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Sabxteur
16-06-2023, 08:00 AM
To all samsters here, do you all agree? Please share your ideas and experiences with it. If you've ever been in a relationship, please describe any difficulties you encountered. I appreciate this so much

BatamBro
25-06-2023, 04:10 AM
To all samsters here, do you all agree? Please share your ideas and experiences with it. If you've ever been in a relationship, please describe any difficulties you encountered. I appreciate this so much

yup, it's happening now, especially this current generation.
influenced by the new media and they start getting curious about how to love the other nationalities nd start a relationship with them.

ongkp
25-06-2023, 05:51 PM
Interesting…..

Cheeseburger03
11-07-2023, 09:59 PM
If possible, I still prefer dating local SG girls. The similarity in background & culture makes communication much easier. Also shared the same lingos, jokes, taste for great hawker fares etc

Unfortunately, the expectations of sinkiebus are increasingly sky-high along with the inflation rates. Unless one is tall, handsome with successful career, the chance of landing a local SYT is pretty dim.

Many of my peers have married & settled down with foreign girls. they seemed to lead pretty happy lives too. and no longer is the trend that only older, blue collar uncles will marry foreign brides. there seems to be an increasingly number of young SG men (below 35) with decent profession jobs that are also settling down with foreign girls

I have at least 6 guy friends whom have married either a Viet, Thai or ATB lol. All seems to be happily alive now :D

Qzqzqz
11-07-2023, 10:14 PM
To all samsters here, do you all agree? Please share your ideas and experiences with it. If you've ever been in a relationship, please describe any difficulties you encountered. I appreciate this so much

i definitely am open to it. the world is your playground

Zetyalpha
12-07-2023, 09:12 AM
To all samsters here, do you all agree? Please share your ideas and experiences with it. If you've ever been in a relationship, please describe any difficulties you encountered. I appreciate this so much

Generally, I find Eastern Europeans women are more feminine than their western counterparts and our Singaporean women.

Of coz, like any other race and nationalities. There will be gold diggers.

My exp with Polish, Ukrainian (not hoes) are pleasant. Just ask IX Shen :D
Might date one if I ever got enough dough again. :D

Word of advice, best to learn their languages.

Lakalakasheit
12-07-2023, 03:35 PM
yeah sure, its called diversity. :D

filip
13-07-2023, 03:21 AM
To all samsters here, do you all agree? Please share your ideas and experiences with it. If you've ever been in a relationship, please describe any difficulties you encountered. I appreciate this so much

(Speaking from a man in his late 30s separated from his wife)

I used to think I will never date a non-SG girl especially from the Asia region because of language and culture barrier but after my recent solo trip to Vietnam, my mind opened. I met a woman (not ML/FL but with a decent job teaching Chinese language and giving city tours) in HCM. My tour became more of like a date because of our chemistry. I can sense that this woman is someone that can withstand hardship with her man and is very willing to sacrifice for family. I just think SG girls put themselves too high up in the Maslow’s Hierarchy.

Cheeseburger03
13-07-2023, 03:08 PM
(Speaking from a man in his late 30s separated from his wife)

I used to think I will never date a non-SG girl especially from the Asia region because of language and culture barrier but after my recent solo trip to Vietnam, my mind opened. I met a woman (not ML/FL but with a decent job teaching Chinese language and giving city tours) in HCM. My tour became more of like a date because of our chemistry. I can sense that this woman is someone that can withstand hardship with her man and is very willing to sacrifice for family. I just think SG girls put themselves too high up in the Maslow’s Hierarchy.

Congrats on meeting someone with great chemistry on your solo trip! I've a few frens who hit up with ladies from VN too and they seem to be happily married now :)

On the other hand, those who married SG ladies looks more tired & miserable after a few years lol :p

filip
14-07-2023, 12:08 AM
Congrats on meeting someone with great chemistry on your solo trip! I've a few frens who hit up with ladies from VN too and they seem to be happily married now :)

On the other hand, those who married SG ladies looks more tired & miserable after a few years lol :p

Thanks bro. I guess there are more and more highly qualified and independent SG ladies so sometimes it's tiring to have to perform up to their high expectations.

JackyPhang
14-07-2023, 12:17 AM
If possible, I still prefer dating local SG girls. The similarity in background & culture makes communication much easier. Also shared the same lingos, jokes, taste for great hawker fares etc

Unfortunately, the expectations of sinkiebus are increasingly sky-high along with the inflation rates. Unless one is tall, handsome with successful career, the chance of landing a local SYT is pretty dim.

Many of my peers have married & settled down with foreign girls. they seemed to lead pretty happy lives too. and no longer is the trend that only older, blue collar uncles will marry foreign brides. there seems to be an increasingly number of young SG men (below 35) with decent profession jobs that are also settling down with foreign girls

I have at least 6 guy friends whom have married either a Viet, Thai or ATB lol. All seems to be happily alive now :D

agreed with your points. i do prefer a local sg girl due to similarities and common things we can relate to due to living in same country.

however due to the increasing standards, i am also now open to dating foreigners.

i too have friends that are happily married with foreign wives.

guydot
14-07-2023, 10:30 AM
agreed with your points. i do prefer a local sg girl due to similarities and common things we can relate to due to living in same country.

however due to the increasing standards, i am also now open to dating foreigners.

i too have friends that are happily married with foreign wives.

agreed, dating foreigners might be a challenge at first since u guys have different background, but i think this is a good thing.

Wert911
14-07-2023, 10:43 AM
its actually becoming a very common thing. but this i think happens to guys whose seen the world with an open mind.

lonelyfish
16-07-2023, 03:19 AM
I'm fine with dating a foreigner. My ex gf for 3 yrs is a Thai living in Thailand. I didn't pick her from a bar, I known her for about 5 years before dating her. She was from province, but working in an MNC in BKK. The only difficulty I had is the distance, had to keep traveling to meet, went over multiple times a month. If you find language barrier to be a problem, then the problem is likely to be you for not putting a simple effort. We broke up because of the indecisive conclusion for our future. And it wasn't my fault, I was fine to either live in SG or move to TH.

I've never dated with SG ladies. In fact, I don't really like our society and culture. I wanted a partner with low education level and able to accept a simple life. Unfortunately I see these kind of partners don't seem to be welcomed by our society. I find too much education ruins the minds of people. It makes people want more and more.

linabubbles
16-07-2023, 09:52 AM
In my short life, i have dated a Malaysian Chinese and an angmoh before. I have no preference for nationalities as long as we click.

Zetyalpha
16-07-2023, 06:14 PM
I'm fine with dating a foreigner. My ex gf for 3 yrs is a Thai living in Thailand. I didn't pick her from a bar, I known her for about 5 years before dating her. She was from province, but working in an MNC in BKK. The only difficulty I had is the distance, had to keep traveling to meet, went over multiple times a month. If you find language barrier to be a problem, then the problem is likely to be you for not putting a simple effort. We broke up because of the indecisive conclusion for our future. And it wasn't my fault, I was fine to either live in SG or move to TH.

I've never dated with SG ladies. In fact, I don't really like our society and culture. I wanted a partner with low education level and able to accept a simple life. Unfortunately I see these kind of partners don't seem to be welcomed by our society. I find too much education ruins the minds of people. It makes people want more and more.

Dated 1 SG woman. Man, it was enough. Felt like an indentured servitude. Sometimes, I wish I was gay, lolol :D:D:D

Our SG society simply looks down on people with simple expectations. Combined with the tertiary education and women's charter. Even Malays and Indians women now are 99.9999% same across the board. Nothing wrong with women wanting a better life. But explicitly demanding like a child will turn any rational man off. This is the million dollar problem. Caveat Emptor!

Sorry yr RS didn't work out with that thai woman. I would moved to thailand if I were you. Spare her the toxic culture here. Why don't you consider moving to Thailand permanently for better marriage prospects?

lonelyfish
16-07-2023, 10:17 PM
Dated 1 SG woman. Man, it was enough. Felt like an indentured servitude. Sometimes, I wish I was gay, lolol :D:D:D

Our SG society simply looks down on people with simple expectations. Combined with the tertiary education and women's charter. Even Malays and Indians women now are 99.9999% same across the board. Nothing wrong with women wanting a better life. But explicitly demanding like a child will turn any rational man off. This is the million dollar problem. Caveat Emptor!

Sorry yr RS didn't work out with that thai woman. I would moved to thailand if I were you. Spare her the toxic culture here. Why don't you consider moving to Thailand permanently for better marriage prospects?

Right now, I have a problem to move to Thailand permanently. At that time, she discouraged me to move there because of the country's instability, yet couldn't have a conclusion on where to settle down. This is a problem that will end a LDR in marriage or breakup. I had 2 relationships, and both were LDR. I accept the reason for the first breakup (Malaysian lady) was my fault.

That Women's Charter and MOM regulations reduced a lot of choices for us who want really simple women.

Zetyalpha
17-07-2023, 07:56 AM
Right now, I have a problem to move to Thailand permanently. At that time, she discouraged me to move there because of the country's instability, yet couldn't have a conclusion on where to settle down. This is a problem that will end a LDR in marriage or breakup. I had 2 relationships, and both were LDR. I accept the reason for the first breakup (Malaysian lady) was my fault.

That Women's Charter and MOM regulations reduced a lot of choices for us who want really simple women.

Not sure how MOM regulations restrict a foreign wife. Since I am ignorant ab this. If you're under 40. Moving to a specific province of Thailand. Perhaps, you can set the rules where and when you could find a nice thai lady. If this is yr end goal.

All RS (including marriage. Not my cup of tea) take consideration amt of work. Learning thai is consider a reasonable req too. Gd luck!

lonelyfish
17-07-2023, 08:18 AM
Not sure how MOM regulations restrict a foreign wife. Since I am ignorant ab this. If you're under 40. Moving to a specific province of Thailand. Perhaps, you can set the rules where and when you could find a nice thai lady. If this is yr end goal.

All RS (including marriage. Not my cup of tea) take consideration amt of work. Learning thai is consider a reasonable req too. Gd luck!

No, I don't mean about the restrictions for foreign wife, but the restrictions you will face if you want to date and marry a FW (foreigner worker) who is already working in SG. It is not that difficult if you marry a normal Thai girl and bring her back eventually.

I been thru 2x LDR but never dated a SG girl before. Not learning the language is not an excuse. I could speak Thai even when I haven't met my ex simply because I simply like going to BKK for regular breaks. In fact, I learnt Thai and Japanese, but neglected Japanese because lack of usage. You can get can better treatment and experience when you do things like chionging there.

Mumu1
17-07-2023, 10:42 AM
some friends dated indo women, any samsters here would like to share?

Zetyalpha
17-07-2023, 07:47 PM
I been thru 2x LDR but never dated a SG girl before. Not learning the language is not an excuse.

You're one of the sanest and rational samster I ever met on this forum. The rest and me included are probably suffered from personality or mood (cluster B , NPD, BPD) disorders.

All the best for your marriage prospects. Have a gd one and take care.

lonelyfish
17-07-2023, 09:59 PM
You're one of the sanest and rational samster I ever met on this forum. The rest and me included are probably suffered from personality or mood (cluster B , NPD, BPD) disorders.

All the best for your marriage prospects. Have a gd one and take care.

I find fair treatment a good thing. Even when you chiong, if you treat the WL / ML good, they may treat you better. You get an enjoyable time.

Zetyalpha
17-07-2023, 11:11 PM
I find fair treatment a good thing. Even when you chiong, if you treat the WL / ML good, they may treat you better. You get an enjoyable time.

Somehow agree to this statement. Only had 1 reciprocation

wuk0ng
21-07-2023, 10:21 PM
I find fair treatment a good thing. Even when you chiong, if you treat the WL / ML good, they may treat you better. You get an enjoyable time.

yeah agreed. they might go extra miles when we treat them different. it's human nature.

Shootoncefirst
24-07-2023, 10:20 PM
No, I don't mean about the restrictions for foreign wife, but the restrictions you will face if you want to date and marry a FW (foreigner worker) who is already working in SG. It is not that difficult if you marry a normal Thai girl and bring her back eventually.

I been thru 2x LDR but never dated a SG girl before. Not learning the language is not an excuse. I could speak Thai even when I haven't met my ex simply because I simply like going to BKK for regular breaks. In fact, I learnt Thai and Japanese, but neglected Japanese because lack of usage. You can get can better treatment and experience when you do things like chionging there.

this is correct. language barrier is no issue and can be learned. Question is you want to or not.

KinksHunter
26-08-2023, 11:39 PM
Many Singaporeans nowadays quite chill about dating people from other countries lah.
Singapore is like, super diverse and got people from all over, so dating someone from another country also quite common.
But hor, everyone got their own opinions, so some might more open, some might prefer local lah.
Just be yourself and see where things go can already. Don't stress too much bro.

mrgaleeo
04-09-2023, 08:11 PM
Siambu for life Siambu for wife :rolleyes:;)

Banaber
06-09-2023, 10:01 AM
Vietbu for Life Vietbu for Vice :p:cool:

Muxlixmx
24-10-2023, 10:12 PM
Very open ah

GG6969
24-12-2023, 07:32 AM
Nationalities do not matter. Culture and communication can be acclimatised over a period of time. What matters more are the looks and figures. Can call me shallow but it is really tough finding a local chio and shapely girl as compared to foreigners from thai, viet, china.l or malaysia. Plus it seems foreign girls are more willing to accommodate to your way of communication as compared to locals who are simply spoiled in sillypore

energy_boi
26-12-2023, 04:46 PM
Dated a number of SG girls. Simply spoiled and kept comparing you to her friends BFs. Called Christian Dior a trash bag. Demanded half share of my condo before married as security safety net.

Dumped her. Settled with a foreigner wife. Have 3 kids happily married.

GG6969
27-12-2023, 01:30 AM
Dated a number of SG girls. Simply spoiled and kept comparing you to her friends BFs. Called Christian Dior a trash bag. Demanded half share of my condo before married as security safety net.

Dumped her. Settled with a foreigner wife. Have 3 kids happily married.

Let me add on but no offence, i bet your foreign wife is way more chio and hot than the sinkie ex gf. Sometimes i do not know why sinkie girls think very highly of themselves when they probably cannot even be compared to the average jane in foreign land.

AdmiralR
15-01-2024, 10:56 PM
Dated a number of SG girls. Simply spoiled and kept comparing you to her friends BFs. Called Christian Dior a trash bag. Demanded half share of my condo before married as security safety net.

Dumped her. Settled with a foreigner wife. Have 3 kids happily married.

Ang mo friend of mine said the same (I’m also am). Said he’d dated a few locals when he moved here but they were very demanding. Now has Thai gf, says he’s much happier.

energy_boi
27-01-2024, 02:46 AM
Let me add on but no offence, i bet your foreign wife is way more chio and hot than the sinkie ex gf. Sometimes i do not know why sinkie girls think very highly of themselves when they probably cannot even be compared to the average jane in foreign land.

yah i mean if marry foreigner might as well chio young n big tit right? Most importanly young to carry baby.....

The SG gurl i referring to was 35yrs old when she made the demands..... now i married she still single looking for a rich local / foreigner who she thinks she is worthy of.

Kinda amazing... come think of it. And now u got the same rich ang mo marrying helpers instead of SG Hahahaa...

energy_boi
27-01-2024, 02:50 AM
Oh and the sg gurl keeps conveniently forgetting special occasions and "owe" presents but expects u to buy expensive bags/stuff for her 4 the same occasions she forgot.

Minimum is LV, anything lesser than fergamo or Furla all she return u as rejects, then u be in a situation where u have no one to give, so end up first place bettter buy a ex present she accept so wont return u.... hahaha

I was so naive i actually did that last time.

Frankzzz
27-01-2024, 11:49 PM
curious about bros' opinion on malaysian chinese girls vs sg girls...
My feelings are Malaysian girls are in general more feminine and less demanding and less full of themselves. but that could just be my sample size is not representative enough or I haven't really got in a relatinship with MY girls.

And they speak better chinese in general no?

energy_boi
28-01-2024, 12:10 PM
Yep. I think Malaysian Gurls mirror our culture the best.

chubbybastard
28-01-2024, 10:58 PM
curious about bros' opinion on malaysian chinese girls vs sg girls...
My feelings are Malaysian girls are in general more feminine and less demanding and less full of themselves. but that could just be my sample size is not representative enough or I haven't really got in a relatinship with MY girls.

And they speak better chinese in general no?
Malaysian girls are less demanding? You joking right? If they are less demanding and ambitious, do you think they will make the sacrifice to live and work in Singapore leaving their friends and family behind to start from scratch? Of course not bro.

Unless you go to some kampung in Malaysia live there and find non chinese girls like in Sabah and Sarawak natives, then maybe. But for any malaysian girls you meet in Singapore, big cities like KL or Penang then very very unlikely they are "simple". They want a better life, perfect husband and lavish lifestyle just like any Singaporean women.

That's why i choose to stay single.

chubbybastard
28-01-2024, 11:04 PM
Dated a number of SG girls. Simply spoiled and kept comparing you to her friends BFs. Called Christian Dior a trash bag. Demanded half share of my condo before married as security safety net.

Dumped her. Settled with a foreigner wife. Have 3 kids happily married.

Well to be fair, Singaporean men also equally delusional. We want our other half to be pretty, big tit, can fuck like pornstar yet demure, can do all the housework, take care of kids, etc.

Same same la.

That's why stay single is best. Full freedom. I want fuck i pay and find the right girls that fits my bill. Simple

chubbybastard
28-01-2024, 11:11 PM
Let me add on but no offence, i bet your foreign wife is way more chio and hot than the sinkie ex gf. Sometimes i do not know why sinkie girls think very highly of themselves when they probably cannot even be compared to the average jane in foreign land.
If there is a demure, very nice, very down to earth sinkie girl, simple and non demanding and whom fits all of your criteria as a wife but is a dinobu at 100kg and has a face only her mother could love, would you marry her? Ask yourself the same question lo.

What is my point, you ask? Stay single. Why burden yourself with all these nonsense called marriage, gf or settling down. Want a kid? Go adopt one.

energy_boi
30-01-2024, 05:08 PM
Well , I think single is best until I met my current wife

Rubbaking
31-01-2024, 11:58 PM
If there is a demure, very nice, very down to earth sinkie girl, simple and non demanding and whom fits all of your criteria as a wife but is a dinobu at 100kg and has a face only her mother could love, would you marry her? Ask yourself the same question lo.

What is my point, you ask? Stay single. Why burden yourself with all these nonsense called marriage, gf or settling down. Want a kid? Go adopt one.

So true. But if the girl is pretty and hot, I do not need her to be demure nor down to earth. The world usually does not work this way. If got chio and hot and yet demure one, long ago taken up liao.

jasonmagel
01-02-2024, 09:31 AM
Local too demanding and make thing too stress

chubbybastard
08-02-2024, 04:20 PM
So true. But if the girl is pretty and hot, I do not need her to be demure nor down to earth. The world usually does not work this way. If got chio and hot and yet demure one, long ago taken up liao.

Ya lo. All those single guys still hoping for a demure, domesticated, pretty and sexy wife/gf need a reality check. Not say don't have, if have also won't be your turn since it will be snapped up liao. Ask yourself what can you bring to the table that can be better than so many other guys including married man who can give more to her than you could ever give.

Some people think married man is "out of the market"? Think again. I know so many sucessful married man with kids, handsome, rich, etc who are involved in relationship with really nice young pretty girls. That's why they are married in the first place.

pewpewmeow
23-04-2024, 03:01 AM
To all samsters here, do you all agree? Please share your ideas and experiences with it. If you've ever been in a relationship, please describe any difficulties you encountered. I appreciate this so much

Singapore guys are not good looking and feel that they are superior in comparison the ladies.

BreakingZero
23-04-2024, 03:18 PM
Dated a few local SG girls, mostly are career focused which isn't a bad thing but when it comes to things like settling down and talking about housing it turns to be a nightmare.

Dating a malaysian currently and all I can say its less stressful then dating locals.

Jackkert
25-04-2024, 12:23 PM
Dated a few local SG girls, mostly are career focused which isn't a bad thing but when it comes to things like settling down and talking about housing it turns to be a nightmare.

Dating a malaysian currently and all I can say its less stressful then dating locals.

SG girls think more about career and money, so their independence sometimes causes conflict. is it the same as my thoughts?

KikoMiko
12-05-2024, 02:46 PM
Sg girl here - I’m definitely open to dating non-locals. The most important factor is that we click!

KikoMiko
12-05-2024, 02:50 PM
SG girl here - my work involves traveling a lot and I do get to meet many people with interesting perspectives to life. Definitely open to dating beyond local guys, as long as chemistry is there! (:

jhoho
13-05-2024, 08:28 AM
Dated a few local SG girls, mostly are career focused which isn't a bad thing but when it comes to things like settling down and talking about housing it turns to be a nightmare.

Dating a malaysian currently and all I can say its less stressful then dating locals.

I did find malaysian more easygoing than SG in general, but I don't blame or dislike SG, I think the culture in SG has been a bit anxious and resource gathering / money oriented due to their unique position. Small country, surrounded by sometimes hostile neighbor, lacking natural resource, lots of anxiety, anxiety in water supply, anxiety in being invaded, anxiety from lack of respect etc. All these pressures permeates to every corner of SG society, forming the SG of today.

I think understanding this underlying culture and dating SG girl will make it easier to adjust your expectations. I don't think SG girls are materialistic, the society drives them towards survival and elitism, not all will fall under such drive but in general this is the case for SG. I come from a highly anxiety inducing country as well, so I totally get them and would date SG girl if we can click.

ghostcow
14-05-2024, 10:29 PM
I think other nationalities not so materialistic

mice
21-05-2024, 02:38 PM
I think other nationalities not so materialistic

I think almost all women are the same. unless she has a good personality. not because of the nationality

dicky69
21-05-2024, 04:49 PM
I think almost all women are the same. unless she has a good personality. not because of the nationality

I agree with you bro . it's about character and personality

mice
21-05-2024, 04:58 PM
I agree with you bro . it's about character and personality


👍👍👍👍 rightt

energy_boi
05-06-2024, 05:32 PM
Very interesting views!

Rubbaking
08-06-2024, 05:54 AM
I agree with you bro . it's about character and personality

Call me shallow but for guys, looks precede as first impression lasts.

chubbybastard
09-06-2024, 11:14 AM
curious about bros' opinion on malaysian chinese girls vs sg girls...
My feelings are Malaysian girls are in general more feminine and less demanding and less full of themselves. but that could just be my sample size is not representative enough or I haven't really got in a relatinship with MY girls.

And they speak better chinese in general no?

Depends on person la. I don't think its a nationality issue more of a person and upbringing issue

Addylow
12-06-2024, 06:04 PM
I like vietnamese

mario55
13-06-2024, 04:43 PM
i like thailand and vietnam but i never try ang moh before. no chance

whisky21
16-06-2024, 01:54 PM
Dated a few local SG girls, mostly are career focused which isn't a bad thing but when it comes to things like settling down and talking about housing it turns to be a nightmare.

Dating a malaysian currently and all I can say its less stressful then dating locals.

singapore culture very badly influenced by the west culture. sad. i have seen some tiktok videos calling singapore the west of south east asia.

newcheongster1
22-06-2024, 10:53 PM
malaysian ladies not bad
worth dating

Rubbaking
28-06-2024, 06:03 AM
malaysian ladies not bad
worth dating

Agreed. Better figure too usually.

SenYoiBelly
28-06-2024, 01:27 PM
malaysian ladies not bad
worth dating

Nearest to home.
Culture not much different.
Language no barrier.
More down to earth than Singapore women.

Yup. I think so too.

Nekofear
11-07-2024, 12:49 PM
For my case, I embrace dating other nationalities now. Online dating for local women wasn't successful so I started online dating a foreigner.

I think the local ladies that I chat online have the same mindset as me(men), to pursue work for income to support family. With our country become more developed and chasing education, starting a family with local women is not prioritized or start really late.

Also I think my mum set the standard high for my sister but my dad is chill. Dad approve any hardworking men & who respect his daughter as a human not a slave/posession. Sis married to a good man now.

My foreigner GF wants to settle down in a few years. Things I need to worry about is: to go back to her hometown to meet her dad and state my intentions, need to get approval from MOM if i gg to marry her, give birth after receive PR and etc for citizen benefits otherwise all the medical fees not subsidized.

Fantastic Owner
12-07-2024, 11:49 PM
I think nowadays Singapore women prefer angmoh guys becos of their huge cock and these angmohs can last longer, while We guys prefer other Asian gals like Thais,Vietnamese, PRCs or Taiwanese.

I,for one, is very lucky to hook up with a Taiwanese teacher working in SG

Nekofear
19-07-2024, 03:36 AM
I think SG women wants to escape local tradition/culture hence date foreigners.

ch18
19-07-2024, 04:11 AM
Agreed. Better figure too usually.

Agreed, figure-wise Sporean lady seem to be on the downside as compared to M’sian lady

chubbybastard
21-07-2024, 08:47 AM
For my case, I embrace dating other nationalities now. Online dating for local women wasn't successful so I started online dating a foreigner.

I think the local ladies that I chat online have the same mindset as me(men), to pursue work for income to support family. With our country become more developed and chasing education, starting a family with local women is not prioritized or start really late.

Also I think my mum set the standard high for my sister but my dad is chill. Dad approve any hardworking men & who respect his daughter as a human not a slave/posession. Sis married to a good man now.

My foreigner GF wants to settle down in a few years. Things I need to worry about is: to go back to her hometown to meet her dad and state my intentions, need to get approval from MOM if i gg to marry her, give birth after receive PR and etc for citizen benefits otherwise all the medical fees not subsidized.
Why need to get approval from MOM? ICA i can understand but MOM?

Nekofear
11-08-2024, 10:07 PM
Why need to get approval from MOM? ICA i can understand but MOM?

She is an work permit holder so need MOM approval for marriage. Otherwise right, so many ex-work & current work permit also want marry SG/ PR men lo.. The SG woman no shot at the men.. Then overcrowding foreigner

fxty1989
20-08-2024, 06:55 PM
Personally, I don’t see anything wrong on dating females/males from other countries. It’s an open world, as long as it doesn’t against any low, just go for it.

Balluz
23-09-2024, 10:47 PM
I personally gravitate towards western-ish girls, here's a list of girls I've dated, be it short or long term, serious or not.

Chinese Singaporean (ex)
Canadian
Australian
Australian-Bosniak (ex)
White American
French-Moroccan
Romanian
ABC (ex)

Pawxy
04-10-2024, 07:16 PM
All relationship encounter the same old problems

energy_boi
10-10-2024, 09:46 PM
Tbh, my ex Chinese gf super demanding. Glad I left her. Now still single, showing off bags on social media , but weekend lonely while me happily married

MichaelGermany
20-10-2024, 05:22 PM
I think singaporeans are Open minded to have an " exotic" Partner i was married 6 years with my singaporean wife the Family was very nice and threat me good but hmm When we Had a big Family Meeting with the relatives they looked to me " Like a Money in the Cage" because i am the only one "foraigner" from the group

I ve Seen it with humor

kaypohkia
20-10-2024, 11:01 PM
I had a friend who used to work in counselling transnational marriages (i.e. a citizen + non-citizen) and learned from her that 30 - 40% of all citizen marriages in Singapore are transnational.

Think Malaysian Chinese, Indo Chinese, Ang mos, Viet & Thais. Couldn't believe her at first until I Googled myself.

Skymanman
21-10-2024, 12:35 AM
Open to options as long connection is there

Skymanman
21-10-2024, 12:36 AM
Open to it as long as connection is there