If you were younger, whom would you choose?

[LeeKH]

I was out having drinks with friends and some of their grown up 20+ year old kids (all males). We were asking one of them, a 20ish, in an overseas university, if he has a girlfriend. He said he didn't cause he didn't know which one to choose. So, in return, he asked us to make a choice for him. The conversation was in fun and nothing serious. Now, I would like to take a straw poll on whom you would choose if you were in his shoes. Let's call the boy Zach. Zach showed us the girls' pictures and gave descriptions (albeit he might have exaggerated as he was drunk). The images shown below is a look alike.

Girl A is a nice pretty girl with conservative dressing. She is slim, A cup, wears long skirts or pants, plays the violin, likes children (she helps out in a children's home). She has a nice smile and is always cheerful. Zach says A never gets upset even when a date goes wrong like him turning up late, restaurant service is bad. She has never rejected his request for sex but she does not dress in the sexy stuff, and her limitation is only in the bedroom, and while passable, not mind blowing stuff. Even during her period, she will offer alternatives like a hand job. In his words, she will try to make happy, but, he wouldn't pay for her blow job. She is a great conversationalist and listens to him when he rants.

She looks like this:
https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSjC-qRvD2MPJ9Nyz8vKliMLTM8SMd01h5ZrA

Girl B has got tatoos, piercings, ear rings, nose ring (didn't mention nipple or clit rings), slightly big sized but not fat, has a whole variety of clothes from tight tank tops revealing her C cup cleavage, short skirts and dress, come fuck me heels. Scuba dives (like him) and surfs. She gets moody when things do not go as planned like having to wait in line to get into a dance club. Zach says she would initiate sex when in the mood, giving a mind blowing blowjobs in the back of the bus/train, changing room. And very vocal and adventurous in bed (no anal but maybe one day). However, when she is moody (for whatever reason), she'll outright reject him. She prefers action to conversation and will tell him to get over it if he goes on about his bad day.

Looks something like this but with cleavage:
https://as1.ftcdn.net/v2/jpg/01/34/40/56/1000_F_134405633_ExBkOK5jIeGgRLVOsX33gOFBfYZ0HCUL. jpg

So, whom would you choose to carry on a long term relationship with?

[178noobnoob]

I would choose B to hang out often but not forgetting A. Reason as follows:
-B is adventurous. Bringing her out means i get to explore more sex options.
-while B is good in sex, sometimes you might just want have a chill and relax session. So A is always there as a ‘back to basic’ kind of sex.
-so if B rejects you for sex, at least you wont blueballs cause you got A to release it for you. Best of both world.

If TS still cant decide, pass to us bros. We will settle for yall.

[Laopizhui]

I would choose B to hang out often but not forgetting A. Reason as follows:
-B is adventurous. Bringing her out means i get to explore more sex options.
-while B is good in sex, sometimes you might just want have a chill and relax session. So A is always there as a ‘back to basic’ kind of sex.
-so if B rejects you for sex, at least you wont blueballs cause you got A to release it for you. Best of both world.

If TS still cant decide, pass to us bros. We will settle for yall.

this bro got the best answer liao

[Marmots]

Girl A.

I used to have a gf like girl A. While she was not resistant to intimate stuff, she was not fully letting go of herself during it.

Patience and understanding, as well as taking the lead slowly changed her and she understood that love making between 2 persons should have no holding back.

If you want oral, you have to do it first to her. Conservative girls will think that below is dirty, not because its unwashed or where its stuff come out from, but because that's what they have been taught.
Guys will have to let the girl know, for him, it is not and go down with relish. And Guys have to show that the girl's enjoyment is important to him.
Also, random regular prolonged hugs(5s and above) are important.

Slowly my girl and I, yeah, best intimacy ever, physically, mentally and emotionally.

And then I went epic dumbass mode and fked everything up.

[LeeKH]

Girl A.

I used to have a gf like girl A. While she was not resistant to intimate stuff, she was not fully letting go of herself during it.

...

And then I went epic dumbass mode and fked everything up.

Ouch. Sorry to hear that. That's why if I could turn back time, I wonder what type of girl would I choose.

[LeeKH]

I would choose B to hang out often but not forgetting A. Reason as follows:
-B is adventurous. Bringing her out means i get to explore more sex options.
-while B is good in sex, sometimes you might just want have a chill and relax session. So A is always there as a ‘back to basic’ kind of sex.
-so if B rejects you for sex, at least you wont blueballs cause you got A to release it for you. Best of both world.

If TS still cant decide, pass to us bros. We will settle for yall.

LOL. Wish I could have that too.

[LeeKH]

In order for the bros here to give you the answer to your question, kindly provide us with the contact for these 2 girls. Once we try them out, we will come back and give you recommendation on which one to chose for LTR. Otherwise we doing u a disservice since we don't know these girls personally to give recommendation. OK?

No prob. Not for me.

[alwaysalone]

A.
Cus can gradually open her up to sex more. Thats part of the thrill? Corrupting her?

B can just keep as back up. Sex will/may turn boring after a while. If always have to watch someone else mood, it will kill the mood for sex anyway.

[bryanlailai]

Definitely A to settle down with.

Life is not all about sex. If u have had temperamental gf , it's very taxing and tiring

[titts82002]

I go for A.

Person can be trained and aligned, with many communication and open conversations.

:)

[wildcard87]

I was out having drinks with friends and some of their grown up 20+ year old kids (all males). We were asking one of them, a 20ish, in an overseas university, if he has a girlfriend. He said he didn't cause he didn't know which one to choose. So, in return, he asked us to make a choice for him. The conversation was in fun and nothing serious. Now, I would like to take a straw poll on whom you would choose if you were in his shoes. Let's call the boy Zach. Zach showed us the girls' pictures and gave descriptions (albeit he might have exaggerated as he was drunk). The images shown below is a look alike.

Girl A is a nice pretty girl with conservative dressing. She is slim, A cup, wears long skirts or pants, plays the violin, likes children (she helps out in a children's home). She has a nice smile and is always cheerful. Zach says A never gets upset even when a date goes wrong like him turning up late, restaurant service is bad. She has never rejected his request for sex but she does not dress in the sexy stuff, and her limitation is only in the bedroom, and while passable, not mind blowing stuff. Even during her period, she will offer alternatives like a hand job. In his words, she will try to make happy, but, he wouldn't pay for her blow job. She is a great conversationalist and listens to him when he rants.

She looks like this:
https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSjC-qRvD2MPJ9Nyz8vKliMLTM8SMd01h5ZrA

Girl B has got tatoos, piercings, ear rings, nose ring (didn't mention nipple or clit rings), slightly big sized but not fat, has a whole variety of clothes from tight tank tops revealing her C cup cleavage, short skirts and dress, come fuck me heels. Scuba dives (like him) and surfs. She gets moody when things do not go as planned like having to wait in line to get into a dance club. Zach says she would initiate sex when in the mood, giving a mind blowing blowjobs in the back of the bus/train, changing room. And very vocal and adventurous in bed (no anal but maybe one day). However, when she is moody (for whatever reason), she'll outright reject him. She prefers action to conversation and will tell him to get over it if he goes on about his bad day.

Looks something like this but with cleavage:
https://as1.ftcdn.net/v2/jpg/01/34/40/56/1000_F_134405633_ExBkOK5jIeGgRLVOsX33gOFBfYZ0HCUL. jpg

So, whom would you choose to carry on a long term relationship with?

A. Was with a girl like B, less the tattoos and piercings. Bedwise was as they say "Devil in the sheets" but as a human being seriously shit. Difficult to get along with, gaslight, tempermental, whims and fancy all the time. Sex without a doubt was good. But ultimately not worth my mental health.

[sexcision]

"A" wife material for sure.

"B" sounds like she's been having fun and had undergone alot of training.
If you like to keep wondering who she had been with or who she's going to be with in the future. Than go for B and enjoy the sex.

But than warning that if she angry with you. You will not be getting any and some lucky guy might be getting it instead, thanks to u making her unhappy.

[Fed02]

At the end most guys will choose A for long term. Intimacy has more meaning if emotionally you are more involved.

But saying all that, I think it depends which girl is more compatible to your personality.

[Snuber]

So, whom would you choose to carry on a long term relationship with?

For most younger males, their choices would be skewered towards B, as she represents fun, excitment, the sort of adrenalin rush that u need when young. But she also sounds like those who advocates "If u can't accept me at my worst, then u dun deserve me at my best" type of shit. Sounds like a walking time-bomb to me, unless she mellows down a lot.

For A, the good thing is she's willing to learn new stuff despite her being "boring". This can mean alot of things if the guy has the patience.

A is the better choice imo

[LeeKH]

A.
Cus can gradually open her up to sex more. Thats part of the thrill? Corrupting her?

B can just keep as back up. Sex will/may turn boring after a while. If always have to watch someone else mood, it will kill the mood for sex anyway.

Same thoughts for B. After a while, it becomes when tiresome wondering what wrong will happen next.

[LeeKH]

"A" wife material for sure.

"B" sounds like she's been having fun and had undergone alot of training.
If you like to keep wondering who she had been with or who she's going to be with in the future. Than go for B and enjoy the sex.

But than warning that if she angry with you. You will not be getting any and some lucky guy might be getting it instead, thanks to u making her unhappy.

Your reply reminded me of a girl I dated. She was temperamental sort and one time she got upset with me about something. Probably told her I couldn't go over to her place due to some project work. I decided to drop by about midnight after completing the project. Lo and behold, an acquaintance car I recognised was parked outside. Long story short, my close friends thanked me for breaking up with her. She was tiring them out too! LOL.

[LeeKH]

At the end most guys will choose A for long term. Intimacy has more meaning if emotionally you are more involved.

But saying all that, I think it depends which girl is more compatible to your personality.

You're right. I didn't mention Zach's personality. He is somewhat a mild mannered person. Somewhat like a mummy's boy. That night, we were all drinking until nonsense starting spilling out of mouths.

[LeeKH]

For A, the good thing is she's willing to learn new stuff despite her being "boring". This can mean alot of things if the guy has the patience.

A is the better choice imo

True. If the girl is willing to make him happy, she'll probably try new things for him.

[Hurricane88]

So, whom would you choose to carry on a long term relationship with?

Why must choose now...:)

If me, I will try to meet more gals before deciding....:)

[estiago]

In order for the bros here to give you the answer to your question, kindly provide us with the contact for these 2 girls. Once we try them out, we will come back and give you recommendation on which one to chose for LTR. Otherwise we doing u a disservice since we don't know these girls personally to give recommendation. OK?

Savage one liao 😂😂

[estiago]

Why must choose now...:)

If me, I will try to meet more gals before deciding....:)

I think I'll do the same.. more options are better 😉

[sexcision]

Your reply reminded me of a girl I dated. She was temperamental sort and one time she got upset with me about something. Probably told her I couldn't go over to her place due to some project work. I decided to drop by about midnight after completing the project. Lo and behold, an acquaintance car I recognised was parked outside. Long story short, my close friends thanked me for breaking up with her. She was tiring them out too! LOL.

Lol wtf, so it means your ex is fucking them till it tired them out?? Nice friends u have there hahaha

[tryying]

A since B is wild and if you cannot satisfy her after some time, standby for a green cap. Maybe A might be wilder than B but she only do it with the one she loves or likes.

[Xgenre]

A. A good conversationalist is hard to find. It's important to grow old with someone who shares your wavelength. If she isn't good in bed, commercial sex is a possible option. Remember, besides being our sex partner, the wife is almost the mother to your future kids. You will want such an important person to be reasonable with right values.

As for B, her strengths are very temporary. Her body won't be as great in future. Her sex skills is the biggest uncertainty. How many of us marry a sex kitten who then move on to deny us sex after marriage and kids? B is like marrying potentially sexless Barbie doll.

[LeeKH]

Lol wtf, so it means your ex is fucking them till it tired them out?? Nice friends u have there hahaha

*ROFL* Maybe.

[LeeKH]

A. A good conversationalist is hard to find. It's important to grow old with someone who shares your wavelength. If she isn't good in bed, commercial sex is a possible option. Remember, besides being our sex partner, the wife is almost the mother to your future kids. You will want such an important person to be reasonable with right values.

As for B, her strengths are very temporary. Her body won't be as great in future. Her sex skills is the biggest uncertainty. How many of us marry a sex kitten who then move on to deny us sex after marriage and kids? B is like marrying potentially sexless Barbie doll.

About someone like A, that's true. In my neighbourhood, I sometimes see this middle age couple sitting at a small-park bench having a few cans of beer, chatting and watching the people drive by.

[LeeKH]

Why must choose now...:)

If me, I will try to meet more gals before deciding....:)

I think I'll do the same.. more options are better 😉

Really depends on him. Whether he wants to snag a good one or someone else will. :)

[asdfkie]

B face CMI so bo bian choose A

[Fed02]

Then the answer is A lor..

Even in a sex forum many samsters still rates an experience high or low base on GFE.

Great sex is easy to come by, spend enough and you will eventually find the right F.

But great relationships are hard to find and even harder to sustain.

[Xgenre]

Anyway, a piece of the advice for the younger guys, wife give birth via c-section can save your marriage. The tightness in her 30s and 40s will help reduce the need for you to eat out. Instead of focusing on A or B, don't forget the C (c-section).:D

[Eric22]

When you are young and horny, you will always choose B for all the excitements. As you aged and when A was already a memories to you then you will realised that A is the one to be settle down with and you have nothing but regrets.

[kookies]

Choose the one who will be a great mother to his kids.

[LeeKH]

Looks like experience shows a girl with a right attitude is favourable in the long term. :)

[titts82002]

Looks like experience shows a girl with a right attitude is favourable in the long term. :)


If you put the surveys out to
The married group
The just married group
The single group

Probably the outcome may be ..?

[LeeKH]

If you put the surveys out to
The married group
The just married group
The single group

Probably the outcome may be ..?

That's an interesting angle.

[xRayx]

Marry A and keep B on the side. :)

[titts82002]

That's an interesting angle.

Actually finally it is still a decision you have to made.
People like us just comment and provide our views for your references, ultimately it is your life and you have to make decision and take charge :)

My best wishes and blessings to you, in whomever you finally decide

[LeeKH]

Actually finally it is still a decision you have to made.
People like us just comment and provide our views for your references, ultimately it is your life and you have to make decision and take charge :)

My best wishes and blessings to you, in whomever you finally decide

Thanks. But not me. Too late for me now. :)

[titts82002]

Thanks. But not me. Too late for me now. :)

To whomever you are asking this for,
Best wishes to his choice and decision. :)