Women on dating app - What are they thinking?

[Lemonjuice]

I am married but going on dating app to find ladies who like a one-off or regular sexual relationship.

The women I matched are in the 30s and 40s and stated single or divorced. I wonder if these women really thought of finding companion or partners to settle down, or they are also looking for sex partners. I mean, what are the odds of men around their age who are still single?

Unfortunately, being married is usually the show stopper for them. Why can't we enjoy sex as man and woman, and not see each other as potential life partners?

[secretlurker88]

I am married but going on dating app to find ladies who like a one-off or regular sexual relationship.

The women I matched are in the 30s and 40s and stated single or divorced. I wonder if these women really thought of finding companion or partners to settle down, or they are also looking for sex partners. I mean, what are the odds of men around their age who are still single?

Unfortunately, being married is usually the show stopper for them. Why can't we enjoy sex as man and woman, and not see each other as potential life partners?

would you mind if your current wife was eating outside and having other partners?

[alea]

I am married but going on dating app to find ladies who like a one-off or regular sexual relationship.

The women I matched are in the 30s and 40s and stated single or divorced. I wonder if these women really thought of finding companion or partners to settle down, or they are also looking for sex partners. I mean, what are the odds of men around their age who are still single?

Unfortunately, being married is usually the show stopper for them. Why can't we enjoy sex as man and woman, and not see each other as potential life partners?

Even if they are looking for quick flings, I think they prefer unmarried guys because don’t have to worry about guys’ wives finding out and creating trouble.

[justin69]

Even if they are looking for quick flings, I think they prefer unmarried guys because don’t have to worry about guys’ wives finding out and creating trouble.
I would say that those who are married prefer someone who is also married, so they know it is just an affair and they do not expect problems when the other party gets stickier.

At least this is what I feel and looking for, married woman.

[Xgenre]

Girls have sexual needs too. Guys can go geylang or spas but where do girls go? Going on apps is one way to find a partner. They also know 80% of the guys on apps are looking for sex but they have to make up a story about "looking for interesting people to chat with". Many smart girls pretend to be stupid so that guys believe these girls give in to sex after a successful chase. They pretend they cannot resist your charms. The cunning ones don't mind breaking up families to get their men. If no other girl want, then this man I also don't want.

The other reason is for self-esteem. You can have an antique vase which you believe is worth $1 m at home. But if no one actually makes a $1 m offer to buy, the vase only have a paper/indicative value. A girl may feel attractive but if no men tries to woo her or make her an indecent offer, her attractiveness is just paper/indicative value. I think most girls will feel flattered when they are flooded with friend requests and people queuing up to meet her. Notice how guys and girls are different in the photos posted. Many ladies post full photos while not all guys show too much of their lives in the app.

The last category is out for revenge. Husband cheated on our marriage. I will cheat on our marriage too. If he thinks other girls are better than me, I will show him how desirable I am to other men. Sadly, all it takes are compliments and justification to woo these girls. Just compliement them on how attractive they are and inflate their ego. Then agree with them that their course of action is justified. You are just doing what he did to you. Just following husband's lead. Ya loh. you are right. I can understand why you are doing this

[JusonSoong]

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[Lemonjuice]

Still think women in their 30s , 40s finding love on dating app to be overly optimistic

At that age, why not just enjoy company n sex?