Advice needed on STD.

[HarumaJitsu]

Hi All,

Intentions was to go for a massage with HJ, However ML suddenly blow my dick and asked if I wanted that kind of extra services instead with top up, I immediately reject and told her to get off. Lasted for max max 10 sec’s or less. (Eyes was closed, light is dims. Thought that is was lube and hand, but feel that is different hence immediately open eye and realised is a BJ, immediately reject and stop her).

Some history: No commercial blowjob or sex for the past 3 year. Stop everything due to married and plan to commit to family. As well as done a full test before attached to CO and ensure everything is cleared.

Currently CO is expecting, this is why I’m so worried of any potential STD that might harm her or baby. However considering that BlowJob lasted for less than 10 sec’s immediately proceed to shower, what are the risk here? Need to go for a screening?

Last time always engage in BBBJ and Cap FJ but never have this kind of worrys, but now that married and CO is expecting, suddenly the mental stress is different and overwhelm.

Need real advise and please help a stress bro here… Thank in advance!

[Big Sexy]

if it is BJ then you have very little to worry but how did u get capped without knowing it?:confused:

if it was BBBJ then it is another story
read this sticky by sam (https://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=201333)

but feel that is different hence immediately open eye and realised is a BJ, immediately reject and stop her).

what are the risk here? Need to go for a screening?

[sammyboyfor]

Hi All,

Intentions was to go for a massage with HJ, However ML suddenly blow my dick and asked if I wanted that kind of extra services instead with top up, I immediately reject and told her to get off. Lasted for max max 10 sec’s or less. (Eyes was closed, light is dims. Thought that is was lube and hand, but feel that is different hence immediately open eye and realised is a BJ, immediately reject and stop her).

Some history: No commercial blowjob or sex for the past 3 year. Stop everything due to married and plan to commit to family. As well as done a full test before attached to CO and ensure everything is cleared.

Currently CO is expecting, this is why I’m so worried of any potential STD that might harm her or baby. However considering that BlowJob lasted for less than 10 sec’s immediately proceed to shower, what are the risk here? Need to go for a screening?

Last time always engage in BBBJ and Cap FJ but never have this kind of worrys, but now that married and CO is expecting, suddenly the mental stress is different and overwhelm.

Need real advise and please help a stress bro here… Thank in advance!

Chances of catching anything are very low. If you've had BBBJs in the past you have probably already been exposed to viruses like HSV and HPV so another 10 seconds isn't going to change anything.

[HarumaJitsu]

if it is BJ then you have very little to worry but how did u get capped without knowing it?:confused:

if it was BBBJ then it is another story
read this sticky by sam (https://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=201333)

Hi, It was a BBBJ. The massage place is not a full service place and they don’t offer anything more than HJ. However I think this ml wanted to earn more, hence other than HJ was offered.

Not sure if a 10sec’s or less BBBJ, would I need to get it tested it out. Considering that fact that CO is expecting now. Doesn’t want to get my love one into trouble of any STI.

[HarumaJitsu]

Chances of catching anything are very low. If you've had BBBJs in the past you have probably already been exposed to viruses like HSV and HPV so another 10 seconds isn't going to change anything.

Hi, Thank you for your reply. Noted on the chances of low.

Agreed regarding the HSV and HPV, Thats why before attached to CO, actually done a full test and consulted doctor. Everything is cleared and did not engage in any commercial BJ/BBBJ/FJ or even kissing other human for the past 3 years since attached to her. Just that currently CO is expecting and I don’t want to get my love one into any situation.

The only furthest I go was HJ at massage Joint, Avg about 3-4 months “Once” only.

Currently a little worried.

[IamGood]

Shouldn't even go for hj if your concern is std passing to co and baby. Cos many std also can pass thru skin contact.
Have to go for full screening again in your context.
Cos from the way u put it, u will not stop worrying even when your kid goes to pri sch, just by this episode alone.

[HarumaJitsu]

Shouldn't even go for hj if your concern is std passing to co and baby. Cos many std also can pass thru skin contact.
Have to go for full screening again in your context.
Cos from the way u put it, u will not stop worrying even when your kid goes to pri sch, just by this episode alone.

Understood. Will go for a full test again soon.

Just wondering what are the odds/chances for less than 10 sec's of BBBJ, hence asking.

[IamGood]

Understood. Will go for a full test again soon.

Just wondering what are the odds/chances for less than 10 sec's of BBBJ, hence asking.
I think 10s or 10m no difference. Virus or bacterial don't need a long time yo recognise a host

[sammyboyfor]

I think 10s or 10m no difference. Virus or bacterial don't need a long time yo recognise a host

The longer the deed continues the greater the chances of abrasion of the skin and mucous membrane and hence the higher the probability of transmission.

[HarumaJitsu]

Shall post my journey here after this encounter and hopefully it will help some of the bro’s here that got into same situation as me.

During Young Times, Everything go ahead (Cap FJ, BBBJ) without worrying. Before attached to my partner, subsequently become my CO, I did a test to ensure everything is cleared as I do not want to get her into any situation due to my past. Did a test after chionging for few years from SG > Malaysia > Thailand > Batam, Luckily did not get anything. Fast forward.

Now that married and kid is on the way, just a less than 10 sec’s BBBJ got me into a mice. Worried this worried that even there is no symptoms.
Date of encounter: 5 April 2024, 2am.

Earlier on 9 April 2024, I went to Southern Medical Clinic and visited the doctor. Facilities there is tip top for Johor bahru standard. Best thing is they open 24hours. Told the doctor my situation and doctor did some inspections on my dick, doctor told me all is good for now. Doctor mentioned that for BBBJ the chances of getting any of the STD is very low. However if one is really suay, nothing to say. Doctor mentioned to me not to worry, however can test for gonorrhoea & chlamydia if I want a peace of mind for now. Price is $300RM, waiting time 5-7 for result working days. After I did the urine test, I was being told to not think so much due to the low chance of catching anything as well as to monitor if there is any abnormal rash / bumps etc on penis. Result for the test will be send by whatsapp / email. In the event that suay suay positive, the results will not be submitted to government as well as they don’t strictly practice that. So now currently can only wait for results and pray.
Consultation fee: $40RM. Total paid inclusive of test: $340RM.

This time really is lesson learnt. Had a few sleepless night, no appetite due to worrying. I’m giving this up forever for good. Hopefully this post is able to provide some info for anyone that wish to find a cheaper test options / 24 hours clinic nearby singapore (5-10mins drive away from JB CIQ), and a wonderful doctor / clinic facilities.

Cheers!

[blueboat]

Thank you for posting your journey and info about the clinic.

[HarumaJitsu]

Thank you for posting your journey and info about the clinic.

Your welcome!

[bignehneh]

Shall post my journey here after this encounter and hopefully it will help some of the bro’s here that got into same situation as me.

During Young Times, Everything go ahead (Cap FJ, BBBJ) without worrying. Before attached to my partner, subsequently become my CO, I did a test to ensure everything is cleared as I do not want to get her into any situation due to my past. Did a test after chionging for few years from SG > Malaysia > Thailand > Batam, Luckily did not get anything. Fast forward.

Now that married and kid is on the way, just a less than 10 sec’s BBBJ got me into a mice. Worried this worried that even there is no symptoms.
Date of encounter: 5 April 2024, 2am.

Earlier on 9 April 2024, I went to Southern Medical Clinic and visited the doctor. Facilities there is tip top for Johor bahru standard. Best thing is they open 24hours. Told the doctor my situation and doctor did some inspections on my dick, doctor told me all is good for now. Doctor mentioned that for BBBJ the chances of getting any of the STD is very low. However if one is really suay, nothing to say. Doctor mentioned to me not to worry, however can test for gonorrhoea & chlamydia if I want a peace of mind for now. Price is $300RM, waiting time 5-7 for result working days. After I did the urine test, I was being told to not think so much due to the low chance of catching anything as well as to monitor if there is any abnormal rash / bumps etc on penis. Result for the test will be send by whatsapp / email. In the event that suay suay positive, the results will not be submitted to government as well as they don’t strictly practice that. So now currently can only wait for results and pray.
Consultation fee: $40RM. Total paid inclusive of test: $340RM.

This time really is lesson learnt. Had a few sleepless night, no appetite due to worrying. I’m giving this up forever for good. Hopefully this post is able to provide some info for anyone that wish to find a cheaper test options / 24 hours clinic nearby singapore (5-10mins drive away from JB CIQ), and a wonderful doctor / clinic facilities.

Cheers!

So troublesome. Can also go look for Dr Tan

[HarumaJitsu]

So troublesome. Can also go look for Dr Tan


Agreed. However the inital thought for me was just a merely 10 sec’s or less kind of thing. I’m not sure of what are the odds. Hence I’m looking for a cheaper options. As well as after explaining my situation to some of my fellow chiongster as well as doctor, they deem me as super low risk as I don’t chiong for the past 3 years. If really kena anything, I really suay until the max. (I did ask as well, what are the odds of getting STD from HJ from a massage parlour, The doctor told me that if I kena from HJ, It is the same chances of striking Lottery. I went to a quite famous massage joint with HJ that even couples or just female individuals would visit, not those kind of shady and purely accept guy kind of place, I did told the doctor the place, doctor know that joint.) Hence lowered my risk.

I agreed that all depends on luck and if the girl is STD positive, if not I would almost had 0 chances of getting anything. Moreover when she started, I immediately push her away and went to wash up.

Moral of my journey and story is actually to share a options to fellow brother that is looking for a cheaper test as well as cheaper consultation cost doctor. I understand that DSC appointment is a long waiting list, hence I cross the custom to look for cheaper options. As well as a wake up call to stay the fuck away even places like this. Yes, I might lose out all the fun. But I just unable to bring myself to bring harm to my family after further depth research on the STD. Especially now my CO is expecting. I really regretted. Nevertheless, I’m not 100% safe yet from STD and still praying that I would not be the ultra suay max one.

[HarumaJitsu]

691377 Could this due to shaving or my recent encounter? (Some red spots & Pimple on my Right thigh, Happen roughly half a day later after I have shaved) Or STD symptoms related? Currently monitoring anything related to STD and required attention to see the doctor. Anyone able to advise?

[lalaloloqwery]

691377 Could this due to shaving or my recent encounter? (Some red spots & Pimple on my Right thigh, Happen roughly half a day later after I have shaved) Or STD symptoms related? Currently monitoring anything related to STD and required attention to see the doctor. Anyone able to advise?

it seems because of shaving. because I often get it after I shave. and usually if you are sensitive, red spots will appear because the skin is irritated

[HarumaJitsu]

it seems because of shaving. because I often get it after I shave. and usually if you are sensitive, red spots will appear because the skin is irritated

Yes, It’s already start to disappear.

So far for my this journey, C&G test Negative. No symptoms or anything.

[Wong7]

Hello OP, I can offer you abit of advice since I have quite a bit of medical knowledge and some sort of a ocd cheongster in the past.

Like the Dr say, he is quite correct, for you to get anything in 10 seconds of BBBJ, you have to pretty unlucky, but doesn't mean unlikely.

You have to understand these std organisms need to an access into your body, and access is through your penis opening - the urethra. Unless you have some sores or injury surrounding your penis then it will enter from there.

So you see, the shorter the duration of bbbj, the increased unlikeliness for whatever that is in their mouth (could be saliva or blood) to enter your urethra.

I give you an extreme example of risk of getting HIV from bbbj.
If you damn suay, somehow cabo got hiv and somehow you have a cut on your kkj, and somehow she not on any hiv meds and her viral load is over the roof, and some how you not on taking any Prep, and somehow that day she brushed her teeth to hard and bleed a little, and somehow she bbbj you and the blood from her mouth manage to enter your kkj and into those microscopic tears of your kkj.

So alot of factors come into play. Certain viruses/bacteria are more easily to transmit.

Like herpes is quite easily to get, if saliva manage to enter you kkj opening then you probably might have it.
Or syphyllis, abit harder to get,because the cabo must have wound in her mouth called a chancre, that wound need to rubba rubba on your kkj and the if there is wound (from your men shave) only it will infect you, or if it manage to enter your kkj opening.

But hor, play safe, my advice is to wear rubber when you're with OC. At least 6 weeks, then do a check again. Cause new infections they usually enter a prodromal stage, meaning std go sleeping before they come out and chiong and attack. That is called the window period, you test during window period usually is negative.

Wait like 6 weeks to 2 months. Then do a retest.

Okay for your photo, that is nothing to worry about. Std symptoms may look like this, but is usually accompanied by other symptoms - fever is one of the main symptoms, body aches, etc. Just having a bump is nth to worry about.

Cheers.

[HarumaJitsu]

Hello OP, I can offer you abit of advice since I have quite a bit of medical knowledge and some sort of a ocd cheongster in the past.

Wait like 6 weeks to 2 months. Then do a retest.

Okay for your photo, that is nothing to worry about. Std symptoms may look like this, but is usually accompanied by other symptoms - fever is one of the main symptoms, body aches, etc. Just having a bump is nth to worry about.

Cheers.

Hi Bro, Sibei effort your explanation. Really appreciate your in-put. Will keep that in mind. Will up you too. So far I have done C&G and Urine Micro Test, Everything cleared. No symptoms or anything. Will do a full test soon.

Thank you!

[Wong7]

Hi Bro, Sibei effort your explanation. Really appreciate your in-put. Will keep that in mind. Will up you too. So far I have done C&G and Urine Micro Test, Everything cleared. No symptoms or anything. Will do a full test soon.

Thank you!

I have upped you back OP.

You're welcome, and it's a pleasure to help a fellow bro in need.

[xiaoxinwan]

hey bro.. understand wht u are feeling.. long time ago I had sex with ml in kl. and the condom slipped without us knowing. I was young that time and was extremely scare and paranoid. then I went to dsc to do a check and luckily all is good. and from then on I told myself not to engage in sex with ml.

however recently I went to jb spa and was engaged in bbbj.. 1 wk later I feel like the head on my penis is a little itchy and seems like I have a small blister at the tip. I had the same condition long time ago and it recovers after a few days. but comign to a month my penis head is still feeling a little itchy sometime, although the blister is no longer that. damn scare right now and not sure if I need to do a urine test or hiv or std test.

any advice? thanks

[HarumaJitsu]

however recently I went to jb spa and was engaged in bbbj.. 1 wk later I feel like the head on my penis is a little itchy and seems like I have a small blister at the tip. I had the same condition long time ago and it recovers after a few days. but comign to a month my penis head is still feeling a little itchy sometime, although the blister is no longer that. damn scare right now and not sure if I need to do a urine test or hiv or std test.

any advice? thanks

Hi Bro, The doctor that I visited for this recent incident of mine, mentioned that Blister / Sore / Rash at Genital area is a big red flag. Definitely to consult doctor and test. I’m no expert, as currently I’m still monitoring myself for symptoms due to recent encounter. Maybe other bro’s with experience or medical background can answer you here. Do keep us updated on your results, so that someone else in the future might be able to view this if they happen to encounter any similar issue and hopefully to help them.

If just a pimple on tip of penis, Suggest you to do C&G urine test. If a cluster of pimple or blister, might be HSV1/2. You can google for Syphilis Primary Symptoms Image as well and see if anything look like that, Than you can decide which test to go for… C&G usually come with discharge on penis after few days (Below 15 days).

You can do urinalysis test to see if any UTI as well for your itch. If there is bacteria, red blood and white blood cell in your urine will be a red flag or cloudy urine. Than doctor highly chance will test you for other STD related if you explained your incident to your doctor. Urinalysis quite cheap, usually below $15 SGD. However there might be doctor consultation fee involved.

[HarumaJitsu]

Hi Senior Bros / Anyone with Experience or Medical Background,

Previously I was told to monitor my palm and sole (Feet) for red dots etc, as doctor mentioned it’s too early for me to conduct Syphilis Test due to recent incident. Incident happens on 4 April 2024. I never really carefully examined my palm or feet before. However recently after the doctor mentioned this, I actually took a close look for a few days and unsure if this is rash or sore or it’s normal… Any one can advise? Before I visit the doctor again?

I did not have any chancre on my penis and not that I know off anywhere else.
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Left palm, Below index finger seem to be a little red, Not sure if it’s rash or sore. The red area is flat and non itchy (Almost a week). As well as recently i notice my palm have small little red dot that is flat (Almost a week, Started monitoring after doctor told me to look out for), not sure if it’s anything special as i did not have a close look at my palm before or specially go and monitor my palm / feet.
Sole of feet and right Palm is normal, Just that right palm have small red dot that is flat as well, same as the left palm.

[xiaoxinwan]

Hi Bro, The doctor that I visited for this recent incident of mine, mentioned that Blister / Sore / Rash at Genital area is a big red flag. Definitely to consult doctor and test. I’m no expert, as currently I’m still monitoring myself for symptoms due to recent encounter. Maybe other bro’s with experience or medical background can answer you here. Do keep us updated on your results, so that someone else in the future might be able to view this if they happen to encounter any similar issue and hopefully to help them.

If just a pimple on tip of penis, Suggest you to do C&G urine test. If a cluster of pimple or blister, might be HSV1/2. You can google for Syphilis Primary Symptoms Image as well and see if anything look like that, Than you can decide which test to go for… C&G usually come with discharge on penis after few days (Below 15 days).

You can do urinalysis test to see if any UTI as well for your itch. If there is bacteria, red blood and white blood cell in your urine will be a red flag or cloudy urine. Than doctor highly chance will test you for other STD related if you explained your incident to your doctor. Urinalysis quite cheap, usually below $15 SGD. However there might be doctor consultation fee involved.

Thanks bro. any recommendation to which clinic to go to? for urine test can check with herpes?

[HarumaJitsu]

Thanks bro. any recommendation to which clinic to go to? for urine test can check with herpes?

Any clinic that offer Sexual Treatment. If not STD Clinic also can. There is quite a lot of STD Clinic around.

Herpes most accurate is when you have a outbreak, than go for swab test.

Previously when I asked, Doctor doesn’t recommend to do blood test. Doctor told me to come during outbreak if there is, for swab test.

[xiaoxinwan]

Any clinic that offer Sexual Treatment. If not STD Clinic also can. There is quite a lot of STD Clinic around.

Herpes most accurate is when you have a outbreak, than go for swab test.

Previously when I asked, Doctor doesn’t recommend to do blood test. Doctor told me to come during outbreak if there is, for swab test.

Thanks bro. I've already booked an appt with dsc. that being said. my itch is getting less. nevertheless will still go for a check to be safe.