Legality of sugar dating?

[weefred]

Hi guys, don't know where to ask this kind of question, but if it's not appropriate please tell me ya?

Ok firstly, sugar dating is legal in sg right? But prostitution is not? Am i right? So you can date a sugar daddy and get paid but mostly but surely ended up having sex with them, it's legal? But you cannot straight say you want money for sex right? Anyone care to explain how it actually works?

And here is my real question. I have cuckold fetish. And my wife is very open to fulfilled it for me(she already does actually) but she want some pocket money for it. So i cannot straight find guys to up her and get paid right? It's illegal right?
But I can advertise her as finding sugar daddy with a twist, im with her all the time, including the finale. Does it even work like that? Any expert bro please advise. Thanks

[sexcision]

Put it in simple way. Prostitution is legal if the government got paid in tax.

[weefred]

Put it in simple way. Prostitution is legal if the government got paid in tax.

Yeah i know that uh. But sugar dating is legal even when gov never receive tax uh.

[Xgenre]

Do anything you want but don't get caught. Prostitution is ok but soliciting isn't. So if a guy offers to pay her and she accepts, it's ok. If she proposes sex for a fee, she may be in trouble. If you help her to arrange a paid arrangement, you better make sure the money doesn't benefit you in any way. Living off immoral earnings is a legal issue too.

Better to discuss in person and not have any trace via whatsapp or any communication mode.

[weefred]

Do anything you want but don't get caught. Prostitution is ok but soliciting isn't. So if a guy offers to pay her and she accepts, it's ok. If she proposes sex for a fee, she may be in trouble. If you help her to arrange a paid arrangement, you better make sure the money doesn't benefit you in any way. Living off immoral earnings is a legal issue too.

Better to discuss in person and not have any trace via whatsapp or any communication mode.


Yeah i guess it's pretty much a grey zone that don't really have an answer uh? But thanks for the tips haha.

[Chua Soi Lek]

I have cuckold fetish. And my wife is very open to fulfilled it for me(she already does actually) but she want some pocket money for it.

U sure or not ?

[weefred]

U sure or not ?

Sure of what? My fetish? Yeah? We already tried with few guys already uh haha. Just wondering what we doing now is dangerous or not.

[SirLance]

Do anything you want but don't get caught. Prostitution is ok but soliciting isn't. So if a guy offers to pay her and she accepts, it's ok. If she proposes sex for a fee, she may be in trouble. If you help her to arrange a paid arrangement, you better make sure the money doesn't benefit you in any way. Living off immoral earnings is a legal issue too.

Better to discuss in person and not have any trace via whatsapp or any communication mode.

This is absolutely correct.

I dun think TS understood and certainly he was confused.

[SirLance]

And here is my real question. I have cuckold fetish. And my wife is very open to fulfilled it for me(she already does actually) but she want some pocket money for it. So i cannot straight find guys to up her and get paid right? It's illegal right?
But I can advertise her as finding sugar daddy with a twist, im with her all the time, including the finale. Does it even work like that? Any expert bro please advise. Thanks

Your wife is married to you and why bother to find sugar daddy? So she gets paid for providing sexual services?

Why dun just provide sex and get paid instead of looking for sugar daddy? Dun think anyone keen to be sugar daddy to a married woman.

[Xgenre]

Nice one, prostituting his own wife. HAHAHA.
The pimp is the husband. HAHAHA.

I don't think he sees it this way. He wants to watch his wife getting fucked but his wife doesn't want to be fucked for free. Whoever agrees to his deal need to know he will be present during sex.

[Hurricane88]

I don't think he sees it this way. He wants to watch his wife getting fucked but his wife doesn't want to be fucked for free. Whoever agrees to his deal need to know he will be present during sex.

This is really crazy idea...anyone agreed will be damn...which men will allow husband watching wife been farked...:)

[oxeso]

I not sexpert.. if i let u watch, fulfill ur cuckold fetish, u should pay me ma! :mad:

Is tat legal? :confused:

[Dignified69]

lots of bruh not up to date on area of fetish and specifically cuckold fetish. Gaahmen must provide some (inter)course on skills future.

[Amor]

Wife don't mind getting banged so husband can fulfil fetish.
Wife wants money for getting banged and husband wants to watch.

You need to find someone with something like selective exhibition/being watched fetish ?

You will have to balance the attractiveness of your wife vs compensation.
When money is involved, your wife will just become one of many many options out there.

[weefred]

Your wife is married to you and why bother to find sugar daddy? So she gets paid for providing sexual services?

Why dun just provide sex and get paid instead of looking for sugar daddy? Dun think anyone keen to be sugar daddy to a married woman.

That's the issue uh, don't think you actually understand what I'm saying. She likes to perform for me. But all the guys we met cant really make it. They are either too nervous or can't last more than 5 min. Hence she wanted to gain something from it.

Yeah,i can ask the guy to pay her and she serve him (we did it many times already actually) the thing I'm wondering is that sugar dating is actually prostitution, but why is it legal? And I'm trying to do it so that i can enjoy cuckold life without worrying much?

[weefred]

Wife don't mind getting banged so husband can fulfil fetish.
Wife wants money for getting banged and husband wants to watch.

You need to find someone with something like selective exhibition/being watched fetish ?

You will have to balance the attractiveness of your wife vs compensation.
When money is involved, your wife will just become one of many many options out there.

Yup yup, you don't need to worry about that haha. I'm just wondering is there any way to do it without worrying lo haha. But i don't think there's a way. I just find it funny that girls can go around advertising being a sugar baby without worry they might get attacked by authorities. You know what i mean?

[weefred]

This is one of the most brainless and confusing post I have ever seen. Let me try and decipher it for the bros here.

"I am a cuckold pimp. My ho is also my wife. I am pimping her out. Guys must pay to fuck her. I want to watch the guys fucking her. I don't know why any customer who pays to fuck a girl would want to have their husband in the same room and at the same time. But don't let my lack of reality deter you. I am too chicken shit to advertise her service as a ho. So, can I call her a sugar baby instead. Legal or not hor? "

Does that sum it up?

If you don't understand what's a cuckold fetish, don't bother reply can?

She doesn't want to do it for free as most sg guys sucks in bed. We did it for free most of the time. But she wanted to gain something from it and perform a show.

But yes I'm just wondering why sugar dating is not illegal as to solicitation, is basically the same thing. So we wanted to see if we can do it without causing any issues.

So yeah, she don't want to perform for me if she doesn't gain something from it, she didn't want my money either. Is it that hard to understand?

[Mexes]

Im sorry, I just can't wrap my head around this cuckold thing, maybe I old fashioned.

Just seems such a contradiction in terms.

The best is maybe compare it to Jazz music, some people think its great music, some don't understand it at all.

No good, no bad, just is.
I belong to the group that don't understand.
If I had a friend that did this in rl, I won't disapprove or frown on(nothing to disapprove or frown on), but I would be very curious to understand the underlying motivation.

[weefred]

Im sorry, I just can't wrap my head around this cuckold thing, maybe I old fashioned.

Just seems such a contradiction in terms.

The best is maybe compare it to Jazz music, some people think its great music, some don't understand it at all.

No good, no bad, just is.
I belong to the group that don't understand.
If I had a friend that did this in rl, I won't disapprove or frown on(nothing to disapprove or frown on), but I would be very curious to understand the underlying motivation.

Haha it's a sperm competition mindset ba, not everyone will understand. It just make us crave for the wife more if we see them having sex and enjoying it with other guy. It's a rare fetish hence most ppl will trash those that want their wife to fuck other guy.

[geckoSG]

Do whatever you want, dun get caught.

The thing is be careful with whom your spouse is fucking with.

Dun get into a situation where she gets back mailed, there are a lot of such people here in the country.

And of cos, FWB relationship is between your spouse and her BF.

[weefred]

Do whatever you want, dun get caught.

The thing is be careful with whom your spouse is fucking with.

Dun get into a situation where she gets back mailed, there are a lot of such people here in the country.

And of cos, FWB relationship is between your spouse and her BF.

Yeah, we did it for awhile already actually, but now she's kinda afraid of legality issue lo. Guess i won't get to see it for some time haha

[Vance]

go check orgies/swing forum and see how money is subtly hinted at.
how are you with the other way round, you do I watch.
i would be keen :)

[donut88]

Do anything u wan, just don't get caught. That's the motto.

It's your wife, and your life. I don't mind trying yr wife but will u be watching us?

[weefred]

go check orgies/swing forum and see how money is subtly hinted at.
how are you with the other way round, you do I watch.
i would be keen :)

Yeah we found quite alot guys from there already hahaha. But thanks ya, you can't be the watcher, only the doer hahaha

[weefred]

Do anything u wan, just don't get caught. That's the motto.

It's your wife, and your life. I don't mind trying yr wife but will u be watching us?

Yeah NS motto lo. But my wife didn't serve NS so she's worried about the issue we might encounter haha.

Yeah I'm always watching from the side. Many bro very interested to try actually, but most too nervous when the action started.

[geckoSG]

Yeah, we did it for awhile already actually, but now she's kinda afraid of legality issue lo. Guess i won't get to see it for some time haha

Do it with someone that you have done it before. Trust is the key word here.

[weefred]

Do it with someone that you have done it before. Trust is the key word here.

Yup yup been doing that so far! But still, why is sugar dating legal ah? Hahaha

[Northern]

Yeah we found quite alot guys from there already hahaha. But thanks ya, you can't be the watcher, only the doer hahaha

lol, this is funny.

I imagine a teacher saying to a student:

" No ! You cannot watch, you must fuck so I can see how good you are !! "

[Mexes]

but I would be very curious to understand the underlying motivation.

Haha it's a sperm competition mindset ba, not everyone will understand.

I think I may have figured it out.
If my gf asks me if I would like to have a 3some with one of her gfs, I would be heck yeah.
But if 3some with one of her guy friends, hell no, ownership/exclusivity= double standards thing.

But then, the gf will not become wife, and if wife will divorce if she mentions such a thing.
The base understanding is more convoluted, but I think I get the gist.
Can understand, but not for personal consumption.

[weefred]

I think I may have figured it out.
If my gf asks me if I would like to have a 3some with one of her gfs, I would be heck yeah.
But if 3some with one of her guy friends, hell no, ownership/exclusivity= double standards thing.

But then, the gf will not become wife, and if wife will divorce if she mentions such a thing.
The base understanding is more convoluted, but I think I get the gist.
Can understand, but not for personal consumption.

Yeah normal guys is marry a girl and go outside fuck around. Cuckold guy is marry and let the wife fuck around, the more they fuck the more the cuckold guy love them.
Not something comprehensible by most of the ppl i guess?

[weefred]

U are the one that don't understand shit. Firstly, you don't have a cuckold fetish. Your wife is fucking for money and you are trying to get her clients that will pay. SO u are the pimp. Which part of this is confusing to you?

Secondly, if any guy is going to pay a girl for sex, (and I have done that many times), the guy does not want the girl's husband/boyfriend in the same room. Why should they allow this? They can go and fuck some girl one on one, why would want to see your face there?

Bro, you didn't have the fetish, so please don't act like you know everything. Acting all high and mighty doesn't make you the pro here.

We already tried many guy for free, they suck badly, really really badly until she so bored of it. Hence she's the one that wanted to earn something from it. Just like all the sugar baby out there.
since i love seeing her fuck other guys, she's more than willing to do it for me. Understand some basic cuckold fetish before you go around acting all high and mighty.

And before you go all pro to assume that no one will do that. You're damn wrong, there's like more than 10 guys texted us every single day till we have to stop our post from continuing. Plenty of guy so willingly want to pay us to fuck her while i watch, or join in for 3P. So do some research or even check my posting before throwing around your insult.

Talking like some saint doesn't make you one. Every one here in this forum is doing some fuck up shit.

[Xgenre]

Bro, you didn't have the fetish, so please don't act like you know everything. Acting all high and mighty doesn't make you the pro here.

Talking like some saint doesn't make you one. Every one here in this forum is doing some fuck up shit.

Let him be. He is the forum's in-house IMH samster. He posts idiotic comments in order to provoke a negative response. By causing you to make a big hoo-ha, he feels powerful in his crazy world. We should have compassion to the intellectually disabled.

Better for you to be a cuckold in the bedroom than for you to follow him and be a cuckoo in the brain. :D

[weefred]

Let him be. He is the forum's in-house IMH samster. He posts idiotic comments in order to provoke a negative response. By causing you to make a big hoo-ha, he feels powerful in his crazy world. We should have compassion to the intellectually disabled.

Better for you to be a cuckold in the bedroom than for you to follow him and be a cuckoo in the brain. :D

Haha really uh? Kinda rarely been here till recently cause my wife teased me every night to find guys for her. But yeah thanks for the notice haha.

[weefred]

Since u have shit for brains and an IQ of 10. Let me explain something to u slowly. I don't care whether your wife is bored, or horny, or whatever shit, the minute she start asking for money, she is a pros, whore, hooker, etc. And since you are soliciting clients for her, you are the pimp. Got it?

U can call her a sugar baby, call yourself a cuckold, etc. it doesn't change anything. Whatever you refer to yourself as sugarbaby and cuckold in legal terms still means u are both prostitute and pimp. U have no idea what is the real cuckold lifestyle, so stop insulting people in it.

Ding dong ding dong xiao lang many many hahah! Life must be so harsh to you, need papa san sayang you?

[Mexes]

Not something comprehensible by most of the ppl i guess?

I don't comprehend it either.
What I understand is that everyone has a trigger, or deep seated desire.
It gives great satisfaction and joy and we strive for it.
Different for everyone.
Mine is just the more common 1M, more Fs the better.

And yours is what you said.

Have Fun !! ;)

[weefred]

I don't comprehend it either.
What I understand is that everyone has a trigger, or deep seated desire.
It gives great satisfaction and joy and we strive for it.
Different for everyone.
Mine is just the more common 1M, more Fs the better.

And yours is what you said.

Have Fun !! ;)

Yup yup, fetish is a weird thing. Don't understand those with BDSM fetish also. Why like to see girl in pain or suffering. I prefer to see girl enjoying sex to the maximum.

Especially my wife,The face she show me when making love with other guys give me butterfly in the stomach everytime. But sadly when there's another pair of eyes in the room,most guys can't perform well hahahah.

[Vance]

Yeah we found quite alot guys from there already hahaha. But thanks ya, you can't be the watcher, only the doer hahaha

Well, at least I tried :D:cool:

[weefred]

Well, at least I tried :D:cool:

Well, if you ever saw me posting about organising a gangbang for my wife, can try your luck again lo, we can watch together by then!

[whatdoido]

Well, if you ever saw me posting about organising a gangbang for my wife, can try your luck again lo, we can watch together by then!

Just Do It. Don watch

[weefred]

Just Do It. Don watch

Yup yup most of the time i join in for 3P uh. But many of them very homophobic,i go closer to my wife they become soft like jellyfish riao.

As for GB she wanted it so much, but don't think it's easy to organise. Who's gonna pay for everything? And will everyone follow our rules? So yeah probably in the future when we have few trustable and well performing guys.

[geckoSG]

Yup yup most of the time i join in for 3P uh. But many of them very homophobic,i go closer to my wife they become soft like jellyfish riao.

As for GB she wanted it so much, but don't think it's easy to organise. Who's gonna pay for everything? And will everyone follow our rules? So yeah probably in the future when we have few trustable and well performing guys.

Some guys easily get soft. I tried 3some b4. the guy can't stand, end up i am the only one satisfying the lady.

[weefred]

Some guys easily get soft. I tried 3some b4. the guy can't stand, end up i am the only one satisfying the lady.

Ya lo. But currently we have one hotwife bull in our run, damn he can fuck her for 2 hours straight without stopping sia. But in the end my wife still defeated him. But damn man, the show was out of this world.

[weefred]

How many times did that guy cum.
Your wife defeated him meaning he cum before your wife cum?

He came once in the first 15 min when my wife rode him. We had a smoke. After the smoke my wife make him hard af again, he proceeded to fuck her like some crazy rabbit for 2 hours straight, the whole bed was wet with their sweat. But you're correct my wife didnt even cum once during our 3 hours session. He ran out of energy hahahah.

[weefred]

Your wife was just following through the action, no enjoyment at all.
Definitely felt painful.
If she wants to cum, that guy must have invested a fair amount of companionship time with her which might be none other than yourself. HAHAHA.

Nope,she was wet like waterfall throughout the 3 hours. She look at me while he doggy her and smile everytime. She now everyday tell me she wanted him again for free. But the guy seems to be missing liao. Never contact us again, sadly. We might have to text him ourselves.

[geckoSG]

Nope,she was wet like waterfall throughout the 3 hours. She look at me while he doggy her and smile everytime. She now everyday tell me she wanted him again for free. But the guy seems to be missing liao. Never contact us again, sadly. We might have to text him ourselves.

If she didn't cum, maybe something is not right here. Cos ladies cum fast if they are excited about the guy. They can cum many times. Mine cum within 5 mins if they are excited about me... so... I think something is not really right

But, nevertheless, the energy from a woman, you need many men to handle her.

[weefred]

If she didn't cum, maybe something is not right here. Cos ladies cum fast if they are excited about the guy. They can cum many times. Mine cum within 5 mins if they are excited about me... so... I think something is not really right

But, nevertheless, the energy from a woman, you need many men to handle her.

It's literally quite impossible to hit her Gspot. All her 40 plus FWBs didn't do it, but i managed to make her squirt the first time we had sex. That's why she's stucked to me for 6 years liao, made her squirted last night as well , currently at bintan for our sexcation.

[weefred]

yeah, i have to agree with the other bro.
If she didn't cum, she didn't enjoy it very much. That's the pinnacle of sex.
Producing natural lubricant is the bare minimum when someone is arouse. That is the most basic. HAHAHA.

That guy might be the best among all the others who pm-ed. HAHAHA.

Her colleagues/friends might be able to make her cum. HAHAHA.

Yeah probably lo, she's performing for me only ma. That's why she wanted the pocket money uh. She just always horny and like to see me craving for her lo

[peperlunch]

specifically cuckold fetish