What if your favourite HC masseur ask u for gifts

[Birdking123456]

Dear brothers, I need all your help and analysis to help me see things in various angles....

I have a problem now. One of my favourite HC masseur asks me for an expensive handphone. She called me and made that request while she was having a family dinner during her off day. The handphone is about $400 to $500 without plan.

I had bought small gifts like perfume, mooncakes and ear-piece for her in the past, because I quite like her.

She has been hinting me to buy handphone for her since 6 months ago. Her current handphone was given by a customer of hers.

She knows I can get the handphone on the cheap because my plan is due for renewal. Her parting shot is : call her when I have bought the phone.

Let me know what will you do.

a) Ignore her request but continue to patronise her
b) Ignore her request and stop patronise her
c) Fulfill her request

[daydevil89]

Bro TS, happen to see your question.
No need to analyse.
Move On!!!!

And please... do not post such question in here... there is another place to post such questions for discussion!!!!
Go and look up!!!!

[nfiaker]

Bro TS,

We are already paying them for their services and we should treat this as nothing more than a business transaction.

These women only wanna suck the life outta u only.

Just move on. If you really wanna find a gal you like, I suggest perhaps go elsewhere ba :) . This type of gal not worth it.

[ang076]

Remember HC gals earn more than us. Surely, they can afford to buy handphones with $400 ( they can easily earn $100 in 45 mins.)

[theplayer]

Bro TS,

We are already paying them for their services and we should treat this as nothing more than a business transaction.

These women only wanna suck the life outta u only.

Just move on. If you really wanna find a gal you like, I suggest perhaps go elsewhere ba :) . This type of gal not worth it.

Totally agree!

[ang09]

Why not ask her will she give u free fuck for next 3 trips? if yes,fair enough if no dont waste ur time on her, time to move on.

[NobleEagle]

Remember HC gals earn more than us. Surely, they can afford to buy handphones with $400 ( they can easily earn $100 in 45 mins.)

haha they can easily afford alright but they rather "carrot" you mah:p

[peanut123]

a) Ignore her request but continue to patronise her
b) Ignore her request and stop patronise her
c) Fulfill her request

Move on and never see her again ! What is there to consider ? She's your masseuse, not your girlfriend. Afterall, do you buy a handphone for your favorite hawker ? It's obvious she's using you (and other men I'm sure). Drop her like a hot potato, and move on. If you keep seeing her, she'll apply more pressure. A phone now, a iPod next, and it will not end as long as she sees you are a sucker.

Please, there are more TNs and HCs then you can ever visit, so just move on to explore more. And for F's sake, don't give them your handphone number. Why the heck would anyone want a masseuse to call them ? If you need to make a booking, call the TN. There is no reason for her to be calling you. What if you have a gf (current or in future), and the masseuse calls you ? How are you going to extract yourself from that sticky situation ?

[alvin36]

Dear brothers, I need all your help and analysis to help me see things in various angles....

I have a problem now. One of my favourite HC masseur asks me for an expensive handphone. She called me and made that request while she was having a family dinner during her off day. The handphone is about $400 to $500 without plan.

I had bought small gifts like perfume, mooncakes and ear-piece for her in the past, because I quite like her.

She has been hinting me to buy handphone for her since 6 months ago. Her current handphone was given by a customer of hers.

She knows I can get the handphone on the cheap because my plan is due for renewal. Her parting shot is : call her when I have bought the phone.

Let me know what will you do.

a) Ignore her request but continue to patronise her
b) Ignore her request and stop patronise her
c) Fulfill her request

well.. bro.... if you can afford it.. is ok :p
if you really like her and enjoy her company, why not spend the money on a short holiday ? invite her for a short trip.... spend some money on her shopping and can enjoy escort service, rite ?

[willem_b]

bro,

she only wants to check you out and see if she can get more stuffs from you. they will then start the sob sob stories to get more things. move on bro...

[akaza24]

Ask for gifts huh? PCC and shoot out ur sperm out as gift lo, its free! :rolleyes:

[RPM2007]

Afterall, do you buy a handphone for your favorite hawker ?

Excellent comparison! :D

[Hardnuts]

Buy me a couple of drinks and will recommend u my favourite HC masseurSSSSS

[SinDellman]

What if your favourite HC masseur ask u for gifts

that'll be the last time i see her again ....

last week WL told me her birthday tmr and I said i want to give her a free fcuk as a present ....:p
but actually she didnt ask for anything ... nice lady.

[ilovepantyhose]

bro, maybe u have to think twice about it. i feel that u r being tok chai tow. it's true that the WL earn alot, u do the math: suppose she takes 5 customers daily, she will earn 5x50=250 minimum. surely she can afford a hp?

[ang076]

If the gal ask for lingerie set as a gift , then she will be worth RTF monthly.

I dont mind going to lingerie shop to buy bra and panties set , and ask her to wear and let me bonk her in that set..

Bonk her furiously without mercy and she moan, moan , moan loudly..:p

[Zen Zen]

If the gal ask for lingerie set as a gift , then she will be worth RTF monthly.

I dont mind going to lingerie shop to buy bra and panties set , and ask her to wear and let me bonk her in that set..

Bonk her furiously without mercy and she moan, moan , moan loudly..:p


i like bro ang's theory. haha. :D

but then again, come to think of it. Aren't we supposed to F**K and forget? we not here to look for wife right? of cos, to choose to buy is up to you but like bros here said, mostly they will treat you like 'carrot' head or what we usually call 'Robert'.

[ang076]

If we share similar taste on lingeries and she is pretty, slim and creative, how can I forget her after my first encounter with her?

Right? :p

[lifeisfun]

hi Ts..

i think its time u move on..like you said her parting shot : call me after u bought the phone is quite obvious..she is threatening u to but her one or she will not respond to u..at least thats what it sounded like to me..
there are still many out there..

have fun..and be safe..

[justl00king]

Bro TS,

If you buy the phone for her what you get in return? :confused:

dunno if this is similiar- there's a KTV gal who called me and asked me to bring her out as it's her birthday. I told her I was busy, she said ok but wanted a present.

Asked her what she liked and she replied, anything you buy for me I will be happy.

What you reckon? Wanna buy? I just replied see how, if I free and hung up. :p

[maninneed]

Why not ask her will she give u free fuck for next 3 trips? if yes,fair enough if no dont waste ur time on her, time to move on.

Interesting abt all those being mentioned.. what abt my case?
Just knew a gal frm a massage place.. not my fav but after the first time, she gave me her no. we communicated for a while and she kept having prob with her phone..
she did menitioned why not i get a phone for her so we can communicate better..
I did ignored but she did reply me just kidding..
still, we chatted and i continued to try asking her out after her work which she always says she's very tired and didn't met up with me.

then it was this once which she said why not she massage me after work.
i said great.. after which, i asked her how? she said will have to charge for the massage okay.. i then asked her for the price and she was a bit mad at me saying she's kidding abt charging part only and why i made it sound so much like a business deal..

i brought her for supper that night and then hotel for massage.. but ended up she do bbbj and hj after the massage for me after i pulled her over to hug her.. also she commented next time she'll let me do fj.. in the end, she did not ask for any payment from me when we left the hotel.. but in the car, she did asked if i keen to help her get phone..
for the next few days i was busy.. hence, never send her sms.. she sms me saying if i ignored her due to the phone, don't worry cos she can buy herself.. I told her i would get the phone for her..

so how? follow thru? or avoid forever?

sorry for the long tying but this is all a truth.. so hope you brothers don't flame me as well..
just asking for advice.. thanks in advance.. :)

[DTCEPL]

so how? follow thru? or avoid forever?

sorry for the long tying but this is all a truth.. so hope you brothers don't flame me as well..
just asking for advice.. thanks in advance.. :)

Don't buy. Men are out to cheat (please forgive me if the word used is too strong) and KC the gal hoping to get FOC or discounted FJ, BJ, HJ or companionship. And the gal in return will try to KC you for $, expensive gifts, free rides etc.

I have seen it all......don't fall into the trap, and they also would never fall into yours.....its a game....whoever wins KC game, gets the monetary reward or in kind, whoever loses, loses badly emotionally.

For your kind consideration Bro.

[fuckfuck]

Remember HC gals earn more than us. Surely, they can afford to buy handphones with $400 ( they can easily earn $100 in 45 mins.)

Hi Bro! Totally agreed!!!

[RTTO]

Dear brothers, I need all your help and analysis to help me see things in various angles....

Bro, the reason why we go for paid services is becos we dun need to put emotions into it. My usual PRC gal in SZX and Masseuser in PEN always pester me to buy perfum etc etc but i always turn a deaf ear and continue to patronize them on their services. :D

Move on, find another gal... or be like me - turn a deaf ear. You prolly have a problem rejecting ppl rite. :confused:

[Birdking123456]

Hi bro RTTO

Bro, the reason why we go for paid services is becos we dun need to put emotions into it. My usual PRC gal in SZX and Masseuser in PEN always pester me to buy perfum etc etc but i always turn a deaf ear and continue to patronize them on their services. :D

Move on, find another gal... or be like me - turn a deaf ear. You prolly have a problem rejecting ppl rite. :confused:

My reason for going for HC services is to be able to develop some KC (or emotions) with the WL. The services in GL is generally better than HC, but I like HC ambience and the ability to chat with the favourite masseur regularly, and if possible some companionship. I feel very empty if I only Fxxx and forget. Not that I am looking for a wife in HC, I already have many problems with my current wife.



Hi bro maninneed

I am jealous of u actually. I only managed to have one dinner and one lunch with her over 2 yrs. How pathetic !



Dear All bros

Thank you u all for sharing with me your thots and tips. Deeply appreciated.

Just to give an update. I have refused to buy the HP. She sms me to say she will buy herself. In the same sms, she asked me not to look for her the next few months.

I am deeply disappointed with her and her responses. It is like giving up a 2-year relationship with a girlfriend. Slight anger, lots of sadness. :(

But I will move on. I suppose even in masseurs, I have to diversify. I hope my next favourite masseur is not like that.

[massa]

Just to give an update. I have refused to buy the HP. She sms me to say she will buy herself. In the same sms, she asked me not to look for her the next few months.
She finally show her true colour, bro bird, this kind of girl don't deserve your gift. Anyway we shall Fxxk and Forget, afterall it is just a transaction.

[justl00king]

Bro TS!!!

Who the fxxk she thinks she is, asking you not to look her up for the next few months? :rolleyes: She dun wanna your biz you can take your $ somewhere else. Many pussies waiting to eat your dicky for your $! :p

From her reaction clearly shows KC trap so you really did not lose anything so cheer up!

Kudos to you for standing up and resisting her requests.

Be strong, dun be a loser! :)

KNN another KC conster.:mad:

[spockman]

Hi bro RTTO



My reason for going for HC services is to be able to develop some KC (or emotions) with the WL. The services in GL is generally better than HC, but I like HC ambience and the ability to chat with the favourite masseur regularly, and if possible some companionship. I feel very empty if I only Fxxx and forget. Not that I am looking for a wife in HC, I already have many problems with my current wife.



Hi bro maninneed

I am jealous of u actually. I only managed to have one dinner and one lunch with her over 2 yrs. How pathetic !



Dear All bros

Thank you u all for sharing with me your thots and tips. Deeply appreciated.

Just to give an update. I have refused to buy the HP. She sms me to say she will buy herself. In the same sms, she asked me not to look for her the next few months.

I am deeply disappointed with her and her responses. It is like giving up a 2-year relationship with a girlfriend. Slight anger, lots of sadness. :(

But I will move on. I suppose even in masseurs, I have to diversify. I hope my next favourite masseur is not like that.



Bro, dont make the mistake of trying to develop emotion with WL. If you got problem with your wife, sort them out, running away by going after WL is not the way. Don't go and make more trouble for yourself. As mentioned many times b4, the reason we pay for their services is to fuck and forget

[Hungary Fighter]

Dear All bros

Thank you u all for sharing with me your thots and tips. Deeply appreciated.

Just to give an update. I have refused to buy the HP. She sms me to say she will buy herself. In the same sms, she asked me not to look for her the next few months.

I am deeply disappointed with her and her responses. It is like giving up a 2-year relationship with a girlfriend. Slight anger, lots of sadness. :(

But I will move on. I suppose even in masseurs, I have to diversify. I hope my next favourite masseur is not like that.


bro.....just move on.....the only person u should b emotionally attached 2 is your wife or girlfriend.....shez the one who will stand by u when u r in trouble......all the other girls r just a fling......don't ever b involved with them emotionally......coz if problem arise.....they will b the 1st whoz going leave u.......

[dcky]

Interesting abt all those being mentioned.. what abt my case?
Just knew a gal frm a massage place.. not my fav but after the first time, she gave me her no. we communicated for a while and she kept having prob with her phone..
she did menitioned why not i get a phone for her so we can communicate better..
I did ignored but she did reply me just kidding..
still, we chatted and i continued to try asking her out after her work which she always says she's very tired and didn't met up with me.

then it was this once which she said why not she massage me after work.
i said great.. after which, i asked her how? she said will have to charge for the massage okay.. i then asked her for the price and she was a bit mad at me saying she's kidding abt charging part only and why i made it sound so much like a business deal..

i brought her for supper that night and then hotel for massage.. but ended up she do bbbj and hj after the massage for me after i pulled her over to hug her.. also she commented next time she'll let me do fj.. in the end, she did not ask for any payment from me when we left the hotel.. but in the car, she did asked if i keen to help her get phone..
for the next few days i was busy.. hence, never send her sms.. she sms me saying if i ignored her due to the phone, don't worry cos she can buy herself.. I told her i would get the phone for her..

so how? follow thru? or avoid forever?

sorry for the long tying but this is all a truth.. so hope you brothers don't flame me as well..
just asking for advice.. thanks in advance.. :)


Hahaha... Bro just do what you think is right for you. We are human who got feeling. Thirty is very hard to understand how you feel towards the lady that you faced. I would say Ai.... 英雄难过美人关..... :p

[hornyclown]

If you have the ability to spoil your fav masseuse so be it. i know of some bro here who earn 10k a mth so getting a hp is like a small fraction of their salary. but poor bro here...getting a hp is not cheap for me so i feel i wun wanna get for my fav masseuse. just my thoughts dun zap :P

[dirtymonk82]

Hi Bro, can shed some hint on which HC that gal is working in? She might be doing it to all her regular :rolleyes:

[maninneed]

Hi Bro, can shed some hint on which HC that gal is working in? She might be doing it to all her regular :rolleyes:

Yesterday went to search for a phone. She was mentioning my type of phone which I feedbacked to her that it was $400+. Then she said she doesn’t want as it is too expensive. Hmm.. wonder if this is all the kc trap to get me?

Later I asked her I saw a nice looking old model.. very nice (nokia 7200).. so I asked if she would prefer a nice looking older model or a not so nice looking newer model.. she replied newer model.. #*(@*#.. new model sure ex lah.. haha

Quite lost liao.. haha. Oh, anyway, She’s from a health centre along geylang area. Somewhere opposite mask.. if u know where.. the initials of the three chinese words are d. t.. p.. Got it??:)

[too_hot]

Hi

Jut to add my 2 cents...i tink in the first place when u started buying her the small gifts, u're giving the wrong signals already. It give ppl the idea that u dun mind giving gifts. Hence she is now doing wat some girls (WL or not) tend to do, trying to get freebies from u. It might be a handphone now bt a $1000 loan later...

Hence i never buy gifts and i also seldom tip. Why? If i tip this time, then i gotta tip next time as well. So $20 tip x 5 times = $100 = 1 FJ gone. Maybe i m stingy but this IS a busines transaction - just dat hopefully its a fun one.

For those whom i like, i am just treat them well, tell them they look very beautiful, etc and most important by RTF-ing (pun intended) them regularly, they get more $$ from us. Once u start going into the gray zone with gifts then u're creating ur own problems.

[ccl69]

I guess sometime it is difficult to reject your best masseur if they really open their mouth....i will find it hard. :confused:

[longwinter]

well for me, if she is my regular and someone l really like. And she treats me well.
And happens she ask me for sumtinz, if it is within my budget and l can afford, l will buy la.

For my favourite or regular girl, l usually practise the habit of buying nice food stuffs for her when l visited her during sessions. Then sumtime outside, if l happen to see some small fanciful girls stuffs, and l tink it suits her or she might like it, l will buy for her as well.

but back to topic, so far, my regular or favourite bo ask me for gifts or anything

[Decent Looking]

Just knew a gal frm a massage place.. not my fav but after the first time, she gave me her no. we communicated for a while and she kept having prob with her phone...

she did menitioned why not i get a phone for her so we can communicate better... I did ignored but she did reply me just kidding..

i brought her for supper that night and then hotel for massage.. but ended up she do bbbj and hj after the massage for me after i pulled her over to hug her.. also she commented next time she'll let me do fj.. in the end, she did not ask for any payment from me when we left the hotel.. but in the car, she did asked if i keen to help her get phone..

for the next few days i was busy.. hence, never send her sms.. she sms me saying if i ignored her due to the phone, don't worry cos she can buy herself.. I told her i would get the phone for her..

so how? follow thru? or avoid forever?

My gut feel is this lady is not so gian lui. And she said she could buy the phone herself...

She asked you for a working phone. She did not say what brand or model. So you can give her a 2nd hand working phone. You can get Nokia 2nd hand phone, very reliable. Tell her it's the ability to connect that counts.

If you want to go on, be ready to judge the chick from her ACTIONS, not her words. If actions = words, then r lucky... but beware... wolves tails never so easy to spot... Best of luck :)

[Decent Looking]

Just knew a gal frm a massage place.. not my fav but after the first time, she gave me her no. we communicated for a while and she kept having prob with her phone...

she did menitioned why not i get a phone for her so we can communicate better... I did ignored but she did reply me just kidding..

i brought her for supper that night and then hotel for massage.. but ended up she do bbbj and hj after the massage for me after i pulled her over to hug her.. also she commented next time she'll let me do fj.. in the end, she did not ask for any payment from me when we left the hotel.. but in the car, she did asked if i keen to help her get phone..

for the next few days i was busy.. hence, never send her sms.. she sms me saying if i ignored her due to the phone, don't worry cos she can buy herself.. I told her i would get the phone for her..

so how? follow thru? or avoid forever?

My gut feel is this lady is not so gian lui. And she said she could buy the phone herself...

She asked you for a working phone. She did not say what brand or model. So you can give her a 2nd hand working phone. You can get Nokia 2nd hand phone, very reliable. Tell her it's the ability to connect that counts.

If you want to go on, be ready to judge the chick from her ACTIONS, not her words. If actions = words, then r lucky... but beware... wolves tails never so easy to spot... Best of luck :)

[Decent Looking]

Later I asked her I saw a nice looking old model.. very nice (nokia 7200).. so I asked if she would prefer a nice looking older model or a not so nice looking newer model.. she replied newer model..

Quite lost liao.. haha. Oh, anyway, She’s from a health centre along geylang area. Somewhere opposite mask.. if u know where.. the initials of the three chinese words are d. t.. p.. Got it??:)

You should never give a human choice... between a new model and an old one, even a kid will choose the newer one!!!

[chukeliang]

usually they buy yr heart by buying u makan and drinks, later they ask for hp, and ask u pay for her the phone bill , borow money form u..
(no return of course)

[ang09]

usually they buy yr heart by buying u makan and drinks, later they ask for hp, and ask u pay for her the phone bill , borow money form u..
(no return of course)
lastweek i just went out with one prc from bs. We went chinatown and happened to walk past a hp show. She pulled me in and start to browse though all the latest models. Then she pick up one and ask me can buy for her. i was taken by suprise because this is only our 1st date and she so thick skin to ask gift from me.... i told her i was tight this month and pull her out from the shop and went straight to hotel 81 and fxxx her upside down in the hotel. Paid her 150 buck and on my way home, i delete her hp number from my simcard.

[doinghot]

bro save the money :)

[superfox]

lastweek i just went out with one prc from bs. We went chinatown and happened to walk past a hp show. She pulled me in and start to browse though all the latest models. Then she pick up one and ask me can buy for her. i was taken by suprise because this is only our 1st date and she so thick skin to ask gift from me.... i told her i was tight this month and pull her out from the shop and went straight to hotel 81 and fxxx her upside down in the hotel. Paid her 150 buck and on my way home, i delete her hp number from my simcard.


Upz for u Bro ! I'll do the same if I were u This is why she want to go out with u ,they walk and stand whole night long waiting for customers alredy sipeh sian liao , so day time should be resting but this prc wanted to try her luck for some free gift

some prc sit and drink beers with those ah peh whole day & night Lagi Firece they go for their CPF !

[POSEIDON]

HP?
brother, what handphone you use? buy for them might as well buy for family member right? you pay money to happy they already earn still ask for hp? you try to ask them service you a few time no take money, can or not? if can then buy lor. wu lia wu ke.

if give black face or on the spot ask you to buy. give them 10cent make phone call lor:p

[hock19]

I also don't normally give phones when they ask or bracelets or whatever. But if I have been going out for a girl for a few months - like seeing her every week for say 6 or more months, when they ask for a phone; and if I can afford it at that time, I may give - just a token of appreciation and all that - even though I know that they are out to get as much as they can. But I guess she has to be that extra special - if there is such a thing for China gals!