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Exzina
07-09-2023, 07:46 PM
I'm 43 years old. I work remotely. I'm thinking about living in Asia for a while. I'm not rich. My regular income is around $2.000

I'm not looking to have sex with many girls, especially with pros. Mutual sympathy is important to me, I'm looking for a girl who really likes me.

I think I can find a 35+ woman without using the power of money but I'm looking for a beautiful slim girl early twenties. I want to live with the girl and travel with the girl.

The important thing for me is gratitude. I'm looking for a girl who thinks like this: "I found a decent guy. He gives me a life that I wouldn't normally have. I have to make my man happy in bed and in the kitchen. I shouldn't miss this opportunity."

I tried to find this kind of girl in Russia but I wasn't successful. Most of the girls behaved like this: "I'm a young and beautiful girl. There are many rich guys who want me. If I need money, I can find a meeting easily. I don't have to be nice to you. You should be grateful because I gave you pussy."

I am afraid that this situation will repeat in Asian countries. That's why I want to get your opinions and suggestions.

Are young beautiful girls spoiled all over the world now?
In which country can I find the girl I'm looking for easily?

I think if a girl has a Seeking, Tinder account, she's already spoiled for the attention she gets. So I think a girl I will meet in real life will be much better, but where and how should I talk to such a girl?

What do you think? What are your experiences?

johnnydsg
07-09-2023, 10:53 PM
What else can you bring to the table apart from finances? I'm in my 40s, my girlfriend is in her 20s, pretty, huge boobs and always does her best to satisfy me in bed. It is possible BUT my situation differs from you financially though. I'm an middle income earner and keep working hard for more because I want a certain quality of life for myself and my loved ones. I'm not taking a dig at you, to each his own.

Since you work remotely, you can consider moving to another country where the cost of living is a lot lower, such as tier 2 or 3 cities.

The best is to increase your income though.

SirLance
08-09-2023, 05:48 AM
Not sure where TS is looking for?

Also why he cannot earn more money?

Sounds like big loser?

bignehneh
08-09-2023, 06:15 AM
What else can you bring to the table apart from finances? I'm in my 40s, my girlfriend is in her 20s, pretty, huge boobs and always does her best to satisfy me in bed. It is possible BUT my situation differs from you financially though. I'm an middle income earner and keep working hard for more because I want a certain quality of life for myself and my loved ones. I'm not taking a dig at you, to each his own.

Since you work remotely, you can consider moving to another country where the cost of living is a lot lower, such as tier 2 or 3 cities.

The best is to increase your income though.

Gf local or foreigner?

bignehneh
08-09-2023, 06:18 AM
I'm 43 years old. I work remotely. I'm thinking about living in Asia for a while. I'm not rich. My regular income is around $2.000

I'm not looking to have sex with many girls, especially with pros. Mutual sympathy is important to me, I'm looking for a girl who really likes me.

I think I can find a 35+ woman without using the power of money but I'm looking for a beautiful slim girl early twenties. I want to live with the girl and travel with the girl.

The important thing for me is gratitude. I'm looking for a girl who thinks like this: "I found a decent guy. He gives me a life that I wouldn't normally have. I have to make my man happy in bed and in the kitchen. I shouldn't miss this opportunity."

I tried to find this kind of girl in Russia but I wasn't successful. Most of the girls behaved like this: "I'm a young and beautiful girl. There are many rich guys who want me. If I need money, I can find a meeting easily. I don't have to be nice to you. You should be grateful because I gave you pussy."

I am afraid that this situation will repeat in Asian countries. That's why I want to get your opinions and suggestions.

Are young beautiful girls spoiled all over the world now?
In which country can I find the girl I'm looking for easily?

I think if a girl has a Seeking, Tinder account, she's already spoiled for the attention she gets. So I think a girl I will meet in real life will be much better, but where and how should I talk to such a girl?

What do you think? What are your experiences?

Not easy. Dino Bu probably but no chio bu…I know some single women in their 40s and quite easy to hit on them. They need great care, love and conversation…most of them are rich and successful so don’t need much money ….

Also drive fancy cars like Bentley, Maserati …but u need to endure their craziness at times. Usually single old women got some issue one …

Shiofukis
08-09-2023, 08:00 AM
$2.000 or $2,000? Which currency?

albertlimCC
08-09-2023, 08:06 AM
I'm 43 years old. I work remotely. I'm thinking about living in Asia for a while. I'm not rich. My regular income is around $2.000

I'm not looking to have sex with many girls, especially with pros. Mutual sympathy is important to me, I'm looking for a girl who really likes me.

I think I can find a 35+ woman without using the power of money but I'm looking for a beautiful slim girl early twenties. I want to live with the girl and travel with the girl.

The important thing for me is gratitude. I'm looking for a girl who thinks like this: "I found a decent guy. He gives me a life that I wouldn't normally have. I have to make my man happy in bed and in the kitchen. I shouldn't miss this opportunity."

I tried to find this kind of girl in Russia but I wasn't successful. Most of the girls behaved like this: "I'm a young and beautiful girl. There are many rich guys who want me. If I need money, I can find a meeting easily. I don't have to be nice to you. You should be grateful because I gave you pussy."

I am afraid that this situation will repeat in Asian countries. That's why I want to get your opinions and suggestions.

Are young beautiful girls spoiled all over the world now?
In which country can I find the girl I'm looking for easily?

I think if a girl has a Seeking, Tinder account, she's already spoiled for the attention she gets. So I think a girl I will meet in real life will be much better, but where and how should I talk to such a girl?

What do you think? What are your experiences?

I am afraid you will face the same issue in Asia as well. Unless you venture into the villages whereby their income level is really low. Otherwise your current financial status will leads you to nowhere.

Maji
08-09-2023, 09:19 AM
I'm 43 years old. I work remotely. I'm thinking about living in Asia for a while. I'm not rich. My regular income is around $2.000

I'm not looking to have sex with many girls, especially with pros. Mutual sympathy is important to me, I'm looking for a girl who really likes me.

I think I can find a 35+ woman without using the power of money but I'm looking for a beautiful slim girl early twenties. I want to live with the girl and travel with the girl.

The important thing for me is gratitude. I'm looking for a girl who thinks like this: "I found a decent guy. He gives me a life that I wouldn't normally have. I have to make my man happy in bed and in the kitchen. I shouldn't miss this opportunity."

I tried to find this kind of girl in Russia but I wasn't successful. Most of the girls behaved like this: "I'm
What do you think? What are your experiences?

Go spend your cpf in bangkok bro

NottyMonkey
08-09-2023, 10:53 AM
In which country can I find the girl I'm looking for easily?



Africa, go find the aborigines

Gorillazx1000
08-09-2023, 01:31 PM
Africa, go find the aborigines

He needs to fight all the African dicks. Unless he has a 14inch dick, it will be hard for him.

sammyboyfor
08-09-2023, 01:57 PM
The important thing for me is gratitude. I'm looking for a girl who thinks like this: "I found a decent guy. He gives me a life that I wouldn't normally have. I have to make my man happy in bed and in the kitchen. I shouldn't miss this opportunity."



Gratitude is the least felt of all human emotions and even when it does come to the surface it is usually short lived. :p After a while it is replaced by the usual negative feelings like resentment, jealousy etc.

However I have a hint and that is if you want to judge a girl's character you need to observe how she treats her family plus those who are below her in stature.

A nice, kind person is far more likely to feel grateful than a self centered one and you get a pretty good gauge by observing the interactions with siblings, parents and service staff.

Your chances of finding the characteristics you seek are very low in brothels, bars and KTV joints. The girls there have been through the hard knocks of life and view men as ATMs first and foremost.

The odds will be far better if seek out the nice ladies who do social work, animal welfare etc.

Just my observations from many years of living on this planet.

91nova
08-09-2023, 02:19 PM
In my experience, $2,000 a month can go a long way in some Asian countries,
but better check out the cost of living in the specific place you're eyeing.
Places like Thailand, Vietnam, or even Malaysia can offer a decent lifestyle on that budget.

Now, about finding the right girl, I still believe, possible and it's important to approach things with sincerity.
You're right about real-life connections being more genuine than apps like Seeking or Tinder.
Maybe try joining some local communities or groups with shared interests.
That way, you can meet people naturally.

Also, it's not about finding just a pretty face, but someone who appreciates what you bring to the table.
Communication is key, make sure you both understand each other's expectations and values.

Remember, it's not about buying affection, but creating a partnership built on respect and care.
So don't worry about it. Take your time to know the person, and hopefully, you'll find that special someone who shares your outlook on life.

Exzina
08-09-2023, 03:51 PM
$2.000 or $2,000? Which currency?
United State's Dollar

loneyheart
08-09-2023, 04:13 PM
At 43 Ang Mo with income USD2K ... bro SG not a place for u :)

looney83
08-09-2023, 04:15 PM
that's your gross? or your take back after our CPF taxes?

to be honest, if u are earning this kind of income in today context you are just too lazy. unless u have certain illness then i'm sorry.. no girls will want to go through hard life with you, especially you are 43 yrs old now. if you are telling me you are only 25yrs old, the girl might give u a chance if you have certain goals in life.

else you can just rely in your fantasy dream and couple of lubricants to help u settle your sex urges.

sammyboyfor
08-09-2023, 05:31 PM
that's your gross? or your take back after our CPF taxes?



I doubt very much that remote work will involve CPF contributions.

USD2000 is a decent amount for a digital nomad in a cheap Asian country.

Lovesit757
10-09-2023, 04:45 PM
Hi Exzina

I would definitely rule out Singapore and Hong Kong from your list of Asian countries. Much too expensive to live on what you are looking to achieve although I will let other posters comment.

I have just been to Penang and Kuala Lumpur in Malaysia where it is significantly (1/3rd) cheaper to live than Singapore. I didn’t get the opportunity to scope out the scene for what you are looking for but from a standard/ cost of living perspective, I would say that you would enjoy yourself living in either city.

Thailand/ Philippines/ Vietnam are other options to consider but not been since the pandemic so cannot comment.

Have a look at the International Sex Guide forum on Rio de Janeiro. It sounds like a lot of people living there are enjoying your ideal scenario specifically referencing 20 year olds that give them exactly what you are looking for.

Good luck. I hope you manage to find her.

dyelook
10-09-2023, 08:16 PM
The important thing for me is gratitude. I'm looking for a girl who thinks like this: "I found a decent guy. He gives me a life that I wouldn't normally have. I have to make my man happy in bed and in the kitchen. I shouldn't miss this opportunity."

I tried to find this kind of girl in Russia but I wasn't successful. Most of the girls behaved like this: "I'm a young and beautiful girl. There are many rich guys who want me. If I need money, I can find a meeting easily. I don't have to be nice to you. You should be grateful because I gave you pussy."

almost 99% of average to pretty girls have this kind of mentality in this rat race planet @ earth, so finding the remaining 1% will be like striking jackpot...;)

Offline
19-09-2023, 06:35 PM
Maybe try some oppressed or disadvantaged people.

Like the Rohingyas, or minorities at remote areas in China's mountainous region.
Nepal has Asia's lowest income per capita, but I think their cost of living and expectations are on the low side too, can't expect people to have gratitude to what they did not ask for.

Or just search for lowest income per capita countries.

Honestly though, you really do not have much to offer, especially if you are looking for gratitude.

LordVader
20-09-2023, 08:25 AM
I'm 43 years old. My regular income is around $2.000

Sorry to burst your bubble but even if this is in $Euros, you aren't earning much at your age group.

Your best bet is to work/stay in Thailand, Indonesia or Philippines.

Singapore is way out of your budget.

Money talks, bullshit walks.

donut88
20-09-2023, 12:42 PM
Even a waiter earns more than you, bro.

Time to rethink about yr life




I'm 43 years old. I work remotely. I'm thinking about living in Asia for a while. I'm not rich. My regular income is around $2.000

I'm not looking to have sex with many girls, especially with pros. Mutual sympathy is important to me, I'm looking for a girl who really likes me.

I think I can find a 35+ woman without using the power of money but I'm looking for a beautiful slim girl early twenties. I want to live with the girl and travel with the girl.

The important thing for me is gratitude. I'm looking for a girl who thinks like this: "I found a decent guy. He gives me a life that I wouldn't normally have. I have to make my man happy in bed and in the kitchen. I shouldn't miss this opportunity."

I tried to find this kind of girl in Russia but I wasn't successful. Most of the girls behaved like this: "I'm a young and beautiful girl. There are many rich guys who want me. If I need money, I can find a meeting easily. I don't have to be nice to you. You should be grateful because I gave you pussy."

I am afraid that this situation will repeat in Asian countries. That's why I want to get your opinions and suggestions.

Are young beautiful girls spoiled all over the world now?
In which country can I find the girl I'm looking for easily?

I think if a girl has a Seeking, Tinder account, she's already spoiled for the attention she gets. So I think a girl I will meet in real life will be much better, but where and how should I talk to such a girl?

What do you think? What are your experiences?

Marmots
20-09-2023, 04:37 PM
I do not think Asia can give him what he wants.

Short of developed countries eg Singapore, Taiwan, Korea, Japan, he can only try the developing countries, eg Thailand, Philippines, Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia.

But in those countries, you don't date just the girl, it comes with a whole package of familial ties as well.
It will not be just what one can do for the girl, but also for her family.
If being with an outsider/foreigner can't make life better for her family, than the consensus will be - What's the point ? A local guy at a much younger age than you will have much more potential.
2k per month for 2 in some countries can be pretty good, but when you include the family even for casual expenditure, it will be far from adequate.

looney83
20-09-2023, 11:12 PM
more likely a troll thread.

TS run road already.