I were to get a gf, should I tell her I have visited FLs when the topic of sex comes? Or lie that I am a virgin still. I have not been in any relationships. Also, I will want to get her to do vaccine like HPV just in case I have but no symptoms. But I don't know how to start the topic.

> Also, I will want to get her to do vaccine like HPV just in case I have but no symptoms

If HPV has no symptoms, how would she know that you don't already have it? It would be a good idea for her to consider taking it, subject to professional medical approval. In fact, guys can and should consider getting it as well.

In recent years in Singapore, a majority of female teenagers opt-in for the HPV vaccine through their schools (https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/health/over-90-per-cent-of-secondary-1-girls-get-hpv-vaccine-each-year-moh).

[StupidCharsiew]

I lost my virginity to FL and have visited a few over the last few years. So far, I have not kena STDs. Now I have met someone I really like. If I were to get a gf, should I tell her I have visited FLs when the topic of sex comes? Or lie that I am a virgin still. I have not been in any relationships. Also, I will want to get her to do vaccine like HPV just in case I have but no symptoms. But I don't know how to start the topic.Hahahahaha lmao. Just keep quiet lor. Who cares if you're a virgin or not. IS your GF a virgin? Pretty sure she won't tell you. These type of things just keep to yourself, heck, don't even think about it hahahahahaha

[Peacekeeping]

How old are you ts? She can accept it if you tell her you had no gf before meh?

[BerryAirlearn]

will any ex FL tell her bf/husband about her FL past?

[Sabxteur]

I lost my virginity to FL and have visited a few over the last few years. So far, I have not kena STDs. Now I have met someone I really like. If I were to get a gf, should I tell her I have visited FLs when the topic of sex comes? Or lie that I am a virgin still. I have not been in any relationships. Also, I will want to get her to do vaccine like HPV just in case I have but no symptoms. But I don't know how to start the topic.

Things like this I suggest keep it to your grave till you die.

[ilovepantyhose]

don't score own goal

:o:o

[maleescort7]

I lost my virginity to FL and have visited a few over the last few years. So far, I have not kena STDs. Now I have met someone I really like. If I were to get a gf, should I tell her I have visited FLs when the topic of sex comes? Or lie that I am a virgin still. I have not been in any relationships. Also, I will want to get her to do vaccine like HPV just in case I have but no symptoms. But I don't know how to start the topic.

Who taught you all this nonsense? Never ever, under any circumstances, tell the girl about your sexual past, especially if you are serious about that girl. If its just a casual short term thing, then exxagerate about your past relationships but again only exxagerate the past relationships without telling anything about your sexual past. In your case, you are having a FL but no relationship, she is gonna dry immediately if you tell her the truth. I don't care what others say or think, but i gave you my honest advice for your better future.

[Bbtt332023]

No. Don't need to tell. If you're worried, get yourself checked out before you get a gf.

Also, up to you, u wan tell her u are virgin, can. What are you scared of? That she can tell that you aren't a virgin? Just say learn from watching porn lor.

And if you wan to admit you have experience, then just say you had sex with some girl you were close to, but a relationship didn't end up happening lor. Simple.

It all depends on what your concern is.

If it's STD, you check yourself.

If it's sexual experience, tell or don't tell makes no difference.

If it's just you wanting to be honest, then that's you already. What degree of honesty are you willing to go. If you die die also wan complete honesty, then no point asking here.

Or if you're asking us how we think a girl will react if you tell her? Noone knows, depends on the girl. But I'll tell u this, higher chance she'll find it hard to accept, and this is a high risk, no reward endeavour.

[melvin8341]

don't score own goal

:o:o
ya bro ure right

[VietPrince]

Sure can,I talk with my gf fl too.

[londonbridge]

why must tell, the past is history. Dont need to know. some times knowing less is better

[alextcc]

I think this is a very common thing, if a boy doesn't know FL it's strange

[BatamBro]

should I tell her I have visited FLs when the topic of sex comes? Or lie that I am a virgin still.

Keep the peace, be smart about what you share. There's no such thing as transparency when it comes to private actions like such. You had your past fun and marriage will eventually open up another chapter of secrets that you need to keep it to yourself.

[ongkp]

Honesty don’t bring u any good. Better to bury the past and move on with your current relationship……

[fallen11]

I think this is a very common thing, if a boy doesn't know FL it's strange

yes it is common but you dont need to admit it.
just die die deny knowing. act blur act stupid. better for your own good.
deny even when confronted with evidence. This always casts doubt to the other party on the accusations.
once you admit it... its done deal. You will never be able to wash yourself clean even if you never engaged in FL before.

[Sexyjo]

i think can,is not a big problem

[Juzawebbie]

Sure can,I talk with my gf fl too.

wah your gf so open

[Audrey923]

Never ever admit that you have experience in this. Women are very sensitive. Once you tell liao when having a argue or silent treatment. She will be think that you going to do all these again. So never tell about the pass is better for your own good.

[ichigo_ichie]

Don't ever tell her your FL past.

It will only bring bad things to your relationship with her, nothing good will come out of it. But try to make sure you are free of STDs if you can, this is the least you can do to protect her but yet keep it from her.

[MrKopiO]

Agreed with it

[MrKopiO]

Don't ever tell her your FL past.

It will only bring bad things to your relationship with her, nothing good will come out of it. But try to make sure you are free of STDs if you can, this is the least you can do to protect her but yet keep it from her.

Yes 🙌🏻 1000000%

[Angles]

Yes 🙌🏻 1000000%

totally agree with you there

[qwertyabcd]

if u tell her your fl past, is there anything good comes out of it? or is it just going to ruin what you have?

[Udonit]

I disagree with the people saying not to tell.
I also lost my virginity to FL, and told my GF about it very early on. She did accept it and was even curious about it. Sure she made jokes about it sometimes after, but after many years its mostly forgotten.
If you truely love someone or expect a serious relationship with the person you date, you should tell it, especially if you don't play around no more. If she accepts it, she will likely be able to satisfy you more or try harder than someone who would leave you for that or underestimate your needs.
If you are still active outside then it might be more difficult as she will be warned and might have a closer eye on what you do.
So it depends on what your plan with her and FLs is.

[linabubbles]

Better confess pls. I wouldn't want my bf to visit FLs behind my back or before he dated me and give me STDs unknowingly

[pussylickers]

Past already past.Dont need tell lol

[Forgot123]

I mean if u're not telling will have a serious risk like health problem, u should be open about it. But, if u're not telling and doesn't have any impact, why go make new problem?:rolleyes:

[edricteh]

yaya why need find the problems for own?

[BoLiang]

I lost my virginity to FL and have visited a few over the last few years. So far, I have not kena STDs. Now I have met someone I really like. If I were to get a gf, should I tell her I have visited FLs when the topic of sex comes? Or lie that I am a virgin still. I have not been in any relationships. Also, I will want to get her to do vaccine like HPV just in case I have but no symptoms. But I don't know how to start the topic.

you got nothing better to do? spend more time learning how to invest. Dont find problems for yourself when lifes good and quiet.

geez, what happened to youth these days

[milfbeater]

why need to walk on eggshells for her, if u act like simping for her approval she will leave u eventually

[AdamLee12]

No need to tell everything. But it would be better do do a full body check before having sex with her. You can do anything you want, but don't hurt your girlfriend.